icon mary tyler moore, who passed away on wednesday at the age of 80. she gave us television magic for six decades. the beloved television icon passed away wednesday at age 80, surrounded by friends and her husband of over 33 years, dr. robert levine. in a statement to "e.t." her longtime representative remembered her as, quote, a groundbreaking actress, producer, and passionate advocate for the juvenile diabetes research foundation. mary will be remembered as a fearless visionary who turned the world on with her smile. moore, who long suffered from diabetes, died at greenwich hospital of cardiac arrest after suffering from pneumonia. her health had been declining in recent weeks. fans paid tribute to her on hollywood's walk of fame, and late this week producers rushed to include her in the in memoriam segment at this sunday's s.a.g. awards. mary received a standing ovation at the event five years ago when she was presented with the life

achievement award. >> tonight i too am happy after all. >> she was introduced by dick van dyke, her co-star for five seasons, who spoke to cbs this morning. >> the chemistry that happened between us was just serendipity. we became an improv group. >> mary was also honored by her co-stars of the mary tyler moore show. >> thank you for being my family. >> cloris leachman, who played phyllis, told us, quote, if i could see her one last time, i'd hold her in my arms and say we love you. we also spoke by phone to ed asner, who played lou grant. he says behind the scenes, mafrry was a fighter. >> her diabetes was certainly very evident, but was a hard worker. instead of lunch, she had a dance class. >> i sat down with another comedian, bob newhart, who he owes his tv career to mary. you said you knew she was sick.

>> its wa nt a complete surprise because i knew she had diabetes and was losing her eyesight. >> every character i played has had a great deal of mary tyler moore in them, especially the television characters. laura petrie was me. mary richards was me. ♪ who can turn the world on with her smile ♪ >> mary tyler moore starred in two of the most acclaimed shows in television history. she won seven emmys. her first big role was in the early 60s classic "the dick van dyke show." mary was ahead of her time, sparking a minor controversy as one of the first housewives on tv to wear pants. >> how come you never dress like a girl? >> the network studio was concerned and they got to carl reiner and said just make sure she only wears those pants in one scene per show. >> "the mary tyler moore show" was next, and america loved it. mary richards was a role model for single working women.

>> you know what? you've got spunk. >> well -- >> i hate spunk! >> off camera, mary faced many challenges. during the run of the mary tyler moore show, she was diagnosed with a chronic health condition. >> i am a diabetic. i'm one of the lucky ones. i haven't had too many terrible side effects yet, but they await me. they await everyone who has diabetes. >> she was married three times. she found happiness in her final marriage to robert levine, a doctor 18 years her junior. they were together for more than three decades. >> in our case, they really did say it wouldn't last because i'm older than robert is. he's jewish. i come from a catholic family. there were a lot of reasons for it not to work, but it did. >> sharing more memories of mary, carl reiner, a close friend for over 50 years, he revealed his final poignant words to her. >> i spoke to her husband a day

or so before she passed away, and i remember telling him, i said, she may not hear you, but whisper in her ear that it's okay to go. you can go. >> reiner was at the beginning of mary's career. >> she had it all. >> "the dick van dyke show"! >> he catapulted the 24-year-old to stardom after casting her in "the dick van dyke show" which he created and was based on his life. >> oh, rob. >> she didn't want to come in that day because she had failed in two other interviews. at that point i had seen 23 different girls, and she walked through the door. >> he remembers the chemistry on set between co-stars. >> they both admitted later that if they hadn't been married to other people, they definitely would have become a couple. >> playing dick's wife, laura petrie, mary earned two emmy awards and the friendship and admiration of carl reiner for life. >> i'll never forget you for what you did for me. >> very sweet. now, mary was a true friend to

us here at "e.t." we interviewed her so many times over the years, and throughout the hour, we will share those precious moments with you. ahead, her lasting impact on another television icon, oprah winfrey. now, in 1980, mary was nominated for an oscar for her role in "ordinary people." this week, this year's oscar nominations were announced. leading the pack, "la la land" with 14 nominations, tying the record held by titanic and all about eve. emma stone was nominated for best actress, but for millions of la la fans, it's all about ryan gosling. >> ryan gosling in "la la land." >> the best actor nomination is ryan's second. ♪ it also marks a battle of the former mouse ketteers in the original song category. "la la land" city of stars is up against justin timberlake's can't stop the feeling. ♪ back in their tween years, ryan

