good evening. every evening in the 20s, we keep our finger on the pulse and summarize the main points for you. see the final issue of the only news of ukraine and the world only in the joint marathon about the most important events of the day. we will be aware of the main events. together we fight and win in the marathon. the only news is the main things every day . at 20:00 i congratulate you this is public chernihiv my name is daria yanushkevich about personal relationships during the war the rapid number of marriages and at the same time divorces about all this and not only today we will talk with a psychoanalyst sedi nazarov, all the best, we congratulate you, war, air alarms, constant stress, this has already become the everyday life

of ukrainians, but how it affected the relations of ukrainians , now you understand and any event is the cause of what changes, it is such a magnifying glass that magnifies what was already, what we are now we are watching you already have such a uh one-moment reaction uh the violence has been going on for a long time and could not find a solution in any way and at some point you are faithful such a beginning once and everything was solved that's why we see how it increased in fact it was all but it was like that you know how smeared in that is, people did not feel that the time was limited. and now we have moved to decisive actions to find the strength in ourselves to note that to confess that well, we need to divorce or we need to solve the issue in some other way, and he is us. it was not the war itself that became the catalyst for the divorce . or for one, we don't have such a concept as a silver conscience there,

how will it look once and for all, and don't sleep with us today, that's how the war happened and i went to another country, the war happened there, and something happened there in a different way. you , the war, helped them solve it there is a war a problem at the same time it is a solution to some issues, this decision is not emotional, not so much that it was spontaneously taken, they were conceived for a long time, you are families that did not separate or did not get together, of course, they are not removed, on the contrary, they will be even stronger , any event, any person in your life, she is nothing it doesn't change for you, it reveals that you have a family, the child comes, i can't be there, and you ask why, where is the child and says i want the family to be a full-fledged family, and i understand that they don't feel like a family now, and they, er, understand that the child will solve this issue and give us such a concept as a family, but no, the child can be

the same fool who will show the gap between them , that is, there will be problems that will immediately come to the fore. i help them all the time. time is there that yes and so on and so on but it is during the war that the birth rate is now also increasing so well, you already know that natural phenomenon if we see that unfortunately eh how many we see are dying at the front though what happens to people who are lonely eh it's harder to go through this stress... the war and everything that is happening now in the country. yes, of course, because it is such a situation that you need emotional support and you need someone to be close to you. it is really difficult to be alone, but i also know such cases when i am alone and it is more convenient because he says that i am no , never i answer, i can make my own decisions, uh, and it’s easier for me to live like that, it also happens, we can

give some advice to those people who are lonely now during the war and it’s really difficult for them, what needs to be done, maybe, who to turn to, and spoil some rituals for yourself put the future to plan what to do, first of all you need to understand if a person has chosen such a path that he is lonely , that is, he is so comfortable, many people here turn to him, he says, now there is no money, there is no happiness, i say yes, that’s the understanding, they say yours, that is, he says that this is it it's bad, but subconsciously they did it for you, that is, you really want it , but i can't admit it to myself, you can't admit that you really want to be like that, but let's do it, we can change the concept of loneliness, fear of what and when you're not around in a different way you understand what you are i chose this path myself. that is, you understand why you are alone now and it will no longer be fear, it will be love because i

chose it myself, i myself know why i am doing this, so first of all help is needed to let the person understand why did he choose this path what does he get from loneliness in fact, during the war, relations at a distance are a big test for many people, not only a man or a woman, how can you preserve feelings while being at a distance? and most often it is two different countries because their husbands are not allowed to go abroad, and the women have left for someone, on the contrary, it will be such an increase in feelings, i.e. yes, a person understands that something is missing near me and values ​​change, yes, a person understands what it is that mine was there , business work, there is work, all this is unimportant, the car is important, and the person who is next to me now i don’t have that habit that i do in the morning. i have seen my

wife or husband or there is a child and she is there and will be where she will be. i will come with my work and she will wait there and then once there is no entrance and you understand that this is really what happiness is. in this one for me it was necessary, yes, and here such a change of such values , yes, alyona and dmytro have not seen each other since march 5, the military man remained then to defend chernihiv, alyona and her daughter ran away to warsaw more than six months ago, little margarita , it was 5 months ago, it is difficult, but she cannot destroy the relationship that are based on trust - says alyona, getting up even if he goes there on a business trip, he always writes to me good morning, dear girls aha i wish you a good day i ask how did you sleep it happens every morning i really want to go home to as they say at least to smell or you are the sea for you until her husband does not allow her to return to chernihiv, it is dangerous, the girl

