edition of dateline. we will have the latest on the attack here tomorrow on nbc nightly news and msnbc. i'm lester holt reporting for nice. from all of us on nbc news, good night. he was definitely charismatic. he lived every single day. he knew it was dangerous, but no one ever knew he would die over it. >> he was the new kid in town, super popular. all about adventure. >> he was awesome. >> he jumped into the culture. >> kind of liked to show off to the girls.

>> they were neighbors down the block, a family in fear. >> they had their vehicles broken into. she was scared. >> someone was sneaking into their home and now someone was in their garage. >> i'm sitting there panicking like he's coming at me. >> in a flash, it was over. that charismatic kid, dead-on the floor. >> it was terrible. i screamed for hours. >> what happened in this that garage that night? >> it was the last person that would come to my mind. >> a neighbor protecting his home. >> he makes a statement, it's show time. >> it's show time? >> exactly. >> no one would be the same. >> we were all taken aback. >> hello and welcome to dateline extra. i'm tamron hall. he came to america as an adventurous exchange student. he took one risk too many and it cost him his life.

the events that unfolded on that fateful night ignited a heated international debate. was it someone acting in self defense or a homeowner protecting his property or something more deliberate? here's deadly exchange. >> it's a dilemma that confronts every teenager. how to simultaneously fit in with your friends and rebel against everyone else. that is made easier by the knowledge of certainty that you are going to live forever. >> kids do dumb stuff all the time. >> sneaking out of the house in the dead of night to meet other teenagers and to drink, party, or just hang out. that's nothing new. usually teens sneak back home safely. this was not one of those times. >> i thought it was a joke and i couldn't believe it.

>> i was freaking out. i was like it can't be, it can't be. >> it was april 2014 when two bright foreign exchange students living in montana slipped out of their home. >> he is facedown and barely breathing. >> minutes later, their amazing american adventure came to a sudden and tragic end. >> where is he bleeding from? >> everywhere. >> it was horrific. >> no one knew that someone would die over it. >> it was the worst thing that could have ever happened to us. >> it all began so differently for him. a dream come true. he was an exchange student from hamburg, germany, excited to soak up anything and everything american. at 17, he landed in a special corner of the west. montana. >> he was charismatic. >> dana, anna and chance were three of his closest friends at

big sky high school. >> he was way different than all of the other foreign exchange students that usually come. he was way outspoken and outgoing and jumped right into the culture. >> he wanted to do everything there was to do. >> he was a terrific athlete. >> uh-huh. >> it was no coincidence that the teacher recruited him also happened to be the school's soccer coach. >> no holes barred. just go get it done. that's how he played. the guys were immediately like this guy is cool. kind of a bad as. >> he was a stocky kid. liked to lay people out. >> he was tough for sure. he threw down. >> and according to his friends, his soccer skills and his good looks definitely helped him with the opposite sex. >> he was always talking to girls.

here in america and back home in germany. >> a man of the world. >> other soccer girls said he would never miss a chance to take his shirt off when he was running around the field. they knew he was going to put on a show. >> he lived with his host parents, randy and kate in the prospect neighborhood, a hilly subdivision of mi sula. >> you could see he was a terrific kid. >> he called you mom and dad? >> he became our son. no doubt about it. >> he was more than just a fun kid. he was engaged in the world. >> this was not your typical american teenager who wants to talk about sport stars and maybe the latest fashion. >> not at all. >> it's like what do you think about the situation in ukraine? >> by the end of the school year in 2014, he had a solid circle of friends.

this exchange student was from ecuador. >> he had the same personality with the same wishes and dreams. >> they were a package deal. >> you see one, you see the other. >> yeah. >> saturday, april 26th was no different. the boys spend the evening playing video games and listening to music in randy and kate's basement. >> i went down at 10:30 or so that night and told him maybe crank the music down a little bit. >> around midnight, he was bored and restless and suggest he and robbie take a walk. >> i said i'm really tired. he was like okay. >> while kate and randy slept upstairs, they slipped out the backdoor for a walk around the neighborhood and headed up a nearby hill and turned on to deer canyon road.

