. >> announcer: from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. >> all right, the beginningf a new week, funday monday, june 6. welcome, everybody. that's "lights come on" by jason aldean. >> as i look at you in the monitor -- right here -- i love that top. i love that top. >> because it's fun. >> that top looks awesome. >> it's a darling little company called sky's the limit. they have charming things but they're not expensive. >> we found a winner, everybody. >> i wore in the this morning

and when we get the thing from joanne "wear that on the show." we have a terrific show for you. big celebrity news from the weekend, including the latest kind move made by taylor swift. it's nice to hear about celebrities. plus why fitness guru richard simmons, whom we love, he's one of the sweetest people on the planet, he was hospitalized but we'll have more about that in today's buzz. >> what if we told you you could look thinner by dinner without exercising or dieting. we'll show you how to style yourself so you can look slim. sometimes you put an outfit on and go this is the magic outfit. >> and if you were a fan of "scrubs" or "clueless" you know actor d oor donald faison. he's a host of a new game show. >> and are you in a sexless marriage? we'll tell you why that's not always a bad thing. and what you can do if you're not happy in that situation. >> it's called divorce. [ laughter ]

i had a hoda weekend and i don't know how you do it. we haven't stopped since last thursday. we did a couple of shows and then we went to a beautiful organization that's new called eagle's wing led by a wonderful man named bishop robert stern and it held its annual jerusalem banquet. they gave me a beautiful award. but it's not about that. it's what they do. they work for peace among arabs, christians, jews, muslims. everybody with the common goal of finding peace and what we have in common. >> sweet. >> then hoda and i the next night went to the celebrity forum in middlesex community college in lowell, massachusetts. >> by the way -- >> we had a ball. >> we loved it. the people! >> there were so many people and we took pictures with everybody and then we sat down and just --

totally unscripted, they had my stuff so it could have gone on forever for me. but you by the way are now stand up comedienne material. hoda was on fire. thanks for coming up to see us. well, we came up. >> how about the people were wild? i didn't know there were that many wild people in lowell, massachusetts. >> we met every one of them. then i was recovered from that and then i was honored to be the on rare grand marshal up the celebrate israel praarade. that's the general council for israel t parade and he's a beautiful man. then i went off to chelsea piers last night and they gave me another award i don't do serve. this is jerusalem, by the way, it's called the builder of israel award and i lost my

crying about it. you know, when you get awards you don't deserve, it's one thing, but when you get an award for doing what comes so naturally to you, it seems so much more than you could possibly ever deserve because i love doing the work i do. >> it was beautiful. >> and telling people about the land and all the people that live in the holy land and how much god loves them. that's what i was doing last night while you were celebrating the third anniversary. >> i was in princeton on thursday night. great people that the cancer survivors event in new jersey. people from the princeton health care system, so many awesome. >> so many people do so much good without the world knowing what they're doing. >> i'm sitting in the audience listening to these speakers and i'm thinking why don't people know about what these guys are doing? >> well, you're telling them. >> and joel and i had our three year anniversary.

>> it seems like yesterday. >> joel cooked the steak and scallops and we had everything on the grill and we had cocktails. >> you made that. tell us what was in them. >> i took mint and lotzs and lots and lots of lime. i muddled it, muddled it, muddled it. then i put vodka then i took diet ginger ale and a little bit of sugar because you have to sweeten it and they were delicious cocktails. we had such a great -- >> congratulations. >> i can't believe it's three years. and you know what he got me for my anniversary present? fishing poles. >> how fun! >> i kept saying i want to go fishing across the pier. so we got the thing with the real -- >> and blake was loving it? >> blake was there. >> what did you get him? >> i got him a card and all my love. [ laughter ] >> he's come to not expect much, hasn't he? >> no. there's news that came at

the end of last week about muhammad ali's passing. he'd had parkinson's for more than 30 years. >> 32 years. >> people who who knew him best said they knew the end was near a a lot of people -- there were so many people who when you think about muhammad ali, you think about the people he touched. matt lauer always called muhammad ali his hero. it's interesting you immediately wonder how are they doing, outside of muhammad ali's family. there will be a public phfunera on friday. >> in louisville. >> and matt will be there and president clinton. >> and billy crystal. they were dear friends. huge loss. and way too young. and after suffering -- half of his life was spent suffering. >> it sure was. the french open was also -- >> a big surprise. >> serena got beaten, which is such a bummer.

