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she looks drunk. >> you keep touching me. stop touching me. >> he's acting like he's going to take advantage of her. >> i'm going to go to the bathroom. i'll be right back. >> she's drunk, alone in the bathroom. i'm going to go for it. >> will another teen come to her rescue? >> i don't trust him. >> their parents are in our watchmobile seeing it all unfold on our hidden cameras. >> i want to say, "do something, say something." >> dating, sex and the social scene. what to do. what not to do. and what should you do if you see someone else in trouble. >> i'm just going to go change really quickly. >> the door was open a crack and she had her shirt off. i'm going to put it on instagram.
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>> the kids acting up are actors. the teens watching are real, confronting what look like the kind of dangerous situations your kids could face someday. >> something just to liven things up. >> it's really hot in here. >> are you okay? >> it's like weird. >> this isn't funny. >> you got a headstrong daughter. >> get your teen. >> this is awkward. >> turn off their phone. and watch this together. on the edge of your seat? >> i really am. >> these teenagers could teach us all something. >> don't touch her. what is wrong with you? >> "dateline's my kid would never do that." good evening, and welcome to "dateline." i'm natalie morales. see something, say something. great advice. but how often do we follow it? if it's hard for adults, it's got to be even tougher for self-conscious teens. especially if it involves other kids and sex. tonight, with their parents
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observing from inside our watchmobile, we put teens to the test. will they say something? would your teen? it's a topic many of us parents would rather avoid. >> not really something that we talk about. >> i haven't talked to him that much about that kind of thing. >> it's uncomfortable talking about sex. >> i never spoke to him about sex. >> you haven't talked to him about sex? because now is the time. >> now is the time i know. >> we often don't know where to begin. so tonight we're going to help get the conversation started. >> it's not just the one big sex talk. it can be lots of little talks that you're having with your kids. >> and it's not about the birds and the bees. we're addressing some of the very real and sometimes dangerous things teens are confronted with today, from what goes on online. >> are you going to post it? >> should i? >> to what can happen when you combine teens, drinking and sex,
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and even what to do if you think someone is being sexually assaulted. >> we can't ignore these topics. we can't ignore the specifics. >> mike domitrz, founder of date safe, anti-sexual assault association, is on a mission to change the culture around teens and sex and make it easier for young people to do the right thing. and he's going to show us how tonight. >> may i kiss you? >> you want to build that toolbox up so at the right moment at the right time they can pull the exact skill set they need out to use it for their own life or to help another person. >> these days for many teens one of their first exposures to sex comes from their smartphone, which can lead to all kinds of trouble. kids sharing racy photos online is a growing problem that's all over the news. >> it's the epicenter. >> last spring at a high school outside of philadelphia, nude photos of girls were posted without their permission for the
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entire school to see. >> it's wrong on every level. it's privacy. it's respect. >> in some instances, kids faced criminal charges, and fallout for victims can be devastating. from cyber bullying to a ruined reputation to even suicide. for our first test, we wanted to see what teens would do when they witness a guy claiming he plans to post an inappropriate photo of a girl -- >> oh, my god. >> -- without her knowledge. to help create a realistic setting we rented this party space in new jersey, complete with card tables, darts, pool table and hidden cameras. we mixed in actors and other kids to fill the room and invited teens to what they think is a taste test of energy drinks. their parents, who know the real reason they're here, agree to bring them because they believe
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there are important lessons to be learned. the first teen who has to figure out what to do will be 15-year-old chelsea. she's been dropped off at our party space ready for the taste test. she doesn't know her mom is outside in our secret command center, a traveling watchmobile outfitted with monitors hooked up to hidden cameras so she can see chelsea's every move. tell me about your relationship with your daughter. >> we have a very open relationship. she's very mature for her age. >> she says chelsea, who is an only child, would never post racy pictures of herself and she would stop someone she knows from doing it. but at this party, she is meeting everyone for the first time. how do you think your daughter will react in that situation? >> i'm not quite sure she's going to say how inappropriate it is for him to do that in the sense that she doesn't know this individual. >> are you ready to see how she does? >> yes. >> maybe she'll prove you wrong. >> i would hope she would. >> yes, sit there.
