from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb, live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. >> hello, everybody. welcome to ourhow. it is booze day tuesday, march 11th. we're just marching along. >> 11th already. >> 11th already. >> oh, my gosh. >> we have a couple of the real housewives of new york city today. i hope they don't break anything. >> they might. they can be violent, those girls. >> and kyle maclaughlin and relationship advice, wise beyond his years, mr. matthew hussey. >> jimmy fallon has been having a lot of fun on his new "tonight show."

he decided to do a little photo bombing with with a buddy of his at the top of the rock. he unsuspecting families were getting their photos taken when they were photo bombed by jimmy fallon, and also jon hamm. take a look. >> all right, ready and three, two, one. three, two, one. >> that went way better than i expected. >> a hoagie. >> this is a hoagie. also called lady and the tramp. >> three, two, one. >> i need to see the reaction of the families when they see the photos. >> that's cute. the genius of him, he can get

pretty much anybody to do pretty much anything. it is not the least bit mean spirited, you know? it is great. i'm dieing to see -- >> everybody is talking about this little 3-year-old boy. >> a little boy who, 3-year-old who wants to have cupcakes for dinner. okay? that's what he wanted. he was going to make an argument to his mother as to why this was the right thing. she said no, so he went behind her back and asked his grandma and his mom caught him in the act. so take a look. >> listen, linda. listen. listen. listen. >> listen, linda. listen. you can have anything at grandma's house. >> okay. >> okay then what? >> then you're not listening to me. >> you're not listening to me. >> you cannot have cupcakes for dinner. >> linda, linda, nothing belongs to you. anything and anything and anything.

>> i'm done arguing with you. >> i'm done arguing with you. >> by the way, he calls herlinda, in case you're wondering, because -- >> that's her name. >> that's her name. but apparently they were at an amusement park and a little boy got lost and didn't know what his parents' names were. his parents said we got to make sure our son knows what our names are. my name is linda, his name is whatever. >> that's right. when things get urgent and he said, listen, linda. >> i love it. >> there is something called whaling. you know how -- what was some of the other ones called? planking. there was planking. >> they're here and gone. >> not ready? >> okay. we're going to do it after the voice, because apparently our videotape guys are chatting. >> put down your cards. they like to play. >> the voice was on last night. we had blind auditions and -- >> we have blind auditions. >> i feel like i'm part of the show. i love these shows.

>> i know you do but you're not involved in it, okay? >> i am from my couch. anyway, there was someone who we didn't vote for. let's take a look. ♪ why do those days ever have to go ♪ >> oh, my god! that wasn't you. >> how are you guys doing. >> that wasn't you. that wasn't you. >> it was, yeah. >> wow. >> you're a man. >> i knew that was coming. >> of course you did. i have a high voice, man. i know what's up with that situation. i thought there was no way you weren't a girl. this is not bad, by the way. >> i hear you, i hear you. >> ladies love the dudes with the high voices, know what i'm saying? >> we were going back and forth like, okay -- >> anyway. i just want to know what adam levine meant with the ladies love the -- >> the high falsetto. >> what?

>> anyway, apparently they didn't pick him because they thought he was a girl. so, anyway -- >> what's the next one? i wasn't watching? >> john kauffman -- >> josh. >> josh is what i said. let's watch. ♪ ♪ been looking out for angels ♪ trying to find >> yeah. what a soulful voice. >> yeah. who do you think he picked as his coach? >> i think he picked usher.

>> adam. >> adam? i was right. >> i just -- that was a -- >> a done deal, all the coaches now have their 11 -- >> there is one more. >> it goes to 12. that's tonight. >> that's tonight. now, it is time for whaling. >> all right. so you know about planking. that's when people laid down. >> it was ridiculous. >> they just planked. >> now there is whaling. have you ever seen a whale jump through the water -- >> it is a beautiful thing. >> beautiful. people are trying to do these -- six-second videos and defined as diving backwards with one's body in a public or unusual place like the whale breaching the surface of the ocean. let's look at the first one. >> oh! okay. okay, that's someone on vine named trey lanetta. >> people didn't know that they were doing it on purpose, they would call a paramedic and that's the problem. >> okay.

