had with prices up, and even though you are getting a 30%, 40% discount, maybe in reality it is less compared to what you were paying a few years ago, so it is definitely important to just make sure you are comparing prices with retailers, if you are in store, use the shop savvy app, insta price comparison, and here's another tip: saving money is great but make sure you are also making money on your purchases. their cashback tools, reward tools, in fact download that shop to your browser, this will give you points for each purchase, and you can redeem those points for gift cards can help you pay for some last-minute gifts in december. >> edward: yeah, and i bet you have already done some shopping, i'm going to try to do some on black friday. i appreciate it, andrea. that does it for us here. a big, packed our. i that is it. i hope everybody has a great thanksgiving. enjoy the feast. "the five" starts right now. ♪ ♪ >> hello, everyone. i'm dana perino along with

rosanna scotto, harold ford jr., joey jones, and kat timpf. it is 5:00 in new york city. this is "the five." ♪ ♪ well, guys, hath no theory like an angry democratic donor. some top big money backers are venting publicly over the way the harris campaign took a billion dollars, $1.5 billion, excuse me, their money, and basically setting on fire, losing in a landslide to president-elect trump. one megadonor is letting out his frustrations with this brutal shot at kamala's future in politics. >> i think this disqualifies her forever, forever, if you can't run a campaign, you can't run america, the same thing is going to follow harris for the rest of her career, she cannot be trusted with the money, and the donors are going to be like, where is this money? >> dana: harris is not making matters any better because she

emerge from three weeks of political hiatus to deliver what many say was at least, a very bizarre video message. >> i just have to remind you, don't you ever let anybody take your power from you. you have the same power that you did before november 5th. and you have the same purpose that you did. and you have the same ability to engage and inspire. >> dana: top harris campaign officials are also consoling themselves, gathering on a podcast to give political autopsy on what went wrong, full of blame and finger-pointing and one shocking revelation on how kamala might have been doomed from the very start. >> 107 days. two weeks [bleep] because of a hurricane, two weeks talking about how she didn't do interviews. she was doing plenty, but we were doing, in our own way, being up against a narrative

that we weren't doing anything or we were afraid to have interviews is completely [bleep] and also -- we just gave another thing we had to fight back for, that trump never had to worry about. >> i think it surprised people because there was the public pools that came out in late september, early october, showing leads that we never saw. >> dana: oh, the places we'll go in this segment. first of all, she did not give interviews. [laughter] we do television. we were looking, begging for any sort of clip to use of her. she was not doing that. is great to have everybody here on thanksgiving eve. kat, let me start with what you thought about her whatever, the video, the podcast, the autopsy and all of that. >> kat: the video was crazy. what does this remind me of? it remind me of being in my early 20s, in-line at the club for the bathroom. and then the girl in front of you should have left three hours talking to you, she's like, don't ever let -- don't let

anybody take your power from you, it was like the same vibe and the same script as that scenario. and on the spending issue, i think that donor is not exaggerating because there is a direct correlation i think between campaigning and governing, which is how seriously do you take spending other people's money? right? she spent $900,000, or campaign did, $900,000, to put her face on the los las vegas sphere, and obviously lost nevada. that just feels to me like it -- why not, let's put her face on there, why not. if that is how seriously you are taking donors' money, that is how seriously you could be taking taxpayer money. she is posting videos like that, where it looks like she is having a fun time in hawaii and whatever, while a lot of people spent a lot of money and believe in this thing that they all knew from the inside wasn't quite the hopeful picture they were presented to everyone else. >> dana: it's also, there were the big donors, the megadonors, but they were relentless asking

people, $25, $50, $150, so i would feel more sorry for those folks. let's look at the joe rogan. he had some thoughts about this. >> if you do pay people, it's not going to have the same impact, you know, i think these call her daddy shows in all these different shows that she went on, i'm sure they had an impact, but i think that in the future, i'm sure they are scrambling to try to create their own version of this show. this is one thing that keeps coming up, like we need our own joe rogan. >> right. >> but they had me. >> dana: i love that. because they could have done it. and i don't think one appearance on joe rogan was going to change the trajectory of our campaign, but they didn't even try. >> joey: if you watch that video for campaign manager, number one, that is a woman was resigned to never work in the field again, the interview she did, that was a transgender of presidential campaigns. an epic failure but we identify as a success just because you say you are successful doesn't

