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war veteran who served two tours in the middle east. rob, they get for your service and for joining us today. >> rob: thank you, always. >> emily: turning to our top story, the balance of power in washington, the senate down to the wire with receipts and play in georgia at a runoff with the vote counting in the arizona end about a. we may not know those results out west until the middle of next week. over in the house republicans are edging close to that magic number of 218 for a majority. they are confident they will get there, but it is still not a done deal. president biden believes democrats still have a path to keeping the in their corner. >> president biden: you know, it is still alive. it is still alive. like drawing an inside straight, still alive. >> emily: meanwhile on wednesday he claimed he is ready to work with the g.o.p. >> president biden: regardless there still some counting going on. i am prepared to work in my repwith myrepublican colleagues.

they made clear i think that they should be clear to be work with me as well. >> emily: does he really want to bury the hatchet? after all he said this at the same news conference. >> president biden: i will not support any republican and don't proposal it will make inflation worse. and to take on the climate crisis they are not cover my civil issues to me and i will not let it happen. under no circumstances will i support the proposal put forward by senator johnson and from down in florida. to cut or make fundamental changes in social security/medicare. that is not on the table. i will not do that. i will veto any attempt at passing a national ban on abortion, i will ban assault weapons and cry like the devil. >> emily: i have a lot of whiplash there from that president going back and forth. >> rob: its back and forth and really funny because you watch that clip of him and he is very statesmanlike, i will work with

republicans, we will all work together but you can't trust that to the speeches he has given the last couple of months with the super-duper mega mario brother republicans, the maga republicans and how they will destroy america. i don't know how they will put the evil joe biden, the one who demonizes maga republicans that's a real joe biden and that's what a g.o.p. controlled congress will be dealing with. >> emily: what you think the voters think as the voters went to the polls have whiplash as well is what actions speak louder than words because he wasn't committed to unification over the last few years. >> carley: at the great question and i understand why the president is feeling competent right now because of the way the results panned out but i thought it was interesting during the press conference one of the reporters asked him 75% of the country feel we are going in the wrong direction. is there anything you're going to change and he said he is not changing anything and people

will soon realize all the good he has done which hasn't kicked in yet. that's like a guy saying he will will, she will let me one day. >> she just doesn't know it yet. >> carley: and the cnbc study, 73% of people who are going to get student loan relief plan to use the money on travel and dining out. >> emily: what a shocker. >> carley: that is people who decided to skip degree or paying off their loans paying for other people's dinners and vacations and by the way, that money will increase inflation. over all when it comes to midterm election results i was talking to one pollster, republican pollster and she said republicans are in the best possible place because if republicans did get a lot of seats and we had a large majority in the senate and the house, it would be gridlock and republicans could get played for that. now we are not.

a cynical positive spin on things but that's one perspective i would like to bring to the table today. >> emily: i love that and i would like to get your thoughts as well, laura, which is an interesting sort of notion on voter turnout and where democrats should focus our efforts here he argues essentially that they should focus on states like mississippi, not florida, take a watch. >> it is not bad mississippi. i think there's not as many electoral votes but i think democrats might be better off looking at mississippi then florida. i don't know that, i'm just riffing off the top of my head. but it has been very frust frustrating. >> emily: i would say that since louisiana's 33.% blackwater population he said it might bode well for the democratic party. or putting that into old box but it's an interesting notion because louisiana and

mississippi have 13 electoral votes compared to florida's 29 but has this put democrats back on his little bit as they attempt to go down the ramp the next two years? >> lara: now that we are, gosh we are not officially done with midterms, still waiting if you can believe it, america, for all of these vote counts to come out. now that we are coming from the midterms everyone is talking about 2024 of course and a presidential election. that magic number is 270 electoral votes. florida has 29 as he mentioned, i don't think he is wrong. i think florida is a solid red state. i live in florida and i did what so many people, especially in new york, did. we moved to florida. if you look simply at the margin by which lee zeldin lost the governor's race here in the margin that ron desantis won over what he had in 2018, you see it was less then 300,000 votes by which lee zeldin lost here. and it was around 500,000 more

