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today, wednesday, august 16th, 2023. eye debit mying the victims. the name of some of the maui victims. the warnings for people as they prepare to rebuild. soldier detained. north korea is confirming it has travis king in their custody. take two. new details in the deadly shooting on the movie set of "rust" what a new analysis shows about alec baldwin's involvement. animal instinct. a how you reclaim your time, energy and sense of self. lots of news to get to. recovering from the deadly

wildfires in maui. >> it's a slow and staggering process for the community there, the number dead now 106 people. the first two victims have been officially identified. a key highway to lahaina is open for the first time since those fires and today the white house announced that president biden and first lady jill biden will visit on monday. >> mobile morgue has been set up to try to speed up the process of identifying those who are dead. >> he's gone. i just want to identify the body. i haven't slept in six days and i just, like i said, i just want to identify his body and put him at rest. >> dana griffin is if maui and sharyn epperson is in studio with, we know the names of two victims, what can you tell us

about their lives and for those families still waiting for answers how soon could we know the names of other victims. >> reporter: we learned two names, two men who are in their 70s, both lahaina residents, robert dyckman and robert jantoc. it's too soon to tell exactly when the rest of the victims will be identified. you know, this is a pain staking process, family members have had to give dna samples to match some of these bodies but we hope to learn more names pretty soon. right now the road to lahaina and west maui is open to everyone, people are going through that disaster zone however is still closed off. i want to point out something

here, really remarkable in hearing about the bhen who have been identidentified. a group of three women at the sprans here, holding signs, saying respect u the other says remember. the woman on the far right said that she's taing an oath of silence. we know some of the bodies are going to be elderly and also children, so it's a very heartbreaking scene for a lot of people here and a lot of families want to know more answers. >> heartbreaking indeed, dana. sharyn, homeowners there in maui are being contacted by developers who want to buy their land from them. they're in a state of shock. what are some red flags, what people need to know before making decisions in this time? >> very important to not do

anything like that right now. take time to evaluate the situation. if you have insurance, you need to have reaching out to file a claim and to ask early on for an advance for some of the additional claims coverage that you might need for con tents in ram in the state to work with people who may have property available you can live in and for those who need housing immediately. go to their website to get more information if you can have the home for someone if you need to have a home. >> don't make any rash decisions right now. >> and a lot of people want to help. this very important time for those offous who are seeing this when you're trying to make donations do it through a website that's been verified, by

the charity navigator and give a check or credit card, never cash or a gift card. one of former president trump's key allies and now the co-defendant in the georgia probe is already calling for significant changes to the case. >> former white house chief of staff mark meadows has filed court documents to move the case out of fulton county and into federal court. trump, meadows and 17 other co-defendants accused of committing crimes in the alleged efforts in trying to overturn trump's election loss in georgia in 2020. vaughn hillyard is in atlanta with the very latest. we have some breaking news developing at this hour. get us up to speed. >> reporter: right the breaking news here in just the last minute, district attorney fani will las has ro posed to the judge, the trial for these 19 defendants begin on march 4th

but could very well be in the middle of the republican primary process the iowa caucuses january 15th. the primaries go on from there. march 4th, legal experts say is a very quick date to put a case of this magnitude before a jury here, you mentioned mark meadows, his lawyer the former chief of staff in the white house to donald trump filing a motion here just yesterday to have his trial moved to federal court. you know, this is part of the complicating factors that we're looking at here in the months ahead when these defendants, each file their own motions that are complicated by the fact that fani willis wants to bring all 19 defendants before a jury as part of one trial but mark meadows is contesting because he was serving in the role as a federal officers at the time these acts were occurring, he

can take this to a federal court. if he were to be successful. >> let's talk about the polling we've seen so far, dedicated trump supporters don't seem to be breaking from their candidate. independent voters and others, do these indictments make any difference? >> when you look toward a general election that's where it becomes complicated. 2020, here in the state of georgia lost independent voters. a few independent voters here. >> they study the deep and hard enough to know what's going on, willis and her crew, where there's smoke there's fire. too many indictments. minimal reduction of republican votes for them and even galvanize votes for them. >> she's been investigating that

