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♪ ♪ ♪ >> it began, as these things often do, on and innocent and ordinary day in omaha, nebraska, three years earlier. the fall of 2012. >> i am working. i'm behind the counter. doing ten things. >> it happened in an auto repair shop to a mechanic named dave kroupa. >> she walks, and i see her, we meet eyes. just, for a moment, i kind of stopped. i go, well, hello. >> he was working. she wanted her suv repaired. >> in the back on my mind, i am thinking, wow, she is gorgeous. but, i'm at work. i'm representing the company i work for. that is off the table. it's not a possibility. >> but did you see the signal coming back? >> yeah, i did. >> then, a few weeks later, it seemed like faith. dave went on a dating website, and there she was. her profile, her picture, her name, cari. he started typing. >> i said, hey, i know you, ha. and she replied, the same thing. >> and then before long she

came into his shop again. >>, without saying anything, there was some sparks. we're both looking at each other, trying to say something, and we did. and we exchanged phone numbers. >> they had dinner. the food didn't matter. >> and we were very, i would say, controlled with each other. >> he invited her back to this place and she agreed. and that's when something else happened. it didn't seem so important, not than, not like it would later. just as they walk into the apartment, the doorbell rang. it was days ex-girlfriend, liz, here to pick up some things she left behind in her apartment. awkward. but cari just laughed, bowed out. >> she said, i get it. it's not a big deal. i'm gonna go home. you can call me when you are done dealing with this mess.

>> so, they've escorted cari to the door. and her endless past each other at that moment, and there were no words spoken. >> they did start then, at that moment? later, once listened left his apartment, dave called cari. she invited me out to her place, which was, like an hour drive outside a town. cari when i got to her place was there for 20 minutes making coffee, bs-ing. and of course, seen her on the couch, and we are getting a little close, i'm, like at this point, we haven't even kissed. she turns to me and she said, look, if you're gonna have sex, that is all it is. period. there is nothing more to it. >> ha. >> and she asked me, are you good with that, is there gonna be a problem? and i said, pink, i hit the power ball. >> because dave felt exactly the same way. >> as a man, i want companionship. so much looking for a

girlfriend. but never committed relationship. >> and you let them know that this is the way it's gonna be? >> that was the first conversation, yeah, take it or leave it, that's how it is. >> but with cari he, did not have to bring it up. >> it was all her. and we hit it off right from there. >> she told him she was a computer programmer. her office was close to his apartment. they met there, often, made love, talked. >> she was extremely intelligent. she was much smarter than i am. just in general, she just, had a brain on her. >> different than the winning had dated before? >> yeah, well, for instance, what she did for a living,

programming, i considered myself a little bit of a computer nerd, compared to her, i don't know what computer was. >> dave we considered his no commitment role. a rule he had broken before. with a woman named amy flora. they had two kids together, but it didn't last. >> after 12 years, you would think that there would be some kind of a proposal, or something. but like i said, he's kind of a motionless, so -- >> you really didn't want to get married? >> no, and i want to eventually be merry. you know, every girl does. everybody wants their fairytale wedding. >> amy and dave state friendly for the sake of their kits. and amy neo-about dates other women. heard about carrie. >> you expected you to meet her to some point, if it continues? >> yeah, if it continued, i would have liked to meet her. >> but amy did not meet cari, not then. no idea it was coming. >> early that november of 2012, cari told dave she had a big project at work. she would stay over at his place, instead of driving home to the country every night. until they began their work week together, and then, on tuesday, november 13th -- >> i gave her a kiss on her way out to the door. like, high, see later, honey. i was almost like a, that sort of 50s tv show garbage. >> that doesn't sound like a

guy who has got no attachment. i >> didn't say, honey, but that's the way it came out. she brought that out of me. that's why i say, with cari it, is potential, it might have been different with a long term thing. >> so you are in a pretty good mood? >> i was in a great mood. i have this beautiful lady was gonna be in my house when i get home. i don't know who wouldn't smile about that? >> dave was at his shop by 6:30. and he was entirely unprepared. and then -- >> by 10:00, i received a text from her that says, do you want to move in with me? or should we need to move in together, or something along those lines. >> really! >> i texted her back immediately, no, we have known

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>> that doesn't always go well. >> it doesn't always go well, yeah. >> the thing is, cari was smart, supersmart. school was easy. but then, so we're boys. >> guys were just drawn to her. >> and she liked it? >> yeah, she did. >> hello, cari! >> but there was something else about cari, said her friend holly drummond. brady, yes. but she sometimes made dubious choices, like when she was away at college, and there was this guy, or a parade of guys. >> she would instantly talk about this night, where they were all dressed up, and it was midnight, they were walking in the streets with a bottle of champagne, i mean, she made a sound like, she made it sound like a romantic movie. >> didn't last. even when cari found out she was pregnant.