so, of course, we tried it. we didn't know what we were doing, so don't judge. let's watch. that was awful. >> i'm not going to trust you to catch me. i made sure i turned around. >> you know? >> may i suggest also that you stretch before you try those. i think i pulled my sacolileac out. >> we wanted to know what trends people hated. which ones need to go. so the ones everyone hates most were those baggie, low-riding pants. terrible. >> i'm surprised that wasn't -- that's the most. >> yeah. >> the runners up were fake glasses. you know who you are. >> why? >> you don't need glasses but you wear them. >> i can't stand this whole thing, the fake glasses. >> you look good? >> i do. okay. i'll wear them. >> you look smarter. >> the ones you had on this

morning -- >> i had almost everything on but the baggie pants. >> clogs are out. >> yeah. >> i'm not crazy about lots and lots and lots of tattoos. >> i don't like that. >> would you get one? >> i wouldn't but i don't judge a person -- you can't see the person. all you're looking at is the tattoos. >> where would you get your one? >> where the sun don't shine. >> okay. this is shocking. a quarter of americans go commando at least occasionally. >> that's often. but not on purpose. >> i do it when i'm at the gym and i've forgotten some of my clothing. >> why do you forget your clothing? >> you're in a rush to get out and you don't put everything in your bag. >> you forget your thong at home? >> yeah, you forget it. that's the only time i -- >> why don't you wear bigger underwear that is harder to miss? with, you know, like grandma underwear which you'll remember to take with you? >> okay. now, at what age do you think

young girls should wear makeup? that's a good question. what is the right age? >> by that, i wondered -- i'm talking about little bit of lip gloss and maybe a little bit of mascara. >> the people in this poll said they thought more than half the people thought between the ages of 14 and 16 was the right age. >> i think that's about right. i'm surprised that that s late. kids are doing unbelievable stuff by the time they're 7 in today's world. so where makeup seems very -- like -- >> innocent to me. >> compared to what a lot of the kids are doing. >> h&m has come out with -- they're getting into the wedding business. they have such affordable clothes. >> and darling clothes. >> they decided they were going to do a wedding dress. it is a grecian inspired wedding gown, madonna is sporting -- >> are you telling us something, donna, are you going walking down the aisle? >> we were talking down stairs. >> this is $99, you guys.

is it comfortable? >> it is really comfortable. i'm actually impressed because you can tell it's flattering on every body type. >> and has a lot of detail for a dress that inexpensive. i think the only problem is that's the only one that you'll see it coming and goinging on everybody, right? >> good point. >> not just a wedding gown. seems like it is good for prom dress, sweet 16. a lot of the sweet 16 girls look like a hooker more than anything else. you ever watch that show? >> which one? >> my sweet 16. >> a good show. >> did you watch the -- why are we concerned they're wearing makeup? my question. >> did you watch the bachelor at all last night? >> i didn't watch "the bachelor", i have a life. >> google it. he didn't say i love you to the girl he chose. >> give him points for honesty. >> all right. >> i didn't see it. i don't think someone should say i love you if they don't mean it. >> exactly.

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>> don't judge me and my husband and tell me i boss him around. >> just freaking own it. >> just get out of my face. >> oh, my god. who threw a glass at her. >> you know me, i love my ramona pinot. it was plastic. it was plastic. >> she threw water all over my face. >> what were you angry about? >> what were you fighting about? >> what were you angry about? >> i wasn't angry. i was drinking my ramona pinot grigio and -- >> who knew? who knew? >> ramona, heather and the newest member, kristen taekman. now to the fight. go. >> is this all through it, battling. >> all organic, not scripted. there is a scene where i -- my hair is done beautifully, like

how kristen does -- >> after a blow dry, she got very -- >> i might throw something. >> it was a major reflex. >> you get to now see what happens, what unravels from that. that's the idea of the show this season, it is about, for me, intrigue, drama, but about friendship and how women react together. it is about love. there is love. a lot of belly laughs this season on the show. >> and really interacting differently because she and i last season -- >> hated each other. >> i didn't like her. >> she's hard to like. >> i love her. >> i felt her smile was one thing and her eyes weren't genuine, but i broke through it. >> she's moved on from heather and now on to me. >> on to her? >> we all get along. >> we have our moments. >> we just had one today. >> there you go. >> behind the cameras, you see? you're scripted. if you were scripted -- >> why did you -- seeing what you've seen on the previous

