from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. hello, everybody. it is booze day tuesday, october 11th. also around here as spanky tuesday. >> oh, no. >> it is this girl, cooking on three burners. >> speaking of cooking on three burners -- >> we got four burners going. >> we got the one, the only, gip f guy cooking for us. >> what are you cooking?

take it, stuff into squash. good things coming out of this book. >> omg, guy. you're looking good. >> then dating changed over the years so have the rules. find out what men really think about that when our "guys tell all" panel is here. >> you won't learn a darn thing but will laugh your buns off. and wait until you hear what we have to say when comedian jeff dye stops by. he's fun. >> and a debate. your kids for good grades? we're going to take a look at what experts have to say about that. >> yes. what do you think? >> well -- why don't we turn that into a wine bot? >> i don't see the wine bot over there. >> oh. we're doing it. >> downstairs, ready to go. >> here's our question. >> yes. >> ready? >> uh-huh. >> no. what -- we doing the haircut? what are we doing for the wine bot? i thought we changed it back. nobody know es what's happening here.

changing their child's haircut? okay? there's a story of a divorced couple, and the man -- the husband, the ex-husband, took the child, the 4-year-old child, and took him for a -- a haircut right before the school picture. okay? >> this was after, just so you know the story. the mom took the son to the dad's house and said, honey -- >> not honey. >> probably not that. tomorrow's school pictures. had kind of long make sure you comb it like this. here's the outfit, all ready for the school picture. so the dad decided the next day to cut the hair before the picture. the question is, should both parents sign off on a haircut? >> looking at the guys. guys, what's wrong with that? all the guys. a big deal. all the women are going, "what?" >> can we cut your hair, guy? >> can we cut my hair? is that going to happen on the -- that's a whole new cooking segment. you gis are drinking wine.

cutting my hair. >> with won't do the cutting. >> guy, what do you think? should both parents sign off -- >> mama's not happy, nobody's happy. divorced or not, didn't get my wife many approval -- >> and klg hoda, yes. because we all think that, yes, both parents should be consulted. >> say no if you think that, look, you know what? i hhave right to choose the ha >> not really. >> okay. >> okay. we have a kim kardashian/west update. you knows know the story about kim robbed in paris. new reports are out that a stolen pendant from her was found by a passerby near the scene of the robbery. so -- kim identified it as hers. they're supposed to do testing. >> triple check. >> for dna. yeah. you know what that -- if that's

prank, some thought it was a hoax i. believed it was real. sometimes people think it's a unique piece and won't be able to sell it, maybe just tossed it? usually people dismantle -- >> trying to hide a crime, too. i don't know. we weren't there. anyway, to be continued. >> yeah. the forensic investigators are looking into it. >> a lot of people are watching "dancing with the stars." >> uh-huh. >> we all love maureen mccormick, so last night. >> marcia brady. >> ye celebrating the most memorable year of your life. what year would you pick? >> the most memorable? i think my most memorable year is yet to come. i think -- >> won't it be -- ? fun ? >> i think it is yet to come. >> i likey that, hoda. >> i believe in that. when was or is your most -- >> past? i keep my memorable years, i think they're winding down.

ah. i think it -- i had two, obviously. 1990 and 1993 when my children were born. i don't really remember anything or care about much that happened before that. i really didn't, or don't. anyway, she celebrated, marcia did, 1985, the day she married her husband. >> revealed why she wanted to honor him last night and opened up about a lot of troubles we didn't know she had. >> no idea. >> after the "brady bunch." take a look. >> got crowd, music crowd, and it consumed her u. know, i was going to crazy parties, doing crazy things. drugs were everywhere. i lost all control. i did things that i'm -- not proud of it all. when my husband and i met, i had come out of a five-year heavy

my husband really, really help ed save me from rock bottom. >> wow. >> we loved her before. he love her all the more now. you don't know what people go through. >> you really don't. >> danced to a dan and shea song and got scored, a beautiful song, by the way. >> looks so pretty. doesn't she? >> called "from the ground up." on your knees and want to wake up, get up, that song is great. ? just take my hand ? >> happy for you. >> we are so quick to judge in this world we live in. especially social media. i think about the thing, the storms i went through years ago, and how devastating they were, when you're in the eye of the storm. you know? and to have everything compounded by social media that is just so ugly and so cruel.

