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times mothers he was imprisoned uh-huh and so, as it were, the connection was interrupted. the only thing that was from him was just one letter already. from there. he sent that some documents were needed and that's it. no more news. i didn't get it from him. i understand correctly that mom and dad divorced, they were not officially. i mean, i didn't even, well, no, but they broke up. yes, tell me, when did you come up with the idea to find him? yes, i would have thought there for a long time, it just somehow didn’t come across, and here with my wife in the evening we were sitting and talking something and the wife says, why not give it a try and that's it. so it turned out right? i am my smallest stepbrother, brother, mother and father. oh
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the store to buy roses for my mother on march 8th. i remember i also asked him why why do they like it when they are given flowers? this i remembered. my father was from ukraine , kirovograd region, the city of alexandria, up to 6 years old, in my opinion, they even took me there, they went to skadovsk from berdyansk, that is, to the sea. i remember a couple of things there. maybe something from oriental martial arts. i remember that he showed me some tricks, even this. i remember too. i was not deprived of attention. so let's say. i was the firstborn, well with my father i can't tell what happened, how would he leave. as far as i know, he even returned, in my opinion, to his homeland, and then, well, there was no connection, so let's say, well, at the age of 10, probably, my mother told me that i have a brother. as far as i know, my brother's name is maxim. he was born in
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1993. day i do not know it will be interesting to meet you. what kind of person, that is, how he even looks, who he looks like is interesting, of course. hello maxim, but it turns out that i am your elder brother cyril, it will be very nice to meet you. see you i think it will. you see, i came to look for my father, then let's get acquainted. cyril come out to us. father, probably, yes, probably, i think yes, well, how is my grandmother of 20 years old so far and they ask me, however, they find a
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connection. no, i didn't really look for a meeting. i don’t know, maybe there were some grievances in childhood or something else, the story was what my ex-wife turns out to be. i found it, well, a page, it turns out, then it turned out that , well, it seems, how alive and well, everything is fine. yes, yes, she wrote to him, he answered, and she sent him a photo of me with my daughter. yeah , that is, he was very happy to answer there, and on this, in principle, everything is how it turns out lost connection, could not write anything. that is, the page has already been deleted.
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well, the fact that dad was imprisoned for a long time, you know, there were rumors about it, how would we live in a small village, in principle, everyone knew about each other everything and well, they said, yes, because of what, how far am i? well, i have no idea . guys, you know that dad was in custody. first of all, it doesn't scare you, no. and the fact that after liberation, different things can happen to a person. yes, he can go on different paths, many different options and possible all sorts of let's say yes, it's not embarrassing that, well, this is life, as if to judge a person for something. i think it's wrong. that is, if he was convicted, he had already served his term, and i think he bought it. well, i mean that it is not always possible to find oneself after the release of a person. it's true. find a job
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to somehow fit into society. it's difficult. if the pope needs help, i'm ready to help. what is in our power, i guess i'll say so, let's see the plot. igor alexandrovich met his first wife natalya in 1984 this time i was exploration. we had a son, cyril, 85. he had expressions that could baffle even an adult. one day my wife and i. well, you can say they didn’t
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swear, namely. and he uttered a phrase that stopped us instantly. that is, he came up and said, come on , parents, will you listen to me or not? this is a boy, uh, less than 5 years from birth and , of course, they forgot what they were talking about. cyril was, uh, the sixth year, and we had to part with my wife and son, we weren’t allowed to communicate, and some time has passed. i went to shoot in vorkuta met a woman at that time. she already had a child alone with her had a completely different relationship. and we took each other, loved each other. galina, our son was born. uh, i asked him to name his man after my grandfather. i remember picking him up from the hospital. this is the crumb that they tried to hand over to me. i was afraid to take him in my arms,
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because it seemed to me, how can i. to eat here is a small lump, it means, uh, rosson the boy is curious and stubborn. in general, i i can say that i recognized myself in him when i gave them, uh, hmm a small big gun and he felt offended. why is it small for him, and his older brother is big, and he took and broke both his and his pistol. that is, as it were, well, he did not tolerate the fact that he was considered small. if he wanted something, then he wanted it all to fully collect his son. i brought up only up to 5 years, then i had events due to which we had to leave. i borrowed big money. and at that time a crisis began, in general, both money and goods were gone, so that the family would not
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suffered as a result of all these unsuccessful works of mine. i had to leave from there. well, you can say he ran away, then it means i was convicted of especially serious articles and received a long sentence. and it all dragged on for almost 20 plus years from prison and was released in the twentieth year. i had to work as a diabetic security guard. diabetes. gave complications. more precisely, an amputated finger on the foot of the right leg, and, accordingly, work. i can’t find myself yet , and therefore i am in the social. shelter when they told me that my son was looking for me it was a kind of shop for me, of course. i couldn’t even imagine that such a thing could happen, then and i’m glad i didn’t say this,
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kirill maxim, all my life i considered myself an independent strong person, but now it seems that the moment has come when i have more than anything in the world. i would like to talk to you. if you think, maybe let's meet and talk without any obligations. let's just share what we have accumulated, what we have in our hearts, i wanted more than anything in the world. therefore , father this, probably, should be felt.