robbie said he suddenly walked in a different direction and robbie lost sight of him. >> he was not coming where i continued walking. >> he called out to deer an, but he figured he would catch up. >> that is when i heard someone yelling i see you there or something like this. after that is just the shots. like three or four shots. i just started running. >> gunshots in a quiet residential neighborhood. a now terrified robbie ran back home. >> he was faster than i am. i said he is probably coming. i was almost sure he was coming. >> deer an wouldn't return and what happened to the german exchange student would simultaneously make headlines around the world. and get americans asking, how far can you go to protect your

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. >> welcome become to dateline extra. violence is a rare thing in mi sula, montana. they pride themselves on being a great city to raise children. not a place where teenagers might be shot to death. when gunshots pierced the still of the night, it caused a stir in big sky country. here again is josh with deadly exchange.

>> sunday morning was less than an hour old when the sound of gunshots ricochetted from the prospect neighborhood. >> 911, what are you reporting? >> a robbery. >> what's going on? >> somebody entered our garage. shots were fired. >> a robbery was rare in prospect, but a shooting was unheard of. dash cams captured the chaos as responders raced to the scene. it was all happening a few hundred feet from where foreign exchange student diren dede lived. >> i heard four loud pops. bang, bang, bang. three closing to and then another bang. >> he heard the sounds.

>> i wanted to make sure i could put my hands on roby and diren. >> he said where is diren? >> he said he didn't know. i thought that was weird. i looked in the rec room and didn't see diren and i came back and said what's going on? where is diren? >> robbie fessed up. he and diren sneaked out and he said diren walked off on his own and robbie said he heard gunshots. alarmed, randy woke up his wife. the three of them went to deer canyon road. >> how far away from your house is this? >> 80 yards, something like that. the next street above ours. >> this is a neighbor's house. >> the neighbor's house. we were hoping diren would walk out somewhere. show up and come out the door. >> i walked up to the police

officer and gave a name and description and she kind of went just wait here for a second. they came back and said i think you guys need to go to the hospital. that it wasn't good. as soon as she said that, i thought we just passed an ambulance running up there. he must have been in the ambulance. >> what happened on that quiet street? did diren and robbie stumble into a burglary in progress or violent home invasion. the police asked robbie to answer questions while kate and randy rushed to the hospital. >> it wasn't long after that the er doctor came out and explained his wounds were fatal and he was no longer alive. >> a terrible feeling. >> horrible. i went outside the hospital many times and just screamed.

we lost our son. i'm sorry. when they brought us in to identify his body, it was horrific. looking at his beautiful body no longer complete was terrible. i think i screamed for hours. >> diren dede would never make it to his 18th birthday. >> i thought it was a joke. nothing like this has remotely happened to me or anything here growing up. it was obviously a shock. >> it was just like the last person that would come to my mind, i guess. >> the soccer coach assumed what happened happens to his star player, it wasn't diren's fault. >> i was trying to imagine did

he go to a party and was he in downtown and got in a scuffle? i didn't understand. >> what are did happen? police concluded only one person was shot. the intruder mentioned in that 911 call. >> who got shot? >> the robber. he is badly injured. >> they entered your garage and who shot him? >> my husband. >> cops quickly learned those who thought they knew diren well could scarcely imagine. he was not a random innocent victim. the young exchange student was the apparent opposite. he was the burglar. >> someone was trying to break into your car right now. >> police are about to hear the story from the man holding the gun that night. a family under siege. >> we have been sketched out. i'm on edge about everything. >> coming up -- >> they had their vehicles

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>> welcome back to dateline extra. a homeowner was telling a terrifying tale of being victimized in his own home. a tale that ended with the death of a german exchange student. investigators would try to determine if the homeowner's actions were on the right side of the law or if you cross the line. we return to josh with deadly exchange. >> a high school exchange student from germany had been shot and killed in an apparent burglary in a neighbor's garage in the quiet town in montana. diren dede was dead and police are investigating. >> do people shoot burglars in their homes? >> no, it doesn't happen.