mean you are successful, i gues. their ideology of victimhood and faultless failure is dictating their faith, and as a conservative i am lu happy to lt it happen. a former president and presidential candidate to sit down and do a three hour interview with him from any political party, and when you think about the people that listen to his podcasts, they reject woke and embrace marijuana, equally as skeptical of government as they are big business. they have a libertarian streak, but most of them are probably passionately liberal in the older sense of the word, very socially liberal. the reason why that matters is there probably aren't many republicans, big r republicans that can sit down and get through three hours of him. there certainly aren't any democrats right now. but donald trump can. that makes the difference. she sits there and combines about the hurricane, i'm sorry it took all of your lives away but man it really hurt our chances to win the presidency, like come on. >> dana: rosanna, what did you

make of her emerging three weeks afterwards? >> rosanna: first she had to go to hawaii. >> dana: what does it say to young women? >> rosanna: she was late to her own, you know, speech to say thank you for being here and i lost, right? so she did not show up at howard university the night that trump won. took her several hours to concede, right? she was nowhere to be found, nobody knew where she was, then she wound up coming back to howard, and thanking everybody. but i think, you know, with kamala harris, she couldn't distinguish herself from the president. she thought because she had the mainstream media, she was going to win. she was on "the view," they gave her softball questions, and yet she still couldn't distinguish herself from biden. right? they asked her that question. she said there is nothing i would do differently. she got oprah winfrey, which everybody thought that was a home run. we find out later, the company

got a million dollars from the campaign, right? she had beyonce, she had all of these stars, she had everybody. and then we find out they were all paid. they were all paid. >> dana: harold, that video of her, i am usually never like this where i think, wow, somebody really had it in for her but the fact that they released it was very unflattering, very few people left on the campaign that maybe she is campaigning and said i don't care, release it, and they said yes, ma'am, let's do that, but nobody was protecting her, the video is terrible. b2 i don't disagree. first of all, happy thanksgiving, good to see others around the table, rosanna, good to see you, kat, congratulations. >> dana: i really's failed on the welcome. >> harold: the election -- you told me you did. the election started out when she got the nomination, when biden denied decided not to run. i don't like about her campaign is saying now, they knew this

was a change election. the reason joe biden had to not run was because the country believed that 70-30 were going in the wrong direction and he was underwater. you look between that time and the time rosanna just said when she was on a friendly show at "the view" and my friend sunny hostin asked her what she would do differently, she said i can't think of anything that i would have done differently. that was a devastating moment for the campaign when you consider what the voters were screaming. you combine that and never had a secure economic message, border security message, and never gavs a true sense of even a foreign policy message. i'm only 54 but my understanding of presidential history, you have to do these things if you want to run unsuccessfully for president. i turned to her video, i don't care anymore. even the video of her campaign managers, i don't -- they are irrelevant in where we are right now. we have a lot to get done. even the donors -- i love when

donors get on and say the things they say. what i hope everyone does the we did a segment yesterday on's liberties and what they were thinking, the celebrities, donors, most important politicians, stop what you are doing for a couple weeks, get out of the country and listen to single moms with two kids trying to figure out how they're going to make ends meet. going to a family where a father or mom or both of them have been displaced from their jobs because of manufacturing or the job in their area has been moved offshore. talk to them, listen to them, you wonder why donald trump is winning? he is winning because he is speaking to them. i know it hurts people in my party because we call him a lot of names -- i didn't -- but some people called him a lot of awful names. this race came down to a very simple proposition. people believe donald trump can make their lives better more more so than they did kamala harris. we now have to get on with the business of trying to figure out how we -- i'm a democrat -- how we connect better with every day working-class voters, and until we figure that out, no motive donors telling us what they are going to do in telling people they can't run, no amount of

celebrities, even commentators telling them, until we figure out what the voters want, we are going to be on the outside looking in until we are able to speak to them -- >> dana: do you think any of those campaign managers, deputy managers, will be running a campaign in 2028 for democrats? >> harold: not if they keep talking like they were talking there. we were wrong. we missed something in this is what we missed, you can't say a storm happened and people died. that threw us off our game. >> dana: and she was doing all of these interviews, like, roll the tape, i can't find it. okay, don't miss our thanksgiving fan mail special. it airs tomorrow and we're answering your questions for the full hour and we've got a lot of answers. coming up, trump cabinet nominees may be in danger after being targeted with violent threats. we'll be right back. ♪ ♪

