this is the main panel. you can see it has zero power as well. >> a mall inspected year after year. >> but first, rain lass moved lhas moved out. and we're tracking something else. >> we have calm conditions, but mt. deablo, wind gusts close to 40. deablo range, santa cruz mountains. wind advisory through about 9:00. you see the areas in purple.

areas east of san jose seeing peak wind gusts before 4:00 a.m. and wind speeds do start to come down as we head into the afternoon on monday. wind advisory to start thing off for the hills. cold ahead, and we'll watch to see if our travel is impacted. >> our app is a great resource to have. download it, punch in your zip code and we'll send you alerts straight to your phone. tributes are pouring in tonight for one of the post respected, politically active first ladies. rosalynn carter passed away in

plains, georgia, surrounded by family. even after serving as first lady from 1977 to 1981, she devoted herself to many social causes, including the needs of the poor and elderly. she leaves behind children and 22 great and grandchildren. in 2013, she worked on build projects in oakland. habitat for humanity leaders say she was tireless as she rolled up her sleeves and not to work. >> she was toe to toe with the president, working alongside him, hammering, you know, sawing, using a chop saw. i don't know how many former first ladies use a chop saw. but mrs. carter did.

>> and during the 40 years they helped build more than 4400 homes all over the world. >> she was well-known for her efforts on mental health and care giving and women's rights. so i hope that during the holidays you'll consider saying your, you'll include the carter family in your prayers. >> the biden was severing a holiday meal in norfolk, virginia, the president serving mashed potatoes. we are officially heading into the holiday season and the holiday week. and the travel rush is on. this holiday is expected to be one of the busiest in years.

you can see people getting dropped off at the curb. not too packed inside the terminal. earlier today we stopped off at oakland airport. those who fly out of oakland know it's normally pretty calm, but not today. it's the same story across the country. airlines expect to carry the most thanksgiving travelers ever, 30 million passengers over 12 days. >> i'm a little stressed out because there's a lot of people here, and i'm nervous flyer anyway. >> any thoughts on flying out on tuesday? >> i would never do it. i see reports all the time where people are camped out. we're going to come back after thanksgiving. >> more than 49 million expected to drive starting wednesday. something to be thankful for, gas is down about 30 cent as

cents from last year. the cruise board of director sent out a statement saying it has accepted the resignation of the ceo. not sure why he stepped down. this is after a series of blows to the company which is trying to regain trust with the public. cruise pulled all its driverless cars off the road and recalled the software and announced layoffs. we explain why this year is a somber anniversary. >> reporter: one by one, people left yellow flowers on the steps of the city hall, each of them bearing the names of people killed in traffic crashes in the city. city leaders, state representatives and community members impacted by traffic

violence gathered to mark world day of remembrance for traffic victims. >> mostly, i think this is something where i really want to express my condolences to the family for their loss. >> reporter: in total, there were nearly 300 flowers representing each of the people killed in traffic crashes in san francisco since 2014, which is when the city adopted vision zero. >> what hasn't changed is our streets are still killing people every single day. or severely injuring people. >> reporter: advocates say more needs b get san francisco to zero traffic deaths. in san francisco, alyssa goard, nbc bay area news. sam altmann got a lot of attention for the way he exited his role, and now a possibility he might get his job back. yesterday, several investors are pushing for his reinstatement after his surprise firing.

today altmann posted a picture of himself saying first and last time i ever wear one of these. we aren't sure what he meant. we'll bring you the latest on this story as it develops the a worker at an east bay refinery is recovering after getting hurt in a fire at the renewable fuel facility. firefighters were able to put out the flames within an hour. it refines things like animal fat and corn oil and uses them for renewable fuel. it appears brock purdy and the 49ers are all the way back after a three-game losing streak. they defeated the tampa bay buccaneers. mr. tallied 333 yards.

anthony flores will have all your highlight later in the new cast. tonight we investigate fire violations that have gone unresolved year after year. and at this hour, now, under a wind advisory for the bay area hills, gusts up to 45 miles per hour at times. we're tracking this hour by hour and when shower chances return in the

