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deeply sorry. >> it was right out of a soap opera, the husband, the wife, the affair with the local dentist. >> i just don't think of myself as someone -- why would he be interested in me, you know? >> was it passionate? >> yes. >> the script turned dark when her husband turned up dead. >> everything was a blur. they found his car outside the gym. >> we all assumed it was a health -related death. >> 40-year-olds don't just drop dead. it's too many coincidences adding up. >> they believed it was a poisoning. someone else was there with him that morning. >> there hearing about a love triangle. >> she admitted that she was having an affair. >> i had nothing to do. >> the plot was just getting to thicken. >> my god, this can't be happening now.
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a new love makes the world seem a little brighter. >> you had a very smooth, almost sexy way about him. >> was it passionate? >> yeah. >> when that love is forbidden -- >> i was like what? how can that be? how can i not have known? >> a family would wonder if other secrets might be hidden. >> why would you do this? how could you be so irresponsible? >> the whole thing was an atrocity. it wasn't a tragedy, it was an atrocity. >> it all began just a couple of hours north of new york city. the photographers dream called the hudson valley. rolling hills, a majestic river,
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and quite small towns. for linda kolman, it was the perfect place to raise a family. >> small schools, just involved in sports and things like that. >> everyone seems friendly. >> yeah, small towns, you know. >> linda lived with her husband, tom, and their family, a loving home where they celebrated birthdays and holidays. thanks giving 2011 was a busy time, visiting relatives, over eating and watching football. >> he left the game of football. he was a giants fan from a kid. >> you took him to his first giants game? >> i did. i have pictures of him standing down by the field. like look at me. >> kid in a candy store.
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>> it was great. >> both linda and tom had been married before but this felt like the real deal. what was it about tom's personality that made him so lovable and made you love him? >> he had a shyness about him that was sweet. he had a kind of shy flirty kind of way, just adorable. >> when it came time to tie the knot, they rolled the dice and eloped. little whitechapel? a chapel and bally's. it was beautiful, flowers, music , really beautiful. >> it's unusual you know, walking through a casino and someone has a wedding gown on. >> the only guest linda's parents and tom's mom and dad, marie and tom senior. both tom and linda had kids from their previous marriages, but a few years later, they welcomed child of their own, ryan. >> he would say all along through the pregnancy i don't care if it's a girl or a boy. i will love it all the way but
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i knew deep down he wanted a boy and so when he was delivered and he saw it was a boy, he cried. he was so happy, really happy. >> did you immediately see a relationship made in giants heaven after that? >> absolutely. >> they were a blended family. his, mine, and ours, as they like to call it. linda had a daughter who lived with her and tom while tom's two kids from his first marriage lived in colorado, brad, and his daughter, jillian. >> a group doing that my stepsiblings were my siblings. it never felt not normal, you know, it felt like it dad's house, that was my house. >> and, despite the distance, tom was very close to his oldest kids. >> i was a daddy's girl definitely, no doubt about that. he always made sure that whatever brad and i were in town that we would have fun,
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like we wouldn't just you know, be sitting around. we always had fun plans. >> jillian and her dad talked on the phone all the time, thanksgiving weekend, 2011, was no exception. >> we hung up and we blew a kiss over the phone like we used to when i was 10 and we had not in years and i thought that was cute. >> when the weekend of family and football is over, it was monday, november 28th, and lucky for tom, the new york giants were on tv. >> we stayed up and watched a giants football game. i went to bed. >> the next morning as usual, he was up and out of the house before linda and the kids were even awake had >> he normally got up to go to the gym around 5:30 and give me a kiss on the forehead. >> after working out, like clockwork, he always went straight to his job as a physical therapy supervisor. he and linda usually texted soon after, but when linda sent him a message that morning -- >> i didn't get a response and normally tom is good at responding. i was getting a little concerned but you know, maybe he's in a meeting.
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>> she was not really worried until her phone rang. it was a friend of tom's, named gil. >> i got a phone call from gil, saying have you heard from tom and i said no, have you heard from tom and he said no but he didn't show up at work. >> what's going through your mind? concern, or just oh, maybe he's at the gym. >> tom would never miss a morning of work. >> linda jumped in her car to retrace her husband's steps, hoping to find him. she never imagined that search would lead where it did. coming up, linda's heartbreaking story. >> i saw his car. i was like, oh my god. >> tom: -- tom coleman had gone to the gym. in fact he was still there. >> i was like oh god this can't be happening now. >> and dateline continues. >> and dateline continues.
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who didn't return calls from his wife, and he always showed up for work. tom kolman was not the kind of guy who did not return calls from his wife, and he always showed up for work. his family said he loved his job as a physical therapist. >> he was always dedicated, he always worked and he loved it so much he went to get his doctorate in physical therapy. >> was he the type of person who liked helping people? >> he did and people loved him. he was such a sweetheart. >> that morning when tom went m.i.a., linda was frantic as she jumped in her car to look for him. >> usually goes to jim than to work, so i went to the gym and pulled in and at first i didn't see his car but as i pulled further through, i saw his car so i pulled up alongside and looked over and i was like, oh my god, his laying down, and i thought, he fell asleep.
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he looks like he's sleeping. >> so i jumped out of the car and opened the door and jumped in and i was like, wake up. what are you doing? they are looking for you at work. >> but, tom would not wake up. linda called 911. >> what's the address of your emergency? >> i'm in the parking lot by planet fitness. i was looking for my husband and i found him in his car and i don't know if he's breathing. >> what did you think it happened to them? >> at that point, maybe he had a migraine and took some migraine medicine and lay down. >> he's not waking up while you're waiting for the ambulance no matter what you're doing? >> his hands were really cold. and then i realized that his nails were blue. >> now, are you able to check to see if his chest is going up and down? >> i don't think it is. >> tim was one of the first responders. >> i believe we were here within about three minutes of the call. >> what did you see as soon as
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you arrived here in the parking lot? >> mr. coleman's car was parked here in mrs. coleman's car was parked here. she was on the side, she was very distraught and >> did you attempt to resuscitate him? >> we did not. after my quick examination i could tell there was nothing we could do. he had been deceased for a while. >> the paramedics just stood there and i was like, what are you doing, like help them, just get in the car and help them and they just said really, no. i just was like shocked, like can you at least try? >> you know, the one just that he's gone. i was just like oh my god, this can't be happening now.