votes for ron desantis in 2022 versus 2018. those people move from new york to florida. arguably lee zeldin could be the governor right now of new york if those people had stayed here but i think it tells you what people wanted when they moved to florida. they wanted the policies of republicans, that is a state that they are not seeing is a swing state as we head toward the presidential election in 2024. they may say why do we even waste our time looking at florida and bothering down here whenever maybe they are going to see if they can pick up a few seats or numbers. from mississippi or louisiana or somewhere else. >> emily: cara, your thoughts? >> kara: i think it's interesting that republicans are on track to win the popular vote, one was a lesson we heard that? we talk about the electoral college and what not. that is a repudiation of what the democrats have brought forward, right? republicans worry want ron desantis, j.d. vance, these are bold policy

affirmative agendas. republicans need to be for something. that's where we were the most successful. we can't be against with the democrats are doing, that is huge, we need oversight when we finally take the house but at the same time republicans we can govern and i think america understands good governance is republican and conservative governance appeared i'm happy about that. >> emily: me too, my dear. world leaders are in egypt for conference on climate change and critics are calling them hypocrites because of how they got there, that is next. ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ no upfront costs for appraisal or termite inspections. no upfront costs at all to get the cash you need. veterans get more at newday. i brought in ensure max protein with 30 grams of protein. those who tried me felt more energy in just two weeks.

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permanently ban the emissions curve every nation has to step up. we are racing forward to do our part to avert the climate hell. >> emily: out with every remark on climate change for the climate conference but critics are crying hypocrisy after more than 400 private jets flew in for that climate conference. it comes as climate activists have been ramping up protests around the world. last week and protesters on bicycles blocked runways at an airport in amsterdam to process them i protest greenhouse gas emissions caused by a travel. we are seeing those protests all over the place. emily, 400 private jets to fight climate change there on a mission. >> emily: and they are old leading by example, right? those are the leaders we want totally ironclad. i find it so ironic do so sorely disappointing and this is on the heels member of the u.n. general assembly that happens here in new york where even the leader of the u.n. anthony core

terrace said yo, turn down the temperature. this entire city was clogged with cars fuming the ozone and everything they complained about. queen elizabeth ii's funeral remember buses were good enough for everyone biden who insisted on taking his private jet. notwithstanding security issues, i think for a party that is so beholding of taxes that is her favorite thing in life is taxing us, taking our money, why don't they put their money where their mouth is and demand higher taxes from people who fly private and ban those short-haul flights and everything they say is contributing to our imminent death? >> lara: and this is a big area where t the biden and trump at administration stiffer. not just the climate change versus energy independence which is huge, but also these global conferences. nothing gets done. their look at me events in the trump administration really didn't want to have anything to do with that. >> that's right because of what you just said, carly, they don't accomplish anything. if nothing else they are

contributing to all of the greenhouse gases these people themselves are complaining about. it is sort of like whenever celebrities are like you should donate to this great cause yet they actually themselves have never donated to the cause. that's the vibe i get from groups like this and whatever they have these conferences. my father-in-law was very strong on let's do what makes sense. that's why unless you're talking about china and india who make up 35% of the greenhouse gases that are admitted into our atmosphere every year, we are not talking about anything. why are the rest of us being forced into electric vehicles by joe biden and the democrats and going out of our way for all of this whenever these people are just letting the pollution run? it makes no sense. >> lara brought it up and you were nodding your head. >> kara: the hypocrites don't care, john carries like i can fly private because i'm not important and you and your commercials, you cannot do that

at all. when it comes to joe biden saying okay, climate change is an existential threat, let's replace climate change with the chinese communist party is an x essential threat. you're giving them leveraged by actually saying climate change is critically important we know china is attacking us on all fronts, now they have a seat of the table when it comes to climate negotiations and justice lara said, they have the one of the topmost emitters. more emissions than the entire third world combined. it is hypocrisy all the way down. they don't care. >> emily: climate hypocrisy is your favorite stomach favorite hypocrisy. >> rob: lets could get to the basis of what this is all about. this is is all about the green new deal, right? that legislation is still out there, it still exists. all of this propaganda of them talking my climate change on their private jets is all about one day pushing that forward. and in the green new deal we have free college, universal

basic income, it is this wish list for the far left. when you look all these ridiculous conversations being had an all this hypocrisy, member the baseline is for them for this green new deal socialist legislation. >> carley: remember the president before the midterm election says he wants to shut down the coal industry. yeah. cole alone accounts for 22% of electricity in the country. imagine if he is successful in regulating it so much it shuts down, what people will do especially in the winter when there is no viable alternative. and the other thing is i will never forget when john kerry and they killed the keystone pipeline. he was talking about how it is a job opportunity situation. all of these people get jobs. where are those jobs? it is two lee years later, they are still not available. >> emily: right because they didn't account for that transition and they didn't acknowledge the immediate loss or gutting of all of those jobs. you were in the field, carly,