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california. >> we uncover a serious fire safety problem. >> that's right. we pulled years worth of inspection reports for burlington and thegreat mall and found restrictions that have gone unresolved year after year. >> two trampolines here. >> reporter: scott burns is describing the setup for game time elite. >> this is our high bar area. >> reporter: a 21,000 square foot space. >> i started flipping before i even have a recollection of memories. >> reporter: the former gymnast and coach for 17 years found the perfect location at the great mall in milpitas where he and partner nikki mcclure could

recognize their ultimate vision. >> a dream, set up for gymnastic force any level. >> home to our giant bounce park! >> reporter: with the ideal layout, since it used to house an indoor bounce park named bounce-a-rama. they knew the space needed work but on july 1st agreed to an as-is lease with burlington. an anchor store that had sublet a portion of its footprint to bounce-a-rama. but they didn't know it was unsafe until a fire specter pulled up. >> it has nothing on it. >> reporter: no power. >> zero power. >> reporter: and found a long list of code violations. >> immediately, he noticed that the sprinkler also been painted over. the cement staircase on the outside of the great mall has

been raised up because of a tree root. and this door will physically not open. this has to be an exit door. this is the main fire alarm panel in our electrical room. now can you see it has zero power as well. >> reporter: and whose responsibility is it to keep this panel working? >> this panel connects to burlington's panel inside of their building as well. >> reporter: nikki and scott's certificate of occupancy was denied. >> i was just thinking, how has this not already burned down. >> it looks like a recipe for disaster. >> reporter: we asked a former fremont fire spekt inspector to address it. >> without the sprinklers and all the hazards in there, it has a high potential for being very

dangerous. >> reporter: that's what they thought, too. >> i reached out to the manager of the mall, who handles your fire system? we need to get it up and running. >> reporter: burlington and milpitas fire, the communication, it became evident it was not limit to the game time space. july 19, mall management, the fire alarm system in the space is connected into the mall system. they have had alerts and deficiencies for months, even years. july 28 the fire department issues the burlington store a violation, writing, notification systems have been bypassed. >> these are systems telling people to get out of the store because we have an emergency. >> reporter: august 1, burlington terminates the lease.

writing the whole fire violation has open add can of worms. we're having a problem with our landlord. so even if they weren't renting this space out they would need their alarm system up and running. >> yes, they would. >> reporter: isn't that unsafe? >> yes. very unsafe. >> reporter: remember bounce-a-rama? we found photos that show the seam overhead panel as the current one with the red, painted-over spring letterhead. we found reports dating back to 2019. according to the fire marshal, they show a pattern of violations. blocked exits. broken emergency lights, expire extinguishers. >> fire extinguisher, improper mounting. 2021, fire alarm. >> reporter: we reached out to mall management which referred

us to parent company simon, multiple times, via phone calls and e-mails that were never returned. it is just one of their 21 shopping centers in california. nine are in the bay area, including gilroy premium outlutz we were sent a statement, saying we have satisfied our obligations under local and state safety standards. >> so far we have had no resolution. >> reporter: the deputy chief in milpitas says the sprinklers and alarm systems are required to be inspected. the fire department is supposed to ensure it happens. the pandemic kept milpitas fire

from doing an on-site inspection many we showed the fire marshal past violations found year after year. is it common for a business to have this many continual inspections where they don't bring themselves up to what you've asked them to correct? >> common, no. does it happen? yes. unfortunately, we try to get people to move toward compliance, but that rye kwiers that requires them to cooperate. >> reporter: the can of worms burlington mentioned to nikki and scott in that e mail about the burlington space? it now involves common areas in the entire great mall. we pulled the fire inspection

report which lists 22 violations including malfunctioning fire exits. a sprinkler system that hasn't been serviced or inspected. >> in the end, it's, our job is to go out and check systems and make sure places are safe for the citizens and people shopping in these spaces as well as the employees working in them. >> a parents and kids coming in here, complications, other things that are going on many the cost is not for me. it's so the mall doesn't burn down. >> on friday, inspectors went out to the great mall to see if progress had been made in correcting the 22 violations. i was told the issues were addressed, some of them, like servicing fire extinguishers, however the fire alarm remains a problem. as a result, the entire mall is on fire watch, which mine as person must physically be on