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>> shortly after, tom's friend, gil, called linda and rushed to the scene. that is him in this dash cam video off to the right collapsing and grief as he learned the news. meanwhile, first responders and arriving officers processed the scene. >> anything unusual about his body or did he just looked peaceful? >> his trousers were open just a little bit. his color was undone, his shirt was pulled out and he was reclined back in his car and i felt like he looked like he took a nap and didn't wake up. there was a presumption that it may have been a heart attack or cardiac event or something had happened. he was a large man. >> since tom's death was what police called an unattended death, there had to be an investigation. detective mike thomas and lieutenant kyle berardi both worked the case for the ulster police department. they took note of how linda, the wife, was reacting at the scene. >> her demeanor, is it what you would expect from a wife making a discovery like this? >> 100%. there was nothing out of the ordinary with her reaction, her words. it was more hysteria. >> police escorted linda down
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to the state -- station to ask her questions about tom's health. >> she had mentioned to us that he had hypertension, he had sleep apnea, which if you are not familiar with sleep apnea, unfortunately, they ultimately stopped breathing at certain times during the night. >> that sounds dangerous. >> absolutely. he was diagnosed by his doctors having a severe case of sleep apnea. >> did you think this was going to be an open and shut case once you got the autopsy results? >> absolutely and that unfortunately was not the outcome the next day. >> instead, the results would turn this tragedy into a tangled mystery. coming up, what had happened to tom coleman? >> we just could not believe it. >> why didn't you believe it? >> he was in good shape. exercised in everything.
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>> if there is a death that is not a natural death, you look at the closest people first, usually the spouse. >> a blockbuster new clue. what did that video show? >> we were able to observe the white suv arrived in the parking lot. someone else was there with him that morning. >> when dateline continues. that morning. >> when dateline continues. why do couples choose a sleep number smart bed? can it keep me warm when i'm cold?
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just after a busy thanksgiving weekend, linda kolman found herself surrounded by family and friends again. just after a busy thanksgiving weekend, linda kolman found herself surrounded by family and friends again. this time, not to celebrate, but to grieve. tom, her husband of 10 years, was dead. >> i think she was in such a state of shock that it's almost like she wasn't there. >> linda's sister, deborah, raced there. there were so many people to
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tell. tom's siblings broke the news to his parents. >> when i came home at 3:00 all my children were in the house. they were told that it looked like a cardiac event and he did not survive it. but, we just could not believe it. >> why didn't you believe it? >> he was in good shape. exercised and everything. he was a little overweight but still, he tried. he was healthy. >>'s daughter jillian and son, brad, found out from their mom, michelle, tom's ex-wife. >> she looked at both of us and no beating around the bush she said your dad is dead. and i just -- everything was a blur. words like heart attack an aneurysm kept flying at me and none of it was registering. it was just other heartbreak. >> the three of us stood together hugging and then collapsed onto the floor.
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but, it did seem to be a really long time that we just didn't let go of each other. >> they flew to new york and joined the growing crowd at tom and linda's house. >> linda was a wreck. she needed help standing up sometimes. she was just riddled with grief. >> as the coleman's may funeral arrangements, investigators met with the medical examiner to nail down the cause of tom's death. what they heard changed everything. >> it was undetermined pending toxicology results. >> the medical examiner explained there was no evidence of a heart attack, aneurysm or any health-related event. >> you've got an undetermined cause of death on a 40-year-old male, which 40-year-old man
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just don't drop dead like that. >> are you still thinking this could be medical or are you starting to think we have a homicide in her hands? >> you could think both at that point in time because we had to wait for toxicology reports to come back but in the meantime we are thinking the worst. >> until we can disprove that it is not a homicide, we have to treat it as such. >> crime scene techs worked on tom's car and took swabs for clues while detectives set out to learn more about his movements on the day he died. linda told police the last time she saw tom was the night before watching football. she assumed he left for the gym the following morning around 5:30, so investigators pull security video of the parking lot to see what that could tell them. it was dark and grainy, but revealed a lot. >> in the video itself, we were able to observe the white suv arrived in the parking lot of planet fitness, and that was about 4:30 in the morning. 10 minutes later we actually see
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tom kolman's vehicle pull into the parking lot and park right next to this suv. that is when we knew that obviously someone else was there with him that morning. >> the plot really thickened, i'm sure, after seeing that video. >> yes. >> so, this is the planet fitness right here? >> this is where tom worked out every morning. i will pull into tom's spot. >> bill wise hopp is a retired fbi agent and chief investigator for the ulster county district attorney. he showed us in the light of day what is hard to see in that grainy video. >> this is exactly where tom was parked right here, which, as you can see, is a distance away from the planet fitness where he normally worked out so this would not be a normal parking spot to pull into at that hour in the morning. >> the mystery suv pulled up where? >> it pulled up right here so they were both facing north. >> could you identify a person, make, model of the car? >> no. it was pitch black.
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these lights were not providing any illumination at all. the only thing we could observe is that the two vehicles were parked side-by-side for 35 minutes. >> the mystery suv left around 5:30 a.m. , but tom's car never moved. >> what does that tell you? >> there had to be contact between the two to meet at this point at that hour so we knew now that someone had met with him prior to his death and we now have to figure out who that is. >> easier said than done, of course. >> we just pulled up here in low-end the holders of white suv here beside us. there's a white suv here, there's a white suv there. >> thanks to the video, investigators now thought they had an important lead to help narrow their search. >> whoever tom was interacting within this white suv, he was
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expecting him, and knew him. >> time for investigators to start looking at tom's in a circle, picking apart his simple suburban life. >> linda kolman i imagine would be something you want to look closely at. >> no question. if there is a test that is not a natural death you look at the closest people first, usually the spouse. >> coming up -- >> as your head starting to spend a little bit? >> we're trying to get a hold of what we have now because things are starting to pile up. >> soon, they discover another reason to take a look at linda kolman. >> me and linda had a relationship. >> is having an affair with linda kolman? when dateline continues. ch. because you have plenty of reasons to show off your skin. with dupixent, the #1 prescribed biologic by dermatologists and allergists, you can stay ahead of your eczema. it helps block a key source of inflammation inside the body
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vice president kamala harris days earlier on fox news. no word on whether harris has agreed. texas governor greg abbott has announced a special election to fill the seat of the late congresswoman sheila jackson lee. the special election will take place november 5th and the winner will serve the remainder of the lease term for houston's district. for now, back to dateline. with no obvious medical explanation for tom kolman's death, ulster police decided to treat it as a possible homicide and said nothing to his family. >> we just had to sit back and wait till we found the cause of death, and that is what we did. we just sat back. >> for tom's parents, burying their firstborn was excruciating, but something the funeral director said give them comfort. >> when people die and if they are well respected, people will come from all over. >> and, they did.
