toughness? >> from her. >> from maribel. >> yeah. >> that's all for this edition of "dateline extra." i'm tamron hall. thanks for watching. i'm craig melvin. >> and i'm natalie morales. >> and this is "dateline." >> he was definitely charismatic. >> he was the new kid in town, super popular. all about adventure. >> this kid was, like, awesome. he just jumped right into, like, the culture. >> kind of liked to show off a little bit to the girls. >> reporter: they were the neighbors, just down the block. a family in fear. >> they had had their vehicles broken into. she was scared. >> reporter: someone had been sneaking into their home. and now someone was in their garage. >> i was sitting there panicking

like, he's coming at me. >> that charismatic kid, dead on the floor. >> it's terrible. i think i screamed for hours. >> what happened happened in that garage that night? >> it was just like the last person that would come to my mind. >> reporter: a neighbor protecting his home, or preparing a trap? >> makes the statement, "it's show time." >> it's show time? >> exactly. >> reporter: a teenager, a father, a murder. no one would be the same. >> we were all like taken aback. welcome to "dateline." he came to america as an adventurous exchange student. but dieren dede took one risk too many. here's josh mankiewicz with "deadly exchange."

>> reporter: it's a dilemma that confronts every teenager. how to simultaneously fit in with your friends and rebel against everyone else. that two-step is made a little easier by the knowledge, maybe the certainty, that you're going to live forever. >> kids do dumb stuff all the time. >> reporter: and so sneaking out of the house in the dead of night to meet other teenagers to drink, party or just hang out, well, that's nothing new. usually teens sneak back home safely. this wasn't one of those times. >> i thought it was some kind of, like, joke. i, like, just couldn't believe it, really. >> i was just freaking out. i was like, "it can't be. it can't be." >> reporter: it was april 2014 when two bright foreign exchange students living in montana slipped out of their home. >> he's lying face down. he's barely breathing. >> reporter: just minutes later, their amazing american adventure came to a sudden and tragic end.

>> where is he bleeding from? >> um, everywhere. >> it was horrific. >> no one ever knew that someone would die over it. >> it was just the worst thing that could have ever happened to us. >> reporter: it all began so differently for diren dede. a dream come true. he was an exchange student from hamburg, germany, excited to soak up anything and everything american. at 17 diren had landed in a special corner of the west -- missoula, montana. >> he was definitely charismatic. >> reporter: dana, anna, and chance were three of diren's closest friends at big sky high school. >> he was way different than all of the other foreign exchange students that usually come. he was really outspoken and outgoing, and he just jumped right into, like, the culture. >> he wanted to do everything there was to do in missoula. >> and he was a terrific athlete? >> uh-huh. >> reporter: it was no

coincidence that jay boystrom, the teacher who recruited diren to big sky, also happened to be the school's soccer coach. >> no holds barred, just go get it done. and when diren played that's how he played. i think the guys were immediately, like, "this guy's cool," you know kind of a bad ass. >> he was, like, pretty stocky kid. liked to lay people out. yeah. >> he was tough. >> yeah. >> for sure. he threw down. >> reporter: and according to his friends, diren's soccer skills and his good looks definitely helped him with the opposite sex. >> he was always talking to girls. i mean, here in america and the girls back home in germany. >> a man of the world. >> exactly. >> yeah. >> the other soccer girls always said that he would never miss a chance to take his shirt off when he was running' around the field. because they knew that he was going to put on a show for them. >> reporter: diren lived with host parents randy and kate in the prospect neighborhood, a hilly subs vision of missoula. >> he was just such a terrific

