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[000:00:00;00] but it is not for long, just a few weeks so that children can rest, parents , i think, first of all, can also rest, and if we talk about something global, about your global projects, i know what you do separately for young people, separately for school teenagers, what kind of projects are these, well, look , taking off our rose-colored glasses again, let's talk about what kind of route of growing up children in our country have, i mean children who have complex gender disorders. of development, well, on the example of my son, yes, he is totally he is blind, he has autism, epilepsy, mental retardation, so what awaits him, nothing, conditionally nothing, if it were not for those projects created by our organization, he would conditionally finish his nine classes, get his certificate and that's it , of course, yes, there are some rehabilitation centers, some programs where he could go, but everything
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there, well, it's not about growing up, it's not about... that's how it should be, it's an opportunity for parents to work, but this is not a focus on the child, it is not his opportunity to develop, to somehow grow, to be an adult, and in principle the route very sad, you know, because, god forbid, something is happening to me, to my family , matvyi has only one option, it's only a psychoneurological boarding school, well, it's like that, well, i can't even find some words that we can to say on the air, that is, it is a very bad story. and the parents of children with complex developmental disorders, they understand this in principle, and they live with the understanding that further, so far, we have nothing in ukraine for children who could, well, like, somehow their state could prevent them from going to this concentration camp, and this is actually a concentration camp, because it's, well, i don't know, i don't remember, it will be in russian, ukrainian, you know, it's like when you 're defaced, you don't have anything there, you don't have personal things, you don't have
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personal space, you basically have nothing there, you live according to some kind of regime, some kind of everything, and most importantly, no one needs you, and no one needs you, absolutely, and this is also in principle, this is our such reality, this is such a reality , there are different stories, and there are children who, unfortunately, end up in such boarding schools only because their parents no longer exist resource and the opportunity to somehow live together with them, because if the child has a complex behavioral disorder of some kind, the older the child becomes, the more it becomes. it does not get easier, and the parents, as a rule, are mothers, they no longer have the physical, emotional, or any psychological resources to cope with this, and the only option is not to just leave for a little while, cuckoo, it is simply to give the child to a boarding school, and this is not because the mother is bad, but because the state did not create a support system for such families, it simply does not exist now, because this the story somehow always fell silent, it was always not in this category, i don’t know, first there was one story, then another
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, then there was a maidan, then another maidan, now the war, and this category of children, they are always somewhere there, you know , and well, and now the war has opened up a lot of things , so of course we in the organization also understand the categories and pains of the categories with which we work, that is why we created a socialization school for teenagers under 18 years old, and after that we have a continuation, this is already a workshop, and this year we are launching a new project, this is a project training apartments, where young people with disabilities... will acquire such skills of independent living together with assistants, in order to understand, in principle, whether this particular person will be able to live independently, whether he needs permanent support, or only temporary support, and again, this is such a conditional prevention, then getting into a boarding school, uh, you mentioned about mothers, that they are always 24/7, in most cases they are the ones, why do men give up so quickly, because
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there are so many stories when they just leave with give birth, when a child is born, i don't know, i don't have statistics, to be honest, whether it happens because this particular child was born, it seems to me that it just happens, you know, it overlaps one on another and just men go and they can’t stand it, a great question, i don’t know, well, the truth is, i don’t have an answer to this, and i observe many families in which, well, in which parents live, whom they didn’t leave, husbands who didn’t leave, i know a lot families whose men left. but to say that 100% it happens because of what the child has disability, you know, it’s like a catalyst, something was just already there, and it’s just, well, if we’re talking about men, i think that in most of them it’s something like that, well, they already had certain expectations that i would have a baby now a child, i will be a father, there are daughters, boys, and here a hop, and the child is difficult, as a rule, well, it happens in most cases that the mother concentrates on
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this child constantly, there are 24 on... all doctors, rehabilitation, some examinations , and the man, supposedly, you know, always like that, if he doesn't immediately turn on, that's it, he's somewhere there, and of course, he seems to feel somehow not needed here. you make special programs for mothers, and what do you teach them there, or is it just an opportunity to distract yourself and be in society, not just with your child, but with someone else? well, we have several programs, one of them is a program of psychological support, and there are also several directions of this and elementary, the first thing we start with is, in principle, to give the mother a resource, just some kind of support and resource for to understand that not everything it's so bad, they can go further into the depth of therapy when they work through some of their already deep stories, and there is support in the form of interaction between the curator and the family, that is , there is a curator who works with a specific family and