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i had relatives from rochester, long island, new jersey, even from california. >> how moved where you at the funeral as you heard people speak about tom? >> walking into the way, is probably one of the hardest things i've ever done. i waited for my siblings in all four of us walked in arm in arm, faces down, just calling. we walked up to the coffin and just all almost collapsed together and just wept. detectives sent an officer to the funeral home and tom's death was a homicide, they wanted to keep an eye on linda. they also needed to find out if tom had any enemies. >> speaking to everyone including her, tom was a great guy and hard-working and loved his family. and will do anything for them, we couldn't find any enemies and in the world i would want
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to do anything against tom. >> you had a real mystery to solve here. >> absolutely. >> investigators were interested in speaking to anyone interested in tom, including his good friend. gilberto nunez was his full name and a prominent local dentist originally from the dominican republic. >> how long, i guess, have you known him? >> i have known him for over four years but we were like a friendship around three years ago. >> will seem to know a lot about tom's life, his work hours and marriage even his medical history. >> any medical condition that you know of. >> i know that he has sleep apnea. >> investigators best for information about tom's wife. >> oh yeah. i go to the house and stuff.
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>> how is she doing? >> she's not doing too good, you know, she's in very bad shape. >> that wasn't all gil had to say about linda kolman, he had something far more interesting to share with the detectives. c an affair with linda kolman? i think it caught us all off guard. >> what was that moment like when he reveals that he is having an affair with linda kolman. >> how long, ago did that start? >> oh, probably a year. >> and gill revealed another detail that was even more surprising. >> did he know about that? >> he knew. he found out sometime in the summer. >> gill said that not only did tom know about the affair. but two men, continued their
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friendship. >> we got pretty close. it was he got me into football, which i didn't have a clue. >> how crazy is this that tom continued to hang out with gilberto and they stayed friends, even after he finds out that he's sleeping with his wife? >> a better man than i am, but it is not the norm. it is not something that you see. >> is your head spinning a little bit? >> we are trying to get a hold of but we have got now because it stemmed from, unattended death in the parking lot of a fitness club, to now we have all of this and within days, things are starting to pile up. >> now i can imagine you more than ever need to talk to linda kolman. >> he didn't want to talk to me a few days after, and one of the first questions was what was your relationship with gilberto nunez? >> coming up.
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>> in a way, he had a very smooth almost sexy way about him. his personality was sucking me in. did he kiss you while you were in the chair? >> yes. >> you were living almost two different lives. >> i had a real life in a fantasy life. >> passions, secret in anger. so scandalous. >> and he said, this is what is going on. >> when "dateline" continues. some things should stand the test of time. long lasting eylea hd could significantly improve your vision and can help you go up to 4 months between treatments. if you have an eye infection, eye pain or redness, or allergies to eylea hd, don't use. eye injections like eyla hd may cause eye infection, separation of the retina, or rare but severe swelling of blood vessels in the eye.
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>> i met them at the orientation. >> he had a child on the same kindergarten class. >> that was in 2009. >> gill was married and and the two couples started socializing. >> they seem to like each other and, they are finally in, and we are out to dinner or whatever. >> and you started to get to know him better. >> over time. >> threw that and then, they did karate together. >> they were in the same karate class. >> they also hit it off and talking sports and watching giants games. unlike tom, gil was a hands-on dad, and went to all of his karate classes where he would see linda >> gill and i would sit next to each other and just talk. and this was like three times a week for an hour. >> what was it about gilberto, that you liked?
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>> a very personable. >> a year went by before linda realized that something was happening between them. >> every time he would leave, he would give me a kiss goodbye >> a hug? >> like a kiss on the cheek it really wasn't that big of a deal to me, it was kind of his culture. and then as we started going by, when i was leaving the kiss was no longer on the cheek, so i would go back to my car like was that an accident -- [ laughter ] >> lingering or -- >> fairly quick. >> linda said nothing to her husband and she and gill never discussed whatever it was going on, until one day, they finally set it. >> he actually called me one night and he basically was like , i can't get you off my mind and you are beautiful. just to argue, and i was like wow. >> and that is a hot potato right there.
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>> so then he started texting me and then we talked and it just progressed. >> did you think it was and some? >> not really. to be honest with you. but he had a way about him. andy had a very smooth, i want to say sexy way about him. with the accent >> a latin thing going on? >> yes, totally. his personality was sucking me in. >> it was early 2011, both gil and linda's marriages were going through rough patches. >> in all honesty, tom and i, we were having some struggles in the home. >> what were you struggling with. >> probably the same stuff after 10 years, they struggle with. and paying the bills. and working two jobs. >> real life problems.
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>> they were stressful. >> was gilberto a little bit of an escape for you? >> yes. yes, that is a really good way to put it. >> count as a finally get acted upon? >> i went to have some dental work in his office and you can imagine that i'm in the chair, >> did he kiss you while you were in the chair? >> yes, which blew me away, the fact that a dentist and a smart guy, and this smooth guy who seems to have everything, what even want to kiss me or choose me, like i just don't think of myself as someone, why would he be interested in me. >> was a passionate? >> yeah. >> pretty soon they were meeting up for . and by spring gill had separated from his wife and was living in an apartment above his dental practice. you had a busy life with a job and a husband and children. and in a small town, how are you carrying on with the affair?
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>> i still was a wife and a mother for my kids every night after work and i would see him at lunch time. >> linda thought it was a well- kept secret, but maybe not so much, and a few months into the affair someone tipped off tom with an anonymous text message. >> and he comes right at me with that i am getting these texts. and >> so scandalous. >> and i said, this is what has been going on, i had cleared the table. i have been having an affair. with him. >> was there any part of it that felt that i don't want to use the word good but you got it off your chest. you weren't carrying around a secret anymore. >> and, there was a ton of time about it and then at one point, and then, when i can see, that he has some kind of hold on you, and he's like i can see it and he did.
