what if i quarrel, and in order to maintain some kind of tolerance, yes, we sometimes keep this quiet in ourselves, from a psychological point of view it accumulates, accumulates, accumulates, then it can break out into some kind of even aggressive behavior, it can even be connected with work, with neighbors, it doesn’t matter, yes, that is, accumulation, when a person does not speak out, you always need to communicate and negotiate, but here i saw another moment, i followed, here i saw that mom and dad do not want to... let the children go, i would give the children freedom, say, guys, go, the question of moving has been decided for a whole year, my dears, renting an apartment is not a problem, i heard that we are afraid to let them go on their own, here we need to separate, here we need to clearly conduct from the parents, on the one hand, you logically understand that yes, they need to be let go, but internally i have followed this, you cannot do this, because i think that they are not ready, look after them, that

they are not ready, they will not be ready in a year, they will not be ready in two, you know, sometimes it is necessary give freedom, yes control, well , look at a distance and then let go, this is a problem for many parents, when we do not let go of our child, we control him, i can help you carry out this separation process, it is also quite difficult, and one more thing that i really saw. your personal boundaries are very much violated, how do you all sleep like that, really, you are still young, where is your personal space, even from a psychological point of view, when people are close to each other in a crowd, personal boundaries dissolve, this is really beyond the pale, it is impossible for so many people and living organisms to be in such a small area, we must urgently take care of that, well...

only a dna test will help the older sister continue the case of her missing brother to find out the fate of the younger sisters, who were sent to an orphanage when their mother was deprived of parental rights. olga kanyuk is in our studio. hello, hello, olga, i want to continue the case that i could not continue. live brother, and how long has your brother

been listed as missing? 10 months, about we don't hear anything from him, and he doesn't write to us, doesn't call, and we don't know anything about him, he told me to continue the case to find the younger sisters, anya and oksana, well i told him that i would continue to look for the sisters, he wanted the family to be reunited, now you are continuing his case. and tell us about your family in general? we have a large family, we lived in the volgograd region and the mikhailovsky district of khutor grishin, we had a mother, podmareva tatyana nikolaevna, her maiden name was mikhailovu and very brothers and sisters, we we lived joyfully, we lived happily, we had a very good, cheerful family, mom worked under the curtain, dad worked with the cattery, we went to school, i went to school, and vova

went to school, the other little children were at home under supervision, when mom had a day off, mom studied with them, they drank a lot, how many children are there in your family, i was the oldest, sasha, nadya, vova, kolya, sveta, so we are looking for the missing sisters, oksana and anya, that is , eight in total, it turns out with you, eight people, well, there was enough love for everyone children. we always had enough attention and love from our mother, always, she did not separate us, she gave everyone love and affection, and the way of life that your mother led, at first, mother led a good life, and then our cousin sergei drowned, and mother broke down for some time, began to drink, drink, drink to fade, and from what somehow maybe, forced to drink constantly, she did not want to drink. but he really

forced her to drink, that's how i remember now, that he always brought a bottle, put it in a glass, and said to mother: drink, she says, i i won't drink, he beat her for it, so that she would start drinking, in the end... and he got her used to vodka, how did he treat the children? he was very rude, he always offended us, and my mother, i'm like the older sister, he always offended me, he offended me very much, my mother always stood up for me, but she got it more for her standing up for me, at one point he beat my pregnant mother with a pipe, that we ate sausage secretly for my parent. he beat my mother hard and with a pipe, that she had a nervous breakdown, but she still didn't show it, she still didn't care about us loved, well, it's very cruel what you 're telling us, he treated us very cruelly , he started to be cruel to us when he had his own children, when he

