earlier when you take them to the park to use up that energy. thank you for joining kpix 5 news with the next local update at 7:26 am. cbs this morning coming up next. have a wonderful day. good morning to our viewers in the west. it's tuesday, february 12th, 2019. welcome to "cbs this morning." breaking overnight, congress reaches a tentative deal to pay for border security and prevent a new government shutdown. it offers a fraction of the $5.7 billion president trump wanted for a wall. will he sign it? a new storm buries the midwest with more snow and targets the east coast while the pacific northwest braces for another blast of snow. the dangerous conditions affecting more than 113 million americans. fraternity system isrson ,

those eivy league students are fighting to join the fraternities they . plus, a crew searching for a world war ii aircraft carrier. 17,000 feet deep in the south pacific. see what they found only on "cbs this morning." but we begin this morning with a look at today's eye opener, your world in the 90 seconds. >> slipping and sliding. drive slow like a turtle. >> it's a mess, complete mess. >> doesn't matter what you're driving, you could end up in the ditch. >> dangerous weather slammed the country from coast to coast. >> it's wet, sloppy, heavy. >> if you don't have to go anywhere, don't. >> not a single word, yet every single thing we want. >> lawmakers reaching a tentative deal to avert a second government shutdown. >> now, will president trump sign it? >> we're building the wall anyway. >> apologizing for statements many called

>> there's -- it's abhorrent and wrong. >> denver public school teachers walked often the job f eed off t time in 25 years. >> the mass invasion of polar bears threatening a remote russian town. >> all that -- >> a very strange sight at a su super market. what do you do when you see that? >> all that matters. >> my wife loves being a grandmother. >> i take that being to mean you don't love being a grandfather. >> not at all. >> no. >> all my life trying to become an empty nester. i wanted my kids to go away, get out. not come back with more people. >> on "cbs this morning." >> the grammy awards. a lot of people were angry because speeches were getting cut off. but the show was four hours long. i understand you're winning and you want to thank everybody but we're watching this thing for four hours, okay. those people who wait in line at

chipotle and when they get to the front they're like, uhhh. no, no, uhh. you came in the door, whi ricgu it's extra, thank you. >> presented by toyota, going places. >> welcome to "cbs this morning." don't get in front of the line in front of trevor. >> he's spot on about that. that is really annoying. we've been standing here for 20 minutes. >> speaking for a lot of us. >> true at airports as well, at security. you're going through. >> why did you wear those shoes. >> right, and don't bring water. >> so true. >> now to the news. norah o'donnell is on assignment. we begin with a breakthrough on capitol hill overnight. budget negotiators have an agreement in principle to avoid another partial government

shutdown. the debate has been over president trump's demand for a border wall. we don't know yet if the president will accept the deal. >> he told supporters at a rally in el paso a wall will make their lives better. possible democratic challenger o'rourke told another rally the border is already safe. major garrett is at the white house with the latest. >> reporter: the white house is noncommittal on this deal. doesn't mean yes. it doesn't mean no. congressional negotiators were given a lot of latitude but the president wants to devote today to go over details and make sure it does not interfere with the border security message ht wall >> reporter: president trump praised his long promised border wall in el paso, texas. >> today, we started a big beautiful wall. >> reporter: and highlighted the construction of a 14-mile

barrier approved by congress last year. as the president preached in el paso. >> we reached an agreement in principle. >> reporter: republican kn negotiators in congress agreed to far less in border wall funding. according to a congressional aide, the deal including near l $1.4 billion for physical barriers. but no wall. democrat also agreed to drop their proposal to limit the number of detained immigrants caught in the united states. >> i will never sign a bill that forces the mass release of violent criminals into our country. >> reporter: the proposal had stalled talks in the days before this friday's deadline. negotiators seemed optimistic it's a deal the president will sign. >> has the white house supported it? >> we hope so. >> reporter: mr. trump also noted the previous shutdown, the longest in u.s. history, was worth it. >> that was a very important thing. >> reporter: mr. trump rally

supporters. less than a quarter mile away, beto o'rourke, potential democratic 2020 contender, held a simultaneous counterrally. >> walls do not save lives. >> reporter: o'rourke disputed the barrier made a difference in crime in el palaceo. zbllt u.s. cities of the u.s. mexico border are far safer than the u.s. cities deeper in the interior of the united states of america. >> reporter: lawmakers have a schedule before him to resolve all this, put this deal in legislative language by wednesday, have it passed by the house and senate thursday and friday. all that's required is for the signal from the president that he will sign it. >> a lot of people hope he does. nobody wants another shutdown. thank you very much, major. the president held that rally last night in el palaso because the one of the largest u.s. cities on the border with mexico. official also saying the president is spreading false information about crime and other problems there.