site 24 hours a day to monday monitor the property and make sure a fire doesn't break out. several people on the peninsula are without a place to stay tonight after an apartment fire. new video into our newsroom shows smoke and flames. the fire broke out at a second storey apartment building in san mateo around 4:30. crews were forced to shut down parts of the street. the cause of the fire is under investigation. the section of interstate 10 in l.a. shut down by a fire last weekend open again. you can see traffic right there flowing smoothly. the agency was worried repairs might include demolition, which would have meant weeks to months

of closures, but inspections show that wasn't necessary for now. investigators believe an arsonist sparked the fire. yesterday they released pictures of a person of interest, but so far no arrest. it is a winter wonderland once again in the sierra. this is video as they get ready to open in just three days. looks like they are ready for it. the resort says the upper mountains received four inches of new snow in the last 24 hours, and they also got help as can you see, from their snowmakers there. they're officially scheduled to reopen this wednesday just in time for thanksgiving. speaking of something else just in time for thanksgiving, traveling. >> we're talking about new snow heading to the sierra. but real travel issues if you're heading to the eastern part of the country other the next couple days. we'll highlight areas, starting with tomorrow. flights into dallas, kansas

city, new orleans or houston could have storms. then chicago into atlanta, big travel hubs for delta and other airlines into the southeast, and wednesday, you'll be hearing about this i'm sure on the nightly news. pretty powerful storm heading to the east coast on wednesday, impacting the northeast corridor. flights east of the rockies could see some delays. 49ers taking on the seahawks, football right here thursday. looks like low 40s in seattle. a few showers to the east of the cascades, but football weather in the pacific northwest. tonight, 56 in san francisco the notice the wind speed. san francisco, walnut creek, livermore, not seeing much wind. it is a bit of a different story across the hills. 50s from walnut creek.

wind advisory through 9:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. here's a look at the peak wind gusts, which i think will arrive after midnight. 3:00 a.m. to 6:00 a.m. for the north bay hills and santa cruz mountains. as we move forward for the morning, wind advisory expires at 9:00. watch how the wind speeds do start to dial back. so the offshore breeze which usually means drier weather and temperatures climbing up a bit. wind-sheltered valleys will be chilly. low 40s to start of o tomorrow off tomorrow morning. look at the impact. upper 60s closer to san jose. and mid-60s for your monday around san francisco and oakland. we talked about how the sierra could see some snow. it's going to be this weather system wednesday night that drop over the bay area. and a narrow opportunity on

thanksgiving morning at 4:00 a.m. may briefly see a few showers. after sun rise, showers now hook look like they're going to move out. it is cold. so if you have travel plans for the sierra, look at that. along highway 50, towards yosemite, could see some snow. as we move forward into the weekend, dry weather and sunshine returning after we get past thanksgiving. short-term issue, the hills and that wind advisory, which will be ongoing through 9:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. there's an early chance of showers early thursday, then back into the sunshine. chilly mornings, we'll see upper

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welcome back on this saturday night and thanks for joining us on this sunday night, rather. i'm gia vang. >> i'm terry mcsweeney. the world is remembering rosalynn carter. she died two days after entering hospice care at the family home in plains, georgia. we have more on her life and legacy. >> it's now my pleasure to introduce someone whom i love and respect and cherish.