didn't have his own children, he doted on us, and when he had his own children, he started to hate us, this cohabitant of my mother's, was he? whose father? here is my mother's cohabitant malyavin, viktor sergeevich, he has children, sveta, kolya, and anya and oksana. you, as the eldest, didn't ask my mother, maybe, to change, to start leading a healthy lifestyle, not to listen to her father's reasons. we tried to persuade my mother, to leave home, but my mother always said, how can we leave, if it's bad without a man's shoulder, it's boring in the village, with such a man's shoulder, which hurts... but she didn't want to separate her children from their father, who needs other people's children, she always told us so, that is, let him be bad, but his own father, well yes, bad, good, but he is your own father, i understand that there was no paternal attitude towards the children there, well, everything fell on the shoulders of all the brothers

and sisters on me, as the older sister, when my mother drank - i'm sochimu, i helped for my mother and siva. sisters, how many, up to what age, you all this, i lived with my mother until i was 15, i just couldn't stand it at 15, i ran away from home with a young man, i lived with him until i was 18, he

didn't touch me at all, he brought me, his mother said, what did you bring a girl, the police will start dragging us, looking for us, that you brought a girl, she he... calmed her down, mother, she has such a life that she can't go back, they accepted me, didn't offend me, i always helped his mother, then from the age of 18 we entered into a legal marriage, and your mother is your biological mother biological, didn't try to get my daughter back, probably looked for her, but i didn't maintain any connection, i didn't know anything about them, didn't miss them, missed them, worried about the head and thought, what if my mother is looking for me, how are my brothers , sisters worried, ate, how are they , my heart was not in the right place, i was so worried for 2 years about my sisters, about my brothers, and then after 2 years, well, i lived with my husband for some time and then i told him that i was going back home, my

heart was not in the right place, i'll go back home, he said, where are you going back if you no one is looking for you, no one is waiting for you there, i still ran away from my husband to my mother, i came to we lived in my parents' house, there were no brothers or sisters there, and there was no mother, my parents' house was dismantled, the neighbors told me that my mother was put in prison, supposedly she stole a gold watch, and the children were deprived of parental rights, they ended up in an orphanage, that is, the house was dismantled, the children in the orphanage, mother in prison, and all this happened during your absence, and i began to blame myself that i did the wrong thing with my brothers and sisters. do you think that if you had stayed, everything could have been different? yes, and the children ended up in the same orphanage? well, sveta ended up there, kolya ended up there, they ended up in the orphanage, and oksana showed up without me, she ended up in the malutka home, and anya ended up in the malutka home. oksana, you haven't even seen her? yes, and

do you remember anna? she was 8 months old, do you remember her well? i remember that she was a fair-haired, blue-eyed girl, beautiful, just like her mother. and the children? well, she always grew up with her dad, with her own dad, that's how i remember it, i 'm the eldest child, i remember that we had nadya she was born and was raised by her father right away, he took her from her mother, i don't know for what reason, but he took her to... yes, i was looking for them and no one said anything, no one said where they were, that is, there was no point in yours

showing up , they were all in the city of mikhailovka, volgograd region, how did you find out from your mother's brother that they were all in mikhailovka, i tried to get to them in the orphanage, i remember that i bought them clothes, candy, gifts, i just wanted to give them to look at them, but they didn't let me in, they said that they would grow up, leave the orphanage, they you...

how he found them, he's a secret, he says: i'm a man, i'll find everyone and i'll give you a surprise, here nikolai managed to find out something about anya, about oksana, i know that they were adopted in spain, he told me that the sister is there, we need to look there, how did he find out about this, he filed an application on social networks to find the younger sisters, anya and oksana, we have this ad, let's see, hello, i'm looking for my... i don't know anything about them, but i know that i have them, their names are malyavina anna viktorovna and malyavina oksana

viktorovna, and she was left in an orphanage in mikhaylovka, volgograd region, and oksana ended up in the malyutka house, i have already looked for them wherever i could and did not find them, i have been looking for more than 20 years, i hope that i will find them, or their mothers will tell them that i am looking for them, i myself was little, i do not know my mother and have never seen her, i would really like to find you, i myself live in the samara region in ... i really hope that one of them will respond and find me. i, malyavin nikolai viktorovich, july 15 , 1989. olga, and why does nikolai write in this ad that he has not seen his mother and has not knows. well, you know, we had such a life in childhood that we didn't want to forget anything, everything that happened to mom. and now you...

