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today. >> hopefully we get some of those stories out of you today. he finally gets to see a judge but will he be set free? the u.s. marine said he took a wrong turn into mexico with three registered guns in his car. appearing before a judge for the first time nearly two months after he was talked into that country sertorius prison system. he spent two tours in afghanistan fo could be in jailr something he says was a big mistake. this and they call he made 2911. >> 911 emergency. >> i'm having an emergency. i had three guns in my truck and they are trying to take my guns from me. >> so you are in mexico?

is it mexican authorities that are talking to you? >> yes. >> then you are in mexico. >> why has the president not done more to help him? >> that is an excellent question. number one, i have had a lot of experience in mexico as a reporter. i have covered the jails from the south to the north. their notoriety is well earned. you never want to have to go to a mexican jail. before we hate on mexico, just think if it was the other way around and a mexican marine had crossed the texas border with three guns in his vehicle, it would not go unnoticed by u.s. authorities. >> similar things have happened and a simple phone call has released that person. >> unfortunately it cannot be solved at that level. it should have been solved at the officer level. once the process starts, there

is national pride involved, your main question whether or not the president has or should have done more. i heard john kerry finally talking about the case today, fox news has done an excellent job keeping the pressure on going to the border, also very important, the mexicans are sensitive to their image. >> why didn' do that even have o happen? why did we have to hear from the secretary of state? his mother stated he didn't exactly know where he was going. he made a wrong turn, he did the right thing. says i have legally owned guns in a car, called 911 and he is still not home. >> we have a history of working with officials back and forth with issues that come up. i don't think we know the answer yet. it might be they were waiting for this to play out, but how long do you have to wait? there was a customs official who

was present when this happened and offered to take him across the border but it didn't happen. i want to ask somebody what stop that process. >> we did this with bill o'reilly. this is a troubling situation because it shouldn't have gone on this far. he is looking at substantial time behind bars, six to 21 years if he is convicted on these charges. he should build a post bail, return to the united states and be prohibited from returning to mexico but what about the mexican attorney general? they could have stepped in and interceded and said we have looked at the circumstances and resolved the case. dismissed the charges as geraldo is suggesting. there were no allegations that he was selling weapons. over $100,000 in his savings account for being a marine.

individuals who suffered injury from an ied explosive, and a second injury where he was unconscious. >> his friend, his fellow soldiers are speaking out today saying he saved lives talking about his bravery. >> call me naive, i want my president to pick up the phone and say you are going to let this guy go or else. i know that sounds naive because it jeopardizes relationship, but this is a marine who made a mistake and around the country people are unifying the hind him. >> the call goes on and the dispatcher goes on to say you are in mexico, i can't help you at this point. clearly there is documentation with audiotape. >> the frustration is well placed. i can't believe bases on

dragging this any further. >> speaking of this administration, they are conducting their own white house internal investigation after naming the top u.s. official in afghanistan. putting a chief's life in danger. fox news senior political analyst britt hume saying phrases issues with the administration. >> one wonders what kind of an operation you have with such a grievous mistake can be made. it feeds into this ongoing sort of running story that has led to suggest this is the administration that has trouble running things. >> does somebody need to get fired? >> i would think so. if you make a mistake like this, there needs to be consequences. you cannot say poor old so and so didn't know what he or she was doing and it was an honest

mistake, the all forgiving about it. people need to be disciplined for actions like this so others will be alert to them in the future. >> sandra, i get the sense the administration doesn't realize the gravity of what has happened. this is somebody's life they could potentially put in danger. >> this could also damage intelligent operations as well. i love what britt hume has said, some heads have to roll on this. even if his eyes were on that list, there should be a senior administration official who does a last glance. this we know junior reporter in charge of something that could affect the life of a senior cia executive. consequences have to be made. >> is there a credibility problem with this administration? looking at targeting conservative groups. are they saying what are you guys doing here, why aren't you

doing this more efficiently? >> a lot of people are saying that. i want to talk about the chain of command with this week. it went from the military, the white house, and then to the press corps, and the person of the "washington post," washington bureau chief, disseminated to 600 journalists. what is interesting is there are two layers that got missed here. how does that happen with one administration? don't they talk to each other? >> what about the people who say this is just a common mistake. what do you say to that? >> i think we are burying the headline. the headline is this whole issue of whether the obama administration can administrate. the core competence question. what in the world is going on, who is in charge here, where is the level of professionalism you