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wherever you're closest. >> chelsea is called over to the lounge area to begin the taste test. >> i think we're supposed to start, yeah. >> beverage "a." >> she doesn't know that these three are actors and the girl next to her is in on it, too. >> ew. >> gross. >> ready for "b"? >> yeah. >> chelsea seems relaxed, happily fitting in with the group as they sip the drinks. then our actress, who is playing the victim, starts to complain the room is too hot. >> these lights are like ridiculously hot. >> are they? >> yes. >> very sweaty. >> yeah, it is. >> she says she wants to change her shirt. >> i'll be right back. i'm just going to use the bathroom, like get a little more comfortable. i'm like sweating. >> that's when our actor goes to work. >> that girl is so hot. >> he tells the group he's going to go sneak a pic of our actress. of course, he won't really take a photo.
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>> i kind of want to get a picture of her to send to my friends. be right back. >> chelsea seems unsure of what she just heard. >> for a second, she looked at the girl and i think she just kind of dismissed whatever the conversation was. >> oh, my god. >> what happened? >> but that all changes when our actor comes back and shows our accomplice what he says is a topless photo. >> the door was open a crack and she had her shirt off and i -- i have to send it. i'm going to put it on instagram. >> look at her face. >> uh-huh. >> now chelsea has no doubt about what happened. >> you're -- oh, my god! that is amazing. >> so will she do anything to stop him from posting the racy photo online. >> wait. i'm confused. what did you do? >> she's not even wearing a bra. >> no, she's not. >> it's a tough spot for any teen to be in. and for any parent to watch. coming up -- what will chelsea do?
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survey a third of teen boys reported they've seen nude or semi-nude photos of others that were shared without permission. what will 15-year-old chelsea do in this tricky situation? her mom, who is outside in our watchmobile, says her confident, outspoken girl is having a tough time knowing what to do. >> it's bothersome to her. >> yeah. >> remember, our actress left to change her shirt. >> i'm like sweating. >> what happened? >> and our actor said he took a topless photo of her. >> the door was open a crack and she had her shirt off. >> now he says he's going to post it online. >> look at her face. >> mm-hmm. >> i have to send it. i'm going to put it on instagram. >> will she try to stop him? >> that's amazing. >> wait. i'm confused. what did you do? >> she starts to challenge him. >> wait. what are you doing? i'm confused. >> don't worry about it. >> chelsea looks upset and turns
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for help from the girl sitting next to her. but she's in on it, too, and we told her to stay silent. >> don't worry about it. okay. so, e. did you wait for me? >> look at her whole body and everything. she wants to say something. she's just not sure like -- >> mm-hmm. >> -- what to do with this. >> when our actress playing the unsuspecting victim comes back -- >> feel like a hundred times better. >> it's another chance for chelsea to try to fix this bad situation. >> you look really good in that tank top, by the way. >> thank you. >> chelsea looks uncomfortable. her whole demeanor has changed. but she says nothing. >> come with me. come with me. >> then both boys leave and chelsea finally works up the courage to speak up. >> probably wasn't the best move to take your sweatshirt off. >> why? >> it looks like she's going to tell her about the picture. but then --
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>> i don't know. they're like weird. >> it's not what her mother had hoped, but she understands why. >> it's eating at her. >> exactly. she's probably more -- i really think i should have done something, but i'm not quite sure because i just don't know the people. >> all right. i'm going to go in and talk to them. >> okay. >> how are you guys? are you liking the drinks? are they good? let's find out what chelsea was thinking. you're not actually here for the taste test. you're here because we wanted to see how you would react in a situation where you faced a pretty difficult challenge. >> me? >> yeah. >> just me? >> just you. >> just you. >> they know, too? >> what were you feeling? >> i wanted to say something. i was going to go to her like privately. i didn't want to make any tension. i was going to go to her privately when we were done with everything. i didn't -- oh. >> do you worry about what people say about you if you speak up in a situation?