>> did it come as a surprise? >> yes, yeah. i was just, i knew which was gonna have to go through, because i had been divorced with children, young children. and it's hard. >> it's not easy. >> she moved home, took computer courses, and she named the baby maxwell. everyone called him max. >> she was such a good mother, that i know she had so much on her plate too at that time, going to school and everything else. but she did very well. she held up very well. >> except that is, for mood swings, the dreadful depressions. >> she just would go under the covers and sleep, you know, she just hibernate. she would close herself off from everything. >> it is hard for a mother to watch her daughter go through that. >> yeah, it is. trying to get it out of her, you know, what can i do? and there is really nothing that i can do or say. >> but it got better, once cari was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, medication, even things out, and cari and max set it into an apparently happy and successful life.

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received from carrie. this one didn't say anything about a new job. instead, cari texted she broke up with her boyfriend. and was thinking about checking into a mental hospital. >> that is scary. >> yes, it scared me tremendously. >> but boyfriend? did she mean this mysterious death? >> do you know how to reach this guy? do you even know what his last name was? >> i didn't know what to start looking for. >> so it was not like? >> it is hell. it's just you -- frustration and just helplessness. >> so, before dropping off max in the wedding, she called the county sheriff's office, to file a missing persons report. they took down all the information, of course, and they couldn't, they didn't really offer too much. >> well, i guess they thought she's a grown woman. she can leave if she wants to leave.

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>> yeah, there was no warning. >> the detectives took him outside for top. they >> told me, do you know cari? i was like, yeah, what? when did you see her last? the morning of? okay, where is she now? i have no idea. >> the detectives didn't seem to buy that. >> he was drilling me with the place man iris, the ones that are like, you know, -- >> where were you at 6:30 on that morning? >> yeah, no, i totally had the -- >> she was at your house. you are the last one to see her. >> and that was how he approached me, it was as if i had already done something, and he already knew it, and it's time to deal with it, you know? and i was like, wow, wow, slow down. >> david tried to explain, he said. >> hey, man. i don't know where she is at, but i have nothing to do with it. you know, i don't know where

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cari's mother heard about the threatening texts, the harassment, the police reports filed against her daughter. to her, didn't seem like cari at all. and it made her wonder. how serious were the police about finding her daughter? >> i got a little callous towards the authorities. i was thinking that, i didn't think they were doing what they should have been doing. >> do you get the feeling, they just want to get in there, and stormed the barricades, and make something happen? >> yeah. again, i didn't know how much i can do. i didn't know where to start. >> cari i've been gone for almost two weeks. thanksgiving, a day away. nancy said cari message her on facebook. >> i've got a roast in the crock pot, and we will eat about six. we are going to dads for thanksgiving, and eating about noon or one. we love you, cari. cari didn't respond, and didn't show up for thanksgiving dinner. less than a month later,

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i just couldn't answer a phone, or send a text. >> like why don't you change your phone number? >> i did that a couple of times. >> you did, and it still kept coming? >> they did. >> cari's that seemed almost normal. i know i ruined it. i tell myself don't be crazy this guy was nice to you but something takes over. but mostly, the emails and messages were angry texts, about perceived romantic rivals, miss golyar in particular. >> she is a whore, you shouldn't be with someone like that. i hope we can see each other soon. and then, with a shutter, they realized cari did see him. she seemed to be watching this every moment. it was very traumatizing for me to get messages, emails, to say, i see you through your window. you are doing this. i'd go, i am doing this. okay, great. now that your outside, you are looking for somebody, because somebody knows what i'm doing. >> even more disturbing, cari messaged dave that she had taken his extra apartment to, and had been coming and going when he was going when he was

