beyond the edge. after giving birth , the woman developed a hernia, which is growing every year and is already hanging down to her knees. in our studio, tamara domme. tamar, hello. good afternoon, studio, good afternoon, host. here i am. i am your last hope, it is very painful for you, well , yes, of course, every step is difficult, i can’t do anything, i can’t sleep on my back or stomach, if i lie down there, i need to move her, if i need to do something, i need helpers, so that someone can help me, that’s the only hope, the doctors have already they refused, they said it would be fatal, it was just some kind of unbearable burden, i came to you with the last hope that you would help me, maybe, let's

first sort everything out, sit down, please, thank you, tamara, and how long ago did you have a hernia? well , i got a hernia 25 years ago, when i gave birth to my last daughter, i have three children, a son and two daughters, it developed after a cesarean section, this is the third cesarean section, i have had three cesareans, and during the first secondly, everything was fine, no, everything was fine, none. after the third operation something went wrong, either i may have raised it somewhere, maybe not this, i didn't take care after the operation, well , everything came out of me, kteri people with the help of a cesarean section can really lead to such consequences, childbirth after a cesarean section of course can lead, since this is a traumatic operation, in this case the patient has a third cesarean section, the risk

is even higher with each operation, and also non-compliance after the operation restrictions, that is, at least for a month not to lift heavy objects, this is wearing a postoperative bandage, all this can lead to an increased risk. tamar, but your hernia was not always so huge, yes, no, of course, well, i think that i understand, i have always been plump, i did not pay attention.

side in size, it probably interferes, it is probably a feeling of discomfort, some kind of pain, some kind of pain, when it just started to grow, well, no, there was no pain as such, but that it began to grow, yes, and the pain began to intensify, as in the seventeenth year i went to tyumen, at that moment already yes there was already pain, already began to notice, like when i eat something, a rumbling begins, it begins, inside, yes, that's exactly it, that inside it begins to bubble, it begins some. bloating, you could see each intestine like this, like this, the intestines are there , yes like this, you could see how they are folded there like this, like this, they are like a bump like this, they go once and the hernia was already so huge then no no it wasn't it with every year more and more everything is lower and lower i went to tyumen in 2017 she was of course like this yeah yeah over these 6 years she has already grown up until now at first they linked it all to excess weight this problem yeah yeah they said. i definitely need to lose weight within

a month and a half so that i lose at least up to 100 kg, how much did you weigh? i weighed 132 kg then, well that's unrealistic, yes to lose more than 30 kilograms in this month, and how much do you weigh now? 116,500. and how do you do you think how much of this weight is the weight of the hernia? well, i think, probably 10 kilograms . alyona, does tamara really have problems with excess weight? well, look, tamara's height is probably somewhere around 160, 150 centimeters. 159 yes, if this is 116 kg, then the body mass index is definitely more than 40, that is, this is the third stage of obesity - this is what is called morbid morbid obesity, that is , she certainly has excess weight, it must be said and separated by the fact that not all the weight of the hernia is of course only fat, if it were only fat only excess weight, i think that the surgeon will confirm, there would be no problem here, it would be easy to remove. here, unfortunately,

there are also internal organs, but in any case, such a large weight, like more than 100 kg with a height of 160, especially 159 cm. and it requires that this weight be regulated, the weight needs to be reduced, because excess weight is always additional diseases, it is always diabetes, it is always heart problems, it is problems with blood pressure, her weight should normally be somewhere around 70 kg. tamara, when you went to the doctors, did they prescribe any tests for you? well, i went to tyumen, a surgeon saw me, they examined me, of course, held a consultation. they gave me a referral, that it seemed like yes, lose weight, then they seemed to give me a referral to undergo all the tests, that they would do the operation, everything, i went through everything completely, all the tests, everything was normal, they even gave me a piece of paper that yes, i can, i had no contraindications for the operation,

but when i was being seen by one surgeon, i arrive, another surgeon sees me, and he says: this is my qualification, but i will not perform the operation on you, why? there will be a fatal outcome right on the operating table, he told me with a direct stent, walk while you can, that's what he told me, i have a question about the size of the hernia at that moment, because, well, firstly, there are concomitant diseases that prevent the patient from being taken for surgery when the hernia is large enough, and the person, for example, has problems with the cardiovascular system or pulmonary diseases, which we are afraid of, we must reduce this hernia, that is, the preserved organs, healthy... the organs that are in the hernia sac, they are not removed, they are put back into the abdominal cavity, and the body has already adapted to the situation in which it is, when these organs are put back into the abdominal cavity, pressure on the chest arises , in particular, it is more difficult for the heart

