[000:00:00;00] hello good evening on the air, the program wait for me to start the search is almost always not easy here there is a place and doubts that it will lead to nothing and the experience that the life that is used to will no longer be the same, yes, and simple human excitement in front of the unknown. and some are stopped by the fear of being misunderstood and ultimately not accepted. there's no fear, the whole program experience. wait for me shows that it's worth it so we begin. over the years, sooner

or later, it becomes clear that i thought a lot about those family secrets. you know, most often , after all, it turns out that they bring nothing but grief to those who keep them. our program does not set itself the goal of finding out what is carefully hidden , we exist in order to help find relatives to find roots and become happier. and now we will try to help zaire bikbolatova, who really wants to know the secret of her birth. zaire come to us, please. hello

, i would like to find my parents. i was 9 years old and in the fourth grade. here in one beautiful day there are such benevolent people in life who delight. what about the girl, it turns out that her parents are not relatives? well, i started crying, of course. uh, as the saying goes, it's not true, it's starting to make excuses, it can't be. well, of course i did. it's a shame. very much my mother worked for me at that time as a teacher for a philologist of the russian language, russian literature worked next to an evening school. well, with my school. i ran away from the class ran to her crying very

much. i say mom, she says, like this, like this, they called me tomovskoy breasts, i say that they took me to a civil house, he says, i justify i say. well, she started me, of course, reassures me. no, what kind of irochka is this not true. you don't believe them. this is in general. it's that, it's who told you about it, he says, then a colleague ran, and she rolled me to the side, as if she drank, she began to calm me down. she says what are you talking about? so you can’t say such things not for mom to say. are you like this? here, yes, daughter, how is it? they say they love you. well , of course, i would like to believe that this is not true, but still the soul, as it were, remained sediment. i constantly doubted. sometimes they were, of course, they disobeyed there, for example, they scolded how this thought ran , probably due to the fact that it might not be native there, but in reality she wanted, of course i’m good, how would i give a schedule so that i was obedient, as if she had always been, as if a well-mannered girl, that is, once to you

, she brought this thought to her classmate. well, if you lived, or, of course , adults who came to visit us, when he was talking to his mother, when he said, it's like a girl who grew up with you, who took him says, i'll do that i don't hear it. and i quickly left, as it were, from there my mother somehow became uncomfortable. she started it like that. well, what are you talking about? quiet. and i will make sure that i did not hear it absolutely and that's it. here on this and then i , as it were, pierced all this again. i think that's it, then it's really, probably, uh-huh well, there was also a turn of the face. it’s already , as it were, further already, as it were, while i was at school, and she also told me that do you know when yours is like a mother who is not your own, she says, it amazes me. yes, why do you want to say directly

people. what are you doing, in general, that it's none of your business, the parents themselves will figure it out, speak or not? who you are? i just boil. please excuse this emotional release. i am also surprised by him. why is it that a person is telling me a generation of a child then, uh, uncle came to some kind of drinking situation in his head , or as with mom, there was no frank conversation. yes, for you to have a conversation. god forbid that this be, i do not i wanted to hurt her, because i understand perfectly well that it’s kind of hard for me. if this is how the situation would need to be told, she told herself. i think, uh-huh. in general, with my mother, as the relationship was good, of course, there was always a good relationship. i was always the center of attention in the family, i was always cherished like a flower, because we have

photos, let's see, right? this is my mother who looks like my mother. she died after being lost by her mother. i already thought that now, probably, it’s already possible , as it were, no dad, no mom, i’m asking us, even close relatives. maybe they know something olga here is my aunt, she is a wise woman. she said, yes, for irochka , it was like that. here, she went, she took you here is the orphanage, she says there is only one way out to go where they took you, this city there to question. uh, at the moment we find out, well, we went to the city. let's go to an orphanage, and everything has already changed there, of course, everyone who worked there before. they are already gone. at all. he said we have no information about it, absolutely says, we can’t say anything about you about your parents. sorry, he says, we can only send you to the central archive, the city of buynaksk, only there

, if you find it, he says something, some clue, if you find it, and you went to the archive, yes, let's go, archive, we are with her , and there the woman helped. we would have a lot there. all the papers there looked at this very one, but we found such a small detail such a line such a glory to god to allow islam khan's spouses girekhanov. this dad is new to the village of mayorbayurtovsky district. adopt batyrkhanov zaire. yes , that’s the only may 1977 of the birth of a child, like an abandoned person, and the surname irikhanov,

patronymic on may 10, 1977 . in dagestan around the same time. they also left a child. my name is kurbanova aminat , this ring was given to me by my beloved, aunt patimat, she replaced my mother, took me to the north, found me a job. uh, she married me off, helped me buy an apartment, that you were the dearest person to me, but at the same time , i didn’t know what was going on in my aunt’s heart, m-m

aunt's secret i already found out. after her death, a cousin told me a story about my aunt. she called me in the evening and said , you say, you knew that our, uh, aunt party had a daughter, it turned out that all relatives in dagestan knew the secret of aunt patimat but remained silent. my name is barid, my surname is budaev e. my husband told me. grandmother said this story, so that i would swear that i would not tell anyone, and i did not tell it, but there is no nipatia of this grandmother among the living, i had to tell, aunt patimat was born in the city of buynaksk father. they didn't die early. and why did you go to work early