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>> they did a thorough investigation? >> yeah, they invested it for prints, they found a fingerprint inside, we covered that. >> the fingerprint was found on a mint container in the cup holder of the suv. they ran the print through the national database. no hits. but if cari wasn't using her suv, at least, certainly not daily, her presence was unavoidable as ever, through those texts and emails, threatening photos, sent to both dave kroupa and liz golyar. now, the detectives made sure to do a phone check from both of their devices to preserve the evidence, and perhaps, figure out where she was. it was even a link to a fake obituary for liz. see what i made for the horror? i will kill her, and i already made her an obituary, so it's done. then, minutes later, i'm trying to hire someone to get rid of that horror list for us. you told me before, you wanted

her gone. do we want to pay just for the bitch or the two kids too. i hope to see you soon. your beautiful cari. >> trying to enlist you in her scheme, and took its. >> yeah, that was a very interesting breed, the first time ever thought. i was, like oh my god. what in the hell? >> cari didn't seem to realize that her ongoing harassment was actually pushing dave and liz back together. >> i compared notes on the harassment? >> spent hours talking about it. sending each other texts and emails, now -- >> kind of comforting each other. >> i mean, who else would understand that? >> exactly, nobody else did understand. >> now, dave and liz were regulars of the omaha pd, filing one complaint after the other against cari. at the time, they reported that

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then, came up with nothing, over and over again, nothing. >> this time, said day, he was afraid to try to attack his kids but too. what did she say when she threatened your kids, for example? >> oh, something along the lines i would slip your children's throats. >> wow! >> that's pretty hard to read. >> it took a toll, sad day. >> for a while, i was drinking heavily, which is not me. never been a time in my life where i was a real drinker, and i was a drinking until the bar closed, and going to start again at 6:00 in the morning. >> wow, and you bought a gun? >> sure, yeah. >> why? >> for my safety and my children safety. for just protection in general, i was like, i didn't know. >> so, dave and liz kept watch in the city, wary, your full. back in macedonia, cari's family was hoping with a whole

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that sounds silly, but that's when i knew that -- because i knew she just would not just vanish. >> but of course, nancy did not know for sure. >> and every time something would pop up online, or we get a text or something, there was this hope that maybe she is still out there. >> max was looking for answers his own way. about a month after nancy went to the show during omaha, max sent his mom a message on facebook. i. that was it then the next day, cari responded. hello mom, how are you? max messaged back. i have three questions >> things only she would know. >> things only she would know. >> max asked, one, what is my middle name. two, what was our first boxer's

name, the dog? three, who was my best friend as a little kid? >> and what was the response? >> nothing, i never got a response to that one. >> which meant what? was that his not in her right mind mom? or could his grandma be right? that somebody had kidnapped cari? there was no way of knowing, really. and the messages kept coming. like this one, from cari's mom. >> i'm not her mom, i miss everyone to. i just had a breakdown, and i think i'm getting over it. i should've came to my senses sooner and realize the guy was not worth it. and then following year for mother's day, happy mother's day mom. how has max been? nancy, frustrated, replied, call me and i will gladly tell you about it. this is not talking. i need to hear your voice. >> cari never called. >> for, the anguish of missing cari never stopped. and meanwhile, all dave croup

won it was to escape or. in february of 2015, they've moved from omaha to council bluffs, iowa, across the river. his kids lived there with amy flora. and you want to spend more time with them. and he hoped cari would not find him there. he bought another gun just in case. and after about three years of relentless harassment, things finally started to quiet down for liz and dave. they were not as many messages from cari, she seemed to be fading away. and as that happened, liz and dave saw each other less and less to. there was just one rather scary thing, that gun they've bought for protection, the one he kept hidden high in a closet, disappeared. and you're the only guy in that apartment? >> yeah, i'm the only guy living there. my mind is racing, there's no forced entry, the doors all shut unlocked, -- >> why did you? think >> i don't know what the hell to think.

>> meanwhile in pottawatomie county iowa, before cari live before she became a dangerous digital persona, her disappearance was more active chatter and then active case. that's when these two corporal got hooked on it. >> we heard some stuff, you know, just water cooler talk about the case. >> the strange crazy woman? >> it was interesting. >> it peaked our interest. so we requested to take a look at it. >> that was april 2015, more than two years after cari's reign of terror began. the file was huge by then, and bizarre digital house of mirrors. so, duty and events decide to sort things out, beginning with a very simple question police had never really considered before. though, her family certainly had. was cari farver really the vengeful woman she seemed to be? or, did she even exist?

