of "dateline" extra. i'm craig melvin. thanks for watching. what goes on behind the closed doors of a marriage is not always apparent to the outside. >> my wife fell asleep in the bathtub. i just came up here, and she was laying face down in the bathtub. >> something wasn't right. she was just unconscious. >> a beaming bride. a haunting death. >> he was just telling me he could never ever love another woman as much as he loved her. >> what had happened? >> did she have an aneurism? did she have a seizure? >> police were baffled. >> i expected something to be wet. i expected there to be water on the floor. >> things were not adding up.

>> something was screaming to me, "something's bad, wrong." >> could this death have been deliberate? >> she was murdered. >> i love sarah. i would never have hurt her. >> i started crying because i just felt so bad for him. >> there's just no chance he had anything to do with it. >> three trials, three juries. >> we're scared that the truth may not come out. the bathtub mystery. hello and welcome to "dateline" extra. i'm craig melvin. sarah and ryan witmer were newlyweds. sarah stee sar sarah mysteriously drowned in the bathtub. ryan claimed it was an accident. to investigators their stories did not add up. was this a tragic mishap or was something more sinister at play?

it would take years. here's dennis murphy. >> reporter: sometimes the shades are drawn early in a marriage even for a young couple so in love like newlyweds sarah and ryan. everything in life was still fresh. at home on your average monday night. after his workday as a sports planner, ryan says he plopped down on the sofa, on an august night to chill with the bengals preseason opener against green bay. sarah, he says, went upstairs to draw a bath in the master. she liked her calming baths. the young dental hygienist had been tormented with more headaches that afternoon. the young couple in the suburban cincinnati home that evening had been married for just under four months. 114 days to be exact. they vowed till death do us part. and that moment was only minutes away from arriving. they had begun the two of them with a blind date at a pub that

worked out. sarah, sarah stewart had been fixed up by her friend, dana. dana had an inkling that sarah would really hit it off with her husband's former roommate ryan willmer >> i came home. i said sarah is amazing. i think their personalities would get along. let's see what happens? >> what happened over drinks and nibbles was chemistry. laid back ryan, the college jock, and super organized, who needed everything just so talked about getting together. she said let me check my book. she gets out her little black book. she's looking through. he is peeking over looking. he said, later he calls us and tells us there was nothing written in her black book. >> it was a fast track courtship, and before very long, ryan was bringing his new gfr home to meet his mom, jill. >> i liked her a lot. probably number one thing that struck me the most was how -- beyond her years in maturity she

was. >> poised, huh? >> yeah. sarah didn't have a problem telling anyone anything. so if you made sarah mad, you knew you made sarah mad. >> as for ryan he never seemed to lose it. >> never seen him upset. he doesn't get mad. >> he is so laid back and easy going, go with the flow. she is so on it organized this is where we have to be? he just says okay. >> jill enjoyed her days with ryan and his new girlfriend, sarah. >> our family tends to do a lot of barbecues and picnics and things like that. we would spend some time down on the lake in kentucky. they would come down there. >> were you pleased she was becoming a serious part of the family? >> i was very pleased, yes. >> reporter: the couple bought a nice four bedroom house together in a good neighborhood and ryan surprised sarah with an engagement ring. >> he put the ring in a dog's collar. that's all i know. >> she was very excited. he was excited. sarah made him happy. >> reporter: soon the wedding

invitations were in the mail. the bridesmaids knew they better snap to. >> she is a planner. she had everything ready to go. wanted to make sure the girls wore the same eye shadow. she gave us makeup kits for the wedding so we all looked the same. >> how was ryan doing? >> he was just as happy, i mean, happier than i have ever seen him with her. >> reporter: it cost sarah a big screen tv to seal the deal. but she got ryan to take ballroom dance lessons for the wedding. >> i was amazed. >> never in a million years would i think -- >> reporter: your son at dance lessons? >> she could get him to do more things than any woman he had ever dated. ♪ >> reporter: the wedding in april 2008 was a formal affair. the bride was beautiful. ryan's dance came off without a hitch. and the happy brides maids all matched just as sarah wanted. >> very beautiful. i mean every detail was planned obviously to a "t" because it was sarah. and she was gorgeous. >> it was awesome. >> probably the most fun wedding we had ever been to, ever.

>> reporter: the newlyweds went to costa rica for their honeymoon and had a great time. then it was back to cincinnati to begin their journey together as mr. and mrs. ryan widmer. >> they worked really hard. built a beautiful deck. had a trip planned to cancun. they had everything to live for. >> reporter: august 11th should have been another day on the calendar in a young marriage? >> yes. >> august 11th, monday night. ryan remembers being downstairs watching "monday night football." and sarah had gone upstairs to her bath. she was in trouble. >> 911, what is your emergency? >> my wife, she fell asleep in the bathtub. i think. i went downstairs. i came up. she was laying face down in the bathtub. >> i got a call it was ryan. something has happened to sarah. >> emts were rushing sarah to the hospital. by then they worked on her for 45 minutes. but hadn't gotten a response. minutes later, jill was with her son waiting anxiously together in a room off emergency.

>> finally, a woman came in and then we said is she gone? and she said yes. and he just dropped down to his knees and was just bawling and sobbing into the chair. >> reporter: sarah widmer, 24 years old, the bride of less than four months, was dead. her husband ryan told the emergency services people he thought she had fallen asleep in the bathtub and drowned. but those emts doing cpr trying everything they could to save her didn't understand one crucial observation they made at the home that night. there is something here that doesn't look right. >> coming up, a drowning in a dry bathroom? >> i expected something to be wet. there's a towel on the floor, a mat on the floor, but everything is degree. >> the questions deepen when the bathtub mystery continues. myste. oh, hey jeff, i'm a car thief... what?! i'm here to steal your car because, well, that's my job. what? what?? what?! (laughing) what?? what?!

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expect. when you are a cop more than a decade you become familiar with the signs of the drowning like the froth about the victim's nose and mouth. >> your mind starts running immediately about possibilities. they initially tell me i have a 24-year-old drowning victim that died in the tub. i'm thinking that we will find evidence of something. you know, we're going to find some drugs or evidence of an overdose or something. as he pulled up the victim was already loaded in the back of the back of the ambulance. the arriving police officer was still inside the house. and he gave the detective a fill on what he had found when he was led to the master bedroom where the 24-year-old woman lay on the carpet off the bath. >> he felt for a pulse. he assisted with cpr on what he described as a completely dry body with her hair being only damp. >> wet head, dry body. >> that's correct. >> for someone who drowned in a bathtub full of water? >> yes. >> go ahead and get her out of bathtub and get her on the flat surface. >> okay, okay. >> the 911 dispatcher had been

quite clear about it. >> he had instructed the husband to get his wife out of the bathtub and put her on the floor. >> i'm dropping the phone. >> the husband went away and came back to say he moved his wife from the tub to the bedroom. >> go ahead and get back to cpr. try cpr. we'll be there in a little bit. >> reporter: the detective wondered along with the emts and arriving officers why a woman who drowned in a bathtub would be mostly dry. he needed to see the scene. what story would it tell him. >> i start mentally preparing myself based on what they told me. what do i want to see versus what do i see? >> he headed for the master bathroom. >> i expected something to be wet. >> i expected there to be water on the floors or towels or whatever it might be. it's simply not there. >> dry-dry. >> there is a small remnant of water, what you might call droplets on the bottom of the tub around the drain. other than that there is nothing. >> you got any bath mats. wet towels on the floor. >> there is a towel on the floor. a mat on the floor. but everything is perfectly dry.

>> reporter: he had a drowning victim that didn't appear to be wet. someone that supposedly fell asleep in the tub and pitched facedown in the water, but a bathroom that was dry and undisturbed, even though presumably the husband had to wrangle her limp body out of the tub as he moved her to the bedroom. >> whether it's lotions, soap, whatever is on the side they weren't knocked off. that bothered me if you are pulling somebody quickly out of the tub. that's still together. >> the detective making mental notes. >> something was screaming to me something is bad wrong, something bad really, really, really bad has happened here. more so than just a tragic accident where she drowned. >> the forensic techs arrived and were taking photos. cutting out sections of the bedroom carpet where the mixture of blood and fluid common in drownings had stained it. what they wondered was there another explanation for the stains. >> we wanted to get those things to our lab right away to start checking out some things.

