tv Zhdi menya NTV March 18, 2023 5:00am-5:50am MSK
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vladimir hello well, finally, you have come to us, yes, we have been waiting for you for two years. in 2020 , they threw us their application. we almost immediately you've been invited. what happened? the fact is that a certain fear was still present, plus a lot of people, put spokes in the wheels , tried to speak from all this. and maybe this somehow played some role. initially, but then i decided that i needed it. and decided again. thank you very much. for this, i am sure that today we arrived, not in vain. i also think so, i am convinced of this, while i leave you, i will start the program. you just watch carefully what is happening.
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yes see you soon. we are you let's call. hello good evening on the air program wait for me is a program that has existed for more than 20 years, because people are looking for each other and waiting we can guarantee a lot of quick searches. unfortunately, it does not depend on us, we guarantee a happy meeting for as long as it takes. so, to be honest, i don’t
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know how to explain and how to justify cruelty to my own children. we in the wait for me program decided that we would try to treat everything with understanding and without judgment, but still , it is simply impossible to understand some things. in the history of svetlana dyatlov and sayansk there are a lot of just such details about the life of their own matter. one of the last deeds brought svetlana to our studio of light, come to us.
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so to speak with a dark past. mom's act brought me here at the moment, what is your brother's name at that moment, his name was dyatlov anton vladimirovich, what year was he born in the seventy-second year of birth? he is the younger brother. i am the eldest in the family . my brother was born in chuna village. and when the whole story happened, how we parted, that is, uh, lost sight of each other, lived in grozny many years later, as if i decided to find him, i wrote, wait for me without hoping, in principle, for a miracle and at the same time. i hope when i heard the story that 60 years ago they were looking for a child who was lost in germany during the war, i hoped that, well, there is a miracle, maybe we will find information about his brother. mom, i was a small child with a surname, there are specific reptiles, i don’t remember. i
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remember the essence of the story, what happened, like this story. tell us, please, well, mom was in formidable. at she had a beloved man, and she went to grozny and for him, the father, then he was in the field. decision of freedom she had a stormy affair with a man during the san-pa-nationality, his relatives were against the fact that my mother could become his wife. refused stop well, how to tell him to stop all communication with my mother. e in any way, that is, financial assistance and living together refused. at that time, we were lying at the infectious diseases hospital and were caught with poisoning. wait how old you were and how old your brother was. i was six brother about a year something like that, i don't
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know. how. which side. that is, mother, i met a woman there, since i already assume to an adult that this woman is not just a nurse. she worked there. this woman made a certificate to my mother about the death of my brother. why well, to see how to say, it didn’t come with impunity, or what? this is a deal. i can't understand anything. well, she sold back sold out to the family. well, she had to go to siberia and that there was no money, he had a difficult and financial situation, that is some period to leave and live for some period. she needed money for this, but she went for it to do such an important thing in siberia in order to sell her child. what is on her mind at that moment? what emotions of hopelessness, maybe for her at that time
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she was pregnant with another child. that is, as if from this man, lord , forgive me, but how do you know what exactly she sold? what's the point of getting money? i know that the woman worked as a teacher and her husband. the secretary of the city committee of the party is quite wealthy, it turns out that the family moment, well, in my childish opinion, they looked like 30 years old then they arrived in a zhiguli and from my mother's words. as far as i remember, they could not have children. that is, how would they buy this option, how would it have been discussed even then with me that when she gave me a tantrum in the car, i could not allow such that i understood that she was giving it away. when i was transferring money in this car, they saw my mother said, well, don’t cry, as it were, well, we’ll take it very much. well, naturally,
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straight, i feel that no one collects it is not going to. how did your mother treat you? i was not the favorite child of the family. i was for her, so to speak, like hateful reminders of what she did not want to see in her life. she could kick me out of the house and beat me badly. yes, you could kick me out at the age of 6 or tell everyone to the street, go to your dad right there to catch up after a few kilometers to beat me with something that came under the arm. well, mostly love. it was a hose from a typewriter or a folded lily-shaped boiler. tell where you went, who you sent to say that i was nobody in the house and there was no way to call something like that. and this reminded me all my life.