>> i thought the smart idea was not have tunnel vision in any direction. so, ryan walked in as if cari was still alive, and he was going to work until he came to a dead end. i was going to work it like she was not alive. because there is things that would lead us to both conclusions. she still active sending text messages, pictures. >> certainly seems like it. >> but she's also lying, and has missed so many events, and has it been physically seen by anyone. >> we start from scratch. rereading. >> reviewing all the old material? >> reading all the reports, looking through those phone downloads, listening to interviews that had been recorded, just driving in. >> of course, they spoke to dave kroupa, no doubt in his mind cari was alive and crazy. >> he was transparent, he gave access to his whole email account. >> 11,000 emails that he had saved over the years. could have been more. >> that was not all they had.

right there in the file was a wholesale dump of material from liz golyar's cell phone. so there are learning a lot about both dave and liz. they had been a person all that for months, but had not interviewed liz yet, when in the office one day, pure coincidence. >> i was in the hallway talking with a county attorney, and another investigator was walking down the hall with liz to his office. >> wow. >> and to me, it was like i saw a famous person. and i knew everything about her. and she was there to file a harassment report. >> but this was odd, her complaint was not against cari, it was someone else. >> amy flora, that's the mother of daves children. >> wait, amy? not cari? first detective avis did a psychic double take, then he

asked if he could be the want to interview liz. >> her ex boyfriend? >> dave kroupa >> dave cooper? >> kroupa >> and he has kids with amy flora? >> liz told detective avis that her on again off again relationship with davis off again. but ever since their most recent split, dave's ex amy had been stalking her on facebook, and she was very worried because -- >> not even two days after you broke up, his apartment is broken into and his gun was stolen. so, i told the police officer i was kind of worried that -- since she has a key to his apartment -- >> that, says liz, is when she suddenly realize that she and dave hadn't played for fools. for three years, she believed cari was the woman behind the threatening messages, the harassing graffiti, the deadly fire that killed the pets. but suddenly it was a like a light went on said lives. it wasn't cari at all. that scary awful online villain that was responsible for all

the trouble had to be amy flora, days acts, the mother of his children. diabolical. but think about it, said liz, amy was the one who so desperately want it dave. she had the motive. but cari, not really. >> like i said, they only dated for two weeks, and i don't understand why a person would still be stalking him almost three years later. >> cari and dave dated for two weeks? >> yes. >> and she -- >> supposedly is the one stalking for three, three years. i would find it more reasonable to believe that his kids moms is the one that's -- >> head spinning, detective avis made some notes, told liz he would do what he could to help her out, and no surprise, the very next evening, december 5th, liz felt like she needed some time alone to think. she drove out to big lake park, took a walk around the trailer,

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nearby? >> i don't think, so i took off running, -- >> you don't know if it was a male or female? >> the mail. >> who is dark when the council bluffs pd rolled into -- found a wounded and beaten liz golyar. pachter off to the hospital, while the chopper -- ground based cops scour the

paths. like >> somebody in the park, armed or on foot -- and what, dangerous? >> yes. >> while other cops search for the shooting, detective matt lee cool and checked on liz in the hospital. >> but liz was lucky, the bullet went clean through her like, miss boone's antarctic reads that could've been much worse. she told a detective what happened. >> she says she came out here to clear her mind, and she walked out to a bench and sat down. and then a female, who she believed to be amy flora, came up behind or stuck a gun to her back, told her to get on the ground, and shot are in the leg, and then ran off. >> a few minutes later, a city police task force around amy's apartment. >> i kind of saw somebody leaning against my building. and i said, who's there? and all i heard was, open up, police. so, i opened the door. and they had to officers with guns drawn.

>> pointing at you? >> yes, yeah. >> what do they say to you? >> they had said that i was accused of shooting liz. >> they searched her home, and later sat her down in an interview room and hooked her up to a polygraph machine, ask your questions like this one, among others. did you go to big lakes park that day? >> no. >> amy also denied that she shot liz, again and again. but she failed the polygraph. still, something did not add up. when that local detective arrived at amy's place right after the shooting, she felt the hood of her car, ice-cold, had not been driven for a while. and the neighbor said amy was home all afternoon. so, was amy so nervous she blew the polygraph? or was something else going on? detective avis went to see liz at the hospital. his recorder rolling. >> i feel like it's just writing on the wall, one it is.