kid. you could see that right off the bat. >> and he called you mom and dad? >> he did. he really became our son. there's no doubt about it. >> reporter: but diren was more than just a fun kid. he was engaged in the world. >> this was not your typical american teenager who just kind of wants to talk about, you know, sports stars and, you know, maybe the latest fashion and, you know -- >> no, not at all. >> no, it's like -- "so what do you think about the situation in ukraine," you know? >> reporter: by the end of the school year in 2014, diren had a solid circle of friends. he was tightest with another exchange student, this one from ecuador -- robby pazmino. >> we had so many things in common. the same personality with the same wishes and dreams. >> they were a package deal. >> you see one, you're going to see the other? >> oh, yeah. >> reporter: saturday april 26th was no different. the boys spent the evening playing video games and

listening to music in randy and kate's basement. >> i went down 10:30 or so that night and told them maybe crank the music volume down a little bit. >> reporter: but around midnight, diren was bored, restless and suggested he and robby take a walk. >> and i was kind of, "i'm just really tired, diren." "like, come on." it's like, "okay." >> reporter: so while kate and randy slept upstairs, robby and diren slipped out the back door for a walk around the neighborhood. they headed up the nearby hill and then turned onto deer canyon road. then, robby says, diren suddenly walked off in a different direction and robby lost sight of him. >> i was like, he's not coming. i continue walking. >> reporter: robby says he called out to diren but there was no answer, so he kept walking, figuring diren would catch up. >> that is when i heard someone yelling, "you're there. i see you there."

something like that. after that just the shots, like, three or four shots. and i just start running. >> reporter: gunshots in a quiet residential neighborhood. a now terrified robby ran back home. >> he was faster than i am. i said, he's probably coming. i was almost sure that he was coming. >> reporter: but diren wouldn't return. and what happened to the german exchange student would simultaneously make headlines around the world and get americans asking how far can you go to protect your home and family? coming up -- >> 911, what are you reporting? >> a robbery. >> an urgent call to 911. >> someone has entered into our garage. shots were fired. >> when "dateline" continues.

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sunday morning was less than an hour old when the sound of gunshots ricocheted through the prospect neighborhood of missoula, montana. >> 911, what are you reporting? >> um -- a robbery. >> ok what's going on? >> someone entered into our garage. um, shots were fired. >> someone just got shot.

>> reporter: a robbery was rare in prospect but a shooting was unheard of. dash cams captured the chaos as first responders raced to the scene. >> stay to the right. >> what's the number? >> stop, stop! >> reporter: it was all happening just a few hundred feet from where foreign exchange student diren dede lived with his host family. >> i kind of woke up with a start. heard four loud pops, bang, bang, bang fairly close together and then a pause and another bang. >> reporter: randy heard the sirens and got out of bed. >> so i went downstairs, just to make sure i could lay my hands on robbie and diren. >> and he came downstairs with me and he's like, "where's diren?" >> and he said he didn't know. >> he didn't know? >> and i thought that was kind of weird. and i looked in the rec room and didn't see diren. and i -- so i came back to him. i says, "what's going on? "where's diren?" >> reporter: robby fessed up. he and diren had sneaked out.

he told randy how diren had walked off on his own, and then robby said he'd heard gunshots. alarmed, randy woke up his wife and the three of them went to deer canyon road. >> how far away from your house is this? >> 80 yards, something like that, directly above. it's just the next street above ours. >> so this is a neighbor's house. >> it's a neighbor's house. >> reporter: but when they got there, police stopped them. >> we were just hoping diren would just walk out somewhere, walk -- you know, show up and -- and come out the door. >> not around the back door -- >> reporter: i walked up to the police officer, gave them the name and description. and that's when she kind of went, "well, just wait here for a second." >> and then came back and said, "i think you guys need to go to the hospital," and -- that it wasn't good. and soon as she said that, i thought, "gosh, we just passed an ambulance running up there. and he must have been in the

ambulance. >> reporter: what happened on that quiet street? did diren and robby stumble into a burglary in progress? or some violent home invasion? the police asked robby to answer some questions, while kate and randy rushed to the hospital. >> it wasn't long after we got there that the er doc came out and explained that his wounds were fatal and that he was no longer alive. >> terrible feeling. >> it was horrible. i went outside the hospital many times and just screamed. i -- and i -- it was -- we lost our -- our son too. i'm sorry. when they brought us in to identify his body, it was horrific, looking at his beautiful body no longer complete. it was terrible.