>> with anonymity. think before you tweet. think before you put something on facebook. think about what it could be like if you were on the other end. >> on the receiving end. absolutely. >> what happened on "the voice." >> each coach brought a celebrity adviser to help and created crazy unexpected moments. team blake chose bette midler. >> love her! "hello dolly"! >> hello. a soul country singer ned sundance. >> love his name. >> how are you? >> meet the mittler. >> i recognized her and freaked me out. >> "beaches." >> you love that movie? >> i love that movie. >> you're the only man that has ever loved that movie. >> love it. >> who doesn't love her? >> love her. don't you love sundance? by the way, he won his battle round. >> good for him. come on, sundance.

terrific, but sang "cry me a river" with team adam -- yeah, but -- let's see what happened. ? so ? >> winner of this battle -- riley. >> rhyiley moving on representi adam in the knock outround. >> it's simply disappointed, to win or get stolen. >> >> incredible experience. miley is amazing. so glad he's going on. >> what a sweet girl. >> sweet girl. >> learned through the years these kinds of competitions what seems like over is not over. >> absolutely. >> you know? look at all the people that have gone on to do just -- phenomenal things than win a contest. >> absolutely. a question for you. >> and for us. we don't know who this is. >> who is this celebrity? walking around in amsterdam in

>> carrot top. can't see. >> justin bieber? >> bieber? >> okay. went out to get coffee. you know he wouldn't be able to if he went out just as the bieber. >> speaking of the bobibieber. >> speaking of the bieber, madame tussaud, all dewey, sweaty and his underwear is showing. [ er >> you know when those things are made of you, they made -- it's really you. they take a gazillion pictures of you. >> you have a madam. >> no, i don't. i've been in it. never had my -- no, no. they did regis. >> what? wait, wait. >> and that other girl. >> wait, wait, wait a second. they didn't do you in madame tussaud? >> no! why would they do you? >> i'm shocked and upset and appalled that kathie lee

why would they? >> hey, madame tussaud if you're listening -- no, no, but -- >> i know that because. >> wow. >> they take a gazillion pictures of xexact measurements i'm total lid shocked. >> if they were doing it, in my 20s. not interested anymore. >> donna's here with her friends. give a hi to donna yost and her posse. >> what party are they going to? >> thank you for coming to see us. >> a p function. free for five lucky viewers when hoda gives it away. >> got bless the king of king of california cool taking over new york city. >> and guy turns dishe ? ? ? and off you go, ? ?

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let it go. >> what are we making, guy? >> we're going to brine a turk. wrap it in bacon, roast it off in the oven. >> stop it. >> a brined bird here. >> how long do you brine it for? >> if you can brine this a full turkey up to a day. 24 hours. just the breast and the, with the bone-in, if you just do a few hours you're in good shape. >> what happens to if? >> yeah. >> brining, what happens? >> it's hard to overbrine it, but what would happen is it becomes mealy, a le okay? we've taken that. now we take the bacon and shingle the bacon over the top. >> look at you. >> leaving fresh herbs, bay leaf, thyme, shingle it over the top. brush with olive oil, salt and pep thyme. you get the whole gig. spent more time dancing and singing at the beginning of the saysment so we got to move things along. roast it off. the brined bird, a little seasoning, what happened it in

depending on the size of the bird getting it to 165. >> don't cover it? >> not covering it. let that roast. >> and don't stick it on the pan in the bottom? >> i like the rack to get the heat all the way around. say the bird is done. >> done! >> move this way were. you've enjoyed -- my thing, in my house, i'm on the road quite a bit and my wife doesn't like to cook a ton. she's a great cook but likes things done and the kids like what i make. say we've done the >> look how beautiful. >> fantastic. >> unless yew a vegan, that looks really good. >> this dish, i break into right now, if you were a vegan, don't have to use the turkey. peppers and onions sauteed. faroe one of my favorite. >> what is it? >> one of the greatest grains. say one of the oldest grains. this really fantastic, awesome texture to it. nice chewiness. a little bit like brown rice. >> brown rice. >> yeah. >> sprinkle that in.