says that she is experiencing separation, video communication helps a lot before the war, the couple rarely quarreled during the war, alona never splits . a relationship is not a relationship, if you love a person, you love a person, then you want her to be always satisfied with a smile and see that you think of her first of all, well, i guess we are in a relationship . that's how he thinks about me and i think about him our love is eternal or not at all, but i know such stories when other girls say that . what are you ? when my husband and i hear such things, we wonder if you are planning the future together, what should be redone, what should be done, it helps somehow to console myself, i have such a poem to myself , what do i want to do when i return home there

together with dance there together there he did to me i definitely promised to play the guitar as much as sing me a song well, that is, we remember those bright little moments that we even appreciated before the war or, on the contrary, the distance shows that i am a wonderful bisque of a person, and i can do without a person, that is, i am on my own m-m so i thought there that i will not be able to live as a person anymore, i will not be able to, and here they say, you understand, i am myself a and i myself was able to agree on housing, agree on a job, i myself came up with the question, and earlier she understood the chances rather than solving the issue, because that was the impression before what is she no for her husband, but the little child found another father and fell, solves all the questions and she could not grow up, be an adult, yes, and now we have grown up, we need eight like no, and you are moving away from the picture. you see something painted in a different way, it is still normal to feel indifference to

loved ones people to whom i used to feel emotions, or can it be stress that somehow you know how to block your emotions? what do you not feel? a person is going through some grief. and you can't empathize, even though you used to have empathy. thinks so well, then i will tell you that you are now in such a state of energy saving what you did during your copper life that is, oh there i will say something oh there someday there congratulations here i will ask something during the war in this resource you keep and really who for you are important, you are asked how you offer your help and so on, that is, the war is pushing us to do more of this revelation of honesty with yourself, you understand that you have one glass of water and you understand who you want it from, they are playing a game what well, you have to share water, so you understand i will give it to this and i will not give it optically, it turns out that way

because the situation is such that it is about use and when it comes to survival, all the games that we ourselves as a society come up with, yes, yes, yes, yes, right . that it was just brighter, the war, you know, the light flickers and we see what we didn't want to see before, with what questions now people turn to you as a psychoanalyst with what problems and what worries me at first the person turned to and what should i do, leave with her, leave there, well to communicate or someone called to simply reassure or say that everything will be fine, but there is such an ordinary question that did not apply to a doctor at all and how about an ordinary person. yes, i know those who did not ask. are you still here, that is, if you are here, i am here too, then everything is fine so the roll call was

so daria you are here and everyone yes everyone is here happy holidays here yes yes yes and if these are here i also calm down already here and now you see a familiar person in the city now oh as if everything is familiar that's normal then the questions were whether to stay or come or what to do there yes now start a business and start a business or get married, don't get married and then get married or something like that, that is, more about development, the question about development is wrong, now the question is being asked about development. i understand that after this war we will have a lot more work with stress, stress, debauchery, that's all after that will appear because, in fact, during the war , a person who holds on only to these resources of cohesion, mobilization, concentration, and must survive, yes. and then we will see how everything will turn out. let's see all this depression can be suicides and it

can be a lot of things now we can somehow let's say this is the disorders that can happen can we do something right now that maybe they were minimal or did not exist at all in the future we cannot return that that was already, everything will be different, yes, but adapt as much as possible to a moderate life if your child is more attentive, you now understand that when the war started, you were together for more time, dad, understand that you now, i have shown that you really need this in this life, that is, under during the war, we saw what we needed, i talked a lot, someone there helped in a different way, someone there, something there, what was someone doing there, someone was cooking food, someone in front of someone did something, and we see that everyone we needed was near us or was at a distance . who is not needed or we have seen that i do what

hm for the second time he did to me yes and now i do and so on and so on if you see that you have been children for a long time continue this one that is not necessary they spend a lot of time with their loved ones again when you volunteered, then continue doing it, but you understand that they need to have a war , to be balanced, they may not receive a medal at all, are you doing this, or if we now make it clear that you are lying, that is, you pretended to receive an award, then you do not need this one i.e. it is precisely these actions that calmed down during the bombardment of active hostilities, they can currently keep us afloat, in fact, what was really interesting to you, really important and really important to you, and this is your public life chernihiv thank you that you were with us the conquered cities of ukraine, this is the

