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[ cheers and applause ] you know, this thing kind of knocked me out, this adults take mental health days off once in a while, and a blogger on parenting site scary that kids need them too. they say that the pressures of school can hit them so hard once in a while this they need to let off steam. would you allow your kid to say to you, i can't take it today? >> 100%. >> yeah. let them stay home and curse all day. let off the steam. >> i think if we're going to be open and honest about mental health and the fact that we don't recognize it and there's still a sigma involved, we need to start young because it starts young. and i think recognizing that

depression, anxiety, just feeling overwhelmed socially, to remind them that it's just as important to stay home for their mind and their heart as it is a cold or a sore throat. >> right, right. >> i grew up wanting to have perfect attendance and my mom was a teacher and i had to be on my death bed to take a day off from school. it was like, get up and go to school, get up and go to school. >> are you like that with your kids? >> i was and recently my son called me from the school and he was h other kids. he called and he's like, i need you to come pick me up. i was like, why, are you sick? did you fall? he was like, i'm having trouble and i just need you to pick me up. i was like, no, i'm not picking you up. and then i heard his voice and i said mom will be right there, and i picked him up and he just needed it. he just needed it and i let him stay home the next day, too. >> how long would you let that go on? >> as long as he needed it. like that was where i came down.

he's like this is ridiculous, and i think he needed it. >> people forget we have substituted a lot of things for time off for kids. they're scheduled oftentimes within an inch of their lives and sometimes it's too much. i mean, i know how we get when it's just overwhelming, and sometimes you just got to listen to your -- your kids are not dumb. they know how they feel and i know a lot of us were raised with, you know, our parents didn't listen. if we said, listen, i really it would be like, look. >> yeah. >> and so i think we've come such a long way that we can now take a moment to listen to our kids if they're saying something to us that affects them. because most -- 97% of kids are not going to lie to you. they're just not. you know, it's not their thing. >> sometimes the parents don't want to do it because they have to go to work and they don't have a back-up. >> if you don't have a good

can think they're lying or just trying to get out of school. i had a really tough -- when i was in high school it was diligent and crazy and my mom used to look at me and say baby take a day. she knew i wasn't going to take advantage, she just saw her kid struggling. >> most parents i think are starting to get that way. but on a totally different note, we lost some iconic people this week. yesterday former president shimon perez and golfer arnold palmer and in sister act, the man who played my boyfriend. >> and radio raheem. >> it's all about sister act, baby. all three of these men were sort of wonderful assets to our world and we just wanted to say, you know, condolences to family.

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>> america is demanding action and i am giving you an enemy we can ki. >> you think i don't want to strike back against the people who did this? i lost colleagues, friends, people i love. i want to find every single person involved in this attack from planning to execution and rip them limb from limb, which is why i need to know exactly who did this. come back to me with more than 75% and i'll launch the damn missiles myself. >> how much more? >> 25 >> that's right. please welcome the amazing kiefer sutherland. [ cheers and applause ] >> thank you. >> listen, for those of you who don't know, your dad, the

[ applause ] we found these pictures of the two of you when you were young and now continuing the sutherland acting dynasty is your daughter sarah. >> yeah. >> she plays julia louis-dr louis-dre louis-drelouis-dre louis-dreyfus' daughter on "veep" which just won an emmy so congratulations. did you have any angst when she said i want to be an actor? >> i didn't have my daughter is incredibly smart and was a phenomenal student, spoke four languages, spoke latin, old greek, just an amazing student. and so i had great aspirations for her, very much like my mother and father, both incredibly talented and successful actors. when i made the choice to go do this, they really let me find my way. and so, i have had to do the same thing for sarah whether i liked it or not. she was going to do this.

you my daughter's agent's name. she's done this all on her own. i think she's incredibly talented and i'm really proud of her. [ applause ] >> your in one of the most anticipated shows this season called "designated survivor." we saw a clip. tell everybody a little bit about it, baby. >> first of all, i'm so grateful that people chose to watch it so i'm thrilled by that. there's always the great fear that there's all this anticipation up. but the show functions on so many different levels. it's a family drama. what happens to the wife and the children that move into the white house overnight. and then the thrilling aspect of the show is the investigation into who committed the terror attack and, as you start to find that out, what ultimately is the appropriate response. >> if you weren't busy enough with acting, you're also adding singer to your resume with a new cd.

in a hole." why did you decide to put this out? >> the truth is i had no intention of making an album. but i had written a bunch of songs that i was really proud of and that i liked. i took them to a friend of mine, jude cole who's been one of my best friends and a musician. i wanted to see if i could send them to bmi or sony and get one of their artists to record them. and he convinced me, because he sounded and the way we recorded them, he convinced me to go forward with that. and the truth is i owe him a great deal because it ended up being one of the great creative experiences of my life. here to perform "calling out your name" from "down in a hole," give it up for kiefer sutherland. [ cheers and applause ]

? you never said good-bye ? ? and i never got to cry ? ? they took it all away ? ? and we will never be the same ? ? no, we will n ? calling out in the night ? ? fighting for my life ? ? i can't be still all alone ?

? calling out your name ? ? knowing that we'll never be the same ? ? no, we'll never be the same ? ? ? ? you tore me up inside ? ? and i had no place to hide ? ? you took it all away ? ? and we'll never be the same ?

? calling out in the night ? ? fighting for my life ? ? the angels eyes ? ? and the flowers dried ? ? and i know you're alive ? ? calling out your name ? ? knowing that we'll never be

? i'm calling out your name ? ? knowing that i'll never be the same ? [ cheers and applause ] >> thank you very much. >> thank you so much. that was amazing. thank you guys. thanks to kiefer sutherland. you can catch "designated survivor" tonight at 10:00 p.m. right here on abc. and members audience are going home with a copy of his cd, "down in a hole." we'll be right back. ? is depression more than sadness? ? it's a tangle of multiple symptoms. ? ?

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