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love, which was sweet, well, at least , which she could give so from my point of view, she gave anton well, before 14 years old 14 years old, she left to arrange her personal life, left his youngest son, the youngest also anton yes, also anton, that is the fact that she sold the child or he died, well, according to a false, let's say this certificate to relatives. she didn't tell anyone. that is, we came back to siberia back on the train. she went into early labor. we were filmed in tulun gave birth. she has him in a toulun. that is, it turns out that your mother named the third child also anton yes, to hide it turned out yes , so that she hid the fact that this anton is a completely different child, that is, we met with all our relatives who knew about the birth and saw that anton after
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a few years and difference per year. well, as it were, she is not very striking, that is, it was anton who appeared as someone. and that's it, relatives, as if to this day, probably, who communicated with we think it is. he who was born in the 80 second year. she loved this child. yes, well, as if it were a boy, as she explained to me, when she also had a boy in some century. well, as she told me, who i need is all with me, whom i did not consider necessary, they are not with me, when i asked the question, why don't you love me? she answered me like this, that is, who i need, whom i love. you are all with me who i do not need. you are all not here, that was my mother's answer. i can't even wrap my head around why rushed, as if one fine day to search only with the hope that at least he got a normal life
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, not like all of us, that's broken. that he has it humanly, that it was not in vain it was done to her. this act is mean for someone , low for someone, but i hope that he has a good life. i understand that it is difficult to find details a little already, indeed. there he has a different surname; he will not remain under this name of the surname. somehow they had to present it and already two war. it happened in grozny. well, hope only for a miracle and for the transmission, probably, which performs miracles. yes, if you could choose to stay with your mother, or to be taken away by these people who took anton to be chosen at that moment, you know, when once the question became the country had this topic. i lived half my life in an orphanage. and as if once her mother was better off, you abandoned me. there was just such a moment.
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she brought me to the house, and lyudki left. i sat on the bench was deep autumn. i was 6 years old. she came back and said, well, you are not even needed here. it doesn't fit in my head what you 're talking about, as if phew i don't know, i do n't know, i don't know, okay, i'm giving you emotions, of course i asked a question. this one is not just because the people who took anton away. they wanted to take you away. but my mother didn't give up. do you know how i know this? let's see from the story that our correspondents filmed.
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parental love, it was all as it should be, there was no such thing that i even more and more often rumors began to reach me and i decided how to bring to the conversation this person who told all this. because, well, it hurts inside me, like, i want to know the whole truth. she yes, you are not native, you were taken from the hospital, you are adopted. well, she wrote a refusal, refused, in general, from you. i've been meaning to talk to my dad about this for a very long time. i endured
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for probably a year. and before you start a conversation somehow after i asked about the hospital. he, well, burst into tears, yes, as if for the first time in my life i saw that my father was crying, father told me the whole truth , as it really was, from the first day in that hospital it turns out where mm they put me, well, with the woman who was born to me with my mother, as they say, my sister and current mother. this is the reception, right? and she heard that the woman wants to abandon the child, that she simply does not need him, yes, and the patient is already. well, it is necessary, there was no long time, children's mother did not think long. father went to work to do something. we arrived at the hospital, you give
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, take, as if the conversation was short. why do i have money? no, i don't know how to treat. i don’t know what to do and that’s it, they took me away. that was the whole adoption. she simply refused these parents took away. my name was anton, well, what did mom see? here, the birth of dyatlov house vladimirovich with a date of birth on may 18, vladimir learned from foster parents that the biological mother's name was larisa valentinovna dyatlova and that, in addition to her son, she also had an eldest daughter, svetlana, who really did not want to part with her little brother to collect , the girl cried, really did not want to give not i wanted to be taken away so that i could stay. my father offered this larisa valentina both. why second? well, what did she say?
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maybe somewhere in the depths of your soul? yes, i would like to see my biological mother, maybe , well, i hardly have anything that i was drawn to this woman, absolutely i am most interested in my sister. this is my original blood. i really want to see your loved one. light, if you remember, if at least something is deposited in your memory, of course. you know that i really want to see you, my dear person is close. i don't i want, even if we see each other, i don't want to part with you anymore.
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i remember when anton was little, well, as if i were nursing him basically, he was almost talking, that is, he always stretched out his hands to me and was always such a happy nanny. he doesn’t even have my eyes, we look alike with him in some way when he was a little younger. here are the photos, i look similar. although antona received warm love from the adoptive parents of the whole story of leo, it is very painful. i
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went to this for a very long time. but it is, of course, strange that it took so long to go to this happiness, but it means that it should have been so and finally came. this is the most important thing in a letter. i didn't hope at all. i only wrote at the end of the letter that i was really a miracle because i was scared, that this story, that my mother did it. health be happy, please don't get lost. more it will be a very kind look. thank you. we are letting you go. communicate. enjoy chatting with each other. all the best.