mireya villarael is taking a closer look at the reality along the border. >> reporter: good morning. president trump says walls like this one here in el palaso will save livescities. he doubled down on the claim where he said el paso was a dangerous city before the border wall. fbi statistics from 11985 to 204 show the crime rate was lower than for cities of comparable size. president trump claimed crime rates in el paso dropped once the fence was built. two yearsfter construction began on the fence, the number of violence crimes in el paso increased by 17%. el paso's mayor said this wall helped deter crime but he credit

also local law enforcement, the feds and i.c.e. with helping keep the community safe. in direct response to that, the president said last night, i don't care if the mayor is republican or democrat, they're full of crap if they say the wall doesn't make a difference. >> thank you. the mayor alone isn't the only are many who believe also that. remember the republican who was here, he said a wall would not help the situation either. laying out a lot of facts once again. more than 100 million americanings a americansters are path of powerful winter storms. causing problems for drivers in tacoma, washington. the seattle area hit by three snowstorm also this mo more on e way. lo chiefther caster for our new york station wcbs tv is here. >> let's look at what's going on. couple different systems. atmospheric river just flowing moisture to the pacific northwest. let me show you the numbers for

seattle. what a winter they've been having. so far this february, they've picked up 20.2 inches. last winter from october all the way to this point in time, picked up three. this is the fourth snowiest month ever in seatac history. the snowiest february ever in seatac history. tomorrow morning, big rains. anywhere from portland all the way down to los angeles. then as you go to wednesday morning into thursday morning, watching some bouts of heavy rain continuing around san francisco. watch the snow balloon up into sierras. the numbers in terms of snowfall for the sierras. outrageous. squaw valley so far this season, skiers are loving it. they've picked up 393 inches. that's almost 33 feet of snow. the other story we had all right from the pacific northwest, we go to the midwest to the northeast. a lot of rain, sleet, rain,

snow, the whole combination. detroit, new york, philadelphia, boston, minneapolis, chicago, washington. all experiencing flight delays. take that into consideration and check in with your carrier. bianna. >> i like the technical term, outrageous. lonnie, thank you. the coast to coast storm is responsible for at least one death. don dahler is in philadelphia where a winter weather advisory is now in effect. >> reporter: good morning. that winter weather advisory extends until 6:00 p.m. as for the millions of people who have taken to the roads, their commute is a nightmare. under treachery conditions. as the storm sweeps from the midwest on into the northeast. the. >> it's a mess. complete mess. >> reporter: heavy snow and ice created havoc on the roads. >> slipping and sliding. >> reporter: overturned cars littered interstates across the midwest. >> doesn't matter what you're driving. you can end up in the dictch.

>> reporter: a car slamming into a police vehicle in waterloo, iowa. a private jet with three people on board slid off a runway after attempting to land. no one was hurt. up north in philadelphia, a bus crashed into the side of a building overnight after hitting a patch of ice. one person on board was injured. >> i can't take any more snow. >> it's wet, slomy, heavy. >> reporter: new jersey governor murphy declared a state of emergency. 1400 salt and plow trucks are on the roads across new york and new york. >> it's going to be a mess pretty much everywhere. >> reporter: hundreds of flights in the area have been canceled. schools closeled throughout the northeast. the storm is slowly moving its way up into new england. boston is expecting snow later today. >> all right, don, thank you. a newly elected member of congress is apologizing for it' really after a blast from her own party leadership. minnesota democrat ilhan omar

appeared to criticize her colleagues. she said anti-semitism is real and i'm grateful for colleagues educating me. nancy cordes is on capitol hill with more on the story. nancy, good morning. >> reporter: good morning. in that apology, omar said her intention was never to offend her constituents or jewish americans. the apology after a pair of tweets over the weekend suggesting that apacs, a srael r colleaguings. a couple of weeks ago, she said she was sorry from this tweet from 2012 in which she said h hypnotized the world. she's one of the first muslim women in congress. one of a couple of members of congress who support a movement which calls for a boycott of

israel until property can be returned to palestinianings. yesterday, her house democratic colleagues circulated the letter calling on leadership to take action on what they called hateful speech. house speaker pelosi issued her own blistering statement calling omar's tweets anti-semitic and deeply offensive. republican leaders in the house, however, want pelosi to go further and strip omar of her seat on the house foreign affairs committee. president trump, who has gotten into plenty of hot water for his own language, said she should be ashamed and that her apology did not go far enough. >> all right, nancy, thank you. the first woman to accuse virginia's lieutenant governor of misconduct is expected to speak in public tonight for the first time since he story came out. vanessa tyson says democrat justin fair fox forced her to perform a sex act in 2004. he says it was consensual. ed o'keefe is outside virginia's

capitol building in richmond. we've been keeping you busy with headlines coming out. >> reporter: you sure have. the accuser, dr. vanessa tyson, scheduled to appear at an event later today, long scheduled, about the me too movement. one of two women who have accused lieutenant governor fairfax of sexual assault, allegations he strongly denies. the two accusers both say any delay to potential impeachment proceedings only allows them to be further victimized. fairfax avoided impeachment proceedings at least for now. patrick hope said yesterday there are additional conversations that need to take place before anything is filed. even if he plans to stay in office, four of fairfax's aides have quit. a sign his inner circle is shrinking. he remains in the line of succession if for some reason the governor northam decides to

step down amid calls to do so after the revelation of that racist photo in his medical school are standing by the governor, saying they have, quote, chosen to foregive. john. thanks. a massachusetts woman who used text messages to urge her boyfriend to kill himself is beginning ago 15 month prison sentence. 22-year-old michelle carter was taken into custody yield. a judge denied a motion by her attorneys to keep her out of jail while they appeal her case to the u.s. supreme court. she was convicted of involuntary manslaughter nearly two years ago in the death of 18-year-old conrad roy. that was in 2014. one argument by carter's attorneys is her text messages were forms of free speech. expected to return to the bargaining table later today among their first strike in 25 years. colorado is the seven state where teachers walked off the job the last year.

