>> depends where you shop. an all new today show is coming up next. join us at 11:00 a.m. for the latest on the protest at the cal campus and we'll have a live e report. thanks for being with us. have a great day and be safe on the roads. good morning. breaking news. bernie fine, the longtime assistant basketball coach at syracuse university, fired after being accused of sexual abuse by a third man, as a taped conversation surfaces between fine's wife and one of the alleged victims. >> i know everything that went on, you know, you trusted somebody you shouldn't have trusted. >> did she know what was allegedly happening and fail to stop it? lack of evidence -- the only suspect held in the mysterious disappearance of a maryland woman in aruba ordered to be set free tomorrow. have prosecutors reached a dead end in the case? and merry "clickmas." it's cyber monday, and retailers are hoping you still have money to spend after a record start to the holiday shopping season.

we'll tell you where to find the best deals "today," monday, november 28th, 2011. captions paid for by nbc-universal television and good morning, welcome to "today" on a monday morning. i'm matt lauer. >> and i'm ann curry. good thing we've all survived thanksgiving so we're all here. in the meantime the scandal at syracuse university has taken another disturbing twist because a third man has come forward accusing bernie fine of molesting him. >> fine had been on administrative leave and now out of a job, fired by the school and late last night, syracuse head coach jim boeheim, who staunchly defended fine at first, released a statement calling the new allegations disturbing and deeply troubling.

we'll get right to nbc's jay gray in syracuse, new york with the latest. good morning to you. >> reporter: good morning, matt. dramatic changes at syracuse, bernie fine fired after a new audiotape comes to the surface along with new allegations in this sex abuse scandal here. >> there's a three, it's gone! >> reporter: the syracuse orangemen are an ncaa basketball powerhouse and for more than 35 years assistant coach bernie fine has helped to lead the team. but now, fine is out of work, officially fired from syracuse as he faces accusations of molesting three young boys. the allegations began with former syracuse ball boy bobby davis and stepbrother mike lang who say fine sexually abused them in the '80s. >> he started trying to touch me and honestly i don't even remember if i thought that was what was supposed to happen. i know i cringed up and didn't want it to happen. >> reporter: on friday, federal authorities searched coach

fine's home for more than six hours and now the shocking release of a recorded phone call reportedly between bernie fine's wife, lori, and accuser bobby davis. >> i know everything that went on, you know. i know everything that went on with him. bernie has issues. maybe that he's not aware of, but he has issues, and you trusted somebody you shouldn't have trusted. >> reporter: that phone call was reportedly recorded in 2002 by davis and given to espn. the sports network first aired the tape this weekend. bobby davis says he recorded the call because he feared no one would believe his story, and now, another accusation. 23-year-old zach tomaselli of lewiston, maine, has come forward saying in 2002 bernie fine allegedly molested him in a pittsburgh hotel. >> i have a feeling that there could be many other victims in this case as well and if somebody didn't back up bobby davis and his story, then this could continue.

>> reporter: tomaselli's father, fred, says his son's story is not true. tomaselli himself faces sexual assault charges in maine involving a 14-year-old boy. he's pleaded not guilty to those charges. bernie fine has not commented since his firing but has called the allegations patently false, and early sunday his lawyers released this statement saying, "mr. fine remains hopeful of a credible and expeditious review of the relevant issues by law enforcement authorities." fine's former boss, hall of fame coach jim boeheim, says he supports the school's decision and in a statement sunday night went on to say, "the allegations that have come forth today are disturbing and deeply troubling. i am personally very shocked because i have never witnessed any of the activities that have been alleged." boeheim also said he regrets his early strong support of fine, saying that some of the accusers were even liars in this case. now he's calling for a full investigation and wants anyone

with any information to come forward. matt? >> jay gray, jay, thank you very much. mike lupka is a longtime journalist and columnist. good to have you here. what did bernie fine do, how many people might be victims? what home run do we know? was this something that was a well-kept secret? had you heard whispers of this for years? >> no. what's amazing with this tape with lori fine, bernie's wife, it's been around for nine years. >> since 2002. >> i talked to one of the reporter who is worked on the original story and they urged bobby davis to get a backup for their story because the reason their paper didn't go with the story eight, nine years ago is they couldn't find a credible second source. >> you have the wife of the accused saying she knows ifrg that's gone on. >> i talked to a lawyer saying as damning as this is in public opinion she never comes out and

calls her husband a child molester. she talks about issues and talks around it. i don't think that would be admissible in a real courtroom because of spousal privilege. >> this is shades of penn state a lot of people will ask questions this morning, mike, what did syracuse university officials know and when did they know it. we know they conducted an investigation in 2005 and apparently did not find enough or any credible evidence to support the claims. >> you know, there is -- we're living -- all of a sudden it's a jerry sandusky world, it's a penn state world. there is an almost to both of these stories that kind of what happens in vegas stays in vegas, and you see how powerful these institutions are. >> is there evidence they did not conduct a thorough investigation in 2005? >> the paper didn't go with this because they didn't have enough. it's amazing it was floating around out there for this long but it speaks to what we've had at penn state about blind faith and blind trust these powerful institutions. >> you talk about legal versus

public opinion. this tape, though, listen to lori fine saying i know everything that went on to bobby davis, and he has issues, he may be in denial, if she knew what was going on all that period of time and knew that he was still around young men and boys, boy, she's got some explaining to do. >> and then she does become like somebody at penn state who had heard and knew these things about jerry sandusky and did not come forward. what is interesting about boeheim's statement last night is originally he's sticking up for a friend, which was fine, except he basically called the first accuser a liar. >> it's not saying i'm supporting this guy, innocent until proven guilty. he's calling these people liars. "this is a bunch of a thousand lies." that's a much different statement. >> i think he walked himself back from that last night because he's establishing a more solid legal position because they're going to come and ask him what he might have known about this guy. >> can he survive this?

>> you know what, my first reaction when this happened at penn state was, yes, that joe paterno would, and i was dead wrong about that. with these stories, they're so fluid i'm not going to say he's going to survive this. >> mike, lupika, thank you so much. good to see you. it is now seven minutes after the hour. here's ann. >> matt, thank you. driven by black friday bargains, a record 226 million americans visited stores and websites over the holiday weekend, and retailers are hoping the shoppers will be back at it today for cyber mondayer. courtney regan is in hawthorne, new york weather details on this. hey, courtney. good morning. >> reporter: good morning, ann. i'm here at ibm industry solutions lab where they're tracking in real time what consumers are doing online, that means what they're buying, where they're buying, and how they're buying it on what could potentially be another record setting day. for online shopping. >> this is our crunch time. >> reporter: in this massive wrousz in phoenix, arizona, the online retail giant amazon.com

prepares for their busiest day of the year and hopes to break records. >> cyber monday is a very big shopping day. >> reporter: on this day last year, the company sold a record 158 million items per second, close to 14 million items in total. >> people avoid the crowds of shopping malls, of traffic and sit back at home or work and get their shopping done. >> reporter: more than 86 million braved those shopping malls on black friday alone. a record 226 million shoppers visited stores and went online this holiday weekend, up from 212 million last year. total spending reached a whopping $52.4 billion. for the search for the best holiday deals, it wasn't what it used to be. violence across the country led many to wonder if black friday specials were even worth it. >> is this necessary for shoplifting? >> reporter: in buckeye, arizona, this 54-year-old grandfather was bloody and unconscious after being slammed

to the ground by police for alleged shoplifting. in florence, alabama, police used a stunned gun on an unruly shopper and in los angeles a woman used pepper spray on shoppers in what officials called competitive shopping. the woman surrendered to police saturday evening. while things can get ugly in the retail world, according to amazon.com, a safer type chaos takes place in cyber space. >> the madness takes place on computer servers as opposed to in physical retail. >> comscore reports that $1 billion was spent online last year. for the first time this year they expect that record to be broken, estimated $1.2 billion will be spent online today. >> sounds intense. courtney reagan, thank you so much. 7:10, here's matt. >> ann, thank you very much. the first gop presidential contests are just a few weeks away and in advance of the contests newt gingrich has picked up a big endorsement. chuck todd is nbc's political director and chief white house

correspondent. chuck, good morning. >> good morning, matt. you say weeks, i say days. 36 days until january 3rd and the iowa caucuses, and we're still in the primary within the primary phase where the official not candidate mitt romney in full swing. newt gingrich candidate and campaign left for dead in the summer is seeing his stock soar. he has a coveted prize in mitt romney's backyard. newt gingrich begins with a boost, the endorsement of the lenlen dare -- legendary conservative "new hampshire unit nonleader," trumping mitt romney. the publisher explained the decision to back newt. >> he's not afraid to speak his mind. his view is that we have to really look at history and shape a new turn for the country. >> reporter: in the editorial, the newspaper also took a veiled swipe at romney, who mcquade refers to as new hampshire's favorite son, labeling him "one who tells us what he thinks we want to hear."

but the endorsement is no guarantee of victory for gingrich. since 1976 "the union leader" picked two republican nominees, ronald reagan in 1980 and john mccain in 2008. campaigning in new hampshire sunday, both rick santorum and jon huntsman said the race is too volatile for this to matter. >> it looks like newt's the guy right now as the chief foil against romney, and i think they just latched onto that train. >> i'm getting whiplash watching these people go up and down. >> reporter: at a book signing in iowa, michele bachmann also downplayed the news. >> the main endorsement i'm looking forward to is the one in iowa on january 3rd in the caucuses. >> reporter: as for iowa, some believe gingrich is now the favorite there, even though he has yet to spend a penny on paid ads. but plenty of others are. michele bachmann flooded central iowa with automated phone calls. romney, ron paul and herman cain bombarded the state with campaign mailers. gingrich's biggest hurdle in the primary could be immigration, where he favors allowing some

longtime undocumented workers to stay in the country. it's a vulnerability romney is trying to exploit in this mailer. rick perry, who saw his onetime front-runner status thwarted because of immigration is hoping for a second look. he's nabbed the support of arizona sheriff joe arpaio, a prominent illegal immigration opponent, who travels with perry to new hampshire tuesday. with the rise and fall of so many conservative opponents this is year, mitt romney's biggest challenge may be simply to avoid looking stale as conservative activist grover norquist noted of his tax plan. >> he needs to update it in order to catch up with where the debate's going. >> the uncertainty is something we haven't seen in decades. it still has conservatives pining for other candidates to jump in. one group, conservatives for palin, plan to run the tv ads in iowa later this week, trying to draft sarah palin into the race, matt. >> chuck todd, thank you so much.

>> as tim russert would say, "what a story." let's get more stories from natalie morales at the news desk. >> good morning, everyone. it's a historic election day in egypt, where voters are heading to the polls since hosni mubarak was ousted back in february. nbc's chief foreign correspondent richard eng sell is in cairo with more. we've seen the escalation of the violence in the last two weeks, how significant is this vote? >> reporter: good morning, natalie. so far it's peaceful today. it's significant because of who is voting and who is running. this is just the start of a political process in egypt. egyptians will be going to the polls over the next several months to elect a new parliament. but what is significant is that many of the people here in tahrir square have decided to opt out of this election. they're boycotting. they believe that the egyptian military can't be trusted to oversee a transition to democracy.

the muslim brotherhood, however, which is a party that is islamic, it was banned under hosni mubarak, is participating and it's expected to do very well. >> richard engel in tahrir square there, thanks so much, richard. and now some other news out of egypt. last week we saw this video of three american college students who were detained in an egyptian jail, all three were released this weekend, they returned to the united states, and i spoke to one of the students, gregory porter, who denied the accusations by egyptian authorities that he and the other young men had molotov cocktails and were violent toward police. >> i never had in my possession anything relating to moll tv cocktails. i never had any intent of making molotov cocktails, and i was certainly never on a rooftop, as they were claiming we were when we were arrested. >> you never became violent towards the police in any way. >> we were simply there to observe. we stood in the background and just watched history unfold before our eyes. >> porter claims he had been beaten by egyptian police while in jail. a severely 8-year-old obese

boy in ohio has been taken from his parents and put in foster care because officials say his mother isn't doing enough to control his weight. the third grader tips the scales at about 218 pounds while the average boy his age weighs just 57 pounds. his mother who is not identified says she loves her son who is otherwise a normal boy and even makes his school's honor roll. old rivalries die hard. 73-year-old joe pap offered a single flower to 74-year-old archrival angela moska. he told him to shove his flower and two started shoving back and forth. in case you're wondering this bad blood is the very definition of old school. the two have been at odds since a 1963 game when moska used a controversial maneuver. they just will not let it die. it is 7:16. time to bury the hatchet, guys.