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>> you see, i'm not really the type. that's why i kind of asked them, what are you doing on your phone. but then not really knowing them, i think that made it awkward as well. >> chelsea says she knows what's at stake. >> things could be said about her. she would have no idea of what's even going on and that's not fair to her. >> i think your mom is here. >> oh, gosh. >> time to bring in mom. >> oh, boy. that was tough, huh? >> that was. and i'm pretty vocal about stuff, too. >> yes, you are. >> her mom acknowledges chelsea did look for help but got no support. >> and i thought it was interesting just watching you look to her as well. >> i know. i was like, please say something. we could go together. >> this is one of the things that a lot of parents fail to discuss. they don't discuss intervention. they say if you see somebody do something wrong, step in. it's such a blanket statement. >> our expert, mike domitrz, says if you want your kids to do the right thing, be more specific. the best way to do that is through role playing.
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>> ask your child, what do you think you would say in this moment? if your child was like, i don't know. i would say, i would just handle it. i would be like, no, what would you precisely say? keep role playing all the situations so they gain the skill set for themselves. >> for this test, chelsea had to go it alone. in this next group, three teens will be put to the test. will being in a group make it easier to step in? michaelle is 17, zoe is 16 and kayla is 14. all their moms say they tell them to be careful when it comes to posting anything online. >> i talk to her about that often especially as she gets closer to college. >> and michaelle's mom says her daughter is the nurturing type. always looking out for friends. >> do you think she would feel protective of others if they were in a situation -- >> i would like to say yes. her friends always call her the mom. >> zoe says her daughter has a strong sense of right and wrong. she's the vice president of the
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teen board of mothers against drunk driving, a role that's made her very aware of social pressures facing teens. >> when she sees things on social media that she's uncomfortable with, she would tell me or speak to her friends about it. >> in this scenario, your prediction is what? >> she's going to speak up and try to intervene. >> kayla's mom says she was born with a strong moral compass. >> she has a very good sense of morality. >> what do you predict she'll do? >> i don't know if she would do it on her own, but i think in a group that she would try to do something to intervene. >> power in numbers maybe, right? girl power. >> i think so, yeah. are you ready to see how they do? will they work as a group to shut our actor down as our mothers predict? >> i'm going to go back and take a picture of her. >> or let him get away with it? >> she wasn't even wearing a bra, dude. coming up --
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will the power of peer pressure help or hurt when it comes to doing the right thing? >> they don't know what to do. >> yeah.
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we're back in our party space about to find out what these girls, kayla, zoe and michaelle will do when this actor tells them he secretly took an inappropriate photo of a girl and plans to post it online. their nervous moms are outside in our watchmobile. they predict their girls will try to shut him down. >> i'm interested to see what she'll do. >> i like it. >> yeah, i like it. >> after a few minutes into the taste test -- >> i am so sweaty. >> our actress gets up to change her shirt. >> i'm just going to change so quickly. >> i'm going to take a picture of her real quick. >> the girls don't seem bothered when he leaves to take her photo. >> why is everyone leaving? >> but watch what happens when he comes back and pretends to show the picture to our accomplice.
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>> she wasn't even wearing a bra, dude. >> oh, look at that reaction. >> are you going to post it? >> should i? >> kayla immediately reacts. >> no. >> no. >> no. >> and when our accomplice says he wants the picture. >> send it to me. >> no, no, no. >> kayla gets up and reaches for his phone. >> don't. >> don't worry about it. it's fine. >> she reaches again. >> anything. don't worry. >> she tries a third time. >> whoa, okay, okay, okay. >> delete it. >> even though her mom thought she'd step in, this assertiveness is a side of kayla she's never seen. >> i'm surprised she's being so direct, honestly. >> delete it. no. >> since kayla is unable to take away the phone, all three girls tell him to delete the photo. >> delete it. >> okay. i'm not going to show anybody. >> it doesn't matter if you don't show anyone. >> i say we delete it. >> they're confronting him. that's good. >> but they're not done.