>> the police department detective has a case. he was interviewing the man who pulled the trigger. >> i'm a detective. >> the homeowner was marcus kaarma. they were looking for a quiet, safe and kid-friendly place to raise their child. police spoke with janelle at the scene and recorded their talk with kaarma at the station. >> so we want to talk about what happened tonight at your house. the couple told investigators that the story began with a burglary three weeks earlier and ten days after, the burglars returned. >> in their garage which was unharmed. the burglaries remain unsolved.

>> you have pretty much been living in fear and it sucks. to know we are being watched and targeted in knowing how hard it is for you guys to catch a burglar with no evidence. >> kaarma said they no longer felt and were terrified they would be robbed again. >> we have been sketched out and i'm on edge about everything. >> the couple even e-mailed neighbors to warn them about the string of burglaries and suggest everyone lock their cars and garages. >> having somebody burglarize you is a terrible feeling and they feel violated and angry. >> yes, i agree. >> that's not uncommon for people to be upset and vigilant after a burglary. >> the more time that passed, the more fearful marcus and janelle said they became. in part because he was a

seasonal firefighter and would have to travel for work soon, leaving mother and child alone for months. >> she was scared that marcus was going to be going off on a seasonal employment here soon. >> so kaarma told police his wife decided to put together a homemade security system that would warn them if kbrth intran intruder showed up. >> she placed a baby monitor on the east wall of the garage. >> a video baby monitor. >> when the alert sounded, they could see what the baby monitor could see. >> all of that was connected through a smart phone app. when the motion sensors were triggered, they viewed live video. that saturday night, they were trying to relax after putting their son to bed. >> i had gotten the movie,

lincoln. i'm not sure the time. it was dark outside. we went inside and had a smoke in the garage like we always do. we would leave the door open to air it out. >> five minutes later an alert from the motion sensors. someone was in the driveway. an intruder. perhaps the same one who targeted them before. these photos are from the home security system. that's diren entering the garage. marcus kaarma said he grabbed a loaded shotgun he had for protection. >> i'm staring at the lock on the front door and i can't tell if it's locked or not. i'm starting to shake at that point. the adrenaline is coming like oh, my god, these guys came back to the house. >> he said his wife stayed back while he went out the front door and turned towards the garage. >> a few quick steps, you saw

where the truck was parked with my butt touching the grill guard. that's where i stood. she flipped on the light. >> he told the detectives he was blinded by the sudden light. >> a piece of metal hit the cement or a piece of metal hit a piece the metal and sounded like a metal wrench being picked up or maybe the ax. >> he did the only thing he could to protect himself. >> immediately i fired into the right corner of the garage. i think in total four rounds were shot. all directly. one, two, three, four. >> what right do i have to shoot someone who entered my house? >> you have the right to use any

force necessary in defense of yourself, but no greater force. >> this was a burglar who broke in and you don't know who he is. you know it's somebody you don't know and they have crossed that invisible line from outdoors to indoors. they are by that definition alone, i would say a threat to me. >> you have to be able to articulate the threat. >> kaarma said there was a real threat. the garage was full of tools he could grab and use against him. >> i imagine him hitting me in the skull. >> he was positive he heard that scraping sound moments before he fired the shotgun. >> i'm describing the sound. i picture i'm going to die. >> to hear marcus tell it, it was kill or be killed. that was justifiable homicide.

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pence asking the crowd to pray that he and his family make america proud. the airport back in business today and frights resumed earlier tonight. nearly 24 hours after the turkey military's failed coup attempt. the carriers are flying through, others are waiting one more day to be safe. now back to the regular programming. >> welcome back to dateline extra. marcus kaarma said he was living in a state of fear, but his answers raised more question to what happened in that garage and what was diren dede doing there in the first place. they needed to learn more about the german exchange student. here again is deadly exchange. >> the exchange student was two months away from returning to his family in germany.

the man who shot him said he feared hear his and from diren's best friend robbie, police learned the dean did enter the garage to steal. as robbie described it, diren was not the first kid to go sneaking into unlocked garages. he said the kids were not after money, credit cards or valuables. this stunt happened often enough that it had a name. garage hopping and the target was usually beer. >> the reason for garage hopping or shopping was for kids to look for alcoholic beverages. >> that was not on anybody's radar? >> i had not heard of garage hopping. >> these friends said they had not been it, but know people who have? >> you know people who have? >> yeah. >> they understand it's illegal.

