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>> terrorists are celebrating this, jay, and in some ways they now know there's a going rate that one american in captivity can win the release of five terrorists being held by the united states. do you worry that that sets a very dangerous precedent? >> it is absolutely a situation where a long history and precedent where we engage in exchange of prisoners during an armed conflict. bergdahl was a soldier in our military and he was being held by the enemy and that's the situation where you do everything you can to secure his release. >> whatever language the white house is using to defend the prisoner exchange, republicans like senator john mccain, fuming that america may be paying a steep price here and that some of the most dangerous terrorists just sprung from gtmo could again launch attacks aimed at killing as many americans as possible. >> there are legitimate

questions about these individuals who are being released and the conditions under which they will be released. these are the hardest of the hard core. these are the highest high risk people and others that we have released have gone back into the fight. that's been documented. so -- and it's disturbing to me that the taliban are the ones that named the people to be released. >> the five taliban sprung in the deal now in the custody of the government of qatar but it appears they'll be free to leave after one year. when they're free to go, they will get a warm welcome from this guy, the taliban supreme leader. he's hailing the swap as a gret victory, saying ever someone being held needs to be freed. now, i'm going to go to you first on this one. i find this entire prisoner swap story to be appalling, that we would negotiate with terrorists. i saw you over the weekend. you're seemingly pretty outraged as well. >> absolutely outraged.

if there's one thing we've never done is negotiate with terrorists. the element with designated as a terrorist organization, this is who held him and we decide now the price of the american soldier is five taliban. these guys associated with the osama bin laden, with deaths of thousands that they're responsible for and we're now willing to say, well, at the right price, we will negotiate with terrorists. it's not just a dangerous precedent. it's a deadly precedent. americans will pay this price whether on the battlefield or around the world where they're more vulnerable today. >> if i'm a terrorist organization, if i'm al qaeda, the first thing i'm thinking right now is how do you snatch more americans? >> yeah. there could be a slippery slope in terms of torturing our guys to try to make an a groebl trade for one side or the other. but i don't concentrate so much on everybody else. i'm looking as an american today and here is an american journalist, the question that i would want to ask this white house. we covered this as breaking news on fox report over the weekend

and we went from calling this guy a hero to learning further details about bowe bergdahl and as facts were coming forth and all we're learning about the five killers, that they let go, i would say mr. president, what made it worth one guy for five killers? i mean, that's a bad deal any way around. is the president a bad negotiator? >> he shouldn't be negotiated. >> or is there something else going on we don't know about? >> there's mixed emotions because you do see an american soldier freed and so you want to be happy for his family and you want to be happy that he has his freedom. but again, the message this sends, one in six that have been freed or let go from gtmo have gone back to fight jihad. >> the taliban named these. >> these are the hand picked five. >> let's not forget that. as senator mccain just detailed, these are the tough of the tough, the hardest core of the

hardest core. they're back out there. they're back in the fight. so there were a lot of rules here that were broken. congress wasn't giving us a 30 days heads up. we're negotiating with terrorists and john mccain said that's not what concerns him the most. it's the conditions in which these five men are going to be released. and that -- we have reasonable questions along those lines and that's what i want to know as a journalist. >> would it have hurt the president to run this by congress? he says i got the power to do it. he may have the power to do it but why not run it by the congress? >> they're saying he didn't have the time. the president seems to not have the time to run a lot of things by congress. you asked a good question about whether obama was a good negotiator. in this case, i don't think anyone is a good negotiator with terrorists. i don't think it's possible. chuck hagel is out there saying hopefully this will lead to a breakthrough with the taliban. that's incredibly naive to think that the taliban, they're going to sit down and hear what we

have to say. why? because they're not going to raise their stakes? come on, guys. >> if the president were so moved to go against what we know is conscionable, if you feel like you have to, where would you get to the point where you would make a bad deal? >> i see this as a piece of a much larger plan. the president to close gtmo. >> and the war in afghanistan. >> right. and draw down the war. it's a fire sale. we're just getting out there. i see the five as being very specifically five of the most dangerous men we had there. the president figures if i can get rid of these five, then it's politically a bit easier for me to move the others that are in gtmo and move them to more neutral countries and then he can, in 2014, before the midterm elections, give something to his base that's very, very upset that he's not --