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good luck. thank you very much. thank you. thank you. with the disappearance of congenital children immediately after birth, some of the most difficult usually come to us many years later. of course, no direct evidence. no, there are only strange circumstances and great pain that the mother lives with for decades. i want to remind. room on vasilyevsky island before going on vacation
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it can be said that katya was born without a home. it was october 13, 1982. i saw the child the only time. in the corridor of the medical institution, when the girl was waiting for her turn in the operating room. i didn't see. we were told that the child was born with a serious diagnosis. yes, he also has a concomitant heart disease, and i was simply told that i needed to invite my husband and write a statement and leave the child for a while. in the maternity hospital, my husband was given a birth certificate . this is a birth certificate, he brought it to the maternity hospital, and there it remained no documents
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some analyzes and when we asked to see, before signing some documents, at least for a temporary stay , they told us that she had a heart defect and look at her would not work, the search became more complicated, because they just rested against the wall, they told us about you . what are the supporting documents that you had a child? you signed some documents, then you have no rights. searched through acquaintances for many, many years and my card, which has been lost for 30 years. she still found a doctor with me, flipped through this card and i i heard that the diagnosis of the child was not confirmed by anything in the record. he sounds so slanted eyes. and that tons of hearts are pure, but i turned to the committee on social policy of st. petersburg. this is the highest authority that deals with children and the custody of children received such a wonderful answer that my
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child was not in any of the institutions and never did any fantasy , some kind of registry office had already been contacted before, but they didn’t give us documents without explaining reasons. so we asked a lawyer who went along with us. institution. as a result, we received a birth certificate for the child. we asked if the child was alive or not, since he was not among the living, we were told, well, it seems that there are some documents in the petrograd region. well, of course, we went with the same lawyer to the petrogradsky district. and there really was a certificate of my daughter's death. i have it, which contains the same dubious diagnosis, but when we received it, we were told this document, please write that you are receiving it again. naturally, we refused and asked for
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an explanation. tell us who received the documents for us, if we remained parents , yuzhina alexandra fedorovna, born 23, who worked in the infectious diseases filatovskaya, took these documents. she lived in the hospital on vasilyevsky island and on bolshoy prospekt, house 74, that is, everything that happened, it all closes on vasilyevsky island, when we wanted to know, where is our child buried? here i have this wonderful answer in front of me that the burial place of catherine's dumplings petrovna was not born on october 13, 1982, and there is no story for me. not finished, because there is still hope that she may have lived after all. we never tire of repeating hopeless stories that don't exist in the first
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place, because there's always a chance a story will resonate with our viewers. exactly what happened in this case , evgenia milyutina of st. petersburg responded to this story. let's get to know him evgeny come to us. you have seen this story yourself. i saw it myself saw it on tv very many coincidences. i understand correctly that you think that you are the same child.
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i myself was adopted in 1985 in a baby house in the city of kolpino. i was raised by a foster family, father and mother, everything was fine and nothing foreshadowed that i was adopted. but with age, and there were moments where i doubted, there really were such moments already in adulthood, when the moment came , a period came when it was necessary to tell it, and my mother shared with me the story that i was restored, that i lost child. and at an early age of about two years. i was at the time of adoption. and er information about my parents
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biological lost. this is what from the documents of the baby house there was information that the parents were my visiting young students. also, just like in a love story, genna coincides here. yes , it coincides here. and a standing ovation , in general, there was practically no information about my mother ; that's what a student young coming and the surname ended in ko. it was definitely the surname of the dumpling. i was very small. i am, uh , a small child, perhaps neuroscience and in connection with this , they changed the date of birth on my birth certificate in order to justify my physiological development. uh,
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according to more or less age, lyubov gennadievna also told. yes, that some diagnoses were made in the child ’s medical record, when they took me away , information was indicated that there was a lag in physiological development, i didn’t correspond age and information that there were slanting eyes and information about neurological diseases. and in principle, heart disease, there was no information there . the heart is a healthy coincidence that the whole thing takes place in st. petersburg. yes, it's happening in st. petersburg. i was also born in the city of leningrad for money. the city of leningrad and where did you live in leningrad and initially we lived in the area of vasilevsky island of my parents' receptionists
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there was a room from the employer, where they worked at that time on a rotational basis and where they? in principle, the families got to know each other and began their journey on vasilyevsky island after the baby house. this also matches. yes , a coincidence, indeed, a lot, a lot. and , of course, we really want it to be the main coincidence. as you understand, it can be proved only with the help of dna examination in general in our program. there are immutable rules. we open envelopes with dna test results only in the presence of those people, the biomaterials were taken for examination. but lyubov gennadievna gave us written permission to open this envelope. without her. you allow us to do this,
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maybe one of the viewers saw this girl many years ago. and what do you know about her biological mother. zhenya was born in the city of leningrad where she was adopted. zhen remind from what house you were adopted babies, and i was adopted in the city of kolpino yes, yes. we really look forward to your responses, and also look forward to new responses to the story of love gennadievna, what kind of trials life throws at us. here is another story that is unlikely to leave you indifferent.