>> reporter: though it was early hours in an incident. so much would depend on the findings of an autopsy, the detective knew this was not a case that was going to be closed out that night. >> when i left the house at 2:00 a.m., i knew i had a suspicious death. still there were questions -- how long had sarah been out of the tub? and had she been out of the tub long enough for her body to air dry? >> it wasn't possible. you know if you are pulling somebody directly out of a tub of water the body has to be wet. there's no other way around it unless a substantial amount of time has passed or we're not being told an accurate story of what actually transpired. >> question -- was it possible for ryan to lift sarah out of the tub without knocking over those bottles that the detective noted were undisturbed? was it possible for water not to be splashed around as she was moved to the bedroom? and that overriding question -- what had happened to the young wife in the master bedroom? >> we knew that she had drowned just from the scene itself. it was the matter in which she drowned that had raised all the

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>> reporter: sarah widmer had died of drowning in her home. and her body would be examined by the coroner. there was nothing for ryan, her husband of four months, to do but leave the hospital and head home. his mother, jill widmer took him back to the house in the wee hours. ryan asked me, mom i can't go back in there. can you go in and grab clothes for me. so i went upstairs. when i got to the bedroom, there were a couple of pieces of

carpet cut out of their carpeting, which i thought was odd. >> it hadn't occurred to mother or son that the authorities were looking at sarah's death as anything but a tragic explainable incident of some sort. >> there were a million questions in our mind, did she have an aneurysm, did something medically happen to her? did she have a seizure? >> reporter: day light and word was spreading that sarah was gone. dana and chris, the couple who had fixed the newlywed up could not believe what they were hearing. >> we had just gotten back from a trip and told her i would call her as soon as we got back and we would get together to dinner. i didn't get a chance to do that. >> shocking news to say the least. shocking news. >> reporter: dana, a nurse, tried to make sense of what had happened to her dear friend. she thought back to her last conversations with sarah. >> she was complaining of headaches, saying what do you think of her medical background? i said, maybe you should get your blood pressure checked, i said, you should get a checkup. >> there was that funny trait sarah used to have that people would kid her about, that she

would fall asleep at the drop of a hat. well, maybe that wasn't so funny. maybe that was a part of an underlying condition that explained her death. her mother-in-law noticed it when she first got to know sarah. it was christmas 2007, and jill was taking home videos. >> all of a sudden i panned over. there's sarah having a good time at the family christmas. and sarah was sound asleep in a chair in the family room. >> we were 15 or 20 people in a room and we were laughing, talking. kids running around, and sarah went to sleep. >> sarah snoozing in the car. friends kidded her about it. >> she would always fall asleep at the beginning of movies, we would be nudging her, sarah, wake up. was so so noticeable you guys were joking about it? >> >> even at the dinner table, we would be saying, sarah, don't fall asleep. >> i would say, sarah, you have narcolepsy. she said, no. had sarah fallen asleep and

drowned in the tub? was that even possible to do? ryan seemed to think so. he said as much to the 911 dispatcher. >> my wife fell asleep in the bathtub, i think she's dead. >> but all the observations about sarah was just anecdotal information, not the stuff of real medical investigation. the medical examiner would have the first real results about sarah's death. what was he finding? >> no evidence of stroke, no evidence of a heart attack. >> but the medical examiner had discovered something else. bruising to sarah's head and neck. what had caused those injuries? the investigators checked off what they had so far. a young woman supposedly drowned in the bathtub with a damp head of hair and a dry body. it didn't figure. >> if you're pulling somebody directly out of a tub of water, the body has to be wet. there's no way around it. >> a woman with unexplained bruises. and a husband whose story they didn't believe. >> ryan's story doesn't fit at all.

we determined at that point we had a homicide. >> sarah widmer murdered, and the authorities believed her husband ryan did it. >> how shocking is that to you? >> oh, i can't even tell you. >> to charge ryan with murder? >> you've got to be kidding me. like, why would they think -- why? and i can't even tell you what that was like. so on top of losing this beautiful member of our family, he didn't even get a chance to grieve because now we're scared to death and he's scared to death that he's going to be charged with murder. >> reporter: and that is exactly what would happen. just two days after his new bride's death, a warrant was issued for ryan wid mer's arrest. >> by ryan's own admission he was the only one in the house, so ryan murdered sarah or he's covering for somebody that did. >> reporter: it didn't seem possible at first glance, a clean cut young couple, him without a criminal record of any

kind, them with no clear cut history of arguments, no problems in their marriage. where was the motive for murder on a monday night? >> any boyfriend, girlfriend issues here? >> there was no evidence whatsoever to point that there was a girlfriend, boyfriend. >> money trouble? >> not that we could find. >> did you find any anger issues in the guy? >> no, no. >> you're really not getting a negative picture of this couple? >> no, we're not. >> reporter: as unlikely as it may have seemed, police said there was no ere explanation for sa sarah's death. ryan widmer was charged with his wife's murder. >> this is the state of ohio versus ryan k. widmer. >> his family and friends were devastated. >> ryan and i were both so brokenheart brokenhearted, i could not ever have conceived, nor could ryan that they would have had any idea that he would have been the person to hurt her and that it wasn't just a tragic accident. >> it broke my heart knowing that he was feeling that grief and fear for his own life too. >> is there any moment where you

think maybe i don't know the guy? maybe there was this instant of something awful happened? >> never. never i've never even seen anything where he was remotely angry. >> even sarah's family was behind ryan, so much so the two families decided to delay sarah's funeral until ryan was out on bond. >> sarah's family were very lived about the fact that he wasn't guilty, and they were not going to go forward with the service until ryan could be there. >> the families are both on the same page here? >> yes. >> that you're four square behind ryan, and you're not even going to grieve together formally until he's there with you. >> the dead woman's brother asked the judge to lower ryan's bond amount so he could attend the funeral. >> in our heart of hearts we don't believe ryan did this. >> but eight days would pass before the judge lowered ryan's bond from a million dollars to 400,000. by then it was too late. the funeral had already been held so out of town relatives could return home.

>> it was a nice ceremony. her brother got up and said a few nice words, and i know that ryan wrote a letter that was read during the service. the minister that did their wedding did her funeral as well. >> reporter: chris and dana grooe grieved for sarah, but also tried to comfort a shattered ryan. >> i remember him telling me, dana, i love her so much. >> reporter: ryan was so distraught he felt he couldn't go back to the home he'd bought with sarah. so while he waited for his trial date, he moved in with his mother. >> it was great to have him staying with me but. >> there's only one topic in the household. >> well, there's two, one was continuing to talk about how much we missed sarah, trying to grieve for her, but at the same time this young man who lost the love of his life, he's trying to grieve for his wife, and he's got a murder charge hanging over his head that he might go to prison for the rest of his life. >> ryan widmer why couldn't everyone see that he loved his wife and that she died a death

that perhaps even a medical examiner could never satisfactorily explain but that it wasn't murder? >> coming up, the case goes to court and out comes the evidence. >> it would be virtually impossible for somebody to fall asleep and not wake up. >> and later, ryan widmer speaks out. >> so you think they wanted to make a case? >> why would they arrest me a day after if they didn't want to make a case? >> when the bathtub mystery continues.

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i'm milissa rehberger. the government shutdown enters its 12th day at the top of the hour. nancy pelosi says on thursday democrats will pass measures to reopen the government, but they won't include funding for a border wall. the president's invited pelosi and other congressional leaders to the white house for a briefing on the wall tomorrow. the family of an american arrested in russia on spying charges is speaking out saying his innocence is undoubted. back to the bathtub mystery. welcome back to "dateline" extra. i'm craig melvin. as sarah wid mmer's relatives ld her to rest, her husband ryan sat in a jail cell. investigators weren't buying his story. soon a surprising ally would bolster their case, a family member rethinking an incident

that may not have been so innocent after all. had trouble been brewing in this seemingly happy marriage? here again is dennis murphy. sarah was wonderful. the most loving person. she was just a great person. >> sarah widmer had been a daughter, a wife, a loyal friend in her brief life. but in death, to those who would never know her, she would become simply the victim. the case could be summarized as breezily as the title of a true crime paperback, the bathtub murder. radio host bill cunningham could feel the court of public opinion responding to the story. the bathtub murder case had the phone ringing. >> the idea that such a young man could be watching a bengals game and within a few seconds turn from a ben gal's fan long suffering to a murderer was a little bit shocking. for months, listeners debated

whether the husband could have done it? >> i had a large number of callers who said to me, he didn't do it. he doesn't fit the profile. there's no history. i said to them wait a minute, wait until the trial takes place. i'm led to believe there's going to be clear and convincing evidence. >> seven months after sarah's death, the only jury that mattered was sworn in to hear the case against 28-year-old ryan widmer, a charge of aggravated murder. his friends stuck by him. >> his life hangs in the balance. >> that's a scary thought. there is a chance he could go to jail. in the courtroom sarah's family sat across the room from ryan's, much as they had the previous year during the couple's fairy tale wedding but now sarah's family's support for him had eroded. for ryan's mom that was another unexpected twist in a situation that seemed to get stranger by the minute. >> i see my scared baby is what i see. he was scared to death.

