woman. >> yes, it is funday monday november 2nd and i don't like the wordrd november. >> or monday. >> but i do like saying great show today, because actor lou diamond phillips is with us. >> how good looking is he. . >> yes, one of the goodies. >> it is based on the fillm about the chilean miners that he is in. >> and we also have a jamie randolph with us, and we fell in love with her with her rant about leggings. >> some people wear them as pants pants, and tno how they rare to be wore. if can wear them where i can tete that you haa azazec thongs on, you shouldn't be wearing them.

caught up in halloween to be payinging attention to the celebrity news, but we have all of the news with raul shuta and also about leah remmiini. >> and it was a great weekend and how about that extra hour of sleep. sleep. >> yes, that was nice. >> yes. >> and then sunday, cody went to an event to honor fraa at bakersville high school when a man warren beatty saw something in him, and he is the first gifford to graduate from high

has given credit to his first football coaa and teacher where frank was majoring in shop. ande got a hold of his sigh e key and told him how great he could be. >> and nice to see cody there. >> sorry to hog all of it. but it is halloween with my nephew aaron who i callllchuckie. and look at that. >> with the ears, and he is a happy baby. >> i think that he is an elephant. >> heis an elephant, and he is dumbo costume. >> yes. >> and i did something with rod stewart and92y live and he likesesto do what we do, spankie, and he turned around and there it was. >> that is what people do.

>> they just stick it o. in case2you missed the hallowee show friday we dresseded up in "peanuts" costumes, and regis joined us. and matt as lucy and al as charlie brown. $% >> theee we re. >and the red baron. >> he was trying to move around. [ laughter ] >> the feathers were flying, they were. and regis had fun, and by the way, the jifs involve dd the spanky one, two, three. andndthen we turned around. >> some people liked it. >> some didn't. >> and janice day sent us a video of her dog, and apparently we freaked him out. >> everybody ii a critic.

do you like them? >> apparently he never barks. he calmly watches us until today. >> a al rightyty peggy sent us this picture on instagram sent us this that hoda and kathie lee announced the cotton parade. >> is that it? >> no, it a different picture. >> so people dressed up, and carly and r friend made cards that look like our cardrd, so thank you for thaha. >> it is a stupid excuse to do as little as possible, but to genuinely walk around with a glass of wine. >> and they were kathie lee and hoda zozobies. >> that is before we come in, right right? >> exactly. >> and lots of big celebrities a io halloween. and heidi klum went as jessica rabbit. she has a big party.

>> ten hour ss to complete that. >> and jay z and beyonce went as captain america. that is so cute. >> and neil patrick harris was obi-wan kenobi. >> and prince dressed up. >> that is great. gl and if you were a new yorker, it is not, the mets, and the jets and the giants suffered. >> i never thought that i would say these words, thank goodness for the marathon. >> a marathon was pretty awesome, because by the way, lots of -- >> can the kenyans sweep, hoda? >> yes, and the people hold up signs, yeah, mom. one mile left, and another friend of mine held a sign like this, you're all crazy.

>> yes, because by that that time, tty knew it. >> and by watching the gian' m a i i have any fingernails left, and it is 49-49, and it is like practice and everybody kept scoring, but in last seconds, the saints' kicker kick eded the longest field goal. he has kicked a 50 yarder and this is 511 and the final score was 52-49. like -- giants' fans were upset, but it was exciting if you were a sapts' fan. >> and we are happy for kansas city, and of course, we would have loved our mets to have won, but the kansas city royals beat after 12 innings, the final score 7-2, but the royals, and you have to be happy for thel, first time champions i30 year, oda woman. >> and great to see the mets' fans in the sttium, waiting for the guys the to come out, and they chanted that they loved them.

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internal structure. mar ecoco marcooit is pmy jobo keep these men safe. >> on the job. >> yes, you are. >> and it is wonderfulo see you again, and absolutely wonderful toe here.% >> a tell us about the making of this, and it was nonoa vanity project. >> there was no glamour to this one whatsoever, and we shot in two real mines outside of bogota, colombia, and going in and out of the mines six days a week 24 hours a dada and the real d dal, and the great thing is that i was down there with antonio banderas, and he took the shirt down. if you are goinin to be trapped, be trapped with antonio banderas banderas. >> he is a blast. >> yes, a wonderful man. >> and you had a brotherhood. >> and 100% bonded and being in the actual mine lent t t the awe then thenticity and the veracity on the screen. and the rest of the cast were

unbelievable. it is an international stellar cast, but under those conditions, we really created this bond and chemistry whichis what the miners experienced, i'm sure. >> and where were you when this actually happened? >> i was in los angeles and working, and i followed it because it was part of the 24-hour news cycle, and it was almost like reality tv, because they got the cameras down in the mine, and the men were trap there hand the low jisgistics of getting them out was space age, and nasa got involved with the phoenix as you can see it there, and brought them out one man at a time. >> did it occur to you at any point that the same thing could happen the to you and your fellow actors, because one of the mines is over 500 years old? >> yes, both ofthem were 500 years old. and i thought, my god, what an ironic headline that would be. we were down there with mine safety people there, and they would literally clear us out of the way of falling rock once in