my wife rosalynn carter. >> reporter: she was jimmy carter's partner and closest adviser in and out of white house for more than three quarters of a century. soft-spoken, politically savvy and fiercely determined, she was known as the steel magnolia and made the role of first lady her own. born roslynn smith, she was a neighbor to jimmy carter. >> i was shy and found out he was so easy to talk to. we hit it off really will. i think i was already in love with him. >> reporter: they married in 1946 when she was 18. >> we were partners even when i was still living a life as a peanut farmer. >> reporter: she helped manage the business. they raised a family. three sons and later daughter

amy. jimmy got into politics, running for president with roslynn's support. >> she's completely objective and unbiassed. >> i love politics. >> reporter: the small-town girl with a poor family who never finished college thrived on the national stage. >> every day i see things i think coy help wmt. >> reporter: jimmy carter won the election with rosalyn carter playing a key role. she was front and center from the start, attending cabinet meetings, leading on policy issues including mental health, becoming the first first lady since elinor roosevelt to testify before congress. >> i am here as a concerned citizen. >> there are so many opportunities, and if i don't use the influence i have to help

those people who need help, i think that's a terrible waste. >> reporter: she served as president carter's emissary, taking high-profile trips to latin america and asia. >> i think that i am the person closest to the president of the united states. and if i can help him in understanding the countries of the world, that's what i intend to do many. >> reporter: often more popular than the president himself, she was his advocate in chief. >> i'm proud of jimmy carter and the job he's doing, and he is without a doubt the best person in our country to see us through these times. >> reporter: but faced with a troubled economy and painful hostage crisis, carter lost to ronald reagan in 1980, and the carters returned to plains. they found the carter center. and together began a remarkable decades-long post-presidency, devoted to human rights, international diplomacy, eradicating disease and year after year building low-income

housing with habitat for humanity. in 1999, they were award the presidential medal of freedom. >> i think that's one of the happiest times of my life. there is life after the white house. >> reporter: through it all, she remained her husband's greatest champion. >> it irritates me when people say he. >> reporter: she was characteristically modest many. >> that was lester holt reporting. rosalynn carter was 96 years old. former president carter says rosalynn was my equal partner. as long as rosalynn was in the world, i always knew somebody loved and supported me. to the middle east now. israel and u.s. negotiators appear to be close to an agreement to release some of the

hostages. that comes according to qatar. a source is telling nbc news the deal is being worked out but it's too soon to tell. it could still fall apart. meanwhile, world health organization says it managed to reach the al shifa hospital complex after it was partially evacuated. the w.h.o. says it was able to evacuate some very sick babies. they are expected to cross into egypt tomorrow. in the interim, they're cared for at a hospital under united nations supervision. and back here in the bay area, continued calls for a cease-fire. protesters gathered outside san jose city hall calling for the u.s. to stop sending military aid to israel. and for a permanent cease-fire in gaza.

the violence escalated last month when hamas attacked israel, killing at least 1200 people. it's estimated 13,000 people have died in gaza. >> not just palestinian people. we have jewish, hispanic, white people, who all see a reason to be here. this is what they see is fundamentally wrong, and, again, we're seeing palestinians be collectively punished for something that doesn't represent the palestinian people. >> a poll by reuters found nearly 70% of americans believe israel and hamas should call a cease-fire. governor newsom is taking direct aim at ron desantis in his latest ad. >> want by order of governor ron

desantis. >> newsom points out that some women do not even know they are pregnant at just six weeks. desantis and newsom are set to debate each other later this month. desantis calls the ad quote, sheer desperation. it is thanksgiving week and new york is preparing for the famous macy's parade. four brand new balloons will be making their debut. a preview on what you can expect a preview on what you can expect to see on how's the chicken?

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welcome back. a reminder as we approach the thanksgiving holiday. nbc by area and telemundo 48 have teamed up with safe way to make sure everyone has a holiday meal. if you'd like that help us with our nourishing neighbors food drive, you can visit your local safeway at the register. this is amazing.

we've already raised more than $250,000 since yesterday morning. >> wow. >> yeah. thank you. thanks to everyone who has donated. >> indeed, thank you. and we can hopefully keep the momentum going. speaking of thanksgiving, four new floats will debut in the thanksgiving day parade. >> gus rosendale from our station in new york has a preview of what we can expect in thursday's parade. >> reporter: maybe the designers were hungry. whether it's candy, a burger, a pizza or more candy, there's a lot of food feature on the new floats at the thanksgiving day parade. >> each year we challenge ourselves to think a hill above little above and beyond. we start with a pencil sketch and work with our designers.