7:16. back to matt, ann, and al. >> are canadians more -- >> come on. >> i don't know about that. >> more peaceful. >> wow. >> rival of the yodas. >> a union and a hockey game. natalie, thanks. a great stretch of the weather we've had. what's going on -- never touched me. we have a frontal system running from canada down to florida. a lot of rain with it and back behind that low-pressure system we have cold air filtering in. parts of the south going to be seeing snow. memphis may pick up a few inches over the next 48 hours. heavy rain making its way from are atlanta all the way up to the west of buffalo. that's what's going on around the coun good monday morning to you.

well, we have 50 feet or less visibility in places like livermore and san jose right now. you really want to take it easy. thick patches of fog across the bay area will slow you down on the morning drive. it won't hang around all day. temperatures will climb to 60s as a result. and your bank of the west seven day shows you no rain chances this week. it will turn breezy to windy wednesday and thursday. latest weather. ann? prince william is being hailed a hero, after a cargo ship sank in the irish sea. nbc's michelle kosinski is in london with more. >> reporter: generally we think prince william, future king and some glamorous occasion but over the weekend he was all flight lieutenant william wales doing what he loves to do, flying a chopper in the middle of the night in the worst conditions to save someone's life. everything about this mission

was treacherous, middle of the night, pitch black, gale force winds howling across the irish sea, waves some 20 feet high. above it the helicopter co-piloted by prince wilial. below it, two sailors desperately clinging to a lifeboat. both russian crewmen were pulled to safety. their huge 260-foot-plus british freighter had been hit by an enormous wave, rolled, split in two and then sank. one sailor's body was found, others were missing. this is prince william's day job. >> straight ahead. >> roger. >> reporter: and he talked about it just before his wedding. >> it was totally apparent straight away how important it is. you're flying low down at night and 40 knot winds, the clouds down to about 200 feet and trying to get through to someone who has broken a leg, it gets

quite interesting. >> reporter: in september when we saw william and catherine on a classic royal visit to the hospital what we didn't see, he had just worked a 24-hour ship, up all night, rescued a woman with a head injury, picked up a fellow serviceman aboard a ship who needed to visit a sick loved one and then to his royal duties, far less dangerous. >> it's fun and rewarding and put the two together and it's a fantastic job. >> reporter: is it too dangerous for a future king? >> prince william said when he became a serviceman he didn't want to be wrapped up in cotton wool and made to do easy duties. he's not going to shirk his responsibilities and this is what he sees as his duty. >> reporter: it's hard to describe the level of respect and admiration people have for the prince's military service, when you hear them talking about it. prince william will serve six weeks in the faukland islands in

february. >> congratulations to his entire rescue team. just ahead the prime suspect in the disappearance of a maryland woman in aruba said to be released from jail tomorrow. br will that lead the case? the latest in' live report, but first this is "today" on nbc. if i can take classes year round

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they claim the private firm hired to investigate has a conflict of interest because it's already worked on several security projects for the university system. time now is 7:26. let's check out the weather right now with meteorologist christina loren. >> let's see if i can get you some ricola. we have really thick fog out there. it is starting to clear. that's the good news. still, you can only see for 50 feet or better in places like san jose and livermore as you make your way out the front door. watch out for dangerous driving conditions at least for the next couple of hours. by 9:00 a.m. today we'll see the cloud break apart and the sunshine will breakthrough. bringing temperatures inland into the 60s. upper 50s at the coast. right here we stop the clock at 9:00 a.m. a little bit of clearing for the south bay and the peninsula. it will be foggy and cloudy for the east bay and the north bay. the breeze really starts to build. it's going to be downright blustery. then friday through sard nice mild conditions. temps in the 60s.

let's check your drive with mike. >> my map shows a 30 minute travel time in the altamont pass to 680. speeds dip down to the 20s and 30 it is through pleasantotn and sunol and over the hill to fremont. 101 northbound around capital expressway pass the airport. and slow southbound 101 to san mateo. this is early for speeds in the 20s but that's what we're seeing now. >> mike, thank you very much. for the latest traffic and news update check out nbc bay area on facebook. we'll have another local news update for you in one-half hour. i joined the navy when i was nineteen. i was a commissioned officer at twenty-three. i was an avionics... tactical telecommunications... squad leader.

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♪ 7:30 now on this monday morning, the 28th of november, 2011. these folks are here after a long holiday weekend and lucky for them it is a balmy 58 degrees outside, remarkable for this time of year. if they stick around until wednesday night they can catch the lighting of the rockefeller christmas tree. more in a bit. >> looks nice when the scaffolding comes down and they're ready to flick the switch. >> we have our decorations up in the studios. inside studio1a i'm ann curry alongside matt lauer.

if you're surfing for a bargain and don't know where to go we'll give you a special monday whip you can't afford to miss, especially if you're looking for toys, electronics and clothing. parents will try just about anything, i know i will and have to get our kids to eat their vegetables but believe it or not some of what you may be doing could lead to your child becoming overweight. there are apparently eight things that parents do that actually cause their children to be overweight so we'll be getting into those coming up. and ground-breaking new robotic surgery that's giving new hope to sleep apnea sufferers and i guess i should probably say and their spoiuses and partners, too, because people who have sleep apnea are not easy to be in the same bed with. we begin with a game changer in the case of robyn gardner, the missing american in aruba. a judge ordered the prime suspect released from jail. nbc's jeff rossen is in aruba

with the latest on the story. jeff, good morning. >> reporter: hey, ann, good morning to you. it is a bombshell decision that shocked nearly everyone on the small island of aruba. the judge told prosecutors if you don't have enough to charge gary giordano with manslaughter, murder, any crime you need to release him. tomorrow gary giordano will be released from home and his lawyer says he'll flying home to maryland. as the sun kissed waves crash in the prosecution's case may be crashing down, hard. in over three months they've been unable to find robyn gardner, dead or alive. >> gary, over here. >> reporter: unable to find direct evidence against the prime suspect, gary giordano. the judge had enough, now ordering giordano's release from jail tomorrow evening. chris ledgeway is giordano's aruban lawyer. >> when i asked him how he felt he started to cry, tears of joy

of an innocent man. >> reporter: you believe he's innocent? >> i believe else' innocent because i have no reason to believe he's not. >> reporter: he's been behind bars for 114 days, still not charged with anything. prosecutors are fighting release but in another setback aruba's appeals court won't hear the case until wednesday, some 18 hours after giordano's release. >> if gary giordano is not here on the island, if you're not in control of him anymore, is your case effectively over? >> no, no, our countries do have a treaty in place for extradition. we'll go on with the investigation. we are determined to bring out the truth. >> reporter: the case is bizarre in this exclusive surveillance video, robyn and gary are seemingly happy at this beachside restaurant in aruba. hours later she's gone, never to be seen again. giordano says he and robyn left to go snorkeling. and she was swept under by the current. you can see giordano banging on doors looking for help, just

minutes after she vanished. you're convinced he's lying? >> yes, not only convinced, we think we can prove he's lying. >> reporter: but not enough to charge him. >> well, at this point in time we still are not sure what has happened. >> reporter: after more than 100 days a lot of people say if you don't know what happened yet, maybe he should walk out of jail. >> well, again, that's an opinion. and we feel that he still needs to be here and that's why we filed for an appeal. >> reporter: but investigators have searched the water and the beach where robyn was last seen, even staged an elaborate re-enactment at the scene and no sign of her. >> we feel that somebody out there must know something, and when they see that there's some pressure on and that this is their last chance to do the right thing, that they'll step up to the plate and they'll do the right thing. >> reporter: so here's the time line, gary giordano will walk out of jail here in aruba tomorrow evening, officials say around 5:00 p.m., if prosecutors

win on appeal when the high court hears the case on wednesday and they sort of miss gary giordano by hours, he's midair or back in the u.s. prosecutors would issue a new arrest warrant and contact u.s. authorities hoping they send him back. there is an extradition treaty between the two countries, ann. >> jeff rossen thank you very much. john q. kelly is a former prosecutor familiar with the aruban justice system, he represented natalee holloway's mother. >> i don't think they'll get him back there. >> ever? >> ever. >> really, so in that sense are you saying this is a done deal, once he leaves, this case is over? >> unless they find a body and charge him again. i mean the prosecutors are complaining, appealing the decision not to hold the man. all the prosecution has to do is charge giordano now and he's not going to be released from prison. >> you disagree with the judge's

ruling? >> i disagree with the way the prosecutors are handling it. they haven't charged him yet. he has motive. he has opportunity. he has circumstantial evidence against him and exhibited consciousness of guilt. it's a strong circumstantial case, the prosecution has pulled the trigger and should charge him. >> do you think the authorities there are basically getting cold feet about this to some degree because of the natalee holloway case because they failed to prosecute in that case? >> they've always had cold feet. you can see it from the aruban legal system there's no transparency there. they don't try murder cases. they want this to go away. >> so failing to face, if in fact he deserved to, could gary giordano when he returns home with this now behind him, could he collect on the $1.5 million travel insurance policy he took out on robyn gardner? >> he's apparently thought of that. two days after robyn disappeared

he called on the insurance company to check if it's in place. i think he'll have a long road ahead to collect. >> based on what? >> there's substantial evidence to indicate he was involved in her death and shouldn't collect on the policy. >> the man is returning back to maryland i understand, where he lives and you know, they could not find a case against him to basically file charges against him. he comes back an innocent man. is it possible for him to file a case against the authorities for holding him for so long without any charges ever being filed against him? >> no, none whatsoever. that's the repercussions, they had enough evidence to hold him, a judge ruled they had enough evidence to hold him. i don't think he has an option. the only option is for the family of robyn gardner to bring a wrongful death action against him >> what would be your message to the family of robyn gardner and her friends f they believe gary giordano is guilty they have

very little recourse. you have a unique perspective, you represented natalee holloway's mother. >> bring a civil action and don't let him capitalize on the death of robyn gardner. >> john q. kelly, thank you, appreciate your getting up early. now let's get a check of the weather from al. >> ann, thanks so much. a lot of folks traveling today. last night, folks had problems leaving logan airport, a lot of dense fog shutting things down, causing a lot of delays, big problems, flights were backed up for hours and we had problems in the new york area as well due to high winds as well. hopefully things back on track today. look at the temperatures from 10 to 20 degrees above normal in the east and back through the plains, colder than normal through the south where you think it would be the opposite. highs today, 42 in memphis where they see snow tonight, 64 in denver, 66 in new york city and as you look at the afternoon highs around the rest of the country, 40s and 30s through the

plains, 80s through the so good monday morning to you. taking a live look at oakland where you can barely make out the cars here. we have some really thick fog across the bay area. it is widespread. no relief basically wherever you're headed. you'll have to drive through that this morning. we al have flight delays reported out of san francisco and san jose. so check ahead with your carrier. we won't see the fog all day long. it looks like it will clear by 9:00 a.m. in the south bay. tempatures with sunshine coming in later will hit the mid 60s. we have no rain in the forecast. but it will be windy wednesday and thursday. latest weather. ann? >> al, thank you so much. coming up next, why walmart has to staff up for midnight shoppers one day each month, plus your shopping guide to cyber monday. but first these messages. [ female announcer ] today...is the day

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we're back now at 7:43 with what's caused the nation's largest retailer to change the way it does business. nbc's kate snow is here to explain that. >> good morning to you, matt. this number might surprise you but 15% of americans now rely on food stamps to feed themselves and their families. we all know black friday was a crazing shopping day but you might be surprised by what's happening every month in a lot of walmart stores and supermarkets. beca reader is nearly out of food. >> there's no milk, no milk. >> reporter: and she's out of money to buy more. >> just water, bacon grease for the dog's food, and a little bit of apple juice. we got two different kinds of cheeses there and there's our

tortillas, so there we have quesadilla. >> reporter: becca, husband t.j. and son miles have to hang on for six more days until the first of the month, that's when they'll get the cash to go food shopping. it's the same story for james dougherty and jessica postma. they live in the same idaho town, nampa, and waiting for the moment they learn there's money in their account to feed themselves and their five children in their blended family. >> we are calling the qwest card line to see what our balance is. >> one moment, please. >> reporter: finally they get word. >> your balance is $691.00. >> a great day, it's like oh. >> reporter: it's 12:01 a.m. and now they can go shopping. the money they've been waiting for isn't from a paycheck, it's

a month's worth of government assistance from the food stamp program now called s.n.a.p. the number of people who rely on food stamps has gone up 37% in the last two years to 46 million. so many people are shopping the instant they get their assistance that it's changed the way walmart, the nation's largest retailer, does business. >> a few years back we started seeing that our customers were literally sometimes at midnight were really showing up in our stores. >> reporter: on the first of the month. >> on the first of the month. >> reporter: carol johnston is walmart's senior vice president of store operations. you bring on more staff because of the spike? >> right we bring more staff to stock and make sure all of our registers are actually open because some people think 12:01 it's quiet, but in a lot of areas 12:01 is a big day or a big night. >> reporter: james and jessica get a babysitter so they can get

to the store right at midnight. becca figured out her debit card gets it at exactly 12:04 a.m. both the families we profiled are working families, at least one in each couple is working. >> it's a sad reality and a sign of the times. kate, thank you very much. appreciate it. by the way, see more of kate's story tonight on "rock center with brian williams" at 10:00, 9:00 central time and of course that's right here on nbc. still ahead, eight mistakes you could be making that cause your kids to pack on the pounds. we'll tellbout fit these messagutthe, but first ese messages. glad that one's over. yeah, i know what you mean.

