[000:00:42;00] tv company vid presents hello good evening on the air program wait for me , wherever our searches believe, we will follow the trail to the end, because we understand how strongly those who have lost loved ones hope for us. we really never know how it ends. our story, but still sure you can't escape fate. so everything happens exactly as it should be. so we begin. finding out that your parents are not your relatives is always not just impossible to prepare yourself for this, even in adulthood it is unlikely to avoid a strong shock will our today's guests find out the truth. when they themselves became parents

, it is noteworthy that they were born on the same day and on the same day decided to apply for the search for blood relatives. konstantin come to us. east kazakhstan yes, according to my mother's stories, it turned out that when we were very young in the maternity hospital, they kind of refused us, and mom and dad adopted us. but you didn't suspect it. all childhood never. such a question did not even arise, even when you found out about it. mm learned about it. well, i was 38 years old, five

years ago there was nothing, in principle, we had a wonderful family, but unfortunately, uh, dad died 8 years ago. mom was left alone, but she decided to tell us this whole story that they didn’t stop us. well, as i understand it, you weren’t even upset when you found out, so i myself personally from her all very calmly about this. that's when the question arose. and i'll talk to my mom. mom, maybe we 'll submit an application for the transfer, wait for me and then, uh, we'll find out to the last, who are we parents? well, blood, you might say. mom supported me in absolutely everything, and anton and i also consulted and applied for your program. mom is a wonderful mother, and she told us everything very, very much. detailed. let's see. my name is lyudmila grigorievna, i am

71 years old. i live in a village deep in east kazakhstan, not far from the city of ust-kamenogorsk. all my life i worked at school as a teacher of russian language and literature. if you tell from the very beginning, then after the institute for distribution, i ended up in a small forest village. she worked there , got married, and the school was closed. if the canteen site was profitable and had to leave, they left for the chita region, the city of krasnokamensk had no children. we stood in line and decided to take the baby. here one morning. here is the earlier call. they called from the city, they said, if you want, go. look at the village nickname. they left two premature seven months there. we did not even hesitate to take or not to take. very quickly found the maternity hospital, met us downstairs. woman it seems to me that even then

was over 60 years old nurse, and she began to tell my mother stayed with the boys in the hospital for less than a month. they were born on september 30th. 1979. there was some pressure from the father on the mother that they left the children. well, maybe they were afraid that the weak little ones, that there were still children at the end of october, you asked to go home and were released after the holiday. she has not returned to the hospital, in the second half of october she received a refusal. i simply rewrote this refusal by hand, which is what my parents father ostinbaev about zhahnet abdurakhmanovich of the fifty-second year birth. all passport details of the mother, osinbayeva, the day after tomorrow kurbangalievna , born in the fifty-seventh year, also all passport details and a marriage certificate are issued.

but in the stavropol territory, and further in the text, we refuse newborn gemini born on september 30 , 1979, in the maternity hospital of the village nickname, which we sign and then i already know, i realized i will never give my lump to anyone. that's why we left krasnokamensk well, i was left alone at home when my husband left for work. and i knock any call in the door was afraid punished. now they’ll call, they’ll come and take away all this feeling, panic fear, it directly pursued me , you know, and then we decided to leave so that no one would know us. well, in the sense that we took the children and we changed the names of vasya and vanya to kostya and anton. i think it's good that you went from there. we will never

tell children that they are relatives. and then, when sasha was gone, i was very sick. i think we should tell the boys everything you know what he said there, how we were not needed. why mess with all this? well, kostin says. well, is it bad when there are brothers and sisters, of course, it's good. well, here we have decided me. and you know, i am grateful to the parents of these children that they gave birth to a gift. we were happy with these children and my husband, that we have such wonderful sons. thank you very much. indeed, they did not really want to look

at first. on really i love my mom. yes, of course you want. find out the names of your biological parents, which , according to the nanny, is like the father. uh-huh. what do you think, what could be the reason? well, my personal opinion? i think that i can only

guess, but the way we were born, weak with all seven months. well, we didn’t even weigh this gram according to mom’s stories. well , perhaps even here, in the maternity hospital, the nurses say, maybe they will survive, maybe 50 to 50% did not survive. maybe, that's what prompted them, that hmm they were afraid, maybe or something. can not talk now. i'm just in my assumption, but our mom and dad were not afraid to take it. well, here we are with anton sitting here cheerful all alive. i am very grateful. i am very grateful to my mom and dad though dad is gone now. well, this is mom with a capital letter, can you say so? i'm not just asking about the biological father. uh-huh, the fact is that we found a man whose name is isinbaev, he lives on a small street in the stavropol territory. and when our editor