it's amy shot you with dave's gun, isn't it? >> pretty much. that's what i'm thinking. >> dave still does not think so. >> seem like the friendly cop. >> or the dumb one. i'll be whatever she wanted, as long as she kept telling us information. >> wait, what? avis was playing dumb, he said, to pump liz for information, because he and his partner had a strong suspicion about who really shot her. a truly shocking idea, something beyond devious. >> she thought she shot herself, i thought. >> liz shot herself? that's on a crazy, or maybe a certain kind of crazy. remember, to help cari farver, liz had given police herself phone. and here's what detectives doty and avis found on that phone. a photo of cari farver's suv, which did not make any sense at all, because -- >> we looked at the date that was taken.

and it was taken christmas eve, 2012. >> was that not when her car was actually missing? >> yeah, it had not been recovered to january 2013. >> i thought, that's where the police could not find, it dave did not know where it was, but somehow liz was able to take a picture of it. >> that was not all. remember that threatening photo cari emailed to dave, of a woman bound and duct taped? that photo was linked back to liz, which made them wonder, was it possible those wild and scary electronic messages all sent in cari's name were really sent by liz? that's tricky, even for a computer whiz to nail that bit of jell-o to the wall. >> it is beyond our expertise, and it's why you gotta say -- >> how well you know computers, social media, that nonsense. >> made us want to pick up a phone, call tony carver, and ask if he has any more information?

>> tony, who is he? >> by day, i do information work and i do that for years. and by night, i solve crimes. >> [laughs] , you're a solving superhero. >> anthony carva's danger of was i. t. for this county. but by night, he's a reserve deputy sheriff officer. >> what did you have to go through? >> it was terabytes of information. half a dozen email accounts, facebook accounts, a number of different apps. >> and in his tiny office, he sat hour after hour, late into the night, decipher an enormous amount of digital data. >> and five minutes, you might create a email account. it might take me five minutes to prove it was her. >> among those many counts was a youtube account with this video. >> the title of the video is husbands cheating ways.

and that video showed the apartment, of dave kroupa. >> but the ip address of that where that video was uploaded, was where liz lived. >> so that was another arrow pointing at liz. >> painstakingly, hour by hour, anthony compile the evidence. his conclusion? every one of those threatening emails and texts and facebook posts and youtube videos lead right back to liz golyar. , meanwhile detectives doty and avis busy themself with good old-fashioned earthbound evidence. remember that one unidentified fingerprint found in a mint container in cari's otherwise spotless suv? >> we ask our forensics expert we compare disfigurement to a known fingerprint of liz, see what we came up with? >> it was a match. >> this lady who should've had very little interaction with carrie should have no reason to be in her vehicle. >> only matter in passing, one time.

but now, her fingerprint is in her car. >> liz in cari's suv, liz impersonating cari online. there was no logical explanation for it, unless -- >> we think liz may have been involved with making cari disappear. >> a case about to dive right through the looking glass. and on the other side, hard to believe. coming up -- >> why house would you disguise yourself as cari, if you are not responsible for it? >> what had really happened to cari? police have a bold plan to get to the bottom of it all. >> i'm an investigator with the sheriff's office. >> when dateline continues. is driven by eosinophils, which nucala helps reduce. nucala is a once-monthly add-on injection for severe eosinophilic asthma. nucala is not for sudden breathing problems. allergic reactions can occur. get help right away for swelling of face, mouth, tongue, or trouble breathing.

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>> if this is really you, please come back. i want you to be at my graduation. >> when she didn't respond, how did that feel? >> i was not really surprised. because, like i said, i knew that it was not her. >> max and nancy has suspected for months that all those digital rants were not actually from cari. they didn't know it yet, but detectives jim doty and ryan avis agreed with them. the detectives already had proof liz was improves and dating cari online. they also suspected something much darker. remember another part of their investigation room ball of this basic question, was cari farver alive or dead? >> her father died, and she didn't go to the funeral. and she missed her son's birthday. it did not take ryan very long at all to come up with around to the dead side, he could not find anything to find that she

was alive. >> suddenly, cari farver look not like a villain, but like the real victim. and the woman who claimed she was the victim, liz golyar, looked like the prime suspect in cari's disappearance. >> because why else would you disguise yourself as cari, if you are responsible for her? why would you be in cari's if you are responsible for it? >> all that is so counterintuitive and so bizarre that, you know, it wouldn't be expected to believe such a thing. it was stunning, really. liz, apparently impersonating cari for years, sending thousands of texts and emails in her name. but now they had a bigger question, and a much bigger problem. >> i guess part of the worry was, even if we could prove that it's liz sending all this stuff out as cari, well, that doesn't prove murder.