seasons, why did you decide it was a good idea to join the cast? >> i feel like why not? heather's actually a great friend of mine. i am actually a real housewife. i am. i don't cook. >> no cooking. >> i volunteer at my kids' school, i sort of like do all the stuff with my kids. i'm actually friends with heather. and i felt like why not? life is too short. >> how is your family reacting to it? >> you saw -- >> so far so good. my husband and i -- >> both you guys do it because you can promote products. that's part of it. >> i think i broke that mold a little bit. i already a business, a established business. >> true face. >> i know there is a bottle in a bag somewhere. so i think we broke the mold. i think a lot of women use it as a platform to promote things but i use it as a platform to promote a lot of things. >> organic. >> favorite word today. >> natural.

>> you're getting a divorce, right? >> no. >> just because you filed doesn't mean you're getting a divorce. but anyway -- >> crazy me. >> uh-huh. but the thing is, the pinot grigio developed because i like pinot and my tag line is, it is turtle time. >> season six of "the real housewives of new york city" premieres at 9:00, 8:00 central on bravo. >> guess who is back? >> matthew hussey. >> never lose your luggage again. how many times have you arrived at your vacation these don't look clean. [ doorbell rings ] the johnsons! stall them. first word... uh...chicken? hi, cascade kitchen counselor. stop stalling and start shining with cascade platinum packs. over time, platinum fights cloudy residue 3x better than the competing gel. it's so powerful it even helps keep the dishwasher sparkling. avoid embarrassing moments...

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>> here with gadgets to make sure all your trips are smooth and hassle free, digital lifestyle expert carly knobloch. >> hopefully you don't forget everything. you want to make sure you're prepared so all your stuff works. the first thing i have is from belkin, a little mini surge protector. you know you get to a hotel and you don't have enough outlets, it turns one into three and plus three usb chargers. >> does it have an adapter for that or just -- >> i don't believe that it does. >> that's important. people need to know. >> there is other things that are internationally compliant over here. this is so cool. okay. i don't like traveling with those big neck pillows. but then you get on a plane and -- okay. are you going to try this on or am i? >> i'll put it on. >> okay. it is the ostrich pillow.

you put this on. it has beanbags in it so it is soft. you have an eye mask, now you can lean and go to sleep. >> you don't need your woobie anymore. >> and it packs flatter than the neck pillows. >> so, so that's amazing. >> you can stand to look a little dorky, that's awesome. >> hoda doesn't mind. >> not that funny. what else? >> this is a track bot. you put this in your luggage. when you get to your destination, it texts you and lets you know that your luggage is at your destination or it is summer else but you know where it is. it is faa compliant. >> i don't like this segment, okay? i don't need everything. >> i can probably hook you up if you need any of these items. you have all your chargers and everything and your bag looks like this. okay. these are these amazing gorgeously colored cable rings that look like mexican food. they are called the cord taco.

>> that's -- >> look how gorgeous the colors are. premium leather. >> iphone and -- >> and they're all so organized, right? >> this one matches. >> yes this is perfect for your both your dresses. >> it wouldn't be the first thing lost down there. >> this is great to give your kids in the back seat of the car and for when you get home from a trip, throw all your videos in, app called animoto, it makes a whole wonderful slide show. this is my daughter and i when we came here for a weekend and i took pictures and there she is -- in minutes you can load everything in and it looks like you spent hours at the editing bay. photos and videos. >> she's adorable, by the way. >> thank you. >> how were the oscars, by the way. >> carly looked gorgeous. her husband is -- he produced what number?

>> les mis. >> you're everywhere. i saw you at the grammys. i said what do you do? carly is everywhere. >> i'm lucky my husband is really good at what he does. okay. packing this -- really great app to help you pack everything and remember things. >> okay. >> if you need a good laugh -- >> wait. just wait. keep waiting.