i think i screamed for hours. >> reporter: diren dede would never make it to his 18th birthday. >> i thought it was a joke. i was like, "there's no way possible. nothing like this has remotely happened to me. or, like, kind of anything in missoula growing up. and so it was just -- it was obviously a shock. >> it was just, like, the last person that would come to my mind i guess. >> reporter: diren's soccer coach assumed that whatever happened to his star player, it wasn't diren's fault. >> i'm trying to imagine, did he go to a party and get shot by another kid? was he downtown missoula and got in a scuffle? i didn't understand it, i was >> so what did happen? police on the scene quickly concluded only one person was shot, the intruder mentioned in that 9 is 1 call. >> who got shot? >> the robber. he's badly injured.

>> okay. so they entered your garage, and who shot him? >> my husband. >> reporter: and cops quickly learned something those who thought they knew diren well could scarcely imagine. diren wasn't a random, innocent victim. the young exchange student was the apparent opposite. he was the burglar. >> she's like, "someone's trying to break into your car right now." >> reporter: police were about to hear a story from the man holding the gun that night. a story of terror and a family under siege. >> and we've been sketched out, we don't feel safe, i'm on edge about everything. >> coming up -- >> two frightened homeowners, victimized two times before. what had happened inside that garage? coming up -- >> i'm sitting there panicking, you know. like, he's coming at me. >> when "dateline" continues. copd makes it hard to breathe. so to breathe better, i go with anoro. ♪ go your own way copd tries to say, "go this way." i say, "i'll go my own way, with anoro."

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a high school exchange student from germany had been shot and killed during an apparent burglary inside a neighbor's garage in the quiet town of missoula, montana. now diren dede was dead and police were investigating. >> does that happen a lot here, people shoot burglars who are in their homes? >> no. it doesn't. >> reporter: missoula police department detective guy baker had the case. soon he was interviewing the man who'd pulled the trigger. >> hi, markus. >> hello, sir.

>> i'm guy baker, i'm a detective. >> reporter: the homeowner was markus kaarma. kaarma and his common law wife, janelle pflager, had just moved to missoula. they were looking for a quiet, safe and kid-friendly place to raise their child. police spoke with janelle at the scene and recorded their talk with kaarma at the station. >> uh, so what we want to talk about is what happened tonight at your house. >> reporter: the couple told investigators the story actually began with a burglary three weeks earlier. and then just ten days after that, the burglars returned. >> somebody had trespassed in their vehicles and in their garage, which was unlocked. >> reporter: cash, credit cards and a cell phone were taken. the couple filed a police report, but the burglaries

remained unsolved. now markus kaarma said he feared they were being targeted. >> we've pretty much been living in fear and it sucks. and to know that we're being watched and targeted and knowing how hard it is for you guys to actually catch a burglar with no evidence. >> reporter: kaarma said they no longer felt safe in their own home and were terrified they'd be robbed again. >> we've been sketched out, we don't feel safe, i'm on edge about everything. >> reporter: the couple even e-mailed their neighbors to warn them about the string of burglaries and to suggest everyone lock their cars and garages. >> having somebody burglarize you is a terrible feeling. and it does leave people feeling violated and angry. >> yes. i would agree. >> so that's not uncommon, for people to be upset and extremely vigilant after a burglary. >> i would agree. it's not. >> reporter: the more time that passed with the burglars at large, the more fearful markus and janelle said they became. in part because he was a seasonal firefighter and would have to travel for work soon, leaving mother and child alone for months. >> she was scared that markus was going to be going off on a seasonal employment here soon.