to contract, it is more difficult for the lungs to work, therefore , because of these moments of compression , it always happens that doctors are afraid, they are afraid that there will be some kind of fatal outcome , he told me exactly the same thing? are there any other than a hernia diseases? yes, i have diabetes, i have hypertension, but now they are also diagnosing me with anemia, and what degree of diabetes? type 2, well , in female terms, of course, i also had a polyp found in my uterus a year ago, they removed it, i have fibroids and cystic ovaries, they are taking on an operation on the ovaries, because they said, until this is removed, then the operation will not be done. they will not, and the gynecologists told me, well, in 5 years, say goodbye to life, you will have female cancer, they predicted oncology for you, nikolai, that's true, a cyst may develop into a tumor, yes, there are cystic diseases that can become malignant,

but in this situation i will understand those oncogynecologists who do not take on the operation, because technically to perform this operation in such a condition, well... difficult, first of all, it is necessary to solve the issue with the hernia as soon as possible to deal with gynecology, it is definitely necessary to deal with it. alexandra, can you please explain to us clearly why a hernia can form in general, what it is? let's use a mannequin clearly and in simple language, let's figure out what a hernia is: the abdominal muscles form the anterior and lateral abdominal wall, these muscles form a strong frame that protects our internal organs and does not allow the organs to protrude outward, when

some kind of defect occurs in these muscles, the defect can occur from overloads, the defect can occur against the background of lifting weights, when there were some operations, that is, in the area of ​​​​the incision, occurs ... the defect occurs at the distance through which the abdominal organs directly exit under the skin, most often, most often the small intestine comes out, that is, how does this happen? this is how a hernial protrusion occurs, what happened in the case of our heroine, from experience, seeing giant hernias, most likely it is not only the small intestine that is there, with such large hernias the large intestine also descends, and even part of the stomach, they descend. it is there beyond the abdomen, respectively, that digestion is disrupted, food cannot pass through the digestive tract as it should, it hurts, it causes, of course, serious organs feel uncomfortable, yes, that is, they should be, respectively, in

their place, when all this goes down, in the case of our heroine, this is already at the level of the hips, there can be no talk of any normal digestion. well , in general, let's visually, we will still look schematically at how this all happens, i will depict a silhouette, we are looking at a person with... from the front using the example of the rectus abdominis muscles, i will show this more clearly, we are used to calling them cubes, these muscles, they should be located close to each other, and between them there is a thin plate, it is called a poneurosis, when, for example, lifting weights occurs, then in these places hernias can occur, in the pubic area hernias can occur, in the groin area there are femoral hernias, well, and accordingly, what happened to ... our heroine, that is, when surgery occurs, a cesarean section is performed by cutting

here below, yes, so that there is shorter, shorter access to the uterus, to the female organs, accordingly, well, let me give you another one i will show the diagram in section, so that it is clearer to our viewers, we will draw a defect between the muscles, this is one muscle, this is the second, what happens, a defect occurs and the organs come out, this is ... called a hernial sac, most often, as i already said, it is the small intestine that comes out, that is, the loops of the small intestine are located in the hernial sac, this is how it looks, that in the case of our heroine, most likely the large intestine is here, and most likely part of the stomach will be located here due to the size, naturally, even the stomach, it stretches, it can also come out, and what does the hernial sac itself consist of, the hernial sac itself is the peritoneum, well, and

regarding surgical treatment, what do they do in general, and ideally, how are such patients treated, these organs are put back into the abdominal cavity, that is, where they should be, here between the muscles stitches are applied, accordingly they need to be sewn, tightened , applied. mesh, there are different methods, they put a mesh so that it becomes a frame, so that it grows with its own connective fibers to strengthen all this and kept, what they do with the hernial sac, excess skin - this is already plastic surgery, that is , within the framework of these very operations for excision of hernias , nothing should be done directly with the skin. thank you very much, alexander. tamara, do you have a disability? no, in tyumen they told me it is not allowed. roman, is it true that in such cases