>> the prosecution's message for the jury was blunt. there had been a violent confrontation in the widmer house that night. >> ryan widmer purposefully killed sarah stewart widmer and murdered her by drowning. >> the prosecutors began with the first moments of the case, ryan's call to 911. >> my wife, she fell asleep in the bathtub. i just came up here, and she was laying facedown in the bathtub. >> on the stand, the emergency dispatcher testified that the voice on the phone that night was giving more details than normal. >> it seemed that the caller was rather calm. usually i can't get, you know, anything out of them. >> she's in the bathtub? >> yes, the water's draining right now. i was out there watching tv. she falls asleep in the tub all the time. >> to prosecutors john arnold and travis view, the husband was trying to place himself as far away as possible from the bathroom where sarah had died. >> he really gives very little information about her condition.

it's really more important for him to say i twlunwasn't there,i really don't have anything to do with this. >> and could sarah even be dead facedown in the bathtub? could a body contort that way? >> that seems an odd position for somebody who's, quote, fallen asleep, to be facedown with your face near the faucet almost bent into. >> in terms of the possibilities of how the enclosed space of the bathtub is shorter than she is long. >> we're not talking about a mansion whirlpool tub here? >> right so much more was based upon the observation of the first arriving officers and emergency responders. they noted not only was ryan not wet, this man who had lifted his wife's body out of the tub just minutes before they arrived, sarah was also mostly dry. >> i noticed that her body was dry. her hair was damp. >> and others on the scene corroborated this observation, damp head, dry body. >> things were not adding up.

it would seem to me her body would have been wet. the floor would have been wet. the carpet would have been wet. >> you're talking about from the time he says i'm taking her out of this bathtub to the time that other people are there, her hair is described as simply damp, not even wet. the carpet's not wet. there's not water dripping off of her hair onto the rest of her body. the floor's not wet. >> and the officer noticed something else, the victim's fingers and toes. we all know what happens to them when they've been soaking in a bathtub. >> it was my understanding that she'd been in the water for 20 to 30 minutes. and i would have thought that her fingers would have been pruned up. her toes would have been pruned up. >> and did you see any indication of that? >> no. >> reporter: from simple observations, the murder case had grown. the jury was being told that ryan wid mer's story didn't jive with what officers on the scene had taken note of like the bathtub and surrounding tiles that should have been soaking wet but weren't, and that implicitly raised a question for the jury. is it possible that this young woman who drowned had never been

in the tub in the first place? >> bottom line is there would have been water everywhere. if there wasn't, it was cleaned up, and if there was a cleanup, then there was something to hide, and that was her murder. >> and an expert witness for the prosecution spoke to the issue of whether a person can actually fall asleep and drown in a bathtub. her testimony was no, that can't happen. >> it would be virtually impossible for somebody without the influence of drugs or alcohol or something external to fall asleep and not wake up. so first the sensation of water on your face would wake you up. two, would be the gag reflex, water entering your airway, just choking, and then three, if for someone reason that didn't, the drop in oxygen would cause you to stimulate and wake up. >> but maybe sarah hadn't fallen asleep. perhaps she'd suffered a catastrophic but perfectly natural event, something to her heart, her brain, the coroner didn't find that.

>> any evidence of heart problems? >> no. >> any evidence of brain injury or seizure? >> no. >> one of the amazing things about sarah widmer is that she had regular medical care. for a person her age she went twice in two years for a regular physical. this is not a person who didn't have the opportunity to interact with her medical profession. >> and to the coroner, the bruising he saw on sarah's neck and scalp while performing the autopsy looked ominous, the wounds too significant and not in the right spot to have been caused by emt's life saving efforts. >> the things that were the most disconcerting were the three bruises which were able to be seen on the right side of the scalp. she's got another faint bruise on her forehead. she's got this significant degree of a neck hemorrhage. she's undergone significant cpr. however, there is no hemorrhage anywhere in the area of the chest so it's difficult to try to rationalize that the

hemorrhage in her neck can be the result of cpr. >> as the coroner saw it, the significant bruising on sarah's neck was caused by ryan's forceful drowning of her. >> do you have manner of sarah'? >> yes, the manner of death was homicide. >> that took prosecutors into the realm of speculation. what had happened in the bedroom that night if sarah hadn't drowned by herself in the bathtub? this forensic pathologist had one scenario explaining a damp head but dry body. >> her head was pushed over the edge of either the bathtub or the sink or the toilet, either forwards or backwards, either in a pool of water or under running water. that's how she died. >> an expert also noted these strange prints invisible to the naked eye. he couldn't say when they were left on the tub or even that they came from sarah, but felt confident that the prints were most likely made by a small person. if ryan had forced sarah over

the side of the tub, had she tried to brace herself as she was pushed into the water? >> from my experience those look like prints that are going down in a downward motion. >> how do you fight back? do you try to keep your head out of the water? do you put your hands against the back of the tub, or do you put your hands on the bottom of the tub and try to lift out of the water? or do you grasp at somebody and lose your only hold on life? >> a stark image, the husband pushing his wife's head under water and holding her there until she drowned. >> this was a drowning. she had been subjected to forcibly holding her throat over some object to drown her. >> but the jury had to wonder what the motivation could be for such an awful crime. sarah's mother who had initially supported ryan was now testifying for the prosecution. she said that when she was out shopping with sarah, her daughter seemed to feel she needed to check everything with ryan who could see his purchases on her computer. >> she would buy something, ryan

would call her as soon as she bought it sometimes, telling her did you really need it. why'd you buy it or something? he thought she was spending too much money. >> he was very concerned about her shopping habits? >> correct. there were stresses, things going on in their family. >> but even the prosecutors had to acknowledge this didn't necessarily add up to a clear motive for murder, but they believed there were things happening in the little house that nobody but sarah or ryan knew about. >> anybody who's been married or in a relationship knows that what goes on behind the closed doors of a marriage is not always apparent to the outside. >> but was the prosecution's case too thin? too much observation with not enough persuasive hard evidence. the defense would argue passionately that it was, and that ryan had nothing to do with his wife's sudden death. >> ryan's defenders were not giving up. sarah's friends take the stand to share his side of the story. >> coming up. >> i know that she had fallen asleep in the bathtub before.

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what was the toughest thing you had to surmount? >> that we had a lovely 24-year-old woman who was dead and no one could explain why. >> the defense wasn't going to be able to tell the jury what caused sarah widmer to drown

that night. but they were going to show that ryan widmer had no reason to hurt his wife. and as far as damp hair/dry body, they would explain that. the bottom line for the defense -- >> i know one thing. ryan widmer had nothing to do with his wife's death. charlie ritgers, ryan wid mer's defense attorney argued that his client was plagued from the get-go by the unhappy choice of words on that 911 call. >> she falls asleep in the tub all the time. >> had ryan told the 911 dispatcher only that his wife was unconscious, it wouldn't have been spususpicious. >> the only thing ryan knows is she fell asleep in the tub, but they jumped on that and said he's a liar. the defense argues the coroner had been all too quick to rule her death a homicide.

