tens of thousands of applications on our website begin with the words my parents divorced , you understand why we raise this topic again and again, parents break up in such a way that children have to write to our program and the phenomenon is massive. it's not at all that we condemn divorces, we just ask you to be more merciful to your own children, who always need both fathers and mothers equally. here is another example of such a story she was sent there from kalmykia to pass to us. how long ago did you leave an application on our website

was in 2012, then i do it every year updated the memory for a year, it was inactive , then i activated it again, and to this day it is very important to update your applications, then we see that the search is still relevant and continue it when you started looking for dad. but, uh, the story is here, probably from childhood itself. mm, mom and dad, they studied in moscow, they were classmates, and in the eighty-eighth year they got married in the eighty-ninth year . literally a year later, they divorced, and then they went to my mother's homeland , this is a republic, kalmykia, and i grew up there, my mother i got married, as if i were growing up in a complete family, but i always knew that, well, i have a father, because i bore his

last name and patronymic before marriage. well, like every child, probably, who, well, wants to have a dad, well, she dreamed that someday he would find. well, that's why every year i updated the application. well nadezhda what is the father's name kim valery vladimirovich born in 1966, the city of tashkent was watered by the state farm. well, do you remember about dad, what do you know about dad? well remember i don't remember anything because they got divorced, when i was a very little grandmother, who you are now not with me after a divorce, after a while he tried to establish communication. well, apparently, so they say, as if, well, adults failed. and he left, he left in an unknown direction, maybe it was uzbekistan, tashkent, or he stayed in moscow for his homeland.

well, as if it were unknown, she talked with common classmates, that is, there was a connection with them, but they tell. e what a good man, kind sociable in his hands. this is their wedding album, which, of course, which i in childhood. well, let's say it was appropriated about itself, registration of marriage, mother, well, father. yeah, relatives are standing here. here are my two aunts, well, it seems that my mother puts her signature. where was it? it was, moscow region, pushkinsky district, the village of cherkizovo aga, 88 . they lived there, yes, they lived there, and you were born there. i was born there. uh-huh. this is after the divorce. we have already moved to the republic of kalmykia, home to our homeland. here are the witnesses. yes, this is their classmates hmm well , here it is already directly, well,

the exchange of rings is changing. yes, i'm always a mixture. i speak, mom is like that. well, as the father smiles, the witness smiles, and the grandmother is serious. daddy is serious, she was the director of the school. yes, so serious. well, i like this photo, everyone smiles happy, but here mom is already dressing father, a ring, grandmother, seriously, grandmother is serious. yes? uh-huh so, this is you, this is a little me, yes, you are the only photograph that has been preserved. hmm, in which the three of us are depicted, mother, father and me. but many who, uh, knew father. they say that i'm more like him, and some say that there mom you practically saved. well, yes, almost saved. tell me. oh, there was a move. uh, things were brought from the state farm to the village. well, so that

the album was not disposed of. so let's say i stole it and stole it and kept it. well, somehow, perhaps, more photos could be saved, because there were letters. some were handwritten, something was printed, but it was straight it was poetry, father, it turns out to mother. well, i wrote poetry, most likely it’s good that at least the album has been preserved, of course, of course, children’s photos, of course i have a lot of them with my mother there with relatives, but with my father the only one for someone one of the main days of life. yes, a wedding when sometimes, well , it becomes sad there, you can open it to see. well, something like this. you asked a lot of people about your dad. yes, many. yes, you know, there were moments when, well, already older. let's say i've become many people meet, for example, they say, oh, eyes, dads, there's a high there in dad went there this one and

it becomes interesting. and so, when i became older, social networks appeared internet there, you won’t believe it, but what did i do social networks subscribed to all kim valery because not everyone’s middle name is indicated there and i was in the directory of cities. their phone numbers are there, before there were such directories, well, i really hunted for them. i don't know, not even just curiosity. it's something more, it's like going to your goal. you can say so, i called and asked if you are some such and such a person of such and such a year of birth. well, they said no, you give away, you move on. well, why do you so important, that's why i shoot brought up at all. many people ask me this question. well, it seems to me, native people, they must look for each other, for this they are relatives one blood. well, there is another question that we often ask. well, if the pope needs help, for example

, and there is a difficult life situation. well, this is a native person. so great help is needed. honestly, honestly i did not expect, then we'll see. the turning point of my life was the 90s, when all this devastation began and all that in search of getting money. i contacted unnecessary people at all necessary. naturally. and when the question arose who would take it? to my family, i expected that my wife and daughter, at least for the first time

, would not need anything. after i realized that this was nothing man. despite the fact that we have a common child. i can't live with you. all i had to do was move on and move on with my life. yes, i left for my parents' house in tashkent. i thought i would start my life over again there, but i came home. i

encountered the atmosphere. where do they not like me? i didn't feel love from them, yes love warmth, only needles and all that. i decided to leave. when i returned from tashkent to moscow back, i was doing business, trying to work to earn money. i met natasha with whom we began to live in a civil marriage. well, we have a relationship. on the topic , the circumstances did not work out after it did not work out. if they didn’t call me at the showdown, i rode the grass.