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it just can't be explained in words. they weren't very ready. yes, i imagined it in my head. well, when if you know what's in your head, when you imagine and in life it turns out completely differently, maxim, what do you say, i don’t even know what to say, i don’t know. somehow i do not know, as if a stranger is hard, until, of course, a lot of time has passed practically was not next to you. ready to meet, of course.
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there are no words, this happiness cannot be directly conveyed. cyril just said that there are also no words and also overwhelm emotions. need to to rethink it all. you talk sit. it seems to me that the guys will not leave you. why am i even sure of this? i think we 'll talk to the guys. fine. another very important person wants to meet you. don't worry. it's just that this important person
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i want to find a job so that i can , well, move less. well, as if place, that is, somewhere in the security or well, to the side, i don’t know when you have wait , you’re in the north, you worked as a pombur, in my opinion, yes, but you have northern experience there, everything i have with experience i have everything, well, i can't just sit without work. just like that, i have a friend who has marazvedki. yeah, you can talk, in principle, there. well, come on, talk. if there is an opportunity, come on, i'll take any job, let's sit, well, i'll talk. that children should not pay for the actions
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of their parents, but, unfortunately, time after time we become witnesses. today we have two sisters svetlana visiting us, they came to tell the sad story of their family and announce a search. svetlana come to us, please. hello we have arrived. we are to you. with great hope for your transfer, to help us. finding our sister happened so many years ago. mom had to make this decision
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, let's start over. i have already started we are from the yaroslavl region, myshkinsky district, the village of gray. we lived there for many, many years. we moved out of there because i had work. it was the nineties. at the beginning of the 2000s, we were just the two of us. then my mother divorced our father. and in the hope of starting a new family, well, with a man. met but it didn’t work out because she didn’t know what kind of person he was, what he did earlier, he was convicted more than once. so she gave birth to a son, that is, our brother. nikita we have a very bad food. we lived in poverty and did not eat enough. basically, there was no work. they lived there
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on child support. there, they treated you very badly. he insulted us, humiliated us, called us names. well, in general, like this, he and his mother also treated badly hands disbanded the police, endlessly. so actually. he treated him well, because this is his child, and we are not his children, and he came to our family as a master. he oppressed us all and mother. all this, all this, all this made him kiss his feet on his hands, yes, that's what it was. we have a bad childhood to remember, it’s hard for us to get rid of him, that is, it wasn’t hard for us about our mother because well, he’s a man, he applied physical force to both her and us
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, threats were threatened by the police. she helped me. we they ran and ran out in the winter in the frost, but what happened, then it passed. in general, he went to prison once again. mom got married to another man. well, she got pregnant and gave birth to a girl, nastya. he was released, soon, mother and that man parted ways. i am also there for some reason we do not remember the dates were small, he was less than 2 years old. in general, as i remember now, he forced his mother to abandon nastya, he simply forced her. physical force with threats and in our direction that he is there with us there, someone will do something . even this girl was mocked. was such that her mother is a born child, yes, and
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for several months she slept in our room, because he did not allow it, well, with my mother, so that she would say that but i had to refuse. here we are from school. we ask a question on the wall to mom. she cries and doesn't say anything. well, maybe the next day, or somehow, grandmother just told us that she was in the hospital, you refused her, and she was in the hospital, and we went there to the hospital , we put on baubles, well, child, how would we think, we visit her . we can go there came to us well we were told in a rude manner, you refused her nothing to eat from there. we have already concretely understood this, that everything that is in fact, that we
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are no longer allowed without a mother without a mother, and you will not allow us. how old were you? well, i'm probably 12 or 11. yes , somewhere like this. that's because now we ourselves are mothers here with our children. we always worry about when with your child, if god forbid something happens. well, i'm a medic with her well, that's in my memory for some reason. i think it was in the hospital that in once again we arrived, and they already specifically told us not to come here. everything is fine with her and was adopted by a family of medical doctors. everything, and the way they knew that we were coming. they quickly, as we heard it again, left for yaroslavl uh-huh, but we always remember, we always say that we want to find her with her mother. we didn't raise the topic at all. mom now, unfortunately, no, already on the twenty-eighth of january. this