called him. he said i've been waiting for this call for 40 years. of course, we shipped right away. film crew in the stavropol territory, but when we met with him. there was no trace of joy left. it's clear it's not clear it's not clear , and our conversation with him turned out not at all what we expected. let's see let's and about the search, well, we

can invite him about the search, but you are, right? these are not my children, they are not yours. yes, i don’t leave my children, you counted two, i know, well, why did you decide so? because i am my children, i am my children. now i have three of them, they are all my children. it didn’t work out , there is always some probability, but the fact is that the guys have a refusal document. yes, it was me alone. i still remember that, but i can't say. it's my children you say,

it's not my money, i'll go. i know whose children these are. i know you understand. you see, well, if you have such confidence, but simply the result of dna, he will no longer confirm. i delta will not give dna and will not go, they will not go anywhere. well, what can we say to the guys, you will not go, they will come. tell me how it is. you understand how to eat said refuses you, wait, not not his children. you all tell the guys his children. ask the kids. if suddenly, nevertheless, you are mistaken, it turns out that once the children were left and the second they were refused, but then you can’t live with this worry about my life, how will i live. where is my business? well, i

don't want someone else either. i tell you russians, we cross, i eat me. right because he was so happy on the phone. and suddenly we're coming , we're a completely different story. i don't know how long, 2 days 3 days. something happened. something happened. i can see that i 'm upset. no, what happened? we want to know, so we also want to know the business trip. we sent our correspondent. not in vain, because it turned out that the former wife is your intended mother. now her name is gulfida. she changed her surname and got

married. our correspondent found out her address in this village and therefore went to the address. hello hello we are from the program. wait for me , we are looking for gulfizat kurbangalievnil hospital, she is in the hospital. and who do you come to, if it's not a secret, and you have a heart attack to your spouse. the fact is that, perhaps, they are looking for her. so we wanted to check the information with her to talk,

maybe you will be contacted and told something, for what reason in general, right? we have reason to believe that this is her her children are looking for, when the situation came to tambaev. what kind of guys are looking for parents ? such an attitude, that is, when we applied, he seemed to have such joy. at first he was delighted, and then, and then it all started somehow in general. to be honest, you have been living with her for a long time already . did she tell you something,

in general, that there was such a situation, what could it be? well, i wanted to find them. there have never been such conversations. she always kept in her heart said they left it there through the fault of this husband his first. uh, well, what condition is she in? that is, in general, well, it’s possible for the third day already. she lies already there normally what are they looking for or not? well, here it is for him. there he told his mother. well, go for sure. the correspondent told something to his sons, the sons

told their mother and as a result. some kind of conversation, this is a story, but since gulfizad's husband allowed us to go to her hospital. actually. we did just that. our correspondent went to the hospital. well, there was already a whole delegation waiting for him. let's see. your search to the village achikulak where was there a local hospital? only 15 km. this is about 20 minutes by car, but not in 20 minutes, not in an hour to the ward of the patient we are interested in. we never got in. at the hospital we were met by her relatives for the arrival of the film crew. wait for me, they were very wary and wanted to protect gulza from kurban-galievna. these are unpleasant questions.

mother's story. i don't know, it's just now that these people who were calling were calling , the pressure was on all the time. i'm very glad they found what they found we weren't looking for friendly family. any filming was perceived with hostility, until it turned out that the doctors let gulza go home from kurban kurbangalievna herself, she stood by giving us an interview in the hope that her sons would listen to her story from beginning to end and try to understand.

that's how it turned, we also did not expect. that's what i thought, it's been a hobby all the time. i would die, until i find me.

i will be ashamed in front of him. may they forgive me, please. seventy-fifth year i married this fool 18 years of your he gave birth to 76 years old ruslan those times he did not work from work, he was expelled under article 33.

go there for two weeks. and i'm bad bad bad. i didn't even know that i wouldn't have two then. let's go priargunsky district. i have a hospital i gave birth prematurely not six or about 7 months old. i didn't even see their faces. i didn't see a crumb of them. they didn't even give them to me right away in this vacuum. my mother found out here that i had given birth. sent me to these two children, to take away my sister and son-in-law, husband and i of the rainbow, lay did not arrive. i went out into the corridor, as

i see now. persuade me. they won't let them die. it wasn't even 21 years old. they told me, i asked for leave. and she didn't come back. then for about 6 or so, or five months, he decided to go to the village council. went. in the same place, he again said the video to subscribe. i cried, i did not want to, but they persuaded me. they persuaded me. why dont know. this is what i

did, it's my fault. i'm to blame for this. for some reason, i went on a leash. after that we lived for some time five years. not said.