>> i was so busy all weekend i saw nothing of it. was it the semi-finals? >> no, the finals. and then novak djokovic clench add career grand slam. andy murray started coming back, there was a point where you thought he might come back but in the end it was djokovic. he laid down, he made a heart with his racket. he's so great with the crowd. he brings out all the ball boy and ball girls. >> that's so gracious. >> he has them wave to the crowd so they know what it feels like. >> does he do that every match? >> i haven't seen him do it at every match but at the end of this one he brought out all the ball girls and said "look at the audience." >> it was a tender moment. he's the first men's player since rod laver to win the grand slam. >> miss usa happened last night. we have a brand new miss usa. her name is deshauna barber.

she was crowned last night. a 26-year-old from washington, d.c. and steve harvey said nobody say district of columbia. >> avoid the word columbia. [ laughter ] >> she happens to be an army officer and an it analyst for the department of commerce. she joined the military at 17 and she's a logistic commander for the quartermaster detachment unit in ford meade. >> her parents and siblings serve and they said pachl runs in our family. >> and amanda was watching and said that's what she was pulling for. and she goes on to miss universe with our blessings and love. >> so matt damon gave the commencement speech at m.i.t. and you always wonder what he's going do at that kind of thing. he decided to reveal how he came up with the idea for the mood view "good will hunting" which is a great movie and ben affleck's name came up. take a look. >> first, you're going to fail sometimes and that's a good thing. for all the amazing successes

i've been lucky to share, few things have shaped me more than the auditions that ben and i used to go on as young actors where we'd get on a bus, show up in new york, wait our turn, cry our hearts out for a scene and then be told "okay, thanks." meaning, "game over." we used to call it "being okay thanksed." but as the great philosopher benjamin affleck once said -- [ laughter ] "judge me by how good my good ideas are not how bad my bad ideas are." you have to get ready to sound like a total fool. not having an answer isn't embarrassing, it's an opportunity. don't be afraid to ask questions. >> and they won their very first oscars for that movie. >> that was crazy. >> good for them. >> and this weekend they both won the guys of the decade award at the 10th annual spike "tv guide's" choice award. >> nice. >> [ laughter ] we have a shoutout.

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. if you are hungry for hollywood gossip you're in the right place. >> here with the celebrity scoop you could ever want, "entertainment weekly's" editor amy wilkinson. welcome back. so demi lovato and wilmer valderrama broke up? >> they broke up after nearly six years. they released a joint statement saying it was a difficult decision to make but they decided they were better off as friends. >> now any idea why they suddenly came to that? >> no, you know, it seems like they were really going to go the distance. they talked about marriage in

the past. >> i thought they were engaged. >> yeah. they've been on and off for so many years so i'm not sure what happened there. but demi was spotted out saturday night at a ufc event looking happy. >> sometimes they break up before the statement comes out to have time. >> maybe she's just over it now. who knows? >> maybe they both are. who knows? we wish them the best. >> taylor swift did surprise action at someone's wedding. >> i love this story, it's so darling. taylor swift crashed a new jersey couple's wedding. the story behind it is quite lovely. the groom's sister, her name is ali, reached out to taylor swift a few months ago. their mother had died and he was a big fan so the sister worked it out that taylor could come perform at his wedding. >> so she just -- is that her playing on the piano? >> was she in the neighborhood? >> yeah. >> wow! >> she just came for the wedding. she has time now that her and calvin harris aren't dating anymore, i guess. >> this is really sweet. >> and just the fact that