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saw deborah's family. >> i cooked for 15 people, made martha stewart's turkey. i stole her turkey. >> what did martha do? >> they don't need a commercial, this isn't a commercial. i went from the parade and did an early dinner/late lunch with my family at scottos, at fresco. oh my god, it was fantastic. >> so much easier. >> it was fantastic, no cleanup. next big event right here on the plaza on wednesday. >> right, they're going to light up the rockefeller center christmas tree. savannah guthrie joins me starting at 8:00. a number of stations start at 7:00 and then we will light that bad boy up right around 8:55. >> justin bieber -- >> i think i've done it 22 years. >> when when i first started it was literally a five-minute forecast. we've got justin bieber and a whole slew of folks coming in,

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good morning, everyone. the time is 7:56. i'm jon kelley. a funeral process will be held today for the danville marine killed in afghanistan. corporal joshua corel's remains will be delivered today. hundreds in the community have already attended vigils and memorial service for him. the 19-year-old marine was serving his first tour of duty in afghanistan when he was killed back on november 18th. his funeral will be held on wednesday. time now for a check on your weather. let's check in with meteorologist christina loren to find out about that foggy forecast. >> oh, yeah. it is not making your morning drive easy. never easy to begin with.

with all the fog, take it cautious this morning. we still have areas where you're only getting 50 feet or better of visible. watch out for that in the south bay and the east bay. future cast shows you at 9:00 a.m. we'll start to see sunshine breakthrough the clouds, and then a nice day shapes up for us. temperatures up in the 60s. 64 in san jose. and that goes for los gatos as well. you'll hit 60 today in the city of oakland. watch out. flight delays reported out of san francisco because of the low ceilings. as we head to the midsection of your week turning windy. as we conclude this week into the weekend, lots of sunshine, nice conditions, nice and dry. no rain in the forecast. let's check your drive with mike. >> we'll look at how slow it is. made worse at the southbound 17 to northbound 85 junction there is an accident there as well. a big backup for 101 and 280 around the 880 interchange as well. we'll look at a slow drive for

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♪ 8:00 now on a monday morning, it's the 28th day of november, 2011, and while it looks like the holidays here in rockefeller plaza with the tree behind us and all kinds of nice decorations and some santa hats, it doesn't feel like the holidays, because it is 58 degrees right now. >> crazy. >> a little bizarre, isn't it? i'm matt lauer along with ann curry and mr. roker, and it's already a record-breaking start to the holiday shopping season. you have to root for the retailers in a tough economy. you root for consumers as well. we'll do that today. >> that's right, because millions of people today are shopping online, so our crack

staff has been looking for the best deals online and so we're going to have those for you coming up. >> a lot of folks, millions of people put their health at risk every time they go to sleep, talking about sleep apnea. a revolutionary new robotic surgery that's helping cure that disease. and also ahead we're going to get the holidays off to a swingin' start with some great music in our studio, that's michael buble, the grammy winner will be performing inside during our 8:30 half hour. >> wow. he's going to put news the mood, isn't he, for the holidays, right? >> a lot to get to. natalie is inside with a look at the headlines. >> good morning, ann, matt and al and good morning, everyone. basketball powerhouse syracuse university fired a long time assistant coach accused of child sex abuse. bernie fine was let go last night, despite his claims of innocence. this, after a third man came forward to say fine molested him when he was a child.

on friday, federal authorities also searched fine's home for more than six hours, and a recorded phone call surfaced and was aired on espn sunday in which a woman said to be fine's wife tells one of her accusers that her husband has issues and should not have been trusted. supporters of former imf chief dominique strauss-kan allege one private e-mail had been read by his conservative political party. strauss-kan a socialist was considered the main rival until that sexual encounter with a new york hotel maid derailed his chances. today, egypt votes in its first election since the ouster of hosni mubarak. three american college students detained in an egyptian jail were were released and returned to the united states. i asked one of them about the

accusations from egyptian authorities that he and the other young men had molotov cocktails and were violent toward police. >> no, i never had in my possession anything relating to molotov cocktails. i never had any intent of making molotov cocktails and i was most certainly never on a rooftop as they were claiming we were, when we were arrested. >> you never became violent toward the police? >> we were simply there to observe, we stood in the background and we just watched history unfold before our eyes. >> porter also claims to have been beaten by egyptian police while in jail. this weekend, police are searching for missing florida mother michelle parker and raided a home where her ex-fiance is staying. lilia luciano is here with more. good morning. >> reporter: good morning. michelle's family shares more details with us about the missing mom in the hopes they'll hope someone remembers something that can bring her home safely.

>> are you helping clean that out? >> reporter: michelle parker just being a mom. these videos taken just weeks before the 33-year-old disappeared. >> this is like a morgue now. there's no life here anymore. >> reporter: inside michelle's home her mother tells us real sit starting to kick in. >> i hope we get to see her again, you know, as the days go by, i just don't know. >> reporter: it's been 11 days since the popular bartender and mother of three went missing, on the same day she and the father of her 3-year-old twins appeared in a taped episode of "the people's court." >> he gets pretty malicious and vin vindictive. >> reporter: dale smith is not a suspect, police say but over the weekend the investigation took an unexpected turn. in the cell phone video caught by a neighbor, a suite team raiding the house dale smith shares with his parents. the same house where michelle's twins are staying while the search for their mom continues.

>> all i see is like the suite coming up to the windows and the gate, just fire extinguishers, flew a flash grenade, broke the door in. >> reporter: with the police going to his house what do you think they were looking for? >> michelle. they were looking for michelle. >> reporter: michelle's family has been saying all along that they had no reason to suspect dale smith, but now her mother tells us they're not so sure anymore. dale smith and his family have not responded to requests for comment and although police confirmed that they went to the home, they will not reveal any details of the search. natalie? >> lilia luciano in orlando this morning, thank you. the internet is buzzing with the sounds of ecommerce as holiday searhoppers, search, po and click for bargains. retailers say black friday spending in stores was up 7% over last year. one woman's creative effort to fight holiday weight gain has

gone viral. they call her the dancing queen of the gym and apparently thinks the safety rules on a treadmill are made to be broken. we just hope she doesn't break anything else there. pretty smooth on that. let's go, already. this labradoodle has places to go and people to see. you hear him honking the horn. the youtube store thought the best way to get the humans back in the car was just keep laying on the horn. come on, let's go! cute. 8:06 right now, back outside to matt and ann. very cute until it gets annoying. >> which is fairly soon. >> right. >> meantime, moving on the treadmill, they should use her for a music video, somebody should hire her. >> we may have just done that. >> i hope so. i thought she was good. >> a check of the weather from mr. roek per. >> we have a cutie here, who is this? >> avonley, 8 months old from

tennessee. >> a cutie. >> thank you. >> our pick city today just happens to be dayton, ohio, wdtn, nbc 2 on your side, rain, cool, 50 degrees as we look at the week ahead, going to be warmer than usual but wetter than usual into the northeast and the plains, out west, cool down to the south where we could see some snow. midweek period we're looking for warm weather again in the northeast, look for cooler conditions out west, and as we get to the latter part of the week, we're expecting to see again that warm air still hanging out in the northern plains, normal throughout much of the country, below normal temperatures through the southwest. where are you guys from? >> lancaster, p.a. >> very nice good monday morning to you. taking a live look at the sunol grade. you can see we have really thick fog. the good news is that it's lifted above the highway. it's not attacking your immediate visibility on the road.

dense fog is in place for another hour, should expire right on time at 9:00 am. sun will shine, warming us up into the 60s. 65 degrees today in gilroy. no rain in the forecast. it will turn breezy wednesday into thursday. >> got another good ing fami family. where are you from? >> florida. >> what is your name? >> frances, javen and sean. >> you forgot to say something. a guide for your cyber monday where you can get some terrific deals but first these messages. ♪ i wish it were sunday ♪ cause that's my fun day why hn by hollywood's biggest stars. now you can have a neil lane ring for the star in your life. presenting neil lane bridal at kay jewelers. - this scrollwork is a vintage technique, very intricate. - each hand-crafted ring is an original neil lane design

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"consumer reports" or cnet and know what are the comparable technologies to the things that you want. if you want a laptop, have a few in mind that would be acceptable, because you don't want to get something that's cheap and find out it's cheap. >> exactly right. let's talk about flat screens, everybody's looking for flat screen tvs. you found one you think is a good deal. >> this one by vizio is just under $500 and internet connected. what i like about this television is that it uses your home broadband network to stream video from the internet so you can watch things like hulu or amazon on demand. >> this year you can save 250 bucks. >> exactly, you got to be quick. >> laptops, all computers are not for all people. you have to make sure you get the features that work with what you want to do. >> right. >> why do you like this one? >> i like this setoshiba becaus it's a lot of laptop for under $400. it's just under six pounds so it's lighter than you think and got a lot of storage as well so you can use this as your main machine to hold your photos,

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off the entire line of nerve toys. >> toysrus.com. >> this is 40% off of one item, that's one per household so if you have one big ticket item for the holidays, that's your place to get it, there are exclusions. check the website. there are exclusions so go to yoyo.com, get barbie toys, hot wheels, thomas the tank engine, craft sets, really cool stuff. >> all right and moving on to mbeans.com, aka magic beans. >> an independent retailer, all about independent stores, support local business, 20% off site wide no, exclusions in their toy department, no limit. it's really, really great. get magnetic tegu blocks, cuba maze, green toys, melissa and doug, very good stuff. >> thank you so much. appreciate it. now here's natalie. >> ann, thank you. next up, apparel, liz gumeiner is publisher and editor in chief

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sure you're wearing them well. esprit.com offers 40% off the site. >> the entire site, stock up on outerwear, accessories. we found this gorgeous down parka, down to $137 so really great deals to be had. >> very good, thanks so much. >> thank you. last but not least here's al. >> who doesn't want to get away? cyber monday may be the day for to you book your next vacation. nilou mutamed good morning. >> good morning, we have to talk fast. starwood hotels, w, westin, st. regis, all those 35% off on their rooms. so in cancun, $79 a night, so a swim-up bar is something you're interested in, perhaps getting a massage on a beachside, check out the website for this cancun property at the westin. >> next trump hotel location, serious discounts, all seven of

their properties. >> that includes vegas, two properties in new york, chicago, doing 35% off on suites. you can book that from, starting right now until the end of the day, wherever in the location, so giving you extra time in some of the places that are on the east coast. i'm talking too fast but $99 in las vegas to stay at that great hotel, the rooms have floor-to-ceiling windows, even the pool has a view and they have a kid's cocktail menu. not alcoholic i hope. >> i would assume so. the kids get their hair to look like donald trump. >> you had to get a joke in. >> chicago's magnificent mile. >> $9 a might to stay there, book this deal now so get on it right away and the great thing is they have the deal from december 11th all the way to december 30th. perfect time to go shopping on the magnificent mile which is where you are. >> fantastic, always good to see you. >> and thank you.