disability is not allowed? an uncomplicated hernia, of course, does not imply disability, but in this case, there is no need to conduct any additional examination. well, that is, in in her current condition doctors can put a disability. yes, i think so, yes, there are, in general, all the indications for establishing some kind of restriction to work. tamara, your hernia is bothering you a lot. now do not carry buckets, but turn on the hose pump i already have water flowing, somewhere, if

i can not, neighbors help me, children come that help with everything, i myself can not practically do anything, and how do you sleep, oh, sleep in general, it is difficult for me problems, i really like to sleep on my stomach, now i can not, i can not my back, because it presses, here i am on my side, i lay down on this one, if i need to turn over, i wake up, yes, what about my back, my body is numb, i take it here. i just take it and shift it, yes to the other tank, i take it again, again , shift it, this is how i sleep, and how do you take a shower? i don’t have a shower either , i don’t have a bathtub, i have my own bathhouse, so i go to the bathhouse, i heat it up every day, because it’s full, yes, so that there is no diaper rash or anything, that i have to heat the bathhouse, to the toilet as well as on the street, special children made me, they made a shelf, now i i just sit down on the shelf, this is my toilet. i'm ashamed, very ashamed, i say, i scold myself that i've waited until now, well, i've overcome all the obstacles and

have come here, to ask you for help, help me, to live any longer, i can't live like this any longer, especially now i can't get out of the hospital, my hemoglobin is constantly falling, they raise it for me, a month later i 'm back in the hospital, they raise it again, i come home. everything is falling again, tamara, and what are you most afraid of? i'm afraid, probably fall asleep and not wake up, because doctors scare me. i understand myself, of course, doctors also say that at any moment some intestine can burst, or a volvulus, we will not save you, people around you, how do they react to you, in a strange way, in the village, of course, everyone already knows, already attention, as if they have already gotten used to me, that well, well, and as a child, you can’t prove to them young people , well, that well, i’m sick, well, and if i have to go somewhere, i

already try not to go anywhere, because of course, they go, they look around and... shush-shush, but i understand that they are talking about me, yes, it is morally difficult, yes, it kills a person, these looks, this whispering, and which one, he goes, look at her, how can you do this, yes, you are great that you came to the program, asked for help, the fact that you are taking action, this is very right, very important for you now, do not scold yourself for what you said, yes, that you are ashamed of what you delayed, you need to accept this as a fact, right? i delayed, but now i have a chance to fix it, and no matter what anyone says about you now, be sure that you will succeed, this confidence in yourself now, become the best, you know, supportive person for yourself, people are not all evil, believe me, someone, yes, maybe will point a finger, someone

is very humane, and he sympathizes, understands that anyone can get into this situation, and we are no one ... do i understand correctly that you do not have a life partner, no, you do not, but you once did, yes, i had two marriages, from two marriages, i have three children, the first, marriage me didn't last long at all, we lived for a year and a half, our son was 7 months old, i left him because he abused me, and one day he came home, wanted to beat me, i just took my son, left, i won't return him again. and what about the second husband? well, with my second husband we lived for almost 15 years from the somsk region, we moved here to temenskaya in 2006 and after a year and a half he went on a spree, as they say, i forgave him twice, after the second betrayal he decided to go to work in the north, after that he disappeared, in 2009 he left and still

we don't know anything about him, i put him on the wanted list, he wrote to us: don't look for me, i met another woman, that's it. well, i said, you explain to the children, why are you leaving us, explain to the children that this is the situation, i fell out of love with my mother, i'm leaving, he said, no, you look at yourself first, why am i leaving, but he made it clear that this is what i am, and you still have feelings for him, well, yes, i have an older daughter,

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she went to the doctor late, and did you persuade her to go earlier? we didn't persuade her, because we were afraid that we would offend her by starting to point out her mistake, because that she was already worried about this, she understood everything perfectly well, how she looked from the outside, everything, and if we , as children, would finish her off with this, it would be very hard for her mentally, she would simply not be able to stand it, now you regret that you did not tell her earlier, now we regret very much, how does it manifest itself that she does not listen to you? she is stubborn with us and that is, she called her daughter, well, please come there and help, for example , dig up potatoes, and also families also have children, it is not always possible to immediately come there at her call to help her, that is you explain to her mom, well wait a day or two , please, we'll do the work at home, we'll come and dig it up