>> murder? yes. sergeant doty and corporal avis believe liz killed cari out of jealousy. in an effort to win back dave, and frame his ex partner amy for everything, even going so far as to set his house was on fire, kill the family pets, and shoot herself in the leg. pretty wild stuff, but could they prove it? >> we need something more, so we weren't quite sure how to get to that point. >> and then, liz herself, by accusing amy of shooting her, gave them their big idea. >> and that's when we introduced jim to liz >> i'm investigator doty, i worked for the sheriff's office. >> a week after the shooting in the park, liz arrived at the sheriff's station, wearing her work uniform. >> i told you i was looking into a missing persons case briefly on the phone. >> he told her there is a break in the case. >> there have been some remains that were located. >> it was a ruse, of course.

>> we are waiting on the lab results to make a positive i. d., but the initial indication is these remains are cari's. >> okay, good. >> meanwhile, said detective doty, he was hoping liz could establish a timeline, including when was last time she saw cari. that was easy, liz said. one unannounced encounter when cari i days apartment in 2012. >> i don't know he was dating anyone else at the time. so, she came out, and i was going in. and she made a smart comment to me. >> why did she say? >> she called me a bitch. >> okay. >> it was not a big deal at the time. i just want to get my stuff. >> that is the only time you ever seen her in person? >> she told detective doty that it was dave that blamed cari for all the harassing messages over the years. but, just as she told detective avis, she now thought that amy was really the one behind it

all. >> she was with him for 12 years. and she wasn't out of his life at all. >> so you think she's the person that did some of the stuff to you. >> i'm just saying as another person who would be protective of dave, it would be her. so, i would not put it past her. >> detective doty pretended to agree. >> if she was bold enough to go, to you. she could easily be bold enough to do something too cari. >> of course he said, he would need to prove it. >> if we had messages from her saying hey, i did. this or i did that. angle i could easily start building that case. >> we want to build a case against amy. we want to get amy thrown in prison. which, we were hoping whereas music to her ears. >> and apparently, it was. liz agreed to help the investigation, and she limped away. >> and she became a little deputy for you?

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>> in the small community where she is from, they all came out, and believe that to. and nancy never could stand up and argue. >> nancy felt lonely indeed. until one day, detective doty knocked on her door. >> i was a little bit standoffish because -- >> then down that road before. >> right, yeah. >> finally, he said to me, i want you to know that i don't think she left on her own. and i tell you, my attitude just changed. >> the very thing she suspected -- >> saw what you had seen all along. >> right. named the investigation really got going. >> an investigation as unusual and convoluted as the apparent crime, in which a eager liz golyar would try and help prove that her rival amy killed cari. of course, all the while,

detectives knew amy was innocent. but they let liz think otherwise. >> she made any -- inferred threatening statements, to cari, the goal is to get something like that. >> and what do you know, within days, liz began for running them emails from amy, she said. although the misspellings looked awfully familiar. >> i shot you liz, to make sure dave stayed away from you. i made a couple of those fake emails and numbers even dave thought were cari to get rid of you liz. didn't work too well. >> when they first start coming in, they were pretty vague. >> so, detective doty spoke to liz again. he needed more, he told her. >> so, you guys want me to try and email her back? >> and that's -- i'm leaving that in your court, liz. i mean, if that's something you would feel okay doing, that

would be really helpful. >> liz said she would try. >> cari's family, some closure would be nice, i guess. >> yeah, that is true. give her family some closure. >> so, she sent this email to amy. >> so, if you really shot me, then what kind of gun was it? did you ever get to meet up with dave's ex cari? according to liz, amy responded. the gun was days that i used. don't worry, you didn't get it as bad as cari. then, she wrote this. so when i met crazy cari, she would not stop talking about dave and him being her husband. she tried to attack me, but i attacked her with a knife. i stabbed 3 to 4 times in the chest and stomach area. i then took her out and burned her. i stuffed her body in a garbage bag with crap.

sort of a detail a killer would know. to see while working on it must of been enormously exciting. >> for sure. >> a couple of days later, dave kroupa called detective avis, to say he just had a disturbing conversation with liz. >> she told me that the sheriffs had found remains, like, somebody is dead. and that they thought that this was cari. and that supposedly they had all this evidence against amy. you know, that she's complicit, or know something, or whatever. i don't know. >> dave was understandably shaken up. avis could not tell him much, but he did drop a big hint. >> i'll be damn near moved in with amy if i were you. >> okay. >> uh, since liz did come and tell you this, i would avoid her like the plague right now. >> dave took his advice, moved in with amy, so they could protect each other and their kids. but that outraged liz.

