on their website. it has personal details along with their pictures, stories and remembrances of those individuals that helped bring them alive. >> really put a face to a name and makes it more real for someone that might come to the wall and have that emotional impact of visiting the wall and seeing all the names, adding the faces, adds another layer of depth and understanding for that person's service and sacrifice. >> the group has collected more than 50,000 pictures for the names on the wall. there's still thousands missing and they're asking the public to help collect those last few but looking up the names on their websites, to see who does not have a picture in submitting them online to help remember their sacrifice. molly? >> molly: garrett, what is it like there right now at the memorial? it's a stark and significant, well-known memorial. a lot of people coming by today?

>> molly, there's a line wrapping down around the memorial here where people are waiting for the chance to come in, to be able to see the momentums that are laid along the wall here. that have been left to honor those that have sacrificed. this an, there will be a memorial service as there is every year here to remember the more than 50,000 americans that sacrificed their lives in vietnam. >> molly: garrett tenney standing on hallowed group in washington. thank you. >> leland: as we're watching the president at arlington there, molly, you get the sense that he feels very much at home among the generals, among the troops a he would say. we saw him on his trip in italy, his final stop. there was a comfort that he found there. it's worth noting a little bit about what you're not seeing at arlington right there. it is about memorial day, a little something that garrett

tenney talked about. memorial day decoration days. wives would show up against the tombs and decorate them. now all over arlington, that tradition of decorating the graves with mow -- momentos and poems and good-byes is coming back. >> molly: the chair of the joint chief of staff, general dunford, talked about the need to do more than put flowers and flags on the graves of the fallen across the country. he called on people to serve in their communities in their honor, to make memorial day about service to the country in honor of those that have given so much. >> well, there's a lot for us all to think about. we'll be back here in an hour with more news on this memorial day. right now we join "outnumbered" already in progress saying

good-bye from arlington. >> it's apparent what's going on here. all they're doing is they're worried about being a knowing and winning. somehow lost in the middle of all of that is a message for disaffected voters and how their lives can be made better if they latch on to the democratic platform and some of the candidates. why not talk about candidates that have ideas? it's a pretty shallow pond. bernie is right. if all they're doing is crying impeachment at every turn and that's their form of resistance, it's going to be a losing strategy. i think if there's anything in the 2016 election, you have to have ideas and have to have solutions and make good open them. >> and you have to have a message. that was the problem for hillary clinton. there's still no message. if your message is impeachment, resist, that won't win elections. that wouldn't bring the people

out to vote what are you going to do for them? they're having a hard time coming up with that. tom press isn't getting that message out. >> no! that doesn't get you elected. no doesn't get anyone elected. >> i like that. >> there's nothing in there about what you should vote for instead and they have to -- that's where the problem comes in, where does the party turn. do they turn to someone more moderate. that is always the case when you talk about democrats and republicans. do you go moderate or appeal to people that have knowledge and feel cheated. i don't know how you get the two sides together to get behind one person. that was the problem in the first place. still the problem even with resistance. >> there's a fight for this progressive soul in the democratic party. they have their ideas conference and left bernie sanders off the

stage. they invited new progressives -- not really new. sort of warmed over curdled milk with elizabeth warren and corey booker. but they're trying very hard to have a coup on the progressive side and push bernie out. but he's the only one that gets people excited and mobilized. >> he's a dinosaur. he's pushing 80. but they have a message it's just not that it doesn't sell. open borders, trans-gender bathrooms. that won't get the obama voters back. they have a message. they have to conceal it because it's a dis tasteful message that matters. >> and their new movement is just resisting blood. >> there were a people running for the head of the dnc. a gentleman, from local ohio. forgot his name. >> tim ryan? >> tim ryan is one of them.