a long time. finally come to fruition. i think it's something that needed to be done and he needs to go to trial. >> ultimately guys, this will play out in the courtroom and whether the trial begins in march or after november 2020 an actual presidential election, donald trump and others they'll try to win over the court of public opinion including those i understand pendents. >> vaughn hillyard with the breaking news for us. thank you. after a month of silence north korea has confirmed it has u.s. soldier travis king in its custody. first comments since king ran across the border back in july north korea state media said he confessed to illegally entering north korea to escape quote maltreatment within. pentagon can't confirm those comments. matt bradley joins us now with

the latest. what else do we know about king's status in north korea today and for the u.s. side of things, the efforts to get back look like? >> reporter: ellison, we don't know a whole lot of what's going on with his status in north korea. this was the missing piece. four weeks after he dashed across the border to north korea. because of their extreme isolation, pretty hard for pentagon or us journalists any statement contributed to king. even if he stands up and speaks directly straight on the camera like i'm doing now, no way we won't know those comments are coming under durress or torture. this gives us a tiny glimpse of

what we might be able to expect from king. their investigation into king is continuing and the experts i've been speaking to this investigation period, this is the crucial moment. the best that king can hope for if he hopes to return to the states any time soon is that the north koreans investigate him and they determine he's not useful to them or he's a liability, for example, mentally unstable, they can deport him immediately. ellison. >> matt bradley, thank you. it's time now for money minute. twitter known as x is adding another pay wall. >> and apple users are getting payouts over a class action lawsuits. morgan brennan joins us now. well, x pro, is now behind a paywall. $80 per year to gain access.

$65 checks meantime will be sent to iphone users soon the payments are part of a class-action lawsuit against apple that accused the tech giant of slowing down older phones in order to upgrade to newer mod else. paying $500 million to settle this lawsuit. some bank customers in ireland thought they were walking away from atm with free money. a glitch allowed people to withdraw large sums of money, the bank said the glitch is fixed and balances are being corrected today. being corrected today if you did transfers or withdrawals it's going to show up on those accounts today. >> no such thing as a free lunch. >> a worst nightmare. i have extra money. >> money for nothing not so

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new report that could spell legal trouble for actor alec baldwin a second analysis alleges that baldwin did pull the trigger, he's denied doing that. we want to bring in nbc news correspondent antonia hilton. the charges were dropped against baldwin earlier this year. who could file new charges against alec baldwin? >> reporter: that's up to special prosecutor in this case and they've told nbc news that the door is open here. look, just as you spelled out here, just a few months ago, charges against him were dismissed because the prosecutor at the time believed perhaps the gun used on the scene that day that led to fatal shooting that it might have been modified it

might have malfunctioned that day but now in independent report says there's no sign of error, malfunction or modification that alec baldwin must have pulled the trigger there and the weight applied is what led to the gun firing on the scene. 's declined to comment today to our team, he's maintained his innocence since 2021 insisting he's not responsible here. if you look at the report there's an image in there showing him rehearsing and appears his finger is on the trigger, what we doe know right now is that the armorer on set that day, responsible for the firearms she's facing these evidence tampering charges and she's going to stand trial it looks like in december. >> antoine ya, thank you. the controversy surrounding the family whose story inspired

the 2009 hit film the blind side. family accused by former nfl player michael oher is now fighting back with some shocking allegations of their own. you've been following this for us all day, remind us and tell us the latest on this. you were waiting for a press conference from the tuohy family. what started this and what is the family saying right now? >> reporter: ellison, a press conference with attorneys representing the tuohy family taking place right now. the attorneys representing the family justifying their actions. the beginning here, this all started because of a legal petition filed on behalf of michael oher indicating that he signed paperwork to get into a conservatorship when he lived with the tuohys and he was never adopted. now the tuohys what they're

saying in this process is that the reason why he entered a conserve torp ship because it was easier to meet the ncaa requirements at the time in order for him to go to college and play college football. now, in that legal petition filed by michael oher on his behalf he made no money from the film the blind side. the family made 2.5% of the proceeds along $225,000 they're now the attorneys speaking now the money was divided in equal parts. here's part of that conference with attorneys speaking just minutes. >> to say they were devastated by these allegations is truly an understatement. sean and leigh ann are salt of the earth, they would never do anything to deprive michael of anything that was his.