>> reporter: so kaarma told police his wife decided to put together a homemade security system that would warn them if another intruder showed up. >> she's got motion sensor one, motion sensor two. >> she had placed a baby monitor on the east wall of the garage. >> a video baby monitor? >> once the alert sounded due to the motion detector, then they could see what the baby monitor could see. >> reporter: all of that was connected through a smartphone app, so when the motion sensors were triggered, an alert would allow them to view live video of their garage. that saturday night kaarma said they were trying to relax after putting their son to bed. >> i had recorded the movie "lincoln." we were watching that. about a third of the way through that, not sure what the time was, it was dark outside, but

you know, we went outside and had a smoke in the garage like we always do. we usually leave the garage door open to air it out. >> reporter: but five minutes later, an alert from the motion sensors. someone was in the driveway. an intruder. perhaps the same one who'd targeted them before. these photos are from the home security system. that's diren entering the garage. markus kaarma says he grabbed a loaded shotgun he had for protection. >> i'm sitting there with the shotgun in my hand and i'm staring at the lock on the front door and i can't tell if it's locked or unlocked. and i'm starting to shake at that point, you know, the adrenaline's coming, like, oh my god, these guys actually came back to the house. >> reporter: kaarma said his wife stayed back, while he went out the front door and turned toward the garage. >> a few quick steps around my front, and you saw where my truck was parked, pretty much with my butt touching my grill guard, that's where i stood. and then she flipped on the light. >> reporter: kaarma told the detectives he was blinded by the

sudden light and realized the only one way for the intruder to get away was to go past him. then -- >> i heard something move, like, a piece of metal hit the cement. either that or a piece of metal hit a piece of metal, it sounded like either a metal wrench being picked up or maybe the axes. >> reporter: so markus kaarma says he did the only thing he could to protect himself. >> immediately i fired high up into the right corner of the garage. here i am looking at my garage, i think a total of four rounds were shot. all directly, one, two, three, four. >> if i live in montana, what right do i have to shoot someone who has entered my house? >> you have the right to use any force necessary in defense of yourself, but no greater force. >> okay. but, i mean, this was a burglar who had broken in. you don't know who he is.

you know it's somebody that you don't know. and they have crossed that invisible line from outdoors to indoors. and they are, by that definition alone, i would say, a threat to me. detective guy baker: >> well, you've got to be able to articulate the threat. >> reporter: and kaarma told investigators there was a real threat. the garage was full of tools the intruder could grab and use against him. >> i imagine an axe flying through the air and hitting me in the skull. >> reporter: and kaarma said he was positive he heard that scraping sound just moments before he fired the shotgun. >> i'm describing the sound when i say it hit -- >> okay. >> but what i am picturing in my head is i'm going to die. >> reporter: to hear markus kaarma tell it, he'd faced down a threat. it was kill or be killed. and that was justifiable homicide. and the young soccer star who was by now in the morgue, must have had a darker side that many didn't see. detectives decided to dig deeper

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his family says he has surpassed expectations and made his usual strength of will. now back to "dateline." >> welcome back. i'm craig melvin. homeowner marcus kaarma told police his story that he was living in a state of fear, but his answers raised more questions. what really happened in that garage? and what was diren dede doing there in the first place some? e to find out the truth, they needed to learn more about the exchange student. >> when he was killed in a neighbor's garage, exchange student diren dede was just two months away from returning to his family in germany. the man who shot him said he feared for his life, and from diren's best friend robby, police learned the teen did enter the garage to steal. as robby described it, diren was