, no, she goes and does it herself, yes, the doctors forbade her any physical activity, because, well, you see, what condition she's in, you can't overexert yourself, that is, she's doing herself harm, in general, she's doing physical activity to her own detriment, so she can't do anything at all. tamara, why don't you follow the recommendations, why are you harming yourself? well, that's probably my character, because i'm used to doing everything myself. roman, with such a disease, physical activity is fatal? heavy physical activity, lifting, carrying heavy objects, bending, squatting with a hernia are contraindicated, because they can. to serious complications, to necrosis, to intestinal perforation, which will require some kind of emergency surgical intervention, if they still have time, it is quite possible that a fatal outcome will occur. and what exactly tamara cannot do, and what can she do? well, from some physical exercises, only breathing exercises are allowed, and joint gymnastics, sitting or lying down, not in in no case any heavy physical activity, no exercise machines, no squats, no push-ups, no carrying heavy objects,

this is all categorically. shown, and have you never been afraid that this could be a hereditary disease? it's scary, of course, that you sometimes think that god forbid it will be the same, it's scary, novel, it can be inherited, or a predisposition to it, yes there is a predisposition that is inherited, here in this particular case, it is still a postoperative hernia, but it is quite possible that some weakness of connective tissue, it can be inherited, so you need to monitor your health. pauline, when your mother got a hernia, will it change much? she has had a hernia for a long time, that is, when it became larger at this level, she became more touchy, more irritable. in fact, i understand tamara very well, this is her internal state, yes, constant tension, it dictates the need for movement, why she actually tries, yes, to do something physically, but in this situation it is contraindicated, just breathing practices, they will help you very well and work through this tension that

you have... constantly arises, and come to a more relaxed state, but this must be done regularly, this will already be your responsibility. polina, and what do you think, if your mom had a loved one next to her, your dad, would it be easier for her? of course, that is , male support, it would play a very good role, that is, the physical load would already fall on the shoulders of dad, let's say, yes, or another person there, let's say, of course, this is male, male shoulder, there is a man's shoulder, as they say, and do you have a grudge against your dad, what? he left you, well, the problem is this whole situation with my father is a very painful topic for me, i was 13, when he left for good, as they say, without explanation, when mom is in such a state, and we are like children, well, we are still children, we cannot help her in any way, that is, we saw all of mom's experiences, how hard it is for her,

mom cried... well, of course she cried, but even i am a child, i cried, it was painful and offensive to me, it is not clear why he did this, especially before that he was, well, a great father, he never offended us. yes, he did everything for us, when a person just changes, so abruptly, and without explaining to the children, which i understand, parents leave, get divorced, but when you abandon your children, well, it's not normal, but despite everything, you would like him to call you, so that he could see his grandchildren, communicate with him, of course, dad, well , no matter how much bad you did to us, you know that you have us, you have grandchildren, who grandchildren know their grandfather, we have photographs, show the grandchildren a photograph, they know that this is a grandfather, how to get in touch, we just need not some kind of financial or physical support from you, we need moral support from you, as a father, that

once your support was not enough, you give it to us now this love, and we will never abandon you, no matter what you are, no matter what problems you have, you have a wonderful mother. why are you talking about a father who left you, when you have a loved one nearby, who now needs your help, we love and support our mother, children, here are your relatives, we always support her, because if i didn't support her, we wouldn't be here, i wrote to the program myself in the hope that after all, well, maybe there is a miracle in the world, maybe they will help after all, so that she can live well, well, calmly, and healthy, as they say, tamara, do you have any other relatives besides your children? relatives, yes, well, here in russia i don't have any relatives, of course, this is my sore subject too, all my relatives are in germany, my parents, of course, are no longer alive, two sisters, a brother, live in germany, it's been a long time since you

last saw them, the last time was in 1919, polina and i, with our grandson, flew to visit, and we flew, you already had a hernia, yes, you had it, of course, in 1919, why so long ago, they don't invite you anymore, and now they're going to go there, are you afraid that the flight is impossible with yes roman, with such a hernia , a flight can really be dangerous, really dangerous, and long trips, especially somewhere in those places where they can't provide emergency medical care, it's fraught, even to the point of death, therefore of course it is not recommended for such patients to go somewhere far away and take long flights. tamara, when children are not around, who helps you? a friend, i live right in the village there with her husband, they are good for me. they help me, they have their own car, if i need to go to the hospital or somewhere there, that to the store they can take, they can take to the hospital, there are tests for those who take them, they came to the hospital to visit me , your neighbors are also worried about you and