matthew hussey, you are a brave man to keep coming back to us. >> yes, you are. >> i feel like i'm faring well with you two. >> liz says my boyfriend of a

year and a half started this new friendship with a girl that finds him attractive. at first i thought it was okay, but as time is progressing, i feel like my boundaries are being crossed, invites her to play in charity events and not me. i have talked to him about it calmly and upset, but he refuses to end the friendship. i'm tired of the bickering over the same issue. is it time to end it? >> he doesn't include her. it is one thing to have, you know, a friend, but it is another thing not to even try to include your partner. if i were her, i would start to get less attracted to the guy for the fact that he's making me play second fiddle in my own relationship. >> kind of cruel, to take your friend but leave you at home. that's cruel. >> and any one of these situations there is an obvious truth, which is she deserves more. there is also a slightly ugly truth if you want to explore it is that for her to ask the question, why is it right now he's choosing to spend his time with someone else. is there something that i'm not doing or not bringing when we go out? is there an energy i don't have? we have to -- i know, i know. >> or the guy is a jerk. >> it could be the guy is a

jerk. but the two aren't mutually exclusive. sometimes the truth is in the middle. he's being disrespectful, but i have this view in any relationship, if i can ask the question is there more i can to contribute, even if this guy is wrong, i bring more to the next guy the next time. >> should she break up with him, do you think? >> i think she needs to put more distance between them. she's should start going out with her friends. have a good time. >> her male friends. >> her male friends. >> i'm not getting into game playing, but least show you're out there having fun yourself. >> if someone started doing that to me -- >> in a minute. >> have more respect for yourself, honey. >> we have someone on the phone. and her name is katrina. hi, katrina. >> hi, guys. hi, matthew. i was dating an incredibly romantic guy. he introduced me to all his friends and family, and basically said i was the one. and then suddenly he sent me a text, he was a little scared,

needed some space, and told me how much he really liked me, just needed some time. so i was really calm, just replied okay. didn't want to scare him any more. and it's been a week and i haven't heard anything from him. and i don't know what to do because -- >> he sent you a text message? >> excuse me? >> he sent you a text message, did you say? >> yes. >> what did he say in the text message? >> he said i really like you, and it is a little scary, i need some space to figure out -- >> i would like to contest the idea that this is a romantic man or a gentleman. he didn't bother to call you. firstly, this is a man who said he's scared. for every ten guys that say they're scared and that's a reason they're backing away, one of them is telling the truth. even in that situation you are to bear in mind, do i want a guy with that much emotional baggage anyway? the other nine is the best

excuse in the world. it allows know walk away and get sympathy from you at the same time. it is magical. like a jedi mind trick that us guys play on you women is to say, i'm scared. i don't buy it. secondly, this guy, he's not a gentleman for you. and if i were you, i would be turned off. what this guy is showing you is how he reacts to discomfort. when he's not sure about something, when he's feeling uncomfortable, he took the selfish route of texting you, which is easy for him and not easy for you. is that someone you want in a relationship who has that kind of action in their behavior? i would say no. i would say he's given you ample time now to go and meet someone else and it is high time you start. >> unfortunately, matthew's taken. >> i know. thank you. >> you know what, this might help. if you settle for what you got, you deserve what you get. >> that's right. >> you got the power to change your life. is that good, matthew? >> that's lovely. >> it is pithy.

>> we'll talk about what annoys you the most in a relationship. go to klgandhoda.com and hit the connect button, submit your questions on that topic. >> golden globe winning kyle maclachlan is here to hang with us. we'll talk to him about "believe" right after this. save them. woolite detergents clean your jeans and won't torture your tanks. so clothes look like new even after 20 washes. it's not for colds, it's not for pain, it's just for sleep. because sleep is a beautiful thing™.

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he's charming. he's handsome. he's a golden globe winning actor and the best thing, he makes his own wine. talk about the whole package. >> kyle maclachlan who you loved in "sex and the city" and "desperate housewives" has a new role as a wealthy scientist with questionable motives on the new nbc drama called "believe." hello.