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>> and linda told us what detectives had found so hard to believe. >> how did it affect tom. the fact that it was gilberto. >> strangely, enough, they still continue to be friends. >> it is so hard to grasp. >> they cared about each other, they were like buddies, tom would invite them over for sunday dinners. i know, it sounds nuts. >> a little bit. >> i know. >> and how are you handling that? >> and i am just like in the middle, what do i do? >> you are the object of both of their affections. >> and i love them both. and, you know i don't have to decide tomorrow, let's take some time to figure this out, you now? >> linda says tom didn't pressured and the affair, to the contrary, he gave her the time and freedom to continue to
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see gill and sort out her feelings. >> you are just living in almost two different lives. that have intersected. >> i have a real life and a fantasy life, basically. >> but everyone in the triangle knew that it couldn't last. linda had to make a choice, and gill or tom, and a few weeks before tom's death, she did. so, coming up, her husband or her lover. >> they threw me on the bed and was tickling me. >> who would linda choose. >> in hindsight he knew by my body language, that i just didn't know me as well as he did, but >> had she and gill been telling police the truth? >> maybe linda wanted tom out of the way so that she can be with gilberto. >> and a question. >> when daylight continues. ont , that helps heal your child's skin from within.
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for a little bit of time there, it was me, tom, and gil really trying it was just a few days after her husband's death when linda admitted to detectives that yes, she was having an affair with her husband's best friend. >> for a little bit of time there, it was me, tom and gill deciding what we wanted to do. >> what was i going to do. >> they were letting me decide. >> for months, linda's affection ping-ponged between two men, that is until her october wedding anniversary rolled around, she and tom decided to take the kids away for the weekend. >> i think it was that weekend that we realized that we just want to be with my husband, he was my best friend and i love him and i don't want to do this anymore. i have been stupid and foolish, and ridiculous, and i don't want to do it anymore. >> you chose tom. >> i chose tom. >> a couple of weeks later it was thanksgiving, aunt
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unfriendly terms, gill shared the holiday with tom and linda with her family, monday, linda met with gil alone and decided to postpone telling them that their affair was over. what was that discussion like with gilberto? >> what did they tell them, the holidays are here and all of these kids, like we can't. and he was like okay, i will wait for your decision. >> do you think that he knew? >> in hindsight, i think he knew probably by body language and him just knowing me as well as he did. >> that night, linda felt that she and tom are back on track. >> i remember coming upstairs, he picked me up and throw me on the bed and was tickling me and i think we both just felt like there was a light at the end of the tunnel, and, this was the old us and we are happy and silly. and, we will get through this. >> the next morning, tom was dead. and investigators were
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now learning details about his complicated personal life. >> a bit of a soap opera going on here. >> prior to meeting you guys, we knew this was a dateline case. >> and here we are. >> despite what i heard from linda and gill investigators were somewhat skeptical that this love triangle really had no jealousy or resentment. d.a. investigator, bill wysong. >> we had to determine was there some type of relationship that we weren't seeing, between the victim, and what was going on between the two of them, that tom kolman would allow the sexual relationship to continue between his wife. >> do you have to think of the scenario that linda wanted tom out of the way, did you be with gilberto. >> that was a top of the
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priority list. >> the first question for investigators, did linda or gil drive a white suv, detectives knew that linda didn't but gill did. and he drove a white nissan pathfinder >> there are 1 million white suvs out there. >> want to think about it , you start taking there are everywhere. >> and a coincidence, but a suspicious one. >> detectives are also remembering how gill showed up at the scene of tom's death to console and the and his reaction struck them as odd. >> it was described as he was hysterical almost jumping up and down like a pogo stick. >> very dramatic. not a common reaction. that you would see. >> if it is a good friend who died, is that not possible that someone will have a hysterical reaction to that? >> you do see strange reactions from what i believe his reaction was more than overdramatic i would say, and we checked in the back of our heads for later on. >> both linda and gill told police that the affair was now
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over but investigators were not so sure and begin watching them closely. >> it was electronic surveillance, in terms of constant monitoring their phone records. their computer records. and we also had a gps tracker on his car for a while. >> what were you hoping to find without? >> we just wanted to determine in fact they were still together, if they were together at all. >> it looked like gil and linda were telling the truth after weeks of watching them, police found no signs that i have been together since tom died. phone records also proved that tom and gill were indeed friendly until the end, texting each other throughout the last giants game that tom watched and gill, like tom was well- respected around town. >> he works hard and is not interested in money, as far as i can tell. >> a patient of gills, that has
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always admired his generosity. >> he does a lot of volunteer work. >> did he ever say why he likes to do that? >> i think he was a man who cares. as simple as that, he cares about his patients and he also cares about people having access to good dental care. >> he was a member of the local chamber of commerce and a volunteer firefighter, voted one of the top hudson valley dentist, five times and chosen to endorse products and online advertisements. >> i am dr. gilberto nunez, i'm a practitioner in new york. >> it was a thriving practice, and very busy. >>'s office manager, irene has worked for gill for over 13 years. >> he was always very positive and very upbeat and very kind. he was a pleasure to work for. >> and everyone else police spoke to said the same, gill seem to have nothing to hide. what's more, after weeks of investigating, there was still no clear cause of death, so all investigators could do, was wonder if the love triangle was
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an interesting story, that had nothing to do with tom's death. that would all change when nearly two months after tom kolman mysteriously died and his toxicology results, and they were a shocker. >> we find out, that there was a narcotic and a conscious sedative, and in tom's system, no one even heard of that before. at least in our field. >> you had never seen it in a murder before but as a street drug or something that people have used. >> it wasn't a common thing for speaking is a medical examiner. it is not a common street drug. >> by two investigators the most interesting thing that the medical examiner could tell them about was this. >> it was only used in the medical field, either by dentists, or a doctor with inpatient procedures. >> the fact that this was used by dentists >> it is just too many
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coincidence shall we say, adding up and they all come from gilberto nunez. >> the dentist. >> that put a whole new spin on the investigation. and they wonder if maybe gill had used the medication to somehow poison his friend and romantic rival. >> it was told to us to put in coffee or in juice or some type of substance that could mask the taste of it because it is a very bitter taste. >> and the autopsies had shown liquid in his stomach that might have been coffee. >> we now have a gentleman, who is friends with the family, and is having an affair with the wife. and drives the same type of vehicle that we have on that video. next to our victim the morning is found. >> this is now a murder investigation. >> yes 100%. >> they call linda back onto
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the station for more questions. >> they asked me if i knew what drugs were in tom's system, they asked me, more about the relationship with gill. and, they asked me what i knew of that morning. >> they also decided to tell her about her suspicions, that they believe that tom was murdered and her ex-lover, gill was the prime suspect. >> i found it hard to accept, because in my mind, he loved us, and he loved me, and he loved tom, will he do that and will they do something like that. >> there was a part of you saying, that he could have done this. >> when i first found out about it and i'm in the room with the detectives and they were like do you think that he could have, and i was like no. i was like he would never do that to him. >> and after digesting what investigators told her, she realized that there were signs of trouble with gill. and over several more talks with police, she began revealing details that
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suggested their love triangle was far from tension free, in fact linda says that gill had made it clear that he was making long-term plans for him and even bought her a ring. >> we were out having dinner, and he proposed and i said, i can't. >> how did he take that? >> he said i know, i know, but we have a lot to get through. and then i said yes, you are a premature with that. >> two investigators that grew gill was growing impatient and eager to get tom out of the way. remember those anonymous text to tom, the ones telling about gill images affair, they told police they came from gill, which she found out, she confronted him. >> i was absolutely furious. >> what did you say to him? >> i had to scream at him like why would you do this? >> that is very devious. >> very. >> according to linda, gill cried, said he only did it because he felt tom should know the truth. he said she begged for
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forgiveness and even threatened to harm himself. >> tom felt bad that he felt suicidal, and, you know, tom was that kind of guy. you know, i know that this is -- a really crazy situation we are in but i'm not going to let him kill himself over it. like we will work this out somehow. >> linda said that she was still worried that gill was suicidal and that is why she decided to postpone telling them the affair was over until after the holidays. she seemed sincere but investigators had to wonder, if linda and gil had plotted together to get rid of tom. coming up, linda under the microscope -- >> she took a polygraph? >> yes she did. >> and when investigators asked gill for his alibi -- this isn't the strongest alibi. >> no. >> when dateline continues. i'm starting to get tearied away.