>> i'm being asked to give this piece of breaking news in. this is from senator graham who has written a letter now and fox is gust -- just getting this. dear chairman levin, i write today to ask for an immediate hearing on the release of the prisoners in exchange for bergdahl. while i appreciate an american was released from captivity, this decision by the obama administration has serious implications for our future national security. this story is going on today. and it's breaking now. >> and it will only get more complicated. we're learning more also about bowe bergdahl and why he left the base but that will continue. >> and you know what? we're going to actually continue on this topic so i'm just curious what you're hearing from the military environment right

now. i mean, this has got to be riling a few feathers. >> when it happened, no one really knew what happened to bowe bergdahl. the taliban said he was drunk and off base. he said he had fallen behind in a patrol. you're in a fire fight other somebody knows about it. it was a sticky story but what was the truth? members of the platoon were told not to talk about it until bowe bergdahl was back home. now they're talking about the terms of what happened and man by man are coming out and saying, he simply walked off the base. he didn't believe in the mission. he thought americans were being thugs. there were a lot of anti-american rhetoric coming through and he deserted. we need to know the details but the men closest to him are that bowe bergdahl deserted his mission. >> what does it say, the reports say these men that served with

him have actually broken agreements to get this out there because they feel it's so important. what does that say that they're willing to do that to a fellow soldier, that they really have a concern here? >> there's a bond. there's a sense of integrity, value and purpose in what they did. they don't want the story to be bowe bergdahl a hero if he isn't. if he was, that would be great. but if he didn't believe in the mission and they spent months and months to search for him, that may complicate the situation. that platoon, that company, that legacy matters. they'll step up and do that because it's the right thing to do. >> how much about this did the white house, the obama administration know about this young man in terms of his anti-american rhetoric? how far did they get to get one anti-american back in the country and trade up for five anti-american killers? >> i don't think they care. i think this is getting the subject off the v.a., getting

back to box checking for the base, right? let's talk about gtmo, closing gtmo. let's talk about carbon emissions and the green agenda. all of this by design is to accomplish the agenda that president obama didn't to appease his base for the 2014 midte midterm. >> i guarantee you, barack obama is going to care that it's going to impact his legacy enormously and it would be a horrific occurrence of this country but that was worth the risk. >> on that note, there will be a white house press briefing at 12:45. you'd better believe this will be addressed. hate working? i don't know. >> we love going to work, actually. >> or maybe some of you are feeling burned out. you're not alone. the way we're working just isn't working. we're going to explain that. and it's another case of when celebs say dumb things. this time actress charlize theron is sparking a big

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>> tweet us. we love live tweeting through the show. this is "outnumbered" and the latest episode of when celebrities say things they shouldn't. it's gwenneth palt row. no. huh-uh. charlize theron comparing her personal life to rape, worse than paltrow. the oscar winning star was asked if she googles herself. here is what she said. >> sexy and plunging mini dress, charlize theron reveals. everything is very, very personal and intrusive. >> i don't do that. that's my saving grace. when you start living in the world and doing that, you start to get feeling raped. >> that strong. >> well, you know, when it comes

to your son and your private life, maybe that's just me. >> that comment is igniting a backlash against her on social media. sandra smith, she googles herself but she doesn't do it because it makes her feel like she's been raped. >> that was gross. i felt that comment was so disrespectful and so gross. she witnessed her mother in south africa kill her father, her abusive father before her very eyes in self defense. she's been through a lot. to make that comparison to a life that she has chosen to a life that someone did not choose, a victim of rape, i think is just despicable. >> you make an excellent point. she chose this life. she wanted to be an actress out in the lime light. otherwise, you just do that in your kitchen. >> right. i think the celebrities immediate to grow a backbone. who cares what people on twitter or facebook or folks in the media say about you. if you have your own self sense

of sense, who cares? take a minute to think before you speak. publicists do that yoven times and they have a whole team around them but just take a minute to carefully choose your words and think about the impact of this kind of comment on someone who maybe was raped and went through that actual experience and now hearing this kind of comment? >> she talks about being a mom, andrea. imagine what her kid learns to google and this is going to be on the google machine. >> charlize theron in plunging neck line, really? that's the worst headline? i'm an astute observer of pop culture. she gets wonderful headlines. she rarely has a negative headline about her. if you look at someone like jessica simpson who is called names for her fluctuations in weight, even she isn't coming out saying anything so stupid comparing it to rape and i'm with you, sandra. hailing from south africa where she does, knowing that violence