>> he had no idea she had unusual sleep habits. >> remember, an expert witness for the prosecution had said it would have been impossible for sarah to fall asleep and die in the tub, but those who knew her sleep habits said it may have been a sign of an undiagnosed, underlying medical condition. sarah's boss, the dentist, testified that her quirky sleep habits were well-known around the office. >> she would normally grab a quick lunch and then go out to her car and take a nap for 30 or 45 minutes. people don't generally do that. >> and the dentist recollected that sarah hadn't been feeling well on that last day of her life. >> she had a sore throat. her stomach had been bothering her earlier in the day. >> she was still feeling crummy later that evening when she spoke to a friend. >> she had a headache and the back of her neck was hurting. i mean, she sounded tired. she didn't sound like she felt very good. >> sarah turning off the day and retreating to her bathtub, that sounded just like the sarah they knew. >> she would always leave our

house and say she had to get home because she had to take her bath. >> and sarah dozing off in the tub was a trait a friend from childhood days was very familiar with. >> she had fallen asleep in the bathtub before. we had talked about that because i had fallen asleep in the bathtub before, too. >> the sleeping habits, the headaches, the defense claimed they could very well have been the symptoms of an underlying and potential fatal condition that went undetected, something an otherwise healthy young woman wouldn't take all that seriously. and even with all their scientific art argued the defense, sometimes pathologists cannot say why a person died. >> a doctor who specializes in emergency medicine testified that unsplaexplained deaths occ far more often than many of us would guess. >> there are approximately 300,000 episodes of sudden death a year. one-third of those young people that die have normal autopsies.

>> in other words, people sometimes just die, and their autopsies may never reveal the cause, but the issue that might decide the case was the observation by the arriving officers and emts of damp hair and dry body. what looked suspicious was easily explainable said the defense, hair simply stays wet longer. >> if you get out of a swimming pool or a bathtub, your skin dries before the hair. >> yes. >> the defense told the court you have to look at the clock. the elapsed time of the incident. the defense claimed that sarah's body dried off in the time between ryan first speaking to the 911 dispatcher and when the police officer arrived, and what about the fingers and toes that should have been pruned up but weren't? well, no one knows what time sarah got into the tub. >> we don't know if she was primping in front of the mirror. we don't know any of that stuff. >> by the way suggested the defense, you can't have it both ways with the dry bathroom theory. if ryan had killed sarah in the

small bathroom, there also should have been water splashed wherever. >> if there was a violent struggle, then there would be water on the floor, on the counter, on the walls, everywhere. and if they want to claim that it was a staged scene where he cleaned up the water, well, where's the wet towel? >> and investigators looked for wet towels. in the dryer, even in the garage, nothing. and say for argument's sake there had been a struggle, you'd think ryan would have gotten scratched up as sarah fought for her life, but ryan didn't have a mark on him. >> how would sarah have reacted if she would have been attacked? >> sarah was a very spunky person, and she was small in stature, probably 5'1", i think she weighed around 140 pounds, but she wasn't frail by any stretch of the imagination. she was a strong girl. >> so she would have gone for her attacker? >> i full heartedly believe, yes. >> and sarah's french manicure

was in pristine condition. >> there was no damage tots nails. >> she had beautiful fren frencfrench man french manicured nails. >> ryan's a lot like my husband chris in the aspect of when there's an argument chris just says what can we do to fix it, and let's move on. that's kind of how ryan was. >> as far as accounting for the bruising to her neck and scalp, to the defense they were certainly caused by the emts working on sarah. >> we're talking about 45 minutes of resuscitation efforts, not fives not ten, 45 minutes. >> i was not surprised at the injuries at all based on the prolonged cpr and the number of intubation attempts. >> add it all up, injuries the result of life saving efforts,

skin that may well have dried before the authorities showed up, and you are left, the defense argued, with an unexplained death, something that experts tell you happens. and jurors, the reason you didn't hear about love affairs or out of control finances is because none of those things existed. >> motive, they don't have motive. >> it didn't add up that this man of 27 years who has never even shown anger in his entire life would all of a sudden kill his wife. it made no sense. >> i hope that you agree that ryan widmer is not guilty of any wrongdoing. >> but the prosecution would tell the jury in its closing argument that while they may never know why ryan killed his wife of only four months, that he nonetheless did and that the clock was ticking as he staged the scene before he called 911. that, they said, explains the damp hair, dry body mystery.

>> sarah widmer was either out of that bathtub for a longer period of time, had been dead for a longer period of time, or her body was never fully in that bathtub. >> and they that ryan spent so much time cleaning up the scene before he called for emts that sarah's dead body was showing signs of rigor mortis when they arrived. >> she was already dead by the time they got there. they had difficulty didn't wa baiting her, because her chin wanted to fall. >> now, it was up to the jury to decide if ryan widmer had kills his wife. coming up -- >> we're scared that the truth may not come out. we know, without a doubt, that ryan did not do this. >> 23 hours of deliberation. the verdict and the controversy. when "the bathtub mystery" continues. bathtub mystery" continues. but we can guarantee the best price on that thar rental cabin or any hotel, home, boat, yurt, whatever.

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welcome back to "dateline extra." attorneys representing ryan widmer had mounted a vigorous defense. the newly wed had no motive to kill his wife sarah, they said. she'd simply dozed off in the tub. prosecutors were equally adamant that the young man was a killer, claiming evidence at the crime scene proved it. now, it was up to the jury to decide. here again is dennis murphy. >> about the only fact of the

case that was indisputable was that sarah widmer had drowned. but was it a natural death in her bathtub. what about the suggestion, something with the heart? that the medical examiner could not find? >> her medical history is completely devoid of anything that even would suggest these things. >> or, had sarah died at the hands of her husband ryan? >> they had failed to prove their case. they failed. >> inside the warren county courthouse, the jury was out all day. the couple's friends waited. >> we're scared that the truth may not come out. we know without a doubt that ryan did not do this, and we pray to god that everyone else sees that, too. >> billy cunningham. i am a great american. >> ryan widmer might have wished the callers on billy cunningham's radio show were on his jury. >> during the trial, there was no smoking gun. >> ryan's mother agreed.

she was cautiously optimistic. >> i never let myself get cocky. i just felt that in having sat there and listened that there were a lot of holes, and not a lot of evidence. never felt like it was a slam dunk, but i felt like there was a lot of reasonable doubt. >> the jurors were hard at work. they asked for the tub where sarah had been found dead to be brought to them in the jury room. by the second day, ryan's defense attorney was getting anxious. >> when they're out more than 20 hours, it's clear that somebody's saying that this isn't as straightforward as it seems. >> correct. >> but the prosecutors weren't worried by the long jury slip ration. >> we knew it was going to be a hard case for them to weigh a lot of evidence. >> they had two counts to decide. count one, aggravated murder. did ryan premedicate the murder? and count two, non-premeditated murder. did it happen suddenly, without prior thought? finally, after 23 hours, the jurors had reached a verdict. the lawyers were summoned.

>> it's a very traumatic moment. your heart's racing. it's in your throat. and you're anxious to hear what the jury says. it's profound. >> as jill hurried back to the courtroom, outside, a storm hit with biblical fury. she saw that as an ominous sign. >> the skies just opened up. there were tornado warnings and it all just culminated when the verdict was about ready to be read. >> ryan widmer took his place at the defense table. >> the defendant will please rise. verdict on count one, aggravated murder, we the jury find the defendant ryan widmer is not guilty of aggravated murder. >> it was a moment of relief for ryan widmer. the jury did not believe that he killed his wife with premeditation. but he still faced the second count of murder. the verdict reads, we the jury in this case find the defendant ryan widmer is guilty of the lesser included offense of

murder. >> guilty. the jury had decided that ryan widmer did, indeed, murder his wife, sarah. >> mr. widmer, is there anything you wish to say? >> the accused, now the convicted, would kiss his wedding ring and then address the court for the first time. he hadn't taken the stand, as was his right. >> i loved my wife. i did not hurt her. i was never given a chance. the day after she passes away, they charge me with murder, i didn't even -- if i had an answer, i would give the answer to what happened to her, but i can't. i was not in the bathroom with her. >> he was very upset. he doubled over when addressing the court. in fact, i was surprised that he was as outspoken as he was. but he indicated to the judge and everybody that he loved sarah. he would never have hurt her. >> i love my wife and i did not hurt her. coming up -- something amiss in the jury room. >> said that two or three of the

female jurors had done home experiments where they had showered and then air dried. >> home experiments? what was that all about? ryan widmer was about to get a break. when "the bathtub mystery" continues. e bathtub mystery" continues. he's a pretty good spokesperson. ehhh. so when i say, "drivers who switched from geico to esurance saved an average of $412," you probably won't believe me. hey, actor lady whose scene was cut. hi. but you can believe this esurance employee, nancy abraham. seriously, send her an email and ask her yourself. no emails... no emails. when insurance is affordable, it's surprisingly painless.