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helps the mother there, i don't know how to adapt the environment, how to set up some kind of life, how to help the child get settled in a new place or some such things, well, again, this is so that the mother does not feel that she is alone, well, like, this is the support of families, they know that 24 of us there is support, they can come to us to apply and receive this support, and this is very important, and plus we are creating such a community of parents, where we show that being parents of children with disabilities is not about some sorrow, snot, tears, i'm sorry, what kind do you know, such a position, such associations, unfortunately, you see , these are such associations, and i would like such associations not to exist, so that the mother of a child with a disability is simply perceived as a mother, and not as a child's mother. with a disability, because for me it was several, well, many years ago, the truth was you know, some kind of exposure, i came to one of ours, social protection, if i’m not mistaken, i needed to draw up some documents there for matvii, but i started, and there was a woman, you know, with
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purple hair, sitting and saying, something, you don't look like the mother of a child with a disability, i say, you know, this is like a compliment to me, well, like, because they are used to the mother of a child with a disability having such a gloomy look, she doesn't wash her hair, she's kind of annoyed, maybe so. it is true, it is not because it is bad there, it is elementary there is no resource, or the child is in a very difficult condition , and the mother really doesn’t care what she looks like, how many days she has no hair, but if we are talking about the whole process, you know, such a stigma of accepting parents with disabilities, then it is either some super-holy people, oh my god , you are saints, you have such a child, or well, we pretend that they do not exist , you know, we do not notice, because, well, they are somehow strange, and i want them to be perceived normally, well, in principle, normally, not because there and not through the prism of children, in principle. due to the fact that this is a cool woman or cool man, but where do you get this internal resource, really, a woman in social security looked at you and did not recognize you as a mother, a child with a disability, so how do you manage
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to stay in the resource? i can't say that i always remain in the resource , and well, this is such a misconception, of course, that i have very different states, but it still seems to me that it depends on the individual person specifically, on his temperament, on her attitude to life, of course, that the situation of having a child changed me by 120% with a disability, i'm not honest, i don't know who i would be if it weren't for matvii, but there are probably some things in me, well, i 've had in me since his birth, you know, some kind of rebellion against this injustice, because why can i my child is perceived as something different, why am i perceived as something different just because the child has a disability, and what, well, i have. matvya's disability does not make him worse or better than any person, just like the child's disability does not make me worse or better than any woman, ugh, so i don't know where i take a resource in my family, in my work, in my team, in my son, in elementary
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recreation, when no one tolerates touching me, and i have the opportunity to be alone there for an hour, this is also about a resource, this is about equality, in fact, it seems to me that mothers and children do not want to be pitied, they just want to be treated. as for others, to be equal, you listed many projects, and the space camp for both teenagers and mothers, all these schools, where to get so much money, especially now during the war, because it is not very supportive, it is not the support of the state, unfortunately, so far, well, at least in our case, we are working for this, and we are attracting funds from various partners, this year and last in... the beginning of a full-scale invasion, of course, these are the funds of our foreign partners who responded to this whole situation in ukraine, and there are funds that directly support such social projects, for which we are very grateful to them, in fact, that is why we attract partners, we collect
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funds, do various promotions, we hold various various fundraising companies, so that there is an opportunity for families to receive these services that we provide, because all the services that we provide to families are free for them, and why not public funds here? that's why the state doesn't help you, you tried to reach them somehow, that it seems to me that these children are more important than, to do, i don't know, or to buy drums for a shelter, well, look, i can't say that the state doesn't helps, at least our organization, at this stage, we do not cooperate yet, we do not receive finance, funding from the state budget, so far we're working on it, i can't say it's easy and straightforward, you know with pink ponies, no, it's difficult, but i at least we're on the way to it, i really want to attract to this the state, because what we are doing, i see the meaning in it, i see in it such a ... durability and perspective of what is happening, and it is very