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year she died. it was hard in the hospital, she was ill. yes, i remembered, mom, at least someday no with us, never raised and on this topic. like a wall. like some kind of stone. well, here we are, even in a whisper among ourselves, like, we are already adult children, it would be necessary with my mother, but it was somehow to talk. and we tried not to touch her somehow, but we saw that she was still internal she worries about it, he has it and remember her date of birth, as i remember, i don’t know why i have the date april 24, ninety eighth year. maybe i'm wrong? well , april is definitely april for sure, because this date has sunk down for us, it’s still our grandmother’s birthday, and that she was going, she was born there on grandmother. mirolyubova anastasia valerievna 24 whom they lost their loved ones in such a way,
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for example, alexander alexandrovna alexandrova blame herself for the decision made in childhood, which led to a half-century separation from her brother. unfortunately , it is impossible to travel back in time. but each of us is able to influence our future. well , or at least try to fix something in the present alexander alexandrovna come to us. i want to tell you that i applied, but it was a very long time ago and somehow i no longer hoped. my mother, brother and i lived under door, older brother.
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fedorov and his father divorced, and the three of us lived together and somehow it didn’t work out. here's some resentment. she's in pieces, how we gathered. and she left and went to siberia at that moment. how old were you ? almost 11 years we arrived at the vikhorevka station in the irkutsk region. there she got a job as a painter, then we had a whole village there from wagons. here are such wagon arrests at the end spring at the beginning of summer and it immediately became very bad. i went, soon called to the neighbors. she
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was taken to the hospital for an operation. and we ourselves, my mother, remained in the hospital, but the sisters are in this, they take me, the other wanted to take my brother. well, she left me in the orphanage. i studied on the internet for the weekend came to them to my aunt. well, it turns out, like you were taken into the family. and it seems they didn’t take it away , it seems to be so, because either the girls who are almost 12 years old, and he is also a girl, yes, and a small 4 -year-old child, well, you told us to raise editors that you feel guilty towards your brother. well, you know, a child at 11, of course, i was emotional, i wanted to return. i refused to be adopted and now i'm wondering if everything was good for him. years, well i think that in
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any case, you wanted only the best for your little brother. that's right, of course, but then i still didn't understand the consequences or something. then i just could still was in order to draw some conclusions, what would come of it, that we weren't together. i think that children should not make such decisions at all, but i asked. yes, but, probably, they were sure that you have relatives. yes, relatives will take away will take away both there is no other family there, and this is precisely what caused such a decision to deny the foster family. they gave you here from the fact that seryozha came here and you will be, as it were, yes. here you can say to live nearby. probably i with this position have refused. uh-huh you know, of course, adoption. this is a lottery. we've seen so many stories here where kids were adopted or adopted into very v-7s and
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the kids really lived happy lives, they were loved and adored and for them they were the best and closest parents mom and dad, but there were other stories when the children got into the family and, uh, their new parents. in general, they did not bring them happiness, they were treated terribly. e stories. unfortunately, there are such and such, so no one ever knows which family a child will fall into, what will happen when a new family takes him, or if he stays with relatives, so this, unfortunately, is never possible to predict. judging by your story, you still were not happy relatives, right? well, of course, i wanted to live in my own family with mom and dad, so i saw that the children were my own. these are native children. and i am me,
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but your brother was adopted, and he, too, was not here now. let's take a look there. i remember myself from the age of three, when lidia georgievna took me, my foster mother. so we went to the arkhangelsk region. my mother worked as a teacher of russian literature. relations with the foster mother, so i had a very bad development, and i don't know why. she was very often nervous and showed me, er, since childhood. i'm already somewhere 4:00 at 5 years old, i found out that i was from an orphanage and she scared me all the time that she would give me back to an orphanage. here is a child. i was mobile. eh, that is, he did not sit still. where do you need the forest? where not to? well, for what was