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will they tell our actress, playing the victim, about the photo? >> i think zoe looks like she's bothered by this whole thing. >> they got very quiet. >> yeah. >> i feel so much better. >> when our actress comes back, the three girls look uncomfortable. >> they're not telling her anything. >> they don't know what to do. >> zoe whispers to kayla, they need to do something. >> like find a way to get his phone. >> then michaelle joins in. >> how do you tell her? i've never been put in this situation. >> i think they're discussing what to do maybe. >> yeah. >> zoe hatches a plan. >> where did you change? did you change in the bathroom? >> yeah. >> can you show me where it is? >> sure. >> zoe and kayla lead our victim out of the room. >> i'm going to show them the bathroom. >> to have a private chat. >> he said he took a picture of you like changing. >> he said he took a picture of me? >> and then that other kid was like oh, she's not wearing a bra. >> what? >> then they devise a clever way to make sure the picture has
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been deleted. they don't know a racy photo was never taken. >> let's take a selfie and take his phone and delete the picture. >> if this had been real, their quick thinking could have made a difference. >> they made a plan. >> they did. >> i like that. >> yeah. >> banded together. strength in numbers. >> yeah. >> right? >> their proud mothers can't stop smiling. >> go, girls. yeah! >> hi, guys. >> i head in to tell them what's really going on. actually you're not here for a taste test. we're doing a show on when kids experience or witness some inappropriate behavior. >> oh, my god. >> something that makes you feel uncomfortable, to see how you would all react. >> wait, are you kid -- >> yeah. and i could see -- your parents actually were with me. we were watching. we have hidden cameras all around. we could hear you guys. what were you all thinking when this scenario was unfolding? >> awkward. you see all these stories about celebrities leaking like photos and even in your schools and stuff.
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>> it's a huge invasion of your privacy and like really inappropriate and not okay. and i just -- i don't know. it just got me really angry. i have a hard time like holding back. >> their moms can't wait to congratulate them. now we're going to raise the stakes even higher and tackle a more difficult topic. sexual assault. >> in the u.s. alone, there are over 800 instances per day. >> this woman is from rain, the nation's largest anti-sexual assault organization. >> this is an issue that's affecting young people. we're seeing almost half of all victims are under the age of 18. >> kate recommends parents use what's happening in the news or on tv shows to get the conversation started. and parents need to know that many cases involve alcohol. >> we have a real opportunity here to raise teens that not
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only feel comfortable talking about sexual assault but know how to step in or say something or be able to support a friend. >> as we all know, it's often hard to step in. 17-year-old corban and 14-year-old christian are about to find out just how hard. they, too, think they're here to taste test energy drinks. >> i would give it a 3. >> what would they do when they see a girl that they think has had too much to drink? >> i've just been drinking all day. >> are you drunk right now? >> no, yeah, completely. >> and a guy looks like he's trying to take advantage of her. >> you keep touching me. stop touching me. >> i'm just being friendly. >> while they hang out inside, outside their moms hop into the watchmobile and tell me a bit about their sons. they've agreed to participate because they feel this is such an important topic to cover with their boys. is he an outspoken young man? >> corban is the one that's going to hang in the back and check out the environment, see what the folks are like before he makes a move. >> corban just recently started dating.
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>> we talked about being in a relationship, being responsible. >> what do you think your son will do? >> i think he will say something. it will be awkward for him. it's going to be hard. but i think he'll say something. >> christian's mom is also hopeful he'll try to stop the aggressor, even though he's younger than the others. >> he's the shy kid in most situations. i mean, when we have like parent/teacher conferences they always say let me start off by saying he is the sweetest kid. not so quiet at home, but -- >> as the difficult test begins, both moms are on the edge of their seats. okay. two predictions that they eventually will speak up? >> yes. >> i hope so. coming up -- are the moms right? will their sons do the right thing? >> like right now. >> are you really? >> oh, god. >> this is invaluable. covergirl wants you to blast your beautiful!