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the sudden death of tom kolman remained an unsolved mystery that his wife linda had not been ruled out as a suspect. did it enter your mind for a second, i hope they don't think that i was in on this with someone, or i had something to do with this because of the affair? >> not really. i had the affair but no way in hell what i want harm done to my husband, ever. if i was going to need to be eliminated -- >> detectives went to far as to check out linda at her job. she worked at a hospital where she might've had access to midazolam. >> we made sure all the midazolam they had was accounted for during that time period. >> they also asked her to take a polygraph. did she pass? >> she passed. so she was rolled out in our eyes. >> that left one person police
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needed to talk to again. her former lover, gil. this time i plan to confront him with all their suspicions. they decided it was time to bring gil in for another talk. >> it lasted approximately seven hours. >> that's a long time. >> it was. there was a lot to cover. our biggest thing was a midazolam and the other was a vehicle. >> a team to terms confronting gil. they told him they had a video proving his sub was at the scene. >> i never went to the gym. i wasn't there. so that's not -- >> but if i look you in the eye and tell you i know you are there. >> then i'm telling you you are wrong. >> so you think i lied? >> i think you are lying to me. yes. >> were you 100% sure that that was his white suv? >> was a 100% sure?
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i was 100% sure but i could not physically give you a license plate to confirm that. >> when investigators asked gil for his alibi? he was all alone? >> all alone. >> that's not the strongest alibi. what about the city defended tom's system? gil didn't know what but when he was being questioned, they were at his office executing a search warrant. inside an emergency kit they found two vials of midazolam. at first gil denied knowing anything about midazolam . >> you don't use it in your practice? versed. >> with that, investigators that they cut the dentist in a lie. they kept pushing, and skill tried to explain how the drug might have gotten and said that
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emergency kit. >> i don't go when there. whatever comes in the emergency kit, it's in their. so, it's easy. >> by all means, your fingerprints should not be on it. on your midazolam. >> if i put it in their. >> it wasn't until i said what if we find your fingerprints on those midazolam bottles? then his story changed. >> went to not knowing anything about it to now is handling it. >> they send it to me. and i put it in there. >> so let me say this. if there's dazzle them on the emergency kit and your fingerprints will be enough because you put it in there. >> yeah. >> when investigators asked him about those text messages to tom, tipping him off about the affair, he had an explanation for that too. >> i'm going to try to figure out how i let him know.
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convinced dentist gil nunez murdered his best friend and romantic rival, tom coleman, police convinced that dentist gil nunez killed his rival tom kolman, police haldeman for questioning. they were about to turn up the heat. >> it's almost insulting when you say he her. and sending text messages trying to break them up. >> i didn't send texts messages to try to break him up. >> investigators tried to rattle gil. will ayed calm and never asked for an attorney. i have nothing to hide. i have nothing to with anything that is in my office, >> through it all, gil stayed calm and never asked for an
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attorney. did he take it? no. the next day after that interview, >> did you give him a polygraph? >> we offered. >> did he take it? in the video to the drug in her husband's system that a dentist like gil would have access to. >> from the images of the white suv in the video to the drug and her husband's system that a dentist like you would have access to. like investigators, she now believed her lover had killed her husband. >> i never wanted to speak to him again. >> within days, linda said she found gil waiting for her outside a chinese restaurant. >> he is in the parking lot and starts screaming at me and we get in a huge fight. he is like, they're trying to
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pin this on me and they say you are involved. i wasn't. you did this. get away from me. >> he was saying you were involved? >> i am like, okay. liar. >> while both linda and the police were convinced gil was behind tom's death, investigators had no solid evidence. the grainy video did not conclusively put him at the scene, and they could not prove the sedative found in tom's system came from gil's office. the district attorney told his chief investigator they did not have a case. >> we didn't have the evidence i felt or my boss felt was compelling enough to put before a jury. >> the investigation was not over. detectors hope they would buy gil's dna in the car and link them to the crime scene. while they waited for the test results, they let tom's family know they were investigating the death as a homicide. tom's ex-wife, michelle, called
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linda for an explanation. >> linda told me she had an affair with gil. she was crying on the phone. that this had happened, and she did not use the word responsible, but i know that's what she felt. >> tom's daughter who had been close with her stepmom was furious. >> why would you do this? how could you be so irresponsible? just mad and confused and trying to prosit. it took a long time to process. i stopped talking to linda at that point. >> linda sister was also finding about the affair for the first time. >> she was very sad and upset and embarrassed and ashamed for having been in a relationship other than her marriage. >> what did you tell her as the protective older sister? >> it is not your fault.