against women is a huge problem, it's so ignorant for her to say something like this. she gets great press. charlize theron gets amazing press and she's not satisfied. >> she does what she does to get press and she's not getting press, she's out of it and n doing her job. >> she's getting the now. she probably doesn't want this. >> choice is the keyword. you get the job. you get what comes with it. i do follow pop culture but i had to google her. >> really? >> so was it who you thought it was or were you surprised? did you think it was somewhat, somebody else? >> these an attractive lady but i don't see -- the comment is ridiculous. it's completely over the top to compare it to rape. at the same time, it's not a good idea to google yourself if you're vulnerable or -- >> people say nasty stuff on the internet. you have to have thick skin, especially if you're in that business. people who really experienced that trauma, which is what it is, trauma, is nothing to seeing

a google search. >> sorry. i'm not buying it. >> how did you miss charlize theron? >> gwenneth pat row. >> do you hate your job? if you do, you have company. the way we work nowadays is doing a job on many of us. the demand for our time is exceedingly inc capacity. draping us from the skill of bringing our talents to life. >> andrea, are we overworked in this technology age to a point where we're not even putting our

best foot forward anymore when we are on the job? >> i don't feel overworked. i just want to say for the record i feel like i put my best foot forward every day, both foot. i think so. there's no line between work and family anymore and there's an examination if someone sends you an email, you'd better respond right away or they're going to follow up and i laugh because you do feel that here, too. we have this thing called the pitch thread for this show and the five and when people start sending pictures out for the show, it's like if you don't send a pitch out, it seems like you're not working or focussing on the show so i'm guilty of this. i felt like maybe i wasn't doing my job yesterday because i wasn't participating. >> i saw a pitch this morning from you. >> i had to look like i was doing something. >> at 2:00 a.m. >> is that about maybe sitting back and making rules for yourself and saying, do you know what? if 7:00 hits or 8:00 or whatever time you think is appropriate, work time goes off, play time or family time comes on and that's

the end of it. >>, no because guess what? we all have to work more to keep our jobs these days and we can thank the economy for that. one person is doing the job two people used to do when things were better. now that companies have learned they can use just that one person to do the two jobs, they'll do it. it's more beneficial to their bottom line. that being said, last year the bureau of labor statistics said that 11 million americans reported working 59 hours a week. and i can bet you that they weren't all clocking in and sitting at their desk for 59 hours. these are hours they're reporting like andrea at home last night feeling stressed she had to be working. people are at home connected. they feel like they have to work all the time to keep up. >> i think you have to carve that time up. put yourself away for an hour, hour and a half and my wife says i'm addicted to the blackberry. if i don't do that, i'm literally absent but i have to be okay with the fact that we talk about the backlog of the

veterans affairs. talk about the bag lock in my inbox. you have to be okay with the fact that not everyone is going to get an answer right away, even if they sometimes deserve it. >> that's why i didn't hear from you. >> i want to know why your wife wants you to put your phone down, because you're always googling charlize theron. >> you're one of the hardest working women i know. >> oh, my gosh. no. >> there you were last night. you have a family. you seem to manage to do it all. you're a fish in here. what is your secret? >> six day a week work week means you have to be judicious about my sdigs now and i have to say now to more things. when it's time to go, i go. you guys probably have sensed i'm a little bit of a chatty cathy. when i see people in the hallway, i just want to catch up. you look so beautiful. where did you get that dress? i can do some of that but i have to keep it to a minimum. when it's time to go, i go. discipline. >> i wonder if it's different for men and women. women say we have so much to do around the household, more chores, more family responds.

not all the time but sometimes and i wonder if it's different. >> i cement the afternoon with my dad yesterday putting in a garden for my wife at the house so you have to carve it out. >> the garden will be worth it. >> it will be worth it. >> for your wife for sure. >> amen. cha >> chapter on benghazi from hillary clinton's new book. plus why the economy could be the biggest problem for democrats come november.