about 71,000 students and their families are just in limbo. janet shamlian is in denver. >> reporter: nationwide almost all these strikes have been for higher samurai salaries but her teachers want funds that have been set aside to be shared among all the teachers here in this district. thousands of denver teachers made their voices heard at the state capitol. the educators walked out of more than 160 denver schools. a last resort after 15 months of negotiations. >> i've gone into massive debt just trying to pay basic billings. >> reporter: the dispute is largely over the district's incentive-based pay system which gives yearly bonuses as high as $3,000 a year to some teachers like those working with students from low-income families or in special education.

the union wants to lower or eliminate some of those bonuses. freeing up money for overall teacher pay. >> i have a masters degree. i have 11 years of experience. i didn't expect to still be in this place in life. >> reporter: denver public schools says it's already made a substantial offer to teacherings. a pay raise of almost 11%. >> the goal of negotiationings is to get closer to the middle. this is way past the middle in terms of what we offered. >> reporter: the district is trying to keep schools open. staffed by administrators and substitutes, at least for now. cameras were allowed inside one class were it appeared to be a normal day. students posting on social media saw something very different. this scene inside denver's east st sported thecherfor all itse,d andd pket lin with them. >> all these teas have hi jobs.

>> reporter: the state says the strike is costing $400,000 a day. there's no indication how long it will last here. the last strike in the city of los angeles went a week. >> janet, thank you. we all remember that strike in los angeles. i saw an interview with a teacher in denver who said she has to sleep in her car because she has to rent out her house. she can't afford bills. >> teachers should be well paid. many americans are finding the money they're get back from the irs is down this year. ahead, why the recent tax cuts may be the blame for the smaller refunds. but first, it is 7:19. time to check your local weather. good tuesday morning. we are mainly dry ahead of this storm system brinesvi in this evening, picking up overnight into tomorrow morning. we have rain, wind and flooding

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this is a kpix 5 news morning update . good morning. it is 7:26 am. i am kenny choi. crews are investigating a warehouse fire in antioch this morning on walnut avenue. it took over 30 minutes for firefighters to knock out the flames and one person suffered minor burns. the san mateo county supervisor will introduce a

bill to require you to store guns in a locked container or trigger lock. currently county lot only requires that if a child is currently living in the house. >> the dmv agency has run into unforeseen complications slowing down licensing renewals with 150,000 people. the dmv says that new cards should reach the customers in two for three weeks. we have news updates throughout the day on your favorite platforms including our website at kpix.com.

it is 7:27 am. checking the roadways on southbound 680, all lanes are now open and everything is cleared over to the right shoulder but still slow on the southbound side. give yourself extra time commuting out of waln into danville. on 24 westbound traffic is loading up with stop and go conditions into iran up.

also at the caldecott tunnel. at maccarthur maze you could see a distraction with the fi r with smoke across the roadways. the metering lights are on at the bay bridge. we are dry for now but that will be changing with this strong storm system pushing in across the bay area bringing rain, wind and potential for flooding. mainly dry and cloudy today with 50s as we look to the evening, light rain will begin to move in overnight into tomorrow morning with heavy rain and strong wind. this is a powerful storm system. we have a high wind warning and wind advisory with flat blush -- flash flood watches for the bay area tonight, wednesday into thursday morning. hance to choose your ride on the grand prize drawing night, february 23rd. you could have your choice of a brand new jeep renegade or chevy malibu only at twin pine casino & hotel.

welcome back to "cbs this morning." here are three things you should know this morning. senators ed markey and richard blumenthal are sending a letter to the faa today following a cbs news investigation into airline maintenance. the two democrats are asking about the agency's efforts to address reports that airlines are pressuring their mechanics to ignore safety issues and short-cut the critical work that they perform. the senators cited an eight-month cbs news investigation that leaves questions about faa oversight of aircraft maintenance. cbs spoke with 26 mechanics at southwest and american airlines who say they're very concerned for pressure to cut corners to put the planes in service faster. both american and southwest told cbs news safety is their top priority and they do not

tolerate hostile work environments. a new study in jamma pediatrics shows that half of children with health disorders are not receiving care. the lack of care is highest in the south. 7.7 million children have one mental hilt disorder like depression or anxiety. researchers say concerned parents should ask their child's pediatrician about available resources. and apple is teaming up with the department of veterans affairs to bring health records directly to veterans' iphones. questions including allergies, conditions and lab results will soon be available within the health app. the data is encrypted and protected using a pass code touch i.d. or face i.d. more than 9 million veterans in the u.s. receive care through it. a group of women are asking fraternities to accept women.

three yale student are suing. they about used them of dangerous environments in which sexual misconduct thrived. meg oliver asked them why they want to join the fraternities. she's near yale university in new haven, connecticut. >> reporter: good morning, the three women we spoke to hope to make change. they said it is around campus and one that needs to be wiped clean of gender discrimination. raise your hand if you've ever been sexually assaulted at a fraternity party? all of you. anna mcneil,lily singer and ry walker said they've had enough of men at fraternity parties. >> someone came up behind me and grinding on me and actually pulled up my skirt. >> i was groped from behind. a lot of people were grinding from behind. i couldn't see them.