and j.t. were part of the new mickey mouse club and then gosling took off as a leading man. he was just 17 years old for his first "e.t." interview on the set of the tv series young hercules. >> my mother calls every kid that used to beat me up. he's hercules now. you can just shut up. >> what are ryan's chances of taking home gold? "vanity fair" believes casey affleck is the front-runner, but ryan's performance is multifaceted. >> he sings, dances, plays piano. these are all skills that are hard, and academy members know they're hard. they may reward him for that. >> "hacksaw ridge." mel gibson. >> and mel gibson could be bracing for a comeback. he scored his first oscar nod in more than two decades for directing. he's also a new dad for the ninth time. mel told "e.t." quote, what could be more exciting than listening to the nominations

being announced while holding my newborn son. nancy o'dell spoke with the 61-year-old and his 26-year-old lady, rose lynn ross, earlier this month. >> i was talking to clint the other day. i said how many kids you got? he went eight. so i'm beating him. >> this is number nine. >> nine. >> how does it feel to be beating clint? >> that's a weird question. >> they've got enough for a football team basically. mel also has three grandchildren, so i guess that means the baby is younger than his nieces and nephews. okay. let's move on now and talk about michael jackson's daughter. this week we were startled by new revelations from paris jackson. track marks from drug abuse. suicide attempts. sexual assault. her first in depth interview had us all stunned. then came the aftermath. >> i'm not answering any questions. if you want some answers, read what i wrote.

>> paris was swauwarmed by papai as she arrived at l.a.x. at first it peaappears she wasn bothered while her bodyguard pushes cameras away. then the encounter breaks out into an all-out chase. paris sprint as way leaving her bodyguard and 31-year-old manager behind. minutes later, she breaks down. >> guys, guys. >> stop. >> we counted 11 paparazzi on the scene at l.a.x. a source close to paris tells "e.t." she was very scared. this was a learning experience for everyone, and security is being stepped up. >> back up! all of you, back up. you see the girl is crying. >> minutes before the drama, the 18-year-old co-heir to a billion dollar fortune said to check out her cover article. she says she was sexually assaulted by a much older complete stranger when she was

just 14. quote, i don't want tot give away any details. at the time, i didn't tell anybody. in 2013, paris reportedly tried to kill herself by splashing her wrists and taking 20 motrin pills. she says she actually tried multiple times before and laughed it all off. tattoos now cover the scars from the suicide attempt as well as the track marks left from her previous drug addiction. >> paris is wearing a bracelet that michael jackson was wearing when he died. a little like rope and jade thing he had gotten in africa. she said it still smells like him. she said michael comes to her in her dreams all the time. ♪ reaching out >> nearly eight years after michael died, paris now said she believes her dad was murdered, and his death was a setup. >> he told her that might happen. he believed that people were out to get him. he owned a song catalog worth hundreds of millions of dollars, and he was concerned people were trying to get their hands on it. >> i vote for giving paris a little room to breath. coming up, j.lo is dating

drake, and we have no exclusive details. then i'm on the sat with dancing star derek hough to hear the emotional story behind his new music video. plus a dog's purpose controversy. star dennis quaid with "e.t." and furious over animal abuse allegations. >> i never saw any abuse, and if there had been, i would have walked. >> then the sisterhood of the mary tyler moore show. our reunion with mary and her female co-stars. >> which one of us looks t before i had the shooting, burning, of diabetic nerve pain, these feet... kicked off my high school games... and helped those in need. but i couldn't bear my diabetic nerve pain any longer. so i talked to my doctor and he prescribed lyrica. lyrica may cause serious allergic reactions or suicidal thoughts or actions. tell your doctor right away if you have these, new or worsening depression, or unusual changes in mood or behavior. or swelling, trouble breathing, rash, hives, blisters, muscle pain with fever, tired feeling or blurry vision.