expect? this is a blunder, i hope that guy is back home, i hope he is safe because he is definitely in peril. i remember one time i said i thought the taliban had a terrorist attack, you guys got your butt kicked today. better get out of dodge. somebody actively in intelligent and espionage published in local paper. somebody has to be held responsible. >> that is the whole thing they must be in short supply of. there is just a tremendous loss of faith and respect. with respect to this administration even if you see the latest polling, the obama

administration and the preside president, 73% feel we are u.s. in retreat, we are not the same world power we were before. mistakes like this really highlight that issue. it looks like we have room for improvement, don't you think? political leaders worldwide stands at 30% according to more than 6000 people in 13 countries recently asked about their feelings on leadership and to rank 14 qualities by importance. communication and open and as parent way. leading by example, admitting mistakes and bringing out the best in others. overwhelmingly those asked chose women leaders as the most. cease your eyes on this couch. right? >> lead me, lead me.

>> bob had the same reaction. what does this say about our culture, our society today? >> the real feeling, which are not saying is pillar clinton because she has this phenomenon from the united states, maybe givingiven them a chance. angela merkel had a lot to do with it, she has been so measured in her approach, so smart. i long for the days in the mideast i cared about israel and peace with the palestinians. i wish it would be much more effective now. 42 ladies in the senate of the united states, we have done well. >> you know what is interesting, angela merkel and chancellor of germany top of the forms 100 most powerful.

greta made the list as well. put your heart into it. we will be with you. something jumped out at me. appropriateness, check that box. what jumped out at me about this research was the fact there is now less of a competent cap with women. whether they perceive themselves as leaders versus man, they were checking the box for themselves. >> how do you feel about the equal pay for equal work? >> went to the salaries start to catch up? >> do you view it as a problem? >> it is not as wide. we also work longer than you guys because we live longer. so there is not. >> i work longer because i keep

getting married. >> where were you when i was a divorcee? just kidding. >> geraldo knows a lot about this because he has had a lot of wives and a lot of mothers. don't they see women, everything shows we are better multitaske multitaskers, we have seen the evidence in the military. is this more of the nurturing aspect we trust women more? poll after poll shows voters don't trust their government, perhaps there is a trust component to women they do see they will have a better moral compass, they will be more transparent and open. >> i hadn't really thought much about it if women are inherently more honest as public officials than men are.

doubledealing and backstabbing. i know politics is a dirty business and i would like to think women operate in a clean way, but i don't know. >> people sit down at the negotiating table and look at all the gridlock they say let's get some women who will listen to each other, maybe get something done instead of just digging their heels in on things. >> there has been tremendous evolutions since i started in this business. >> it is for on one. he made his case but is president obama right when he says obama must lead and show restraint? and controversy over the washington redskins name. what civil rights leaders are asking players to do. stay with us. ugh. heartburn.

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new developments for the washington redskins name controversy. a letter is asking them to join in and demand the team change his famous mascot. representing 75 organizations including prominent civil rights groups. the league is making money from offensive words. most americans don't support a name change. finding overwhelming number of people, 71% want washington to keep the redskins name. we had a previous hashtag one lucky guy on monday so is all the web with clips of him saying let the market decide. >> i think the market will have its say, but i think it should be the players. let me move to donald sterling controversy if i can. he has the most excellent argument, but even if he

prevails, if the l.a. clippers players say we are not playing for a man we consider a racist, sterling will have no choice but to sell before he loses everything. >> it is the market. the market speaks for itself. twitter with up because i was in defense of this. they should change the name. what i did not agree with was harry reid getting involved. the market will eventually work itself out and if the players start speaking out about it, things will change. >> the reason they get scared is because it is offensive to x amount of people, they will change it. what other team mascot or team name will pop up a certain number of people will say we are offended. i think it is a fear of silencing.

>> players are different. if the players won't play. >> legally i want to get kimberly's response. this is the letter going out to players. going to public health experts, the promotion of the term days to create harm to native americans and native american children. with the nfl spending billions of dollars promoting the slur across the globe, these children are being constantly told they are savages and should be primar their skin color. a quote from the letter going out by the 75 organizations out to players trying to solicit 2700 players to come on board. >> they are putting a lot of pressure on the players. washington redskins should decide based on the players

ultimately if it is in the best interest the right thing to do with it is morally, financially, ethically, et cetera and make a decision from there. i don't know if the onus should be on the players outing them, do you support this? if you don't, you are racist. >> h is now president and generl manager of the washington redskins. what that means is saying i firmly stand behind the redskins name, will not change it. got the owner to back him. >> do they wants to be a football team? i mean really. the name is going to be changed. >> we will see what happens. president obama wrapping up a speech. we will see what they are saying

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>> welcome back to "outnumbered." president obama defending his form policy to the class of 2014. a day after announcing america's military commitment to afghanistan will end by the time he goes to office. while the west must leave the world, we must also show some restraint. president obama: america was always lead on the world stage. if we don't, nobody else will. the military of joined is and always will be the backbone of that leadership. but u.s. military action cannot be the only or even primary component of our leadership in every instance. >> is that you listened to president obama's speech, how do you view the shift in form policy, one that will be a collective action and of restraint?