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>> all right, gir girls. as police officer we conduct a service for the community, i didn't realize it would be for something like this but it's important to stay healthy. >> and we're joined by dr. nancy snyderman. nancy good to see you.. >> hey, matt. >> who is at most risk for this? >> most -- well mostly men over the ange of 50 who tend to put n pounds over the years. the officer is interesting because he was never fat but had a thick neck and tissue at the base of his tongue that caused the problem but it can happen to anyone over the years. i've seen it in babies. >> why did he lose so much weight after the surgery? >> when you have sleep apnea you don't sleep well. when you don't sleep well you crave the wrong foods and puts it in the really weird cycle of eating poorly so it's very, very easy to either start fat and then get fatter or to get sleep apnea and then because you're exhausted, your body just naturally puts on weight. >> clearly if you go to a

professional it's easy to diagnose. they diagnosed him in a minute but what are the signs without going to a professional that should alarm people? >> number one, snoring at night. and if you follow that with morning headaches and a lot of times daytime sleepiness where people say no matter what i do i'm exhausted, and irritability and memory loss should not be minimized. this could really affect people's performance at work. a lot of times bosses catch it first. >> when we heard the officer say that they found he was not breathing for up to a minute and a half. >> right. >> that sounds very dangerous. >> what happens is if you're really holding your breath that long, what does it mean? your brain is not getting oxygen, your heart is not getting oxygen. you prematurely develop all kinds of problems like heart disease. you can fall asleep at the wheel, leads to diabetes, all kinds of problems. you may not need robotic surgery, that's state-of-the-art but you should see a good ear, nose and throat doctor who will diagnose you correctly >> good to see you. >> thanks, matt.

a holiday performance from michael buble, after your local news. good morning, everyone. the time is 8:26. i'm jon kelley. this morning, the search continues off half moon bay for a missing paddle boater. we now have new information on the situation. the harbor master told our nbc bay area photographer and the coast guard have confirmed this. a man gave a false identity to a paddle board rental company and then just took off. he did not return from his trip off pillar point harbor yesterday. the u.s. coast guard, along with state and local agencies have resumed their search this morning. anybody who has any information on this is asked to contact the coast guard or local police. time now still 8:26. time to check on traffic with

mike inouye. we'll start with slight delays, very unusual for san jose international airport. up to half hour delays. check with your carrier. low visibility, fog all around the bay area. making 17 and 880 extra slow this morning as well. live look out there shows you what things are like at the san mateo bridge. a look at oakland, past the coliseum, we can now see the roadway. it's a slower drive. close to 60 heading downtown. jon? >> mike, thank you so much. slowly filter iing out of there. check out nbc bay area on facebook. this cyber monday online only,

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we say hello to all of the fine folks who gathered in our corner of rockefeller plaza. i'm ann curry along with matt lauer, al roker and natalie morales. coming up this morning, we're also going to be talking about this problem of how we hop on kids not to gain weight. there are things we might do that make them gain weight. do you ever say to your children, look, if you eat your vegetables you get to have dessert. >> yes. >> that is common for parents, that probably doesn't help so we'll get to the bottom of that and other tips. also, do you use emoticons? the smiley faces when you text? >> you use them, natalie. >> i do not, only with my kids. >> what does it say about you? what about in a business envirnlmenenvirn environme environment? >> definitely not. 29 million people suffer

from migraines and there is now thinking to not only what causes them as well as best ways to treat them. we'll have the details coming up. >> the heart emoticos and this e they're pretty and red. >> that was a story gone past. we mentioned michael buble was' talk about our 18th annual holiday toy drive. our first elf of the year, as ann mentioned and we might also mention for the second year in a row, grammy award winning singer michael buble, has a holiday album out, pulling in quite the haul. >> he's a sweetheart. if you can't make it to the plaza to give us a toy for the holiday toy drive go to today.com for the details. >> starting with today, we're talking about snow in the deep south, memphis, nashville, maybe looking at some snow today, rain

moving up into the ohio river valley and parts of upstate new york, wet weather down to florida, showers out west, sunny skies through the southwest. tomorrow the heavier rain moves into the northeast and the ohio river valley. rain in the pacific northwest, sunny and warm through the southwest and good monday morning to you. taking a live look from high atop san bruno mountain. you can actually see here a lot of fog hang iing out. that fog is starting to clear out. the sun is warming up that top layer. dense fog advisory is in place until 9:00 am sharp this morning. as you can see here, clouds continue to roll through until 9:00 am. we'll get a nice break. temperatures will be on the warm side. clearing early like san jose, for example. 62 in santa cruz. don't forget, you can get your weather any time of the day or night, go to the weather channel on cable or weather.com.

>> this is cyber monday, biggest day of the year for online purchases. who is doing their holiday shopping online? are you? >> absolutely. >> what is on the willist? >> we want to get a new laptop for our family and gifts for, you know, our son and other people for the holidays. >> lots of toys for the young one. >> do you find huge bargains? >> absolutely on amazon own other sites, you can price compare and shop around. >> how old is your son? >> 15 months. >> congratulations. >> thank you. >> where are you from? >> annapolis, maryland. >> what are you doing in ining? >> vacation. >> when i talked to you, did you notice mr. roker ran away in the other direction, nothing, nothing, nothing. >> what, huh? when we come back are you making mistakes helping your kids pack on the pounds? we'll talk about

back now at 8:36. most parents have done it, you bribe your kids to clean their plates at idinnertime or entice them with sweets to eat their vegetables. joy bauer is here with the parenting mistakes that could be packing on the pounds. joy, good morning. >> hi, ann. >> happy post thanksgiving. >> thank you. >> we're all on tryptophan this morning. >> trying to wake. >> encouraging kids to clean their plates. >> kids are born with this amazing internal mechanism, they eat when they're hungry and they stop when they're full and as parents when we encourage them to clean their plates, we're really messing with that mechanism and we're teaching them to overeat so our job as parents is to provide small to moderate portions of healthy food, but ann, their job as the kid is to decide what quantity they're going to eat. >> don't keep nagging them. >> no. >> when you say small to moderate portions, what is this is that?

different parts of the country have a different definition. >> for toddlers and preschoolers, about a quarter to half the portion that you would feed yourself and then use your personal judgment. >> mistake number two, offering sweet rewards. what if they won't eat their spinach otherwise, joy? >> you don't want to dangle the pot of gold at the end, the dessert for the broccoli. you're reinforcing that the broccoli is so unappealing that it requires a prize. >> i don't think they have to be told that it's you an peeling. i think they pretty much know. >> they figure it out on their own especially when we try to use that dessert leverage so instead keep it positive. tell them vegetables make them smarter and stronger and help them to grow but whether they eat the vegetables or not and i can't believe i'm going to say this, i would still give them the dessert. it's still okay. >> yes? >> never give up on vegetables. >> talk about popeye, and why i eat spinach still today. mistake number three, serving too many starchy snacks. this is a no brainer.

for example what? >> we give kids so many snacks and that translates to calorie overload and also disinterest in real food when lunch and dinner rolls around. so you want to be strategic about snacks. no more than two or three a day, if you can, keep them about 150 calories or less, and you want to make sure that you don't give your child a snack within two hours of a meal, because we want to get them hungry. >> so you're saying carrot sticks instead of potato chips? what would appease them, nevertheless? >> well, most of the time we give them starchy snacks like the crackers and the pretzels, all starch, no protein and new research shows now that the starch makes them sluggish, tired, but if there's protein incorporated like yogurt, a string cheese, hummus, peanut butter. it wakes up their brain cells. >> letting kids pick the menu. >> it depends. what are they going to pick, macaroni and cheese, pizza,

burgers and fries. as a parent you have to take control. if you can make slimmed down versions of their requests, that's a home run, but you also want to mingle in some adult things like shrimp and broccoli stir-fry, there's the blockly again because we want to expand their taste buds. >> if they refuse to eat it? >> you have one fallback meal, keep it the same night after night and make sure it does not require the oven or a stove, a peanut butter sandwich, a bowl of cereal. the idea here is to give your kids some sort of power to give the option that's not exhaustive to us. we don't want to feel like a short order cook. if it's limiting and boring hopefully they'll venture out and try some exciting things. >> allowing too much screen time is a mistake, a lot of sitting around and letting kids stay up late. what is the evidence for that staying up late leads to obese isn't it. >> just like with adults, it messes with your hormone balance. it increases the hormones that make us hungry, and it decreases

the hormones that make us full so kids that are sleep deprived truly will be hungry throughout the whole day and tend to nibble and graze and munch. so know how many hours your kids need and make sure that you stick to it. >> and you also say that letting our kids when they're very young stay in strollers is not such a great idea. teaches them to be -- >> sedentary, sedentary thrown so to speak. as soon as your kids are old enough to work, 10 months, 12 months, ten-minute rule, ten minutes in the stroller, ten minutes out of the stroller. it's a little bit more exhausting for the parents and you're not going to cover as much ground but it's a great thing to start with them in terms of increasing activity at an early age. >> i know from personal experience you lose weight chasing them around. >> you're right. >> thank you so much. coming up, are you sending the wrong message if you use smiley face symbols and winks in your e-mails and texts? we'll find out but first this is "today" on nbc.

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back now at 8:43, when it comes to e-mail and text messaging, there are two kinds of people, people who use emoticons and people who despise them. where do you fall? >> somewhere in between. you don't strike me as a colon half parentheses kind of guy. but the truth is we've all thrown a smiley face into an e-mail or a text message, but while well-meaning, is that smile really spreading joy? emoticons, the little sideways faces popping up in e-mails, text messages, twitter feeds and facebook walls. and we're not just talking about smiles, a few taps on your keyboard and you could be

winking, perplexed, yelling, even skateboarding, and homer simpson, yup, there's an emotor confor that. >> doh! >> reporter: what's the deal with the faces? >> you want to add a real feeling to the post you put an emoticon at the end. >> if i'm worried the message is misconstrued, i put a smiley face like i'm so happy with you. >> i think the emoticons are a reaching back to find facial expressions and tones of voice that were missing from our all text all the time life that we're living now. it's sweet that way and kind of human. >> reporter: while emoticons enjoy their rise in fame they make some people less, and more. >> to be like a lack of imagination. >> oh, they're terrible. they're awful. >> i think it's the downfall of civilization.

today emoticons, tomorrow chaos. >> reporter: they even have "curb your enthusiasms" fired up. >> what are they going to be in newspapers? >> you called it. shortly after this episode, the new york times ran this. so if emoticons are good enough for national red lines, does that mean they're okay to use at work? >> i would not recommend using them in a work context. if your boss has started the emoticon story, you may respond in kind, but don't send an emoticon to your boss unless she or he has sent you one first. >> we asked our "today" show offices. >> too cutesy, too 20-something. >> i like the smiley face. >> the only thing worse than emoticon is a winky. >> i like the one that winks. >> show me again. >> that face. >> reporter: for the fining word we decided to go straight to the top. i'm going to write an e-mail to the big boss, jim bell, our

executive producer here at the "today" show. dear jim, omg, i kinda feel like i should take all the holidays off this year. you rock. happy face. p.s., i also just got braces and now have a slight lisp. so was my e-mail well-received? how disturbed were you by the way i wrote that e-mail? >> not good. >> not good in an office setting? >> not good. you can put a period at the end of good, no the an emoticon, smiley face, closed prearenthes. if you wanted to you could underline and boldface. >> reporter: what did we learn from all this? seems at the end of the day, perhaps the safest way to send someone a smile is face-to-face. >> you know i always have love

for you so happy thanksgiving. >> is this xoxo? >> better way. >> happy face, happy face. >> oh, peter alexander right there. clearly jim bell our boss is not a fan. here's the thing show, i find i'm doing it more and more. you write a sentence that's not a great sentence, maybe doing some, undoing good news not so great, smiley face. >> the devices make it easier and easier, now they have that little section. >> right to the end. >> scroll over and it pops one off. jim bell and his comments to you, normally he spam blocks all of your e-mails. >> we have to go through nine layers of security just to have him receive one of our e-mails. but for purposes of this he did. matt thank you. >> thank you. jenna wolfe, thank you. special performance from michael buble in our studio but first this is "today" on nbc.