my dear children i beg you. excuse me please. forgive me, i was young then, but all the time i remembered you and i could not forget of course, i'm glad to see you, of course. please forgive me. please, i beg you. what feelings i do not hold offense to anyone, neither to my mother nor to my father, forgive my mother, i will forgive,

of course. to see everything has been forgiven you. don't

be afraid, everything is fine, don't cry. let's go, let's go here in the middle, sit down, of course, yours. there was such a situation, what to do? how are you feeling? we have doctor okay? if anything, then you

say, calm down well, there are different situations, so it's calm down, everything is fine. it contains the results of the dna examination 99.9 for a long time we have been looking for you wonderful

guys, just wonderful. two now four anton heard that the children were chosen on the very day when our correspondent, only one brother was present, but he really wanted to turn to you too, so let's look together.

i think everything is going well with your mother, with you, your family, your home. i have two girls with me. that even now there is no brother. he left on his own business. in general everything is good. we are waiting for you, we love you, i invite you to our home in the stavropol territory. let's meet families? be good to us. god bless. yes, everything will be fine. why didn't you tell your eldest sons about

anton of the region ? during the first years and immediately, of course, rumors spread, but they hesitated. and i'm with this friend. i talked about them all the time. somehow the children here in front of this here, how do you find me? i just wanted a daughter, i already think i can’t. i speak i will die with such sadness, carried away. i thought i would tell my daughter, at least my daughter would know. and then they now tell me, here are the sons. mom, why? when they were said to be 20 years old or

15 there? why didn't you speak? well, i don’t know why they didn’t recognize me about this, how delighted they were, of course, this is older. i eat ruslanbek less than him. he walked me home. come here. i think what happened went home, sit down says. what do we do? he barely calmed me down, it became bad. they came to the kitchen and told my husband, but he made me feel good. supports. you say don't cry there. you rejoice that your children were found, why are you crying? well, you forgive me, please

forgive me, everything is fine to fall. thank you very much for your submissions. we are letting you go. you have something to talk about. we wish you good health, please take care of all your four sons. they will take care

of you. thank you very much. thank you. you big. thank you.

how is zero? well, here you can see zero percent. and maybe this car is what you need. it's one hundred percent one hundred percent. what about anyone anyway it's our yes, yes. even with minimal information about him, but if there are photographs of him, everything becomes. much easier, look carefully at the screen, suddenly something will seem familiar to you at the railway station in omsk in

2001 after the disappearance. our shulzhenko , she, together with her mother and sister yulia, lived in zlatoust in 1981. the mother was deprived of parental rights, the father took the girls to him in chelyabinsk. but after some time he decided to take them to an orphanage, but it happened. that's what he went out of the orphanage to the street and saw as julia looks at him from the window, she could not stand it and returned for her. as a result, julia grew up with her father , she turned to our program with a request to find her sister. and this is kadyr asanov from 1989 to 1991. he served in leningrad where he met yulia shubina, their son roman was born after the death of his mother roman decided to find his father, whom he saw only in the photograph. lyudmila sherandova lived in

st. petersburg around 1998 , she left her three children at home and went off in an unknown direction, how her future fate turned out. none of the relatives knows the application for the search for lyudmila was left by her daughter anastasia arina strelnikova studied at a medical college in krasnoyarsk on may 24 , 2021, she went to classes and did not return home, according to a classmate that day , arena was with a small travel bag , the police found out that arina went to volgograd then to sochi and then the case back ticket to krasnoyarsk got to his hometown is known. and this photo was sent to us from the irkutsk region, the girl in the picture was born in bratsk in 1992 , her adoptive parents gave her the name julia although birth. her name was marie now julia 30 years old

seven of which she is looking for her biological mother. if in one photo you recognized yourself as your friend or just recently saw this person on the street. contact our editors at our website address and hotline telephone number. it happens that people only find out years later that their relatives were looking for them , often during this time the contacts become outdated , the addresses change and , as a result, the long-awaited meetings never happen. a similar situation was described in her applications by ekaterina borzenkova from moscow several years ago. she found out that her biological father was looking for her, but her mother reported this too late and it was not possible to contact her father for a long time , the search for catherine's father was dissatisfied with no results. but then, unexpectedly , her brother contacted us, a very nice sympathetic