welcome back to "dateline extra." i'm craig melvin. ryan widmer insisted to the judge that he did not hurt his

wife, sarah, but the juror had spoken, and ryan was headed to prison. then, a stunning twist. a juror troubled by an incident was about to deliver a bombshell, and it would turn this case upside down. what went on behind the closed doors of that deliberation room? with more of our story, here's dennis murphy. >> ryan widmer has been convictconvic convicted of murdering his wife, sarah, and given the mandatory sentence. he was cuffed and moved to a holding cell. >> he stopped next to me and said, can i say good-bye to my mom and he said, no, just keep moving. >> how difficult is that? >> beyond difficult. >> dana, who had set up her friend sarah with ryan, her husband's college roommate, was devastated. >> she wasn't murdered. one of my best friends. >> so, there isn't a whisper of doubt that says my best friend may have been killed by this -- >> absolutely not. >> as close as you were to her,

you still defend him? >> i do. ♪ >> my impression was that the community was stunned by the verdict. ♪ >> the verdict was so unpopular in the court of public opinion that candlelight vigils were staged to protest the jury vote. >> there has never been a case where hundreds of americans come out of their homes carrying candlelights to listen to prayers about a condemned, convicted killer. it's never happened before. >> talk radio host bill cunningham, a lawyer by training, regards himself as a hang 'em high conservative, but even he felt this was a case of justice denied. >> judging this case against 100 other murder trials, this is one of the flimsiest and one of the weakest i've seen. >> i'm the creator of the website, and --

>> someone out there following the trial was mike, a young newly wed himself, and a web page designer. he so believed in ryan's innocence that he launched a free ryan widmer website. >> the goal is for him to get a new trial. if he doesn't, i believe it's going to outrage a lot of people. >> angry citizens, taxpayers, voters. even though the real trial was over, the prosecution hadn't entirely called it quits. in their post-verdict victory lap, they spoke of things that the judge had not allowed the jury to hear. the weekend before his wife died, when she'd been away visiting relatives, they say ryan had frequented a website called adult friend finder, an organization that bills itself as the world's largest site for swingers. >> we found evidence that he'd been on the site, but no evidence that he followed through. if they were such a happy couple, why somebody on the computer looking for a hookup spot? that makes no sense to me. that would combat the idea of the happy couple. >> the judge had not allowed the

web surfing or other pornography investigators say they found on his computer to be introduced as evidence, since there was no way to know if sarah even knew about ryan's internet trolling. still, was it a sign, as the detective thought, that their marriage was not as happy as friends and family believed? >> my understanding of some of these sites, supposedly, that he visited, ended up being popups on a computer, and i'm not the most computer literal person, but i don't think the full story was told there, either. and i don't understand if they got the verdict they want, why they have to continue to attack my son and my family. >> and ryan's mother said, if the couple had fought over anything, the family would have known. sarah, always outspoken, wasn't the type to suffer in silence. >> sarah told everybody everything. she's a chatty person. she had just been with her family for an entire weekend without ryan being there. if there were any problems, believe me, they all would have known it and i probably would have known it, because sarah

probably would have called and yelled at me about something my son was doing that wasn't nice to her. >> but none of that mattered now. the jury had spoken, and defense lawy lawyers couldn't get over the guilty verdict. >> it was awful. this is -- was on my shoulders. it was my duty to my client to get a proper verdict, and i failed. >> ryan had become more than a client to him. >> i absolutely believe in him. i had him in my own, around my wife and kids. there was no question in my mind he was innocent. >> he did with lawyers often do after losing a case. he wrote a motion to have the judge let ryan go free or order a new trial. a long shot. ryan was in prison and would likely stay there. >> it's been a roller coaster ride and i can't let myself get my hopes up. >> he may be in prison for 15 years. >> he may be. and this appeal process, it can take forever.

>> in fact, as ryan widmer got processed into the ohio prison system, his case was far, far from over. the day after defense attorneys filed their motion, their fax machines spit out some shocking information. as we speak, it isn't the end of things. >> that's correct. >> the fax was a letter from a juror. >> he was having problems living with himself, he said it was a moral dilemma for him to allow it just to go without bringing up to somebody's attention. >> the juror claimed there had been forbidden monkey business during deliberations. monkey business over nothing less than the biggest issue in the trial -- damp head, dry body. >> he said that two or three of the female jurors had done home experiments, where they had showered and then air dried. >> they were testing out this theory of how quickly -- >> that's correct. >> the body dries coming out of the tub or shower? >> yes. >> at home. >> if the faxing juror was

correct, the panel had directly violated the judges instructions to consider only what they'd heard in court. the allegation was jury misconduct. a serious matter. >> attorney mark godsey runs the ohio innocence project. he saw the juror letter as a way to persuade the judge to grant ryan a new trial. >> it's unusual for a juror to reveal those kind of things. >> the judge began reviewing affidavits from the jurors about just what went on during deliberations. in one of those sworn statements, a juror said of those taboo home experiments, the times to air dry influence my decision. >> jurors are not supposed to go home and do experiments. >> in the end, the judge agreed. four months after ryan widmer's conviction, he ruled that the husband would get another trial. the not guilty verdict on the aggravated murder count, however, would remain. so, the prosecution could only retry him on the second count of unpremeditated murder. his mother scraped together

enough cash to post the $400,000 bond for him. ryan was released from prison, but by then, he'd already spent five months behind bars. the quest for justice can deplete both bank accounts and emotions. >> yes. >> how far are you prepared to go in this? >> i'm prepared to go until the day i die, if i have to live on the street at the end of this, i'm going to do whatever it takes to get my son out of this. >> and ryan and his family would end up not only at the very brink of financial bankruptcy, but at the edge of emotional collapse. >> he says he can't sleep. he says he sees her when he closes his eyeses. >> he misses her. >> everything in ryan's life was spiraling downward. he'd lost his job after the guilty verdict and was left to do odd jobs for supporters. the house he and sarah bought together went into foreclosure. and now, another jury would be asked to peer inside the mystery of a marriage and decide what exactly happened behind those closed doors on crested owl

court. the prosecutors would have to convince another jury that ryan widmer had killed his wife. it's got to be huge little frustrated. you got a guilty verdict and you got to do it again. >> on the other hand, by that point, we knew how a jury would react to our evidence. >> on the other side of the coin, the defense has seen your case. >> they certainly have. >> and they can now counterpunch. >> and we can't change it very much. >> ryan widmer trial, take two. coming up -- >> imagine ryan at 6'2" and sarah, 5'1", 5'2", and imagine them actually interacting in here. >> a new jury makes a dramatic return to the scene of the drowning. and later, ryan widmer tells his own story. >> did you kill your wife, sarah? >> no, i did not. i couldn't hurt sarah emotionally, let alone physically. >> so you're saying you're wrongly convicted? >> i'm 100% wrongfully convicted. i'm going to fight this until it's made right. >> when "the bathtub mystery" continues.

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the verdict thrown out, it would start all over again. this time a new defense team would take over ryan's case. defense lawyers jay clark and lindsay gutierrez worried that even though they were starting the trial with a clean slate of jurors, the verdict from the first trial would still hang over the accused. >> well, he's still innocent until proven guilty. everyone thinks and knows he was proven guilty. >> across the courtroom, the prosecution team was the same. and it would hammer home the argument that a healthy 24-year-old woman just does not die alone in a bathtub. >> did you see any evidence that sarah suffered a seizure that caused her death by drowning? >> no. >> sarah's body dry to the touch, the officers and emts testified. and the bathroom where her husband lifted her soaking body out of the tub, it was also not wet. >> towels, a rug, magazines, all appeared to be dry. the jury would again hear the 911 call that, to

prosecution ears, sounded odd. >> she was laying face down in the bathtub. >> the message was, my wife's dead and i wasn't around when it happened. >> but unlike the first trial, the defense lawyers asked to take the jurors to the home where ryan and sarah had lived to inspect for themselves the very bathroom where she died. the lawyers had made a pretrial visit. >> the first thing we said was, man, this is small. >> they wanted the jurors to see for themselves that this was a cramped space in a modest builder's home. >> imagine ryan at 6'2" and sarah, 5'1", 5'2", and imagine them actually interacting in here. >> it was such a small bathroom, a defense expert argued, that if there had been a violent struggle, both husband and wife would have shown more obvious bruises and scratches. >> i would have expected to see more injury if a violent struggle had occurred. >> but the prosecutors argued that widmer, in an explosion of anger, could have overtaken his

