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can hear you on the youtube channel, today we will talk about matyuks, how they affect our mental health, whether it is cool to use matyuks, or whether it is good to use matyuks in general, welcome to our studio, this is oleksiy malashina, a consultant, yes, a psychologist, welcome back to our studio, nice to see you for the second time, i know you've been doing... investigations and about matyuks, well at least it's good so what exist, here, then you can start, right now there are a lot of you, people who bathe have less stress and depressive signs, symptoms, uh, well, bathe reduce pain, uh, directly people put their hands in human water, and those , who fumbled, extended their arms 40 seconds later than those who did not fumble. well, farting gives

strength, so people were exercising and they were asked to fart, and during the exercise, yes, they had more strength, they did more than a control group that didn't fart, so much this is a funny moment, these studies were conducted with psychologists and clients, and it turned out that therapists who hang out with clients, clients who hang out with therapists, they will have a better connection, result. the result, well, i don’t need to understand there, i spent 15 minutes, i didn’t delve into it, yes, something may not be super relevant, but the point is that matyuk is something taboo, and when we talk about something taboo, we are closer we become, that is, our closeness, it can grow, which is cool, if you replace the mats with something like damn, it doesn’t work, no it works, it doesn't work either, it never hurts, you never want to get stronger, it doesn't work, people who... struggle a lot in

life, really a lot, it will be bad for them too to work during all this, that is, if if it were someone's language, yes, then it won't work like that, i.e.... it won't reduce the stress level, it won't make you stronger, and you won't be able to withstand the pain better if you've been babbling all your life, so that's my conclusion and that in general you said that you would upset me, so it just seems very cool to me, you and i had, i against the use of matyuks in general, let me finish, to what finish us and finish me, let them lead to, as i see and i felt that way for myself. i.e. it’s cool not to use the mat anywhere , exactly, but sometimes, when you’re stressed and tense, when you stick your hands in cold water, or when russians are shooting at you, then in principle it’s not bad, as long as it’s okay for it to come out and it can be useful, i

just came from the gym, i imagined if these ducks were waddling and quacking all the time, do you understand that this it was better for them to train, because you swim there all the time. well, here we come to this social element of this, and it is starting to complicate everything, it is no longer the field of psychology, that is, if a dude in the hall with me plays checkmate, then this is already a problem, he already violates some of my boundaries, but i actually wanted to i want to ask you about upbringing, because this is actually a question of upbringing in general, that is, there are a lot of them now, since the full scale has begun and you remember those boards there, a russian ship. ugh. i see, i often hear that such young people are very strong swear, that is, it is ok for them. that is, when you're a girl, there's also a lot of mat very

strong. plus, we currently have a lot of youtube channels on the air, these are stand-up comedians, they also talk a lot. and a lot of people watch them. i, well, maybe you... you don't see, but i also researched all this, and it has an effect that it's like ok, once upon a time, when in the we couldn't even be called stupid there, for example, in the family, and my dad is a poet, he didn't mess around either, i also did research, i i looked at their letters, correspondence, even from the army, for example, they wrote, then it was the 60s and 70s. the fashion for mat came somewhere already in the 80s, and by the way, it really came with such a scoop to us here in galicia, and i'm just curious, whether we can consider a well-educated person, an uneducated person, how is it in general from the point of view from the point of view of psychology, if you

move there with women, with children, is it ok, at the expense of a well-educated, uneducated person, there is research, more research. all this research, this is what we're talking about in america, it's all f-words, it's not we are not talking about the context of ukraine there and russia, yes, yes, yes, then those who could use these larger, more varieties, then they had a larger vocabulary, simple, uh, that is... this can also speak of erudition, if it's not like that, it's the same thing there, and if it's not diverse, it's a good thing to talk about, well , i think not, but i'm definitely in my life, i have two daughters, i already, i think, times out of 20, i'm definitely with i’ve had them in

this life, well, but you filter, for example, with daughters, you filter, i went to rehearsals, for example, to my brother, sometimes there, they are rock musicians there, then while i was going up the stairs, there was such a... selective swearing, i went in and they stopped, but for me it is some kind of upbringing and respect equals, you know, that is, that you still don't use it, because here i am, for example, i'm a girl, i'm a woman, i joined a man's company and i don't have a crush on me, well, i definitely don't have that, from the point of view of psychology, i'm nothing here i can say, from a social point of view, well, it turns out to be some kind of sexism, no? well, well, me i understand that i took it wrong, what you say, respect is all there, here aha, that is, if i make decisions based on gender or not, although i open the door to girls, but i will say that i like it, still , it's