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important for it to be sustainable, of course, what to attract the state, because , of course, we can continue to rely on grant funds, donor funds, on attraction from various funding companies, but if we are talking about stability and permanence, of course, it should be the support of the permanent state, at least now we are starting to work on it, i really hope that we will succeed in all this, but at the same time, you have state award from the president, olesya oleksandrivna, head of... the community organization of families raising children with developmental disabilities to see the city of kyiv with their hearts. this, this is not my award, this is the award of my whole team and this is the award of our whole sector, at least we became visible, what we do, what our organization does, what organizations in our sector do, similar to us, at least it became visible, and in principle someone, perhaps for the first time, thought about the fact that there are people with disability, that there are children with disabilities, that there are children with a complex form of disability, in general, how do they live, where
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are they, because we don't see them, you often see people with complex developmental disorders, i don't know, in a coffee shop , in the cinema, where we constantly go there, in some public transport, that's how many times in day you see them, i am not talking about the soldiers, not about the boys, very few, well, we hardly see them, and this is not because they are not there, but because they either do not have the opportunity to physically go out, because i do not i know, they live there on the fourth floor, and it's on the fifth floor. there is simply no elevator, or there are many other problems, or there is simply this barrier of perception, what we talked to you about, which many people do not perceive, because if a child or an adult behaves in a certain way, well , how many such stories are there when someone was asked to leave the cafe, because someone is there, i don't know, someone is drooling there, and it's as if someone else there is very unpleasant to see it, because i asked the mother of a child with autism to leave there , who just had a tantrum due to an overload of some sensory signals.
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just help the mother, ask, maybe you need help, maybe we will offer you somewhere else so that the child calms down, no, what do we do immediately, we pretend that it is not there, we need to isolate somewhere, you know, such a dellit click, that's it, no, there's no child, no problem, that's all, it's only because of this, but at the same time, we as a whole country, all these people are very happy and proud when our paralympians, de-plympians, people who can't hear, win a bunch of medals at big ones and have you ever wondered what happens to them when they return to ukraine, they have a goal, they have their own family, they have a big paralympic family, and they support each other, so i feel a little easier for them , i communicate ino, i know about what about what they are unreal cool, and they know, not thanks to, on the contrary, they do it in spite of something, because they are just some super mega cool, but when they return here to ukraine, basically, they have these funds that they did and they earned them honestly and it's fair and that's ok, but they can't spend it, because there's one
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there conditionally, that he's a blind guy, and there 's a paralympian who swam someone there set a record, but he can't withdraw money, because there's only one atm that can be used a person with visual impairments is in another area, he is elementary, he has to ask someone, and again, it's not about respect for that person, because anyone , well, imagine if you were asking them to call you money, because you can't withdraw money, or i don't know, if the guys there on the chairs there to go somewhere to a pizzeria, they come, but there it is not available, well, there are no panus, there is nothing and that, well, that’s it, well, that’s it, and it’s elementary that we have such respect for them, i will constantly return to this and a physical barrier-free environment, yes, ramps should be installed, but let them stand better, let them there will be, i think we as a nation are already well on the way to accepting people who are different, but without ramps is bad, and without atms that are adapted for people with visual impairment is also bad, because it is not about
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respecting them , this again makes them somehow conditionally weak , that they cannot do something by themselves, and they have to constantly turn to someone for help, i don’t know, a person went out for a walk in kyiv, all the underground passages and they are class, they are, but you can go down there in a wheelchair no everywhere and where there is everywhere, there are already many of these videos, when the guys went down and watched how you can easily kill yourself there, well, that's about it. yes, indeed, there are not enough ramps, and it is very unclear why in some new institutions, already in the 22nd-3rd year, these ramps are not being built, yes, there are lifts near all new pharmacies, they are appearing. well, because it is so, but for example, you live near kyiv, in a conditional boyarka or bucha, you need to go to kyiv, but only minibuses go from there, there is no public transport, so trolleybuses run through kyiv, buses, where there are adapted, so special things for this, but you can’t come to
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this kyiv and so on, and you wait a month for social transport to come to you, or we already have a special taxi in klo, but it is again. i want to do it now, and not wait for my turn, but how long do you think it will take, you are a person who is in this, so that we have a normal, inclusive state, i know, you know, i think it should already happen yesterday, but i think when everyone stops stealing, buy drums, moving cobblestones, maybe then something will change a little in our minds, because for now, well, it's hard for me to say, i really want to be optimistic and make some optimistic predictions, but i believe in people, i know that we are changing, right? we as people, as a society, we are really changing, if i don’t know, you know, rewind there 5-7 years ago, changes have happened, they are really colossal, but in order for some plate to move, it seems to me, i don’t know how much