>> yeah. they are like hey, dude, this is a way for to you get extra beer. on a saturday night. >> did you think to yourself, that could have been me? >> no one knew. they wouldn't say don't walk into that garage or someone might chute. >> diren had done it before, but never taken cash or valuable property. >> he was not a criminal. he was a kid trying to have fun and doing what the other guys do. trying to be part of them. >> was it really that innocent? true or false, diren was committing a crime? >> he was. >> entering someone else's home, even the garage is a crime. even if the door is open. >> if his life was threatened, he had the right to shoot, didn't he? as police went over kaarma's

story about what happened before the confrontation, something spilled out. he was describes how his wife first noticed someone was approaching their garage. >> she was like it's show time. i see something. a flashlight. >> he said janelle makes the statement it's show time. >> suggesting what? they had been getting ready for this all night? >> that seemed like an interesting statement to me. it's show time. >> it didn't fit with someone terrified in his own home. then he told police he took his time going out to confront the intruder. >> i stood up off the couch and slowly walked over towards the front door and she was like hold on, hold on. >> that might make you wonder, without that time to think, why not stay inside and lock the doors and call police? >> i think the easiest thing you can do, once they were aware

that someone is outside, call 911. >> while kaarma said he feared for his life, they found no weapon or ax or tool near the body. the teen was unarmed. another red flag. he said he couldn't see into the garage. cops talked to the doctors who treated diren and examined the shotgun patterns on the garage wall. >> he said he can't see anything yet he is able to track a moving person in the garage and hit of. i didn't believe he was randomly shooting. >> i didn't look like a justifiable shooting. >> it is looking like a deliberate homicide. >> the county detective agreed. the detective delivered the news. >> we talked to a prosecutor and she wants you to be taken into

custody. that's what's going to happen. >> for what? >> for homicide. >> what? >> seemingly stunned he borrowed the phone to call janelle. >> i'm being charged with murder. no. >> he was pretty surprised. >> he was surprised and he was very emotional at that point. that's the most i saw marcus be emotional during this whole investigation. >> diren's host parents had a tangle of emotions as they processed what police said happened. >> not the kid we knew. i wouldn't expect that. >> they were disappointed with diren's actions, but livid with kaarma's. >> i got more and more angry that that happened. who thinks like that? >> just that -- why?

it was the why at that point. why would someone feel compelled to do this. >> marcus kaarma faces a deliberate homicide charge for killing a 17-year-old german exchange student. >> many were outraged he could be arrested for defending his family and property. this is a crime reporter. >> some people were like of course i could shoot somebody in my home. that was in the beginning of the case. i received a lot of angry phone calls and they were afraid this would intrude on their own rights to protect their home with a gun and their own gun rights. >> the german press also followed the story closely. their take echoed the thoughts of many this this country. that diren was the victim of an american cowboy culture that glorifies gun violence. >> they were incredulous that somebody could shoot somebody

for coming into their house. they didn't understand how that worked in montana. >> this is america, not germany. aren't you allowed to protect yourself? your home? your family? was even that on trial now? dogma and ka arma are about to collide. >> this is your house. you defend it. he knew it was a kid coming in his garage. >> i heard the kid yelling, no, no, please. >> did diren plead for his life? when date line extra continues. you're here to buy a car.

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was afraid for his live after a series of break-ins. did a phone call tell a different story. was he afraid or angry and vengeful. we pick up the story. >> marcus kaarma went on trial for the murder, seeking justice for their son, diren's parents were befriended by the same group of kid who is loved their boy. >> we met their parents and they were awesome. they were a lot like diren. >> his parents watched as the man who shot their son faced the charge of deliberate homicide. the defense team led by paul ryan, that was out right excessive. >> he was a man who was fearful. >> he laid out a narrative. marcus was twice a victim of

burglars reasonably thought diren was another one and dangerous. >> he thought he was dealing with drug seeking type individuals that were erratic and who knows how they were going to respond. >> he told the jury his client had reason to believe diren was armed and ready to attack. >> because he felt his life was threatened by the movement specifically of mr. dede and he had to take the steps unfortunately to take his life. >> the danger of a burglar is when there was a confrontation and they want to skep. do whatever they can to get away. >> the defense said there was no debate over one central fact. diren dede went into the garage to steal. on the stand, kaarma's lawyer got his friend to admit he didn't see much wrong with garage hopping.