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we're tackling the uncomfortable but important topic of teens drinking and sex. >> do you know what goes good with grapefruit juice? >> what? >> vodka. you want to put a little bit in there? >> this is not a test about stopping underage drinking. it's about stepping in when you think someone is in danger of being sexually assaulted. about to be tested are 17-year-old corban and 14-year-old christian. their moms predict they will do something to help this girl who will appear to be the victim of unwanted sexual advances. >> stop touching me. >> interesting watching your kids, right? >> yeah. >> it's like peering into their minds. >> this actress is just pretending to be drunk. >> cheers! >> and our actor is pretending he's going to take advantage of her, plying her with what looks like more and more alcohol.
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>> drink it, drink it, drink it. drink it quickly. >> we set up this scenario to mimic what often happens in real life. >> you're still drinking that? >> yeah. >> after putting on a drunken show -- >> all right. >> our actress makes her exit. >> i'll be right back. can you -- i'm going to -- >> where are you going? >> i'm going to go to the bathroom. >> are you okay? >> that's when our actor lets the group in on his plan. >> so wasted. i'm going to try to get with her. she's in the bathroom right now. >> when he leaves, corban and christian are very uncomfortable. >> okay. i'll be right back. >> are you really? >> oh, god. >> but will they do anything about it? >> on the edge of your seat, right? >> i really am. >> listen to christian. through nervous laughter, he seems to grasp the seriousness of the situation. >> i swear, if they don't come out in like five minutes, we're
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calling the police. >> hmm. >> corban seems to hope everything will somehow work out. >> maybe she'll pull it together or something. >> while our actors are off in the bathroom, the boys sit and wait. and wait. and wait. >> oh! this is awkward. >> then our actor, playing the aggressor comes back alone. >> what happened? >> and starts to brag. >> she wanted to. it was good. >> the boys laugh nervously but never challenge him. it's hard for their moms to watch. >> not what i expected. >> he looks like he was uncomfortable. >> yes. he did look like he was uncomfortable for most of it. but that nervous laugh that he did and really not -- you know, i was expecting when they got up that he would have said something or at least tried to, you know, interfere in some kind of way. and he didn't. >> danielle, not what you
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expected of christian either? >> honestly, i didn't have real solid expectations. i thought this is invaluable. >> hi. >> their moms realize they did what most kids do. nothing. because they've never been taught how to deal with this dangerous situation. >> all right. we're doing a show called "my kid would never do that." but it's really about helping parents learn the right ways to talk to their kids about situations like this. so, corban, were you feeling uncomfortable at all? >> yes. but i didn't really know how to respond so -- >> your mom was saying, i know in his mind, he says saying i should do something. i should say something. but it's so hard to do that, right? >> yeah. >> well, i didn't know what to do. >> yeah. you know what? i don't think a lot of us know what to do. >> i was shocked. >> i kind of feel bad now because i didn't do anything. >> you feel bad? >> to help him figure out what to do next time, we brought in our expert on addressing sexual assault.
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>> what do you think you could have said? is there anything you think you could have said? >> corban? >> i think i could have said maybe stop or lay off her. or something like that. >> you agree this is realistic, isn't it? >> yeah, it is. >> christian, do you think if that was someone you cared for or loved across the way -- >> i would do it. >> you would do whatever it takes? >> i was actually thinking before like should i call the police. >> it's not even necessarily that extreme for you when they stand up and say if you're going to do that, i'm going to call for help because that's not okay. what do you take leaving now? >> i should just stand up more even if it's one person. makes you feel good. >> i love what you said. when you do stand up, even when it doesn't go well, you know you did the right thing. nothing feels better than knowing you're doing the right thing. >> then our expert asks corban if he would be willing to help us out with another important demonstration. doing the right thing when it comes to dating.