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time is needed , because everyone for some reason believes that the topic disability is something like that, well, it concerns a certain group of people, but before the full-scale invasion... they used to say that we are all at least one accident away from disability, now we are all, well, one accident away from disability air alert, or some rockets to kyiv, conditionally, because we don't know what might happen to us there after some, well, this is about all of us, and it's not just that children with disabilities are born to someone, they ca n't to be born in any family, and from no one is immune to this, and no social position, religious views, i don't know, there are other views, they... won't save everything, because it happens, it just has to be accepted as a fact, you just have to accept the simple fact that people with disabilities, they are, they were and they will be, and it seems to me that there is no time to pretend that they do not exist and to do something specifically there, you just have to do it normally, since in our country all the norms of the dbn are very well prescribed, they are already prescribed
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these norms, but as you correctly noted, they are not carried out, because, apparently, i don't know, there is no specific state supervisor for this, who would say, guys, well, in the 23rd year, to rent a house without ramps or with an inaccessible toilet, or to open a cafe where a person with a disability can't use anything at all, what are you talking about, what state do you live in, but it's like that, well, i'm the truth, you know, i'm a little optimistic, nevertheless, i'll believe that we've at least gone in that direction already , and there are good international examples, here you are the speaker, that's right, tedex, that's what it's called this cult platform, international, you communicate there, exchange experiences. with other people who are in this field, what is the experience of a cool international, what do you take from there, many, well, listen, you can take a lot of different examples from any country, there from our neighbors from poland, a little further there i do not i know from america, the scandinavian countries, and locally you can buy some things
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, but we all forget that there was no soviet union in them, we, we can go there, you know, endlessly look at all the cool examples, class. let's do that in our country, let's not do that in our country, at least now, because we still need to somehow, you know, free our, i don't know, dna, probably from this, this sovietism, which somehow got stuck in us simply, because i don’t know how to call it another way, if we are talking about the scandinavian countries, for example, decentralization took place there, i don’t know, in the 70s, then they already understood that boarding schools are evil, it cannot a person can live in a boarding school, any person cannot just live there, and they had to live there reform, they are, they are gone, it’s just that now it’s the 23rd year, we have boarding schools, they are still there, they are still popularized, and you and i also support them, because we pay taxes and with these taxes these boarding schools, these public institutions, so i would not be so optimistic about the plan, there are great examples there, but, well, they did it, great, but we need to think about what we could do so
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that we would have it, well, at least to bother me, to steal and translate the brooch, at least, i hope that next time we will meet with you when, i will be more optimistic, no, when it will be possible to move this little stone, which you own little by little, because there are a lot of activists, a lot of public organizations, ah, well , we just have a lot of cool, cool there are project initiatives in ukraine, but they somehow, you know, seem to me to be in a parallel universe with our state, well, it seems to me that these are two such parallel universes, flying somewhere in the stratosphere, so it seems to me that when we do unite , maybe it is it will be faster, because of course there are changes, well, i can't say that nothing is happening , of course it is happening, a lot is happening, but... well, you know, what is missing, something like that, well, i go out with my child, if my child somehow
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doesn't behave like that, i catch these looks on me, i see how they look at adult boys with complex forms of disability, who are somehow drooling, or talking in some way, or making some movements, and i see these looks, but when i don't there will be these views, but then it seems to me that everything will be fine, even if there is somewhere there will be an inaccessible toilet, but someone will come up there and say, okay, we will help you there now and do something. when there will be no such views, there will be no pretense that they do not exist in this category of people, then we can talk about the fact that we managed to move it, and for this we need a lot of information campaigns, i think it is just to show that it is not it's scary that there are different people, there are different children, there are different cases , and it's absolutely ok, well, someone has long hair, someone short, someone i don't know, wears glasses, someone has a tattoo and what, well, we we are somehow different, no, we are just different, in the same way, some do not hear, some do not see, some use... a wheel cross, some generally perceive everything that happens in a different way, and that's ok, different, but equal, and we
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thank you first of all for this position, for the desire to prove that all children, despite their special needs, are equal, i hope that this broadcast will also help to reach someone, that someone will see and hear about these children and understand that there is nothing terrible, to accept them into a big family, into a big society and live with everyone as equals, we are you thank you, thank you, cheerleaders who bring victory closer.