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would only confirm a working relationship with drake. and he only nodded when asked about her. >> how are things going with j.lo? >> great. >> but a source now tells "e.t." they are an item. quote, she's head over heels for drake. ♪ we saw j.lo getting some love from her twins, emme and max as she hit the recording studio in miami. no drake in sight, but that's to be expected. our source says, quote, it's a new relationship, but she really likes him. she's really into him. j.lo told us her kids are her priority. >> i just have wonderful people in my life. i have a lot of loving people, and they know the kids come first and everything else falls in line after that. >> lopez is in miami collaborating with her ex, marc anthony on a spanish language album, her second non-english speaking record. the singer, with puerto rican roots, had to brush up on her spanish while on the set of 1997's selena, telling us it was challenging. >> it's a really hard role. one of the things was the accent. >> j.lo has another project up

her sleeve. she's taking on "dancing with the stars" with her own rival competition show world of dance on nbc. dancing pro derek hough is one of the judges and it premieres this spring. in the meantime, derek is busy helping out single michael buble. michael is taking time out of the spotlight to care for his son who is battling cancer. so derek stepped in for michael in his new music video and only we were invited to the set. >> ready and action. ♪ >> i'm not even sure what i'm supposed to call you anymore. >> oh. >> dancer, artist, director? what do we call you? >> performer? yeah. >> all around dope ass guy, baby. >> i'll take it. i'll take that. ♪ >> derek not only took the challenge of choreographing and directing the music video for "i believe in you ygs. he's also the star. right now michael is taking time to be with his family while

3-year-old noah continues his cancer treatment. >> my prayers are out to him. for me, the way i'm trying to do the best job i can here and put together a beautiful story and a beautiful video for him. >> for derek, the story behind the video is personal. ♪ >> my grandfather passed away last year. you know, the last couple years, they danced every single morning together, my grandma and grandpa. they danced every single morning to the same song, and it was a ritual they did every time. even the night before he passed, they were dancing together, and then he passed away that night. but for me, that was like the beautiful story of just like everlasting love right to the end. that's kind of what i want to tell a story with this video was just that, you know, everlasting love. >> you're going to make any cry, derek. you're not going to make me cry. that was one of the sweetest stories i ever heard. it got me right here. of course the video will be out zwruft in time for what? you guessed it, valentine's day. up next, why we can't stop

watching bachelor breakout corrine and what her mother is only telling us about her strategy to win nick's heart. >> you do you. i'm going to do me. >> as a former bachelorette comes to "e.t." with confessions about what really happens behind closed doors. >> you are a bit brainwashed. >> then dennis quaid speaks out about his film, a dog's purpose. why he calls the leaked video some say shows

welcome back, everybody. the movie a dog's purpose opened in theaters this weekend as scheduled, just as the investigation got under way into claims of animal abuse during filming. kevin frazier got the movie's human star, dennis quaid, to address the controversy for the first time on camera. >> i want to ask you. everyone has seen the video. what was your experience with the animals on the set? >> my experience is that the animals were treated great.

there was no animal abuse on the set and that video that someone took and sold for money and held on to it for a year and a half until right before the film was coming out does not tell the whole story because i've seen all the footage. it's edited and manipulated, and i think it's a scam to tell you the truth. >> quaid calls the footage, which was obtained by tmz, completely out of context. the website says it did not edit the footage, but published it as it was obtained. it appears to show two moments a german shepherd first resisting going into the water and another where the dog is submerged. >> the dog was acting like a dog who was kind of tired of taking a bath. and was ready to get out. and in fact, that's what happened. they took the dog out. and then the guy spliced it together and made it look like

they sent him in there anyway or forced him in, which didn't happen. i never saw abuse of any animal. if there had been, i would have walked. >> we met with a team of executives of the production company behind the movie and they showed us ten minutes of outtakes. they said in order to give us more context. we saw the dog jumping into the water without hesitation over and over to perform a stunt. it also shows the dog going underwater, but it never shows anyone pushing him into the pool. there was also a team of safety people nearby. now, amblin wouldn't allow us to show up the video because according to the company, there are still several internal and external reviews in progress. we also spoke to the producer, who wishes the dog's head would have never gone underwater. >> as soon as the dog resisted, after one second they should have stopped. the dog's head was covered for four seconds. that should not have happened, but the dog was fine. if they let the video run, you would see that the dog got out, was fine, and the dog is fine