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depression. but while the economy is contracting and too many people are out of work, the dow is reaching record numbers. as the midterm approaches, new questions swirl about how candidates in both parties should deal with this issue. i'm going to go to you first in this one. we could go back and forth on numbers but it's the feeling, how people feel about this economy and i think a lot of people are feeling it's not doing that well. how should republicans handle it? we know democrats are a bit panicked. >> message needs to be on tarring he. i remember everyone telling me during the 2012 election cycle that mitt romney had to win that election because the economy was so bad and barack obama had been a failure on the economy and it had to be a win for republicans and it wasn't a win for republicans. they didn't drive the message home. so i think the way you talk about low taxes and the way you talk about school choice, the way you talk about these issues that affect the amount of money that people have in their pockets every day, the amount of money they need to spend at the grocery store, they spend on gas leap, these very hit home

issues, the way you talk to them matters so it's not necessarily the policy, unfortunately. it's the way you deliver that policy and let people know we care about you. we're paying attention to what's happening to you. >> sandra, people don't feel great about this. even if the parties communicate their messages, it's how people feel. today's economic conditions, 82% feel fair or poor, only 18% feel excellent or good. we have another full screen talking about how people feel about the economy. recovery or recession which asked, it's pretty split. what do the numbers tell you? >> the fact we're many years out of the recession now, we could be talking about people feeling this bad, andrea. this is because of the underlying economy. when you're reporting on the g.d.p. growth, how much we grou in the first quarter, remember those are the government numbers. goldman sachs came out with their own private numbers and said we contracted more by 2.3% in the first quarter.

so the economy is not good and i will tell you where the democrats are going to point the strength and that's in the stock market. so be aware of that because we are, as of today, hitting record highs in the s&p 500 but that wasn't without government intervention. u.s. central bank has been pumping money into this economy and as such, the u.s. stock market has continued to hit record high after record high. they're currently getting out. that whole tapering thing has happened now so it's something to watch very closely because they will try to spin the stock market hides as they tout that as gret news for the economy but at the same time, unemployment is above 6% and arguably, our economy is shrinking by the day. >> i have just a quick question about -- and you're right. the government has its own set of numbers and how they look at things so there are many factors but i've read that economists agree if you have two quarters like we just had, we're right back into a recession. maybe it's not a great one, maybe it's a light one, but it's a recession. that's true, right? >> g.d.p., goldman sachs said

when they put out the 2.3% -- >> they have to start to turn this around. >> you're right. that puts us back into that sort of feeling. >> that's scary. >> they feel underemployed, they don't have a job they dropped out of the work force, that's how it's changed. >> and on top of that, obamacare. >> all right. hillary clinton accused of playing politics when it comes to the terror attack in benghazi, libya that killed four americans. her new book is not out yet but some portions have been released already. she writes, i will not be part of a political slug fest on the backs of dead americans. those who insist on politicizing the tragedy will have to do so without me, end quote. but r.n.c. chairman says she's already doing that. >> hillary has been playing politics with this issue from

the very beginning and now she's launching a political defense. how did this chapter get leaked to the newspaper? got leaked because obviously their people are trying to preempt or stop any more criticism that she's pen receiving on been dpozy. >> did it get leaked, pete? >> if they want it out there, they're going to push it out there. they want to tell their story first, out there saying -- if she's smart, they'll go to fox news and talk about it. in actuality, this shouldn't be a partisan issue because there are four dead americans but it is a political issue. it's about judgment and what they knew when they knew it and how they responded and she couldn't be more of a central player to the deaths and coverup afterwards, she has questions to answer if she wants to be commander in chief. >> this is textbook p.r., public relations, isn't it? and i've heard you say you're a fan of getting out front of the message. we've had monica lewinsky, both

being called somewhat location. your thoughts? >> i think she's being smart about it. she handled it terribly and i think people have legitimate questions to ask her and it may come down to, is she fit to be a commander in chief? she's basically coming out and saying, this is what happened. i'm going to lay it out on the table for you from day one, from minute one, and then let's push this issue aside and move on to more important things is how she's going to portray it. this is handled. investigations have ended. now let's talk about the economy and jobs. why are republicans lingering on this issue? >> it's not just for lack of focussing on jobs. it's for lack of focussing on the record of the state department as general. stated department spokesperson, when asked to remark on her performance as secretary of state couldn't come up with an answer. is it political? yes. is it going to work? that's up for debate. >> we can't have a cooperation