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she blamed herself from that moment on. you did not choose this. people have affairs. millions of people every day. and, no one deserves this. >> tom's parents were stunned by the new direction investigation was taking. you go from thinking that your son likely died from natural causes to now, there's a murder? it seems like something that would not happen. >> right after another. what else are they going to tell me now? >> did you call linda? >> no. >> why did you decide to let it be? >> we were so devastated but by the news. we didn't know what to think. >> if i spoke to her, i'm going to get one side of the story. my son is not around to tell his side. i figured, if i ask her, i don't know what i'm being told. >> you must've been so angry. >> angry.
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we were sad. you know, we have lost our son. nothing is going to change that. we just wanted answers. >> investigators wanted answers too but when the dna results came back, and you question was at the center of the case. >> it was a showstopper. >> coming up. the new evidence, would it clear gil nunez? >> it was impossible he would do anything of that nature. nat
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tom coleman had been found dead in his car with his shirt loosened and his belt buckle undone. tom kolman had been found dead in his car with the shirt loosened and his belt buckle undone. at the time, investigators didn't give his appearance much the. almost one year later, it became crucial to the case. >> got a dna report back that indicated there was an one no mail's dna inside the belt flap of mr. kolman near the bell buckle. >> did you tested against gilberto nunez? >> it was not his. >> where do you go from there? >> that is a showstopper. nothing moves in this investigation until we determine who that is. >> john doe, and that's a
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problem. >> the district attorney. >> i said were not going to go forward with an indictment or arrest until i have the answer to that. >> investigators collected dna samples from first responders to see if they could've accidentally left there dna at the scene and they considered another possibility that the dna belong to an accomplice. >> we were trying to get samples from people who were close to nunez. that's a little trickier because you can't just walk up and as for the dna. you call it cast of dna and you conduct surveillance of those individuals and wait for them to discard an item that would most likely have the dna and then you collected. >> what items did you collect? >> i think a cigarette butt and can of soda. >> all the samples were processed but it turned out to be a bust. >> it identified no one. >> it's not first responders.
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it's not gilberto nunez. who is a? lindo was also growing frustrated. she was a widow. a single mom shunned by her husband's family and eagerly waiting for break in the case. a lot of time past without an arrest. >> torturous. >> every day are you wondering is today the day or will it ever happen? >> you would get to a point where you say, okay, we will live our lives and when it happens it happens. then they need something from me. and i would get pulled back in again. >> the police met with landed to explain the was a problem with the original autopsy. turns out, it was in complete because back then, no one suspected poisoning. many samples like the contents of tom's stomach that might approved midazolam as actual cause of death weren't saved for testing. the das office decided to do something radical.
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>> he said, we need to exhume tom's body tomorrow. i started sobbing. i was like, oh, my god. i feel like he can never rest in peace. >> the medical examiner exhume the body twice to do additional testing. there wasn't just one extubation. there were two. why twice? >> we were going to do what it took to get the evidence we needed. >> meanwhile, gil was free and does dental practice thriving. the public had no idea he was a murder suspect. he did confide in his staff. >> he told us he was innocent. and that, we needed to work hard to keep the office opened. i knew the kind of person that he was. it just wasn't possible that he would do anything like that. >> his life moved on.
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a year turn to did two then three. >> it was really hard for him. i think the only way he has been able to keep going is the fact he knows he is innocent. >> he fell in love again it got married in the dominican republic. >> they were married on the beach. it was very beautiful. with all of his family. closest friends. he was very happy. >> time was more cruel to the kolman family. time's some from his first marriage. became depressed after his father's death and committed suicide. he was just 18. >> brad made an attempt on his life with sleeping medications. all i could say to him was, why? why would you do this to
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yourself and to us? and his answer was, just wanted to go to sleep and wake up with dad. three months after that, he did commit suicide. >> he just wanted to be with him. he made a decision. >> at this point, you have this affair, this horrible choice that has led to potentially two deaths. >> it's a lot. every day. >> surreal. i remember just staring at the programs. with his picture and bradley kolman and the dates and bike, telling myself, you are at brad's funeral right now. it became familiar. i felt too comfortable at a funeral setting and i realized, this is not fair.
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i'm getting too good at receiving bad news. >> the da never gave up on tom's case. >> we were conducting these other parts of the investigation, developing video information and looking at the car. we were doing things with regard to the vehicle. >> the unidentified dna was the biggest challenge. investigators get it the brightest minds from the crime lab to ask for advice. >> one of them said, have you checked the autopsies that were done before? before tom kolman. >> same day? >> same day. i thought that was a sterile environment. she said, well, you should give that a check. so, we did. >> sure enough, they got a match. turns at the dna belonged to the deceased man who had been on the medical examiners table
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before time. the dna had nothing to do with the case. it did mean that some evidence had been contaminated. what are you thinking when you hear that? >> i am thinking that's going to be a problem at trial. because of the contamination. i'm also thinking, thank god we got a little break. >> after the additional testing, the medical examiner finally had a cause of death. acute midazolam poisoning. investigators took everything they had to a special prosecutor and argued they were sure gilberto nunez killed the man he called his best friend. >> i don't think he was ever a friend to kolman. not for a minute. is a master manipulator. he lives to manipulate. i believe he drew time in because he wanted to be closer to the wife and have access to the wife. >> nearly four years after tom's
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death, gilberto nunez was indicted for second-degree murder. how did that feel when you got that news? >> i cried. we all cried pretty hard. it felt good that we were one step closer to justice for tom. >> tough times are still ahead for linda. at trial, prosecutors were about to reveal new details about her affair. >> coming up. another stunning secret. >> he pulled out an i.d. to the cia with gil's picture on a. ♪♪ when you have moderate to severe eczema, it's okay to show off. with dupixent, show off your clearer skin and less itch. because you have plenty of reasons to show off your skin. with dupixent, the #1 prescribed biologic by dermatologists and allergists, you can stay ahead of your eczema. it helps block a key source of inflammation inside the body that can cause eczema to help heal your skin from within.
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the three deputies were responding to calls of a disturbance in two occupants were found dead and another taken to the hospital. in his car, gil nunez went on trial for killing the man 4.5 years after tom kolman was found dead in his car, gil nunez went on trial for killing the man he once called his best friend. >> i was glad to see him being exposed for what he truly was. >> the rest of the kolman family felt the same but were far from a united front. tom's parents still weren't speaking to linda and tom's daughter jillian had limited contact while in town for the trial. >> i knew i had to be there for as much as a could be. i needed closure and i wanted to hear everything i was not being told for all those years.