>> let me talk about afghanistan first. i had 11 assignments they are over the years. convoy was blown up, shot at, i remember very vividly the last time i was there with the marines, there were puppies everywhere. afghanistan is a criminal state coming only hope we have is the election, a man who has been in my home, had dinner in my home, chose to see the statue of liberty, w he will have a very difficult time but now your question of shown restraint. we cannot go on to ground war, we cannot use a military going into crimea, cannot use military in syria, which have stayed out of libya, should not have been our business.

restraint contrary to what they say is called for. whether or not the president can carry through on that policy is reasonable and remains to be seen. >> taking that into consideration, we absolutely can use military action when needed and if we issue sanctions on vladimir putin and his people, we can move in. by all means the form policy speech is indicating they don't intend to change that. >> he was using this as an opportunity to answer some of the critics who accuse him of not considering america to be exceptional. there was a point where he said, it was very bold, i believe in america exceptionalism with every fiber of my being. he gave some form policy today, but this was also an answer back to criticism. clearly the white house and

administration are feeling some heat on these issues because the policy has been nebulous, if you will. >> i can pick one thing out of a hat, maybe the american people are unclear, what i do know is we are not considered the same superpower, we're not considered with the same respect we have been in the past. i think it is important if you want to have influence, people know to take you seriously and perhaps it might be repercussions financially, militarily or otherwise. >> people at home were little confused by president saying america must always be a leader, i think that is a confusing message in other countries look at that and say where does the united states sit? >> you can tell that's don

because it was part of the speech. >> democrats taking a very different tone with obamacare. tonight the veteran affairs scandal taking center stage on capitol hill. lawmakers holding anything hearing to look into those allegations of secret waiting lists. we will hear from john mccain on what to expect. okay, listen up! i'm re-workin' the menu.

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again. he fought insurance company so we know longer have to. under the radical plan, birth control would be outlawed. insurance companies could charge women more. even for victims of rate and. they have it backwards on women's health. martha: fox news polling shows until this month low those in fr of obamacare have never topped 40%. the highest opposition was this past january at 59%. still this is unpopular with the people, kimberly, but democrats seem to be embracing it. >> it seems like reverse psychology. i like that move from a p.r. and marketing standpoint, but they hope reception will be ability to keep saying it is awesome, it

really is. it makes sense to me but i don't personally by it. >> charlie crist running for governor has fully embraced the health care law. says i don't apologize for it, it is the right thing to do, we are hearing this more and more. >> used to be a republican. >> to be honest democrats are standing by the complaints that are popular, per existing conditions or preventative care. we don't want repeal, we want this law fixed. they stood behind this law for so long to kno what are they gog to say? all they suddenly had a change of heart? >> i just wonder what this be

effective? this is still negative campaigning. they went on the offensive trying to convince the other side will do some things. they have to prove, that could easily backfire. the other thing is look at the timing of that. didn't the administration just say we would stop giving enrollment numbers on a monthly basis? we will pull away some of that information to know would be a good time to get on your positive campaign. >> if they had a war against women and if they say you are against obamacare, against birth control, against the right of a woman to face legal abortion, they can effectively as they did rally women to support health care plan that might not ordinarily. >> how much of this is democrats

don't have anywhere else to run and hide? >> i think kimberly's point is well taken, if you say this is great and this is free and this will help you. >> you don't think women in general can see right through that? here are the facts, we can see it for ourselves. >> you keep hammering, i will still a right away from you. take away your right for an abortion. even if a woman is pro-life. >> people are feeling the bad policy every day, no amount of messaging will improve that. >> step away from the magazine rack, researchers at washington state university found guys who read men's magazine are more likely to disrespect women.