cossack town of okhtyrka, which is proud of its churches and the miraculous icon of the mother of god, when okhtyrka was sacked by muscovy, the city had to cover its borders in endless wars , for a short time there was hope for a peaceful life as part of the ukrainian state, the reds took revenge the holodomor, the earth and the cossack spirit helped people to save themselves and the city today, okhtyrka is once again standing as a treacherous shield on the border of good and evil, this time for a country that is actually her soul belongs to okhtyrka neskorena yes, my country

is my country, it is different, so harsh , charming in winter, and you don’t smell of flowers and growing, its summer tastes like the center and berenza from the boss, but really bright and colorful, my country in russia is a tank to my country, they are unique and wonderful colorful rainbows are born, my pip ivan, who covered himself with a soft blanket wherever you are, you will always return home to your country, i will not give anyone

kateryna osadchai's project on searching for the missing to find their loved ones tomorrow at 9:30 p.m. under occupation, they bravely they helped other families, the nephew delivered food until he was taken prisoner by people, a lot of her husband helped to take people out of buchi and disappeared, namely, the hope of finding relatives remains , watch and join the search for the unification, we are invincible, tomorrow in marathon, the only news at 9:30 p.m. , the government and guarantees the supply of gas, and the municipal government guarantees that prices will not increase, this will cost the budget in the funds of not small funds. the later we start, the more

zecon gas for the state. the enemy's rockets shoot far and especially in winter . the enemy will target one large 130 kw teploenergo station on critical infrastructure. our family even installed it, so it will be mobile so that one or another boiler house can be started at any time. how warm will it be in the homes of the residents of khmelnytskyi? communities and whether the city is ready for possible force majeure about this and others. will communal cities be ready and how ready are they for this year's heating season? well, they are ready as much as they can be ready during the war. in fact, the heating season ended last year during the war for two months. the state worked during the heating season during the war. -

there were certain difficulties. well, but for some, even realizing that there are no other options, they completed the normal preliminary heating season, and now a new one will start in the near future. i believe that the utility company prepared for a bad we now have one heat supply company in the city, and somewhere along the communargo, they actually replaced 4 km of networks with the previous isolated ones, work is still ongoing, but there is still a very small volume of 69 boilers of the 71st, they are also ready before the start of the fuel period, and two more are in progress work, one of them is a boiler house on pulyuya street. actually, we are delivering two solid fuel boilers of one megawatt capacity each. this boiler house will now be able to heat the maternity hospital and

the children's hospital without gas, in case there are some interruptions also, our regional hospital, the oncology dispensary can be heated without gas, there are solid fuel boilers on wood chips, and the military hospital can also be heated without gas, thanks to pilate boiler houses, and now there are such active negotiations with by the large international organization cd, they promise there, by the end of this year, to install a large mobile boiler plant with a capacity of 1.5 megawatts for heating the khmelnytskyi city hospital. and i think that there should not be any special problems technically. everything is ready. at the

last executive committee, we allocated uah 54 million for the purchase of gas for the beginning of the heating period . when exactly will the heating season begin, and will you prepare everything for this? they said that several more boiler houses are not ready, then those boiler houses are actually ready, the question is that the boiler house is being finished in the field. the full hot season will begin when, respectively, the temperature will be a for three days less than the daily average plus eight will be the order of the mayor and the boilers will be turned off. that is, we will not be tied to a specific date now, as it used to be on the 15th we didn't join last year, it was kind of oriented, yes, somewhere on the 15th , it can start on the fifth of october. if it's very cold, it can start on the 25th. let's hope that it will start on the 25th.

a long time ago eh. the later we start, the more zeconov gas for the state, to what extent are health care facilities and educational institutions ready for the heating season, or will there be any force majeure regarding the heating season, we must understand that the state has been in the last war and without force majeure, each city has different challenges. well, but at the same time, the enemy's rockets shoot far and we understand that even looking at the latest events in the kharkiv poltava region , especially in the winter, the enemy will target critical infrastructure. that's why medical facilities are already fully equipped with diesel generators, and in the event that there is no light, they will be able to work autonomously and provide energy supply for heat supply, as i have already said, in fact, we also

provide ourselves with this. well, if we talk about the coolant and how it is produced in khmelnytskyi , then 94%, that is, it is not produced with gas, and in the near future, there is no way to switch to another coolant, to another source of energy it is possible because there are many boiler houses scattered all over the city and very close to the building area in the atomic building with very small areas of the boiler houses themselves, which does not allow the storage of solid fuel, which is actually very voluminous, so we decided this year that the number one task is to provide alternative facilities of health care, that's why a wood-fired boiler house is being built on pulyuya, which will be able to heat the maternity hospital and the children's hospital. it happens that a