>> reporter: in a lawsuit they allege female undergrats risk sexual harassment and assault by attending fraternity events. they say male attendees verbally harass them, grind up against them, grab them and grope them. why do you want to be part of a culture like that? >> a fraternity wasn't our only choice but it was the only choice for the first couple of months at school. >> those are the places open at night. those are places hosting parties. >> fraternities offer a vast network of privileges to their members. they offer connections. they offer help networking. >> some people might argue sororities do the same thing. >> sororities don't tend to have the same connections as fraternities. fraternities have people of higher position in power, and especially on campus they occupy a much higher social space.

rir their lawsuit argues separate but equal greek life reinforces gender norm, stereotypes and prejudiceses. they're seeking class action status. and to award policy changes including fully integrating women at yale's fraternities. >> the case is enormously complicated. >> reporter: cbs news legal analyst rikki klieman says he's confused by what she sees as the lawsuit's contradictory goals. >> if i'm someone who goes into a party at the only place available for me to socialize which is a fraternity and i'm being groped and in an environment that i think is unsafe, why do i want to join the fraternity? why don't i want the fraternity banned? >> i think it's involsolvent wh we say it's in and worked

similarly in other contexts in the past. >> reporter: the women are part of a group which has repeatedly filed complaints asking yale to regulate fraternities. david tracy is their lawyer. >> yale's response has been deliberately indifferent. yale has known about the problem of fraternity-related discrimination and sexual misconduct for at least a decade. >> reporter: pledges of one fraternity allegedly posed for a photo outside of the yale center with a sign reading we love yale sluts. and another granting no means yes. a third fraternity faced allegations of turning away women of color because they want the white girls only. what's the optimal outcome of this lawsuit? >> to put it simply, we want a paradigm shift. right now, students are forced to make a choice between not having a social life and not feeling safe at parties or feeling safe and not going out at all. we want yale to make that change

where people are no longer forced to make that choice. >> reporter: in a statement, yale told us they have no comment on this lawsuit. but that all students are subject to discipline for sexual misconduct. now, the lawyer representing all of the fraternities told us the claims in this lawsuit are baseless and unfounded. and they look forward to vigorously defending this action in court. the case focuses on fraternities here at yale. but no doubt, other schools will be watching, gayle. >> i'll say it started an interesting conversation. thank you, meg. a high school student who defied his parents by getting vaccinated is speaking out. plus, our dr. tara narula is here. i just saw her in the green room, on where to get the best information about the safety vaccine. and if you're on the go, scribe to our "cbs this morning" podcast. why? okay, you get today's top stories, what's happening in the world in less than -- how many

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a mother and her teenage son are at odds over the safety of childhood vaccines high school senior ethan lindinberger said his parents' misguided beliefs about health and health of his siblings but them at risk. he recently got vaccinated. dr. tara narula shows what happened. >> reporter: good morning, ethan lindingberger said he turned e reddit, an online board. he came to the conclusion he had to business obey his mother and get immunized. >> i question her judgment but not her care. >> reporter: for most of his life, ethan lyndonberger thought it was normal for most cc

about two years ago, he began to see the posts his mother was sharing on social media were dangerous. >> we have to come up with a vaccine that i and many people believe is coming back because of opinions like the one that have influenced my mom. >> reporter: in november, lindinberger asked stranger on reddit where he can get up to date with shots. my parents are wife student, he said, god knows how i'm still alive. >> i was what, i was blown away. >> reporter: jill wheeler is his mother. >> there's a feeling he doesn't trust what i say as a parent. >> the intention wasn't to blame my parents or anything or make them look dumb. that came from frustration and trying to deal with this issue and find common ground. >> reporter: lindinberger showed his parents scientific studies that showed vaccines were safe and effective, but his mother

remained unconvinced. >> i think it was straight-up fear of him getting immunizations and having a reaction. >> reporter: lindinberger is 18, and in ohio, he's old enough to get shots without his parents' permission. in december, he got vaccinated for influenza, hepatitis, tetanus and hpv. his 16-year-old brother who considering getting shots will have to wait. only seven states and washington, d.c. allow minors to get vaccinations without parental consent. >> very proud of him for standing for what he believes in, even if it is against what i believe. he's a good boy. he's a good kid. >> ethan is getting his next round of vaccinations later this month. anti-vaccines conspiracy theories often use pseudo scientific language which makes

thot potent and enduring as we've seen with the measles outbreak there's a very real risk when parents buy into those half truths. >> and the mom so they can talk together. >> tara, where would you go, other than reddit, where should a parent look to get accurate information? >> american academy of pediatrics, the cdc, sites that have debunking of common myths. but just sit with your health care provider, the pediatrician, and have an open frank discussion. it's been shown in studies that a lot of these parents with the right information can make choices better for their families. >> mom was not judgmental. not too many parents who can say on national tv especially when he's slammed her that way, he's a good kid and i appreciate him speaking up. >> we talk about the dangers of

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this is a kpix 5 news morning update . it is 7:56 am. i am kenny choi. this morning governor gavin newsom will deliver the first state of the state address, taking on universal preschool and universal healthcare. the speech will start at 11 am in sacramento. the dixie school board trustees will vote on whether the change the district name or keep it the same. some marin county parents say that the dixie school district has racist connotations rooted in the confederacy. and contra costa they are talking about commercial cannabis permits and whether to approve the process for set number in the unincorporated parts of the county. the meeting begins at 9:30 am this morning. we have news updates throughout the day on your favorite platforms including our website at kpix.com.