>> i wanted to say something. >> me on the phone. >> this has quite a pedigree. tell everybody who is behind this. >> it is two titans of the industry, j.j. abrams is our executive producer. >> he did "lost" and so many films. >> films, new "star trek" franchise and alfonzo coronne. >> he's our director. he directed the pilot, a visionary filmmaker who brought his styling to the small screen. >> how was it to work with this guy? >> extraordinary. >> you worked with some greats. >> i worked with some greats. when filmmakers come to television it is something altogether different and special. >> is that something you're seeing more of? >> yes, it is. it is a crossover. >> real movie stars don't do tv and real directors don't, but they find some freedom there, i think, away from -- >> they do. they're encouraged. their vision is really welcomed. so there is nothing in the way. >> are they changing you as an actor with what they do in. >> yes, in this role, in fact,

alfonzo kept telling me to lighten it up and smile and have fun with it. he's a villain. >> but we don't want to know that right off. >> right. he kept going lighter and lighter. i'm like, are you sure? he said, yes, trust me. >> those are the ones we fall hook, line and sinker for, the ones that are so charming. >> we're use ed to seeing you in funny roles and now you're playing this sort of bad guy. is it enjoyable for you? >> a lot of fun going to the dark side. >> a lot more fun. every actor says. >> i did quirky with "twin peaks" and then funny with "sex and the city". >> it is called range. >> a little girl is now 10 years old, born with supernatural powers, has the ability to move things with her mind and do things. she's only 10. so sort of -- it is something she's still learning to deal with. >> she doesn't know why. >> she's not sure yet there are factions involved in wanting to

control that power. one protecting her and one that wants to use her for -- >> and they can be really weird. >> across the board. geneticists are tough. but that's the basic premise. each week it is about how they sort of manipulate and work through this dilemma. >> isn't there some guy fresh off death row, he's trying to protect the little girl from the likes of you. >> yes. new wonderful actor, jake maclaughlin. >> no relation? >> no relation. but pronounced the same. he's the irish side. i'm the scottish side. >> you have a vineyard in washington. >> eastern washington. >> we're not allowed to show it but can you say the name? >> pursued by bear. >> pursued by bear. there is a great -- it is part of a shakespearean -- >> it is from the winter's tale. >> you poured a glass for us last time. it is absolutely delicious. it is from western -- or

eastern -- >> eastern washington state. we wish you great success. >> good luck. you're a delight every time you're here. >> he always takes pity on us. >> i like when he drops by. you can catch "believe" sundays at 9:00, 8:00 central on nbc. >> he makes a living out of a -- >> we're talking about billy on the street. oh, my gosh. i think he got kathie lee. i think he nabbed her. he did. we really wanted to take a relaxing trip to florida.

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the next time you're walking down the street, keep your eyes peeled for the guy sitting next to us or you might be his latest target. >> his name is billy eichner from "funny or die billy on the street" and his style has folks laughing. take a look at this christmas time episode. >> sir, do you want to sing christmas carols with me and amy poehler. >> that's okay. ♪ dashing through the snow ♪ dashing through the snow >> not no.

snow. >> snow. the man will not say snow. >> you're crazy. he's here with us. he was on earlier today. stuck around for us. thank you so much. >> thank you. >> you have a unique style, we should say. >> that's one way to put it. >> so do you guys. this is one of my favorite shows. i'm so happy to be here. this is like my "breaking bad." i'm not even kidding. everyone who knows me knows this. this is a big moment for me. >> sometimes you take celebs on the street and you yell at them, which i find hysterical. >> i do. >> they're honored. they're adored and -- >> sometimes people don't even recognize them. >> what? >> it brings them down a notch. i like to do that. >> how do you get celebs to do this? is that paul rudd? >> that's paul rudd. >> i love him. me and a woman are bouncing there. that's joe mchale. there is lena dunham.

we have a lot of great guests this season. >> upcoming episodes. >> how do you entice them to do this? >> we had a lot fans in the comedy community. i haven't gotten meryl just yet. but she's coming. >> daniel day-lewis. >> daniel day-lewis loves me. can't get enough of me. >> how does it work? >> sean penn. >> yeah, sean penn. >> you're with a celeb on the street. what do you do? >> we run up to people, we ask all kinds of crazy suggestive pop culture questions. it is a game show but they only win if they agree with my opinions about pop culture. >> i saw you take pink on a -- >> we were dangling up in the air. >> how did you breakthrough? >> i started showing videos at my stand-up shows in new york and i put them on line at funny or die. and -- >> we have to do one. >> you have to do a funny or die video. >> we're going to play a game.