rocket hits a critical infrastructure facility. some specific algorithm of actions, what do you plan to do in such a case, there are different objects of critical infrastructure, and accordingly, the algorithms are different, and the terms of eliminating those er consequences are different er, i would not like to talk in general about possible objects for that she is what are the possible measures that will be taken? for example, we actively purchased and are purchasing 10 generators so that in the event of a power outage, boiler plants could work autonomously at a certain time. we have 13 boiler plants with cogeneration units. these are the following powerful generators that produce heat and electricity from gas, that's why ours and the

auto supply company do not buy electricity freely at all, it even sometimes sells it to the energy market while producing heat . supply, therefore , these 13 boiler houses will definitely have light; on the other hand, we need to install diesel generators, we have already purchased some of them, and one large 130 kw teploenergo station was even installed on the chassis of the car will be movable in order to be able to start one or another boiler house at any time actually for 8 million hryvnias, a tender has been announced to replenish the material stock of e-e for these 8 million hryvnias . 133 generators of various capacities and a small generator of five thousand kilowatts will be purchased for in order to scatter them in high-rise residential buildings for elementary charging a phone, a power bank or a flashlight and a large generator and 100 kw each in order to complete our e-

boiler tasks will be standing so as to heat water pumping water to prevent the deployment of the system is the number one task, and if everything goes well, if the tender takes place, the demand now for 10 generators is huge. i think we will cope with this task, but we will of course hope that it does not need to be. actually, if we take batteries or and them in their homes, there will be constant warmth and constant hot water since the 18th year, we in the city of khmelnytskyi have not revised the tariffs for heat, the tariff is the cheapest among these regional centers, 1480 uah, we have an agreement with the government that the city will leave this season low the tariff and the government guarantees the supply of gas and

the municipal government guarantees er not an increase in prices, it will cost the budget funds of funds not small and the first 54 million uah from the city budget to support teploenergo has already been allocated a-a will there be any certain new norms in the conditions of martial law regarding temperature regime and is it possible that people will have to save a little on heat of course we have to save on heat eh it doesn't matter if we live in the private sector or live in high-rise buildings because gas is currently one of the most valuable resources in europe amendments to the law on there was no heat supply, the heat supply service has clear parameters, the temperature in the apartment building in the room cannot be less than +18 e-e, in fact, such standards will be followed by our heating engineers, actually e-e,

have people in khmelnytskyi now had the opportunity to move on autonomous heating for the sake of economy . again, energy consumption and whether you keep it was always uh, there is a regulation in it, it is clearly written when people can come, uh, for autonomous well, but the savings of the gas outlet is unlikely to happen, because autonomous as well as gas, and if, for example, you switch to electricity, very few houses in khmelnytskyi, e.e., high-rise buildings can withstand the transition of a house to electricity due to a significantly greater power than the calculated project on the estimate for the house, e.e., the wiring itself, and the very possibility is here actually there are two conditions, the first condition is that at the time of the application , more than 50% of the subscribers of the house must be disconnected, and the second condition is that the house is

completely disconnected from the centralized heating. what situation can become unexpected for utility workers, we are trying prepare for any scenarios so that at least all the negative consequences and negative trends can be reduced, they cannot be completely avoided, this war will not be possible. well, if it still happens that there is a certain neighborhood without heat , what are you planning in this case, what actions will people take to keep warm, if there is minus the temperature and it is cold in the house, i don’t reject such a worst thing for me, that’s exactly why utility companies are now cooking metal stoves and they will be in the warehouse of every company, and depending on where they need to be brought there, it is also there are large tents for heating, there are heat generators for generation, and in the classrooms there are diesel generators that will provide electricity. well, in cooperation with the same already mentioned usaid, we plan to

buy 10 large inflatable tents with heat generators and electric generators in order that in those areas where there may be such troubles and their deliver these heating points there, how to save money, it is not necessary to heat the street, we know that people often like to ventilate a lot, ventilate well, but it is necessary to ventilate in moderation, then as a whole it was at the beginning of the summer to come up with insulation now , eh, it is hardly possible to quickly implement it, and i will remind you once again. it is imperative that if someone lives in the private sector, think about an alternative to gas, even if you understand that it will not pay off very quickly, eh you need savings. maybe not so much for you. how long do you have to keep

their faces? we will see them in the news. you will not find their names in the lists of those awarded. they are unknown and they are countless. they report on enemy positions, put up leaflets and blow up traitors, they bring victory closer and because of them, the enemy is burning under their feet. the earth is burning because it is our land. glory to the ukrainian partisans . warship. i offer to serve weapons