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>> gil's supporters were also there. his new wife, employees, and several loyal patients. zach was one of them. why did you feel the need to be there? >> we live in a society where you're innocent until proven guilty. i saw nothing that would lead me to believe this could be true. i went there to support him, to show him, particularly because he is dominican and a white area, that there are people who will support him. >> the case would be difficult for gil's friends to hear. the theory? he killed tom because he wanted linda to himself. a special prosecutor summed it up on day one. >> ladies and gentlemen, up session. it was an obsession furthered by deception. >> to show jurors just how obsessed they believed gil had become, prosecutors read emails he read to linda. >> i am not leaving you.
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not today. not tomorrow. that ever. i'm not going to let you walk away from me, never. >> linda took the stand and testified how the affair began and lasted until right before tom's death. tom's parents could not believe the details they were hearing. >> we assumed it was a one-time episode between them. we did not realize it was ongoing for 11 months. we heard that in the courtroom. >> that's amazing you did not know that. >> when you look back, the first kiss if he would've slapped him in the face or kicked him in the nuts, this would not of happened. >> you believe this is the reason your son is no longer -- >> if he didn't come in their lives, time could still be alive. >> prosecutors portrayed gil not just as a man desperately in love, but also as someone
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capable of outrageous lies along with those anonymous text messages gil sent to tom about the affair. jurors also learned he sent text to linda, posing as a woman named samantha. >> linda receives a anonymous text messages from a person, samantha. telling her that tom and she, samantha, were having wild sex. >> that wasn't the only fiction gil created. linda testified that gil told her he was in the cia. >> he had an i.d. card and he said he sometimes would put trackers in people's mouths. >> did you believe him? >> yeah. i didn't think that much of it honestly. he showed me a card and i was like, oh. >> linda didn't make much of about prosecutors at another store they wanted the jury to hear. a story they thought would show a darker side to his deceptions. >> not a good idea.
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>> nick is a retired police officer friends with the guy who worked for gil. nick testified the friend came to him one day saying gil wanted to pay them to harass and intimidate tom. >> he said, gil wants to know if you would want to accompany me to scare the guy. he goes, we may pretend we are from the cia or something like that. so long as he sees you have a gun on you and a badge. if he sees the gun, you don't have to wave it around or take it out, but you know gil was in the cia? i said i didn't know that. >> did you believe that? >> no. then he pulled out i.d. that said cia at the top and gil's name on it and is picture. it had a badge that said special officer. the badge was obviously from walmart or kmart or something.
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it was definitely a fake. >> nick said he refused to participate in ever heard of the plan to scare tom again. >> the reporter james nanny covered up for the times herald record. >> hearing of a love triangle, poisoning, death, homicide. dentist and emails and cia. >> police found the fake i.d. on gil's computer and tacked on felony forgery charges. on a computer server and gil's office, please found in an earner search for the word midazolam. >> the prosecutor suggested that gil, as a medical professional figured out that tom's sleep apnea combined with a sedative could be a fatal combination. walk through your theory of what happened the morning of tom's death. >> the night before i believe gil and tom had texts about meeting that morning.
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at that point, gil wanted to meet with tom because of the fact that he knew he wasn't getting linda. gil got out of his vehicle and at that point, maybe he brought him coffee, it's early in the morning. we got to talk. short time later, gil was driving away and tom was dead. >> prosecutors faced a couple of obstacles. the judge would not let them use parts of gil's interview with the police because he had not been read his rights. jurors never saw how gil initially denied to police it ever heard of midazolam. prosecutors still had to link him to the crime scene. they wanted to prove the suspect as he be seen that the planet fitness parking lot belong to gil. >> we were able to track the movements of this vehicle through these cameras. >> he's the forensic video
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analysts and the key to making that connection. >> we can make observations of the vehicle itself and the pattern. >> police gathered video from nearby businesses to get a better look at the white suv. grant portrait database of 18,000 vehicles used by the fbi. >> each manufacturer has a unique way of differentiating their vehicles. the length might be longer. the shape of the windows be slightly different. >> fredericks testified that gil's car was as close a match he could find to the one in the security vehicle. 2010 nissan pathfinder and he told the jury one more important detail. the suv in the video had a fog late defect, when that cast a headlight pattern. >> what we are seeing from the vehicle as it has this light that is on the ground that moves in front of the vehicle.
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>> detectives tracked down gil's white suv which he sold a few weeks after tom's death and drove it along the same route seen in the security video. >> we did our test, we turn the lights on, and there was the pattern that was quite visible. >> gil's car had the same defect visible in the video. prosecutors thought it would place gil at the crime scene tither evidence together. >> that was a unique feature to the vehicle. it was exactly the same a year later. i have yet to find another nissan pathfinder color white with those exact same issues. >> of course, the defense was about to tell a different story and had witnesses that could destroy the entire foundation of the prosecution's case. >> coming up.
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as gilberto nunez's trial for second degree murder played out blocks away from his practice, as dr. gilberto nunez's trial for 2nd degree murder plato blocks away from his practice, the dentist tried not to let it distract him from his patients. >> even during the trial, he would see patients in the evenings. some days were better than
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others. he seemed to be doing okay. >> his patient sack never wavered in his support. >> do i have doubts? absolutely not. >> why are you sure there's not a darker side to gilberto nunez? >> i'm not sure about anything. people are complex. there's no evidence the guy committed murder. >> in court, gilberto was represented by two heavy hitters from new york city. they had previously defended john gotti. they argued the case against the client was pure fantasy. >> you say he's a ski but the plot they described as like something out of a bad lifetime movie. >> the defense said if anyone was manipulating things, it was not gil but linda. they read or text to gil said the weekend she said she was rekindling her relationship with tom.
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>> i love you. i miss holding your hand. that softs bot on your face. can you picture it? you're there with your significant other. she is texting her lover. >> gil had no reason to kill tom, the defense said, but he did not think the affair was over. the reporter james nani. >> linda admitted to the night before kolman died that they had still seeing each other and spoken via text. i think that weakens the prosecution's narrative that there is an obsessive person that will do anything to get linda to get back in his arms. >> the defense is saying you were telling tom one thing and wanting to patch things and telling gilberto another, stringing him along.'s or any truth in that?
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did you feel that was unfair? >> there was some truth to it. i was stringing him along. we were playing his game so he would not kill himself over the holidays. so, yeah. it was a dirty, stupid game. >> the defense set out to dismantle the rest of the prosecution's case. all the business about the cia, they said was more like a joke, hardly criminal and irrelevant to the charge of second-degree murder. there was evidence that gilberto cared too much about time to ever hurt him. >> tom kolman and gilberto nunez were best friends. they did spend time together. they did make plans and talked about going into a business together. there was no motive whatever for this alleged murder. >> they stressed that none of the physical evidence linked gilberto to the crime scene. >> no dna or fingerprints.