try to help you as much as they can, svetlana yuri shkurlapovy is in the studio, hello, hello, hello, svetlan, how many years have you known tamara, tamara and i have kind of known each other for a long time, we have been friends for more than 15 years, well, look, you have known each other for a long time, but tamara has also been living with this problem for a long time, and she only went to the doctor a few years ago, why didn't you insist that she go to the doctors earlier? we talked about it with her, we even sat in the evenings, but her husband left, the household, the children, somehow she took care of herself i didn't put aside time, now how are you helping your friend? oh, now we all call each other. when something is needed, planting begins in the spring, here we plant vegetable gardens, she will help, yes of course i will help, and i come running to her, we plant together, she is a good housewife, she prepares a lot of preparations, and her cellar is huge, she

says, svetka, well i can't lower it, will you help, well of course i will help, yuri, and what is your relationship with your neighbor, we are also friends, i also help with all this, tamara, are you grateful to your neighbors for their help, yes of course, i... i don't know at all, we arrived, when of course, i didn't have anyone i knew, that's when i met sfeta, yura, they really help me out, i don't know what i would do without them, they are my, how can i say, hands, feet, head, eyes and everything in the world, i don't know, there are probably very few people like that who now just call my heart, i can call at any moment, they will be at my doorstep, yura, this is for you, big pri, fuck, i don't know at all, i have to pray to you. day and night, he, he is everything for me, he does everything, i say, maybe even, i don’t know, a husband may not treat his wife the way he does, he will open the car door for me, he will sit me down, he will take my bags, he will bring me packages to the hospital, i don’t know such

neighbors and such friends, you still have to look for them, i think that they are now pleased to hear your words of gratitude, my colleagues visited you and were convinced that the hernia really causes you a lot of inconvenience, we have a story, on the house plot of fifty-two-year-old tamara domme from the village of the tenth in the tyumen region, beauty and order. along the fence, daisies and calendula bloom, a rich harvest ripens in the garden. we'll dig up some potatoes, let's see what kind of cucumbers, carrots and potatoes are there, let's plant a potato nest, but well-groomed beds require sacrifices, the woman sighs, of course, everything is in a bend , when you bend over, your back hurts and the hernia, it 's low, when you bend over, it's even lower, it's hard, very hard, in the spacious, bright rooms in the house there is also cleanliness, the housekeepers tamara cannot sit idle, overcoming the pain and discomfort from a giant hernia, she every day... sucks and even tries to wash the floor, but her daughter immediately takes the rag away from her,

come on, i'll sit for now, rest, i told you, no need, let me do it myself, well, i thought i had enough strength, but you don't listen when they tell you, tamara doesn't let helpers into her kitchen, here she does everything herself, of course it's hard for me to stand, my lower back is falling off, my back, i take a chair, sit down and... here i cook, wash the dishes, i do the same, fill a basin, put it on the table, that's how i do everything at such a pace, after a hard day's work the woman hurries to lie down on the bed, but the unfortunate woman can only dream of a peaceful sleep, the hernia, like a heavy weight, does not allow her to make an extra movement, well, that's how i lie down, then i take it like this and turn over to this side and so ... well

, to be honest, i want to scold you, well, really, but i understand that you are used to being strong and want to do everything yourself, i understand that you need to cook around the house, you can't do without it, well, why dig potatoes, well, why, well, you understand that you are taking your own life, well i'm used to relying only on myself, but there are habits that kill, as i understand it, i'd like to add an interesting one here: when a woman says to a man - so do it, dig up some potatoes, the man rubs his ear like this, i'll dig it up now, she says, oh okay, i'll go dig it up myself, she starts digging, where's the place for a man here, that is , when a woman says, let me do it myself, oh, that's not how you do it, let's do it here like this, let's do it, let's do it myself, that's it, and the man turns into a child, like, what about me, what about me? i'll go play then, his fault is that he's

weak, that he didn't take responsibility, that he ran away, but understand, when a man and a woman live together, it's like, well, steps to each other, that is, i do this for you, and you do it for me, here let me do it myself, oh, you can't do anything, she's a strong woman, with such, prostitutes, whom tamara's friend blames for the fact that the woman's health is only getting worse and... is it possible to help her? we'll find out in a couple of minutes. don't betray her, me, i have one wing. the legend is a genius. half mine, i turned into a bird. half mine, i came to say goodbye. half mine become happier,