wife so quickly that she would have had no time to fight back. and in their closing arguments, they told the jurors that ryan widmer not only killed his wife but also delayed calling 911 to buy time to cover up his crime. >> things looked so nice because ryan widmer had the opportunity to reset the scene. he had time to put things back into place. >> but ryan's defense lawyers were hopeful this jury would see the case the way they did. an innocent man on trial for a murder he did not commit. >> absolutely believe him. no doubt in my mind. >> the case was given to jury number two. and it seemed as though everyone in cincinnati was on the edge of their seat, waiting for its decision. but three days into deliberations, nothing. the jurors asked to see the judge. >> there's an impasse. >> he sent them back to deliberate some more. >> it is desirable that the case be decided. >> it was turning out to be the longest deliberation in warren

county history. as the jurors left for a long holiday weekend, the specter of a mistrial hung in the air. dana and chris kist once again waited with ryan. >> we have to make sure he knows we're here. that's what we do as friends, support him and be hopeful and have the faith that this is going to turn out the way that it's meant to turn out. >> the jury returned to work on tuesday morning. but at 5:00 p.m. on the fourth day of deliberations, they asked to see the judge again. >> the note reads, we have decided that we cannot agree and that further deliberations will not serve a useful purpose. >> a hung jury. no verdict. by best count, they were deadlocked, seven guilty, one undecided, four not guilty. at a press conference, ryan's parents vowed to stand by their son. they'd already spent more than a half a million dollars on his defense, tapping out bank accounts and retirement plans.

>> we know he's innocent. >> we'll move forward. >> ryan's dad, gary, was firmly behind his son, but in another odd twist, it had taken ryan's arrest to reunite the pair. he'd been out of his son's life for 13 years, the consequence of a bitter divorce. he hadn't even known there was a sarah until he learned his son had been charged with her murder. father was reintroduced to son while ryan was in jail. this is the first meeting you've had really with your boy in a long, long time. >> through a glass wall. >> you're talking through one of the phone devices. >> yes, sir. >> that's kind of a hard thing to take right there. >> it was. it was hard, but it was so sweet to see him. >> a poignant reunion, father and son. and a father who completely believes in his son's innocence. and will do anything to help him. >> if there's any kind of avenue to take, you have to take it. it's my son. you have to take it. >> your son didn't do it. sarah widmer died for reasons unknown. >> yes. >> give yourself a round of applause.

>> and beyond ryan's family and close friends standing behind him, it was a case that had galvanized a personal army. there were free ryan widmer t-shirts and wristbands. >> he was getting a lot of support -- >> including anonymous donor said to contribute $60,000. >> yeah. >> a stranger. >> yes. >> even the prosecutors were a bit worried. so much taxpayer money would be spent on a third trial. so many ryan widmer supporters beating very loud drums. a plea deal was floated. >> we felt it was a subject worth bringing up. >> but the kists said there was no way ryan was taking a deal. >> they offered him a plea, which they hadn't done in two trials. >> and he turned it down? >> of course he turned it down, he says, i'm innocent, there's no way i would take a plea. why would i admit to something that i would never have done that i did not do? >> ryan widmer was gambling that the next jury would acquit him. but his roll of the dice was taking its toll not just on him but on his family as well. ryan's mom made headlines when

she was stopped for drunk driving. she had pleaded not guilty to the driving under the influence charge. but police say they found two open bottles of vodka in her car. >> she broke down, hospitalized. a terrible toll on her. i lived with it. many times, the three of us are together, and you could just feel her going deeper and deeper into this. >> but it seemed for every person that came out to support ryan widmer, there were those who believed just as strongly on the other side that he had deliberately drowned his wife. and one of those people would soon change everything. ten days after the jury deadlocked, a phone rang in the prosecutors' office. it was a woman with a hand grenade of a story. someone has come forward and said, this guy confessed to me. >> we want to find out more what she has to say and what she knows about this. >> the prosecutors came away convinced they had the long missing pieces to the puzzle. both a confession and a motive.

and jay clark, the defense attorney, would now have to worry overtime about the state's new bombshell of a witness. did you guys know what they had up their sleeve? >> literally no. >> reporte >> because the new witness feared for her life, saying that ryan widmer had threatened her, her identity would not be disclosed to the defense team until the beginning of the trial. and trial three would begin with virtually everyone holding their breath. who was this person and what did she know? >> the mystery witness takes the stand. and what a story she has to tell. coming up -- >> she strolls in wearing a suit with decently done hair, normal makeup. >> sarah had found out that he had cheated on her when she went away with her mom. he said that they were in the living room and they were arguing about pornography. >> but why this story now? >> i saw the sadness and the pain and the hurt in her mom's face, and i'm a mom and i couldn't do that to them anymore.

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threatened to kill her if she ever told all she knew. who was she? and what secrets could she share? returning to our story, here's dennis murphy. >> mr. widmer, is there anything you wish to say? >> the first trial ended in a mistrial. the second with a hung jury. would this next jury reach a verdict? these three jurors from the last trial said the prosecutors had failed to convince them that ryan widmer had killed his wife. >> there's just nothing to prove to me that he had anything to do with her death. >> and that the next group of jurors would also not be able to reach a unanimous decision. >> we sat in jury deliberations for 30-plus hours. and the likelihood of 12 jurors coming to the same conclusion was very unlikely. >> we really didn't think that another jury would not be deadlocked. >> haid they'd soon find out. ryan widmer's extraordinary third trial for the murder of his wife was about to start all over again. the prosecutors felt it was their duty to argue their case for sarah.

>> we're committed to seeing that justice is done for the victim of this case. and that's what we've got to think about. >> it promised to be a judicial groundhog day. repeat testimony from the emts and arriving officers at the widmer home. the oddity of a bathtub drowning victim with a damp head and dry body. a 911 call that to some listeners volunteered too much. and injuries to the wife's neck and head that spoke to the prosecutors of homicide and not resuscitation. >> the facts which came out in this case gave rise to the idea that there had been an assault that occurred, which progressed into an instance of domestic violence. >> and this time, sarah's own mother described the couple's relationship as more tense than she had in the previous trials, telling the court that ryan and sarah's arguments made her very uncomfortable. >> they would just call each other names and get hateful with each other. i even told them, i said, you guys have to stop, i can't take it. >> but what was really new and

stunk was something that had been haunting the defense since they first learned of it the previous summer. the prosecution's mystery witness that would testify that ryan had confessed to the crime. it was a woman named jennifer crew from iowa. it was the first time the defense would get a good look at this person who ryan had allegedly confessed to, and they were worried. >> she strolls in wearing a suit, decently done hair, makeup. >> but how exactly did this woman living 500 miles away from ryan widmer come to be involved in the case in a starring prosecution role? it turned out she watched "dateline's" story from the first trial. after watching the show, she sent ryan an e-mail through the free ryan widmer website, telling him how bad she felt about his plight. >> i felt sorry for ryan. i asked him what i could do to help him. >> before long, the two were in frequent touch. struck up e-mail, texes,

ultimately a phone relationship? >> correct. >> as the relationship continued, ryan sent her photos of his dogs and asked her to send him a picture of herself. initially, she sent this one of a friend. she says things got a little racy on the phone. >> and he told me that she was watching porn in his mom's basement. >> there was even talk of jennifer visiting ryan in ohio for a three-way. >> ryan asked me to ask my friend and i said i would. >> but the reason jennifer was on the stand was to testify about one phone conversation in particular. one very different than their usual banter. it was october 26th, 2009. jennifer said she had been asleep when ryan called. it sounded to her as though he had been drinking. >> he was crying. and he was saying, i did it. i did it. i killed sarah. i did it. i thought what he meant was that he didn't do enough to save her life that night. he said, no, jen, listen to me, i did it. >> she said ryan told her it had started with a fight between the two of them.

>> sarah had found out that he had cheated on her when she went away with her mom. he said that they were in the living room and they were arguing about his pornography. >> what happened when she came upstairs? >> she was getting ready for the bath. ryan said that the argument continued, that she kept saying she can't do this anymore, being married. he said that sarah told him that the marriage was over. >> ryan, she testified, then told sarah -- >> nobody leaves me, nobody ever leaves me, and i mean nobody. >> that's when jennifer crew says ryan hit his wife. >> she fell backwards and hit her head. and he said, jen, i blacked out, i blacked out. >> but why this story now? jennifer crew waited until almost two weeks after the second jury had deadlocked before coming forward, even though ryan had allegedly confessed to her eight months earlier. she said she had promised ryan she would not reveal his secret and said she was unnerved when he gave her a veiled threat. >> i promised him i would never tell anybody.