today. let's move on and go to the bachelor. this certainly had people talking this week. corrine basically solidified her place in bachelor history and this season's biggest villain, but she also did something else that had the bachelor nation going crazy. stepping out with diamonds on that finger. you know we got the story behind that ring. >> oh, my god. sorry, guys. >> here's the pick. corrine clearly flashing that diamond sparkler to the camera while pozi posing with an instagram comedian. fans wanted to know if it was an engagement ring from bachelor nick. "e.t." found out the truth. >> it was the comedian's ring. they did it as a spoof. >> so no show spoilers here. this is just corrine stirring the pot once again. something these been doing since the show's premiere. >> you're a trouble maker. >> i know. >> but corrine's mom is defending her daughter's actions say she's proud of her.

>> she wanted to do this, and she went out and did it as elegantly as she did. a couple people may have taken some things wrong, but she was just larger than life. >> we saw more of that personality come out on a group date to nick's hometown where all of the ladies were forced to get their hands dirty with one exception. >> i don't know how to do chores, let alone farm chores. >> and "e.t." was in new orleans for nick's solo date with rachel. >> things are starting to heat up a little bit. >> every moment keeps getting better and better. >> nick didn't disappoint by throwing her a parade. >> i saw you guys kiss. how do you feel like it went? >> feel like i -- this is the best date i've ever been on, ever. i'm 31, so i've been on a number of dates before. but this was fantastic. >> clearly these two only had eyes for each other despite being surrounded by at least four cameras, a dozen producers, and hundreds of fans eager to snap a photo.

>> she's probably of all the women, for me, from the very beginning, one of the easiest ones to talk to, jive with. she's just -- she's so kind of in her element in any situation. >> now, i went on a date or two in my days of living in new orleans, but certainly nothing like that. that was a doozy. now, if you want more insight on what it's really like behind the scenes, look no further than one of the ladies who's been through it first hand. ali fete do you ski was the bachelorette way back in season six. when she joined "e.t." online's facebook live, we had to know what she thinks of corrine. >> if i was on the show and i was back in my 25-year-old self when i was on the show, i probably would have hated her. >> almost seven years after being the bachelorette, the new mom to 6-month-old molly still watches the show and is peeling back the curtain for us about what things are really like for the contestants. >> look, you can't get certain things on the show. she didn't go find a blanket and set that up.

so she's talking with the producers, saying this is what i want to do. they're like, we're going to do everything we can to make that happen for you. wooer going to find whipped cream. you don't have a trench coat? we'll go get you one. >> ali said there's plenty of time to plot antics while on the show. >> you are a bit brainwashed. you don't have any stimulation whatsoever. no music, no books, no tv. i mean you can't have a magazine. you know, the only book you're allowed to have a religious book. the only thing that's going on in your life is this guy. so you're all talking about this guy and it drives you kind of crazy. >> ali is now busy planning her wedding to kevin man know. they met after the bachelorette. she says he's never watched a full episode from her season. >> the funny thing was when i went on, i told the producers the guy i wanted, quirky, funny, witty. i showed them pictures of guys, like styles. i feel like i was showing them kevin. why didn't the producers find kevin? >> how would ali feel if their

daughter wanted to do the show? >> if she wants to be the bachelorette in 2042, i'd be all for that. she can do that as long as she keeps her top on. >> ali dropped a couple hints that her i dos will be soon, and her bestie kaley cue ohco. >> on the way, an meeshl oprah winfrey talks to "e.t." about her mentor mary tyler moore's passing. what she's only telling us. >> as a woman growing up, mary tyler moore was it for me. >> and mary tyler moore in her own words. >> i'm about to be mangled by betty white. >> a special look back as she reunites with her classic tv co-stars. >> here we are. >> then dirty dancing 30 years later. never before seen video from the set and news on the remake. ♪ >> closed captioning provided by --

