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i do visit a therapist, of course. because none of us are finished works. even hockey players get lessons from other hockey players. i like comparing myself. thank you. >> good to have you here. >> for weeks of watching some children for cross the border illegally and unattended, the political pressure over the border crisis appears to be reaching the white house. the obama administration has just announced it will ask congress for $3.7 billion in emergency funds to deal with the wave of illegal immigrants pouring into america. officials insist they are still seeking expanded authority to speed up deportations. president obama travele travel s tomorrow for some fundraising

will now sit down with governor rick perry to talk about the crisis. that is a new development that came hours after governor perry spoke up saying he wanted a substantive meeting not just a handshake on the tarmac with the president. they wrote the president would be welcomed to a meeting in texas. he asked me to invite you to discuss with local officials in dallas on wednesday. but while the president will be in texas, still no plans for him to travel to the border and see what is happening firsthand. such a visit would be a wake-up call that the president really need israel >> it is troubling and frustrating the president of the united states chooses the path he will take rather than oe that will help him solve problems. during his trip to texas it would take the president less than an hour on air force one to

visit the border and see what i and so many of my colleagues have seen firsthand. a very sad situation that could have been prevented. >> another lawmaker recently visited overcrowded border detention centers many with children who crossed alone. >> i think the president sent a message when he began to do administrative legalization saying he doesn't have the authority to do as president of the united states. the word went forth to these countries, so many are just turning themselves in willfully failing after they are held for a few hours, we will be released into the interior of the united states. >> same the administration misled in the border crisis fester as part of a broader calculation. >> i think he knows what to do, we want to limit the political argument with hispanics and other groups and doing it for

political reasons. very cynically. >> the headline here, president wants not to billion dollars previously reported before noon when this information pop, but $3.7 billion. we are paying a huge price for something at least from everything i am reading began as a problem to be dealt with and not a crisis. kimberly, how did we get here? >> first of all the great opportunity for the president to be personally present to understand the situation upfront, to go to the border and see the crisis for himself because that is best time he can make decisions. you have some people around you and great experts, but if you don't see it for yourself, how are you well-equipped to decide was the next move should be operating from behind, why did this gets to the point of a crisis instead of something that could have been headed off as a

problem. helping the children, who is legislation that existed to prevent them from being the victim of sexual trafficking, so there are laws on the books to provide children with due process under the law in this country to make sure to address the concerns, so that needs to be taken care of, but this law is insufficient and went back to blaming president bush, but we are well-equipped, don't try to blame others because you are operating from behind, take ownership and show leadership. >> the trafficking laws that really were maybe presenting a problem but not a crisis now has grown this way. the present plans to meet with texas governor rick perry and the leaders that they are going to have while he is in texas, what do you think the president is going to here?

>> that it is an eminent threat. the border security is about national security, national defense. maybe homeland security should take care of it. >> you know what else popped today was this statistic for the first time in four years we are seeing an uptick in chinese nationals crossing the border illegally just in the last couple of weeks. >> that backs up what i said, it is an imminent threat. our borders must be secure. >> i want to drop the bombshell on behalf of democratic lawmakers because the katrina moment is what is being talked about, the congressman from texas, i wonder if he will stop by and see him while he is in texas, had this to say to our neil cavuto. >> i hope this doesn't become the katrina moment for president obama saying he doesn't need to come to the border. he should come down. at only governor perry, but i

know they invited him to come down and i certainly would ask him to come in even though i spoke to the ones behind, she should come down to the border to see exactly what is happeni happening. >> members of the party are asking to drive you to the border, why do you not take the free ride? >> you might not take the free ride if you would have to be yourself at the border, you welcome the children with open arms and say here you go, come on in. the president is behind the ball on this. i agree with him. >> he was saying this was a calculated decision. >> he says this is what i believe, we have to open the borders, we're going to test your empathy against your intentions and make everybody deal with kind of sophie's choice. >> charles also went on to say

the president is disconnected from reality, now we have reportedly he is backing off the policy changes while at the same time he is asking for more money, over a billion dollars more money, $3 billion plus. republican congressman felt like he really laid it out clearly, an outrageous thing to these children, something has got to be done. what needs to happen is a strong stance needs to take place. this wavering need to take a strong stands over the cartel. >> that is you and i talk about, this wavering, we've seen it on foreign policy in general. dealing with our own national security. >> turn the buses around because you will save the patient. sometimes you have to do chemotherapy to say the patient. i would turn them around.