>> ellison the attorneys have indicated that throughout this time that michael oher was in conservatorship with the tuohys being conservators he controlled his own finances and celebritied the agents that he worked with so more information coming in as this press conference takes place. coming up, a small minnesota city could soon be without a police department, why the entire force has handed its over badges. you're watching "nbc news daily." we're also streaming free 24/7 we're also streaming free 24/7 on nbc news ♪ ♪ ♪♪

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all of the streets have been shut down, businesses have been shut down, homes have been shut down. a lot of people unable to get to their place of business or even to their house because this is an active situation. five minutes ago we heard a loud boom. haven't seen that much activity since. again, this is a very, very wide perimeter. you can see it from our chopper. this is the situation, for the last 3 1/2 hours, we are told as you mentioned, chris, that there was an officer who was responding to a situation at a residence. that officer was shot and taken to the hospital. we do not know their condition. meanwhile, there has been a search for the shooter to try to get that person into custody. here is the latest that we heard from the san jose police department. >> we believe the suspect is contained. however the suspect is not in custody. avoid the area, including helicopters, vehicle traffic and

pedestrian traffic. >> reporter: this area has been shut down for a long time. i would urge you to avoid san carlos, that area, and all of the streets surrounding there. traffic has not been good. again, a lot of the businesses and homes are inaccessible as the police right now are trying to keep the situation under control and, according to them, find the suspect in the shooting. we will have the latest as we get more details. for now, back to you. >> scott, thanks very much. let's go to the map. police shut down down west san carlos and ray street. if you live or work in that area, police are asking you to stay clear. we will keep an eye on that situation throughout the day. let's switch and check in with kari hall for a steamy forecast. >> it's going to be another hot afternoon. look at our highs into the mid

to upper 90s for today. reaching 95 in east san jose. for the east bay, up to 98 degrees in walnut creek. martinez, 94 degrees. we are also going to be in the mid 80s for the peninsula, daily city 67 and mid 70s in san francisco. north bay, hot and humid once again. we are closely watching the north bay for the potential of afternoon to evening showers and thunderstorms as well as a high fire danger if we do get lightning strikes. we will take a look at some higher rain chances ahead in our seven day forecast in 30 minutes. >> thanks. school is starting in san francisco. now a reminder to take it slow on the roads. last night, a 4-year-old in a stroller and her father were hit. that little girl died. her dad is in the hospital with life-threatening injuries. police say the driver is

cooperating with their investigation. to the peninsula. a man's body was found downtown along waverly street. the discovery was made around 6:30 this morning. we don't know much else about the man's death. north of the bay, firefighters are battling a new wildfire that lightning sparked and then a second one. the first one, crews ordered evacuations where the head fire is burning. it started around 4:30 yesterday aft scorching 2,700 acres. a new fire started this morning near long gulch. they ordered evacuations there, too. our team is watching in the north bay with that hot weather and wind for any fire conditions. that's it for "the fast forward." we will be back in 30 minutes.

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in a fraud. washington police officer assigned to vice president's detail in seattle was injured after he fell 50 feet from highway ramp, police say the officer was conscious but suffered serious injuries after falling from an on-ramp on to the interstate below. vice president harris was in washington state to mark the first anniversary of the inflation reduction act. the owner of the department store took out a full-page ad in sunday's san francisco chronicle pleading with leaders to address issues like crime and homelessness. small town in southern minnesota will soon be without a

police department, that's because every single officer on their force resigned. it was announced monday during a city council monday in a town of about 1300 people, the officers say they're leaving because of low pay and say they're paid far less to similarly police departments in their area. maura, the officers will still be patrolling until august 23rd, but this mass resignation in general it was pretty abrupt, how on earth did all of this happen? >> well, look, ellison, this is unfortunately a story that we're seeing a lot of across the country, retention and retirement of police officers. in a smaller community the police force in total was 7 people, they're very much intrinsically part of the community working in the way a lot of departments were originally designed to work but this was something that the

police chief raised about low pay and we saw this exodus from the department just since then, a matter of weeks, and the mayor is speaking to reporters at the city council meeting this week saying she was very surprised and blindsided. >> we knew we were on the low side. and so we were trying very, very hard to bring those numbers up. we are all devastated by this. we're trying to muddle through this and do the best we can. provide service for our community. >> reporter: the police chief said that officers in his department make about $22 an hour in goodhue in comparison to other local smaller communities that could make up to $30 an hour. to us living in bigger cities we recognize that's a very low hourly rate for someone who's stepping up and protecting their community and that's why they're not seeing new officers. >> what happens after august 23rd?