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welcome back, everybody. you know, mary tyler moore was a force in front of and behind the camera. as a matter of fact, our "entertainment tonight" stage sits on what used to be the mtm studio lot where she produced shows like the bob newhart show, rhoda, and lou grant. but one of mary's favorite projects was a 2002 reunion of all the ladies from the mary tyler moore show. this is a rare look at mary at work. it was 2002, and mary had gathered her former co-stars together to reminisce about their groundbreaking show. mary had a very hands on approach and wanted this special to be special. >> i wanted to have a sense of who the people are, who the people who played those characters are. >> the day we were there, it was the sisterhood of the mary tyler moore show. the female cast reunited and the love was all around. they rarely got to see each other. >> i live in new york, and most

everyone else lives in los angeles. so it's not like we run into each other at the local soda shop. >> here we are. >> i know, sweetheart. >> isn't it funny? >> valerie harper sat down to share memories of rhoda, mary's brash neighbor turned best friend. >> i'm mary richards. >> hello. >> get out of my apartment. >> which one of us looks the cutest. >> you. you've always been the cutest. >> i wonder if there's any room on the schedule for a series of a reunion. we just keep at it week after week. >> but perhaps her closest friend from the show was betty. >> they like to have their little backs and legs rubbed. >> what about their little feet? >> i got to be mangled by betty white. >> she played sue ann nivens and

off screen those two women had a bond that was never broken. >> betty is my old and dear friend, and i can't think of anybody i feel more comfortable with than sitting around chatting about anything with her. >> when we reached out to betty white following mary's passing, she told us she was too upset to talk to us. but mary will be remembered for her ability to make us all laugh. her gift for comedy lives on in the way that she influenced so many of today's funniest stars. >> if you can't get a cab, take a flying leap. >> she was just brilliant. >> more than what her character symbolized for a lot of women was her incredible technique and craft. >> i think it would be better if you went to your room. i can handle this. >> i am staying right here. >> from the far from your typical housewife laura petrie to mary richards, mary tyler moore delivered her feminist

message with the best kind of quick wit. >> what would you say if the station manager kept saying, this is our woman executive? >> what do you say? >> oh, usually, hi. >> the thing about comedy is that you can make great statements -- >> you shut up. >> and it's not preachy when you put it in the hands of people like mary tyler moore, who just make everything very human. >> some of these guys had the nerve to come up to me and say, well, i understand your wife can beat you up. >> and what difference does it make? >> yeah, what difference -- what difference does it make? >> there was something so real about her, and that's kind of -- when we did our show, that was one of the shows we tried to emulate. >> it was this kind of newer, can i say bitchier -- >> if that's how you help me, by telling me i have pms -- >> but it's sort of an honor to be part of that tradition.

>> mary tyler moore was my role model. >> we're not going to get anywhere putting on a calm face. we need to pick a fight. >> allison janney tackled similar feminist themes on her drama, the west wing. >> when i got to c.j. craig, i thought of mary tyler moore because here i was a woman stepping into this traditionally male dominated world. that role was because of what she started. we all should bow down and thank her and be grateful. hats off to mary. still ahead, more with mary in her own words. and our emotional new interview with oprah on her mentor. then dirty dancing 30 years later. never before seen video from the set. ♪ the time of my life plus behind the viral video marketing campaign. what it took to pull off this scare. but first, you know train

for his grammy award winning and front man pat monahan shares why it's the most special song he sings. >> i wrote that, you know, a few months after my mother had passed away, and i feel like she knew i was desperate for a song. so she sent me a story about her travels through the universe before she entered the next level. >> train's new album, a girl, a bottle, a boat, is out now and faytures their latest song, play that song. also the name of their new tour kicking off may 12th. >> play that song is just real simple. i mean how many times do you see girls get dolled up, and they just are

[ screaming ] >> man, look. that is one of those videos that you can never forget seeing. and a whole lot of people have seen it. the devil baby attack has more than 50 million hits and now the people behind that classic prank have a new scare with a very familiar "ring" to it. [ screaming ] >> if you liked devil baby, hold on to your diapers because the company behind it is working its black magic again. this time for the latest terrifying installment of paramount's "the ring." for its latest viral video gag, the marketing agency took over a tv store in new york and got to work rigging one particular screen to be just a little too