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good morning. i feel like a broken record but more troublesome 680 with the new crash southbound approaching highway 24 at the connector. the crash is blocking at least one lane of the connector road, slow-and-go out of walnut creek on 24, lafayette and orinda. we have a crash that the golden gate bridge on south 101 just before the tunnel but when you past that area, looking much better on the golden gate bridge itself. we are tracking this powerful storm system bringing rain, wind and flooding potential. highs in the 50s with light rain moving in this evening overnight with all of us seeing rain, wind which continues into tomorrow. tomorrow morning get ready for the heavy rain and strong wind. it will be a wet and windy day tomorrow, continuing into thursday morning.

♪ good morning to our viewers in the west. it's tuesday, february 12th, 2019. welcome back to "cbs this morning." jill schlesinger is in the toyota green room to help you sort out any confusion over your tax refund, especially if you thought you were going to get one and didn't. >> only on "cbs this morning" the searches for a famous u.s. warship that sank during world war ii. first, today's "eye opener" at 8:00. congressional budget negotiators say they have an agreement in principle to avoid another partial government shutdown. >> they were given a lot of latitude but the president wants to devote today to going over all the details. >> here you are thursday evening. the numbers in terms of snowfall for the sierras, i me, outrageous. >> in that apology, omar said her intention was never to offend her constituents or jewish americans as a whole. het

access to a pool of funds set aside as incentive bonuses for some teachers to be shared among all of the teachers. >> fox and friends made an unusual admission on air. >> i don't think i've washed my hands for ten years. >> someone help me. >> i would inoculate myself. germs are not a real thing. i can't see them. therefore, they're not real. >> ten years? got to be a little awkward for his co-workers at fox & friends today. people are like, morning, pete. no, wait, just remembered.>> th es he now jspurell over there. >> ten years is a long time not to wash your hands. just saying. i'm gayle king with bianna y

a pair of major winter storms. snow, sleet and freezing rain are expected from the midwest to the northeast today. and more snow, oh, boy, is on the way for the pacific northwest and northern california. >> ice and snow have created dangerous driving conditions across the midwest. seattle is in the middle of its snowiest february in more than 70 years. lonnie quinn, chief weathercaster for wcbs tv is here. good morning. what do you have? >> we've got activity on both sides of the country. you take a look at where you see the white on this map and that's where you have winter storms. let's talk about what's going on out west because the storms come onshore. it's rain along the coast. it's huge mountain snows. look at the numbers. here's the winter snow total they have right now in mammoth mountain. ready for this? 446 inches. that equals 37.1 feet. on top of that now, you'll throw another five feet of snow with the event we have taking

today and over the next few days. if you look at that situation and compare it to what's going on on the east coast, we have the rain in the green. the sleet is the ice in the pink color and snow. airport delays from detroit to boston to new york right now. as the storm rolls through the area, it's going to transition in a big city like new york from snow to begin to sleet and ice and then to rain to finish up. up to two feet snoof snow out o this system. on the west coast, east coast and even in between in chicago. detroit get something bad ice as we speak. >> thanks, lonnie, for breaking it all down for us. >> that's everything. >> it is. the whole mix there. in washington, congressional negotiators say they have a deal in principle on border security spending that will prevent another government shutdown. a congressional aide says nearly $1.4 billion for physical barriers along theorder.

that covers 55 miles of fencing but not a ncrete wall. president trump wants $5.7 billion for a border wall. it would also cut the number of immigration detention beds to 0 40,520. the president is not saying if he'll agree to this plan. sources tell cbs news the white house will assess it further when all the details come out. republican congressman mark meadows and jim in order jordan the bill. meadows says it's hardly a serious attempt to secure our border. jordan called it a bad deal on immigration. millions of americans could receive smaller checks after filing their 2018 tax returns. the average refund is down more than 8% compared to the same time last year according to the olear u confion we're joined by news business analyst jill schlessinger on your book tour helping us make sense of this. it's the first tax season since the president's tax cuts went into effect.

how is that impacting refunds. >> so far, and i want to say, so far, we're talking about one week of data. so let's be clear that a lot of people were surprised at this first week. now we are expecting around 80% of americans will see lower taxes in 2018 than they did in 2017. the problem is, that many of those people may have already gotten those refunds. how? through their withholding. and when employers adjusted withholding, people may have had more money come to their bottom line. part of that was potentially your tax savings. so if you get a smaller refund, you may have missed the fact that you got a lot of it already. >> the economic hope was that if it'sothith it insad of hing to wait for the refund. if you are confused about what's up with my withholding, what do you do? >> see how much was actually withheld from your check and you get that from your tax documents. when you file, you are going to have a better picture as to what

you need to do going forward. this is incredibly important. if you find that you owe money, you are going to have to adjust your withholding. tell your employer, hold back more money. send it to the government so i don't have to write a check. on the other hand, if you are getting a really fat refund, you may want to adjust the withholding the other way because a refund, i know people think it's forced savings, but just extended an interest free loan to uncle sam for the year and i have a feeling you can use that money better than your uncle can. >> i guy was very irate because last year he got $10,000 back. this year he has to pay $10,000. is that all a matter of withholding? >> i think that's an extreme case. and i don't think we'll see as many stories. you'll hear about them. those are people who come from high tax states. if they were high tax -- if you are in a high tax state like new york, new jersey, connecticut, california, your deductions for your state and local taxes were limited to $10,000. those are the people who are at risk. about 5% of taxpayers will

likely pay more this year than the previous year and most of those folks, i believe, are going to come from those high tax states with limitations on their deductions. >> doesn't feel like it's an extreme case when it's you. >> of course not. >> what should you do if you haven't filed yet. what should you do? to get money back. >> i don't know if -- >> or break even. >> how about we just get you to file, which is good. the irs says please use software. they have free software. irs free file. if you make less than $66,000, this is the vast majority of americans, almost 70% can qualify for this. try that. if you need help, two programs that are available. vita, a volunteer income tax assistance program. go to irs.gov. there's a ton of information there. file electronically. paper is so 1985. >> and a ton of information from you as always. thank you, jill. ahead -- the new government crackdown on dietary supplements