not the first kid in missoula to go sneaking into unlocked garages. he said the kids weren't after money, credit cards or valuables. this stunt happened often enough that it had a name -- garage hopping. and the target was usually beer. >> the reason for garage hopping, or garage shopping, i've heard it called both, was for kids to go in and look for alcoholic beverages that they could easily get and take. >> until this shooting, that sort of wasn't on anybody's radar in law enforcement? >> no. i had not heard of garage hopping. no. >> reporter: these three friends of diren's say they've never gone garage hopping. but they know all about it. >> you all know people who do it? >> yeah. >> or have done it? >> yeah. >> right? they understand it's illegal? >> uh-huh. >> but it seemed harmless? >> yeah. exactly. i mean, it's just -- >> they're like, "hey, dude, this is a way for you to get some extra beer." you know, when you're -- on a saturday night. >> i mean, did -- did you think

to yourself, you know, oh my god. we didn't tell him how dangerous that could be? >> but no one knew. no one ever -- >> no one thought it was -- >> ever be like -- >> it's like -- "oh, hey, don't walk into that garage" you never know if someone's going to shoot you. >> reporter: robby told police diren had done it before but never taken cash or valuable property. >> he wasn't a criminal. he was, like, a kid. he was a kid trying to have fun and fit in the group doing what the other guys do, trying to be part of them. >> reporter: was it really that innocent? >> true or false, diren was committing a crime. >> he was. >> entering somebody else's home, even their garage, that's a crime? >> yes. >> even if the door's open? >> yep. >> reporter: and if kaarma's life was threatened, he had the right to shoot. didn't he? but as police went over kaarma's story about what happened just before the confrontation, something stood out, when kaarma was describing how his wife first noticed someone was approaching their garage. >> she's like, "show time." she's like, "i see something, a

flashlight." >> he said janelle makes the statement, "it's show time." >> it's show time? >> exactly. >> suggesting what, that they had been getting ready for this all night? >> that seemed like a very interesting statement to me, "it's show time." >> reporter: it didn't seem to fit with someone claiming to be terrified in his own home. then kaarma told police he took his time going out to confront the intruder. >> i stood up off the couch and just kind of slowly walked over towards the front door. and then she's like, "hold on, hold on." >> reporter: all of which might make you wonder, with all that time to think, why not just stay inside, lock the doors and call police? >> i think the easiest thing that could've been done is once they were aware someone was outside, being alerted by the tones on their phone, they call 911. >> reporter: and while kaarma said he feared for his life, police found no weapon, no ax or tool near diren's body.

the teenager was unarmed. and another red flag. kaarma said he couldn't see into the garage. but cops talked to the doctors who treated diren and they examined the shotgun pellet patterns on the garage wall. >> he says he can't see anything. yet, he's able to track a moving person in the garage and he hits him two out of four times. >> one, two, three, four. >> i didn't believe that he's just randomly shooting from right to left. >> and so you're thinking to yourself this does not look like a justifiable shooting? >> no. at this point, it's looking like we have a deliberate homicide. >> reporter: the county attorney's office agreed. detective baker delivered the news. >> so we just talked to a prosecutor, she wants you to be taken into custody, so that's what's going to happen. >> for what? >> for homicide. >> what? >> reporter: seemingly stunned, kaarma borrowed the detectives phone to call janelle. >> babe.

>> hi. >> being charged with murder. >> you're joking. >> no. how is that deliberate homicide? >> it's just the way the statute reads. >> he was pretty surprised. >> yeah. he was surprised. and he was very emotional at that point. that's the most i saw markus be emotional during this whole investigation. >> reporter: diren's host parents had a tangle of emotions as they processed what police said had happened. >> not the kid we knew. wouldn't expect that. >> reporter: they were disappointed with diren's actions but livid with kaarma's. >> i just got more angry and more angry that -- that happened. and i mean, who thinks like that? >> just why? it was the why at that point. you know, why would someone feel compelled to do this? >> markus kaarma faces a deliberate homicide charge for

killing a 17-year-old german exchange student -- >> reporter: many were outraged that a homeowner could be arrested for defending his family and property. >> reporter: kathryn haake is a crime reporter at the local missoulian. >> some people were, like, "well, of course, i could shoot somebody in my home." and -- and that was definitely in the very beginning of the case. >> i received a lot of angry phone calls from people. a lot of people were afraid that this would intrude on their own rights to protect their home with a gun and their own gun rights. >> reporter: the german press also followed the story closely. their take echoed the thoughts of many in this country, that diren was the victim of an american cowboy culture that glorifies gun violence. >> and they were really incredulous that somebody for coming into their house. they just didn't understand how -- how that worked in montana. >> reporter: but this is america, not germany. aren't you allowed to protect yourself? your home? your family?