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album called "simply christmas." good morning. >> good morning. >> i can't believe this is your first christmas album. >> i can't believe it took ten geniuses to come up with the name "christmas." what will we call it? i know, christmas. >> what put new the mood for doing this album? it seems you are perfect in the way you sing to do such a thing. what took you so long? >> i wanted to establish myself as an artist because i didn't want to make a christmas record. i wanted to make the christmas record and this was christmas music was a huge part of my life. i think it's what introduced me to music when i was a kid, the bing crosby record was playing and that was it. introduced me to that style of music and now i'm 36 years old, when i hear it, i get sentimental. now that my sister has kids, both of my sisters have kids it comes back and makes it more important again. >> if you're weighing against

that bing crosby and that was in everybody's home, it must be intense to be not only making an album with favorite songs but also writing a new song yourself. called "cold december." you already know the name "cold december night." >> yes. >> the point is to take that on as well, says something about what you want to do to christmas music. >> it's called "cold december night" but should be called "cold december chang" because alan chang did all of the work, he's my co-writer. we're co-writers. >> nice, well done and you're getting credit so that's good. >> it was so good i couldn't help but do it. it's one of my favorite songs on the record. >> so that's terrific and we're excited to hear about that and also you have a lot else going on, because you're doing the kris mastery lighting. >> christmas tree lighting. >> and holiday special on the "today" show and newly married and to a beautiful woman. how is life these guy deys for you besides exhausting? >> life is great. i'm happy, excited for christmas

and i get to see the whole family and her family is coming in from argentina. i am probably the most content i've ever been. >> that is good. i'm happy for you. >> thank you. the only thing that could make me happier is singing christmas songs. >> let's do that. how about that? i'll stop asking you questions then and the song is called "santa claus is coming to town." take it away, michael buble! >> let's go, boys. ♪ ♪ you better watch out, you better not cry, you better not pout, i'm telling you why ♪ ♪ santa claus is comin' to town ♪ ♪ he's making a list, he's checking it twice ♪ ♪ he's gonna find who's naughty or nice ♪ ♪ santa claus is comin' to

town ♪ ♪ he sees you when you're sleepi sleeping, and he knows when you're awake ♪ ♪ he knows if you've been bad or good so be good for goodness sake ♪ you better watch out, you better not cry ♪ ♪ you better not pout, i'm telling you why ♪ ♪ cause santa clause is comin' to town ♪ ♪ let's go, boys, oh, yeah ♪ ♪

♪ he sees you when you're sleeping and he knows when you're awake ♪ ♪ he knows when you've been bad or good, so be good for goodness sake ♪ ♪ you better watch out, you better not cry ♪ ♪ you better not pout i'm telling you why ♪ ♪ santa claus is coming to town ♪ ♪ you better watch out, you better not cry ♪ ♪ you better not pout, i'm telling you ♪ ♪ santa claus is coming, i mean the big fat man with the long white beard ♪ ♪ he's comin' to town

very good, boys. >> michael buble, making bing proud. thank you so much this morning. catch michael on "christmas in rockefeller center" wednesday night at k, 7:00 central and holiday special, much more after your local news. good morning, everybody. it's 8:56 now. i'm marla tellez. plans are in the works for protesters to reoccupy frank ogawa plaza in downtown oakland. protesters say they plan to retake the plaza tomorrow with a 24-hour-a-day, seven-day-a-week

vigil. they have not cleared it yet by the police department. they were force d out earlier this month when police tore down that tent city. christina loren has a look at your forecast. >> good morning, marla. a lot of fog out there. that prompted the national weather service to extend that dense fog advisory until 11:00 am. that fog is starting to clear just a little bit. 65 in fremont, 64 in san jose. windy conditions develop wednesday into thursday. have a great monday.

the holidays may be the best time of year to generate goodwill. but it's the worst time for generating waste. i'm suzanne shaw. california leads the nation in recycling. 89% of our glass is recycled, but we recycle only 9% of polystyrene, including in foam packaging. it has to be cleaned to be recycled. most bay area recyclers take used food containers straight to the dump. just because you put it in the bin doesn't mean it gets recycled, which is why more than 20 bay area cities have banned the use of styrofoam and

polyst polystyrene. support local polystyrene bans and use biodegradable materials. learn more at nbceditorials.com. ♪ deck the we are back now with more of "today" on the 28th day of november, 2011. even though a lot of people are out doing their christmas shopping, it feels like may. we have 50 degrees on this monday morning. >> nat king cole. doesn't get better than that. you're one of those people who said uh-uh to the crowds on black try day, maybe waiting to get a good deal on cyber monday. that's today. >> now we're going to be hearing from jean chatzky who has ideas

about great cyber deals from nontraditional places. scoping out all the possibilities of that coming up. >> we've been trying to reduce your holiday stress with good tips. one of the triggers for migraines, we'll talk about what some of the tryiiggers are, the causes, and how to treat migraines. guys tend to be a little looser, more independence. >> ann is scowling. they throw their children too high when they toss them towards the sky. >> there are things about our parenting. >> that i agree with. but not everything. yes. just some things. 9 i'm with the some things. welcome back to breakfast with the bickersons here this morning. natalie has a check of all the headlines. natalie? good morning, guys. good morning to you all once again. retail to the rescue. the economy got a boost from

black friday shoppers. now it's cyber monday's turn and courtney regan is in hawthorne, new york, with details. courtney, good morning. i'm at ibm's industry solutions lab and here they're tracking real-time data from what customers are buying, where they're buying it and how they're buying it. we are seeing three times more than they did last year. also we're seeing black friday traffic up according to ibm data here up 24%, year over year and a new stat just coming in, in the first hour of cyber monday shopping, sales are up 30%. so far, some of the winners, amazon.com, walmart, target, best buy, and apple, a lot of little kids looking for iphones, ipods and ipads this holiday season as opposed to those

typical firetrucks and dolls. natalie, back to you. >> hopefully a sign of consumer confidence but we'll see how it holds out. courtney reagan in hawthorne, new york, thanks. syracuse university fired a veteran assistant basketball coach accused of child sex abuse. a third man came forward to say fine molested him years ago and this weekend, espn aired a recorded phone call in which a woman said to be fine's wife told another accuser that her husband had issues and should not have been trusted. federal authorities also searched fine's home on friday. fine meanwhile has maintained his innocence. it's a historic election day in egypt where voters are heading to the polls for the first time since long time authoritarian leader hosni mubarak was ousted by a popular uprising back in february. this is expected to be the fairest elections in memory but turmoil in tahrir square has the population is divided over the country's uncertain political future. now some other news out of

egypt, last week we saw the video of three american college students who were detained in an egyptian jail, all three were released this weekend and have returned to the united states, and earlier this morning i spoke to one of the students, gregory porter, and his lawyer, ted simon, about the accusations from egyptian authorities that he and the other young men had molotov cocktails and were violent toward police. >> no, i never had in my possession anything relating to molotov cocktails. i never had any intent of making molotov cocktails, and i was most certainly never on a rooftop as they were claiming when we were arrested. >> you never became violent toward the police in any way? >> we were simply there to observe, we stood in the background and just watched history unfold before our eyes. >> and it's clear, he told this to authorities right away. he clearly was not involved, and what's more, when we period in front of the court, too, he expressed his innocence, which of course we but now know the court granted his release and permitted him to leave the

country. >> porter also claims to have been beaten by egyptian police while in jail. the muppets were no match for vampires at the weekend box office, "the twilight saga: breaking dawn" captured the first spot the second week in a row at $42 million, the muppets second and "happy feet 2" came in third. in case cyber monday has you overwhelmed, here is another way to get your shopping done from the comfort of your own home. take a look as this dog owner in china has trained his dog to go shopping for him. the pooch carries a basket with a shopping list and money from store to store, making the rounds, but like any hard worker, the pup deserves his pay, a possible sickle and sausage always hits the spot. i need a dog like that. five minutes past the hour. let's go back outside to matt, ann and savannah. get him to do the work for you. >> he's thinking i need a bigger basket. >> that's very cool. let's get a check of the weather, mr. roker across from us. >> thank you so much.

if you want an itinerary of what you need to do when you come in here, what is your name? >> harlan anderson. >> and? >> lori. >> you've been here since november 23rd. check out the list, got here on the 23rd, you did the parade, stardust diner, radio city, "today" show, rockefeller center subway, central park, brooklyn cabaret. you did the "today" show twice? >> yes. >> wow! you like the "today" show. >> very nice. congratulations. i'm exhausted just looking at this. let's check your weather and see what's going on. we'll show you we've got this line of showers and thunderstorms stretching its way from florida all the way up into new england and back behind the system we're starting to see some snow, memphis, nashville, knoxville, look for anywhere from one to three inches of wet snow, a heavy rain also in that area, we're looking at some showers back through the pacific northwest, we're also expecting plenty of sunshine from the plains, all the way up into the western great lakes. that's what's going on in the country. here's what's happening in your

good monday morning to you. it's a gradual process, but the low cloud cover is starting to clear the city of san francisco. nonetheless, it's going to take another couple of hours. the national weather service extend ed that dense fog advisoy until 11:00 am today. travel cautiously until then. at about 11:00, we should get partly cloudy skies over the greater bay area. 55 in fremont, 64 in san jose. no rain in the forecast. lot of wind wednesday into thursday. >> and that's your latest weather. natalie? ♪ monday, monday >> al, thank you. this morning on" today's money" cyber monday, prices are slashed across the internet and it's estimated over $1 billion will be spent online. "today" financial editor jean chatzky has advice on how to get the best deals. good morning. >> nice to see you. >> black friday, $11.4 billion in sales, that's huge so this is going to be incredible. >> that's right.

there was more than $800 million spent online on black friday and looking for more today. >> big boost to the economy. when you get out there on your computers, do your homework first. what should you be doing? >> there are a lot of apps that can help you manage the shopping process, no matter what kind of mobile device you happen to be using, two that we particularly like, afind.com. if you have a wish list of items and stores that you've told facebook that you like, you can actually sync it all together and it will point you in the direction of things that you're looking for at the best prices. also, decide.com, for electronics, has an app that will tell you whether you should buy it now or whether you should wait to buy it later because they're expecting the price to go down, kind of like the airline fare sites work. >> i hope they're right. also you say take advantage of free shipping and i think a lot of people have come to expect free shipping. it's not always the case.

you want to make sure you ask. >> make sure you ask. december 16th is free shipping day and on that day 2,000 merchants are expected to offer it. now there are caveats, $100 of particular merchandise in order to get free shipping thrown in so make sure you pay attention to the bottom line to make sure you know what you're paying. >> black friday and cyber monday most people are buying goods but you say it's also a good time to think about travel, because you can find good deals as well. >> what's interesting about cyber monday, retailers don't have brick and mortar stores want to play in the sandbox so a lot of travel sites, united airlines is offering really good deals, kimpton hotels, marriott has a number of resorts in the caribbean and mexico if i can get that word out that are offering good deals, tripalerts.com let me know. look at other spas and sort of nontraditional merchants. >> you say think outside the box

store and nontraditional sites, living social, groupon, great places to save more. >> the social media sites are getting into the effort. living social is teaming up with national retailers to offer deals on this day, groupon has deals that they are touting as events, things you couldn't necessarily buy on a site like gro groupon. guilttoday is going to be unrolling new deals every three hours. >> oh, great. i'm already guilt obsessed. >> they want you to keep coming back. >> last, cyber monday. be careful of online advertisements. >> when you click on an advertisement make sure it's taking you to a secure site before you put your credit card number in and you press "go." make sure that you're not being sent somewhere where they just want to get your personal details and identifying information.

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treatments that work for you can be critical. dr. peterson, good morning, good to see you. >> hi, savannah. >> explain how migraines are different from ordinary headaches. >> well, migraines are a chronic neurologic disorder and cause moderate to severe headaches and what sets them apart from other types of headaches, typically they're one-sided, they are this robbing in nature rather than just being a squeezing pressure and often associated with nausea and sensitivity to light and sound and they can last many, many hours, even up to three days. >> it can be really debilitating. >> yes. >> times people say part of their vision is affected. >> that's right, that's called an aura, it's a warningle? and you can get flashing lights and even blind spots. >> we'll talk about triggers, but what causes a migraine. >> what happens is there is some altered blood flow to the brain and this causes the blood vessels in the brain to dilate and then they're large and swollen they press on the nerves around them, and they cause these chemicals to be released

and both of those factors cause that debilitating pain. >> it's hard sometimes to figure out what might have set off a migraine but what are some common triggers we know of? >> there are environmental triggers and lifestyle triggers. we have stress, obvious, skipping meals when your blood sugar goes down, being dehydrated as well. certain foods can trigger it, alcohol, red wine is my trigger, aged cheeses and chocolate. >> you've just basically described my diet. throw coffee in there and call it good. >> what else? also poor sleeping habits. if you sleep too little or too much, that can be one, menstrual cycles and changes in weather can also trigger them. >> i know you recommend keeping a migraine diary. >> it's important for people to identify their triggers. for women, keep a diary so you can make associations and if you don't know how ta make one on your own, a good place to start, migraineresource.com, a good one on the internet.

>> things that are not medications, is there some way to treat it without having to turn to drugs? >> there is. treatment of migraines is a multifaceted aapproach. things you can do once you get a headache that are alternative are ice, biofeedback, relaxation techniques and even just sleeping it off, those are some options to start with. >> ice on wherever it's hurting or the neck? >> either/or, both. >> in terms of the medicine, what do you recommend? >> two categories, there's pain medication and preventative medication. pain medication, start with over-the-counter medications, that can be effective for many people and typically contain ibuprofen or aspirin and if those aren't enough go to your doctor and get a prescription strength, those are a class called tryptans and can work for you. >> coffee, a lot of people say caffeine can stave off a headache or reduce it once you have it? >> it can. the caffeine itself can be a pain relieving chemical.

some of the over-the-counter brands even contain caffeine in them. and then the other option for people, if you get migraines frequently is to do something that's preventative, that's something you take once a day instead of just as needed, and that can help also ward off the headaches as well. >> those are for chronic sufferers? >> correct. >> is it ever a sign of something more serious you should talk to your doctor about? >> any time you have a severe headache you need to be seen by your doctor to be diagnosed with migraines and they will do a proper exam to make sure it's nothing more serious. >> dr. keri peterson, good advice for the migraine sufferers out there this time of year, a lot of stress, a lot of red wine so be careful. thanks so much. >> thanks. coming up, who are your style icons? we'll take a look at 100 of the most unforgettable dresses of all-time. but first these messages. scratches in the denture, and that's where bacteria can grow and thrive. these are the very bacteria that can cause bad breath.