life like. >> one of those tvs we rigged so that when the tv moves up and we distract people to look to the side, it reveals the actual character from the movie, whose image is being played on all the other tvs at the same time. >> so the first tv i'm going to show you is up here. [ screaming ] >> oh, my god. >> [ bleep ]. >> in some cases, people reacted with laughter, but it was really nervous laughter. others ran out the door, and we had to bring them in. >> this viral video campaign is just the latest bound for marketing glory. >> by the end of the very first day, 130 million facebook views. now the video is up to 200 million. >> in fact, they're on track to surpass the ridiculous success

of devil's due in 2014. before that, they created huge buzz with the remake of carrie. >> just get away from me. >> and based on how fast this viral video is spreading, look for ring to scare up huge business when it hits theaters february 3rd. >> not no, but hell no. what's so crazy about this video is with its more than 250 million views on facebook, it actually has more viewers than the audience expected to tune in to next month's super bowl. that's crazy. now let's go to a movie classic. ♪ i had the time of my life >> a little tamer. i like this. patrick swayze and jennifer gray if the movie that had everybody saying nobody puts baby in the corner. it's dirty dancing turning 30 this year. while there's a tv remake in the works, nothing -- and i mean nothing beats the original. ♪

>> tons and tons of things were improved. when i'm teaching jennifer and i'm getting frustrated and i'm trying to get her to be serious and she's laughing or giggling the moment i run my hands down her arm, that really is me getting frustrated. >> patrick swayze and jennifer grey had a tense relationship because of a bad experience they had two years before starring together on red dawn. despite that, the chemistry during their screen test was undeniable. >> i've got control beyond belief in these wrists, okay? your fear will be going over. >> yes, that's true. >> that's a scary lift, you know, and someone has to -- when you're just teetering at your hips over someone's head, it's a very scary thing to get up there and have the courage to just do it with abandon and let go. but the lake was a safe place to do it. >> good. >> patrick's role was originally given to val kilmer, but he turned it down.

sayre ca jessica parker and sharon stone reportedly tried out for the part of 17-year-old baby. jennifer had five minutes during her audition to prove she could play younger and she nailed it. >> i'm telling everybody my real age. >> what is it? >> 27. nobody seems to care. ♪ >> this iconic scene was actually just patrick and jennifer messing around before a take. the director liked it so much, it ended up in the film. and who knew patrick tried to get this line cut from the film because he just didn't like it. >> nobody puts baby in a corner. >> pattic are, who passed away in 2009 from pancreatic cancer was reportedly offered $6 million to do a sequel but said no. jennifer went on and famously had plastic surgery that changed her look so much, it nearly killed her career. her daughter, stella, pointed out the drastic change. >> she said, you know, your face looked really different in the movie. you looked very beautiful. i said, yeah, but the problem was i didn't believe enough in myself. >> jennifer's self-doubt didn't

end there. after the movie's huge success, she didn't dance for more than 20 years. but in 2010, she finally competed and won "dancing with the stars." >> i didn't even like dancing at weddings because i was so self-conscious that people would be disappointed in my dancing. all of a sudden, i was realizing why am i not dancing? why am i letting anything stand in my way of my joy? joy flows when there's dancing. ♪ >> and still to come, an emotional oprah winfrey talks to "e.t." about her mentor, mary tyler moore's passing. what she's only telling us. >> as a woman growing up, mary tyler moore was it for me. >> and mary tyler moore in her own words. >> you have to just learn to live for today. >> her lasting impact on women everywhere. >> she was someone that gave us an idea about who we might want to be in life. >> that's ahead. but first this weekend in the "entertainment tonight" birthdays, which lord of the rings star got his big break in

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emotional oprah just minutes after the news broke this week about mary's passing. >> i don't know other than barbara walters of anybody else in the business who had more influence on me personally. >> oh, wow. >> as a woman growing up or on my career. mary tyler moore was it for me. when i was a young reporter in nashville, it was the thing i did every saturday night was watch "the mary tyler moore show." and i wanted to be like her. i saw myself in her. so much so that i for a long time wanted to work in minneapolis because i thought mary actually worked there. now i know it's a television set. and they put up a sign that says minneapolis. every time i would see her at an event or any occasion, i would go, mary!

really important place that she held and will continue to hold forever for me. i mean it's the first time that i can recall a public figure in recent years passing. i mean and we've lost so many peoples recently where i actually sat down and -- and shed tears about it. the moment she surprised me on that show was a life-changing moment for many reasons. first of all, it's the time i coined the ugly cry. and i went in to double, triple overtime ugly cry. >> what do you think her legacy is going to be? >> her legacy is going to be every life that she touched through that show. her legacy is going to be that smile. listen, i even did a -- i even did a show where i was trying to imitate being mary, throwing my cap up in the air. >> i remember that. i remember that.