they are wrong. i didn't understand. i was just looking for death. yes, somewhere on the strelka maybe there will be a healer. there, the pigs will probably put me in after i became a homeless person, and this i had the year 2000 for such a feeling of being unnecessary, in general, why i live and how it is better to live like that, yes, and i wanted to hang myself. and when i was looking for, the bough on which i was pulled, i heard the bell ringing, my legs were carried to the sound of the bell ringing. and so it turned out. church of the revival of christ, i met anton alexander there, he revealed to me a simple truth, what i did and that's it. until today , it helps me to live and survive. when i found out

that i have a daughter. i can't put it into words, but i got hope that someone needs me in this life. i guess this is it, probably my next one more repentance atonement yes, i don't want her to feel sorry for me. i'm just to blame for her. i will not lower my eyes when i meet my daughter. i want to see her eyes and for her to see mine. to everything

you know, your dad shared his memories with our correspondents. about you, you want to look very warm, right? i remember the day when my daughter, aisulya, was born. this was the happiest day of my life. somewhere drunk devils. i remember how

i met from the hospital. i remember how embarrassed i was for the first time in my life i took my daughter in my arms, i was still afraid that i could hurt. she was born 3 kg 750. there was nothing complicated. it was a real pleasure to take care of your child , feed him, watch him

grow day by day, how meaningfully he already looks at you , he recognizes his father, his mother pulls his hands. this is the happiest period in my life was then i already said, let's name it after my mother. and my mother's name is. birdies

my inner strength is running out. i always came here in sokolniki, went to the places where my daughter and i used to walk. i was often visited by the thought, maybe it ’s worth it to come after all, after all, my daughter is growing up without me. i'm worried, but i was stopped all the time at that moment that my status as a homeless homeless person. without a permanent job dear daughter, i don't know if i even have the right to address

you as my daughter, because you lived without me. i missed you very much. to be needed by you. are you ready to forgive him? yana is like nina's mother, that i never held a grudge against my father. it just came true today my ultimate dream. valery vladimirovich

come out to us. all is well.

there is a little brother when he was approximately somewhere in the 5-6th grade. i showed up. well, i wanted to, well, the time has come to explain to him why i left him from his wife, we didn’t manage to show him places, met people who helped me help me so far, but so that he understands i didn’t judge. and what, i can’t always be with him myself like that. well, my big mother-in-law did not react very well. i realized that nothing good would come of it. yes? well, now with this program. here i am would like to ask, right? if suddenly they see

natasha kolymatsiya watching this program, this is our son, so that they find me and still take advantage of the moment. i would like to convey words of gratitude to all those now. valery vladimirovich listen to me, please, i will now tell you an important thing, but it is very difficult and unpleasant. it's okay. here anything can happen, not only happy meetings, but also unfortunately. there are refusals to meet, and we found your son andrey and he flatly refused to meet. i five studio even refused and sit to observe what is happening to him to make

some decision; moreover, we are not even allowed to give you our contacts. that's how i have to tell you that maybe andrey will watch this program. he will see your meeting with his daughter and change his mind. i don't know, you can contact him now. i would like the three of us to meet, you, me and mother. yes, everyone has their own truth, everyone interprets what is happening in life for themselves. well, we don’t want to tell you

the facts from the life yes of our joint life with you not with your mother. why so all this happened? not for an excuse. i know what i'm paying for and why anyway. many thanks to the whole show. wait for me absolutely to all the editor to your curator, because you are doing a very big job. you help people find each other, thank you so much. thanks a lot.

looks like we have five kids. congratulations , i have the right to call you son-in-law, right? and children with their grandchildren. it costs a lot. thank you very much. thank you. we believe that there are no hopeless searches, therefore, we are ready to fight for every story in the hope to a happy ending. and i have been looking for my sister anastasia protsenko anastasia alexandrovna all my life. here our family lived in the city of langepas in the north, my father was constantly

there. well, places of deprivation of liberty, my mother was dysfunctional, and my uncle decided to send me to an orphanage. some time passed. a writer with tamara mikhailovna, she told me that this is your sister. and for a while, i was still with her. that is, in the hospital itself , they soon took custody. uh, the woman polina gennadievna nastya lived with her and was brought up. that's where he came, that is, to walk with her. she ran screaming, having fun and laughing. on a swing, he rocked her and went for a walk. well, somewhere there in 2-3 days, it has been stable for years there. well, almost 5 years old, when i turned 13 anastasia was already five years old. i would come for a walk, i shook him

on the hookah. and for the first time i'm here in all time heard, goodbye, here. well, i didn’t understand, at first i kind of said goodbye. everything left the next day, when i arrived, anastasia was gone. i ran along lenina gennadievna, uh , knocked, hammered at the door. you can say there, but we were not told to forget, and that is, there was no specific answer, caring. get out of here, that is, that's all, that is, no one spoke. like a sister, uh, i was ready to sell the apartment, which, well, was given to me by the state from the orphanage there are no lawyers there lawyers to help me find lawyers and the lawyers i went to contacted. i was told that it is useless, that is, a waste of money, but it will not help, because the sacrament of the restoration of the certificate is underway. the only thing they explained to me was that they did not have the right to distinguish between