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>> especially during the holidays, it makes it a little bit harder. we're all just a phone call away from something like this. >> police have released photos of the suspect, describe iing h as a mixed race or latino man between 18 and 24 years old. they also released a photo of his suv, possibly a black mazda cx with some front end damage and 12-spoke sportrims .ri. we'lcheck that forecast and the roads after this. aaron, you're all set. great, thanks. mike, thanks for doing that discount double check.

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treating your drive with mike inouye. >> simmer down, slow down. and, for the most part, people are, which is causing some more slowing for 580. look at this drive through livermore, still very slow through livermore, vasco. slowing on 580 because of an earlier accident. and the other major reason, fog. very low visibility. pleasanton to the hills in fremont and the south bay. speeds are definitely down into the 20s at times. slow approaching the bay bridge toll plaza. back to you. >> that will do it. mike, thank you. we'll be back with our next update in about 30 minutes.

sfloet tonight, tonight, there's a party on the rooftop, top of the world ♪ ♪ tonight, tonight ♪ and we're dancing on the edge of the hollywood sign ♪ ♪ i don't know if i'll make it that is the breakout hit from the band, they're going to be here to perform tomorrow, and collect toys for our toy drive, tomorrow on "today." i love this song. >> it's such a good song. >> it's been on hits on sirius for about a year now. coming up, what can mom learn from dad when it comes to parenting their kids?

>> hmm. >> a lot, we know. >> goes both ways. according to researchers, moms tend to coddle kids and overplan every outing. >> do we now? >> yes, we guys tend to be more flexible and advocate independence. we basically just kind of do it as it goes. >> a guy totally wrote that. >> we're going to tell you what the experts say. sometimes, believe it or not, dad does know best when it comes to kids' development. >> come on, kids, let's go down to the man cave. >> there you go, hey now! a slightly less controversial topic, unforgettable style icons, marilyn or jackie o., sarah jessica parker and kate middleton, pippa of course. 100 unfore gettable dresses and how they influence what all of us are wearing now. although i don't think any of us are wearing the green j. lo except al roker. >> he can get away with it. tis the season throwing a casual cocktail affair, easy and

impressive italian appetizers we're told you can whip up in no time. see if you can whip up a good forecast. >> show you first of all, wet weather along the eastern seaboard, wet snow back behind that system, back through the southeast, showers making their way into the interior sections of the pacific northwest, tomorrow heavy rain here in the northeast, mid-atlantic states on up into parts of new england, snow back through the central great lakes, rain along the puget sound, plenty of sunshine, gulf coast on into the good morning to you. very limited, but we're getting a little blue here on your sky above san francisco. this is from high atop san bruno mountain, facing the city. still a lot of fog situated right over the city by the bay, at least the next couple of hours. dense fog advisory in place until 11:00 am. numbers slowly but surely are creeping up. that fog is clearing out of here. 64 in san jose, 65 in gilroy.

sun will be out about noon. windy conditions wednesday and thursday. and that'sier latest weather. we've been talking about the first official day of our annual toy drive, earlier michael buble was out collecting some toys on our plaza. it's already off to a great start. now another generation donation michael mcally from lego systems. >> good morning. >> tell us about your donation. >> we're thrilled to kick off this year's toy drive, $1 million of lego ninjaga. >> why did you decide to step this up year? >> we've had a great run the last couple of years and decided it's time to give back and make sure every kid has the chance to have a creative play of lego. >> this is a great gift especially for boys. were you a lego fan as a child? >> absolutely i was. >> michael mcally thank you so much. ninjaga! from lego systems, we appreciate

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this morning on "parenting today" raising kids like a man. no surprise that men and women tend to have different parenting styles but moms can learn a thing or two from the way dads care for their kids and vice versa. here with that is elizabeth mayhew, editor in chief of "women's day" magazine. good morning. >> good morning. >> i love this topic. we can learn from each other. >> we can and it's not that one style is right or wrong. they're both right and we need to acknowledge that and it's true that women really can learn something from men in the style and the ease at which they kind of go through parenting. >> we were in the atlanta airport yesterday and this goes to your first tip, get physical. there was a dad with a 2-year-old, in a stroller, he's tipping the kid back and forth, kid's laughing and deborah's

going, what is he doing to that child? i thought this is great. >> women wanting to hug and cuddle and more passive, softer, physical bonding, men tends to get physical, wrestling and tickling. kids are by and large not going to get hurt and there is nothing wrong with that, it's a male's way of bonding. women to lighten up and have fun, it's okay to laugh, tickle and have a pillow fight and engage them is a good thing. >> girls benefit interest that just as much as boys do. >> absolutely. it's about laughter, it's impromptu and it's fun. it's about having fun with your child. >> we also moving on, dads more often than moms advocate independence. >> right, so dads are more likely to say sure, go ahead and take the bicycle down the driveway. go up on the jungle gym. it's fine, whereas moms tend to be more protective, for many of us that's the sentimental side of us not wanting our kids to grow up when really you do need to have them have that independence, part of the

developing self-reliance that they're going to have, to have confident kids who can go out into the world and take chances. >> moms tend when we have the outings, they've got everything planned almost to the minute. whereas guys, eh, we've got the kids, we can buy lunch meat. everything's okay. >> right so i'm guilty of this, needing to pack the bag with the apple slices and the water bottle, god forbid they get thirsty. my husband really focuses on the bigger picture. let's go out and have fun. he takes his keys, wallet and the kids and they go out for the day and at the end of the day they have a great time. it's about focusing on the big picture, what's fun to make them happy and not worried in getting bogged down with the details. >> and when kids get into uncomfortable situations, like let's say something goes on with the kid at school or something like that, i think moms their first reaction is i got to take care of this, whereas dads are kind of let them kind of work it out, as long as it's not something that there's physical abuse. >> dangerous, right. but even something as simple as tying a shoe like if my son's shoe cleat comes untied in the

soccer game my inclination is to tie it for him. >> rough for him and his teammates. >> you want them to work through that, experiencing sadness or frustration, all of those things are good and again, helps them develop this self-reliant, they can get it done on their own and work through it. it's about becoming a positive forceful person that you can do things on your own. >> here is the other thing, and look, thank goodness for moms. let me say this right off the bat but you guys tend to give in to the guilt a little bit more than dads do. >> we have by and large a perfectionist kind of ideal of what a mother should be. you're born to be a mother. you think you have to mother a certain way, make the brownies, sew on the labels, do all of this stuff and the truth is that having that big bar of perfection isn't really necessary and you need to constantly question why do i feel guilty? why do i make myself feel this way? is it this ideal or is it who i really am. >> dads don't feel like everything has to be right. >> we beat ourselves up in doing

it. it's not necessary. we need to ease back and take a big lesson from dad on that and not feeling so guilty about everything. >> i think the other point here is that we can each support each other in our different styles, where one does one thing, the other does something else and it all meshz togethes together. >> right and it's very important sometimes to borrow that from dad. take a page out of his book, out of your book, al. >> elizabeth mayhew, thanks so much. still ahead 100 unforgettable dresses and the icons who wore them, right after these messages. [ female announcer ] ornaments are not for decorating.

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style" the most unforgettable dresses of all-time from jackie o. to elizabeth taylor and sarah jessica parker, some styles and stylemakers you can't forget. hal rubenstein looks at the way the styles shape the way we dress in his new book "100 unforgettable dresses." you say it so well that women's fashion is cultural live persuasive, psychologically daring, hopefully uplifting and coationally foolish but undeniably influential celebration. you said it so well. >> what else can i say? >> why do you focus on these dresses in this book? >> because i think what's amazing about these dresses because they don't just come from the runway, they move from movies and television and politics and comedy. fashion influences what we do every single day, changes our perceptions of beauty, it changes how we dress, how we see ourselves, how we see our pop culture and ourselves within that culture.

>> you put marilyn monroe near the top of the list and there are so many iconic looks but maybe none more than this haller it halter dress. >> the second most marketed film. i think what was so catchy is that marilyn was a mixture of both innocence and sensuality. she was irresistible and happy. she actually made sex look like fun. >> this is dress is still being copied. >> this dress is available from $8 to $150, one has a mechanism that blows up the skirt and comes with the grate. >> the other marilyn dress the happy birthday mr. president or shall i say. ♪ happy birthday mr. president >> it's a fabric called souffle. ed alloyd stevenson said she was wearing skin and beads. it was $12,000, three months in the making and done in complete

secrecy. >> the designer himself didn't know what it was for. >> she wouldn't tell anybody. >> talk about jackie kennedy, what can we say, she's truly an icon. >> jacqueline kennedy onassis, there was a calculated design to make the world see america was not just about popcorn and movies and hotdogs but that we were cultural place, we were a land of elegance and basically cultural and civilized people. >> you talked about her wedding dress when she married onassis but this is the iconic look right here. >> it was a matter of level of taste, it was the fact that she recreated and redesigned the way we saw the first lady, with the dresses that she wore. the dress that she wore with onassis when she married onassis was the mini dress by valentin te o, i'm no longer the grieving widow. >> why highlight this dress of

elizabeth taylor? >> the slip dress from butterfield days, it's a terrible movie. she even thought it was an awful film. she only did it to get "cleopatra" part of the deal. this was a slip, not really a dress but this ushered in the whole idea of the boudoir sensibility of satin and lace. the sale of lingerie shot up after that film. >> sarah jessica parker, her own red carpets are stunning in a variety of ways. >> sarah jessica is fashion's enthusiast. she adoerz fashion. she is really the greatest thing that happened to world fashion. that whole show "sex & the city" did so much to boost it, the pink cotton candy chanel dress or the wedding dress, taking a

chance and having a blast doing it. >> she relishes it. let's talk about jennifer lopez and how can we forget the green plunging neckline. >> ask matt, he can't forget it either. >> matt wore it, but everyone noticed it but no one copied it. >> that's not a dress you can pull off unless you have jennifer lopez's body. the most iconic famous red carpet dress of all-time. it shocked everybody, basically the best thing that ever stand to doublestick tape as well and she looked completely innocent wearing it. that's the amazing thing. >> what, this dress? kate middleton is seeming to hit every fashion note perfectly. >> unlike her late mother-in-law who basically whose wedding gowns about as influential as it was hideous, when kate stepped out of that rose phantom on april 29th, she wiped away the shame and scandal with the royal family and made everybody fall in love with the concept of monarchy. she was modern but romantic,

streamlined but appropriate. people just adore her, best thing that happened to british fashion as well. >> a great book, fun to rubenst. come up, appetizers for your next holiday bash. first this is "today" on nbc.

♪ so let the good times roll this morning in "today's holiday kitchen" simple italian appetizers and snacks. jason tetten is the restauranteur at the ino group in new york and here with delicious ideas. jason, good morning. >> good morning, how are you? >> i'm great. >> it's just a tiny little restaurant stanfor on bedford street we opened up about 13 years ago. >> now five restaurants later. >> yes, partners in a few others. >> let's get cooking.

you'll help us with appetizers this morning. >> snacks for the holidays a lot of the ideas that you prep it up and get it set up ahead of time so you can entertain and have fun with your guests. >> which we love to you. >> this is a basic straightforward recipe, great ingredients and simplicity is the mantra. we have our beef, pork. >> this is meatballs with sp spedini we're making. >> skewer, so you're mixing everything in. and then the most important thing is you just want to integrate it all together without overworking everything. >> you have the dried crumbs in here, the bread. >> exactly. what moistens it is the milk here, i'll soften everything up. >> regular millk? >> we use organic. >> okay. >> whole milk. >> healthy. >> so basically that's the starting point. once it gets to this point, we're going to form our meatballs and to do the skewers

we're using the meatballs, we have chipolini onions. >> looked caramelized before. >> you most them up ahead of time because you don't want to burn the outseed of the onions. you want them cooked all the way through and just really easy to deal with. >> easier to put on a stick opinion you're putting some bay in there as well. >> adds an earthy flavor to it. we have our meatball there. and goes right to the grill. you can do it on the grill or you can even do it in the oven if you don't have one on the surface, you know, grills like this or even a panini press works. >> this is how you serve it up? >> this is the end product and great if you entertain on a plate and want to do this, serve this or if you want to do little mini skewers you can do that as well if you're passing it around as far as finger food. >> you have this polenta appetizer as well. >> this is done the day before so you're cooking your polenta

making it really soft and pours into the pan and this is going to be chilled. once it's chilled, the next day it seizes up like this and we cut it into little squares. >> you grill it also. hey guys, ready for appis, appetizers? >> this is a little bit of balansami balsamic, extra virgin olive oil, salt and pepper, drisled over the top, put the radicchio on top and gorgonzola dolce. >> nice white bruschetta there. >> the bruschetta is simple, wilted greens, olive oil, garlic and a little ripilo solato. >> jason, delicious, thank you so much. >> thank you so much. just ahead kathie lee and hoda welcoming a new member of the joy fit club who dropped a whopping 135 pounds. >> coming up after

good morning. it's 9:56. i'm marla tellez. santa clara county will open three homeless shelters today to provide emergency beds during

the cold winter months. the shelters in gilroy, sunnyvale and san jose will provide 355 beds each night for the next four months. beds are allocated on a first come, first serve bases. more than a third of those who use the beds during winter are chronically homeless, meaning they've been homeless more than a year. 2011 survey found there are more than 7,000 homeless people in santa clara county. oakland is putting the freeze on new pawn shops to curb crimes. oakland lawmakers saw many secondhand dealers want to get cash for stolen gold. they're putting a moratorium on pawn shops to give them enough time to tighten rules and regulations. city leaders say the most affected area is the fruitvale district which has seen a spike in robberies this year. very foggy start to your workweek. meteorologist christina loren

joins us with a look. good morning. >> good morning. dense fog nor another hour. situated right over the south bay, clearing at the north end of the peninsula and in oakland. socked in so badly this morning, we couldn't even see 50 feet at one point. 55 in fremont. 64 degrees with that sun comes out at about noon over san jose. tomo tow aouch warmer. windy conditions wednesday into thursday. let's see how that fog is treating your drive with mike. >> it's been a tough drive. south bay had a lot of slowing, likely in part because of that low visibility. right now, we have a nice, easy drive. we are focusing on 101 at the bottom of your screen. passing highway 87. metering lights are off. slower there as folks make their way down the freeway. slow there through milpitas. we have that fog. clearer than that shot. we just lost the camera, marla.