>> reporter: at the warehouse, teenaged mutant inn ninja turtles. and it's not just floats that are new. there new balloons, including leo, cool cat, kung fu panda, the pillsbury doughboy and eagle scout snoopy. the balloons got a test run, leading up to the big day, the 97th annual parade will be watched by millions in person and on screens across the country. and this year the fun starts earlier than ever. >> this year the mace's thanksgiving day parade starts at 8:30 a.m. an extra half hour, more parade than ever before. >> reporter: more time for a tradition closing in on the century mark. and this team really spends a long time turning these ideas into parade reality, planning

for next year starts the day after thanksgiving. in new york, i'm gus rosendale, nbc news. >> and you can catch macy's 97th annual thanksgiving day parade, thursday. you just heard, 8:30 a.m. right here on nbc bay area. >> such a tradition for so many families. up next, a bay area sports legend with an announcement about her future. jessica aguirre joins us again. working to solve the housing crisis. >> the major development project set for the south bay and the key donation making it possible. we're also talking to randy winn. >> joins tomorrow morning on

we are counting down to the paris olympics.

our jessica aguirre will be there. >> one of the most notable bay area olympians, one that most of us know just by her first name. >> yes, that would be keri, as in kerri walsh jennings. she is also a self-admitted positivity warrior. i caught up with kerri to ask, does she have one more olympics in her? this wasn't here when you were here. >> no. >> the first court is kerri ross jennings court. >> it started here at stanford university. >> i got my first big dream come true. >> it is the perfect place to talk about the city of light.

ankle surgery sidelined her earlier this year. >> i've been talking to god, i've been debating retiring for so long. compete something so in my heart, like forever, i love it. it was going to have to take an act of god to get me out. >> is this the deciding factor? >> this is the deciding factor. right now i'm trying to figure out how i'm going to show up. >> she showed up on the sand and changed the sport of women's volleyball. >> it was lightning a bottle. >> the magic won them three back-to-back gold medals. showcasing female ferocity delivered with trademark smiles. you were bad-asses, and that

changed the way people looked at the sport. >> we sisterhood. >> reporter: as they shatter the look of motherhood. you did two olympics pregnant. >> literally my boys were two and four and my baby girl was in my tummy. they've been part of the ride. >> reporter: and platform 1440. >> it comes from the fact that there are 1440 minutes every day. >> reporter: and more recently, the foundation that helps with kids to make the most of their journey. >> we have live training events where we develop their character and skills. so 1440 is here to transform life. >> reporter: probably one of the biggest questions america wants to know, do you still have those

abs? >> no! i still love my body, i do not believe in regression. i believe the best is yet to many could. >> reporter: as for inspiration for the women following in her sandy footsteps at paris. >> let it rip. the hard stuff is gone. like you're there. >> reporter: one more piece of advice from kerri to other would-be olympians, she says the medal is just a thing, but it's the pursuit, the journey that truly makes you golden. as for the abs, i'm convinced she still has them and was trying not to make me feel bad, right? >> i think so. great interview with kerri. we'll have all the important updates leading up to 2024, and jessica aguirre will be leading us up to those games. >> we're not talking about next

summer's weather but here and now. >> you sigh the orange, the area is under a wind advise richlt when shower chances and

ms. universe 2023 has made history as the first contestant from nicaragua to ever become ms. universe. she is a model, a mother. are you ready for this? lives in san francisco! friends and family were so excited, they took to the streets. flag waving and dancing. wow, they say it's a very proud day. >> you feel that pride and our joy that we finally being represented by somebody who came from, you know, with her mom on the streets and being able to

represent this whole country and it's so amazing and wonderful. >> that is fantastic. and this year's runner-up from thailand. >> wow. >> and the second runner-up from australia. this year marked the 72nd ms. universe pageant, and it truly is from all over the place. >> i love that there is a community here to support ms. universe. >> wow, and her mother's in san francisco. that worked out well. >> nice weather. >> but the winds are going to be blowing. >> for the hills. certainly, if you're in the hilltop locations or the deablo range, the winds will be picking up before sun rise. where we're not seeing the rain or fog, for that matter. golden gate bridge, 56 degrees. eventually we'll see offshore winds picking up before sun rise across the bay. but strongest gusts of 45 miles per hour will not be felt in walnut creek but off to your