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>> as for the internet search for the word midazolam, they said anyone in the office could've done it and they believe it revealed very little. >> a search that the to a wikipedia page. the search says nothing. >> as for the prosecution's star witness, placing his suv at the scene, the defense said his findings proved nothing. >> even on the expert doesn't say, i've seen in video surveillance, it was tom kolman with gilberto. no. he didn't even see someone went from one car to the other car. >> the defense raised another possibility of who was in the white suv. they reminded jurors tom was found with this close disheveled and suggested tom may have had some kind of liaison planned.
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examination of his phone revealed he had received an email from a hookup website called benaughty.com. >> the website called benaughty.com, that was never the subject of any investigation in the case. >> the defense was trying to throw reasonable doubt into the creation. what role does this have to play? it was left as an open question. >> the prosecution could improve that gil murdered 10 because they couldn't prove it was murder. they challenged the medical examiner's conclusion saying despite the tests, there was no way to know how much midazolam was in tom's system when he died in the amount didn't look like enough to kill him. >> the reality, his heart was a ticking time bomb. he might have dropped dead at any moment. >> the defense put on their own medical expert is at the death was more likely from natural causes. >> the distance was so synced.
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they had one witness who looked over the records of mr. kolman and looked over the autopsies of mr. kolman and essentially said he had an enlarged heart. that, we think, is the reason he actually died. >> the prosecutors, detectives, they want this medical testimony to show a murder. it actually shows is heart disease, likely heart attack. the prosecutor once a toxicology to support the theory of poisoning. what it really shows, a non- lethal dose of midazolam . widely used, safe medication. >> as the case went to the jury, gilberto supporters were more sure than ever that the dentist was innocent. no one could be certain of the outcome. >> it doesn't matter if you're innocent or not.
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andrea canning: the case of the dentist accused of murdering because breathing should be beautiful, the man he called his best friend was now in the hands of the jury.
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i was worried, because, i mean, from day one, the case the dentist accused of cmurdering the man called his best friend was in the hands of the jury. >> i was worried because from day one i was told it was a circumstantial case and it's in the hands of the jury. we will try our hardest and we think it's a strong circumstantial case, we can't guarantee the outcome. >> what's the difference between them and you fell in love with and the man you know now? >> the man i seeing now is a cold, dead heart, doesn't care about anyone but himself. >> tom's family hoped the jurors felt the same. >> i thought the case went well for us and the defense didn't do a good enough job to please doubt. i was pretty confident at that point. >> in the jury room, 12 men and women get into it. they were two of the jurors who
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debated the friendship between tom and gail. >> i believe they were best friends. >> you do believe that? >> oh, yes. they had a lot in common. >> the police believe the opposite. gilberto wanted to make you believe that they were best friends, but they really weren't. >> i wasn't so sure about that. that they were best friends. i find it difficult to believe. >> if the friendship was confusing but they said the security video believed it made one thing clear. did you believe that was his vehicle? >> i did. we said he had something to do with it. >> after just six hours, the judge announced there was a verdict. is that a good or bad sign? >> i was at police headquarters and mike texted me. i was confident. i felt a verdict that soon, they decided he was guilty. >> if it happens too kicked,
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it's good. if it comes too quick, it's not good. >> at that point we started praying. this is the. >> charging the defendant gilberto nunez of murder in the 2nd degree. >> find the defendant not guilty. >> not guilty and not at all what tom's family expected. >> it was utter heartbreak. it was almost five years of hope . the beautiful possibility of closure and leaving it behind, taken away. >> was that a tough blow? >> my family believes he had a hand in it. >> gilberto supporters felt the opposite. amazing relief. >> we were just crying. clinging to each other and
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crying. it was years and years of not knowing what's going to happen. you know, we were so happy. >> i was pleased he was found not guilty. clearly the jury felt there was not enough evidence to convict him. >> how did the jurors come to their decision? some came up with around there that maybe gil did give tom the midazolam, but not with the intention of killing him. >> from the beginning, i believe that nunez was at the scene, but as a friend. to help kolman get some rest. that he had not been getting. and that he left and everything was fine, and he was as surprised with the death as anybody else was. >> you formed that opinion right away? >> pretty much. >> as for the medical evidence,
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they said it did not convince them of murder. what did you feel was the strongest point on the defense side? >> that the midazolam was not in an amount that could have or should have done any harm. >> i believe it could've been just to help him sleep. >> some people criticized you for the six hours verdict time. >> because it was so quick. >> we could've gone over it another six hours and came up with the same result. >> it was a bitter pill for linda to swallow. she may have had a hand in starting the whole thing but couldn't leave the courtroom without having the last word. >> [ bleep ]. psychotic. sociopaths. >> i lost it. i was like, gil, i wanted him to look at me. you were still a piece of [ bleep ] and on the way out, had to say it.
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his associate.. does anybody get that? >> although gilberto was found not guilty of second-degree murder, he was found guilty of the two forgery related charges for the fake cia materials. >> we still damaged him. a convicted felon. it is not what i wanted, but he's not walking away completely free. >> gilberto nunez declined to be interviewed but invited us in his office. he told in an email that he feels sorry for tom's family and angered by what he calls the selective prosecution against him and he is disappointed by the forgery convictions. since the trial, gilberto was convicted in two unrelated cases, found guilty of charges connected to insurance fraud and lying on the pistol permit application. the crime resulted in a combined sentence of 2 to 7 years in prison. in 2018, gilberto nunez was
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released on parole as part of a maritime program. while the kolman's are united in their grief , the gulf between linda and the rest of the family remains. ton's daughter jillian has found a way to stay close to her half-brother, but it has not been easy. >> i do forgive linda. i will not forget what she has done, and the effect it has had on me. she will probably never be close enough to me again to have that effect again. but, i forgive her. >> as she tries to move forward, linda says she's having a harder time forgiving herself. do you feel that guilt still? >> [ crying ] every minute of every day.
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>> i know things have been strained with tom's parents. is there anything you would say to them, if they are watching? >> just that i am really sorry. and that, i understand why they hate me. i totally understand it. i have those same feelings about myself every day. to anyone -- tom's friends, his family, my family, anyone that loved him, for the role i played, i am deeply sorry. i'm craig melvin.

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