i bring this person up because he was referenced to me as a democratic friend of mine, been in democratic politics and wants to see a wave of the future. talked to him about the bernie sanders progressives. this is not what we want for the future, it's not going to win over the voters that president trump has won over, switched over. it's going to be interesting to see if they go full radical socialist or meet in the middle going forward. >> scary that's the best decision that has to be made. >> this topic isn't going to go away. despite recent controversies for the white house, president trump's campaign, committee announcing what they call a record one day fund-raising hall since the election. the committee says along with their joint fund-raising committee raised $314 on may 17th. the campaign saying "the american people sent president trump to washington not to get along with the establishment but

to repair the damage done to our economy and our prestige around the world by policies and practices. this is why he continues to fight for the people and they continue to support him stronger than ever before. when it comes to next year's mid-terms, the rnc announcing four straight months of record fund raising to start the year. a total of $46 minute, double what it raised in 2015." so no enthusiasm problem. >> the base loves him. i love him. fights back and punches hard. we love that. he's been successful. the wall is not up yet. but everything else that he does, the anniversary seas trip was a success. he's try with the travel ban that everybody still supports, looking more and more like a great idea at this point. yeah, the base is still there. what is the alternative anyway? i'm very happy as a typical base guy, very happy -- >> something else you left out.

the economy. >> that's right. >> so many are judging him based on his improvement of the u.s. economy. we look at a dow that is still around 12,000, record highs. the unemployment records that have come out. showing unemployment is dropping, a lot of positive signs that what he's doing and policies he's implements are good for the policy. he's being judged on that. >> it's interesting. if you look at this as like so once again, the polls are wrong. the polls come out and every day you see a new poll and president trump is less popular with the people that voted for him than ever before. what really counts? all of a sudden he raises this money. it's just like before the election. you think he's going to get hammered and what comes through. how you vote. he won. people are still not comfortable saying it out loud that they support what he's doing because you still get villified in possible but in ways that count,

they're supporting him. this reminds me of the polls before the election. >> i don't know. fund-raising doesn't mean as much as it used to. hillary clinton proved that in 2016. even though republicans are raising money, they still have a lot to prove where it counts most. that's not only with the economy but with tax reform. this party has to figure out its identity and heal some of those chasms. so all the sides in the republican can figure out how to make the economy work. that's through not only tax cuts and reducing the brackets, but real honest to goodness tax reform that's been decades in the waiting. if they can do that, really get the economy going, that is a lot more effective. >> and corporate tax -- >> and we love that -- to me anyway, he hogs off all the people that we dislike. we like that. like that a lot.

>> i don't want to say that here. >> the committee is right. we shouldn't get comfortable. there's a historical presence that you lose seats in the house. every modern president after bush after 911, this happens for us. don't just estimate them. is it enough to win the white house in 2020? i don't know. i agree with you following the money sets another historical precedence. >> and coming off of his first foreign trip that is being billed as a huge success, that will probably place him with some much-needed momentum back in washington for the president. >> and people hate the media. the media is out to get him. people hate that and see that. dig in. they dig in big time. donald trump -- president trump can cure cancer and the headline the next day will be and the cn putting doctors out of business. [laughter]

they know that and they hate the media. almost doesn't matter what he doesn't doesn't do. he's doing everything right from what i can see. but they just like the fact that he's angering the right people. >> and a deeply dedicated base as you're a great example of who will give him a lot of leeway and time to get his agenda through. some of the people on the left underestimate how strong of a following he has and how committed they are. because they're reacting to every controversy doesn't mean his -- >> viciously attacks cancer unfairly. i love it. that would be the headline. >> college commencements are pretty much wrapped up, one thing we didn't hear much about, politics and the president. what higher institutions of learning are afraid of. and the 2020 field coming into focus. the familiar face leading the matchup against president trump and what that means for the

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>> we're just four months in the presidency. a new poll shows that former v.p. joe biden with the biggest edge in a hypothetical matchup against president trump with a 14-point lead. in a private speech, biden said he could run in 2020 but probably wouldn't. other democrats being floated were at a conference held by the liberal think tank center for american progress. they laid it on thick when it came to bashing the president. here's senator elizabeth warren. >> now is the time to remind him, our intelligence secrets are not gossip. now is the time to remind him that in this country, no one is

above the law, including the president of the united states. it is time to resist. it is time to fight back. >> there you have it. some also looking to new jersey senator corey booker to step up as party leader. >> i'm upset about donald trump. i'm watched over the last 100-plus days a guy that literally tells his supporters one thing and then gets into the white house and does things that are 100% contrary to what he said and what he promised. it's astonishing to me how someone can speak out of both sides of their mouth -- >> all right. i feel bernie like i need to ask you, is this the right strategy? based on the conversation we had to start the show off, is that going to win election? >> you mean being histrionic?