>> so, the police officers will continue to serve for the next week, the city is working with the county sheriff's department to contract officers to work together going forward if they can't reach a resolution then. there's another city council meeting. they're talking this morning, they'll have more than this short-term plan by mid next week. >> maura, thank you. actor bradley cooper is facing growing backlash over his appearance in an upcoming netflix movie, cooper portrays the iconic jewish composer leonard bernstein inmaestro. it appears he's wearing a prosthetic. steven, netflix released the first trailer for this movie just yesterday but a lot has happened since then. >> people expressing their outrage toward cooper and

netflix. others have come to cooper's defense and a lot of people point out wearing stereotypical makeup to portray culture or race is inherently problematic. hollywood cast bradley cooper a non-jew to play a jewish legend leonard bernstein. we also heard from plenty of individual users as well. skyler wrote, bradley cooper is putting himself in an insanely large prosthetic nose to play a jewish legend in maestro. just look up a real picture of

the real leonard bernstein and the big antisemitic nose on bradley cooper was definitely not necessary. so you see a loft that backlash coming from the nose prosthetic itself. >> lot of reaction from outside, what about bradley cooper and netflix and bernstein's family? >> cooper and netflix so far haven't responded to us on that. we did get a statement from his family and they are quite supportive of cooper, saying, in quote, it breaks our hearts to see any misrepresentations or misunderstandings of his efforts, it happens to be true that leonard bernstein had a nice, big nose, cooper chose to use makeup to amplify his resemblance. we're fine with that. the movie is set for limited release in the fall and released widely on december on netflix. we'll see how people respond to it if they choose to see it.

vicky, today marks one year since president biden signed the inflation reduction act. >> the controversial legislation has been praised by democrats for its investment in climate issues and criticized by republicans for raising taxes. but survey suggests that most americans don't know what's in it. noah. >> what's in it? >> you got climate investments, health care reforms. individually popular on their own. the president wants you to know who's responsible. >> we've heard lots of debate about the inflation reduction act. >> the most important investment we've ever made in our energy security. >> the biggest tax hike in the history of our country. >> reporter: but do you really know what's in it. >> the inflation reduction act committed a half trillion dollars over the next ten years toward clean energy and health care investments.

we're talking about tax credits for electric vehicle, and xr companies that produce renewable energy. prescription drug reform. to pay for it the i.r.a. also included increased irs enforcement. the congressional budget office found the bill would more than paid for itself. >> this bill will in fact reduce inflationary pressure on the economy. >> reporter: we're back close to the 2% inflation target. attributing to any drop of our inflation rate to our inflation reduction act. at a recent fund-raiser he said quote i wish i hadn't called it the inflation reduction act because it has less to do with reducing inflation -- >> cheaper than fossil fuels.

>> regardless 1 in 4 americans say today they have a good idea of what's in the bill. only 38% of america approves of it. when that same group of respondents were briefed on the con tents of the bill, support jumped to 60%. which may explain the president's recent interest in barnstorming the country. >> eager to talk all things i.r.a. >> let's talk about branding. honestly the name of it didn't work, biden doesn't like the name of it now, you mentioned that survey that found 68% of people approved of what was in it. what about lawmakers, the reaction across party lines? >> lawmakers had an idea, but branding, right, part of the republican brand to oppose

anything the president does. this yale study showed huge shifts in favorability, they mentioned the word investment not spending, that's where the popularity almost doubled. >> absolutely. words matter. australia's world cup dreams are over. england beat them 3-1 in the semifinal round earlier today. it was a tough game. england now advances to the final where they take on spain this sunday. nbc news foreign correspondent molly hunter caught up with some fans of host country australia to talk about their devastating loss. having a hometown crowd is absolutely extraordinary.