without bringing up that poor spokes person, right? that was a gret point. to a main person that's going to represent you, you can't say anything nice. >> let's talk this book what it is. >> what is it? >> classic clinton. she's doing at the classic clinton moment. she gets away with not absing all the questions. she doesn't want to answer all the questions before an election so she puts the book out now. she can say like barack obama did, it's in my book. what i think is so disingenuous is for a clinton to say i'm not going to participate in a political slug fest. she has a black belt in political slug fest. this is the clintons is for her to just disregard how ambassador stevens got killed, she says it doesn't matter what led up to t. it's like the intruder getting into your house. it's what happened afterward. if that were a friend of mine and i were secretary of state, i would care about how he was murdered in the first place and certainly about still bringing whoever did it to justice and

she, in the book says she doesn't care about either one. >> doesn't that remind us of the notorious comment, what difference does it make? that will come back to haunt her. >> it's all about her and defining the enemy which is the right wing conspiracy, classic clinton. >> nasty family feud. apparently getting worse at this pint. the newest twist to that ugly spat between casey kasem. top 40 artist radio guy. such a huge voice in radio. his wife, his kids fighting as this radio icon's health may have taken a turn for the worst. so much for some college fund. the fraternity being accused of racism for wearing something like what you see here at a party. [male vo] inside this bag exists

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>> a college fraternity may have run afoul of the police. the chapter at university of california irvine, accused of being racist. for a fundraising party where students dressed in coconut bras and grass skirts. administrators are forcing the frat and other organizations into ongoing discussions about offending others after some minority students groups complained. are we being too sensitive on college campuses in general for this sort of thing? maybe this is too offensive. >> that's ridiculous. around college campuses the one to encourage us to celebrate other cultures they want us to celebrate different ethnicities and when you do, they she tell you down for it. i've worn a grass skirt before.

i was in the globing organization in a sorority. i want to know the rules. okay. a couple of weeks ago we were told we can't eat guacamole and wear sombreros on sink de m --- cinco de mayo. >> let me tell you, this is the asian pacific student association at the university called this an act of cultural appropriation and publicly projecting their ethno graphic ignorance. >> can you translate that for me, please? >> i did homework on the history of the hula. >> of course you did. >> i'm a geek. they're actually showing respect and i was puzzled how we got to the point where everybody was so offended but i'm trying to understand it so originally they didn't wear anything. they went topless. and to show how prudish the

first western settlers were, they started wearing coconuts when they would shadow the dances of the hula because they didn't want it to go topless. so that's how this has gotten passed down. >> interesting. >> it's part of a party. >> i'm not sure these college students are not putting that much thought into it. >> they should be, though. >> i hope that human resources heard all of this because the computer usage by you and him with charlize theron -- >> can i compare it to something? in hofamptonhamptons, they havee parties and they wear basically white everything. people even have on white sheets. if we know the history that far in america, there might be people who have a sensitivity. i'm always excited to get invited to a party that celebrates summer. >> as a greek, i'm very offended by togetha parties.

>> you are? but i think there's a likeness there. it's individual. >> i have to do a ton of research. have you ever worn a coconut bra? >> i wore it once as part of a very nifty costume that i created and nobody is going to do this research. do we really want a society where now you have to research everything and make sure that heaven forbid, if i put on this type of skirt or this type of top, i might offend someone? that's the slippery slope of everybody being offended. >> you do not have a voice in this. we have to leave it right there. you're outnumbered. the f.b.i. conducting a nationwide manhunt. right now the agency says the suspect is armed and dangerous and may have explosives with him. meantime, guys like no matter what anyone says, the chances you still need to pay for that first date probably pretty good. [ dennis ] it's always the same dilemma --

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>> jenna lee has what's coming up in the second hour of "happening now." jenna: new reaction to the exchange of five taliban terrorists in exchange for a prisoner in afghanistan. top senator says the u.s. released a, quote, taliban dream team to get this sergeant back. we're going to have live reports and new analysis coming up at the beginning of the hour and also federal agents launching a nationwide manhunt for this man, 42-year-old san francisco resident ryan kelly chamberlain. he's considered armed examine dangerous and wanted in connection with to the discovery of bomb making materials in his pardon me. we'll get you caught up there