was even that on trial now? dogma and kaarma were about to collide. >> coming up -- battle lines are drawn. and a revealing recording. >> then i heard the kid yelling, "no, no, no, no, no. please." >> did diren plead for his life? when "dateline" continues. ahh... summer is coming.

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dede's death, markus kaarma went on trial for his murder. seeking justice for their son, diren's parents traveled from germany to a montana courtroom, where they were befriended by the same group of kids who had loved their boy. >> a lot of us got the chance to meet his parents when they came for it, and they were really, really awesome. they were a lot like diren. >> reporter: his parents watched as the man who shot their son faced the charge of deliberate homicide. to kaarma's defense team, led by attorney paul ryan, that was outright excessive. >> it was a man who was fearful. >> reporter: ryan laid out a basic narrative -- markus karma, twice a victim of burglars, reasonably thought diren dede was another one, and dangerous. >> he thought that he was dealing with drug seeking type individuals that were erratic and who knows what they -- how they were going to respond. >> reporter: he told the jury that his client had reason to

believe diren dede was armed and ready to attack. >> and because he felt his life was threatened by the movement specifically of mr. dede, he had to take the steps, unfortunately, to take his life. >> the danger of a burglar is when there's a confrontation and they all want to escape and they'll do whatever they can to get away. >> reporter: the defense said there was no debate over one central fact -- diren dede went into that garage to steal. and on the stand, kaarma's lawyer got diren's friend robby to admit that, despite warnings, diren didn't see much wrong with "garage hopping." >> i think diren never felt like it was a crime. >> but you were warning him. you were telling him it wasn't right, it was reckless, it was dangerous. right? >> yeah. yeah. like, i understand on this way. but he maybe didn't understand. >> reporter: in fact, the defense suggested that diren was part of a local burglary ring that was stealing more than just beer, and may have been behind

the previous break-ins at the kaarma house. >> they all knew each other. they all went to big sky. >> reporter: defense attorney ryan argued the police never really investigated those burglaries at kaarma's house. and with no arrests, his client was left in a fearful, agitated state. a psychiatrist who examined kaarma diagnosed it as high-magnitude stress. >> your body changes dramatically as far as how you're reacting to things. fight or flight. and while some people may have retreated or called the police or whatever, he came forward and confronted the individual. >> he can't control it. his body went into fight mode. >> reporter: the defense said kaarma felt threatened in his home, and was within his legal rights to shoot, under something called the castle doctrine. >> the legislature has made decisions that it should be easier to protect yourself within your house. you may or may not like the castle doctrine. i never asked you to like the law.

and the judge doesn't either. but he says you have to follow the law. >> reporter: defense attorney ryan insisted that markus kaarma was guilty of nothing more than protecting his family. >> this is your house. you defend it within your house as you choose to defend it. >> reporter: by the time the defense rested, those closest to diren dede thought that markus kaarma's lawyers had redefined what this case was about. >> who diren was kind of got lost in all this, didn't it? >> uh-huh. >> a lot of the stuff that i heard and read made him sound like some sort of just, like, foreigner who came here to, like, stir the pot and make trouble. and actually -- >> and commit crimes? >> right. yeah. >> reporter: but to prosecutors andrew paul and jennifer clark, the real criminal in this case was markus kaarma, who was, plain and simple, a murderer. >> the fact is that the defendant was angry and vengeful. he knew that it was a kid coming in his garage. he has his 12-gauge in his hand