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you can say something constantly tried not to miss, where more or less someone is found. such a plot came, which means that i waited for my own after 60 years. i'm looking for my son, a certain ivan for you, 60 years old. i left him at the railway station in adler at the age of five, my sister left for
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gagra there in georgia and called me. oh, it's warm in here. stanyuk this tanya was a year old, and he was 5 years old since 507. i i got ready like a fool and went there to work for a construction team, there is no kindergarten. if there is no where the children hired a hand, then we sat normally, that igor and this one did not listen to her, he ran away to work for me. and god is dissatisfied that he will either kill himself near me, or he has ruined something. there was a hopeless situation . and that's what i
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did and decided vertenev. write to them after their father bersenev viktor ilyich, born in the fifty-seventh year on july 24th. and just like that, in his pocket put and planted sweets, got him a whole bag, there are all sorts of different ones for the last penny. come on, i say, sit, wait for me. i 'll come quickly and put him down. he was sitting. rejoiced for so many years. a fool was a fool lost him. well, my mom
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is 92 today. 93 went from september looking for. she has been looking for him all her life, she says, every day every night. how many years i live and i can not forget. they went to adler, they went to krasnodar , but they looked everywhere, they asked, but no one gave any data, they said, since it’s confidential to reveal nothing to me can. vanya, i'm your sister, who was one year old at that time, now i'm 60, but i , along with my mother, all these years, seem to be carrying time. these are her mistakes. of course , we would very much like this meeting to take place while we are alive. not a single night, not a single one, so that mercy does not remember you, i'm sitting here distracted, please. i'm sorry, something happened. if only to see, because you can die
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your own nursery. and as i at least sometimes in the mirror, i look at what i was looking at mike, well, let's assume for the time being i looked. here is some similarity. yes, i got up and went out into the street and i think if i don’t respond, then they won’t find me. so i decided to respond that same evening, there is something like this sister's phone. well , the alleged sister also phoned. after 60 years ago. some woman, for example.
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exit or entrance to the station but i did not run anywhere. i was afraid to leave, i think she will come and find me. to be honest, i don't remember how much i asked the police. used to be suited me. wanted to take something. i say, don't come now. well somehow here so here. well, probably, that's late in the evening, they already took me away, when in this children's
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receiver. yes, i remember my suit had a corduroy bottom. the jacket had patch pockets. here, uh, i wrote down slips of pocketing and they took my clothes from me. i roar, i say, return it, my suit was sent to me near the city, there is such a station in batumi. i got the right house there in the orphanage i had until the end of the eighth grade as a child. well, i already thought. i say i can't accept it. while i was in school. i've been waiting for this all along this, but then i stopped hoping because my last name was changed. i remember when
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i was in the sixth grade i was called. the head teacher to himself they have all the personal files ours and i have this note in the personal file. so i told her then, so i always remember about her, but she did not survive. so she showed me this note, and there it was written viktor ilyich on july 24, 1957. now i myself don’t know who i am, vanya or vitya, they left their real name, the surname was slightly redone.
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i’m in the next world, no matter how in a hurry, but it’s too early to retire. by the way, while the hill is in business in the city nobody makes much noise. arthur needed help, no question. and yegor petrovich let him cope with your problems for you , the debt from his people in the police is small. you ask me something for him.
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