not about sexism, it's some kind of, i used to like that after all, this is a lady's story, now maybe i'll be invited there or something, when you serve it there. hand, kiss the handle when you open the door, when you, for example, still filter and do not use such swearing and language in front of a woman, but why here... sexism, actually, what's sexism about, well what is sexism, it's when you do something based on gender, yes, that's why it can be classified, anyway it's also sexism, and why not, well, i don't know, i it's not that i'm not a professional, i'm not competent in these concepts, but it seems to me, in my opinion, that is, in general , i will be with a person i don't know, i won't flirt with someone i know, and the same will happen with a girl , but it will not matter which gender, most likely. when i'm with my husband , i'm faster, but this is just a sign that that lives inside me - this idea that

one should behave differently, and in this, in some ways, it's ok, it's just one more statement, i need to see my mother or not, i don't know, with teachers or with elders, it's still with us does this filter work, well, i think that it is good in its own way, here is an important point to emphasize that if it becomes ok, then it will lose its power. this power that we're talking about, and the power that's there in these studies, i think to myself, so if we say that it's becoming ok, then it's already, then it won't make sense, and it will become ok, that is, this type of status that is currently held in society in the sense that it is a kind of taboo thing, it is added, it is still taboo, i think so, i think, listen, i started talk about teenagers, i think i was like 15, and then at some point i asked myself. the question is, dude, what is it, what are you talking about, it’s language in general, don’t you think that you have a vocabulary, a vocabulary of 200

words, of which 30 are mother tongues, and they mostly sound like, well, it’s something, it’s some kind of unhealthy thing , and it seems to me that for young people this is a manifestation of this revolutionary, maximalism, i think that this is some kind of thing, i think that it is normal, at least i remember myself like that, and why do you think that this is an unhealthy thing, unhealthy, did you just say what? you messed around, and then you told yourself that this is not a healthy thing for you, but because i understand that i am limiting my vocabulary, that i am just sculpting those things, it is not clear where, well, this is again my inner awareness , i don't remember when it came, but i think all these young people are her so, well, all these teenagers you 're talking about, they'll go through it too, and it seems to me, even in terms of stand-up artists , that there is still a culture emerging about just screwing up because people are crying, that's not ok, it shows that you have weaknesses. the material, i.e. a stand-up artist who strives for high-quality material, he only laughs when

it's really tasty, when it's really funny and there 's a very strong context, and it's really funny then, and people just laugh on stage, because somehow it's uncomfortable, but not long left, just a stand-up in america it has been around for a long time, in our country it seems to me that it has only started to bloom in full scale, you know, and that is probably why we look at it in a certain way now, but it will also be somehow normalized somewhere, taboo again, it seems to me that... this thing about the fact that there must be something taboo in the words in the language in some form, well, there always will be, because it is like a very important secret that we will share with each other when we become close, and well, that is, we can say, what to swear, if we swear, it is as if we are in the presence of this person or those people we feel like in greater trust, and by the way, maybe we want to like them? and something like that, we try to show ourselves as fashionable, cool, well, at 15, i think,

for sure, i once came to the doctor and i stopped going to him, because he was just, we had a 10-minute conversation there, he was just rambling constantly about me, well, i don't know what exactly is wrong with this doctor, yes, but maybe he wanted you, there was a guy like that, well, he was 60, you know, and this is some kind of childishness, i'm sitting on him. i understand what should have been there a very serious operation for a lot of money, and i understood that i simply would not trust him with my body for this much money, that is, this mother pushed me away on the contrary, but i look, for example, what worries me the most about such a mother is that that we have in the ukrainian language, i also looked at the study, there are no such words, there are hi, pi, sy, there, well, you know them all and all of them are mine. we know, that is, we have more curses in the ukrainian language,

but then again, cursing is also a figment of the imagination, you understand, because you want the child there, that you the duck dug, so that you broke its leg, let's say that you broke it, so that you told me, the grandmother told me that, that you pooped there, for example, but with such a rude word, you know, but i remember when the grandmother was sitting at the table and she was like that said something: bitch, it was already too much, and my mother, mommy, you can't do that, and she is such a bitch, bitch, bitch, she was already 94 years old, i just eh... in principle, i'm more i have never heard this from my grandmother, because it was very clear, by the way, in galicia they say that it is russian, because you are i was born myself, i will repeat myself once again, in bakhmut, but i lived in kyiv, and maybe this mentality , you know, would have been different, we had more of this there, and what if something suddenly made you bleed there