having those interviews with people who lost their jobs that they and interviewing their families though so poignant and powerful i wish the president and john kerry had watched your interviews because those are the voices that matter in that moment that don't have a source of income. and the other half of the equation as well in hypocrisy is what would john kerry do? we learned as well that pollution, the pollutant quotient of a private jet is 50 times that of a commercial airline. and so much more than a train. would john kerry himself uses private jets. >> carley: he used one to go to climate conference! >> emily: exactly. the hypocrisy is so gut wrenching. >> rob: guys, he is better than us that's what it's all about. >> 90% of it is from decaying leaves so we have to get rid of trees too. >> don't even put it out there. >> we love the trees. >> carley: coming up is

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♪ american soldier, i am an american soldier ♪ >> emily: as we honor and remember our veterans this veterans day former secretary of state mike pompeo sakamoto crisis chasing good men and women from the armed services. on up post, former army tank commander writes our military today is in crisis. so much so that veterans are speaking out. we ought to set politics aside and listen to them. they know what it takes for

america's military to be strong and capable and ensuring it remains so must be our utmost priority. it doesn't just make america less safe, it is a gross disservice to the men and women who served our country. they did not fight to see our armed forces become places of woke indoctrination. rob smith, what say you? >> rob: i think people need to realize that our military is for one reason it's not about climate change poles or pronouns which is a real thing earlier this week, we need to realize that. my fear is when we are dealing with woke indoctrination of the military right now is two fold. first of all we have very strong soldiers serving right now who do not feel comfortable serving in this environment so choosing not to continue paired i get dms from these soldiers all the time. two fold. the second is there is a weakening of physical standards

in the military. the physical fitness test i had to adhere to in the military these standards are weakening so not only are they weakening in, we are getting weaker recruits. so much so people actually have to go through physical training before they are physically fit enough to start basic training. these are all things that are happening as a result of this at ministrations policies. i hear from people that want to stick it out because they love this country so much but i also hear people who are opting out. and the third thing is they are having a recruitment problem as well. no disrespect to the brave men and women that are serving, but there are some issues that really need to be addressed with our military right now. >> emily: that's right. and the beautiful part of this op-ed, tara, was pompeo's resuscitation of his experience there. he talked about the first day he arrived he was an officer saluted by a sergeant in the sergeant said may give you advice to just listen for a little while. because of that in part secretary said he has also

launched a program so that you can hear the voices of these programs and he talked about so many anecdotes he has now received just like rob was saying, like a lot of my friends are saying where they are now experts and not offending others but not in shooting. there is this clear disconnect with what leadership is doing coming down the pike the loads of emails about diversity and inclusion and this meeting and that in the stark disconnect between that and what the actual rank and file is screaming for which is proper training and listening. >> kara: that's technically right, i am a navy wife, a military brat, my father was in the marine corps, happy birthday marines, hundred 47th birthday yesterday, i deployed three times a special ops units in afghanistan and i'm seeing a palpable shift here of people like you said, rob, they want us to get out but the proof is also in the putting. when you look at what the biden administration has done, the first thing secretary austin did was issue a stand down in the military and think about how we can talk about domestic extremism. what is extremism now but whatever the left doesn't like.

you put yves or max candy on the navy reading list instead of hans morgan found in lindau heart and all of these military historians sun tzu who should be learning from. when general milley basically says i want to investigate white rage, how about you investigate how to win wars? afghanistan that is weakness come we projected that to our alleys and enemies of the military needs to get back to basics and stop aligning ms aligning their priorities or save them for years now. >> emily: like you do with the dod is not confined to the military and what is so upsetting as well is pompeo writes about this the recruitment issue were talking about, rob, and the longevity of people who spent their careers at such a family sorts of honor and pride like yours and ours. they say we want to see our children away from it. one in particular was an letter a-10 pilot who wanted to steer his children away from the