someone reached out and they were able to ultimately get to taylor swift. >> as a normal person, how would you find taylor swift? that's impressive? >> facebook. >> twitter, yeah. all those social medias. >> you can do it. richard simmons, we've been hearing some things that seemed scary. what's the latest? >> tmz reported he had been admitted to the hospital for bizarre conduct. he was released saturday and he released a statement that said he was dehydrated. so part of the statement was basically said "drink plenty of liquids, it's summer." so it sounds like he's recuperating. >> it says "thanks to everyone who has reached out with love and concern after hearing i was in the hospital. i was dehydrated, needed fluids and now i'm feeling great. summer is here, drink plenty of liquids." >> the first day in israel i got dehydrated, i was in the hospital for 11 hours. it's scary. we send our love to richard. >> you don't realize how much you actually drink water. >> has he been photographed outside of his home? have people seen him?

>> at the beginning of the year there was concern he was missing but he did call into i think a show and say he was fine so it's been a bit of a bizarre year for him but hopefully he's on the upswing now. >> finally a weird story on twitter, jack black. i was looking and he was trending at one point and i said oh, my gosh, you hate when people are trending. but someone tweeted that he had passed away. >> so his band's twitterer account tenacious-d was attacked and they posted something about how the 46-year-old had died but then they quickly got control of their account again and posted that he's alive and well and i think they were actually a few music-related twitter accounts that got hacked over the weekend, bonn iver and keith richards as well. >> and mark zuckerberg. >> not a great weekend for twitter. >> yeah, change your password. >> exactly. >> thank you very much, amy.

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we go through the day, especially for the south bay and inland valleys where temperatures will still be very warm today. up to 85 degrees in morgan hill while foster city is at 70 degrees. palo alto, 84. 66 in the mission district. we'll have upper 70s for parts of the north day. 95 in brentwood. oakland is at 70 degrees. some upper 80s for the tri-valley with a lot of sunshine. temperatures will start to go down as we go through the week. how is it looking on the roads, mike? >> we have thumbs down for the san mateo bridge. chp is on scene. heard there may be major injuries. no ambulance on scene. we did see vehicles leave. there's a big backup across the flat section. this is from the hayward side across on our maps. you see the jam-up off 880. so a slow drive here. go down to the dunbarton bridge.

treasure island has cleared up. there's the south bay, no problem. >> thanks. make sure to join us at 11:00 for our next newscast. chris and i will see you then. it's funday monday and if you it's fun day, monday, if you overindulged this weekend and your clothes aren't fitting quite right, we'll help you out. >> the co-author of "get it!" >> you guys are on the cover too. >> is this a real thing, you pick the exact same outfit you can look thinner? >> just about little tricks and modifications you can make to something that you might like to just give a slimmer appearance instantly. >> okay. >> you would automatically think smaller prints would be better, i would imagine, right, than bigger? >> right. well, loving prints this season, but sometimes a large print, as

you can see on jen, is really just -- there we go -- doing nothing for her shape. we want to get her a -- >> flowing. >> exactly. right. by choosing this print that's actually more like a vertical print, downward, it's much more flattering. obviously leggings are like an all-season staple. these are from yummy. i love them because they have this built-in shaping and all the compression so they're instantly slimming her. >> can we go side by side for a second? >> and a tip, too, showing that little bit of skin at the ankle, too, helps create a thinner appearance. and then i gave her some wedges because as we know, you know, we love wedges to give us a little boost. these are from crocs. super affordable from under 60 bucks. another hint of print. giving her that boost again to make her look a little thinner. >> thanks, jen. >> thank you. >> let's talk about accessorizing. sometimes you think we have

keyana. >> that's the before picture. no jewelry on there. >> right. sometimes, believe it or not, bigger is better and you can actually change your shape -- >> yes! >> give the illusion. this great dress, she looked super hot in it, but i added this printed bag that's hitting right at her waist, emphasizing and drawing attention to that narrow part of her body. just by giving her the bigger earrings, drawing the eye up. >> right? >> really just helps her outfit pom and make her look thinner. >> the side by side. keyana, nice. >> uh-huh. >> she's working it. >> swimsuit season is upon us. >> yes. >> that makes most of us cringe. >> a lot of women feel comfortable in a tankini or one piece because of modesty but maybe it's not necessarily doing something for their shape. >> jennifer's before picture. >> another jen here. jen as well cutouts, a visual fashion trick, right? this is from yandy.com.