>> rip, double rip in peace, peace, peace, mary tyler moore. >> you just heard oprah talk about mary's influence on her own life. so many prominent women on television, especially working in news, also owe so much to the icon from her days on the wjm tv set. we talk to some of those famous faces in news about mary's impact. >> i think that she made it okay that if you didn't have a date, if you didn't have a boyfriend, you could still do that and not be a loser. >> divorce. >> no. >> never married. >> no. >> why? >> why? >> she dealt with bosses who were sometimes grouchy and had outdated views, and i think what's amazing to me is 40 years later, some of those issues still exist. >> yes. >> the only reason he was paid more than i am is because he was a man? >> oh, sure. it has nothing to do with your work. >> back then, she was pushing the envelope. she was giving us courage because we didn't do that in those days. we were just so grateful to be

inside. say, oh, they gave us a job. she was one brave cookie. >> being single, having a career, getting equal pay, having drive. >> do you think i'm undersexed. >> mary was all about girl power before we knew what girl power was. as a confident tv producer, character inspired many of the strong female journalists we turn to today. >> a woman who started her career in news, watching her on "the mary tyler moore show," she was a woman who broke glass ceilings and showed that she could accomplish anything and everything that she set her mind to in a man's world. >> she was someone that gave us an idea about who we might want to be in life. and she was 23 at the time. 23, she was already a successful tv star, wow. >> did you know that without mary, we wouldn't have the oprah we know and love? you see, mary's company, mtm enterprises, produced numerous tv shows. mrs. o. called us and said this

logo gave her an aha moment. >> that was her graphic icon for her studio. mary tyler moore first gave me the idea that you can own your own show and produce it. >> oh, wow, she was the one fnlts. >> she was the one. that's where i got that idea from, mtm productions. ♪ who can turn the world on with her smile ♪ ♪ who can take a nothing day and make it all seem worth while ♪ ♪ well it's you girl and you should know it ♪ >> in our 36 years on the air at "e.t." we have had so many incredible moments with her and with her mary tyler moore co-stars. here is mary in her own words. >> my mother and father were very, very funny, witty, sharp people. and i never dreamed that i would be able to be doing that as my life's work. >> mary was grateful to be back with her mary tyler moore co-stars when we last saw her. they reunited for an episode of "hot in cleveland" in 2013, and

we asked her how it felt to have the gang together. >> it's wonderful, but it makes me sad too. it makes me feel, why don't i have this in my current life? where are all these friends and buddies and co-workers and people who loved each other? ♪ >> mary always had fond memories of the show that made her a household name. >> it was so beaut fli written. it was a joy to play. i'm one of those incredibly lucky people who has had one good experience after another, and i've never had to fight and scratch and claw. >> mary as a true friend to us here at "e.t." we interviewed her dozens of times over the years. looking back today at our time with mary, there's one thing we notice. mary tyler moore always believed in looking forward, not back. >> you have to just learn to live for today and be really happy for what you got. and know no other way. i'm not just a survivor. i am a flourisher.

>> and we certainly will miss

travel consideration provided by -- well, look at all those stars with birthdays this weekend. back street boy nick carter is 37. in sync's joey fat own is 40, and oprah winfrey is celebrating turning 63. take a final look at your choices. which lord of the rings star got his big break in a paula abdul music video? that is elijah wood. he is 36 this weekend, and he had a cameo in paula's 1989 video, forever your girl. monday on "e.t." ryan gosselin, kerry washington, meryl streep. we reveal all the s.a.g. award moments you didn't see.