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♪ ♪ >> rosanna: all right, the fbi now investigating as we get brand-new details of some terrifying threats against several of president-elect trump's cabinet nominees. now according to trump's team, the appointees were "targeted in violent, un-american threats to their lives and those who live with them. these attacks range from bomb threats to swatting. response, law enforcement and other authorities acted quickly to ensure the safety of those who were targeted. and now we can confirm that at least five nominees were targeted. top names like elise stefanik,

pete hegseth, and lee zeldin. it's really, really a scary situation given that president-elect trump has faced down not one but two recent assassination attempts. and democrats have faced calls to tone down their rhetoric that treats trump as a threat to democracy. watch this. >> the profound threat he poses to our democracy. >> he's a genuine threat to our democracy, and that's not hyperbole. >> it's proof that donald trump was not lying. it is proof that people were not overreacting when we said that he presents an existential threat to our democracy. >> look, i happen to believe donald trump is a major threat to our democracy, i believe that as much today as i did this time last week. it is a dire threat. so his authoritarian leadership. i believe that in my bones, and i believe it is what we are facing. >> rosanna: did that contribute to these threats today? the swatting.

dana, this is not just violence in our midst, but this is a federal crime. this is scary stuff. >> dana: so swatting is wildly dangerous. people have died because of this and also it is completely disruptive to families and it is meant to intimidate you so you might decide not to run again or you might not want to serve, like who is targeting the department of agriculture secretary? i can't wait to meet her, brooke rollins, i'm all for the farm bill, i want to learn more, but you have to imagine this is a targeted thing that is probably not going to stop. one of the issues is it can happen from anywhere, anytime, and also we have a cybersecurity issue so there is danger all over this. did the rhetoric lead to it? i don't know because i don't know who did the threats. i don't even know if we will be able to see. i don't think it helps and i hate all of it. i don't want anybody to be put in that position but this should be taken extremely seriously. just as the threats against the supreme court justices should have been taken seriously after the dobbs decision. they are still harassed all of

the time. or you think about the people who were in charge, working for president trump, when he made the decision to take out soleimani of iran. they still need 24/7 protection because they are target for assassination. i'm not exactly sure how law enforcement gets a handle on this, but i have a feeling that we will see more of it, and thankfully all of them are smart enough to figure out a way to coordinate and put the information out there because the other thing is you could have a tendency to say let's not talk about it because if we talk about it, it is going to increase the threats. i think they are airing on the right side here which is saying this is what is happening and it is wrong. >> rosanna: it sounds like a coordinated attack. we don't know if it is domestic or foreign related. joey, what do you think? >> joey: be careful here, it is no secret that many people in this cabinet came from this network so i have friends that were impacted by this from that nation. i have friends that were names that aren't from this network, that haven't been named in any of the news reports who also received a threat. so it is very personal to me. the first thing i say is this is

terrorism through political violence and it should be treated as treason. swatting in my opinion is attempted murder and these people, if it is american people that did it, they should have the absolute book thrown at them, and if it is a foreign adversary that should be taken very seriously. just happens to be some of the folks that were targeted and this might have the opportunity to do that. think before you act, i guess. it is very difficult this is the environment in which they are going into government. we just had our country come together and overwhelmingly elect a president and a party, or at least a platform, and i would like to think americans are better than that. i hope in some ways it wasn't. >> rosanna: kat, it is not just the targets, but their families, as well. elise has a 3-year-old child. lee zeldin, by the way, his home has been targeted before, when he was running for governor two years ago. he is taking related shooting outside of his house while