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a captions paid for by nbc-universal television hey, everybody, it's fun day monday. it's cyber monday, which upsets me. it used to be a beautiful thanksgiving weekend. then it became black friday and small business saturday. did we have a sabbath in the middle of that? >> listen to this. what you're hearing are the beautiful sounds of michael buble. he'll sing for you later.

they took the scaffolding down. >> they are about to light it this wednesday. >> yes. it is beautiful. >> people come from all over the world to rockefeller center because there is no place like it in the world. >> the show starts at 8:00. al roker and savannah guthrie will be hosting. >> i heard we are going to hear tony bennett and justin bieber. >> and faith hill. how was your weekend? >> it was great. everyone came to my house, my mom, brother, his wife, hanna, jay, everyone came to my apartment. >> courtesy of whole foods. >> we are excited about being in the apartment. when you pick up your precooked thanksgiving dinner, it gives you a, b, c, the cooking instructions. put pan in the oven, cook it on x in 30 minutes. i would do it again over and over. >> nothing says thanksgiving.

you don't watch football games and stuff. >> we watched the virginia tech game. >> okay. >> we went to the parade. we came back. we cooked the thing. >> you actually have to put this in the oven for two hours so in a way you do cook. >> that's just mean. it was really fun. hanna was so excited because you saw santa in the parade. she freaked out. >> that's what parades are for, little ones like that. i never do trust somebody over 30 that wanted to go to a parade all alone. you know what i'm saying? you know who you are. why? you have to ask yourself why? >> how was your thanksgiving. >> we went down to our place in the keys. we had it a long time. it's out of the bag now. regis did it. i never mentioned it before, cody had a dream last year to make the usc football trojan team as a walk-on last year in his senior year and he did. he didn't want me to talk about

it so i didn't. but he ended up hurting himself. his ankle tendon and ripped it. still, you made the team, your goal was to make the team. you made it. how many people make a team like that in your senior year as a walk-on. frank flew out to los angeles on friday to be with cody at his final game. >> that's cool. >> yeah. then he graduates and gets a job. that would be great. >> start working, everybody. we have good news for you if you are an insomniac or if you are feeding your child at 2:00 in the morning or whatever. >> or working late shift. if you just can't get enough of your kathie lee and hoda. >> sometimes you miss things during the show. >> nobody says that. >> people can't figure out how to get it online. there is an article in the paper today in the "new york times" -- by the way, we made "the new york times," which is shocking in and of itself. >> i made it a couple of times, but not in a good way, so this

is good. >> the article is how we are on at 2:00 a.m. >> and cleaning up the competition, people. >> the infomercials are dropping like flies. okay? >> thank you for that. i have friends in the audience. one has been my dear friend since third grade. can't remember her name. jill strickland is here, one of my dearest and oldest friends and she is here with her friend laura and kara. jill has a gift for you. i've got one, too. i took one look at yours and said i'll take my home in privacy. this is for tall people. this is one of those things -- is that big enough for you, hodi? >> that will work. >> it's called footies factory inappropriate uses of footed pajamas. it doesn't come with instructions. you and jay figure it out. >> ew -- first of all, this is not sexy.

what would happen with this on? >> use your imagination. >> thank you, guys. >> everyone was saying black monday was a huge success according to all -- i mean black friday was a huge success according to all the stats. they said it was over a billion from last year. you saw this over the weekend. there was a crush to get in places. one lady wanted an x box so bad -- this is so appalling. she pepper sprayed people around her. >> merry christmas. >> she wanted that x box. >> she did turn herself into the police. they were bound to find her. >> there were lots of issues. it was a crazy -- people really choking. that is awful. >> what do you want so badly you're going to risk your life and limb for to maybe get $5 off on something? come on. have we totally lost our sandt in our nation? >> yes. >> and our deecency? >> yes. >> soon they are going to say

forget thanksgiving dinner. don't even eat with your family, just come in and shop for more. >> here is what i found weird. i don't know if this is just a new york thing. on saturday around 11:00, we all went shopping. we went to all the typical stores, banana republic, century 21, everything that was there, pottery barn. everything was deadsville on saturday and sunday. you have three sales people coming up to you when you walked in. >> i hope that is not true nationally. nothing wrong with shopping, just show respect for people. it's so upsetting. >> last year black friday was huge and the following days weren't. it tapered off. i had my gear on. i was ready to shop. you know how you get. it was peaceful. it was weird. i don't know. >> we were talking about it at thanksgiving. we were at our friends. we brought the stuffing and brought the -- by the way, her boys are dead to me. >> why? >> i worked, got the stuffing

there, got the yams and got the stuffing to the house early to stuff the bird, they deep fried it. >> they deep fried your stuffing? >> no. deep fried the bird and didn't put the stuffing in the bird. >> deep fried turkey is delicious. >> they are dead to me. >> how was their turkey? >> i didn't vote for their turkey. there was a contest between annie's turkey and the boys. you know what's hard to teach men? slow, slow and steady is a good thing to teach men. that turkey would have been succulent but wasn't because they deep fried it. they want it over with. >> i know. >> that is a good lesson. >> one of my friends did go on black friday. that was my friend emily. you know why she went? because she is flying down today to monterey, mexico, with my other friend and other ladies to go down to monterey, mexico, for an organization called

back-to-back it's called. it is a friend that has orphanages for young kids. they are taking christmas to 453 orphans. >> that's sweet. >> want to do this? i'll do mine because, you know. it's starting to get cold, kind of. not really. when it gets colder and you want to run out in the park and you like your music like i do. >> you love hats. >> you know i can't stand that. this is a winter hat. normal winter hat except when you look inside there are little head phone speakers. >> that is brilliant. >> so you plug this into your ipod, you put the cap on and it comes in a pink color, as well. it's not attractive. >> they'll see you coming though. that's the good news. that's really clever. >> it's from i-beanie. they range from $24.99 to $29.99.

what you got? >> every time i see this commercial i go, i love those bras. these are soma cami bras. it's a beautiful bra, and feel it. it's so soft. you don't feel like you're doing the madonna truth or dare tour with the torpedos. if you wear something low cut, you're not as comfortable you already have your beautiful lace cami in there. love that. it comes in white and red and they are so comfortable. our dear sara is on assignment today. she doubled as a rockette. >> she's kibing it? >> we'll have that later. it is "everyone has a story" week. >> we are making a call today to the blakemore family. natalie blakemore wrote us a letter talking about she has a son who is ill, but two young daughters who aren't always in the spotlight because of the son. >> they are young. they take unbelievable care of

natalie's son zach who has an awful disease. it's fatal, rare, progressive. all kinds of motor problems, motor skills and collect intell functions. >> often when one child is sick, the other two feel invisible. >> that was the word they use. the mother said i would like to honor my two daughters because zach with all his problems gets all the attention. look how precious. they build play grounds in zach's honor called zach's playground in other areas of their town. i think they are on the phone with us? >> we are here. >> we're here. >> yeah! you ready to get on the plane and come see us? >> we are so excited to come see you. >> i can hear your kids in the background. >> pack up your stuff and come see us. we are waiting for you, okay? >> wonderful. thank you. >> god bless you all. thank you. we also are going to do our

fan of the week! you ready? here she is. her name is marta maciejiewska from richmond, virginia. she does chores before the show. her favorite parts are "today's talk." she loves wine. she loves that we don't necessarily agree with others, but still wish her the best. there she is. >> look how skinny and sexy she is. >> she is sassy. >> this is what we are going to do for you. you and a friend are going to sarasota, florida, breakfast included. she gets a boat rental. she gets a round-trip airfare for two provided by the sarasota convention and visitors bureau. beautiful room. we are so excited.

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hoda is about to have a little heart attack. that is the one and only michael buble bringing in the season and hoda is losing it already. >> the grammy-winning crooner. if you've ever been in michael buble's presence, you feel it. >> i feel nothing. >> you know what? you complete me, hoda. >> you give him confidence. >> confidence. >> it's called "michael buble christmas." >> see what you do for him? >> it's called "michael buble christmas." it's my favorite record. what different things do artists say to you? it's the greatest record i ever made. >> why? you've done some great cds. >> my mom and dad love this. when we were kids my mom didn't have any other records but one, the bing crosby record. over and over. >> absolute classic.

>> so it actually introduced me to music. forget about christmas music. it made me want to be the guy. >> all the great orchestrations. >> in your career, you play all the old standards, everyone loves them. do people say you've got to do something more hip and poppy and stuff like that? you put your foot down and said no way. >> the truth is, my biggest hits are songs i've written. they are -- it's weird. people see me as the suit with the thing, but "have you met you yet" "everything" "home" it's weird. >> it's the setting, like the diamond, the setting of the ring. >> people need to characterize you. >> you can't let them. >> my music is very schizophrenic. there is a little of everything. >> you've got to be true to it. >> your video featured a young lady who later became your wife.

how is married life? is it fun? >> there's no escape. >> tell me the story again. did you meet her at this video? >> no. we did a show. i hit on her. i think i told you before. >> tell us again. >> i didn't know if she was not with the guy she was with. i talked to him and she thought i was gay and da, da, da. >> you're not? >> no. >> i'm kidding. >> now we are married. >> we've seen you four times since you got married. where is she? >> she is in bed here in new york watching me. >> you left her in bed? >> i said do you want to come see the show? she said, no. >> so she is with you. >> she is with me. >> you know how women can be. >> she's got a movie beginning two days. >> english speaking one? >> no. it's an argentine movie. i think the man directing it won

the academy the year before. her family will all come to vancouver to be with me and we'll drink too much and eat too much and sing christmas songs and drink turkey. >> and listen to the fabulous michael buble. >> and there is an original christmas song on there. i love that. >> is this one you sing in italian? >> no. we wrote all those other songs. we wanted to do something light and didn't want to make it a religious thing, just a holiday thing. missing the person you love for hanukkah or christmas. >> i love her so much. >> we love you. >> it's great to see you. >> we want to meet your wife some day.

hoda doesn't, but i want to. >> you can sing for us later in the hour. >> yes. merry christmas. >> thanks, michael. >> you're also busy at the lighting of the christmas tree wednesday night. don't try to leave town with that bride of yours. >> watch how this picket pocket team tries to work. [ male announcer ] xbox 360 with kinect, this season's hottest games and...sweatbands. [ grunting noises ] ahh! this is gold. [ mom ] woo! [ game ] snaps up the ace. i'll never be popular. [ game ] next game decides our winner. [ male announcer ] get low prices on this season's hottest games. like kinect sports season 2 for xbox 360 with kinect. rated e for everyone. backed by our christmas price guarantee. save money. live better. walmart. in 15 minutes, you can serve some warmth with your bread. and some flavor with your bread. and some layers with your bread.