and he waits. >> reporter: to counter the defense's suggestion that diren was part of some ring of thieves targeting markus kaarma, investigators tracked down the teens who had hit kaarma's garage. the ones who took the cash, credit cards and -- >> he had a bong and a jar of weed. and some alcohol. >> did you know a man named diren dede? >> not personally, no. >> to the best of your knowledge, was he involved in a burglary ring? >> no. >> reporter: so, did kaarma really fear for his life that night? prosecutors said ballistics told the story. the first shot to hit diren was to the back of his left arm, meaning he couldn't have been charging towards markus kaarma. >> and then he's got to do it one more time. he's got to make that final blow. >> reporter: and the final shot was straight to the head. but prosecutors weren't done. they had what they thought was

explosive evidence. just before the trial began, a recording surfaced from the night of the shooting. a conversation an officer at the scene had with janelle. in it she reveals that just before the final shot she heard diren beg for his life. >> and then i heard the kid yelling, "no, no, no, please." and then -- but by then, there was already a shot fired. >> reporter: and the prosecution said that after the shooting kaarma sounded like a man who was proud of himself. >> there's an article online already and the comments are all in your favor. >> really? >> reporter: this is a jailhouse call with his wife, talking about the news coverage. >> "why is he being charged?" this is bull [ bleep ]. why is --

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♪ >> welcome back to "dateline". markus kaarma's defense tried to paint a picture of a man exercising his rights when he shot an unarmed teenager. now it was the prosecution's term to convince the jury he was a man bent on revenge. here's josh mankiewicz with the conclusion of "deadly exchange." >> reporter: markus kaarma was on trial for killing an unarmed teenager in his garage. the prosecution was about to argue that not only was the shooting unjustified, it was planned, premeditated murder. to prove it, they put the defendant's wife, janelle pflager, on the stand as a reluctant key witness. she told the jury the same thing

she and the defendant had said all along. they were living in fear of intruders. >> literally every day i was like a paranoid person. i was looking over my shoulder all the time and very worried all the time. >> reporter: so then, why did they leave their garage door wide open on the day of the shooting? especially after they'd warned their neighbors to keep their garages locked? janelle said they smoked cigarettes in the garage, and wanted to air it out. >> i believe that it would be my right to have my garage door open to air out for a few minutes at a time especially when i'm there. >> reporter: the prosecution argued that janelle and her husband left the garage door open on purpose because they were setting a trap. janelle denied it but admitted, she deliberately left a purse in the garage with items in it that could be traced back to her. the prosecution said that was bait.

>> you wanted to catch him. that's why you got the purse. >> the purse was for them to take so they didn't come into the house and so that when i called the police and i say here is something traceable. >> reporter: so an open door, and a purse in plain sight. the prosecutor said janelle and her husband set the stage, then waited and watched. so when diren walked in, they weren't scared, they were excited. >> she's like, show time. >> reporter: on the stand, janelle denied saying those words. >> do you remember saying, "showtime," when you saw somebody outside? >> no, i don't remember saying that. it's not usually a common phrase that i use. >> reporter: in court, janelle also changed her story about what she heard in the garage that night, now denying that diren had been pleading for his life. >> then i heard the kid yelling, "no, no, no, no, no! please!" >> my question was, your

testimony here today is that you never heard him say a word. >> right. >> i sort of get the feeling janelle didn't do you a lot of favors on the witness stand. >> no, she didn't. >> she, you know, denied saying something that could be played on tape. >> right. yeah, janelle talks a lot. and you know, as a defense attorney, that often doesn't work out very well. >> reporter: janelle was never charged in the case. >> why wasn't janelle charged in this? >> in her statement to the officers, she wanted to catch the burglars. she wanted to identify them. >> reporter: prosecutors say they had no evidence that janelle knew her husband was going to harm someone. so what exactly was markus kaarma thinking? prosecutors brought in two witnesses to support the argument that the shooting was nothing short of a planned execution. >> he said he'd been sitting up for three nights with a shotgun, waiting to kill some f'ing kids. >> she works in the salon where markus karma got his hair cut just days before the shooting. the woman said kaarma came in ranting about his recent