>> he never felt like it was a crime. >> you warned him and told him it was not right and it was determiningous. >> yeah. i understand on this way, but he maybe didn't understand. >> they suggested that diren was part of a local burglary ring that was stealing more than just beer. he may have been behind the previous break-ins at the kaarma house. >> they all knew each other and went to big sky. >> the police never investigated the burglaries at kaarma's house. with no arrests, his client was left in a fearful agitated state. a psychiatrist said he had high magnitude stress. >> your body changes how you react to things. fight or flight. they came forward. >> he can't control it. his body went into fight mote.

>> he felt threatened in his home and it was within his legal rights to shoot under something called the castle doctrine. >> the legislature made decision that is it should be easier to protect yourself within your house. you may or might not like it. i never asked to you like the law and the judge doesn't either, but you have to follow the law. >> the defense attorney insisted that marcus ka, arma was guilty of nothing more than protecting his family. >> this is your house. you defend it as you choose to defend it. >> by the time the defense rested, those closest to diren thought the lawyers had redefined what the case was about. >> he got lost in all of this. >> a lot of stuff i heard made him sound like a sort of foreigner who came here to stir the pot and make trouble. >> and commit crimes.

>> yeah. >> to the prosecutors, the real criminal in this case was marcus kaarma who was, plain and simple, a murderer. >> the fact is that the defendant was angry and vengeful. he knew it was a kid coming in his garage. he has his 12 gauge in his hand and he waits. >> to counter the defense's suggestion that diren was part of a ring of thieves targeting marcus kaarma, they tracked down the teen who is hit the garage. the ones who took the cash and the credit cards. >> hoe had a bong and a jar of weed and alcohol. >> did you know a man named diren dede. >> not personally, no. >> was he involved in a burglary ring? >> no. >> did he fear hear his life? ballistics told the story.

the first shot to hit diren was to the back of his left arm, meaning he couldn't have been charging towards marcus kaarma. >> he had to make that final blow. >> the final shot was straight to the head. prosecutors weren't done. they had what they thought was explosive evidence. just before the trial began, a recording surface made of a conversation an officer at the scene had with janelle. in it she reveals that just before the final shot, she heard diren beg for his life. >> i heard the kid yelling no, no, please. and by then there was already a shot fired. >> the prosecution said after the shooting, kaarma sounded like a man who was proud of himself. >> there is an article online already that comments are all in

your favor? >> really? >> this is a jail house phone call between kaarma and his wife. >> why is he being charged this is [ bleep ]. >> yes! >> tomorrow morning will you buy 100 copies or something? >> what are? >> record the local news on and keep the newspapers from tomorrow. >> he seemed to be very proud of that fact very remorseful. >> was this premeditated murder? the only other witness to the shooting was about to tell her story. >> coming up -- a purse left as bait? >> the purse was for them to take. >> one more revelation. >> he was sitting up for nights with a shotgun. >> a hairstylist provides the most hair raising testimony of all. when dateline extra continues.

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now it was the prosecution's turn. here's josh with the conclusion of deadly exchange. >> marcus kaarma was on trial for killing an unarmed teenager in his garage. the prosecution was going to argue that not only was the shooting unjustified, it was planned, premeditated murder. they put his wife on the stand as a reluctant key witness. janelle said the same thing she and the defendant said all along. they were living in fear of intruders. >> literally every day i was

like a paranoid person looking over my shoulder all the time. very worried all the time. >> 'did they leave their garage wide open on the day of the shooting? especially after they warped their neighbors to keep their garages locked. janelle said they smoked cigarettes in the garage and wanted to air it out. >> i believed it would be my right to have my garage door open to air out for a few minutes at a time. >> the prosecution argued that janelle and her husband left the door open on purpose because they were setting a trap. janelle denayed it, but admitted he deliberately left a purse in the garage with items in it that could be traced back to her. the prosecution said that was bait. >> you wanted to catch him and that's why you got the purse. >> the purse was for them to take so we didn't come out of