and a massive new study says exercise is good for you at any age, which we all know, but you'll be surprised how little you have to do to get the benefits. some god n good news coming up today. >> watch and tweet me on this next story. >> i can't wait. >> we'll see you. >> i may be "outnumbered" but it's my turn. most people still value traditional roles when it comes to dating. seven in 10 americans say it's unacceptable to expect the guy to pay for everything but most agree it's his job to at least pay for the first date. while research conducted nearly 40 years ago showed that 40 years ago, 70% of people thought women should not work, only half hold that today. i've been out of the game a little bit on the dating sigh. kids these days -- that's a compliment. guys, should they be paying on the first date? >> i like it. if a guy asks me out, i like

when he offers to pay. in fact, i like when he insists on paying. i do that thing where i say, how much do i owe you to be really kind and i would give money if -- it's like i would give money if it wasn't going so well or whatever. i always offer and i like a guy to say, oh, put that away. of course not. >> i think that's very common. >> it is very common. >> i would speculate that is common. no? you dis agredisagree? >> i would take my wallet out if somebody asked me out. >> i would, too. >> she takes out the wallet but she likes him to stop her. >> i don't have a wallet. what do you mean? the initiator is the person who pays. no matter who asks whom out, whoever initiates, that's where the gift begins and it's a gift of your time, your resources, your imagination. that's your gift. so if i not going well, that's on them and they still have to pay. >> don't you think your presence

is a gift enough? >> i do. >> of course it is. what about the -- does that 50% number surprise you, though? 50% still today say that the wife's responsibility is primarily in the home. >> i think there's a whole lot of lying going on when people are asked questions about this. men and women agree that personality is the most important trait when considering whether to go on a first date and i am going to say right now, that is an absolute lie. we're animals and we look at how someone looks, dresses, acts and then we decide whether or not we're going to date them to learn about their personalities. i think people are lying and not being honest with themselves. they say money is not a top consideration. guess what is the biggest reason for divorce and breakups in this country? it's money. let me tell you something. money is important. >> i think personality probably does rank third. people go out first date, usually look, right? money is a consideration. but if the guy doesn't pay on the first date, and i don't care if the girl asks him or not,

deal breaker. >> really? >> yeah. i'm very old fashioned. >> i think whoever initiates should pay. >> i don't even do reach for the wallet. >> would you ask a guy out? >> good question. >> yes. >> when i was single, i never would. i would drop hints like bombs. >> i think that still goes on. >> but i think if you start to date, then i think the woman can contribute here and there. >> right. in the beginning it's nice to have that old school gentleman, like open my doors for me. it's okay. >> chivalry need not be dead. you must remember this, though. a kiss is not just a kiss. that is, if you want a happy relationship or a relationship in general. we'll explain. okay, listen up! i'm re-workin' the menu.

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♪ ♪ kiss. >> pucker up, folks. kissing matters. research shoes that people remember the first kiss first time than they have sex. and increasing your partner more increases the satisfaction. and 50 percent of men and 60 percent of women ended a relationship because of someone is a bad kisser and men who give their wives a smooch before work are 50 percent less likely to get in a car accident.

>> there could be suginals of like bad breath. >> i saw the topic in the run down. who was my first kiss. he was like a lizard and it was at an amusement park. >> was it his? >> i don't know he was bad. >> i think i blacked out in my first kiss. you don't know. i was trying the technique and you learn. >> you were doing the lizard. >> i don't know about you, i need a good kisser. he was a great guy and i felt like he was strangling me with his tongue. >> i think kissing. didn't you tell him to stop. >> they are not all trainable harris. >> and you can tell the chemist row by the kiss. >> and what is interesting,

women had a different cat dpoer. bad breath and taste and saying things that are nonnegotiable. >> the men were concerned about the body looked like and they were trying to strangle them. >> isn't that what it is all about. i will be honest. they are trying to get a read on what is happening later on after they are married. >> and from guys, open mouth and wet kiss and lot was tongue. >> and hair grabbing in the back. it can lead to a good one. there is nothing more important. >> and we'll connect that way. >> i agree. it is everything in the cuss. do you kiss your wife when you come home and before you leave. none dpauz're because i think it

is good for the kids to see the affection and i do it because i enjoy. it >> kiss more. and blow a happening hour kiss. second hour of happening now starts now. three developing stories. senator lindsay graham demanding an investigation in the taliban dream team. they are also the decision to swap five high ranking taliban terrorist for a soldier and raising the question, will this put american troops in danger and what about americans in general. and the obama industry and what it means for jobs. >> armed and dangerous after a disturbing and surprising discovery in his apartment. >> first, a fox news alert on