burglaries, and his chilling plan to fix them. >> i did say to him oh, my gosh, you know, have you called the police? and he says the police will not do anything about it. and then he had mentioned that he wouldn't mind if a couple did come back because he wouldn't mind shooting a couple of them also. >> her co-worker told the jury she heard it, too. >> he was going to kill them. take care of it. >> did he use those words, "take care of it"? >> i think it was, "fix it." >> do you recall him saying anything else? >> he said, "i'm not kidding. you will seriously see this on the news." >> say that one more time. i can tell you're nervous. >> "i'm not kidding. you're seriously going to see this on the news." >> it's intent to kill, right? he's announcing it. >> he's lying in wait. >> and he's telling them, "you wait and see, you're going to see this on the news." >> that's a defense attorney's nightmare, is testimony that your client told somebody else,

"i'm going to commit this crime," and then they're later charged with that crime. >> correct. >> reporter: as the trial came to an end, diren's friends gathered to support his visiting parents. >> there was a huge group of kids who went to the closing statements. so we went to support them on those last days. we filled up the stands with -- or the -- the seats with i don't know how many kids. >> a tree in front of our house became, essentially, the memorial for -- for diren. and more and more things showed up that -- so we felt more and more loved by missoula than we probably ever have. you know, just because they were trying to show support for us. >> reporter: but jurors had to consider the law and nothing else. here's how the prosecution laid it out. >> the issue in this case, what the defendant believed at the time he shot and killed diren dede. was that belief reasonable? and was the deadly force used necessary? that's your issue. >> jurors went to deliberate.

and after eight hours over two days, they returned to court. >> we the jury, all of our number, find the defendant, markus hendrik kaarma, guilty. >> reporter: the courtroom erupted in applause and tears. and while they say the verdict was a relief, diren's host parents still feel the raw pain of his death. >> nothing brings diren back. and so it's still -- it's just heartbreaking that someone felt compelled to do this. >> would you be host to another foreign exchange student? >> no. my -- my heart's too broken. i couldn't do it. >> reporter: two months after the verdict, markus kaarma addressed diren dede's family at the sentencing hearing. >> i took another man's life and i'm sorry, i can't change that. i did what i felt was necessary to protect my family and myself. and i hope that no one ever

finds themself in the position that i was put into. >> reporter: the judge sentenced him to 70 years in prison. >> i almost wish he never said sorry. because it was so empty and his face had just no expression. it was, like, scary almost. we were all like taken aback. i was like take it back. there was no meaning in that. >> reporter: and they say garage hopping is no longer popular. >> have attitudes changed about all of that since then? >> of course. >> yeah. i haven't heard a thing about it since. >> it's unheard of. >> now it is? >> yeah. >> reporter: diren's friends hope that people will forget the one deadly mistake diren made, and remember the bright, charming guy they loved. >> you know, you're all pretty young to have to go through this. you feel like this has changed you? >> yeah. >> one hundred percent. yeah, every day you wake up, you think, obviously, something like that could happen and you need

to, like, do things that matter. >> life seem a little more precious now? >> uh-huh. >> he's encouraging us to do a lot of things. and i think he's still pushing us. >> that's all for this edition of "dateline." i'm craig melvin. thank you for watching. ♪ >> i'm craig melvin. >> and i'm natalie morales. >> and this is "dateline." >> one woman, two men. her husband, the air force captain, and the staff sergeant, her rendezvous man. >> he was a playboy himself. >> one man too much. then suddenly, there was within man less. >> it wasn't like, bang, bang, bang, bang. it was bang, pause, bang, pause. >> which sounds like what,