east. mt. deablo already seeing winds up to 40 miles per hour. 54 in dublin dublin. currently, 54 in san jose. the areas impacted. north bay hills, santa cruz mountains. east of san jose along the deablo range. peak wind gusts should arrive after midnight tonight. these are the areas showing up on the map in red and purple. looks like 3:00 a.m. to 6:00 a.m. will be the peak of those top wind speeds. as we head to 6:00 to 9:00 wind advisories should start to decline. for wind-sheltered valleys, it's going to be cold. low 40s for areas south of san jose. so if you're in that location outside the wind, it's going to be a brisk star start of the

notice, 70s, pretty big change in temperatures for the afternoon. for most of the week, it should be dry. stay opportunity to the tuned to the forecast. this could be a chance for rain this week. not a lot's going to come down. just a slight chance of showers in the north bay. but the bigger impact could be the sierra. a chance of snowshowers nurs snowshowersspsz thursday into early friday. could see 70s popping up. then we dry out and stay mostly

sunny for next weekend. >> i like that thanksgiving holiday. i'm anthony flores at levi stadium. the 49ers are alone in first place in the nfc west division after a big win over the

tiny, branch, poppy on another musical adventure.

you see that button? yeah. press it. hold onto your cupcakes. ♪ ♪ ooh! too much hustle is a thing. look at that. welcome back. i'm anthony flores at levi stadium. it's a big day for the 49ers. they make it back-to-back wins after beating the tampa bay buccaneers. the niners hosting tampa bay at levi stadium for the second year in a row. christian mccaffrey had a streak of 17 straight games with a touchdown, snapped last week. but he starts a new streak with a four-yard td reception in the first quarter. the niners were also bringing the pressure on defense. nick bosa and fred warner combined for a sack and fumble recovery on baker mayfield. the niners led 13-7 at the break. third quarter, brock purdy, who

made his first career nfl start against the bucs last year, there's an out for brandon aiyuk. it's a three-yard toss to george kittle. purdy was 21 of 25 and a perfect passer rating. that hasn't happened with the niners since joe montana did it in 1989. the defense comes up with a couple big stops in the fourth quarter, including an interception in the end zone of the niners beat the buccaneers, 27-14. here's kyle shanahan with more on his quarterback's standout performance. >> i thought he played real well. there's very few that he missed. protected the ball extremely well. and i thought he a hell of a game.

>> at the same time, i wish there were some plays i had back. not completely content with just that, but thought it was a great game with the guys around me, the coaching, the play calling, all of it. that's a testament to the team. >> next up, a short week for the 49ers, they face the seahawks on thursday. the silver and black in south beach to take on the miami dolphins. aidan o'connell airs it out for a 46 yard touchdown. raiders up 10-7. but they would only score three point the rest of the way. the raiders are 1 and 5 on the road this season. stanford working overtime against duke. 22 second remaining and the game went to o.t. duke misses the layup and

stanford survives, 82-79. the cardinal are a perfect 4 and 0 on the young season. back here at levi stadium where the 49ers improved after beating the buccaneers. next up, they're spending thanksgiving in seattle. anthony flores, nbc bay area. two very special turkeys living the high life even as thanksgiving approaches. >> they don't have anything to worry about, because they're being pardoned. liberty, and bell. president biden will pardon liberty and bell tomorrow. after that, they will live the rest of their lives happily at the university of minnesota. every year. >> every year it happens. thanks very much for joining us. we're back in one hour at 11:00. hope you can join us then. >> bye.

>> i'm lester holt tonight on "dateline." inside the infamous case of a wife, a mistress and maybe, a murder >> how many more bombshells is there gonna be >> she goes, "i'm having an affair with your husband >> you're getting test messages from bonnie of the two of them having sex >> uh-huh. >> s