, that was, you know, what kind of some such things, well, here is an important point, that we start to go to the side. well, from the side of matyuks to the side in which they are used, and this is one of the problems of matu, that he can use the insult to offend other people, well, but here insulting other people or cursing is simply in itself, that is to say when there is some gesture, well, like, lashing out at those who just sent a rocket at you, it seems to me very complete and cursing and so on, but when we are like this with you and... and you tell me, go for it, somehow i will leave and just never come back, well, it is possible, yes, well, in the plan, this is not about the matyuk anymore, but about how we use it, that is, it can be used to hammer nails , a hammer, and it can be killed people, well, like, hammers should be banned now, well, probably not,

and probably more about that, by the way, me too i was interested in whether these are russian words or not, i did not find an answer. that these are directly russian words, well, i don’t, but i found that we talked more about whores, like on our, our e, there’s a whore, for example, ta, ta, and there it’s more about genitalia, about sex, and what i see is, i haven't found any research, but i see that if we talk a lot in a sexual sense, then somewhere we spoil sex for ourselves in some way, both between people and ourselves, in terms of what are pleasant things in sex, which we in mats use as something negative, as something bad, which is pretty cool in general, and it's also bad for the psyche in principle, it's hypothetical, i haven't found anything about it , i'm just thinking, but it could be yours, research and i think if we're somewhere we constantly use somewhere there to shove there and so on, something like that, yes somewhere

on something, it's very difficult not to say what i think, then we think that it's kind of negative, although. it's actually really cool, well i'm talking about oral sex, yes it can be really nice and cool, but if we're all we use something as negative, then it becomes negative for us too, well, at least somewhere a little, and already loses all this magic, maybe romance, well, yes, yes, well, i do, this is very hypothetical, if in the family it is generally accepted, and i have very close friends of mine who simply talk to each other like a motherfucker all the time, but with them it's gone there, you've gone. and this is such a family, and sometimes you hear it, and they somehow live like this, they have lived for many years, and i have several such couples, is this ok at all, is it about a healthy relationship or not, i once heard a family somewhere desrutsya, they are more stable than where they are silent, there was also some kind of calculation, the family lived somewhere for 50 years, that is, where yes

is pronounced when they, but, but in such a way, when you are constantly. you send yourself there as a mother, you call me names there, well, this is also a question even then, that is, it is cool to say when something is not ok with me, it is a cool relationship, and when you can stand it, i tell you, i don't like it, you say, i love you i hear, i will not do this again, or if i do, you tell me, because i have a habit, and then we have a dialogue, but here is the form, well, with math and references, i don't like the form, well, here are a lot of questions, there it says healthy, not healthy, i think this is what they should talk about either with themselves or with a psychologist, that is, when we send each other, that's actually there, they don't want to send it, they just have something that hurts, something unpleasant, but they can say that you're insulting me now, it hurts me, i thought about it, that is, i already feel it, so it's easier to say go for it it's so cute, it 's easier to just hit, but this is the behavior

of a three-year-old, five-year-old child, well, i see they have a relationship, ok, again, it's their business, so what's not ok, because... even when i talked to them, i said that we're not very happy, but we're already there, well, we're already have lived so much, and already there we are teasing each other, but this is again the choice, choice, choice of these people, who, yes, we definitely do not have the right to treat and evaluate them here, as for me, well, you were talking about sexism, i had a question for you, is it ok to have girls, i think it's ok, you have two girls, i have two girls and... and i already have a younger one she likes it more than the older ones, the older one somehow quickly realized that it's not that bad, it's only some extreme cases, but... the younger one studies and tests there, well, i explain to her that you're explaining that it's uncivilized, ugly , what do you say to her, sometimes there is a question, what is

the context, but if she is just driving and there is something wrong, i say, it is what you want to say, what is it for, well, that is, it is an unpleasant word, i would not like to hear it, i i am not saying that you are forbidden to say it directly, but it would be good if you understood that it is very much there strong, it has its own connotation or what to say, i.e. there is something there and it would make sense, i.e. saying it for the sake of preaching does not make sense, but again, yes, the child is 6 years old, she is training there, testing herself and still sometimes she says something and sometimes she is very on-topic, and it is very funny, and i say, little girl, the word is not beautiful, but you just said it very timely, there was such a case, i am always with my shepherd from the group, he always wants from. .. this mate will hear me, even when i get angry, even when there is something wrong with us is composed, and he is very happy when i sometimes say something,