>> i have a game to play with you. this is not subjective. this is a fact-based game. it is called celebrity child or kentucky derby winner. >> that's right up our ally. >> i'll give you a real name. you tell me if it is a name of a recent celebrity's child or a kentucky derby winner. my show, regis and kathie lee, my favorite show -- >> i thought you said this was your favorite. >> i thought you were regis. i'm so sorry. wait. we have to play a game. >> all right. >> celebrity child or kentucky derby winner. i'll say a name. 30 seconds on the clock. tell me if it is celebrity child, celebrity child, kentucky derby winner, you say -- >> 30 seconds on the clock. >> it is already down to 20. >> inspector. >> no, celebrity child. >> war admiral.

>> derby. >> yes. blue angel. >> celebrity child. >> correct. winter green? >> derby. >> correct. dust commander. >> derby. >> yes, correct. diva muffin. >> celebrity child. >> correct. that's it. we ran out of time. did they get it? all right, they won, they won. >> what do we get? >> let's see their prize. oh, for kathie lee we have -- oh, it is kathie lee's cd, good night angel. oh, and hoda's book, ten years later. >> you take that and i'll take this. >> i already have this. >> how about we give them to you. i'm sure -- >> i'll keep both of them and to very naughty things with both of them. >> you are hysterical. >> thank you. >> you have to join me on the street one day. >> as long as you promise to yell at us. >> i will. >> catch the premiere tomorrow night. she wrote the controversial letter advising young women to spend their time looking for a husband. >> known as the princeton mom. we'll talk to her. first this is "today" on nbc. [ male announcer ] alka seltzer plus presents the cold truth. [ coughs, sneezes ]

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>>ah, actually i think my eyes might ha... next! digital insurance id cards. just a tap away on the geico app. susan patton, the princeton mom, sparked a firestorm last year when she wrote for young women that finding a husband in college is just as important as getting good grades. >> her letter to the daily newspaper went viral with more than 100 million hits. she made a controversy, baby. that message is the subject of a new book called "marry smart." and we're delighted to have you here. it is a bit of a reunion. >> we just had babies 22 years ago and our breasts were not where we liked them. great to see you. this is what i loved about what she said. if you took it out of context,

you were going to get angry. but if you kept it -- she said this is for women who want to have children and be married some day. >> exactly. >> it was not for all women. >> it is not a condemnation of any woman who doesn't want to have kids. >> what were you advising women to do? >> what i'm advising all young women to do is if you know that you want children in your life -- >> you usually know that. >> i think you know that. >> you any that in your late teens, mostly by your 20s, you have to plan for your personal happiness with at least the same dedication and commitment as you're planning for your professional success. >> that's wise. why wouldn't you? >> you say the pool of men in college -- >> you'll never have this concentration of extraordinary men to choose from as you do when you're in college. they're age appropriate, they're single, they're like minded and as any young woman who is post college knows, it is so hard to meet people in organic, wholesome, reasonable -- >> other girls met their

husbands in college. >> were you surprised at the backlash. it was incredible. >> you think? >> you hit a nerve. >> you did. >> i did hit a nerve. i know in a way i'm tapping at the dark spot on the x-ray saying, girls, come on, you can't wait forever, you're not going any younger. >> this is a hypocrisy of it. we say we're all for feminism, about choice, until we disagree with somebody else's choice. who are we to disagree with someone who wants to stay home and have a family and stay married. that's their choice and god bless them. ph.d. break through the glass ceiling, bless you too. >> why would we make young women who feel guilty? >> i think it is interesting, you were speaking before a group of young women and you found when they perked up, when you were talking, it was about when you were talking about family, not about career. >> no.

they heard enough about that. enough about that. >> to many of them, bought all that hook, line and sinker, never asked the questions you're saying and they could say wake up and their clocks are going and they go wait a minute, where are the men? >> where are the men? i have to have a baby. if i don't do it this year or next year, i may not be able to do it because there are distinct limitations on their ability -- >> is there a pendulum swinging? do you think more and more young girls are look for a family. >> i hope so. the hookup culture is not helping. i'm telling young women, do not, do not, do not enter into these kinds of relationships. >> don't give yourself away. nobody buys the cow when you give away the milk. >> and while we're in the barn yard, i'm also telling women, stay away from the pigs for the sake of little sausage. that's not good either. >> oh. right back down. >> why are we yelling? you can find it in her book, go to klgandhoda.com.

tomorrow, the fabulous liza minnelli is here. >> i love the sausage thing. i'm here to help. you and i will get through this together. ♪