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entering the height of it now with socializing, shopping and having our hands full of packages. >> bob has shown off his talents on the vegas stage. in this documentary called "pick pocket king" on the national geographic channel and bob is here to teach you a thing or two about protecting yourself this holiday season. >> you have to have a wanting to read people, understand who is weak and who is strong. thieves are going for the weakest link. absolutely. >> what looks weak to you? >> weak is someone who is easy, happy-go-lucky, not showing the face reaction of strength. they are going to target some people. if you go into a police station, if you look at who is the victim, it's always going to be the happy-go-lucky easy people. >> put their purse down, start talking to a friend. >> in a coffee shop, put their purse down. >> what about carrying a bag?

>> with the handbag, you don't have any nerves. it sits on the floor. sometimes they have a hook. they use the hook, slide it down and pull it off. >> pick pocketing is not always about fingers going into your pocket. >> you can hook it. >> cell phones? they love that because the password you have on your cell phone, piece of cake for them to steal. >> mine is the same on every single thing i own. we'll see how you do it. we have two suspecting nbc employees. >> we are going to take a little look. we'll glance at them. first thing you are going to remember, in order to steal from these people, it's not going to be bare handed. maybe there will be a little bit of a cover, a coat, something of that nature. if i could ask you to come closer.

stand over there. take the drink in your hand over there. that's good. put the drink a little bit over here. here is what i want you to do. put it back there. that's good. in your case, if i could have you come a little bit closer over there, thank you. i'm assuming you have something of value in there, is that correct? something of value? what about the credit card? hold on to it. >> i'll try. >> anything in there? >> no. >> what about the microphone? you have that on you right now? is that yours? that's yours. come right over here. i want you to lean over for your drink over there. do me that favor. that's good. here's the idea. you're going to have to check your cell phone with the case. you need your purse back. of course, you need your wallet. wow, that is a thick one. >> did you not feel any of that? >> i did feel this and i did feel this, but i didn't feel this. >> i felt some movement going on there. >> did you bump her?

>> you've got to remember i'm alone. i'm working a lone. a good pickpocket works in a team. someone squeezing from the side here. that's the way you get in the pocket. >> i don't like being squeezed from the side. you can tell. booking a flight by itself is an uh-oh. see if we can "stitch" together a better deal. that's a hint, antoine. ooh! see what anandra did? booking your flight and hotel at the same time gets you prices hotels and airlines won't let expedia show separately. book it. major wow factor! where you book matters. expedia.

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welcome back. we have a lot of fog hanging out, especially in the south bay. getting a bit of a break in the peninsula. little sunshine coming through. it will take a while before we get complete sunshine. once we do, temperatures will jump up into the 60s. 62 in santa cruz today. high winds as we head wednesday into thursday. let's check in with mike. clearing on the roads but low clouds are still hanging out. 101 still slow by the airport, which may still have delays. be sure to call your carrier before you head to the airport. traffic is lighter on 880 to the toll bridge plaza. coming up at 11:00, security is tight as the u.c. board of regents meets today in the wake of police action at cal and the davis campus. students are staging protests at

four different campuses. we'll bring you the latest details. plus, have you seen this? former cal football coach comes to blows with a formal rival during an awards ceremony. fi'll show you what started the t.jofi jokeeyn ll and i will be there at 11:00. we are back on this fun day monday with "today's buzz" affirming you with celebrity news you want to share with your friends. >> here is maureen o'connor. how are you? >> good to see you. >> look at miley cyrus in the news. it was her birthday. >> 19. >> what did she -- she tweeted something that got everyone's attention. >> somebody shot a video at her birthday party. >> they always do. >> somebody always does and somebody sells the video. the video appeared. they are giving her her bob marley cake. they said you're such an fing stoner and makes jokes about

being a pot head. >> so what was the blow back from that? >> we all know she knows how to use a bong because we've seen that on video, too. kelly osborne makes a joke, isn't your thing the salvia? >> which is legal. >> kelly osborne tweeted in her defense, she can't be a stoner, look how hard she works. it was just a joke, get over it. >> miley said, is she trying to distance herself from her disney deal? >> seems like it. she's gone out of her way to sex herself up and to be sort of to not apologize for any of these things. every time she is in another scandal, she says, well, i'm young. that's what i'm doing. she is growing up and doesn't want anyone to stop her from growing up. >> okay. >> piers morgan had a baby. >> first daughter.

>> tell us about that. he has other kids from another marriage. >> three other children. this is his first girl and first child with his current wife. >> cool. j. lo is getting some press because we heard about her with this backup dancer in his 20s. >> casper smart, he is 24. he is a backup dancer. >> which one is he? >> the one with abs in the front. >> they've all got the abs. you have to be more specific than that. they went to hawaii during thanksgiving. he met some of her family members including her 3-year-old twins. they've been photographed all over together. she's been coy. people will say i don't want to talk about my personal life right now. >> then why be around? she's been embroiled with the commercial she shot with fiat, where it was proven she was not in the block, the area of the

bronx. she was actually in southern california. are these things starting to add up to a public thing, wait a minute, you're not jenny from the block, you're misrepresenting yourself in the mind's eye of the public? >> she's been fighting that diva reputation for a long time. it's been an uphill battle because of things like this. she wants to keep saying, i'm still jenny from the block. then there are these blatant disconnects. when she is on "idol" she is making a huge effort to come off as warm and funny again. she keeps having these diva moments that disjar it all. >> i was surprised about this next story. i didn't know ryan gosling was dating eva mendes. >> we are hanging out with jay and hanna. >> they have been quietly dating for two months now. >> that's hard for celebrities to do. >> is she his type? >> they are in a cemetery. >> of course they are. >> a cemetery in paris.

they co-starred together in "the place beyond the pines" which will come out in 2013. he dated co-stars before. he dated sandra bullock, rachel mcadams. she recently quietly broke up, she had been dating a producer for eight years. she kept her personal life quiet. that was sort of a quiet break-up for her. they've been not secretly, they've been open about the relationship, they go out in public, but have been quietly dating and things seem to go strong. he had thanksgiving with her. >> demi and ashton, ashton did tweeting over thanksgiving. demi, i don't know whether she responded, but there seems to be something. >> she has her tweet moniker. >> the funny thing about these two, they are still connected each other through twitter and that's it. she has her mrs. kutcher twitter handle. both around the time of the

divorce she made a statement and ashton tweeted about it, both have been silence since then on twitter. he gave over his account. he has been completely silent. both on thanksgiving tweeted. he tweeted thanks to my family and friends. we should be more thankful. there it is. >> he was asking people what they are thankful for. she responded or wrote, why do we have only one day for giving thanks? is that why so many people feel unappreciated? >> they often have these sort of, are they talking to each other on twitter right now? is this them having their weird communications or not? >> you almost feel like the's mixed up, of what they are learning from kabila. sometimes it doesn't connect on an earthly plane to mere mortals like me. >> maureen, thanks. >> we wish them the best. >> we always do. >> thank you. >> up next, find out what led this guy to lose 145 pounds.

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it is time for another installment of look at me now the joy fit club. this 36-year-old man didn't grow up overweight, but the stress of college helped him develop unhealthy eating habit as long the way. >> when he realized feeling sorry for himself wasn't helping the pounds melt away, he decided to make serious life changes. let's look at his story. >> my name is tony pashet. i weighed 375 pounds at my heaviest. going out wasn't fun. i hated crowded spaces because i couldn't sneak through tight spaces without knocking people over. i had a hard time meeting women. one night while out at a favorite restaurant i found myself smiling at a cute girl, never thinking she would date me simply trying to be friendly.

her friend came up to me and said, no way, dude, don't look at her. it was heartbreaking. everyone would say, hey, big guy, which i hated. it was like being called fat dude in a nice way. i remember when my younger brother had his second child and i started crying. of course i was happy for him, but felt sorry for myself thinking i would never find someone to love me because i was too fat. i had no hope. i was either going to lose the weight in 2010 or die trying. so i made a plan. i purchased a food scale, measuring cups and used an app on my iphone which helped record the nutritional information of everything i ate. i started yoga classes and was feeling great. i rewarded myself when i reached every small goal. after one year i had lost almost 120 pounds. i changed my life and i cannot wait to help inspire others. >> before we meet tony, the leader of the joy fit club joy bauer is here to tell us what he likes eating beforehand. welcome back. >> he is so cute.

oh, my god. he's off the charts. ladies, he's single. really, really hot. he used to hang out at this place called brother demi's in manhattan. this is what he used to eat. really great. the ribs and potato salad, macaroni and chicken and corn bread. the whole thing was over 3,000 calories. the reason i'm showing you this because in the beginning, he was afraid to go back. even though this was the joint where all his friends hung out, he would stay home. he knew that wasn't going to work. he got up his courage, went there and chatted with a waitress who came up with a slim style meal he could eat for a fraction of the calories, grilled chicken, sweet potatoes, green beans and a slimmed-down cocktail. >> and still be with his friends, and check out the chicks. >> it's not where you eat, it's what you eat. >> i get all giggly. you're not going to believe this. he's hot! >> a michael buble moment. >> one last look at tony's

before picture. let's see the new you. >> are you kidding me? >> oh, come on. >> bingo! >> you look great. >> thank you, thank you. >> you look so much younger, too. >> yeah. >> you must feel so great. >> i feel really good. just this morning i did some yoga. just to get relaxed before i came here. just to do it. >> don't get crazy on us, tony. >> awesome. >> what kind of exercise. >> i just did yoga. i did some other things, but i would get injured a little bit, so i said yoga sticks to me. yoga is working. let me keep doing that. you don't think you can just do yoga doing that, but it works. >> how are the women reacting to you? >> it's weird. first i would, when they first

started looking, i would look behind me and see if there was something on the wall or my shirt. >> oh, my god. >> it's a different reaction. it's just trying to catch up mentally to the physical aspect. >> sometimes friends make it tough. come on, dude, have a little bit of this. >> it's their eating habits. they are doing what they do naturally. also people don't want to go, okay, you don't eat this because they don't want you to think, i think you're fat or i think you're big. they try to do what they do. if you offer something for them to say maybe you shouldn't do this, they'll help you out a little bit. >> you know what you have to be worried about now? making sure a woman loves you for you and not just that hot body. >> coming up next, holiday music to kick off this season courtesy of michael buble. ♪ cause santa claus is coming to town ♪

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town ♪ >> earlier we talked with michael buble about his life as a newlywed and his christmas cd. >> he is back with a special performance just for us. here is michael singing "a holly jolly christmas" from his new cd simply called "christmas." ♪ have a holly jolly christmas ♪ it's the best time of the year ♪ ♪ i don't know if there will be snow ♪ ♪ but have a cup of cheer ♪ have a holly jolly christmas ♪ and when you walk down the street ♪ ♪ say hello to friends you know

and everyone you meet ♪ ♪ oh the mistletoe ♪ it's hung where you can see ♪ somebody waits for you kiss her once for me ♪ ♪ have a holly jolly christmas ♪ and in case you didn't hear ♪ oh by golly have a holly jolly christmas this year ♪ ♪ ♪ oh the mistletoe ♪ it's hung where you can see

♪ somebody waits for you ♪ kiss her once for me ♪ have a holly jolly christmas ♪ and in case you didn't hear ♪ oh by golly have a holly jolly christmas this year ♪ >> the one and only michael buble.

today is the first day of our 18th annual holiday toy drive. we work with more than 200 family charities all over the u.s. to make the holidays brighter for children in need. >> this year so many families do

need our help. one of our generous partners is home goods. catherine beatty is here with a wonderful generous donation. tell us what you're giving. >> this year we brought the bear as an example of the wonderful things we sell in our stores. we are donating $25,000 plus something special. gift cards for all 200 of the charities that are participating in the toy drive so they can go to our stores and pick whatever they would like. >> that is fantastic. >> we love that bear. he's beautiful. >> this bear is the bomb here. >> this bear is a great example of the classic and educational toys we sell at home goods. he's only $19.99. >> does he have a name? >> i named him happy. he looks happy. >> we like that. >> i know you partner with the "today" show and charities here. >> we are a company that cares and we are very committed to

fighting children's cancer. we partnered with st. jude who kicked off the thanks for giving program. we'll be collecting money for that this year. we partner with the dana carver cancer institute. >> what are some of the hot items in your store this yims? >> the toys we sell are classic and educational. classic and educational is always hot. they never go out of style. those are the toys that make you happy. your children learn. >> thank you for coming to see us. >> thank you very much. >> happy holidays. >> you can donate gifts to children up to age 18. >> go on to our plaza, bring your stuff out here through the 21st. we'll do stuff online. >> see you all tomorrow. >> wait, betty white is coming tomorrow! and the whole cast of "hot in cleveland" is going to come by because you're on their show. themth ste.t you barely look at the other women.

>> i didn't know betty was on the show. -- captions by vitac -- www.vitac.com