guy, look. my name is three years artem aleksandrovich i am 28 years old. my name is 3 years ekaterina viktorovna was born mukacheva. we arrived in almaty and here i met my father, and alexander konstantinovich, a doshkov. and we lived together with them up to 2 years, then they, unfortunately, dispersed, as i had a sunday dad, all of us with him, and meetings, and rides, so to speak , of the police nature were for me in a menacing way, but i could not understand why i my mother was very zealous about these walks. why didn't she love him so much? although now i have grown up. i can say that after all, she probably loved him, but he is not the easiest. and this is worth understanding, he has golden hands. he can do almost anything, he

worked as a jeweler and completed a technical education. and he could fix a car and a motorcycle on his own, anything we wanted. i learned new things on what you did, because he was very well-read, very smart and it was really interesting to talk with him. what was not a golden man, and my motive was called a smart fool, well, as a result, i got it. uh, there is a lot of real estate, moreover, for our region for kazakhstan in almaty it is something cosmic, and he successfully let it all down in life, he didn’t have everything not very good well and some things. i can't forgive him, of course. i saw that my grandmother, in such a deplorable state , could no longer walk, and he did not live with her, that is, he completely left her alone at home, he came , apparently, once a day just to leave food, but she could no longer walk. that is, he, in fact, left his mother in isolation, and at that moment i could not digest it and somehow realize or do something about it. here and after that. how do you understand our all sorts of relations, in principle, went to no, i remember

where he lived recently, and since he moved near this place. i think we 'll try. interview people and contact him. hello, we need alexander konstantinovich and you go straight there to the right. and we spent the whole day looking at ekaterina today, we rode all the clues in several districts , talked with many people who probably saw him, knew him and even knew his

last name. but even these people could not show us the exact place where it can be found. and i think there are several more options. to do this, we do not despair. it was let's say. so the first test run. and the first one, damn it, is lumpy. so don't get upset. i think we will succeed, and we will still achieve our goal, she really wants to meet her sister. actually, he started all these searches for her, and we hoped that ekaterina would also be glad to meet her brother, so we invited her to the program. she stopped returning calls and then wrote to our editor. here is the message i am quoting. i'm fed up with your manipulation. leave me alone. nothing, but even more we were upset, when they found out that for the sake of this meeting. artyom

specifically took a vacation from work. imagine what it was like to call him and say that you don’t need to fly anywhere. well, to our surprise, he still flew in and today artyom is in our studio. hello first of all i want to get crazy. it so happened that it should have been different and i had to sit here. katya we wanted to surprise her. i think she will be very happy. i don't understand what just happened. such is life, what can you do? well, we were all worried too when she called me. editor. i was already in fact at the airport and said, artyom everything is cancelled. i say wait. and as i already have my suitcase, i'm all ready. i can almost see the plane on the gangway. she says, well, that's what i

said, i'll come anyway. whatever it costs me, because, well, who knows how life will turn out. here, i did the right thing absolutely correctly here, of course, probably, until the last moment i hoped that yes would meet more strongly with ekaterina , because she is, after all, a sister. ah, with my father, of course, he still tried to fix it. uh, some kind of contact, because everything that we have just seen. after that, there was another series of attempts, and they did not lose hope, and we came to the fact that he moved to permanent residence in russia, i accidentally found out this information. we went to our migration office, and, unfortunately, did not make any contacts contacts anything, it seemed to fail. that is, deep down, of course, i hoped that your program would help us and the three of us would meet here together, because my father and i are not the best as you saw a pleasant relationship, but i hoped that if we met, with catherine will be some kind of compromise,

what is possible, here you are their stories. we will find the key to my story. first of all, because no matter how we treat our close relatives, we would be friends, we were not friends, anyway. uh, deep in our hearts we believe and expect that we will be loved and appreciated, and we will give the same double or triple. we didn’t succeed in such a relationship, unfortunately, i’m very worried, very disappointing, but such is life. i still think, do not despair offensively, of course it's crazy that it happened like this, and you know the worst thing is that we can't give you your sister's contacts. we cannot legally do this, if i agree, i understand. she doesn't talk to us. she doesn't pick up the phone. she doesn't reply to the message. that is , for some reason she completely went into the shadows. and while it is impossible to reach her. maybe someone cheated, someone said something, scared me, ours invented everything here, but i really believe

that she, of course, will watch this program , this is, in fact, the main hope boat. i hope she sees this program , even if she can’t see it, she will see some of her friends and say, look, look at what kind of apparatus you have, a luxurious great kind guy. look here and refused. yes, if you want, contact her ekaterina, i very much hoped to meet you and i’m very worried, sit here now and not see you next to me, because i want e close ties e, to connect with each other and so that relatives know each other friend and talked and who knows, maybe we would still be together we were able to look and find the reason for such a relationship between our father and his children. that is with us. you know that i will wait for you until the last. thank you