teenage girls were in the house. >> kat: many of us, as we all have who have met the man, he is the nicest guy, no reason to be talking about blowing up his home. it's crazy. like dana said, there is no way to know whether or not the rhetoric is directly responsible, but you do have to say there is no way it helps, right? yes, there is a lot of examples of this kind of rhetoric against soon-to-be again president trump, but it is not just about trump, either. when these cabinet picks were announced, similar kinds of rhetoric about how this pick is dangerous for our national security. this pick has no idea -- the same sort of thing. this pick is a threat to democracy. it was the exact same type of rhetoric. this rhetoric is very beneficial for politicians because the more divided we are, the easier we are to control, it is easier to get power as a political party by saying the other side isn't just people you disagree with,

people who are actually dangerous, same thing with the media, what are you going to click on more than new cabinet pick is dangerous or i'd rather they didn't pick this person. nobody is going to click that article, right? there are these benefits, but it really has real consequences. i think because that is the logical conclusion of some of this kind of stuff, right? if you are going to say this person could be the end of the country as we know it and look at they are appointing people who are going to further what i just said, look, this is more evidence, it's the end. then why wouldn't you want to take serious action against them? >> rosanna: harold, listen, some republicans were name-calling, too, but the rhetoric was really turned up high on the democratic side. they made it seem like of trump won it was the end of the world. >> harold: i differ with you there. i think the line which has ratcheted up entirely too much for democrats are to blame i will blame them, where republic is are to blame, i will blame them. i think joey, i agree with most,

a foreign adversary is a different hundred action action and of someone here i they should be. president trump at one point during the last race said if he didn't win, this is the last election the country would face. i didn't interpret the country should end. you go back go back to the race between thomas jefferson and john adams, they didn't have fox and cnn covering every thing they said, the action had to write it down. my messages we should all tone it down. when president trump was shot, in butler, pennsylvania, we were all on the show together, and we all said it's time, everyone needs to just step back and understand, some people aren't taking this the right way. some people are interpreting this in a very, very different and violent way. is a single signal and a sign of where the politics has sunk to. this things giving, we have a segment coming up i have to host, we all pray around the

table for the president, the country, and all of us to be able to show some restraint as we disagree with one another. >> rosanna: i agree with you. still ahead, president-elect trump's incoming border czar's warning democrats they better get with the program. ♪ ♪

♪ ♪ >> joey: trump incoming border czar is laying down the law with the democrats who are promising to him. right now liberal mayors and governors are trying to see who can virtue signal louder. by vowing to interfere with trump's mass deportation plans. mr. tom homan is sending them a clear message, that he's done playing games. >> you cannot help us. that's fine. you should get. >> harold: any for out-of-the-way because we are going to do the job.

president trump has said public safety threat to national security threats will be the priority right out of the gate and i can't believe there is any election official that doesn't want public safety threats out of their communities. their number one responsibly is protecting the communities so if they are not going to do it, we will do it for them, and we are going to have consequences of people who violate the law and try to prevent us from doing our job. >> joey: he is not just making this up, here is a prime example of the criminals homan wants out of the country. the venezuelan immigrant, a repeat offender, and he was arrested for robbing one of alvin bragg's prosecutors, stealing her purse, and then threatening her for her credit card pin. this also exposing himself before fleeing. this is a six the rest of this year. and i.c.e. is blasting officials for letting him go. >> it's possible but we really haven't had, we are doing a identification and what but he wasn't in our custody. won't give us anything more than what we have.