footsteps that they are both veterans and didn't want to see them subjected to what it has now become. >> carley: it is sad because it's the best career path they can follow and it became 15,000 soldiers short of meeting is 2022 recruitment goals, marines only met 30% of its goal, air force and navy only 10% of its recruiting goal respectively and at the same time we just have this rare public warning from one of the most senior military commanders who oversees nuclear weapons programs whose name is navy admiral charles richard. he said we are falling behind china. he also said china's nuclear threat is a near-term problem. that's enough to wake anybody up and by the way thousands of soldiers just lost their jobs because they refused to get vaccinated in a time we never needed them more. >> emily: unfortunately it's enough to wake everyone up but i doubt it will wake up our president. >> carley: and is surmising what you said, rob, this reminds me of the police officers around the country appear weary at

having recurrent problems maintaining the people we have now because i don't want to be subjected to these negative environments. i don't think it will change anything with the biden administration unfortunately, but i have been part of enough teams to know that when you are on a team it is not about an individual. it's about you as a team. are individual characteristics, how you look, your gender, none of it matters. of one common goal, you act as a team and that's what we have to get back to in our military. that is how the strategy has to go because this is not working and it is kind of terrifying. >> emily: and that's what everyone and rank-and-file are begging for. coming up we saw a massive $2 billion payout this week but now they are calling lotteries racist. we will try to explain next. ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪

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>> one lucky winner in california is taking this to billion dollar jackpot that has the nation budget, buzzing but in the midst of the excitement seen and has to call it racist calm, claiming that "despite the low chances of anyone winning state lotteries market and sell tickets to low income communities at higher rates leading americans to believe it is a quick way to build wealth." researchers say these communities are disproportionately made up of black and brown people. critics say the consequences that marginalize people will bring them into deeper debt by a system that is transferring wealth out of their communities. rob, do we need to cancel the lottery? >> rob: no we don't, but i would like to say powerball is definitely racist because i didn't win. [laughter]

looks, the issue i have of these conversations is that when everything is racist nothing is racist, right? from discrimination that exists to this day and what i hate about this conversation as well is that black and brown people in this country when the left is making this everything is racist argument we are always robbed of all of our agency. it's never us wanting to play the lottery or deciding where to live. it's always some systems that are oppressing us. i think that is a very weak argument and i hate that it takes the agency away from black and brown people in this country all the time. that's why i hate the argument. >> carley: absolutely and there is a moment when you buy the lottery ticket and near like this could be it. you really, really think. just a couple of weeks ago former president obama was saying the one thing about democrats as they have to stop being killjoy's. >> emily: yet here we are. this is supposed to be fun.

it supposed to be entertainment. i mean, no person really goes into wherever you go, bodega or bogert if you are joe biden, there is the moment, carley, but you go in knowing rubber publishers clearing house? when we were all kids? and you had to put the stamps on and send it in question work there was never a time i did that and i did that so many times that i was like ed mcmahon is going to knock on my parents door with a big check but it is fun and entertaining. yes, they suck the life out of everything. >> emily: totally. and cara, they say those americans are quick to believe this is a quick way of building wealth. i mean, is not dating their intelligence? nobody believes it's a quick way of building wealth, there's always a chance. chances are slim. >> kara: and what i find those funny about this is the fact that the people who are caterwauling about this saying everything is racist and nothing is racist but everything is racist, they're the ones whose policies are entrenching people

into poverty. if you want to talk about marginalized communities and not having agency, look at the economic policies that democrats are pushing. this is something that is going to hold people down. it's not letting everyone have a fair chance equality of opportunity. will look at again it's dennis prager is him but the left does destroys having a touches. it's destroying the lottery now, thanks. >> rob: i love caterwauling, that's a great word. and carley said before i was taking about if i won i would invest so much of that and i'm like you will invested at bergdorf's. >> carley: no! >> lara: as you should. >> carley: emily i think $2 billion as too much money to win. >> whatever you do. >> carley: i'm thinking closer to -- >> rob: too rich? >> carley: 50 million? >> emily: i'm okay with it. the closest i got to winning anything was when i reenacted

the i won the golden ticket in munich, it was amazing two seconds of my life and that's the closest i got. is what annoys me about the democratic party to my party besides everything is if something has a disproportionate effect on black and brown communities that is racist. why don't they articulate exactly what is happening? if there is a disproportionate tax on impoverished people who play the lottery at greater rates than those with higher incomes, then dig down deep into that. why isn't there more effort to your point are restoring those communities to levels of education and access an agency instead of just shouting about the fact that well maybe this is worth it. they can make their own decisions and what they do with their money just like every american can. but that level of it is this automatically which then makes actual racism diluted and also we think better for you. is how it's coming from that place of total stomach total condescension as well. >> rob: and to do that they would have to do some work in terms of digging deeper into the systems like harris said. and they are also the ones and acting lot of these policies.