these brussel sprouts are simple. >> everybody's raving about them already. >> live, people starting to take them out of the kitchen. >> i'm going to have one. >> drop in the brussel sprouts, bassamic vinegar, roast in the oven, pepper, onions. nice and hot. this mixture, simple, garlic, peppers, onions, salt sand pepper to this spipd after it's brought all together. roasted acorn squash. are you a squash fan? >> yeah. i like squash. >> not at much, but - >> soup. >> i like squash soup, tender, cut them open. drizzle a little olive oil, salt and pepper, roast in the oven's take this mixture. >> scoop it in! ants scoop it in, and all we're going to do, heat this back up. what we've done, what's in my by. guy fieri food, this family recipes, what we did, took dishes we make and how to take them to the next level the next day. >> wow. >> okay? >> okay. get in here. >> jump into this.

you're not eating this in the air. there you go. >> thank you so much. >> would you like me to run back to the desk and get the wine? >> yes, please! >> let's get in here. >> we need -- okay. got the squash. that's what this book is about. we do a great segment on pressure cookers, about how to -- everybody's coming home late from soccer, late from practice. >> hmm! >> got to make a dish in an hour. how to do it with a lot of flavor, what this book will tell you. >> also a little heat. i like that. >> hoda likes >> for these recipes go to our website, and we want to check in on the wine bot. the question was -- should parents agree on changing their child's haircut? so far, yes is way ahead. only -- no one's voting -- >> way ahead? >> nobody seems to care. [ laughter ] >> this was a sad one. >> some people actually have lives, hoda. >> okay. >> all right. keep that going through the entire show. okay? because it's so much fun. does it pay to pay your kids for

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>> what a joy. last, no the least, still engaged -- so sad -- but also fun bob guinea. we love him. >> kids, are we ready? >> yes. >> let's go across the street. >> hi. i'm angie from colorado and wondering what are you really thinking when we say, how do i look? >> ooh -- >> wow. >> take it. >> loaded words. >> here's what we do. we immediately think how we really think you look, and then for about a quarter second. the rest of that second is, how are we going to adjust this answer? so it's appropriate to speak out loud. more engaged than when a woman says, how do i look? immediately your brain goes, how we going to do this. you can do this, chuck. you can do this! you can make this happen. we can avoid global thermal nuclear war. >> beautiful. that's the easy answer. >> hopefully you feel the person you are with is beautiful. so you don't lie. >> talking about the outfit. >> how bad is it?

>> i've gotten in trouble, you know what else would be look would be that, and that never works. >> what i think -- >> if you're the woman, read the pause before the speaking's that's where you see the truth. they say, how do you look? on a first date the other day. the girl said end of the date. i dressed really casual for this date. hope that's okay. i went like this -- of course it's okay. that pause -- >> waiting. >> by the way, the answer is, always. you look great. >> look beautiful. >> you know what? to you, look beautiful. >> my mom my daddy used to say to her, you look good to me, baby. >> that's the best answer. >> yeah. >> the best answer. >> take yoranother one? only ten second. stick around, though. much more from the crowd right after this. >> hoda and i get to know each >> hoda and i get to know each other a whole lot better from ? go paperless, don't stress, girl ? ? i got the discounts that you need ? ? safe driver ?

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wow. >> it's booze day spanky tuesday, hope you're ready for round two of tell-all. >> and larry burchett. >> burchett. >> the french way. >> say it again. >> a >> burchett. >> and ben glee, still engaged bob begin. not for long. >> not long. >> 30 days. tick tock. >> we're happy for you. can't have you back anymore. >> nice knowing you all! >> let's go across the street. >> hi. i'm megan in rhode island. better for women to approach men or let them come to us? >> if we get the choice, come on up. >> i don't think women realize

approach a woman. you think we're very confident. we're not. we're very scared and walking by and like, oh, it's weird. i can talk to anybody, but -- a girl you like, all of a sudden, nervous little boy. >> but not interested? >> easy to talk to any girl i'm not interested in. >> chuck what do you think? >> no. make it easy. that's all. if you make yourself available, he will approach you. you know? because -- that's all there is to it. >> how do you make yourself approachable? >> make eye -- let me do it for you right here. [ laughter ] >> no. that doesn't work. [ laughter ] >> come on, ladies! get into that. that's the new universal, i want you. [ laughter ] >> the new universal, i'm a perv. stay away. >> doctor, good doctor -- >> i agree with everybody. it's nice when a girl approaches us. still -- i don't know. kind of feel like we should be the man. >> right. >> do the choosing?