i would like better collaboration on this and allow them to honor our detainer and let us help them. >> joey: rosanna, you look at this, does this week 'em up? this is somebody in your office, maybe you put somebody in jail once you've arrested them six times to protect the people that work beside you. >> rosanna: joey, talk about hitting home. in fact, knock, knock, knock, alvin bragg, do you see what is going on? it is not just alvin bragg's problem how it is the city's problem. just this week on good day new york we have the new police commissioner jessica tissue came on and said, i really don't know the extent of migrant crime in new york city, because new york city is a sanctuary city, so we do not report to i.c.e. that someone who committed a crime in new york city is here illegally. and now our mayor eric adams a year ago said to me on my special, on the migrant crisis on fox nation, he said basically he wants to change the status of sanctuary city, but the

city council, which has a lot to say in new york, says absolutely not, they will not change it, even though they know what is going on in new york city is awful. they just convened a few weeks ago because there were so many unaccompanied minors staying at the roosevelt hotel. no parents, they don't know if these kids are going to school, they don't know if these kids are being human traffic. they know there is a problem. we don't know the extent of it. this is what is going on in new york city right now. we don't know exactly how bad. >> joey: harold, i'm not sure if you have noticed but there are not really any republican cities that are sanctuary cities, it is acutely a democrat because problem in a lot of people's minds, but when you look at something like the laken riley murder trial and you get these details that come out, flight down to georgia was paid for by the government, and this idea that there really are victims to these crimes, these democrat leaders have taken away

our ability to even be empathetic towards migrants because right now it is all a threat. >> harold: right, so you guys won the race, so you should -- i like tom homan, i don't know him, he seems like a decent guy. stop auditioning for a sci-fi adventure movie and just do the job. i'm part of the 75% of americans that want these criminals deported. i'm one of the 75% of americans that want a vastly different and stronger posture at the southern border. that's why you won. you don't need to come on fox or cnn or anywhere, just go do the job. and if democrats get in the way, joey, or republicans get in the way, you know what you do? the policy is going to usurp them. i would probably spend my time, if i were him, coming into cities like new york and los angeles, where the city council in los angeles declared los angeles a century city. out asked to meet with the city council and say, guys, i think you are wrong. here's what we're going to do, and here's what, how your efforts may interfere with what we are going to do. now i know that you want to protect people, but we want to

take those -- take these people off the streets were committing crimes. we prioritize how we're going to do it. i'm just a different kind of fellow than him. i wish him the best. i'm rooting for him. i'm praying for him. but i do wish he would stop coming on tv and looking like he is in "top gun" jackets ready to fight somebody, just go do your job. >> joey: i appreciate it. i know laken riley stepped out and some but he needs to talk tough, somebody needs to use tough words because democrats are all basically good people and there is a few bad ackles and those bad apples. if president trump has any kind amended whatsoever in this election, it is the border. i mean, that is the issue i think probably united more people from different tense into his demographic than anything. >> dana: this is a rare thing where i'm going to disagree with harold strongly, but politely. first of all, president trump has never been more popular than he is today. so he's got a mandate and he has

the wind behind his back and he's got people saying we are ready, sir, sign us up, ready to go, we have 60 days but we are not going to wait until we get our offices and find out through employee orientation where the bathrooms are, we are ready to go so we are preparing. and tom homan is a character. and what i mean by that is somebody who you can follow. you want to listen and he makes you pay attention. might have a little differently about him. i think that is the kind of general you need to go into this situation. i think the communications on all of this is going to be extremely important, possibly even delicate going forward because there might be scenarios that are very tough to watch. one kid crying, one mother screaming, any of those things, one of those things could be a problem, so they are basically saying here's what we want to do, and i think you should go to all of those cities and meet with them, but i would also say this. we know from the biden administration that there are 1.4 million illegal immigrants

here right now that have deportation orders. if you have a deportation order, the law says you must be removed, so it is not against the law to remove them, actually, it is against the law to not remove them, so that all the job number one. that is 1.4 million people. that is going to take a lot of effort. out of that, joe biden's i.c.e. revealed their 225,000 convicted criminal aliens roaming free around the country. 15,000 and 12,000 convicted murderers within that group. so he has his work cut out for him and needs the army and the border patrol behind him, but also the umbrella of the political capital that president trump can give him when they start. >> joey: and thomas like trump wasn't a racist when he said they're sending murderers and ". the the argument because are using, it's going to cost so much money, i guess they have a price for peace and preserving life.