the house and i called the police and say here is something traceable. >> an open door and a purse in plain sight. janelle and her husband set the stage and waited and watched. so when diren walked in, they were not scared. they were excited. >> r she was like show time. >> on the stand, janelle denied saying those words. >> do you remember saying show time when you saw somebody outside. >> no. that's not usually words i would use. >> in court janelle changed her story about what she heard in the garage that night. now denying that diren had been pleading for his life. >> then i heard the kid yelling, no, no, no, please! >> the question was you never heard him say a word. >> right. >> i sort of get the feeling she didn't do you a lot of favors on

the witness stand. >> no, she didn't. >> she denied saying something that could be played on tape. >> janelle talks a lot and as a defense attorney that doesn't work out. >> janelle was never charged in the case. >> why wasn't janelle charged? >> she wanted to dach and identify the burglar. >> they had no evidence that janelle knew her husband was going to harm someone. what exactly was marcus kaarma thinking? they brought in two witnesses to support the argument, but the shooting was nothing short of a planned execution. >> he said he was sitting up for three nights with a shotgun waiting to kill some f-ing kids. >> marcus got his haircut days before. she said he can't in ranting about the recent burglaries and his chilling plan to fix them. >> i did say oh, my gosh, have you called the police and he

said the f-ing police will not do anything about it. he mentioned he wouldn't mind if a couple did come by because he wouldn't mind shooting them also. >> the coworker said she heard it too. >> he was going to kill them. take care of it. >> did he use those words? >> i think it was fix it. >> do you recall him saying anything else? >> he said i'm not kidding. you will see this on the news. >> say that. >> i'm not kidding, you are seriously going to see this on the news. >> it's intent to kill. he is announcing it. >> lying in wait. >> and he is teletelling them, you wait and see. you will see this on the news. >> that's a defense attorney's nightmare. your client told somebody else i am going to commit this crime and they are later charmed with that crime. >> as the trial came to an end,

his friends gathered to support his visiting patients. >> a huge group of kids came and we went to support on the last days. we filled up the seats with i don't know how many kids. >> a tree in front of our house became the memorial for diren and more and more things showed up. we felt more and more loved by people than they ever have. they were trying to show support for us. >> jurors had to consider the law and nothing else. here's how the prosecution laid it out. >> the issue in this case. what the defendant believed at the time he shot and killed diren. was that belief reasonable and was the deadly force used necessary? that's your issue. >> jurors went to deliberate and after hours over two days, they returned to court. >> we the jury find the

defendant marcus kaarma guilty. >> the courtroom erupted in applause and in tears. his host parents still feel the raw pain of his death. >> nothing brings diren back. it's still heart breaking that someone felt compelled to do this. >> would you be host to another foreign exchange student. >> no. our heart is too broken. couldn't do it. >> two months after the verdict, marcus kaarm addressed diren's family at the sentencing hearing. >> i took another man's life and i'm sorry. i did what i felt was necessary to protect my family and myself. i hope that no one else finds themselves in the position that i was in. >> he was sentenced to 70 years in prison.

>> i almost wish he never said sorry. it was so empty and his face had no expression. we were all taken aback. i was like take it back. there was no meaning in that. >> they said garage hopping is no longer popular. >> have attitudes changed about all of that? >> of course. >> i haven't heard a thing about it since. >> it's unheard of. >> now it is. >> yeah. >> diren's friends hope people will forget the one deadly mistake diren made and remember instead the bright charming guy they loved. >> you are all pretty young to have to go through this. do you feel like this changed you? >> yeah. >> 100%, yeah. every day you wake up and you think something like that could happen. you need to do things that matter. >> life is a little more precious. >> uh-huh. he is encouraging us to do a lot of things and still pushing us.

>> that's all for this edition of dateline extra. i'm tamron hall. thanks for watching. i told myself the worst part about dying is being afraid of dying. if i'm not afraid, it won't be so bad. i just couldn't believe this was the way it was going to happen. >> she was a college student found on a lonely road in texas. >> we figured that she had been sexually assaulted and dumped here. >> tough questions for her boyfriend. >> where was i the night before and what d