>> if they fact on mike dubke that dave they'll find themselves at the bottom. >> rob: and a bunch of conservatives. >> emily: we will be right back, in case you missed it is next. ♪ ♪ life... doesn't stop for diabetes. be ready for every moment, with glucerna. it's the number one doctor recommended brand that is scientifically designed to help manage your blood sugar. live every moment. glucerna. hey, i just got a text from my sister. you remember rick, her neighbor?

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>> who will come out on top and why in the world is taking so long in arizona. sadie and mark here to talk about that. jen higgins flipped the second congressional district she is here with her first interview since her big win and why are u.s. taxpayers and the lion, climate change tab we have so many economic problems at home? byron york on that. and we have brian kilmeade coming up i am john roberts, sandra is off today, gillian turner joined me of the top of the hours, see you then. ♪ ♪ ♪ there is a hole in the bottle leaking all this wine ♪ ♪ it's already empty and it's not even suppertime ♪ >> emily: welcome back it's

time for in case you missed it, they learned the hard way crime doesn't pay, our surveillance video shows this brainiac knocking himself out as he runs smack into a big window at a louis vuitton store outside of seattle. that's got to hurt. the 17-year-old suspect was trying to get away with $18,000 in stolen goods from the luxury boutique. lara? >> kara: dum x would love to see it. instant karma when i was five years old one of my friends did this and knocked themselves out on the parents balcony. >> emily: oh, man. >> lara: not a criminal. >> rob: whenever i'm pilfering goods from luxury stores i always make sure the door is open end. not running windows. >> emily: small detail. >> kara: he did get some punishment because in cities that will be the only thing he wto mike that will happen to hi. >> emily: the ultimate punishment. >> kara: totally. i live in alexandria, virginia,

come across a line into d.c. and i'm like i am headed into gotham because i girded my loins and lock my doors because of ready to be vigilant. hopefully there are more glass doors do not. >> emily: and they are squeaky clean so they can't see. the national toy hall of fame next has inducted its new honorees. the hall on thursday announced the top masters of the universe in light bright and they have the class every year when stomach where it is housed. past our american girl dolls, risk and i'm excited about all toys however is a travesty to me that pound puppies which was a finalist it didn't make it in! >> carley: i'm arbor pound puppies. i had so many toys but the most notable toy was the nano pet, new member than in a pet? you don't? first of all it was time ago she. you had to take care of it and then it was the nano pets,

tamagachi was out there. it where my to be a puppy surprise i wanted it so bad my friends tell my parents didn't buy it for me. there were two, three, or for puppies inside were. there is a velcro thing and you would take the puppies out. later in life i was like this is a horrific toy. >> emily: but it keeps on giving. >> carley: a little distu disturbing. >> how many puppies are there inside ♪ ♪ there could be three or four or five ♪ >> emily: that's amazing this wasn't even planned. what about you, cara? >> kara: i come from a generation where we played outside, vitamin d, no faces and screens do you know what tetherball was? that to me was the best. they would outlawed in schools today but it was amazing. >> carley: day you are playing on the screen. >> kara: i got my face bashed by that.

>> lara: teddy rock spin, it was really high-tech back in the day, he stuck a cassette in his back and he was animated and talks to you, my kids would pooh-pooh this so badly because everything is so over-the-top but shut out to teddy ruxpin i love that. >> emily: my favorite was my little pony but i shouldn't say was i should say is because that is the current one in my office literally on my computer hard drive right now. i guess we don't outgrow all toys. >> rob: i liked ruxpin as well. and his sidekick. >> kara: a big worm with legs. >> rob: have to say there was a doll called my buddy that i used to love but then child's play came out with chuckie and my buddy was scary so i had to get rid of it. >> emily: armor that jingle too. ♪ my buddy, my buddy, wherever i go he will go ♪ >> rob: i was worried that my buddy would kill me. >> never good.