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on measures to open the government. nancy pelosi said they'd vote on thursday. president trump invited congressional leaders to the white house for a briefing on the border wall. meanwhile, u.s. border agents reportedly fired tear gas at migrants early tuesday morning as they tried to cross the border from tijuana to san diego. now back to "the bathtub mystery." well p come back. ryan widmer was in court for trial number three, again. prosecutors charged that he'd murdered his wife, but this time, they called a bombshell witness. her name was jennifer crew, and she claimed ryan confessed he killed sarah after the young bride threatened to leave him. the details of jennifer's story were stunning. but would a jury believe her? once again, dennis murphy. >> surprise prosecution witness jennifer crew had just taken the

stand, and her story was a lot to absorb. ryan confessing, fighting with a wife who was leaving him. blacking out in the bathroom. would the jurors believe any or all of it? the defense had to make certain they didn't. but they were worried that they might. >> i think she had invented this story and started to live it and really wanted to believe it. >> you were convicted of -- >> so they aimed for the jugular. could this woman be trusted? >> she had a jaded past. theft convictions, stealing. that's not something that an honest, credible person does. >> a one-time bartender at a strip club who managed the dancers, jennifer crew admitted to misdemeanor brushes with the law. >> you were convicted of theft? >> yes, sir. >> also of fraudulent practices, correct? >> i believe that's when my record states. >> she was also in a methadone treatment program for her addiction to painkillers. >> you were using oxycontin for five years. >> about five years, yes. >> you've used false names to get drugs. >> yes, i did.

>> and the defense indicated because of her addiction to drugs, her memory was not to be trusted. >> when the detectives talked to you, you told them that your memory is not very good, didn't you? >> i don't recall saying that. >> do you remember telling them, i don't remember verbatim the conversation between you and ryan? >> i do not remember the conversation verbatim. >> the defense would hammer on her confusion about what hour the phone call came through, even on what day it was placed. >> when investigators met with you, you told them the call was in the middle of the night. >> i was asleep and i thought that the call came in later than it did. >> everything critical in terms of time and duration and any memory about the call was all different once she got toch the, but only after she saw her phone records. >> after jennifer crew stepped down, the prosecution called the woman's fiance to try to undo any damage to her testimony caused by the defense. he confirmed that she related the alleged confessional phone call to him immediately after hanging up that night. >> she came downstairs crying, and she's like, he did it.

she was scared, actually. she was upset. >> if the jury believed jennifer crew's story, ryan widmer was sunk. so, the defense called a witness to refute the iowa woman's story about an emotional call that night from ryan. and it was another woman who became interested in ryan widmer's case after seeing our first "dateline" report. melissa waller from seattle, like jennifer crew from iowa, struck up a phone and e-mail relationship with ryan in the fall of 2009. she said she was drawn to his case after the death of her sister-in-law. >> how often do you think you guys talked? >> three times a week. sometimes more, sometimes less. we talked about sarah a lot. he was having a really, really hard time accepting everything. >> melissa's husband supported her friendship with ryan. >> was it a little out there? yeah, but i'm so comfortable with her and our relationship that without a shadow of a doubt, i was 100% behind her.

>> i did feel strongly about supporting him. there's just no chance that he had anything to do with it. >> but the importance of the seattle woman's story for the defense was that she, too, had a lengthy phone call with ryan that finished just six minutes before he called jennifer crew in iowa. the call, in which he allegedly confessed to killing his wife. melissa waller said ryan was perfectly composed when she spoke to him for almost two hours that night. >> how do you know that he was not drink, he was not upset? >> every phone conversation i've had, he's never been intoxicated or emotionally distraught. i knew that all the times i had talked to him, he was never drunk or upset. >> melissa was convinced that jennifer crew had made up the whole story about the confession. >> i was shocked that somebody would go under oath on stand and lie. >> but still, had the defense paid a price by putting yet another woman on the stand?

>> is there risk for you about these women getting involved with ryan widmer? >> it's easy to get sucked into that. but i think you have to understand what ryan was going through. he's never been able to really grieve for sarah. you can't do that when you're under the gun, charged with her murder. they contacted him, and it was companionship. >> it was time to wrap up trial number three. the prosecutor saying it was a sudden violent murder. >> anybody who's been in a relationship knows that sometimes things go off, they snap, for no good reason. i think something like that happened. at some point, ryan saw that his perfect marriage was falling apart, and that's what led us here. >> the defense arguing a medically undetermined death by natural causes. >> it's probably going to bother me for the rest of my life, what happened to sarah -- we'll never know. >> sarah had drowned. but how? a third jury retired for deliberations. >> another stunning development. a new sarah enters ryan's life. coming up --

>> he just was telling me how much he loved sarah and he could never, ever love another woman as much as he loved her. i think i started crying, because i just felt so bad for him. >> do you love ryan? >> i love him. yeah. >> just who is she? later, ryan tells all. >> she's awesome. so loving, scacaring. there are similarities i see in sarah my wife that i see with sarah now. >> you kept it secret? >> yeah, because i knew they would try to make it into something negative. >> when "the bathtub mystery" continues. tery" continues.

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the jury had been out for a day. again, it seemed everyone in cincinnati was waiting for a verdict. while widmer still had a number of ardent supporters, trial watchers say this time things were changing in the court of public opinion. >> you have a candlelight vigil for him now and probably you could hold it in a phone booth. >> one strong voice that had

turned against ryan widmer was talk radio show host bill cunningham. he was disgusted with how he exploited the free win widmer website. >> he used the free ryan widmer website to pick up chicks. instead of using that to find his innocence, he was bringing in hot babes from washington and iowa. >> for you, it sounds like it fell apart on a character issue. >> it did. to me, by the third trial, the evidence didn't change. the facts didn't change, but the wallpaper of the case changed. >> day two and the jury in the courthouse was going round and round. >> my stomach was cramping, my shoulders were hurting, i just felt awful. >> i was nauseous, i didn't -- i hadn't felt that way for 20 years. >> the jurors were working their way through the evidence. they parsed the 911 call. >> my wife fell asleep in the bathtub, i think she's dead. >> the more you listen to it, the more and more it starts to sound like it was staged. >> and there was sarah's body. officers had testified it was too dry. >> 2 1/2 minutes after being

removed from a tub, you would expect a body to be wet. >> the alleged confession as recounted by jennifer crew. >> i just don't believe anything she said. >> the prints in the tub. >> under normal circumstances, you cannot leave those kind of fingerprints on the side of a tub trailing down. >> the bruising to sarah. >> i think both the defense and the prosecution put up good arguments about that. that's on a -- teetering on a razor's edge with me. >> at the end of the second day, they took their one and only vote. they had a verdict. a blast of calls went out. the kists grabbed a stunned ryan. >> we immediately jumped in the car. ryan says, i can't believe they're back this soon. this is too quick. i'm worried. >> the judge asked for the jury ballot. anxious? >> very. sick. >> sick. yeah. >> ryan widmer stood with his lawyers. his life hanging in the balance. >> i can actually hear ryan shaking. i can hear it.