cory booker comes off as a drama queen right there and not a very good one. he won't win an emmy for that. no, it's not. elizabeth warren, i maintain that helped get truck elected when she campaigned for hillary clinton and yelling at the voters. let's not forget she's a proven liar about her ethnicity when she got her job at harvard. remember that. if they want to put her up as the front person for the democratic party, god bless. go ahead. and cory booker takes more money from want street than the senate. he's a sell-out and a phone any. >> and kennedy, what did you make of elizabeth warren's words and how she said them? she brought out her finger at one point. >> it's very entertaining. these a condescending politics. this faction of the democratic party, of the status, they are

the most controlling and these one of those people -- obviously a very smart person. there's times when she's very good articulating her beliefs. the unfortunate thing is when people like that get into power, they don't trust you. they see everyone else being beneath them. they're intellectual inferior. they have to tell you how to run your life. whether that is healthcare or the economy, it's a very, very overbearing and overwrought form of government. i mean that in a good way. >> totally good way. take away the ideology and the fact that she's a complete and total radical. she's dangerous for this country. i thought that about president obama as well. when he spoke, he had a charm and a way he gave speeches that made people feel comfort ed and inspired. she doesn't have this. before my twitter explodes, she's hysterical, overly

emotional and saying things in the way that you said, is condescending to the average voter. i know better than you. i'm a harvard professor. i live in massachusetts. i'm going to tell you how to list your live and tell you how it's done. at certain point, you have to become a real politician as well. i'd like to see here in the iowa state fair and talk to and iowan. i would pay tons of money to see that happen. it's going to be a disaster. some of them liberals will have to talk to the heartland and i don't see how it works. >> the end of the day, it comes back to the economy and everybody's wallet. that is what determines the election. we saw this last time around. it was that you can't trick people into what is going on in their own bank account and their lives, whether they believe their kids will have a better future, can find a job if things have gotten better or worse over the past four/eight years. it's in the president's control

to force through the things that he said he would do like tax reform. all of these things to make people's lives financially better and on his shoulders. >> talk to me about joe biden. is that a reality? >> he's like a unicorn fantasy of running for president and saving the party. the same kind of democrats that don't like elizabeth warren, that he would beat. trump -- >> he matches up the best in a hypothetical race against trump. >> he's still to a status -- he's still too old, still associated with an administration past that led to the rise of president trump. >> he's very likeable. but we dig in and he has to explaining things, his numbers will come way down. he's getting up there. way too old. and elizabeth warren is a radical from harvard. we know what happens on campus.

academia with the boycott, israel, the anti-free speech. i wouldn't be surprise if she has -- >> and we have to leave it there. happy memorial day, everyone! the president promising to get illegal immigration under control. arrests up 150% among a certain group and sparking controversy. we'll debate on the couch next. o it's our little differences, that can make a world of difference. expedia, everything in one place, so you can travel the world better.

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>> well, hello. welcome back. candidate trump and president trump vowing to get illegal immigration under control. stats show that a 40% uptake in immigration-related arrests. the president softened his tone somewhat saying the focus would be on deporting those that

committed violent crimes. the biggest spike in the latest numbers are arrests of nonviolent illegals. that's up 150%. critics say resources should focus on dangerous illegals. immigrations and customs saying in a statement, as secretary kelly made clear, isis will not make categories. all of those in violation of the immigration laws will be subject to arrest and if found removable by final order, removal from the united states. so bernie, this is obviously a big shift in policy. in places like colorado and utah where unemployment is so, so low, they're having a hard time filling jobs in growing businesses. >> that will make wages go up, i think, for legal americans, i believe. i'm not a economic major in college. you ladies are.