14-15 years old, there e was. the neighbor is also 18 years old, he says he was and he raped her and, as it were , threatened to tell her not to tell this story, so that she would be silent and somehow it turned out that she was pregnant. well, it turned out to be her. mom called an ambulance. mom said, look, his stomach is swollen. she is sick, speed said, you say, what she says, she says pregnant. the food is already, the family says it is necessary to cook. they took her it turns out that she gave birth to her mother asya, she had a tantrum. she started like where did it all come from and this girl. patya told her mother that this is how this neighbor raped her. mother went to these people, cursing that she, uh, would apply to the authorities. they, uh, gave, as it were

, a ransom, so that everyone was silent, and the girl who was born atina, mother, she decided to leave the maternity hospital. just feel sorry for the girl. her mother kicked her out. she was taken from home by her elder

sister, aminatkina, mom, my mother and aunt patima, they didn’t understand each other, they loved each other, like a sister later of buinaksk there was an announcement on the news that recruitment was under way to the north to the city of raduzhny to build, the city of rainbow she collected documents and went there. there she married and gave birth to a son, but she was looking for a girl. she came looking for her, they said that the girl was taken away, that the girl was taken far away from france and she lost hope, and that's how she lived. her son worked in an apartment

and got sick with oncology only 12 years after the death of patimat , her niece's relatives told the truth. on the same day in the evening i registered, and i was looking for me in wait, similar story. and here's one story i liked and supposedly. this woman has been looking for her mother for seventy-seven years - it coincides that my aunt was 16 years old. may allah be found. that all this coincided in dna, if you found the amino active side, and i, of course, i wish that you would not lose each other anymore. i hope we have a big family, dear, sister. i'm very glad you found it. i love you very much and want to see

you. we all love you and are waiting for you. probably, maybe. the point is that the surname patimat, which was discussed in the story of mamaev and not batyrkhanov. and here this is not a coincidence , the same year, the same is my city. actually. we are all in such situations. we think rather no than yes. but here is aminat who was seen now in the plot on the screen. yes , she looks like she sure, she just now

you are already calling you sister, and we are all sure that we want to just see. we want this miracle. and she really asked us to conduct a dna examination and asked us to organize a meeting with you. how i wish my sister was this it turns out, sister. yes cousin. yes

, yes it will be true, let's sit down. amina please tell you and now it seems that zaira your sister is faithful. she looks like my aunt, really, yes, she does. i can't take my eyes off. well, the surnames are different, but you know the surname batyrkhanov. it was just a note there. this is how i read it, the more it was written foundling, maybe they even just left it and left the same, maybe according to history. i read that a lot of coincidences coincidences were that the city of buynax and the baby house were two. uh two years adopted. yes, 2 years, yes, yes, and my friends told me that a neighbor lived next door. she said that she saw my aunt patima with a girl. she was already walking. she held her hand, but the girl was

small. i was a blue-eyed girl, blond and curly-haired very much, it looked like my aunt. this is good for her daughter, but then she says, she disappeared, she talks more, i didn’t see her, but she talks to the girl with this daughter of hers. she saw her. yeah, another year of birth is 1977, and my aunt gave birth, got pregnant, she says in early age. well, somewhere around 15 and 16 years old. she had already given birth, and on may 10, these figures seemed somehow significant to me, because my aunt was also born on may 10, 05, somehow this is in my soul. here is this story. i lay down and think i should call. well , as it were, that is, leave a response. that is , you think that she wrote down the date of birth of the girl, the actual date of birth.

maybe she left something from herself, so that later she would really like to believe in miracles, therefore, despite the fact that the coincidence is only indirect, we still conducted a dna examination. yes, the probability of relationship was zero, there was very little, though there were coincidences. unfortunately well, i was hoping for a miracle of course, what to do? we've arrived. we will now announce the search for our program, thank you.