>> i'll take that as a win. >> you get ready. >> monday on "e.t." we are almost out of time, but for all the late breaking hollywood news, just go to our website at etonline.com. but as we say good-bye, we want to take a moment this weekend to honor someone else we lost this week. a beloved member of our "e.t." family. bonnie teaguele passed away on monday after brightening up all of our lives for 20 years as an award-winning senior producer here. she really was the heart and soul of "e.t." and if you ever walked a receipt carpet, you knew bonnie because she always greeted every single person with a bright smile and a huge hug that was as big as her heart. everybody loves bonnie. everyone. >> i love her so much. it's very rare you meet a good soul. >> wonderful to see you. >> whether you were an a-list celebrity or an "e.t." intern, bonnie knew just how to make you feel extra special.

>> good to go. >> you guys ready? >> her work ethic inspired all of us. most days she would arrive bright and early to "e.t." at 4:30 a.m. full of energy and ready to laugh. i tell you, she had the most infectious, booming laugh. our thoughts are with elliott, her husband of 44 years, her son ken, and her three granddaughters. we love you, and we will miss you, bonnie. ♪

the weekend "insider," tracking the biggest stories making news today. ♪ who can turn the world on with her smile ♪ >> hollywood mourns the loss of mary tyler moore. >> i have always had a hard time separating myself from mary richards. >> as we remember the legend's groundbreaking career. the nominees for lead actor are. >> the oscar nominations are in. why hollywood is gaga for "la la land." >> with even more excitement over the diverse spread of nominees. >> i get a phone call, i'll be happy about that. >> and new edition proves they can stand the rain. the 80s r and b group showered with love and walk of fame honors as bobby brown reveals the real reason he left the band. >> the simple fact is -- plus. >> we brought you in here

because we know you brings the goods. >> no pressure. >> why my "kevin can wait" cameo almost sent me to the eer. >> the weekend "insider" tracking hollywood from the inside out. saying good-bye to america's tv sweetheart, mary tyler moore passes away at the age of 80. >> mary's health became a concern in her later years, including her longtime battle with diabetes. but it is the funny and vibrant moofr we pay tribute to this weekend as hollywood remembers why there's something about mary. >> not just a survivor. i am a flourisher. >> you know what? you got spunk. [ laughter ] >> that spunk sprainentertained audiences. she died of cardiac arrest with her husband, dr. robert levine by her side. she began her career in television at 17 in this happy

hotpoint commercial. she would win seven emmys after appearing on "the dick van dyke show" and her own comedy series as mary richards in "the mary tyler moore show." >> i, to tell you the truth, have had a hard time separating myself from mary richards. >> and when she threw that hat up in the sky, she shattered tv's glass ceiling, changing the way we saw independent women on television. her co-star and friend ed asner tweeted, my heart goes out to you and your family. know that i love you and believe in your strength. she would suffer the loss of her only child, richie meeker, from an accidental gunshot wound. director robert redford cast her in "ordinary people," about a family dealing with a son's death. >> the lying, the covering up, the disappearing for hours. i can't stand it. i really can't. >> her raw performance led to her first and only oscar nomination. in 1997 rg, mary would shock an

emotional oprah. it was mary who then inspired the talk show host. >> you have no idea what you've meant to me. >> yes, i think i do. >> mary's last on camera aer appearance in 2013 teaming up with her old friend betty white in "hot in cleveland." >> any award-winning mary tyler moore. >> you think you could change it to seven-time emmy award. >> oh, yeah. and we can lose my good friend. >> i think we all need some kleenex. >> reminiscing about the day back in 1977 some four decades ago when they said good-bye to the hit series. >> it's doubly difficult because it's the plot that we were acting was about saying good-bye. we were realing feeling it. >> you wrecked the whole thing. we were all fine until you walked out that door and looked back. and look at me.

i can't -- i can't still do it. i can see that face. >> neither can i. ♪ >> she was just a phenomenal role model for working women everywhere, and i think we all wanted to either be mary or rhoda at some point in our lives. of course our thoughts and prayers are with mary's family. >> it's not a time to be sad, keltie. we need to celebrate her life. switching gears to this year's oscar nominations and "la la land" clearly ready for its close-up with 14 total noms. that's not the only good news. after a two-year drought, the oscars honor the most diverse crop of honorees ever. >> what law is there to say i got to like you? >> you've been nominated six times for an oscar. you've won twice. if this movie is nominated, is the feeling different every time gets nominated? >> i hope i find out. >> we can do the work. >> i hope to be waking up to eat my bacon and have some