usually they like spending money. >> rosanna: i don't cede the argument for not wanting these people who are violent criminals to leave, i don't -- and i say that as somebody who i believe that if you are nonviolent and you are self-sufficient and you want to come contribute to this economy than you should be free to do so. i, i mean, i think self-sufficient one may be controversial to some people. i don't see how the nonviolent one could be. if you are self-sufficient and you are nonviolent, i don't come in that case, want to spend money deporting you. but as compassionate as a person can become i'm a very compassionate person, there is nothing compassionate about keeping people that you know are dangerous, either to the community or to national security or just dangerous in general in that community, that is not compassion. i think that some people have their identity so wrapped up in being part of the resistance that perhaps they are not thinking about what they are even actually resisting in a case like this. but they know that is their response, okay, trump, he is bad and he is going to do this, we

have to fight against this because i am a compassionate person without knowing what you are resisting and what compassion means in that case. in this case, keeping violent people in communities is not a compassionate thing. >> joey: yeah, kids in cages will not work this time around peered. >> harold: for, they lost tens of thousands of kids. it's a terrible situation. >> harold: i'm not for criminals staying in the country and i'm so pathetic to laken riley's family, my only point was just do the job. >> joey: no, i get it, in that get up and posture he is speaking to cartels and people like that as much is -- >> harold: fair enough. >> joey: up next, forget the turkey. your families political battle, like ours here, might be the main course tomorrow. ♪ ♪ (man) what if my type 2 diabetes takes over? (woman) what if all i do isn't enough? or what if... (vo) once-weekly mounjaro could help? mounjaro helps your body regulate blood sugar

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the gravy? and my boxing gloves. looks like thanksgiving may come with a set of political warfare this year. one-third of adults under 30 say they are likely to get into a political argument at the dinner table. some of my democratic friends are straight up bowing to shut out there trump supporting relatives altogether. watch this. >> i just had to set my first big postelection boundary and say that i am not going to thanksgiving. it's not in the best interest of my mental health. >> you do not need to spend thanksgiving with your maga relatives. you can, in fact, opt out. so this year, i'm doing my own fun thanksgiving. >> i have made the decision for myself and my fiance and our child to skip out on family holidays with my family that voted for trump. and while i know this is the right decision for myself, and my family, i have been depressed the past ten days, like, this

has truly gut-wrenching. >> harold: dp, we spent thanksgiving together a couple years ago. do you feel this way this year about -- are you thinking about not spending time -- >> dana: not at all. for that last lady there she might be surprised when she finds out her husband voted for trump. tell her about it. i think those examples we just showed are extreme. i do understand that some people have anxiety for all sorts of reasons for seeing family, especially if it is just once a year, there's a lot of things that build up. if it's about politics, my go-to is, oh, i don't talk politics on the holidays. that you have to ask them a question about themselves because here's the truth. everybody only wants to talk about themselves, so he want to redirect and you want to keep everything cool, just be like oh, my gosh, how was that vacation you took to the grand canyon, i've always wanted to go, then you're off to the races. >> harold: kat, how do you deal with this, do you have to deal with this? what advice do you have -- >> dana: >> kat: or literally wrote a book about this. and honestly, i've heard of this

happening, people i know in real life having people who treat them this way, yes. and i think some important things to remember for some of these people, they need to check themselves a little bit because research actually shows that this moral outrage is actually more rooted in self-interest and it is an actual altruism, where if you feel like you can't do something about a problem, you can reach out about somebody about it, you feel better about not having to do anything, but we also have a perception gap in this country where people from one party hugely overestimate the number of people in the other party that have these so-called extreme views. so a lot of the reasons people hate people is not even rooted in reality. and i think that sadly the only way we are going to get out of this is by doing the opposite of what they are doing, which is actually getting to know people in real life, going to hang out with them. i am so lucky to have so many different people in my life who believes so many different

things. i work here, but then i have many friends also were very left wing, and these are all valuable relationships to me in some way or another, and i'm so lucky to have these relationships, and i think a huge way to go about this other than reading my excellent book is to focus on what you have in common first. a lot of these things these people are worried about, they think you believe, you don't want that, either, focus on what you have in common. life is so short and i think that is great advice to ask people about themselves. >> k >> harold: joey, what are your thoughts about this plus my. >> joey: this is not a problem by the spirit today in my life, one uncle that loves to get on facebook and make everybody mad and i don't know if he believes -- >> dana: we all do. >> joey: what he writes. i think it is hilarious. maybe my family is just a monolith, small southern town. uncle jeff's house the other night, i don't want to highlight anybody because i love him and they are not something for me to bring to work but i have every sexual orientation and just