well, it just happens very, very rarely, and i am still against it, because i think that it is very low energy, very low vibrations, from the point from the point of view of psychology, this is some kind of esotericism, or is it also considered so, that there are, for example, some words that are in principle ta... i don't hesitate, i guess, to answer so quickly, but if we talk from the point of view of psychology, which now some kind of evidence, i.e. psychology at first, in my opinion, some kind of philosophical science, and there you can talk about some energy in some form, whether it makes you happy or not, but now that i, well, the question is whether it is something in terms of psychology . i think, what research can be done to draw conclusions, that is, how do we decide that there are words with some kind of energy or something, that is, we

can take water, for example, well, it seems that we will not succeed in anything for sure, although i am not there water charging pro but i think how about people, how about we take 200 people, 100 we will say matyuka in the morning, yes, some, but i don’t know, it is necessary that the message remains the same, that is, well, you understand, yes, that is, how do we do this research , to say that there's some other energy there, people are negatively affected by it, it kind of affects, i think when it's constant it definitely affects, i think, but it's again, it's a form, so it's just a form most of the time , the question is, what do you do if you whine, suffer, you are guilty, everyone is guilty of you, everyone is bad around you, and you just send everyone away, and you you use poppy for this, you send your mother, well, most likely you are unhappy, and you can say that this person is unhappy because of his mother, but it will not be true, it is. happy people, and research says that they feel less stress, and less depressive symptoms, people who

are depressed, so that's why we can put an end to this in our program, because time, time has already run out, actually, i still i will tell our listeners on radio fm halychyna and also on the youtube channel that i hear you, i am still against this. i think it is not brought up, i don't think it's sexist or anything, but i know that we have a lot of soldiers at the front now who just use it all the time, even people who didn't use it and they got to, for example, the front, they continue to use swearing, so here, oleksiy, malashina, we were on the air, a consultant, a psychologist, he said that there are such studies, that it releases some kind of aggression, but still , let's remember that we live in society. and we want to move and grow, so thank you to everyone who listened to us, and we are waiting for your comments on our youtube channel, likes and

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directly affects us. and our problems, and it's good that those problems are starting to surface again. i am, of course, talking about the scandals with the sex parties of the rapper puff, daddy, paddy, shonacoms, he has a lot of different names, it became clear, he was first arrested, and already an incredible number of different charges are hanging on him, it all started from the fact that in the late 90s and early 2000s it became known that he organized sex parties in his estate with orgies, but like, well, let people do it if they like it, but the question is that there probably took place beatings, beatings, beatings of minors, it is also quite possible that this rapper is involved in many murders known to individual people, there is already a discussion about that , that he was

involved in the murder of, for example, tupac shakur, a famous american rapper, or even michael jackson, and that's why it's just such a huge scandal, and it's also very uncomfortable that until these sex parties, where the alleged rapes took place, involved people of a global scale, such as beyoncé, for example, or leonardo dicaprio, the discussion begins that they knew all this, that they may have even... participated in all this, and if the investigation proves it, the investigation is definitely underway, and the papadei are not released on bail, then you can imagine what a collapse both hollywood and american, and therefore the world show business will experience, because well, imagine if we are talking about the cancellation system, about the so-called canceling, and when just a person is swept out of

the information space. some misdemeanors, for image losses, and this person ceases to exist, so imagine, ceases to exist as an actor leonardo dicaprio, he disappears, he does not play anywhere else, and it is quite possible that films with his participation cease to be shown, a singer like beyoncé or j. lo disappears, and then, perhaps, even some kind of investigation will begin to be conducted over them, and perhaps they will also begin to be accused of something, that is, imagine the scale. and all this is now being discussed for the third or fourth week in the entire space of the world, as it seems to me, it is being discussed not only by bloggers there or the yellow press, it is discussed in the serious media in the news, it is discussed along with political issues, because it can be involved, can be involved as well as politicians, it is discussed as donald trump, there and the obamas, what are they. could

come to these parties at pdd, which are called white parties, because you had to wear all white there, maybe oprah was there too, i remind you that oprah winfrey is now a passionate supporter of the candidate from the democratic party, and the same is said about donald trump, that is, there is something simply impossible happens, it is also clear, conspiracy theories make their way and here... the most striking of these is that this is all done specifically for the election, but in fact it is not, because this whole story has been going on for quite a long time, they took it up so much- less seriously last year, and that's why now this problem has just matured so much that it has gone beyond some legal legal plane, and here we see such a scandal that is discussed simply, well, if you come from...