i might do that and spend the money on that, but i would turn them around and charge this against any age of the country. going to do a per capita charge for anybody, cross-border. and we don't guarantee where we return the children. if you want to let them go to another country without you, you don't have rental rights anymore so says the united states. >> want to see this play out. as he watched people in the streets protesting trying to keep their town from being the dumping point, if you will, of people they cannot afford, and you can believe that because so many cities across the country are settled with budgets trying to make ends meet. and then you have this rule if you're not for the children you must be against america. what do you think about that? >> that is something i feel, they are children, how do you just send them back?

we have to draw a line. >> how do you ever go to war knowing people will suffer because you have to do that to defend the greater good. >> for china this becomes a very attractive nuisance that other people are going to say they are really reluctant to close the borders to fix the situation, take the time to make the opportunity and send whatever we have over there. >> on this edition of when celebrities should just stop talking, equating media attention to rape. and how hollywood react to drug abuse versus getting fat. ugh. heartburn.

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soldier in war. and others comparing the red carpet to a war zone. kimberly, what is wrong with these people? >> i can so relate to these out of touch women. i'm going to talk to dr. keith ablow after the show. it is over the top, this is what i say to people who have these problems of editing the commen comments. think about what you're going to say a and then don't say it. >> i should be a little bit more respectful when i say we have these people because we have a hollywood actress on the panel. i don't want to categorize all actors or actresses. she would be a little bit more forgiving of them? they say things in the heat of the moment they don't really mean. >> i don't know if they mean it or not, but for kanye to say rape maybe he needs to spend some time on rector island and he will know what rape is.

i don't understand paparazzi are just doing their job. they are not understanding what the business is. >> i think it is disrespectful, think it shows the hollywood elite entering into fantasy again and again and again has lost touch with reality. i also think however if the paparazzi show too little of restraint i don't think everyone is a commercial product toe to head sibling because they because they are an artist or famous. i think it is out of control. i think that is a drug, people are feasting on these celebrities as if it is the news of the day. it has nothing to do with the news, it is irrelevant. >> it is blurred lines now.

>> i found if you are nice, if you are polite to them, they leave you alone. when you call them names and act crazy and put your hands up and do all this drama they make it a big deal. >> it's interesting because everybody says alec baldwin is asking for it and they come back for more. there is no explanation, no excuse kanye west comparing his troubles to someone of a rape victim. >> somewhat agree with the doctor though. i think the paparazzi are actually feeding into this. i think he needs a heavy dose of just a little bit of who are you? what have you done for society? to say they are that out of touch, come on. he and his wife just spent millions trying to attract the world attention.

charlie thrown goes into these commercials, she wants people to all go her from head to toe. she just win an academy award, she wants a new gig. they are desperate for attention in the paparazzi are falling for it. >> when you make a living taking unauthorized photos of another person when they didn't want you to. i think it is intrusive and annoying. >> it has been going on since hollywood was created. >> literally just back off, be respectful. >> every ever said anything to the paparazzi that you regretted? >> no. >> this would be the time. >> they are doing their job, the more polite i am, the more polite they are to me. >> i think that is true. if you are little courteous, polite, pose for a picture, that

is how they get paid, i find it. it has happened in the past, i don't know where i am now, but you have to treat them like human beings. you don't respect him or something, they will go after you. i have not justify what they do, in los angeles they are far worse. >> i am sure people watch this and say aren't you all part of the media? yes, we are, but you ask the operative question, when we are told to back off, we back off. >> it is not rape at all. >> speaking of hollywood, there seems to be a forgive and forget drug abuse thing. forgive and forget but not hitting on weight. that is another story. according to courtney love in a recent interview love said "i got a little chunky, but i have

been on a diet. they will forget the for all the drugs in the world but they will not forgive you for getting fa fat." she has struggled with drug addiction but has been sober for seven years. i think this is true because maybe the people in hollywood have experienced it, then experience addiction themselves, that is why they are little more understanding with an addiction. it is difficult to get over. putting the cupcake down is a little hard. >> she has been through hell, you are shaking your head. what do you think? >> her pain is one thing, but she is not sober. she is addicted to food now. >> so am i, but i'm quite sober.