but i will say this, nonviolent crimes also includes pedophilia, being members of gangs, being a member of a violent gang. stuff like that. i'm sure they're focusing on people that have criminal-related conduct. the l.a. times, trump's orders instruct federal agents to say those convicted of crimes but those to have committed acts of a criminal offense. so that's what their focus is. it's not to get the nice people that want to w. hard, make money and be here for years. it's to get these people. >> you know, in arizona, you deal and meet a lot of people whose families have been here for generations. what do they have to say about this sort of enforcement of immigration laws? >> the first thing i want to say, the number of 40%. we're living in trump's america, this is the cornerstone of his campaign promise when he ran for president. nobody should be surprised by

the fact that there's an uptick in arrests. most rationale americans want there to be a focus on gang members, people that have committed serious crimes, drug . that should be the fire priority in deportations. hard line immigration, that and the economy is what won president trump the white house. this is an emotional issue. it's an issue that i have never seen more protesting, more polarization over this. whether or not you agree with it or not, obviously he's at least keeping up with what he promised. >> and coming off the terrorist attack in manchester, you wonder if the president will see more support behind these things that have been so criticized. whether it's the ban, the wall, whether he will pick up more momentum there. >> so what about a labor shortage and prohibition? when you make something illegal, it forces people into criminal activity. maybe this is a good time to

talk about our immigration laws so more people aren't encouraged to break the law and get into the country illegally. >> it's absolutely true. if you really enforce e-verify and made people who are hiring people verify that they're hiri hiring people that are hear legally, it would make it a financial disincentive to keep doing that. as long as there's jobs luring people here quickly, it will continue. there's a lot -- it's not that we don't want people to come to this country. the more people you have, the more people consume, the more labor there is, the more economy grows. that's good stuff. we have to know who is coming in. >> and the more immigration you have to fill the jobs which businesses can find enough

bodies. >> and can't have open borders. rather than looking at this idea, you can't have people coming for free services that taxpayers that are paying for. it's not right and doesn't help anyone here. >> very well-side. >> let's end the show now! >> i love it. >> college graduation speakers admit to steering clear of president trump and politics in general in commencement addresses. is that a smart move or reveals a bigger problem with talking politics on college campuses? we will debate and discuss. ign®s are made with smarttrack® material to precisely move your teeth to your best smile. see how invisalign® treatment can shape your smile up to 50% faster today at invisalign.com as after a dvt blood clot,ital i sure had a lot to think about. what about the people i care about? ...including this little girl. and what if this happened again? i was given warfarin in the hospital,

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commencement speech that is put on the an editorial page doesn't understand the job." notre dame broke its tradition of inviting newly inaugurated presidents after a student faculty demanded that president trump not asked. when haven't spence spoke instead, some students walked out. i don't know about that. i'll ask you. i do like the idea the commencement speakers steering away from politics. it's not about politics. it's supposed to be a day of celebration, of growth. >> very few of these people will go into politics and even fewer will become president. now we're getting past commencement season, it's so exhausting. so many conservative speakers are disinvited from these events. on so many campuses, there has

to be political fatigue from all of the upraising and all of the rest and all of the student protests and the safe spaces and all of the social justice advocates. places like the university of arizona and my alma mater, ucla. so maybe commencement speakers need to hand out graham crackers. >> my commencement speaker, when i graduated from columbia, was matthew foxx, the actor from the show "lost." a handsome man. he was protested. there was complaints and -- they didn't think he was basically up to the caliber of being a commencement speaker. it stuck with me a long time. i remember thinking -- i was in college ten years ago. his speak was -- i'm not going