women's magazines apparently empower readers to refuse unwanted. hear the moans and groans. >> i did a photo shoot for the houston on a reality show and it was all about and positions and what you should do and how you should do it and that is a women's magazine. i could read cosmopolitan more than maxim. maximus for people who don't really have, i think. >> center and i were talking with this before, you can just type in in google. you don't even have to go this far to find these messages. >> i did a little research

today, i went to men's health.com and one of the first things you can look on his sex and women. it brings me to the front page a feature article that says how to turn your girl into a star. get everything you want in life we had on the putting out a false image of what and life is really like? >> with the mega data collection your name is now on the perverts list for one to this. in terms of your question, i don't know really at least in my experience, maybe i am so out of it, i don't know anyone who gets their tapes from magazine. when you look at the frustrations built up in only at

rogers living this life of video games and he fantasized and wanted to be this or that, that is what can become something horrifying. if you're looking at a magazine to turn your wife into a star, you should just talk to her, have a conversation. >> there you have it. >> what about playboy and the much more explicit sites and availability of stuff on the internet? stop living virtual lives. >> i just don't give magazines that much power. i look at them, i laugh, think a lot of it is funny and comedic

but i will not go there for my tips. >> health tip since of how to get six minute abs. >> these articles how to extend your time in bed, stuff like that. these magazines, they are young. >> you deny cosmos for more explicit than "maxim" magazine? i know the original publisher. they are propagating a promiscuous lifestyle. >> the applications that they will make men take advantage of women. i think that speaks to your character. the way you view those particles, the way you are raised, your friends circle.

>> that is my issue because he clearly had mental illness. the prism he would seem anything like this is much different than us. >> he lived in this internet cave that had no interaction with real people. i don't believe men's health are fringe publications. >> you can make your own choices. so be it. edward snowden saying he was "trained as a spy. john kerry tells the fugitive to man up and come home. and new trend of thirtysomething raising eyebrows. they know like really well.

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>> more "outnumbered" in just a second. first, jon scott with what is coming up on "happening now." >> edward snowden makes a wild claim in a new interview. telling nbc's brian williams he was trained as a spy to work with the u.s. government. john kerry with his response ahead. former university player on trial. the former student athlete says he was defending his girlfriend

and his girlfriend was drunk and fell. they call it murder. the legal panel weighs in. facebook in a fight with iran. asking to answer questions for what they call privacy violations. a live report next hour. back to "outnumbered." >> i am obviously outnumbered, but i am loving it. the near post suggest more young people are running a tab on the people they have slept with. one blogger is saying these with our good ideas for health reasons. you keep a timeline of the lovers you have had emma people understand who they were at different stages of life. do you keep a list? >> no, but i want to hear all about yours.

>> i would need the cliff notes version. >> i wrote an autobiography exposing myself. i exposed many of the celebrity women i had been with, it was one of the worst mistakes. i am embarrassed by it. >> you to the private list and made it public. >> i think if you make a tape it will be aired in the situation semi public or public. is nothing more than bragging. >> you still are, but what about

the videos? >> they understand it is not for any sociology reasons. >> you say you regret it, but there must have been a reason you did it. >> i started putting it down and writing it, i wrote it without anybody's name. if i said slept with that one. >> did you ever check with any of the women? >> absolutely. i had to apologize to every one of them. >> i don't know where you are going. we thought he could not get more device. cannot even agree on what is for dinner.

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thousands of americans time the marketing company how liberals and conservatives differ by comes to what they eat. conservatives tend to eat more meat and dining at places like foods. barrel, liberals go for when it comes to fast food the right place for them are chick-fil-a and steak and shake and the left go to aaa and starbucks. are you more of steak and shake or chipotle? >> i am more of chipotle. i am very into whole foods, natural, organic. i break the stereotype. sometimes a little dark chocolate, but we do that. >> which are you? >> i want real food, okay?

i want to be fed, i don't want to be teased. get me some porterhouse. >> sandra, are you more in-n-out burger or do you like a sandwich at starbucks? >> in-n-out, i have never had that. but i have a shake shack next to me. >> the best deal for breakfast is a stake, vanilla milkshake. for real bid and two eggs over easy. >> do you jog in place? her although? >> i think thi what this shows s they are party of colors. that is where the asians, three fort of them voted for obama.

>> i think you're going to get some kickback on that. stereotypes are made to be broken. >> that will do it for "outnumbered," we will see you tomorrow. now "happening now." >> and a fox news alert on two developing stories. there is a$çu.s. marine jailed two month[ hn mexico. he is making a first appearance the border with three legally registered firearms inç his truck. his attorney said he will have a chance to tell his sideç of e story. mexican custom agent and soldiers also willç make statements. a reporter is live outside of jt us any updates.