a lot of people are watching god. we have a huge audience and not only in russia and abroad. so there is always hope. and aminat is also looking for his cousin, who was also born in the city of buynaksk around 1977, the girl's mother was fatima ataevna mamaeva, if you know anything about these stories, contact us, please, the phone number and website address you see on the screen. absolutely not in vain. uh, we went. as they say, this adventure brought you here and

made an examination. dna is not in vain many times our program proved that nothing happens by chance, which was in the plot along with it's hard to believe, but just a couple of days ago, shortly after meeting with our correspondents. suddenly she finds out that in her family there was such a story that was kept secret for many, many years. represent to she told us her story, didn't she? come to us, please. hello hello hello very nice to see you, please come sit down. where are you comfortable? yes listen well an amazing thing. just the way

it is. yes, that's how i found out that aminat applied for a week, probably passed. and somehow my aunt called me and said that you yourself also lost your brother. i say, when was it, what was it like? i speak? why didn't you speak before? it so happened that my mother got married in the sixty-ninth year. she gave birth to a son in the seventieth year. it happened, that mom and dad had a fight, they divorced. and during the divorce, my father took the child. told mom until you get back. i will not give the child back, she did not want to come back, he drank a lot. he tortured his mother for it somehow. well,

i didn't want to make up. but he didn’t give the child , took it and didn’t give it, but the child was from the words of my mother, about six months, she says, and then mom went to pick up the child again. he still didn’t let her drink, he began to swear to kick her out. she left. dad went to his sister said that he would give the child to the orphanage, that the child is bothering him, his sister told him to leave the child. i will be watching. he came drunk and took the child, i won’t leave, he took it. he left it in dagestan in makhachkala.

the boy was six months old, he left him in an orphanage. and after a while, well, mom and dad reconciled. and he deceived his mother, as if he said that we will put up, and i will show you where i left the child, i will say again, we will take the child. eh, everything will be fine. let's go to the orphanage. he said that he left the child on the stairs. but he was very drunk condition. and he, when he came to his sister, he fell in the stairwell and began to cry that he had given the child away, but did he regret what he had done? well, then my aunt and her husband the next day. they went he left on the porch of the orphanage closing

the orphanage. yes, they went to pick up the child. they didn’t find it, they said that if you want to adopt a boy, do the paperwork, only then they say you can pick him up. and so we don’t know that it was you who put him in or who he is, we can’t say that he had some kind of mole here here. what data did he have at birth name surname name budaev budaev ali gasanovich 1970 september 17. ugu was born in the buynaksk region, the village of nizhny kazanishche, in an old maternity hospital, but my mother never

told you about it. no, they didn't tell. why i don’t know, but when i started to tell at home that aminat would find a string for himself like this. well, she talked. i told it like this, and then my mother somehow cried, she also told me. that is, it means, for sure, all my life, and my mother, but thought about her son, and she was looking for him. yes, she went kaspiysk at that time was an earthquake says. she went to kaspiysk that he was taken away, they said, the orphanage. and there i was already they went, well, after a while, my cousin told me the same

story. want? she told a story that there was a similar correspondent in makhachkala, but his surname is russian, but i don’t know what surname and she doesn’t know either, but he looked very similar. he had a mole on me. here says, uh, combed hair says there are photographs. let's see if they can help us. there my sister sniff, little is the cousin's wife. right next to me, this is my mom. and

this is dad. and never say no to it either. why? is it kept secret? i don’t know, maybe because my mother was constantly crying, she remembered, but after that, as my brother was born in the seventieth, how would he they reconciled when the seventy-first year. i also had a sister. it seems to me that my mother gave birth, maybe to the point that they did not find a brother, and this girl would be her consolation. well, she was still looking. she didn't stop, she searched and

mom, when and how will aminat find his sister. i say find. why anyone who seeks, i say, finds. if, of course, he wants to. chat with us. we really want to sit down. well, i suppose that it is possible that in dagestan in the caucasus, due to the mentality of tradition, it is not very customary

to talk about such stories about such things about the fact that the child was left and abandoned, especially when it happens so ridiculously like this. and i think that's why these stories are hidden. i want to say a huge thank you to all of you for coming and not being afraid to tell your the history of the whole country of man is much more important. some doubts, fears, uh , uncertainty about whether it is necessary or not, of course, it is necessary, because there is no one closer than relatives of the family. i know that you want to help us now as a volunteer. we have a lot of relatives who have lost

a lot, who are looking for my friends. well , dagestan is big, they also know each other and not everyone wants to tell their secrets. but there are those who want and thought to help become a volunteer to do good. to all found each other. thanks a lot. i am sure that together we will do many good deeds. yes, when we now announce the search for your variation correctly and will wait for responses on all three stories. thank you. and i really hope to see you again.