she called the police to say so. >> looks like the only person that benefit was her. so she gets to shoot somebody, and then she had to kill another person. and then she has to move in with dave, and she gets to be free. and you guys aren't arresting her. >> detective doty told her he still needed more evidence. so liz gave her access to her email account. and over the next month, emails came pouring in. allegedly from amy, of course. i got hold of cari, and we drive in her car. i reach over and stabbed her in the stomach. >> when i killed carey, you know she begged me to called day that work, then she begged me to talk to her family before she died. i remember when i killed carry that she had a yin yang sign on left thigh -- >> all that read like a detailed confession. he >> we had to find evidence

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liz gall your killed carry favre in a convoluted plot when back her ex-boyfriend, dave croup. she ended them emails described in the murder, details only the killer would know. december -- the sender, she said, was dave 's ex wife amy. investigators thought otherwise and need to look at carrie's car again. but the car had long since been sold to somebody else. what they found it, much used,

in a whole other county. >> we took up the passenger seat and pull up the fabric of that. there's a dark red stain right on that seat, a large stain. >> they tested it, human blood. dna confirmed it was cari's blood. >> that's huge. >> it was. but we did not know what to do next, for sure. >> but they were sure they had to move fast, because it appeared liz was scouting a new target. >> we would see are circling amy's apartment, multiple times a day. >> because doty and avis believed amy was murdered in omaha, they asked city police for help. and the omaha police picked up liz on an unrelated misdemeanor crime. but in their interview, their questions were about cari, liz stuck to her story that she was the victim in this tragic tale. >> what do you think happened to cari farver? >> i don't know now.

i don't know what's amy's saying is true. i do not know. i'm more scared that something is going to happen to me, and my kids won't have anybody. >> the omaha detective added some pressure. why, he asked, was her fingerprint in cari's car? >> i don't know. i've never even been in her car. i don't even know what's car she drives. >> she denied everything. >> you are just going to lie to me. >> i'm done talking. and i want to have my attorney. because i did not do anything. >> at the end of the night, she bonded out and the county attorney wanted more time to review the evidence. >> what was it like, waiting for that, was it frustrating? >> it was. >> months went by. max, who had not heard about any of that reason investigation, graduated from high school without his mom.

>> that was a real, kind of, stake in the heart. because -- >> god knows if there's any indication she was going to attend, it certainly would be at your graduation. >> yeah. >> summer came and went, another winter set in, and then, december 22nd, 2016, four years after cari farver vanished, after reviewing all the evidence, the county attorney finally felt there was enough. liz golyar was arrested for murder. >> the best part of it was being able to go to nancy and tell her, we have arrested somebody for the murder of your daughter. >> that was a big day for her. >> that made working this whole case worth it. >> feel like driving out there this year. >> could not drive fast enough. >> it was big news for dave, too. >> that was the first time i could go outside and take a breath of fresh air and say i've got someone over my shoulder today.

>> liz sat in jail, while the prosecutors prepare for a trial they knew would not be easy. these cases are tough? >> circumstantial, it was very circumstantial. >> then, as the child it was bearing down, a teeny, tiny memory card yielded an amazing discovery. >> it was just basically bs luck that you got that, right, last minute? >> i don't think it's luck, just divine intervention. >> coming up, a signature tattoo, the ultimate computer clue -- >> it turns up on a picture -- >> of a dead body? >> yeah. >> holy cow. >> would cari farver get justice at last? >> it was nerve-racking. >> when dateline continues. hils, which nucala helps reduce. nucala is a once-monthly add-on injection for severe eosinophilic asthma. nucala is not for sudden breathing problems. allergic reactions can occur.