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die because of a gigantic beyond the limit, this is beyond the limit, the woman is afraid of a hernia that does not stop growing. andrey, but you must agree that even with all this strength, it is clear that tamara has it hard, very hard, very hard, i would... in general said, i just looked, but in fact for 25 years such a negligent attitude towards oneself, first of all towards one's health, this negligent attitude, it led to today's sad result, when everyone thinks, how to help her, nikolay, and what

impression do you have, is this really a negligent attitude or is tamara great for not giving up, no, this is pure water, a negligent attitude, this is not self-love, not respect.

hello, lyudmila, hello, lyudmila, you are very sorry, tamara, i, i feel very sorry for her it's a pity, she's not only my friend, she's like a sister to me, we've been together for more than 40 years, in sorrow, in joy, and we always support each other with calls and everything, i really want the studio and everyone here to help her. they helped her, and do you think this situation could have been avoided? she should have gone to the doctors earlier, so that the doctors could have advised something. why do you think she didn't do it? maybe she didn't think that it would turn out like this, and she gets enough support from her family, or don't you think so? with my on the one hand, i wanted the children to have

more support, i'm always there for them, no matter how hard it is for me and this is me, yes, but my brother and sister, well, i understand that they live in the city further away, they also have worries and problems, but they shift all the responsibility onto me, that is, well, you're closer, well, you go, we have no time, i have work there, the second child, well , they somehow withdraw, well, how often do they come to their mother, well, my brother, my brother in general, my god, once if he came at 2 months, and that was because he needed something from her, well, he will come, basically she will come there, but she missed her grandchildren, she got ready to go, in such a state she went in such a state, yes, her sister is also there once a month, if she came with her husband, they spent the night there and left, to her ex-husband, who left her, there are claims, there are claims that he left her in a difficult moment, left her with his,

when they were together, remember, they loved each other, they loved, and he her, and he loved her, he loved her very much, she met him, at the moment he was married, true tamar, he was no longer a wife then, no, they were married, but they did not live, but formally he was married, yes, they were not formally divorced. he might leave someday, no, i didn’t think about it somehow, i don’t even know, although my mother told me, here is the kingdom of heaven, of course, she always said, daughter, where are you climbing, he

abandoned that family, your children he will abandon, she told me so, well, we are young, we obviously didn’t listen to anyone, yes, my mother was, i remember those young words now as if it were now, i say, where is she, she looked, probably, as if into water, you you regret that you chose this particular man then, yes now i regret that i didn’t listen to my mother then, it’s just that a little earlier you said that you still have... feelings for him, well yes, there are feelings, but i don’t even know how to explain it, of course, right now, if he showed up, i would tell him everything, but here she is, she’s still sitting there, either it’s resentment or maybe it’s still love, but here she is, she still won’t let me go, she’s sitting here, she would forgive, she would forgive and accept at least some, let him there will be a line, let it be what it is, i would forgive him anyway, it's just an unspoken, unlived situation, acute, i think that if tamara met her ex-husband now and talked, perhaps she

would say completely different things, and imagine how everything is boiling inside, on the one hand she says: i regret that i didn't listen to my mother and got involved with him, on the other hand he will come back, i will forgive everything, of course there is no point in regretting, all the pain is this resentment, it is even because the situation was not resolved, he went somewhere, sent something there, no conversation. she wouldn't have had a hernia, she would have found a man, i'm 100% sure, if she didn't have it, she wouldn't have this problem, she, men get to know her, they offer to meet her, because we talk to her, well , that is, you can't see this hernia on social networks, she doesn't show it off in full. and in communication, there are some photos, men are interested, but she has, well, in her head the problem that she is embarrassed of herself, that is,