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♪ ♪ only on "cbs this morning," we traveled with researchers on an extraordinary mission to find a piece of american military history lost deep in the south pacific. yesterday we showed you how the team went looking for the wreck of the "uss hornet." the japanese sank the aircraft carrier in october of 194.

as mark phillips reported from somewhere east of the solomon islands, researchers discovered a big, potential, clue. today he reveals what they found. >> reporter: good morning from the good ship petrol, a boat filled with high technology and cautious hope. they have found something down there. the question is, is it what they're looking for? the research vessel "petrol" is perched on a spot in the south pacific ocean that was anything but peaceful 77 years ago. then it was the scene of a major battle between the u.s. and the imperial japanese navies. >> the battle raged without letup throughout the morning. >> reporter: for the u.s. air craft carrier "hornet," it would be her last battle. >> enemy planes scored several hits on the "hornet." >> reporter: richard, 95 now, was an 18-year-old gunner on the

"hornet." >> they used armor-piercing bombs. now when they come down, you hear them going through the decks, plink, plink, plink, and then when they explode -- >> reporter: with 140 of her crew already dead, the order was given to abandon ship. the "hornet" went to the bottom. >> those look like rocks. >> reporter: a bottom 3 1/2 miles down which the crew of the "petrol" has been scanning with the deep sea sonar drone. >> top left. what does that look like? >> reporter: the drone has brought back an image of something down there that's about the right size and about the right place. >> you going to play hard to get or say that's it? >> you know, i'm tired of eating straw hats. >> reporter: still, it's a tempting target for mission chief robaf's g hav a rov. >> all right. >> reporter: rov, remotely operated vehicle. >> latch is open. >> reporter: a deep sea sub lowered on a cable.

>> you're in. you're under. >> reporter: it's full of cameras that send back live pictures. >> can you give me 50 meters -- >> reporter: and in the couple of hours it takes to go down more than 17,000 feet, there can be plenty to see. >> i've got a big shark in front of me. >> reporter: sharks are easy. but what's that? >> i have no idea what that is. >> reporter: and way down where the sun never reaches, what's that? but more to the point -- >> really strange signature. >> reporter: what's that? >> look at that. >> oh, yeah. oh, wow. oh, yeah, that's her. >> reporter: it could be her. lots of ships went down around here. >> come on. >> it's a ship. >> it is a ship right now. it is a ship. and it's big. >> and if you see a deck, you know it's a carrier. and if it's a carrier, it can only be the or eporter: butt you n

is positive hornet's naval desi was cv-8. >> oh, there's the 8. there it is. there it is. >> we got it. >> and there it was. >> this is it. this is "hornet." >> this is "hornet." >> well done. >> got it in one. >> a oner. >> fabulous. >> reporter: we set up a video link from the "petrol" to richard nowatski in california. >> i can tell you now that the "petrol," the ship we're on which has been looking for the "hornet" has in fact, found it. >> wow. >> reporter: we could even show him the gun he was on during the attack. >> this is right at the stern of the "hornet" where you were stationed, correct? >> correct. if that's the farthest one aft, that was my gun. >> does it seem like the familiar place? >> yes, i used to stand on the right side of that gun, and

that's where my equipment was. wow. >> 77 years later, there it is. >> if you go down to my locker, there's 40 bucks in it. you can have it. >> reporter: richard has enjoyed a long life since that day. seeing the "hornet" again and the evidence of the men who served, a jacket hung on a hatch, somebody's wash kit complete with toothbrush. naturally made him reflect on those who hadn't been as lucky. >> yeah, that's true. there were a lot of them. very fortunate man. the actual fact that you can find these ships is mind boggling to me. i want to thank you for honoring me this way. >> reporter: but it's the crew of the "petrol" and us who are honored to find the "hornet" and the final resting place of so many of her brave crew.

so another wreck, another war grave is discovered. its exact location kept secret to protect it, but the memory now has a place and the loss a memorial. >> fascinating to see that footage, right? all the work that goes into it. well, dozens of polar bears are invading one arctic village. what's causing them to roam the streets and dig through dumpsters in large numbers. you're watching "cbs this morning." with up to 30 grams of protein and 26 vitamins and minerals! ensure. for strength and energy. well, what if i... drove me home? [♪] what if we lost track of time? [♪]

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♪ the polar bears have taken over an entire village in the russian arctics. video captured them trying to climb inside dumpsters and digging through trash in search of food.