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domitrz explains that even well-meaning boys can make mistakes. >> relies on body language, the most unreliable form of communication that exists. >> he says to make sure there is no miscommunication before making a move. you have to ask first. >> consent is everything. any sexual intimacy that's ever going to occur needs to be based on consent. >> corban, being a good sport, agrees to be coached on how to ask for consent. >> are you having a good time tonight? >> yeah, i've been having a really nice time. >> may i kiss you? >> domitrz tells the teens that, of course, it's going to feel awkward, but he argues that it's worth it. >> if you are not asked how long could it have taken for you to actually maybe try to go for the kiss if you don't ask? >> like all night. >> all night, right? how long did that take? >> like five seconds. >> five seconds. now here's where it gets fun, if she had said yes, you would you have cared at all how awkward it was for the first five seconds? >> no. >> not at all.
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in fact, would you have loved hearing her say yes? >> yes. >> we say good-bye to this group and hello to these teens. this time, we've added a girl. will that change the dynamic? >> i can totally get some right now. i swear to god. >> will she try to stop him? >> let me knock on the door. >> i don't trust him. coming up -- girls united or not? >> wow. >> and what about the guys? >> i want to say, do something! say something!
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cheers to college. >> she's acting drunk. >> how about another drinkie poo from the thingy poo? >> can you stop touching me? >> and he looks like he's making unwanted sexual advances. >> stop. stop touching me. >> hey, relax. >> these two, summer and max, will have to decide what to do. summer is 14, an athletic, outgoing type with a strong personality. she says she gets that from her big sister. max, 16, is a studious, quiet and compassionate kid, deeply involved in promoting organ donation with nj shares. his younger brother is a heart transplant recipient. >> want to try "c"?
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>> while the teens are inside our party space, both their moms settle in in our watchmobile outside, eager to see how their kids will do with this test. what do you think, cheryl? >> she'll say something. >> max's mom is not so sure. >> just because he doesn't know the people. he's not with his friends. i don't think he'll say something. >> so how well do these moms know their children? >> hold it low. >> while the group continues to rate energy drinks, our actor makes it look like he's spiking her drink with alcohol he brought from home. >> i can't believe this. >> and pretending to make inappropriate moves on her. >> will you stop touching me? >> okay. >> you're like a little aggressive, dude. a little bit. >> a little aggressive? >> so nobody's saying anything. he's putting the moves on her and keeps pouring her drinks. they're going along with it. >> i'll be right back. >> our actress playing the victim heads off to the bathroom. our actor makes it clear he thinks he could take advantage of her. >> yo, this is totally my chance right now. she's drunk alone in the
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bathroom. i can totally get some right now. i swear to god. >> that's when summer decides to say something. and it's a zinger. >> i highly doubt it. >> oh, yeah? >> if she was smart, she would say no. >> oh, pardon me. >> summer looks uncomfortable and walks away. then she hears our actor say he's going to try anyway. >> i'm going to go for it. i'm going to go for it. let's see. >> will she do anything about it? >> is he really going? i'm not going to let you do that. cause that's -- >> i'm just checking on her. >> no. i'll check on her. girl to girl. >> relax. >> girl code. >> uh-huh. >> looking out for the other girl. >> she pushes past him. >> you're okay, right? >> and blocks the door. >> she's fine. >> she's fine. all right. >> wow! >> i'll just stay here to make sure she's okay. >> okay. >> max, as his mother predicted, has been quietly taking it all in. >> i think he's trying to figure out a way to get himself out
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that have situation. >> summer appears satisfied that our victim is okay. >> is she all right? she's good? >> yeah, she's okay. >> so are you like a linebacker? blocking pretty hard there. >> he let summer know he isn't giving up so easily. >> maybe i should go and check on her now. she's not coming back. are you sure she's okay? >> i'm pretty sure she's okay. that's what she told me. >> let me knock on the door. >> now summer has yet another decision to make. >> i don't trust him. >> will she step in again? >> did he just go in there? he's not going to go -- i'm not going to let him go in there with her. are you bugging? >> she may be giggling, but it's clear she knows how dangerous this could be. >> could you open the door? >> yeah, i'm just -- >> we're busy. >> i'm not feeling well. >> can i check on her instead of you? because i don't really trust you. not even going to lie. >> oh, wow! she's really getting involved. >> back at the couch, max laughs nervously.