a man will see her, well, she is afraid even reactions, probably, of this man, that is, well , not every man will accept all this. tamara, and if the doctors help you, would you like to improve your personal life? well, yes, of course, i would like to meet a worthy person, yes, maybe a man has been found, of course, to live the rest of my days with him, not alone, of course. are there any other dreams that you cannot fulfill because of the hernia, i would like to visit my relatives, i haven't seen them for a long time, i already miss them, of course, i have no one except them, well, i have a phone, a phone, social networks social networks, and nothing can replace a personal meeting, of course, yes, of course, this is probably my cherished dream, probably, to go to them, or for them to come to me more often, well, it would be better to go to them, of course, i would hug everyone at once, i have a lot of them there, i have a lot of relatives there , sisters, and brothers, aunts, and uncles, tamara, and aren't you afraid that time ... has already been lost, doctors will not be able to sing to you, i sing that's the thing , i'm afraid of this, yes, i'm afraid that they won't find some other pathology, i went through an examination yesterday, i was very afraid that i

they will refuse and that they will find something else. the doctor begins to examine her dimensionless hernia, here it rumbles in this place, in this hernia, after tamara takes a general blood test, they do an ultrasound of the abdominal cavity and pelvis, and then conduct a study of the function of external respiration. we will now look at your lung capacity, how you breathe, we tightly squeeze the tube into your mouth about halfway

with our lips, then according to the plan, a gastroscopy to assess the work. the state of the gastrointestinal tract, here we can observe quite an extended hernia, here it is, the transition zone of the esophagus, the final stage of the examination is a computer tomography: put your head here on the pillow, let me help you, my dear, like this, raise your arms up, your task is to lie still, follow the commands of the apparatus. are you ready to find out the results of the examination? yes, we are ready. in our studio is a surgeon, candidate of medical sciences, rashid askerkhanov. hello, rashid. rashid, what did the examination show? we performed an examination on the patient, we performed a computer tomography on the patient the abdominal cavity and the hernial sac. we found that most of the small intestine

is in this hernial sac. plus there too. the large intestine goes, part of the greater omentum, part of the stomach is also in the hernial sac. in addition, were any pathologies detected? the patient also had a small cyst in the right ovary, well, and so we know, obesity, third degree in a patient with type 2 diabetes, hypertension, nocturnal opnoea, malignant tumors, thank god no, thank god no, for high-quality tumors not identified, and that same cyst of hers...

endocrinologists and nutritionists, psychologists, i think we can defeat this disease. tamara, do you have such a desire, are you ready to lose 30 kg, alyona, and you

will lend a helping hand to tamara in this matter, of course. note, when this whole story happened in 2017, tamara's weight was 130 kg, that is , she managed to lose 16 kg, now there are all the possibilities for this, and the only thing is that, of course, in the team of those who will help to reduce weight, there should be an endocrinologist, then with the help of a psychologist solve problems with eating behavior, if there is a deviation, with the help of a nutritionist to show by... to proper nutrition and figure out proper healthy nutrition, in principle, this can take, well, let's say, really somewhere around six months. what will help tamara worry less before the operation, whose support will be a pleasant surprise for the woman. let's return after a short commercial.

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husband left her. anna, i want to ask you, are there any ways to make preparation for surgery less stressful, to motivate yourself somehow, to set yourself up for a pleasant mood, for a positive one. of course, there are a lot of practices, the same breathing practices, art therapy, relaxing practices, which i will certainly share with you, a very accessible type, yes for you psychological help, which you can do at home, and use for yourself, every day. here, not digging potatoes, drawing, occupying yourself, but with these useful things for you, that is, your general state, it should be so calm and confident internally, so that you yourself could help yourself to survive this situation. tamara, do you have any hobbies, by the way, well, yes, i, of course, now in the summer there is no time, and in the winter i like to knit in front of the tv, i sit and knit, great, in my opinion , they are suitable, excellent, excellent.

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a huge number of people who sincerely worry about you and wish you well, to express our support to you, we all go through different stages our life, through various trials, sometimes these trials are small, tiny, sometimes global, and it requires a huge amount of willpower, huge faith in order to overcome them, but it seems to me that you will definitely succeed, moreover... i was told in secret that i am an artist, one of the artists, uh, whose work you like, so after you go through this difficult stage of life, we will definitely see each other, we will see each other at one of my concerts, well, let's do it in march, in march 2025, at one of my concerts, which - to which i invite you, the producers of the program will give you a ticket,