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the winter, together, take fire on itself, how the infantry protects the car, how the enemy's tactics have changed, the enemy is not stupid, the enemy learns both from his own mistakes and from the mistakes of others, a report from the hottest point of the eastern front by ruslan smishchuk. okay google, will ukrainians have internet during the blackout? good afternoon, operator 459. yes, i'm listening to you, what is your question? what did the operators take care of, so that people would not lose connection despite everything, and what device do they recommend to buy? from the point of view of reliability, it is a really advanced technology, it allows you to use the phone. nina kolomiets learned everything about communication in the winter, machines against
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people, what does artificial intelligence bring, progress or disaster? i believe that artificial intelligence is one of the greatest threats of modern times, is there a threat to humanity from artificial intelligence, and who will lead whom next? hi, i'm mika, the world's first artificial intelligence ceo. results of the summit in london, where the most influential world leaders gathered in the material of svitlana chornetska. it's time to sum up the main results of thursday, november 2, on the air of news one is the main thing. the inter information service works for you, i am oleksandr vasylchenko. congratulations. increased shelling and forced evacuation of children. kupyansk, in the kharkiv region, is one of the hottest areas of the front. due to the security situation, 275 families with children have leave the area the decision on mandatory
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free evacuation was made by the ministry of reintegration in the meantime. children must be taken out of the occupied territories accompanied by one of their parents or a legal representative from 66 settlements of the kharkiv region. the evacuation is planned to be carried out for 45 days, people will be provided with shelter and medical assistance free of charge. recently, in the kupinsky direction, the russians have increased the number of artillery fire, unsuccessfully trying to storm the positions of the armed forces. our defenders. associate it with the possible redeployment of enemy units or the arrival of more shells. earlier, we were fired upon with grenade launchers, mortars, mostly unmanned systems were used, shooting battles were imposed, and now, in recent days, we are experiencing a new, new action, this is more frequent, more daily use of artillery against our
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positions, another one of the most intense section of the front - avdiivka, rashysti. are storming ukrainian positions there from various directions, and all this is covered by massive artillery fire, in addition, the russians have changed their tactics, which complicates our defense, a report from the avdiiv region by ruslan smishchuk. combat aircraft in the sky. on the horizon , avdiivka is burning with fat smoke - it is one of the flanks of plazdarmo. they are constantly attacking here, and the heaviest burden falls on the infantry, who, landing after landing, with another repulsed attack pulls the defense, a shot, in these shots, the last of the next attacking group of russians is killed at the moment when he shoots, that is, the defeated
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enemy nevertheless continues to fight with a preponderance of fire, that's what the defense of a bridgehead in the area is. six to eight men, and there can be three or four such groups, there can be five or six such groups in a day, that is, it is very busy. oleksiy leads the infantry unit, we meet him at the place where the soldiers rest between shifts at ground zero. voyak says that the russians began to adapt after hitting our defense head-on. the enemy began to apply more or less our tactics. the enemy is not stupid. the enemy learns both from his own mistakes and from the mistakes of others. and he uses the tactics of small groups more, that is, small groups. the enemy enters if he wants to succeeds, defends the positions, if he fails, then they retreat. and so
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they realize the advantage in numbers. the military is often answered as a potion, when here... he talks about the last guard at ground zero, it was difficult, then they were treated, whatever, they stormed, they climbed, they wanted to storm us, they didn’t have anything of their own, but here’s what ’s behind with this, the enemy did not succeed, maxim was a potion in that position, the russians imperceptibly approached the shelter and climbed into the trenches, he also says that our rucksacks were standing there in the passage, to take them and hand him over there we will say to our partner or partner or colleague, well, i bet he starts to climb into the hole, lowers such rubber, and i put them there and shot them all, and after that he shouts, i have 300 guys, they give me more grenades, and then our bird connects and already our comrades from neighboring
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positions are connecting, and so all seven men, we led them away and three of them were our

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