dear tv viewers, baryat is looking for his brother ali gasanovich budaev, born on september 18 , 1970 in the village of nizhny kazanishche, buynaksky district of the republic of dagestan and given to an orphanage in makhachkala, if you have anything about him. known, please contact our editors the phone number and website address you see on the screen. i really want to see you. here again is good news. let's

work together. oh, and i am at the beginning i feed. maybe not, maybe so, maybe not, and looked so close. i say no, then i sit like that, i think, what if yes, of course, i should have hoped. well, what to do? are we looking for girls? well, you are very similar. let's leave her in our sister. when a person is ready to do anything to find his loved ones, it is immediately obvious enough to listen to

how he tells his story. know in general, there is someone about yourself. and where are you from as the eldest daughter. she wrote my story, and we submitted the request when i was 38 years old , almost before my death. she was in intensive care and started talking to me, and my mother tells me that you are our adopted daughter. i thought that my mother was just shaving here, i really couldn’t believe it, because i lived in a complete family. mom, dad, i was with them alone. good parents in general, who gave

me everything and love and affection, and therefore i did not have a single gram of doubt that, probably, this, maybe, really, i thought so, maybe my mother was already in such a state that now. well, well, you never know what kind of visions she has. i, of course, regret very much that she didn’t tell me before, didn’t confess, because i would. well, i would have at least said and expressed in words. i have all my love and gratitude for my childhood. well, it didn’t work, my mother died quite immediately there after a couple of days. and quite some time passed a couple of years, because about two years and i still decided to apply to the registry office where it was registered by birth certificate make a request. i made a request, and it

was confirmed, yes, something really. my parents are adoptive, so i found out that lis zoya fedorovna is the biological mother of the forty-seventh year of birth, there was no date , only the year she gave birth to me on april 30, 73 in the first city minsk maternity hospital lis galina i was at that time giving birth, she had the second child , which means she already had a child , maybe. they also told me the address where she was at that time living or registered also unknown, geological street 29, not that she worked in a kindergarten as a cook. everything, there was no more information, nothing at all now at that age. i just felt, well, you know, i have gratitude to just, well, everything to my foster parents, whom i can’t call a reception anyway because they were

my relatives. biological mom, well, i can't accept my heart. but at the same time , none. she has no resentment of anger. no one knows what happened in life, how she returned, what this was an act, but by doing so she made my parents happy, so, of course, i really want to find and find out someone from where and how. and if there is also a brother or sister, then this, of course. i will be a happy person. there is another woman who also revealed the secret of your birth just before your death. she told her family about it. we have our photos. look

please. well, maybe. galina is your biological mother

waiting for you very much to visit. i'm shocked. while galina came to her senses after our news not far from minsk in the village of kamennaya gorka , a large friendly family, sisters, brother, aunt's uncle, nephews and nieces were preparing to meet her. my mother told me this story before she died. she said that she wanted to admit that she had been tormented for many decades about the fact that she gave birth to a girl and left her in the maternity hospital, there was nowhere to go with the girl, and she left her there for a certain period to find housing, because i was already i was already i was almost 5 years old, then she returned for this girl, but the girl

was already adopted to my question. do you think about this girl? do you remember her? she said that her whole life has taught her that she thinks about this girl every day for many decades. of course i tried to find my sister. i called the maternity hospital, where my mother gave birth to the maternity hospital moved to another place. they said that uh, first of all there is no information there must be information, exact what year was she born? and what is her name, i didn’t have this information either and they said that participation in it was still lost. i i found out that galina was looking for her relatives so accidentally and so unexpectedly, to be honest, it’s already very difficult to talk now. i got a call and my sisters said, natasha seems to me. that we

found our sister? i say, why did you get it, and she told me a story that she watched the program wait for me and the presenter said that few people can find each other for one reason, that no one comes to the site and does not look and does not look, who can look for them, and that day she went to this site. and she saw what she was looking for with a lens. well, fedorovna fedorovna but for some reason an inner feeling. i say it's our mother. i immediately called back to moscow for the program wait for me. well, that's how we found out. this is a girl. i started to be beaten. trembling, some excitement, some anxiety. i immediately called the village with the oldest sister. we still have it in the village. she began to sob and talk, poor thing. zoya did not

wait for this day, when i see galina , i will press her straight, how tightly, i will hug her with a kiss, well, i will be seriously joyful. we will cry with happiness sister. of course, you are very we wait. i would like to get to know how she lived, in what family, how many children does she have? what has she become in this life? we would very much like her to come to our close-knit friendly family and become part of us. if you are today our mother was alive, and this miracle happened during her lifetime. i'm a million percent sure that she would be insanely happy. this would probably be one of the happiest people, that i have the best , that after 50 years i still weave.

i would like to feel like they say native blood. what is native blood?

hello anechka brother, after all, there is, this is your own aunt,

your mother's sister. emotions checkmark, this is the best day of our lives. i'm in shock. we have a wonderful big family. i think stunned well very happy that

you have applied for me very happy. i haven't realized anything yet. there are just a huge number of them. they are all kind of incredible, there are so many of them for me, it’s kind of very all because i was alone all my life and i wanted relatives in general. and here here like this. well it's just something