>> this is a visual medium, so the reason people say she has gained weight, you can see it, people cannot the heroine in your veins, that happens to be the case. if she is now using food as a druggist, don't think the epidemic of diabetes in this nation is well served by that, i wouldn't want somebody drunk on tv either. and it is the same thing. why does fat get a pass? >> we are asking you, doctor. >> unless you can get fa fast fa roll and win an oscar. >> academy award winner. >> there is a gender difference, men get away in hollywood much easier. they can go out to the beach and everybody says he must be happy. >> i just saw "tammy," they love her.

>> can we put that back up? they look pretty good. >> i think it is a health hazard, and we are probably too forgiving of it, not forgiving enough. >> what about the people who have thyroid disease or something. >> get it treated. you look okay so far, but if you were to come in 150 pounds heavier, i would say what is going on? >> give me the lecture. >> i know i am going to get mail on this. thinking how did he get on the couch. didn't we all discussed if he would be invited back? >> you bring your own coach. we love you, are you kidding? sink your teeth into something else. the select committee to

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>> welcome back to outnumbered. the select committee to estimate the deadly terror attack in benghazi could end up costing you. and what they knew about the attack and talking points memo. the one that led to susan rice blaming the attack on a spontaneous protest sparked by a

video. four americans were killed in the assault including u.s. ambassador to libya christopher stephens. information officer sean smith. and cia operatives. you can see them there. 51% of americans support an additional investigation into the way the obama administration handled the incident. is this our taxpayers dollars well spent? >> this is a lot of money. it will be focus on hiring employees, digging to 25,000 documents, is this really what needs to happen, do we need to spend this kind of money to get the right answer, to get any answer from the administration to find out what happened? this is upsetting and it will not go over well with the american public and the taxpaying public. >> but this administration forces us to spend hard-working dollars of american taxpayers

that they could just comply with instead of having us dance around the carousel every time to try to get some information. >> absolutely. so it is tragic this tool could not be one-tenth the price because of people were more forthcoming the price would be less expensive. however, trying to sure up our system of government and hold people accountable is nothing. this costs $33 million, we have to go forward because if we have a liar as secretary of state at that time, it is worth 33 million for the untruthfulness and to proceed toward the light and said of the. >> it is important, four americans died. i want to know why. i want to know who lied to cover it up and for what reason. >> the longer the term goes on, the regular the price tag will be. 3.3 million now, let's pay it

and find out what wil happened. we are asking for $3.7 billion that wasn't a crisis, this was clearly an attack on americans abroad and has damaged our ability in terms of intelligence gathering in that part of the world. they targeted and ambassador, for goodness sake. i think we are in it now, we have to know what happened. >> we have to get to the bottom of it. congress has not been doing a very good job,'s maybe families of the departed have to file a lawsuit, maybe that will work. >> let me give you a follow-up question here. the campaign promised transparency to the american people, why all the hiding, why can't they come forward and tell the truth since this is what

they promised us, this is what they ran on. >> i don't know they know how. it seems they do not know how to tell the truth to give a straight answer. it is never a straight answer. >> if people feel they are the parents of young children, they decide how much their five-year-old can hear, the way the administration sees the american people. we are not capable of handling the truth. what do you think? >> the truth is out there, we just have not heard the truth, the administration's answer to this is going to be we have provided the truth, we have complied, everything that is out there is out there. what i am concerned about is there is going to be even more money spent because they won't comply with the investigation because we won't get the answers we need.

you're talking with the money being spent this year, this is likely to go into next year and talk about more taxpayer dolla dollars. >> we cannot even tell what the coke bottle lenses were four. what difference was at making it was a movie or not. we can't get a simple answer on that. >> maybe there was a change of deficiency. if i wore glasses, he gets into the future with those. >> say something outrageous like who cares what the truth is go. i value my expertise is so

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ushering somebody through adolescence and the teenage years is very stressful. the key is knowing if you love your child, if you show your child unconditional love, that will see them through many bumps and bruises and skinned knees of many metaphorical varieties. you can't do it perfectly, kids will mess up and they will be okay. >> and you expect that, but they will come back is what you are saying. >> my business is helping people unsure if they were ever unconditionally loved. generally people convinced they were by one person, they don't end up in my office as much. >> we have to go single moms on our couch. >> at one point i was a single mom of a teenager. i'm about to be a single mom of a teenager again.