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>> do you hear her? >> his mom can see her son is struggling what to do. >> does your heartbreak a little bit because you know he wants to do the right thing? >> do something, say something. >> can you please open the door? >> summer really took a stand. >> yeah. >> she took on colin. >> she's fearless. >> i go in to introduce myself. >> hi, guys. >> hi. >> i'm natalie. >> i'm summer. >> hi, summer. nice to meet you. what's your name? >> max. >> max, hi. i know who these guys are. do you know how i know that? because we're actually doing a show called "my kid would never do that." i have to say, summer, you stood up from the very minute. >> thank you. >> and did you think that she could have been sexually assaulted? >> yeah. because i didn't really know what was going on, and they wouldn't let me in. i didn't like want to just open the door, but i just didn't trust it. >> max, i know you're shock and awe here, right? >> yeah.
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i'm just like a quiet person. >> yeah. it's hard to speak up. >> yeah. >> summer, maybe because you were the girl and the girl code, protecting the girl. >> yeah. my sister, she really taught me well when it comes to stuff like this. >> our expert mike domitrz comes in. >> first of all, high five. you did stand up. >> gives summer and max more advice, what they could have said right at the start when they witnessed what appeared to be unwanted touching. >> a little aggressive, dude. >> don't touch her. do you not hear her? do you have a problem hearing? she is telling you not to touch her. what is your problem? when you watch these scenes it's what can i do to stop the perpetrator. >> he points out the blame is often put on victims for drinking and making themselves vulnerable, but that's dead wrong. >> it's never the victim's fault that the criminal acted like a criminal. >> even with the underage drinking and all of that, that's not a license to allow -- >> no. i can make all the wrong choices in the world and you don't have the right to do harm upon me,
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ever. ever. >> important lesson, right? >> mm-hmm. >> we have one more scenario. this one will appear to be the most dangerous of all. a powder slipped into an energy drink. >> just liven things up. >> and served to an unsuspecting girl. >> i like the orange one. >> it's good, right? coming up -- the date rape drug. this time it's fake, but they don't know that. >> should we follow her?
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so far, we watched teens try to stop racy photos from being posted online. >> not going to show anybody. i'm not going to show anybody. >> delete it. no! >> and wrestle with the dangers of drinking and sexual assault. >> i'm not going to let you do that. >> for our final demonstration, we instructed our actor to pretend he's spiking a drink
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with the date rape drug rohypnol also known as roofy. it's a sedative ten times more powerful than valium. when slipped in an alcoholic drink, it can cause a person to pass out. jacqueline sako was just 17 years old when it happened to her. >> it happened at my best friend's graduation party. i was drugged. i was taken by two guys that i knew to a motel. and each of them took their turn sexually assaulting me. >> she suffered in silence for years. you blamed yourself? >> i really did. i did. and i think that all survivors go through that. >> but not anymore. >> there's a lot of regret, you know. because you always initially think i could have done something to have prevented this or i sent out a message when that's not on the survivors. that's on the rapists.
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>> now a resident in neurosurgery, she's here today to watch our mini-demonstration and share her story with the teens. she's hopeful this will get parents talking to their kids about sexual assault. >> there needs to be just a full family dialogue about that. >> and we've got a brave group of parents in the watchmobile ready to take on this difficult subject. fiona's dad said his 15-year-old daughter is up to the task. >> fiona's very confident, very outspoken, headstrong. >> have you talked to her a lot about sex and what she needs to know when it comes to being safe? >> we touch on it sometimes and it's amazing the frankness which she'll have that conversation with me. >> fiona is the youngest of three which her dad says has made her more wise than other kids her age and perhaps more prepared for what she's about to
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with itness. >> i think she'll speak up. i think she'll alert the young lady first. she definitely wouldn't stay silent on that. >> 14-year-old ariel is also a confident kid who loves theater and acting. his mom says he can be shy around kids he doesn't know but doesn't think that will stop him. >> if he thinks there's something bad that would hurt someone, he will say something. >> brian's mom says her 14-year-old is definitely not shy. >> he loves to tell jokes. he loves comedy. >> is he the kind of kid that would speak up? >> i think he would. >> let's see how they do. >> are you guys from new jersey? >> i am. >> they're chatting away, tasting drinks when -- >> fiona seems to be the only one who notices our actor taking something out of his pocket and pouring it into his drink. >> what is that? >> nothing. just something to liven things up. i'm so bored right now. >> she mouths to one of the other actors that she thinks but when our actor goes to share his tainted drink with the girl playing our victim -- >> here, try mine.