to apologize for being a person that is a part of pop culture. he basically said that it's okay to have different speakers giving their perspective. but matthew foxx gets you riled up, i just don't know who -- no disrespect, but he's not a political person. >> could i take the other side? maybe it's good to leave politics out. i attended a commencement ceremony over the weekend, my niece. congratulations. i thought it was beautiful. the discussions about the economy and where the students are going. they highlighted the places these kids have been and where they're going. maybe it's an opportunity. >> but matthew foxx is not political. people were still angry and protesting -- >> should absolutely be inspirational. >> that's the point. >> you can't polarize people. it's not fair. i gave a commencement addressed

a rikers island. i said you can be me one day. i was here, i was there. but have to stay away from the politics. i'm sure mike pence gave an inspirational address. he didn't say listen, we're going to cut -- we're going to -- he gave an inspirational speech. he was mike pence and the snowflakes couldn't handle who he was. >> i'm bummed that's how people remembered my commencement, people walking out. you want to remember what the speaker had to say. what the day meant to you. >> i want to remember my parents in the audience thinking how proud they were of me. >> i was 38 week pregnant. >> so you were all -- >> there's no one good enough unless you're elizabeth warren or bernie sanders. >> we all do a lot of speaking. the point of like that big keynote speaker, they're supposed to come out and inspire you to think about your life and

to reach for higher goals. in general, you know, you put somebody out there that has overcome great obstacles and talk about their lives, how they did it and they can inspire others to reach for the stars. we just don't have enough of those people. >> you know who had the best speech? john waters. he put it's in a grade book. >> college freshman appear to be more politically polarized than ever before. 42% characterize their views as middle of the road. the lowest share ever recorded. they polled more than 100 first-time full time students that started at nearly 200 u.s. colleges in the fall of 2016. more than 35% said they were liberal or far left. just over 22% said they were conservative or far right. last year's heated presidential election has said to play a role in the polarization. 46% said keeping up with political affairs is important

or essential to them. kennedy, this is a topic i want to talk about. maxine waters presented awards at the mtv awards. a resistance awards or something. a lot of influence to the youth of america. when we see the statistics, college freshmen thinking they're far left or liberal, isn't it an argument that we are radicalizing the youth of america? >> it's a pure indoctrination process. that's why i'm a believer to get a job, figure out what you want to do before you go to college and subject yourself to that. not only is there no academic or intellectual free market, there's no economic free market in college what surprised me with 22% of incoming freshman consider themselves to be

conservative. >> that what stuck out to me. wow, 22%? amazing. i didn't think any young people identified as conservative or far right. i thought that wfwas staggering. >> like the trump polls before the election, a lot of kids that are afraid to say that they're conservative. the number is probably higher it's polarizing. my daughter's graduation a couple weeks ago, the kids are not all snowflakes. there's some kids that have a mind of their own and you know, they go along with these radical professors and they say what they -- say what they think they want to hear but they don't believe it. there's people at my daughter's graduation that got to thank their parents and somebody else. they were thanking my parents and president trump. there were several of those at the graduation. they had to make that announcement much to the

morification of the people in the audience. >> and one thing left out of this survey. "i don't know." how many just don't know their views or which party they align with more? you're extremely vulnerable at that age to what your professors are saying and media. everybody is online, on facebook. >> and you have people standing in front of you that you look up to saying everything you know is wrong, your parents are wrong. that's what a lot -- >> and they're still oblivious to the fact that some kids might not agree with them. actually be rolling tape or going home and saying, listen, this nutty professor is telling me this. other oblivious that kids are thinking that. >> so true. i was in manhattan. someone came to me and said i know you. she said you're on fox. she was a freshman in college in new york city and basically

totally undercover. she said nobody knows that i'm conservative. i don't approve of the social welfare stated. our professors tell us these things. i pretend to go with it, but i watch you guys every day. it's sad, isn't it? >> my niece wrote a paper in oregon they're talking about free community college. she said it's not a great idea because it takes away from four-year colleges. her professor made her go home and rewrite it. he didn't like it. perhaps there might be a market -- >> and she said what? >> i'm not going to -- i can't remember. i was so mad about that part of it that i actually -- >> call kennedy. >> yeah. grade it. >> and kennedy is going to come to class and tell them about the welfare state. a new survey shows many couples

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>> forget about money or family disputes. i may be politics that is driving many couples apart these days. a new study finds that disagreements over president trump are starting to have a major impact in people's romantic lives. one in ten couples report splitting up over argues over president trump. 42% of millennials say they have argued with their partner. 33% say arguments over the president have negatively impacted their relationship. i don't know where to begin with this.