>> was it stressful? >> of course, but love unconditionally and they are going to mess up but if you love them unconditionally, you get through it. i just quoted winston churchill saying if you feel like you are going through hell, keep going. >> if we went around the round coaches and what was most stressful event you lived through in your life, it probably wouldn't have been child rearing unless you had god for bid encountered illness in a child. there are other things that register higher on the richter scale. you could almost bring it to mind. the other thing is we tend not to do that because we think somehow it will be offputting to others to say the things we found ourselves almost unable to do, that is what really brings us together. if we were to do it now, we

would be bonded forever. >> i have experienced it as a child, i lost my mother when i was 10. i felt so love for my father who raised me, so much love for my mom, i feel so happy about the parenting and the love and the support i was given, and i still feel it today even though they are not here. i tried to do that for my little boy and let him know sometimes things are tough and kids get insecure, they are very self-aware. if you give them the love like it is no problem, i'm still here for you know matter what. >> and we still have the teenage years ahead of you we will have to wait a few years. one state flooded by an overflowing mississippi river.

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>> okay, i may be outnumbered but my turn with this story, sit back and enjoy. the phrase fast in your seatbelts, has never been as sexy as this, at least for some on air new zealand has a video asterisk "sports illustrated" swimsuit models may have been polled due to backlash with complaints it is a sexist. the models demonstrate the dos and don'ts of in-flight safety. take a look. >> poll on the thread tag. but only do so once you have exited the aircraft. >> if you need to inflate it

more, blow into the mouthpiece. >> thousands signed an online petition that read in part this video completely disregards passengers who find it offensive for religious reasons with odd image struggles, parents concerned of the children's impressionable nature and who believe women deserve more respect and have teenage daughters who deserve more respect too. the airline says that he was pulled just because it had completed its run. that is what they say. what do you think, kimberly? >> i would watch this video for free. people want to fly, get on boa board, i would feed them a lot of snacks. >> i'm trying to be really honest with this because i think it is honest, you need people to look up and nobody looks up at the screen.

what i think would have been more strategic is to put them in high neck turtlenecks and nice pants, to have them look beautiful to do exactly what they do now. >> they know obviously they have people watching a safety video. >> i like to see them with maybe guys on the beach. fair and balanced nature to it. >> you can't turn this video off, is that a problem? you must watch. i don't wants to be in politics, but she is inflating the thing. >> you are not thinking it right

away. >> i was. my daughter is thinking it. >> it is the same thing. they go like this. >> they are not in a bikini or "sports illustrated" model be at >> you cannot blame what a woman is wearing. >> before this safety video nobody knew how to inflate their device. >> i pay to fly, not to be excited. >> so you walk into a coffee shop and somebody does something with their straw, circling it around. >> nobody does that, can you imagine you going to starbucks and the girls are taught to blow into the straw seductively? >> now i know why you are going to a counselor. >> why don't you want to be

excited next to your wife on the plane? >> in the privacy of your bedroom, but i think it is out of place and not appropriate. >> that was christie brinkley. >> she is smoking hot. >> great point because there was something there for everybody. >> i want it. >> i will say something in politics, it is cognitively dissonant to say that you want women to be equal and taken seriously at all times but that this is the video that will be on the airline. >> you just want to use big words. i can use them also. >> you're going to sell sex.

>> i can't they stay in formative? >> because it asks too much of this listener and viewer. you want to be left alone. i don't want to be, i don't provoke at every turn. what of the decided they're going to hand out pretzels and slide the hand along the pretzel? >> about 1:30 p.m. eastern. >> "outnumbered" overtime. >> take a look at the new age limits on fashion. and after this show, grab your computer, 1:00 eastern time,

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prepared to strip down and bare all. >> that's not true. >> just kidding, not kidding. we're staying here for our web show. see you there in a few seconds, and we'll see you right back here tomorrow. and right now, breaking news this hour, the obama administration asking for $4 billion to deal with the immigration crisis on our southern border with facilities housing thousands of children filled to capacity. the latest on that today. and israel launching a massive assault. this is after using the iron domed defense system. a yankee fan not so happy with his visit to yankee stadium. the nap that led to a $10 million lawsuit. moments ago we brought you the exclusive news here on "happening now" t