a while, an constantly checking the ceiling, and that sense of aranoia and peril was always there did you have a sense of paranoia down there? >> no, but we also shot in the desert a mile fbom where it happened and maybe i am projecting, and i felt fine inin bogotaabut when we got the chili, we said, oh, this happened a mile away, and going into the mine, we only filmed the entrances, and it was surreal. >> you talked about the brothers and the brotherhood involved and there was singing involved. and what was the music that you had? don't cry or me i am truly behind you muchacos

i am craving nachos >> you are a bad boy. >> yes a little bit. and the number one on to fbi's most wanttd list and i don't know why i could not be number one. >> and why couldn't you play a scandinavian. >> yes, absolute lyly. >> was it fun to be on the set with ththe guys? yes, sullivan stataleton and jamie alexander, and just a love, i lovely cast and people of that caliber to be on a show doing inccedibly well on "blind shot" it was so much fun. >> if you have a chance to see him "king and i" you have to see it. "33" hits the theaters thisis november. >> and maybe more than you want -- >> a rant. >> uh-huh, and leggings and such.

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thank you. look at what we have. jamie sullivan. >> remember we showed you a vidid of a tennessee woman ranting about the leggings, and you probably saw it on facebook, too, and it is hilarious, take a look. >> ladies, i love leggings weather. don't judge me, they rare comfortable. and some people like to use leggings as britche pants, at is not how they are supposed to be wore. if you can't wear a shirt that

tell that you have aztec thongs on, you don't need to be wearing them. >> jamie, we love you. called you? >> yes, very surprised. >> you said that you keep all of the facebook posts private until one of the lud mouth friends decided to make it public. >> absolutely, i had a friend ricky taylor who said, please change your settings so i can share your video, and i didn't think the anything about it, and a day in, it waalike a million. >> and million. >>is how the careers are made. you are like justin bieber. >> you do a rant on babies? >> yes. >> well, we were talking about the nurturing that bond between mmher stuff? >> get rid of that. >> brank it out. >> okay. with well, we were at my mother and i were at the moonshine festival a couple of months ago and what my stepfather does

which is competition barbeque, and we had parents with the babies running around the moonshine festival, and it was 2,000 degrees, and the babibi were screaming and parents, i know you want to get the drink on, good for you, but leaf them babies at home. >> all right. we want to pick these, d these aa rant, and we love you. we don't care what you are saying. >> see somebody climbing on the seats in the airplane. >> i have been on a airplane three time, aa o in the last week. i don't mind you climbing up on the seat, but don't kick the back of the seat or the one by me, and if you is have to take your shoes off, putut on some fresh nonhf-holey socks. >> and get a pedicure. >> and chewingloudly. >> like hoda.

>> i have a sister and nephew who do that and it is terrible. okay. you should work on that. >> and give i to me. >> i can't evenb handle> t t crunch the sound, the smacking lips is the absolute worst. you smack your lips. and i 'm lle, boom, boom. >> this one, oversharing on facebook. >> oh, lord. now, look i overshare and not private and half of my friends don't know if i i legally married and i like to keep them guessing, but we do have friends who like to put on every single sol solitary thininthat you put on there from tte minute that you wake up oogo the bed, and calm it down. >> and even life -- >> yes shgs, people do it. it is out there. >> and for being fun and webyofr

>> and they are by tony lisette, and we love these, because they are kind of like spanx and leggings together. hohoabout that? >> thank you for comeing to the big city. >> all righty. >> all right. we are going to come back after the break right after this.

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it is fufuay monday and if you were out enjoying the festivities over the weekend -- >> or getting that extra hour of sleep, you may have missed out on the hollywood gossip. >> and not to worry, because we have you covered on the buzz. and this is the naughty gossipom rob chuter. >> we know it's going to get feisty when you show up. >> yes actress leah remini has a

of publicity. >> tomorrow on tuesday, it's already number five on amazon, this is going to be a huge book. she sat dowow overr the weekend with abc news and i think we have a little clip of her very first interview. >> he was forcibly kissing katie. i said get a room. i was written up for that. being critical of tom cruise is being critical of scientology itself. you are a person who is anti the aims and goals of scientology. you are evil. >> you don't hear people speaking out publicly. >> first time i have heard somebody sit down and tell their story. she talked about the wedding she attend attended. she claims in the book she was asked biy the church to bring jennifer lopez to that wedding as a way to introduce her to the church who are very, very anxious, very, v vy eager, she says, to get jennifer to