about every race you can think of in my immediate family and these are people that i love is much as anybody in the world. i have no idea what their politics are. i know when i walk in the room, their faces light up to see me because i am their cousin or their uncle or nephew on tv, i am the guy who has been through some stuff and tried to keep smiling and i'm the one that gives them the biggest hug i can commented that is not what your family dinner is about, politics in your problem. >> harold: this is true. rosanna, you are the only person at the table who is going to really see people, a lot of people, at your restaurant, how do you deal with this? to you have to mediate, referee conversations? >> rosanna: at our family restaurant, their people from both sides of the aisle, we have had presidents on both sides of the aisle at our restaurant. getting back to the family, the family unit is so precious, and why miss these opportunities when we can come together and share turkey or whatever the sides? just don't take the bait. don't take -- there's always one. dad, i know you are listening to

me out there. but he was always baiting us. just give yourself a little timeout. and don't get up in a huff. just say i need a few minutes to compose myself, and just get yourself out of the situation, and then come back when somebody is talking about something else. don't miss the opportunity to be with your family and create those beautiful memories. >> harold: anybody going to miss being with their family because they can't have a political conversation, they probably shouldn't be there. the great well-being expert said what is the secret to a happy relationship? give up being right. that's what i do in my house. there are a lot of republicans. >> dana: that's what peter needs to do. >> harold: just listen to them. "the fastest" is up next. ♪ ♪

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♪ ♪ >> kat: welcome back. aoc haters are banning wicked fans from singing during the movie. they are even posting signs warning customers about the proper etiquette. dana, you feel very strongly about this. >> dana: first of all i don't go to the movie theaters to do whatever you want. when i go to broadway shows,

like lame is, i don't want to hear anybody singing along. i know you know all the words, it is very fun, i came here to hear them sing. now, as a caveat, if you go to the neil diamond show, i think you can sing along. i think that is allowed. i don't know. but i think at the "wicked" show, don't sing. >> kat: i agree, i very strongly agree, joey, but here's the thing, i don't know if these signs are going to be enough to deter one of the most in my opinion frightening demographics in society, former and/or current musical theater kids. there is no stopping these people. they will find any reason to sing. >> joey: i am the proud father of the tenth grader that got best actor this year in his region. i've got a theater, a drama kid. he runs cross country, i can't do either one, sing or run. so i get it. there is a culture there. and this is a very long running stage production they turned into a movie, and so you know, if i go to "star wars"

at disney world, i can't get mad if people are grown and they dress up. >> kat: you are pro-singing? >> joey: if you're walking up into their world, you've got to let them be. i am not pro-it, just not going to go. >> dana: quiet car on a train, a quiet theater. >> kat: what do you think? >> harold: i went to see michael jackson the musical, i sang along with my favorites. >> dana: you have a good voice, though. >> harold: i can't help it, i get moved to sing. and dana is kind, i don't know if i can sing. >> kat: rosanna, they get up it is worse if you are a good singer, that's what it's really about for me. i was a theater kid who wasn't a musical theater place but i had to be the narrator or something made up. because i couldn't sing. >> rosanna: i still love to sing. ♪ i want to be popular ♪ just hang on there. if you want to sing, amc says on christmas day they may do a sing-along version at the theater, so just hang on. that maybe your time, harold, to

go. >> dana: a quiet theater. >> kat: it is projection for me, i will admit that. i took singing lessons growing up and the woman called my mother and said, i don't feel right taking your money. [laughter] it's not always true that you work hard and you can do whatever you want. i want everyone to know that is not always true. >> harold: when kid rock came out at the republican convention and then john legend came out at the democratic convention. >> dana: you sang at the michael jackson show. >> kat: most contentious topic of the day, guys. all right, "one more thing" is up next. ♪ ♪

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