it's that silent in there and he's that nervous. >> the verdict. >> we the jury in this case find the defendant ryan widmer is guilty of murder. >> guilty. ryan dropped his head to the table. >> i was hysterical. he was crying. he was a mess. >> a bad, bad, bad dream. >> ryan composed himself enough to proclaim to the court his innocence. >> i did not do this. i don't know why this has to keep going on. i mean, my life has been ruined. i love sarah. i would never have hurt her. never. >> outside the court, ryan's father gary slumped to the ground. the son he was recently reunited with after years apart taken from him again. >> it was a horrifying moment. and i think it just totally caught up with me at that point, the whole total shock, and i just went weak. >> ryan widmer, for the second time, was given the mandatory sentence, 15 years to life. as court officers handcuffed him and led him away, few people

were aware of a young woman on his side of the benches, crying. this is also a sarah. sarah manhurst. and she's still another twist in the story that has had so many. do you love ryan widmer? >> i love him, yeah. >> sarah wore an engagement ring and is the mother of ryan's son, born in the summer after trial number two. what did you name the baby? >> his name is ryan. >> you see ryan's face in the baby's? >> yeah. >> sarah, a canadian via new york, like jennifer from iowa and melissa from seattle, also became aware of ryan after our first "dateline" program on the case aired back in 2009. >> i thought that he was railroaded. i really did. >> she sent an e-mail to ryan saying how sorry she felt with for him, and he sent one back. soon they were talking on the phone. a little more than a month later, sarah came to cincinnati to visit ryan. she stay with him at his mother's house. >> i thought it was a little

awkward, you know, because we had talk eed so much on the pho, but we hadn't met. he was telling me how much he loved sarah and could never love another woman as much as he loved her. i think i started crying, because i just felt so bad for him. >> sarah went back to new york and then three weeks later, returned to cincinnati as ryan's guest at his mother's thanksgiving dinner. that was the weekend they became intimate. >> the first time we were together, i got pregnant. >> how did ryan take the news? >> he was shocked, obviously, very bad timing. >> they kept the pregnancy a secret, as ryan's second trial would take place the following may. >> i decided, yeah, i was going to have the baby. and he was okay with that. but it was just difficult, because i'm thinking, here i am pregnant, and you're facing another trial, and my child could potentially grow up without a father, which --

and now he's in jail. >> with ryan sentenced to 15 years to life, sarah is raising their son. >> i'm still in shock. i can't believe this happened to him. >> if in your own mind you couldn't get to beyond reasonable doubt, if there was a sliver of doubt that he had done this thing, would you have stayed? >> never. i would never have stayed with him. there's no way he could have done this, ever. >> but had he? in the course of three trials, played out before three juries, ryan widmer's guilt or innocence has been passionately debated. he is now telling his story. widmer speaks from prison, when we return. did you kill your wife, sarah? coming up -- >> you think they fabricated this? >> oh, i know they did. >> why would they have it in for you? why would they lie? emts and police officers don't even work for the same agency. >> this young husband is about

to make a startling claim. >> jennifer, i did it. i'm telling you, i did it. >> uh-huh. >> did that conversation happen? >> nope, it never happened. >> so, jennifer crew's story is made up. >> 100% made up. >> when "the bathtub mystery" continues.

welcome back. after three years and three remarkable trials, sarah widmer and her loved ones had finally received justice. her husband, ryan, was convicted of her murder. through it all, ryan never took the stand to tell his story, but he did share it with us. listen closely and decide for yourself, what really happened in the widmer's bathroom that fateful night? now, with the conclusion of our story, here's dennis murphy. >> this is ryan widmer's story as he tells it.

he remembers a loving relationship with his wife sarah that was right from the first date. >> we hit it off perfect. >> was there any friction? >> none whatsoever. >> everything was cool? >> perfect. perfect. >> he only had one worry about sarah. >> my biggest problem with her was her sleep. she would work a regular day and need to be going to bed early or taking a nap. i just thought something wasn't healthy about it, you're 24 years old. >> but still, he says, they fell into their everyday lives, their jobs, walking the dog, building a deck on their house. all routine, he says, until that august night. sarah had come home from work, he says, with a headache. they had dinner, watched tv. she's what? >> laying on the couch. >> because she doesn't feel so hot. >> she says her neck is killing her, she's going to get in the bath and go to bed. >> ryan says he stayed downstairs and watched the game until he too was ready for bed. upstairs to the master bedroom and bath. tell me what you see, just like a videotape recording. >> i walk in the room. i walk over to the nightstand

and i put some things down, turn on the tv. and then i walked in the bathroom. and that's when i saw sarah, i knew something wasn't right. she was just unconscious. >> how did you see her? >> her head was just underneath the water. i mean, i don't even remember. >> was she face down in the tub as you told 911? >> all i remember, yeah, just finding her. i mean, i knew it wasn't good. she was laying in the water. i don't know what else to say other than it wasn't right. the only thing i remember certain things because of what i heard on the 911 tape. >> it's such a shocking image, you would think you would remember. >> i wasn't thinking, i'm going to have to remember. >> head, nose, mouth down under the water? >> everything, yeah. >> what did you do next? >> i tried to get a reaction out her, and i got nothing. >> that's when he says he called 911. >> my wife fell asleep in the bathtub and i think she's dead. >> when you chose that word, i think she fell asleep -- >> it's not about choosing a word. it was her sleeping issue.

whatever, i don't know. >> they're saying, this 911 call is suspicious, because this guy is giving us too much information. he's telling us, he's downstairs, she's upstairs. you know why -- >> i was watching the football game. i don't know what they wanted me to they will them. >> maybe, i just need an ambulance as soon as possible, get her quick. >> i don't know. i called and that's what i said. i don't know. >> prosecutors say the first arriving officer was at the house no more than six minutes after the 911 call was answered, and less than three minutes after ryan lifted sarah's body out of the tub. the observations of the arriving officer, what do we have here, why is this woman's hair damp and her body dry. >> yeah, well -- >> it doesn't make sense, ryan. >> i understand that. >> so how do you explain it? >> i left the house and there was cops there by themselves and they came up with the story they wanted to come up with it. >> you think they fabricated this? >> i know they did. >> so, you think they wanted to make a case here? >> i know they did.

why would they arrest me the day after if they didn't want to make a case? >> why would they have it in for you? why would they lie? emts and police officers don't even work for the same agency. >> they clearly do when they get up there to testify, because they're clearly coached into what to say. >> and what about the story of the woman who says ryan confessed to her that he killed sarah? >> listen to me, i did it. >> here's jennifer crew from iowa on the stand saying, he called me one night, he was sloppy and he confessed to me. >> right. >> jennifer, i did it. i'm telling you i did it. >> mm-hmm. >> did that conversation happen? >> nope. it never happened. >> so, jennifer crew's story is made up? >> 100% made up. >> the same goes, ryan told us, about sarah's mother's testimony about hearing hateful arguments between the couple. >> they would just call each other names. >> she's a liar. >> sarah's mom's a liar? she was making this stuff up? >> we were never mean to each other. never. >> a one-time mother-in-law from an earlier life who he says is

embellishing the reality of his marriage. now ryan widmer has a baby with a new sarah. >> she's awesome, so loving, caring. there are similarities i see in sarah, my wife, as i see with sarah now. >> you guys kept it secret? >> oh, yeah. because i knew they would try to make it into something negative. >> and in that court of public opinion, the women from far away places, iowa, seattle, new york, who became involved in his case didn't go down well with everyone. a character issue. we talked to somebody who says you're using the free ryan widmer website as a dating service, just a way to meet women. >> i don't know who said that, but that's not true. >> but investigators wondered how good the marriage really was based on what they found on widmer's computer. did you have an unhealthy addiction to porn? >> no. >> but you looked at porn? >> yeah. >> but ryan says that doesn't mean anything. and certainly doesn't make him a murderer. did you kill your wife, sarah? >> no, i did not.

i couldn't hurt sarah emotionally, let alone physically. >> she didn't get in your face and say she's leaving you? >> no. >> didn't happen? >> did not happen. >> you were downstairs watching the ball game and you found her in a bad situation? >> yeah. >> and that's it. you don't know why she died? >> nope. >> but you didn't put her head under water? >> nope. >> you say you're wrongly convicted? >> i'm 100% wrongly convicted. >> and the 30 jurors or more found you guilty after hearing the story? >> yep. >> they're not getting it? >> they're not getting it at all. >> but these jurors from his third trial are confident they got it right. they say among other things, it came down to what they saw as sarah's too dry body, oddities in the 911 call, prints on the tub and the unlikeliness of an out of the blue medical event striking sarah in the bath. >> i went into it believing he was innocent. but everything that was put together with the evidence came down with four or five facts that we could not deny. we believe he intentionally

drowned her. >> and the guilt of ryan widmer will also never be doubted by the prosecutors. do you believe that he actually did this thing? >> absolutely. she was murdered. >> and he killed her. >> and he was the only one that could have. >> ryan widmer has petitioned the u.s. district court to overturn his conviction, as the u.s. supreme court declined to hear his case. >> i'm going to fight in this until it's made right. >> the passage of time hasn't made the events inside the little house on crested owl court any clearer. and time, of course, brings changes. sarah manhurst and ryan are no longer a couple, but she told us, she still believes in his innocence. and more change. his mother, jill, passed away. nothing, it seems, stays quite the same, except the central mystery itself, and that will likely be argued for years still to come. >> that's all for this edition

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