subtle hints. >> the man has a cool backup plan. we're fine with that. >> get to this one. >> terry from ohio, i'm 50 years old and just started to date after being divorced 11 years. >> good for you. >> do guys expect a kiss on the first day if going well? >> you can tell out of the dating scene a long time. >> yes. >> i sometimes think the mantra to a lot of people is probably, no sugar on the first date, might not be a second date. not necessarily a bunch of great time, interested, and attracted. definitely doesn't have to go further. nothing wrong with a little show of affection. >> i'm old school. cat and mouse. end of the day, what you want to do is, i had a lovely time. he moves in, you go -- i just couldn't. and then -- >> full of bad advice today. [ laughter ] >> come on. >> you're killing me. >> a kiss is nice. you cannot expect it after date one. i did date a girl about a year ago.

>> why did she go out with you the second and third time? >> because i was paying for dinner. i'm not a free dinner machine. >> she was hungry! now we know. >> seriously, let me just button it up. all the expectations are on you. do not let a man put expectations on you. you set the expectations, because he is taking you out. he wants something from you. >> i don't think you should -- kiss on the first date. i think you're right. i don't think you should kis o it's cool to leave them wondering a little built. what do you think? you have to have a kiss? the woman's 50 years old. she can make her decisions. get that point. >> and some guys, encouraging her for getting out there. do what's comfortable. you want to kiss a guy, kiss him. but we want to kind of -- >> give her a little push. >> show us how old-fashioned. kiss on the first word on that show. kissing. >> yeah. lft l.

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>> the show is hosted by jeff dye, comedian, witnesses why honesty not not always be the best policy. we'll about to find out right here. >> the show? >> this wednesday. >> tomorrow, you mean? >> yeah. tomorrow. wednesday. i don't know what the time zones are. so maybe someone's watching. >> syndicated program. >> maybe wednesday's not tomorrow. >> it's always tomorrow. >> showbiz stuff. >> check out your tv awkward. >> and does it ever get hairy? you really are pitting families against each other, in a way? >> adult children. >> okay. >> but, yeah. you don't want to know what your parents have been up to sexually, but we find out. >> wow. >> this sounds like a nightmare. >> yi don't want to know what hoda's been up to sexually. >> i do. i want to know immediately. >> we're going to play a game. >> actually, i would like to know a little. >> rapid fire questions, 30 seconds about each other and

give you prizes, like, something cool that you like. >> rattle things af about kath, i tell you whether true or false? we're ready. who's first? >> all right. five statements. i'm going to ask you -- about hoda. >> okay. >> all right. 30 seconds -- true or false. hoda once stole a cowboy hat by shoving it under her shirt and running out of a are to. >> true. >> true or false, as a kid hoda earned a green belt in ka raki and gave it up because it was too much work. >> false. >> in college dates with three different guys on the same night. >> so true. >> true or false, hoda once flipped off someone driving and turned out to be her boss' best friend, probably. >> and hoda once 3 1/2 hours early for a flight and still managed to miss it. >> too ridiculous to be false, i'm saying true. >> good on time. find out how she did. >> okay. >> stole a cowboy hat ran out of the store. >> true! i did. a dare. i had to do it.

it's a dare. >> i'm sorry. >> as a kid hoda earned a green belt in karate, gave it up, too much work. >> false. >> it was false. >> in college hoda scheduled three dates on the same night. >> i said true. >> false. i couldn't get a date in college. i had a bad overall look. let's move on. >> it's not all about looks. i'd have taken you out for your personality. >> oh -- oh! driving that turned out to be her boss' best friend. you said true? >> sounds like her. >> true. on the way to a graduation speech. late. someone cut me off. didn't know it was him. i felt bad. >> cut off, you get flipped. hoda 3 1/2 hours early for a flight and still managed to miss it. >> i said yes. >> it is true. going to acapulco and missed the flight.