>> start with bernie. >> do you argue with your wife about politics? >> on occasion. the first time i voted was for ronald reagan in 1980. i had a liberal family. she almost broke up with me. this is not anything brand new. trump is more polarizing. >> i asked about your wife and your girlfriend. hope she's not watching. >> i've been married 25 years. >> congratulations. >> a beautiful wife. no, we don't argue about politics. >> you speak so fondly of her. megan, your comments. >> i'm in a serious relationship with a very conservative man. i used to try to date liberals and independents for a long time and never worked. in my relationship, it's just my personal split where i'm at,

politics plays a important role how you view the world, how you raise children. i like being someone who is politically like-minded to me. >> i agree with that. if you care about politics, you're pretty invested. you have some very fundamental beliefs that align with your party. i don't know how you raise children with somebody that you disagree with the role of government in your life. freedom of religion. so many different things. i don't know how you would necessary -- it would be difficult if you disagreed and you try to agree on how to manage your money, how to raise your children. seems like it's tough. >> there's a couple of different religious affiliations that make it work. it's not hard -- >> look at carville and his wife. >> yeah, it can be super hot. think of the fights and makeup. >> i talk to my kids about

politics. they have so many arguments at school. it's not relationships that this president is divisive. a lot of kids in elementary school and middle school find out that people in high school and college find out, it's really fun to support the president just because it makes people so mad. >> let me tell you something. hopefully you're not in a marriage, but if you're in a relationship and you're breaking up over arguments over president trump, good you find out then. you have more obstacles in your life. children, money -- >> hello. >> the makeup conversation can be very good. >> goodness. bernie, that joke was made. >> was it? >> where were you, buddy? >> i don't know. republicans have better values. i think it's fun. >> they're more fun. >> when couples are not arguing over president trump, they may, well, be going at it over money. all right. a survey from bankrate.com

reveals 22 millions americans keep their bank account separates from their spouse or partner. 42% of all americans admit knowing someone's credit score would have an impact on dating them. the majority of people say you should wait until you've been dating for a few months or are engaged. megan, i think -- i want to know your thoughts. >> i knew you would ask me first. >> you're talking about delving into someone's score and bank account. that is personal and you should be engaged or you know, at least in a serious -- not married, obviously. but i don't know. that's a very personal conversation. if someone has bad credit, it could affect you long time. for me, it's not a deal breaker. >> i think it's funny, getting hot and heavy in the back of the

fiat. whispering, what is your credit score? >> about what does everybody think about the shared bank accounts? >> it's interesting that couples that do both things, you have to do what works for you. you never know what works for another couple what is going on in their marriage, right? you guys are silent and looking at me -- >> bernie is here. >> i think it's funny for people getting hot and heavy in the back of a fiat. >> it's a small car. >> you don't want to be engaged to a dead beat and then has health -- >> what do you think about married people having bank accounts that are co-mingled, everything is co-mingled or separate? >> if you had -- i know someone who is in a serious relationship. just found out. her partner has extreme student loan debt.

freaked them out about possibly buying a home. if you have -- i had to talk to her about it quite a few times. i think if you have extreme debt of any kind, that's something that you should reveal to your partner. >> and you're saying after marriage, that's what this is about. if you co-mingle finances or oh. >> co-mingle, co mingle. you have to have the trust. you have to. other-wise, don't get married. you're one entity when you're married. you're a family. >> and a lot has changed it was two income families, two incomes coming into the household. changed this dynamic a lot in the recent decades. >> and -- >> i'm letting you know that that historically we're looking at -- >> sandra doesn't -- >> for gosh sake i'm not talking about my partial situation. that's for kennedy. >> my mom's generation says always have your own money and always have separate accounts. you can have a joint account but

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