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>> her last concert of the 1989 turb tour in america was in tampa. she often brings out a surprise. this surprise was medina menzel from "frozen" and they did a duet from let it go. they're both in costumes. >> she's going out internationally now. do you think she'll show up with surprise guests? >> this is what will happen. >> julio iglesias. >> she starts in china, singapore, australia. what we're t td is every one of those local markets she's going to find a celebrity from that country to come and join her. look at the two of them. >> that keeps it so fresh for the pmp ererformer, too. she has something to look forward to. >> we should point out, even though it's a surprise to the audience, she has carefully planned this. her orchestra doesn't happen to have the sheet music of "let it go." >> i wonder if other singers

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love from the bottom, but there's a lot of conflict. there's a lot of -- women have a difficult time understanding i am the mother, you are the daughter. we have separate identities. >> velvet and ashley, you two -- >> i'm the mother. >> you're the moer. >> justt totoy. >> let's go to a clip so people can see how you interact and then we'll talk about it. >> no, because i -- >> you don't appreciate me. >> i appreciated you up until you stopped. >> okay. >> because i care about you and i want you to give me away at my wedding, i don't want you to drink your life away. i can't do that. >> oh. so who is the mother and who is the daughter really? do you think? >> so i really am the mother. >> oh -- >> i just always have to kind of check in on her. we live 3,000 miles away now soso it's really hard. >> how old are you? >> i'm 24. you've left the coop. you're a grown woman yourself. >> yeah.

it's been really hard because three years ago my grandmother passed away andt's been really, really hard on her. she developed a partying lifestyle and i have been really, really concerned, as any daughter would be. this is my everything. she's my best friend. so it's really, really hard to watchher be weak and go to that lifestyle. >> i fell really bad i put it on her, to worry like that -- i'm the cryer, by the way. >> could we have some e kleenex, please? >> coming out and realizing what i'm doing to her -- >> what are you doing to her do you think? >> i go out and iparty. i do work full time. i mean, i don't drink at home. >> and what do you worry about, ashley, with your mom? >> i'm afraid i'm going to lose my mom quicker than i should. i don't want to bury my mother before i'm 30. i don't want to have to do that. >> it's scary. >> we want to meet the other mother/daughter, too, ashley and britney. let's watch a clip of your relationship and we'll talk about it.

>> like mom won't be annoyed. >> so irritating. to say that in front of other people -- >> mom, they don't care. >> they're not here. >> it hurts me. >> i couldn't quite tell what that was about. >> describe your relationship. >> we have a very unique lationship. my mother and i. my mother had me at the same age i am todada 22.. she did raise mee and she was a great mother but she also grew up with me. she was so young when she had me, so our relationship, which i think is rerevery relatable, it's critical and it's rough at times. >> are your roles defined? are you clearly the mom and you're clearly the daughter? >> she's very much a mom. >> i am a controlling mom, and i have learned through this process that i have to get over that because i did not realize that this is my grown up daughter. she has made great decisions. i need to take a step back and stop the controllingssues and i have learned that this is not

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if you're in a crisis and in the hospital, talk to the discharge planner right away. don't wait until it's discharge time because you're going to have to do some legwork to get ready for that. >efore the person is out of the hospital and back in the home. >> and contact the area agency on aging about home and community-based care and go to elder care locater and find your area agency. you can also get a gyreeriatric care manager. >> through your insurance? >> usually it's not covered but this is helpful for long distance caregivers. >> first you say you have to have a team. you can't'to it alone, sflit. >> right. exactly. i can do anything at this point but i can't do everything. so you have to fill the gaps with other people. other family members, volunteers from they say a hospice or a respite organization. you can also look at personal care. my mom's hairstylist came to the house sometimes just to make it easier when i couldn't get her there. >> okay. >> so many people wanan to be helpful. >> people are offering.

you have to take them up on it. people offer, say yes. >> connect with other caregivers. body quite understands somebody else is going through the same thing. we learn the most from each other. we get the most tips from each other. go to a local support group. that agencnc on aging can give u a list or a hospital can give you a list. if you can't go in person, get online. there are all kinds of support groups and community boards. aarp has an online community you can post questions and get answers. we learn the most from each other. >> if you're a caregiver you don't have much time to leave the person you're caring for to go to these things. >> you were talking about tech technology technology. >> exactly. you know, we're juggling so much. my life, my parents' life, everybody else's life, can't do everything but you can do it better if you're organized. we have to be efficient. ththe are all kindsf care giving apps now. i use apps like ever note and

shared grocery list. but aarp has a new care giving app specifically for this. you can create medication list by taking picturere of the medicine bottles. you can communicate with your team and journal, share a calendar. those things are really, really helpful to get it all together. >> one of the most important ththgs which is i thinkne of r final points is just care for yourself because sometimes you can't give what you don't have. >> that's the hardest part. >> exactly. i always say we don't expect our cars to run without gas on empty but we expect ourselves to. that doesn't make sense. it's not selelsh to take care of ourselves when you're care giving, it's practical. you have to take energy in to put it out. know what fills you up, what gives you joy, and take care of your health as well. >> joy is nonnegotiable. >> and you say be kind to the caregiver. thank you so much. >> do some nice things for a caregiver today. >> don't miss our favorite things. >> but next, this is "today" on

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