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newest game show host donald faison? [ cheers and applause ] his fans know him best from his nine seasons on the mitt medical comedy "scrubs" where he played zach braff's best friend, the hilarious dr. christopher turk. >> now he's the host of the game show network's newest series called "winsanity" where contestants compete to organize fun facts in numerical order. so donald, we're going to play -- >> we're going to totally play. >> how do we play? >> i'm going to give you -- we'll start off round one with three numerical facts, place them in order from low toast highest. we'll start right now. >> okay, wait, the average -- >> that's 500 -- >> the average number of calories in a bottom of chardonnay. >> that will be the lowest. and wedding is highest. >> wait! >> yes. >> don't you think? >> pizza slices is highest? >> no, no, hoda, no! >> look, i want this to go to the next round, i'm going to bring this down here and i'm

going go -- >> thank you. think it through. >> let's look at it. the average number of calories in a bottle of saturday nay is 600. >> not mine, not mine. >> the number of pizza slices the average american eats in a lifetime is 6,000. >> oh, is that all? >> now the number of weddings each year in the u.s.? >> maybe 40,000. >> i'd say two million. holy cow. a lot of people getting married! [ cheers and applause ] >> now what? >> so now i'm going to give you two more facts. and you have to place them -- >> we'll get our audience to help them. >> you have to place them within the facts you've already stacked. i'll the this here. >> hold on, let our audience help. >> the number of national parks in the united states. >> lower! >> do you think it's lower than the average number of calories? >> yes. >> i'll move this up like this. >> are you sure? >> move it!

>> it's lowest, hoda. >> so the number of lights on the 2015 rockefeller center -- >> number two! >> move it up. >> boom and boom. >> are we right? >> let's find out right now. so you said the number of national parks in the united states was less than the average number of calories in a bottle of chardonnay. >> do it, donald faison. >> we'll find out right now. 58. it's 58. you guys were right. so the number of lights on the 2015 rockefeller center christmas tree. what did you think it was? >> i think i remember it was 13,000. >> 17,000 l.e.d.s. >> gotcha, here we go. boom. >> you don't have to be you just have to be in the ballpark. >> wait, there's? >> here's the final one. let's put it up here. >> the number of times the average person blinks in a day.

>> that's hard. >> i think it goes -- i think it's in between here. >> what does the audience say? >> they say between lights and pizza. i say between pizza and chardonnay. >> well, you're playing the game, they're just here to help you out so if that's where you want to put it -- >> kat wants it here. >> i say 30,000 times a day. >> audience, do you agree? no? yes? that doesn't really help. >> reveal it. what do we have? boom. . [ applause ] >> very good. >> you blink 8,000 times? >> that's the facts correctly and for that, you get two "w" balloons. you guys are winners! "winsanity" every thursday night starting june 9 on game show network. oh, there we go. every thursday night, two

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if intimacy, your sex and marriage have become a thing of the past, you've come to the right place. >> we talk to two contributors to "prevention" magazine who talk about sexless marriages. >> hi, guys. seems every four or five month wes all get together and talk about the same problem. what's going on? >> what is a sexless marriage? is it zero sex at all? >> well, 20% of marriages are sexless. experts tend to say that's -- when you're having sex less than ten times a year. i actually think it's a matter of perceptions but because you know we're all busy and, you know, you can still be attracted

to your partner, you can still be interested in your partner -- >> and still very much in love. >> but not necessarily having sex. on the other hand, you could be lying next to somebody and feel a million miles apart and feel very desperate. so to me that's when it's sexless. >> it's age as well. >> well, it could be a stage-of-life issue but there's a difference between not having a lot of physical explicit sex acts versus a lot of other intimate touching, sensuality going on in a relationship. >> what do you do when one member of the couple wants to have more sex and the other is just done with it? what do you do in that situation? >> the first issue is really that we don't talk about it. we think we're mind readers. so we wait until a problem has festered for a really long time before we discuss it and then it's an explosion. >> i think in this culture we have this idea that desire should be spontaneous and sex should always just happen. >> should be natural.