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>> fiona starts asking questions. >> it's good, right? >> really good. >> i know. >> excuse me. wait. you didn't just see that? >> what? >> what? >> he just put something -- >> don't worry about it. >> what the hell are you doing? >> fiona's dad isn't surprised she's being vocal. >> you want her as your wing man. >> take that out of your pocket right now. >> what are you talking about? >> what's your in your shirt pocket. >> i'm not laughing. >> wow, she's tough. >> she's right. >> she's going to reach in there. she is. >> and when our apparent victim like she's not feeling well, fiona stares at her with a look of concern. >> it's really hot in here. >> are you okay? >> he just put something and now she's acting like -- this isn't funny. >> it's really hot. i don't feel good. >> are you okay? >> you don't know what you're talking about. don't touch her. what is wrong with you? no. i know what you did. >> i didn't do anything. are you okay? >> what did he do? >> he just put something in that drink he gave you. >> oh, my god. >> jim? >> you don't want to pick a
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fight with fiona. >> both boys say they never saw the drink get spiked and ariel wonders if this is all for real. >> then brian blurts this out. >> oh, my god, you do roofie her. >> you did roofie her. >> but seems to think it's all a joke. >> this isn't funny. i don't like this. >> i'm fine. i'm probably fine. i don't know what's going on. i'm like just getting hot. >> do you want to go lie down? >> i need to splash water on my face or something. >> let's go. there's a bathroom back there. i'll take you there. >> our actor takes the victim to the bathroom. >> you're good? okay. come on. >> what the teens do next counts the most. >> i'm getting nervous now. >> everyone seems nervous. >> should we follow her? >> ariel and fiona go after them. >> where did they go? >> in here. >> and bang on the door. >> let us in. >> they try the handle. >> this really isn't funny. >> is she okay?
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>> they're sticking together. >> thank heavens, huh? >> no, she's not okay. >> we think they've seen enough and done enough. all right. i'm going to go in first. hello. i go to speak to the teens. at first, i don't tell them this was all a ruse. will they tell me what happened. anything else go on around here? >> she saw him put something in his pocket. >> allegedly. >> i haven't seen anything. >> can i tell you what i saw? >> were you here? i don't think you were here. >> i knew it! i knew it. i told you. >> fiona is relieved this isn't real. was it really uncomfortable for you and hard to do? >> yes. >> because a lot of them didn't believe you. >> it happens that people won't believe that but it is like a real thing that does happen. >> yeah. >> hey, guys. >> dr. jacqueline sako, watching from our control room, comes in to speak to the teens. >> first of all, guys, fiona, awesome job.
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so proud of the way you reacted. >> jacqueline shares her story and lets fiona know how much what she did meant to her. >> and i wish that somebody stepped in like you, fiona. i wouldn't have been raped and just that little difference, it makes such a huge change in somebody's life. >> when fiona reunites with her dad, she gets overwhelmed with emotion. >> she's a warrior. you did everything right. >> all the grown-ups say they've learned something from watching the kids tonight. including me. >> i know that was hard. >> and our expert's final message to parents -- time to get to work. >> we have to go as parents from telling our kids what to do to giving them how to. that's critically important. if you have a skill set, you're going to gain confidence. because i know how to do this. the more confidence you get, the easier it is to step forward.
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