in your first-ever word cup semifinal was something else. but the england team was just the better team. right off the top in the 62nd minute, a smashing goal, england got two more that third goal. not enough time for australia to come back. i spoke with some australian fans after, about the impact this team has had on this country. take a listen. >> i went to one of their games when i was 4 years old and i was so amazed by them. >> what do you think, what kind of message does it send to you guys? >> even if you don't win you've made it this far. and keep trying. >> even if you give up or like even if you stop trying you shouldn't give up and keep going all the time. >> the matildas have changed this country.

a group of young boys said they have never ever cheered for a women's national team. it's a seismic shift. you heard from those little girls they want to be many matildas, longtime fans of the matildas. the england was the better team. their first-ever final. what's exciting about this world cup, the story of this world cup is the newcomers and some of the newer teams making this far, england and spain face off in the final on sunday. there will be a first-time winner for the women's 2023 world cup and that's pretty exciting. back to you. all right, you have probably heard of helicopter parenting or maybe tiger moms, coming up, we'll introduce you to

in today's modern parenting becoming moms and dads can consume our whole lives, but does it have to? . >> it's a life phase that one of our next guests calls camel mode. joining us now to discuss is columnist for new york magazine katherine morton, and psychotherapist dr. robi ludwig. let me start with you, dr.

ludwig. katherine, you coined this term camel mode. you talked about this in phase you were in, when your kids were between 9 and 12. what happened. >> when the kids were little, it's this sense of losing sight of what you really want to do in any given situation, what do the kids need? what needs to happen for it to be smooth sailing in my home? >> when you do that for years you forget what you as a person might even want, you know, on any given day. >> dr. ludwig, in some ways as someone who's not a mom, in the 30s who wants to have kids, close friends who have kids, this is the nightmare for a lot of people. is camel mode just inevitable

if you want to have kids? >> i think there are ways around it and it's not to let mother hood be your sole identity. it's probably good to focus on your kids when they're very little. >> they need help. >> survival mode, but if your forget yourself that's where it can be dangerous, they did a study, the happier moms were part time or full time when their kids were toddler age. they had multiple identities they can experience. >> camel mode not the best marketing. >> not a great sell. the cost and then this. it's a lot. >> katherine, camel mode is not anyone's fault, what do you mean by that and how did you manage to get out of that psychological state? >> so, i mean that it's not anyone's fault in the sense it's not necessarily because your co-parent isn't doing their part

or, you know, you're a martyr, you're not doing parenting the right way, it's just a natural phase of life that a lot of us have to endure, more helpful to name it than it is to put a bunch of judgment around it. >> katherine, what would you say to people who are maybe considering having kids and hear this, oh, my gosh, this is what i worry about, do you feel like it was worth it? >> oh, 100%. totally. listen, it's something that you can get out of and i think for me, you know, coming out of camel mode is really great, in some ways you're happier than before you had kids. you come to know what makes you happy by choosing things more deliberately. >> yes, being intentional that's so key. dr. ludwig, if you reck these that you're in camel mode what are some active things you can do to get out of it?

>> so the first thing is to create space for yourself, ask yourself, what brings you joy, what are you excited about? and create a space for that. and also make sure to socialize, socialize with your partner, make sure to deliberately date your husband or, you know, fianceor the significant other. make room for your friends. there are people who love you and who need you. >> we all want balance in every aspect of life. how do we get it here? >> realizing the different aspects of ourselves and acknowledging how important it is to be intellectual, to allows ourselves to dream, to socialize, to be that parent you want to be. you are sue your dreams, to figure out a way to do everything so we have a sense of feel good and mental well-being

because we're not ignoring important aspects of who we are. >> katherine, where are you now in terms of camel mode, are you easing out of it? >> yes, i'd say i'm out and you know, it's been a journey but i'm happy to say it's behind me now. >> katherine and dr. ludwig, thank you both for being with us. stay with us. there's a lot more news ahead. you're watching "nbc news daily". [sneeze] (♪♪♪) asastepro allelergy, steroid d free allerergy ref that s starts workrking in 30 miminutes, asastepro allelergy, steroid d free allerergy ref whilile other alallergy spraysys take hoururs.

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