>> and i think that that's very much of a hollywood pressure. i think often if you take the time to be with your partner, to connect, to put your body through the motions to get aroused, arousal, we talk about this in the article, really comes before desire. we think of desire as the beginning of sex, it's actually sometimes a little more like the early middlesex. >> what does that mean? [ laughter ] >> so it's the pre-game? >> very important. putting your body through the motions and letting your mind follow. >> putting yourself in an environment where it could happen. >> a very sexy context. >> and pre-gaming is important no matter what. we have to turn on our minds as well as our body and if we feel disconnected in all other aspects of our life with our partners, the sex piece will be challenging. >> i think you also mentioned it's something about don't be combative, you won't get what you want that way. say something like "you look so cute to me right now" instead of "we haven't had sex in six weeks." >> i always say we frame the

problem as a sexy solution. tell your partner, instead of saying "we never had sex" say "i had this sexy daydream about you, i don't know where my unconscious is going." you fill in the blanks because the language of sex is arousing and sexy. >> how do you know if it's a dry spell like, wow we're just out of sync or whether you have a real issue? >> i think sometimes you have to look at your partnership and think about do i really like the person who i'm laying next to? because that's obviously a much bigger issue but there are times you just feel disconnected like two ships passing in the night and you can't get on the same page versus i don't feel something between someone anymore. >> is there a difference between having sex and making love? >> well, i think you can just go through the motions and get caught in a routine. i think there's a certain ben pitt to that but i think there is sex that is new or novel or

emotionally connecting. >> did he say yes? [ laughter ] >> yes, i did. >> well, there are all different kinds of sex and they serve a purpose and at some point in our partnership, relationship, ideally you experience all those types. >> you're right. >> okay then. thank you both very, very much. we appreciate it. >> you'll want to hang around for what, hoda? >> our favorite things are coming up. >> but first, this is "today" on nbc.

final for our favorite things, this is a dvd of one of cassidy's movies just now out on dvd called "caged no more". >> look how good she looks on the front. >> regarding the scourge in our nation of human trafficking. and unfortunately it's happening all over the world at record, record numbers. >> you can get it on dvd. >> kevin sorbo is in it, loretta

devine, good cast. >> mine is an app. you know there's a million apps to track your steps. this one is called pacer, it's a little shoe and you tap on it. these the steps i did whatever day it was but they give you the steps, the calories burned and how much time. and it tracks your weight and it's so easy to read. >> even i can see that. i like big font. and i cannot lie. [ laughter ] >> it's called pacers, it's free. >> all righty. oka okay. um -- >> there's a little girl we found who doesn't believe in the number four. look and see how she argues about it. >> one two three five. >> no, one, two, three, four, five. >> no, one, two, three, five. >> no, it's one, two, three, four, five. >> it's one, two, three, five. >> ilia, it's one, two, three,

four. >> no, mommy. that's one, two, three, five! >> i'm not going to keep going back and forth with you, it's one, two, three, four, five. >> five. >> yes! >> how precious is she? >> oh, my gosh! >> i agree with her. there's no four. tomorrow find out why the guys from "flipping boston" will have you floored? >> and a live look in hayward where

former president bill clinton stug and right now at 11:00, a live look in hayward where former president bill clinton is stopping for votes for his wife hillary. this is happening right now. there is one day until the california primary. the race is between clinton and bernie sanders and may end here. good morning, everyone. thank you for joining us. i'm scott mcgrew. >> and i'm kris sanchez. we begin with decision 2016. former president bill clinton again on the campaign in a total of five get out to vote events starting in hayward, as we showed you. clinton will then go to oaklan