native brothers from this side. the thought of finding my sister did not leave me even when i graduated from the orphanage. uh, i came to the administration and walked around the offices where i couldn't hear. well, nothing, well , no one gave me any answers at all. here, uh, he was persistent to such an extent that they even called police squads to take me out of there, apparently, everyone got so tired. hmm, they told me that she was in leninogorsk . well, i packed my things and went, i was in leninogorsk. well, i was full of hope that i would find her, and well, for four days, that is, i literally wandered around the city, there was a thought, because, well, i will see her, i will recognize her. well, i’ll find it, in principle, i hoped to find it, well, in the end i realized that i want to tell you that

i didn’t find it in leninogorsk anyway, because nastya lives in seoul, she’s a girl in moscow on a swing no one doesn't remind you like

thank you years as they said, they said a lot of things, spain leninogorsk somewhere just didn't remember

the little one. today, when they said that in leninogorsk in

seoul the very first thought, what is happening and did not even understand where it is at first and think how to get there? now when i saw it. don't you know? around the world

and they helped me find my sister. they noted how important it is to attach photographs to applications, because it is thanks to them that searches often manage to move the dead point quite right. we regularly show photographs of wanted people. it would seem that only a few seconds are on the air, but sometimes they are

enough to change someone's life like that in one of the past programs. we showed a photograph of antonina danilovna barykina, here is this fragment. in the mid-fifties , antonina barykina came to work as a paramedic. in the village of the orenburg region, met in the army antonina left the village from the moment they parted. they will open us very touched that me khan keeps a photograph of this girl all his life. i even after a decade, they continue to think, of course, i want to help him, so the minikan bilyanovic invited him to our studio. please come to us.

hello please have a seat. how do you feel? so far so good. don't worry. why did you like this girl so much, what are you looking for for so many years and remember for so many years. fifty-fifth year got into the army. here, i don’t know that moment when she came to

us with her mothers. they lived together in our village in the house. i returned from the army. she lived there. and we got to know her there. well then young people lived a little. she did not want to move to the middle village . we had a medponka there. she lived there for a while, then helped. i find an apartment moved from the third village. she worked as a nurse , walked, then there was no light , there was no phone, then a little time passed, they transferred the central hospital, novopokrovka wait , well, you met her. or you just tried to court us friendly relations, then it lived friendly relations. she

lived with my mother, my mother considered her daughter. no i thought, thought about it. yes, it turned out that they were transferred to the hospital later. how does she live, right? but you see, there was a time. my daughter-in-law found the photos somewhere. and she said who it was i explained this case, but she says, let's look for him. well, let's

do it. i married lived 53 years. my children now live separately in different cities. their children are doing well.

view re-acquaintance to be friends if you can, if she wants, i know you are very worried. i must have been worried. why were you worried? well, you see, how many years passed already think where she is. family, if it's not for you do not touch, do not interfere with people's lives. and if she wants to communicate, we will communicate correctly that you have decided such such an act. and what about your close relatives? how did you react to looking for your first love through our program? well, they know, she

lived with us and walked. but they say it's okay. everything is fine. your search, what they say, they laugh, you know the one who laughs last correctly laughs well. that's for sure everyone who laughed. let it be with you now let's watch a little story. maiden name barykina

i studied in orenburg, after graduation they sent me a new one, pokrovsky district, the village of chebakkla, head of the first-aid post. i lived in an apartment for a single woman. she lived alone, then the minkhan returned from the army, it turned out that he was the son

of this mistress. he liked me. he began to look after me beautifully, and the hostess drew attention to this, that he was too carried away. and i felt. what does she have? to me some. i realized that she did not want me to communicate with him after me. well this did not last long. i was transferred to the district hospital. here he came to me.

he visited me on a horse, there were no hugs or kisses, none of this happened. well, they were just friends, right? here, but how the photo got there, you know, i don’t remember 60 years have passed since he remembered. my target in krasnodar calls every evening. here's what i decided with him. it 's just saying to go mom, if you want , go, why don't we go if you feel well, i want to talk to our memory. further please bear

in view of she she was found free, she is ready to meet with you and discuss further. but now just a minute, because you're not quite ready to face her. now we will correct this moment. this is what you need for the meeting.

i see you on tv now in real life, because there was an application for your search, so you are here, we see you, you see us. we are very touched. we are very, very touched, how beautiful you are, that someone is looking for me? i think they are relatives, because we have a lot of barracks, uh orenburg yes, who do i know right?

the time was nice to see, uh, to meet, and after all, any woman will be pleased. to realize that for so many years a man keeps the memory of a photograph, he remembers it and now he decided to find it after so many years. it's incredible, but you are doing such a good deed, people don't need your program at all. you bring happiness and joy to people and find friends , acquaintances and especially relatives. yes, to you, of course, from all from all big to you. thank you bowed. thank you stay healthy. thanks

, please don't get lost. we are all very glad we happy if we bring you joy. look for each other, so that it doesn’t happen and wait, don’t look at anything.

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