>> emily: our next topic, has jens he become a generation of party poopers? probably yes. some women and jen's ears are taking a stance against socializing with colleagues at after work happy hours. 127-year-old says i enjoy my private life and i enjoy to not hang out with coworkers when i am just trying to relax and not think about work. lara? it's not exactly about work with your colleagues is about fostering relationships and maybe broadening horizons and broadening the community by getting to know your coworkers. >> lara: maybe this is a spine screens, no one wants to talk to one another. some of my best friends have come from former colleagues of mine that we actually went out and got to know one another and we are still friends today. i mean, gen z let's get it together. >> emily: same! my whole life. >> rob: i'll be contrary contrary and the party pooper. i think it's different when you do tv or media stuff or politics. everyone is kind of around each

other. when i used to work as an advertising exec back in the day i really had a policy to not go to after work drinks with colleagues or anything like that because i saw that stuff get met c, remember? some very messy things happening i was like i will not get caught up in that. >> emily: maintaining standards is crucial maybe it depends what office you are in a what your coworkers alike? spill and i just want to hang. everybody come. i want to go to happy hour. of 5:00. it generally starts at 9:00 a.m. because i'm at work so early. p.m. i'm thinking about going to bed. i'm watching 5:00 going it's getting late. >> kara: is such a puritanical generation about using the right pronouns and reducing friction and messiness between human interactions. to get your food delivered at your door, right? huber comes in don't talk to me over driver kind of thing. so i think that is just what is

going to happen if you have a frictionless existence. i think we should mourn not because life is messy and it should be at messy and adventurous when you are young. >> force them out and get them out for some to have drinks. >> rob: i guess i am outnumbered. [laughter] and rude behavior is on the rise unfortunately. >> emily: "harvard business review" out with a new study that says people are meaner than usual. especially if they are your customers. that "it's contagious like the common cold." they call it undermining them or mocking teasing and belittling. member, lara, we covered on the show there was a bully had a scale price for coffee depending on if you said please or thank you. if you are like coffee, black, it was $5 but if you say good morning, may i please have a coffee black it would be like $2. literally bribing customers to please just be polite. >> lara: is it that hard to be

nice to people? that shouldn't be rocket science but it's really sad. i think what happens is when people insult you it's like a knee-jerk reaction i'm going to insult you back or you have to fight back somehow. can we all just get along or be nice to one another question what does it so sad. >> rob: thing has to do with the social media generation we are all active on twitter and we are in this space that is a little job he. i think sometimes people bring that energy we have on social media out into the real world. i have to check myself sometimes. i'm generally an awful person. [laughter] but i have to make sure i am not even worst than usual because of social media. no, but i think social media makes this. >> this is why i only use as drama just want to post pictures. >> emily: it's safer. enter your point earlier you were making i was think about how social media and your point, rob, it fosters a tender not connection. so with young kids use to attention and click baiting and grapes and barbs but it's not real connection where if you were connected with fellow humans with a good morning, thank you, and be a little more

civil. >> kara: that's right, we would look someone in the eye, we don't do that anymore we want our dopamine hit. look at tiktok, two-thirds of american teenagers are on tiktok being fed all of this information and manipulated information from propaganda, ete don't know how to interact with human beings anymore because they are not used to it. i think it's only going to get worse unfortunately. >> carley: that's sad. i think it's easier to say good morning and be nice to somebody then ignore them. is easier thing to do so went on to that question might make some of these day. >> emily: totally. >> and if you smile at someone they will almost always smile back at you. so smile. >> emily: smile! hi on everyone. and harris faulkner's new book "faith still moves mountains" on sale tuesday and she's hosting a special with the same title here's a sneak peek. ♪ ♪ >> my favorite chapters or involving people who thought they had lost everything. it is through the trials, not

the blessings, that their faith has pushed them to pray and closer to god. what is the perennial message and that? >> not to be surprised when god has suffering as part of his plan for your life. if there is one verse in the bible that perplexes me more than any other it is hebre hebrews 5: 8. talking about it's as though he was a son, he learned obedience by the things that he suffered. i always wondered, is the perfect son of god how could he learn anything? but god had us a part of his plan for his own son suffering, intense and unfair suffering. if his plan included suffering for his own son, why are we surprised, harris? it is those hard things that have made me grow in my faith. not the easy times in life. >> emily: you can see harris' special wednesday night at 10:00 p.m. eastern on this

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