one polar bear wandering right inside an apartment building. local leaders counted about 50 ars over the weekend and declared a state of emergency. the thinning ice is forcing hungry bears to look for food for themselves closer to people. officials say the bears are no longer frightened by police sirens which previously scared them off. >> all they want is food. >> when you want food, you don't care about that, all you want to do is eat. >> climate change hits in a lot of ways that's one of them. microsoft co-founder bill gates knows a thing or two about climate change. who one of the world's richest men said he will never run for president, really? really bill gates? bill, we just said you will never run for president. he and his wife

this is a kpix 5 news morning update . good morning. it is 8:25 am. i am kenny choi. the stanford graduate engineering student was found dead at this point we do not know how he died or who he was. the autopsy is being performed, and the school says there's no ongoing safety threat on campus. there was a warehouse fire in antioch at 12:30 am on walnut avenue. it took over 30 minutes to knock out the flames and one person suffered minor burns. the san mateo county supervisor david canepa will introduce a bill to require you to store guns and a lot container or trigger lock. right now county lot only requires you to do so if there is a child living in the house. we have news updates throughout the day on your favorite platforms including

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it is a 20 7 am. we have a traffic alert on the east shore freeway westbound 80 at redwood with the trouble spot. there are a couple of lanes blocked and chp is on the scene, with two lanes completely shut down. give yourself extra minutes tos golden gate bridge a crash clearing over to the right shoulder, busy out of sausalito with traffic busy at the golden

gate bridge but bearable into san francisco. looking at the south bay, north 101 a struggle out of san jose with the crash on a daily southbound. looking at dry conditions with cloudy skies for today, and tracking a powerful storm system bringing the tropical moisture and atmospheric river event bringing rain, wind and potential for flooding. highs in the 50s with light rain beginning this evening. overnight we will have rain and wind for all of us continuing into tomorrow morning. we have heavy rain and strong wind for the morning commute tomorrow. wet and warm wednesday continuing into thursday morning with a high wind warning, wind advisory a flash flood watch beginning tonight, wednesday into thursday morning.

♪ welcome back to "cbs this morning." right now, it's time to show you some of this morning's headlines. "the washington post" reports retired astronaut mark kelly is running for the u.s. senate in 2020. >> i care about people. i care about the state of arizona. i care about this nation. because of that, i decided that i'm launching a campaign for the united states senate. >> kelly is the husband of former arizona congresswoman gabrielle giffords. he plans to run for democrat for john mccain's seat. kelly announced this morning on twitter. he's been a strong support o gun control since his wife was nearly killed in 2011. "the wall street journal" is

reporting the drug administration is challenging claims. the agency accused 17 companies of selling products with improper claims that they can treat and cure serious diseases including alzheimer's. dietary supplements are not related like medicine. 2016 mailed to reach $133 million. the "usa today" reports on the tsa's whackiest list of items confiscated at tsa checkpoints. number three was a giant pair of scissors. and number two is a mortar round discovered in a checked bag at the evansville, indiana, regional airport. and number one on the list is something horror movie character freddie krueger might travel a razor glove found at and "newsweek" says police in maryland are looking for a

mother who approached students trying to find a date for her son. authorities released security photos of the matchmaking mom. students complained that the mom showed images of him on his phone and asked if they'd go out with him. officials say she's not doing anything illegal but they want her to stop. >> and her son is going, thanks, mom. since the gates foundation was formed back in 2000 by microsoft co-founder bill gates and his wife melinda, it's had $45 billion in grants. first on "cbs this morning," they're revealing their 11th annual letter, highlighting they call it nine things they didn't see coming. bill and melindac

co-chairs and trustees of the foundation. thanking for being with us. >> thanks for having us. >> when they say bill and melinda gates, they say the world's richest people. i wonder if that moniker ever gets old. when did you decide, listen, we have this money and we want to do something with it, melinda? >> we were engaged to be married after we had taken our vacation and the research, we committed that we would give it back to society. it was the right thing to do. >> bill, you felt that, too? >> yeah, we were exploring that and we'd got more and more engaged with it and now it's our full-time work. so, we have naive about how to do it and how to have a big impact. but we knew it was amazing we have this fortune. gigantic, we didn't think it would be great to live lots to our children. so, it became something that we get to do together. we're partners in crime.

>> and you're working very hard. i want people to know you're not sitting home. both of you are doing a lot of traveling. you just came back from ethiopia, bill. i thought the letter was so fascinating. the thing that stuck out to me was about data. the importance of data. i never thought about that. explain why that's so important. >> we were surprised in this work, having both come from a tech background. there's so much in data. if we're going to put $100,000 in a project we have to know if the first one work. >> and data became very important. that was the thing we learned. that data, while we think it's subjective, it's actually sexist. we don't actually collect that much data about women around the world so we don't know how to make grade investments with women. we highlighted that and worked with our partners to create great data. >> africa has come up twice in this conversation. you just came back from africa. you talk about it being the

youngest continent. and the growth potential. the median age is 18, and north america, it is 35. why is it their potential that maybe most of the world is not seeing and investing in africa? why is that see important right now? >> today, africa is only about 14% for the world population. but that's where there's large population growth. so almost half the kids in the world will be grown in a century. so it's a very young continent. the question whether those kids grow up with a decent house and education, will determine if there's innovation and stable and participating in the economy. or a source of great instability and pandemic. so, investments we make now to partner with africa to help them out, i think, can make a big difference. >> linda make piggyback on that. one of the things you're doing in your letter, that globalism

can be a national idea. explain that for me. >> sure. we know when you invest in people's health and they start out healthy and they go on to get a great education where they live. they'll grow up and thrive and participate in their own economy. so there's huge potential there. but conversely, if they don't, they don't thrive. they get more instability. less security. disease, we saw it across the borders. we saw it with ebola. weed me to make investments where people can thrive where they are. >> and bill, let me ask you, you learn ee eed something about any going to prison. >> first tell us why bill and melinda gates are going to prison. >> well, the u.s. has more people in prison than any other country. understanding the stories of those people and thinking about that in our poverty work, we decided to tour the prisons. that was so touching.