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they even tracked down a purchase on cari's bank card after she vanished, a walmart receipt. >> one of the items was a shower curtain. and the shower can was familiar to us because, in that phone than we did in 2013 of liz's phone, there was a picture of that shower curtain. >> and they found the shower curtain itself at lewis's apartment. there was also a photo of cari 's drivers license with a large knife next to it, email today. he thought it was a threat from cari. in fact, it was sent from an email account created by liz. >> all these pieces together made a big difference. >> all of it, put together, the prosecutors told the story said it told the story of how liz golyar murdered cari farver. they told the judge it have in the morning on november 13th, 2012, after dave kroupa left for work. cari was on her laptop. >> we know from examination of cari farver's known facebook

that she logged into her facebook at 6:39 am that morning. >> about two minutes later, she logged off. she was supposed to be going to work, but never made it. >> she was intercepted. something happened. that something was the defendant. >> hard to know exactly what liz did to cari, but -- >> it did not take her too long. because at 9:54 am, cari farver's cell phone is being used to access facebook. >> at that moment, it appeared cari unfriended dave. >> the fact that she had facebook friends, the actor temerity, one of the first acts she takes is to eliminate that facebook friendship. >> from then on, in cyberspace, liz became cari. >> all from that purpose, for the reason of convincing people her friends, her family, relatives, everyone, that she was still alive.

>> nancy went to court every day for the trial. heard the details for the very first time. >> when i heard all of this, what this person was doing in her name, it just made me so angry. because, cari did not deserve that, at all. >> so, strong case? the prosecutors hope so, though, nobody cases are tough to prove. but, was it lock, divine intervention? before the trial began, detective avis and tech grew carva went back to dave kroupa, and asked if he had anything that might help them? and that's when it hit him, he put a tablet into storage and had forgotten all about it. so he fished it out, and carva examined it. >> tony remove the external sd card, out of memory, that had

been deleted and reformatted. >> blank, or so it seemed, until carva took a closer look. peter. >> there were, i want to say, thousands of pictures that he was able to locate. >> thousands of photos that liz thought she had deleted. >> one of the pictures that we found was a chinese symbol, that we were able to determine meant mother. and there were dark lines in the picture. >> dark lines? they look more closely. those lines were veins, and what looked like someone's foot, someone's deceased foot. avis called cari's mom nancy. >> nancy was able to email a few pictures, and sure enough, cari had that same tattoo on her left foot. >> wow. >> identical. >> and remember the yin yang tattoo mansion in one of those possibly confessional emails? >> all the sudden, it turns up

in a picture -- >> of a dead body? >> yeah. >> holy cow. that was cari's too. the tattoo parlor kept a record. >> my first thought when i saw those photographs is that this defendant took a trophy, or trophies, of the person she killed. >> the motive, an old one, jealousy. >> it was all because of dave kroupa, she did it because she wanted this man. >> jealousy can make you do strange things, but that's just -- why so much? why? >> i think it snowballed. when she did it, she could not stop. she had to make cari look like she was still alive to get the heat off of her. and it just went on and on and on for years. >> dave kroupa heard it all, and finally understood. >> i mean, it makes sense now, at the end. but, you know, the tarantino movie always make sense of the end. you know, it does not make any sense getting there. >> and liz is a defense

attorney, james martin davis, agreed. it was a movie. a fictional one. >> i know they have all this bizarre behavior, and have all this circumstantial evidence, but he does not show my client on that day in this jurisdiction -- and stabbed cari farver to death. >> without that, no murder case. >> you may have camcorders, and you may have smart cards, and you may have phones. but you do not have a body. and you do not have a cause of death from a medical examiner. what we have is their belief, their speculation, their notion, that this is what happens. but that cannot convict. >> and then the judge retired to think about it. and returned to an anxious courtroom. max, inside the courtroom, waited for the words. >> it was nerve-racking. >> and then finally, an answer. >> the court finds the judge,

the defendant is guilty. >> guilty of first degree murder for killing cari farver, that second-degree arson for setting fire to her own house and killing her pets. she was sentenced to life in prison. just a few rows behind liz, cari's mother nancy finally heard the long forwards from the judge. >> saying that cari did not vanish off the face of the earth and she did not just vanish into thin air. it was just totally relief to me, and i just started crying. >> you can't grieve, really, until you know. and now they did. >> it will never go away. but, at least we can deal with it now. have to deal with it. >> so important, said nancy, to finally set the record straight about a loving mother and a good woman who never abandoned anyone.

>> and i think it would've been important to cari too, because she would have wanted people to say, this was not me. >> max followed his mother's footsteps, pursuing a career in software engineering. >> yeah, she was the one that really got me to understand computers. i will never type as well as she could. but, she is definitely a big influence there. >> she inspired your -- >> yes, she definitely did. but, -- i have her to think for the road i'm going down now. >> i think should be pretty proud of you. >> i hope so.