>> three out of five is good. >> you just won $3,000. given you $3,000 american dollars from spike tv. >> go. >> next -- 30 seconds on the clock. >> go. >> kathy secretly loves listening to snoop dogg. >> totally false. >> kathy goes nuts for a man with an attractive foot. >> i say false. >> okay. three, kathy got locked out of her house naked while letting the dogs out. >> true. >> one morning. >> true! >> okay. kathy will do almost anything in a fan asks her in an australian accent. >> so true, yes. >> five, kathy once got such a bad bout of food poisons resorted to throwing up in her purse and asked for the driver to pull over so she could dump the purse puke on the ground. >> i'd say true. >> all right. time's up. >> okay. >> you know the answers. we said secretly loves snoop dogg. >> false. >> false. >> shout-out to our boy snoop. kathy goes nuts for a guy with good feet.

great feet. so i say, false. >> says that because frank had the ugliest feet, but i love great feet. >> so it's true? >> so it's true. yeah. >> all right. got it wrong. >> kathy locked out of her house naked letting the dogs in one morning. >> true, definitely. >> false. >> what? you never got locked out of your house naked? >> maybe. no, i didn't. i didn't. >> i thought you did? >> all over the -- >> that would be fun, but, no. >> still open to it. kathy will do almost anything if accent, you said, true. >> yes. >> is it? >> i wouldn't do "anything." i love the way you've taken my story. >> you set anything. >> learn an australian accent and get hot feet you're in, boys. and bad food poisoning puked in her purse, dumped it out. >> sounded unreal but i said true. >> it's not true.

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we are well into the school year with homework and projects taking overr as parents, you'd probably try anything to get your kids to do well had school. >> many parrents incentivize their kids pie baying them for good grades. >> what are you teaching them by doing that? and positive parenting solutions author of a really, really terrific book called "the me, me, meepidemic." >> and with us, psychologist and mother of two, a good friend of

hi, guys. >> so glad the two of you are here. you are really wise women and we need a lot of wisdom right now in this world. don't we? >> amy, you have take an stand. wrote something for "today parenting" and say, no, do not pay for grades. >> on the surface it may seem to make sense. really, 40 yearses of research proves that using external rewards to motivate a behavior, in this case paying for grades, actually motivation. we dangle the carrot, the kid performs for the payout rather than for the love of learning and interest in a subject. thor issue, it's not sustainable. what happens when $5 for an a is no longer motivating? up the ante to $10 ors 15ds? the kid doesn't like math. cost $20 keep to keep them motivated? >> are kids motivated by money?

the motivation has to be appropriate for the child. i agree totally will with amy. what we really want to do, help kids feel good about themselves and learners and if we teach them how to learn and focus on the process rather than the grade, and really give them encouragement for paying attention, for doing things on their own, and teaching them how to do that, they will get this feeling of joy and love of learning, and accomplishment, and that is what contributes to people, particula >> self-esteem. >> feeling positive about that interesting, because our "today" producers talked about this. this actually blew up in a meeting because a lot of the producers got paid for grades and wound up working here at 30 rock and said, look. it worked for us. >> that's terrible. >> you're right. the first three hours, they got us. >> what does that mean? it does work for some. >> see? they all know it's true. >> so to your point, these were

motivated to begin with. right? >> definitely. >> getting paid for grades is like a bonus. sure, liked it, but did it really change their behavior? think of the less man motivated kid. if cash is your primary vehicle, it's never sustainable. like putting bad dates on symptoms. don't get to the real issue, discouraged? have a learning difference? a power struggle? unless we dig into that, no amount of payment will ever keep that kid motivated learn term. >> and often thear willing to look any closer and say, what really might be going on? maybe a kid's embarrassed in school or bullying? to the point amy made if a child does have a learning difference, you can dangle as much money as you want. they're still not able to do it unless they learn the way they're supposed to learn, and then they are motivated, because they've had success. there are many ways to incite kids and give wonderful incentives meaningful for them. i don't know a parent who

make that part of the incentive. let's work on this together. you've done well, praise them. let's spend time together. >> great advice, ladies. >> i love when we went on an up note. it's so rare. >> excellent. >> for more strategies to motivate your child in school go to our website. this should motivate you to stick around. giving away a big prize. >> spanky tuesday day. find out if you're a lucky

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