and later i got a chance in chicago to meet with some young black men who are in a counseling thing called becoming a man. they were super nice to me. included me in the session. it was a discussion about anger. when is the last time you got anger. how do you channel that anger? are there times you don't do that well? i thought it was brilliant and i was amazed how much that counseling session was going to help put those boys on the right track. >> what was your answer, both of you, to when was the last time you became angry? >> well, i was talking about how there's more polio cases than we hoped for this year. i'm mad. >> that wasn't on the top of their lists. >> yeah, none of them. >> the thing for me, i was in africa, i saw a baby die needlessly on a warmer because the mother hadn't made it to the health clinic in time to give

birth. the village didn't think she needed to go new mexiuntil too . that made me angry. >> you talk about the history behind premature birth particularly african-american women in this country. african-american women are three times more likely to deliver their baby preterm. one could be racism? >> we don't know that but that's on the rise. as is mortality particularly for african-american women. we need to look at all of the factors. it the health system? it the way they're received there? is it the stress in the community? it jeannetgenetic, we talk abou seleni selenium. >> and there are things you need

to address in the world, that you saw outside of the united states, you that think, hmm, if we did that in the united states, we might make some progress. >> well, the u.s. has by far the world's most expensive health care system. and there are ways that we can get better outcomes and be more efficient. where we're working in africa, the total resources are like 1% per person of what they are here in the u.s. and by focusing on vaccination, using primary health care workers that don't have to be doctors. it's amazing what can be done. so, that idea of task-shifting, focusing on preventive disease, that could work even in the u.s. >> and the thing that struck me, guys, was in the letter you mentioned toilets. you said not sexy, but toilets can save lives. i'm going to leave that as a tease that people have to go get the letter. as you point out, bill, they haven't changed in a century and

we all need one. thank you, bill and melinda gates. ahead, why more girls feel stress in anxiety than boys. lisa

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we all know why we're here. >> i know! i know i missed one. i'm not an idiot, there, happy? >> well, you're being a little -- >> college can be overwhelming as alex from "modern family" learned while studying for the s.a.t.s. for many students that's only part of the problem. in 2017, a study in bmc industry found 31% of girls and young women have symptoms of anxiety compared to 13% of boys and young mon. lisa damour addresses in her new book called "under pressure." confronting the episodes of stress and anxiety.

good morning. >> good morning. >> why it an epidemic? what's caused to make it a big problem? >> well, girls have always been more anxious than boys but we're watching the numbers rise faster in girls than in boys. and there are unique pressures that girls face. they worry more about school. they worry about disappointing adults. they are achieving unbelievable things these days, and yet, they know they are still judged heavily on how they look. >> so, i'm just going to do all of the things i do wrong. so, worrying about disappointing adults. the solution to that is saying, don't worry, we're not disappointed or they don't hear that? >> they don't hear that. they read our faces. we have to be mindful of the messages we send whether we mean to or not. but i think the way we should look at it is those messages were powerful. we can make anxiety and stress much worse for our daughters or

much better. when they are stressed and anxious. sometimes, we get stressed and anxious. what i want parents to remember what they did instinctively what their toddler girl skinned their knee. when a toddler falls down, they look at their knee and then your face. even if they're panicking okay, they're okay. if you're panicking, they're panicking. we stay calm and we say it's okay. we'll figure this out. >> girls are anxious about how they look. i wonder if that starts at a young age when parents say you're so beautiful, look how cute you are. you look adorable. is there too much focus unintentionally on how a girl looks from an early age? >> well, the culture is all about girls' looks even if parents are careful at home, they're up against a consult tour that sends a very powerful

message. of course, your daughter is like, oh, you're so cute and charming. >> even if you're not cute and charming. i look at old pictures of me and i remember, no, i wasn't. >> i'm not saying you can't say that. but what we have to remember is we are focusing on the most superficial aspect of that girl and the one over which she has the least control. when we are talking about girls' looks we're not talking about how creative and clever and interesting they are. and like a zero sum game, we can talk about one, we can talk about the other or a lot. >> communication is so important. i've heard about this in families where your daughter is not necessarily listening to anything you have to say. >> you've heard that. >> yeah. >> well, i think they hear more than we think they do. and what i find is that reassurance tends to work not as well as we think will.

what does work is validation. when girls are having a hard time, my favorite two words are stink and handle. we say that stinks. it does, it stinks. and then say, i think it's in the category of what you can handle and i'm here to help you handle it. >> rather than say it's okay. >> right. >> you also talked about girls' friendships. >> we think it's great to have a whole bunch of friends but when you look at it, numbers bring drama. there's no way to get five human beings of any age who like each other equally. >> you said keep to two one or good friends. >> the least stress for kids that have one or few friends. it doesn't mean you have to fire

anybody from the group. it doesn't mean that anyone is being unusually caddy or difficult. >> and girls need a verbal toolkit. i thought this was fascinating. >> we think a lot about how we instruct girls to speak. be bold, forth right. that's what we need to advise but that's not going to work in every situation. communication is so complex and context driven. i like to think about equipping girls with a verbal toolkit. every girl needs a hammer in certain situations but they should also have tweezers. >> give me one sentence in a verbal toolkit. less than ten seconds. as opposed i'mgverr? i came over eyeedboth.

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