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punishing distance, she was very frustrated. well, she had a complex character, and in general, it was such an attitude from childhood. and the farther the worse we constantly moved. eh, she did not have a relationship with the team. nowhere did i have any suggestions that she was in fact, a mother, just, uh, by virtue of her relations with mine, as if the father uh she hates because i tried to explain for what why? and of course, for a very long time, he was offended by her and so on, and there he blamed her for everything. of course, i wanted to know who my parents were and i really wanted to find them and help in some way and in general. because
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i didn't have anyone. and i, of course, thought that what if i have it there, brother. and suddenly i have a sister. i even remember the country talking about it, that what if he really lives somewhere. uh, brother or sister? we met near the temple. at this time he it was a very difficult moment in his life . because he fell from the scaffolding at a construction site. the doctors said that the arm would not recover. he smiled, and he had white eyebrows, and when he began to tell me his story, i already felt so sorry for the white eyebrows of such a tortured person who smiled. so we started talking to him. lida said that you are an unusual person, and the human in people is preserved there. if people under three to five years old there are some loving people. there are parents. there it doesn't matter who
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e or there, well, those who raised you. so, if you are loved, then how would this humanity be preserved, that is, some good kind people. i say prayed for you. i say, and they worried about you and took care of you when you were little, maybe there were some kind people in the orphanage there . what are they somehow? they helped you. so that you could be like that, because , of course, i saw him in every way, but he was very, maybe, good, you know, very good. i began to persuade him to go to tver and find him in the archive a birth certificate , which i never held in my hands, because i think, well, how wow, well, you need to know what is really going on there and it turned out that it
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was written homozykova. lidia georgievna his mother, the father of the racers alexey alekseevich, i really hoped that something would really happen. no, maybe we put so much effort together with lida, by the way, and she is even more spiritual and material. of course there was hope when they called from the program. it's just that my daughter sent me a message first and says, mom, when will you answer me, i say, why did i send you a message that i read, and it says there that i am looking for, it means my own. i say, well, it's definitely about him, there are no options here. that is, that is, all this is all exactly all of him. i was just really shocked, but then i calmed down like that, and i thought, what are you actually saying, no, nothing. that what
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you were waiting for, here it is alexandra it is very difficult for me to say now. but i really want to. to really find each other really, to find each other in fifty-five years, i really hope that you will need me. i will be loved. i really hope that i don't believe that i love you. i believe that we will see each other soon and be together. why did my application take so long? you know, i think it's unfortunate, because very often people just don't come in and see that someone is looking for them. they didn't search on our program.
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you see, they went to the archives. they tried to look for some documents and only when my daughter went to our website. she saw, that there is your application and responded. that is why we are asking. please visit our website and check if your brother is looking. he didn't even know he had a sister. imagine, he found out about your application. he learned from your application. yes , yes of course, he knows, we broke up for four years, he didn’t know anything about himself at all. yeah. well , she probably didn't tell him you were. well, well, you see, sergey does not even hide it, because there were relationships. so i don't express myself very well. but it seems to me that now everything will change, do you know why? because
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that you will finally meet right now. sooner or later, the secret always becomes clear, no matter how they hide from me, not according to the idea that who i have, although my parents. here are the parents. i searched tried each other. i see. what do you think you 've met bright bright people? so i also heard a lot about what happens in the first three years of a child's life. this is very, very, very important. and now i am sure that your mother loved you madly, and therefore here you are full of some kind of light of love of tenderness and it is a pleasure to look at you more. be healthy.
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for example, he can be a good surgeon solenoidzh alexander semenovich 40 years old, surgeon married daughter studying abroad on the night of the murder , the camera recorded near the house of some old man. where is the video footage? why does everyone know i'm the only one like the old vhs video will be after lunch? okay, we'll see, we'll see. he talks about what he uses.
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