each has his own family, we live far from each other, your sister and brother also tried to find out the fate of anna and oksana, but they didn't find out anything that often, because they couldn't find out anything from each other, in the studio nadezhda luk and vladimir saransky. hello, vladimir, hello, nadezhda, hello, nadezhda, and how long have you been looking for anna and oksana, since 2001 , when i found documents about the deprivation of my mother, parental rights, for whom, for all the children, for all, for eight, no, for six, for whom it turns out neli? olya and sasha, and how did you look for anna and oksana, i contacted the baby house, but they didn’t give me any information, and you know that...

grandmother, and what do you remember about life with your mother? nothing, when i was one and a half years old, my grandfather took me with double pneumonia, because i walked around in a balloon jacket, it was fashionable then to wear panties. with different socks on the ice, i was all in scabs, my nails were rotting, my ears, my hair was falling out, i had a long nursed you, your mother didn't take care of you at all, when your grandfather took you away when you were one and a half years old, they didn't give me away anymore, but your mother came in 1997, when they forgot to deprive me of her, when they took the children away,

i wasn't there, and the guardianship authorities simply forgot about me, why did she come to you? then, to receive, probably, benefits, do you remember what she looked like? i don't remember her at all, but i clearly remember the smell, the smell of sweat and fumes, they kicked her out right away, my grandmother went to the administration, reminded me about my existence, on her, well, they also deprived me, and alimony, in the documents something was appointed by the court, but no one ever received them, vladimir, and what do you remember about mom, i don’t remember anything, well, when did they take you, i was 10 years old, so you should...

he did it precisely in order to take, after mother was deprived of rights, well, they were glad that they took my brother, well, i was 13 when we took him, until that moment i didn’t even know about his existence, no one just told me about it, dad had to you to introduce to my brother again, it wasn't he who just brought me, it was your brother vovka, that's all, to this day we are friends, no matter what. your dad never thought of taking, maybe someone else, he wanted to take the youngest oksana, because she was in the same hospital, as dad told me, she ran up and hugged his leg, so he wanted to take her, but they didn't allow it, since they didn't establish paternity for him, they didn't even give him guardianship, because there were already two, but not adults and the family

is not complete, and why did he only want oksana take away, where was anna, we didn't see her? dad didn't see her, she was in the same hospital, but in a different department, how did you live with your father? well, i had the best childhood, i had animals that i wanted, toys that i wanted, i can sing tvs, the old soviet record 316, i can do everything, who taught me, grandma, grandpa and dad, what is my relationship with my father now, dad died in 2005, cirrhosis of the liver, my brother was still a minor, who did he stay with? i took guardianship over vova so that he wouldn't be taken away where is the house, were you given custody of your brother, i was 20 years old, i was married, that is , how old was your brother, 17 17, the guardianship authorities met halfway, and it is better to stay with your own sister than to be in an orphanage, very soon a dna test will show whether olga will finish her brother's business, will olga nadezhda and vladimir meet their younger sisters in our studio,

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to like it here, dmitry polomarchuk, stepped on someone's sore spot, since the local elites are so nervous, varyady premieres on monday at 20:00 on ntv, this is the dna program, brothers and sisters. from a large family were separated from each other when their mother was deprived of parental rights, and now the older sister is looking for younger sisters. nadezhda vladimir, do you remember when you met the brothers and sisters, in 2008, kolka came to visit us, svetlana, how did your communication develop, vladimir, maybe you can tell us, well, earlier we communicated, well then we lost contact, the relationship didn't work out. well i moved, they started their own life, i started my own family life, i didn't really communicate with kolya, he wasn't there all the time, i

saw him probably three times, that's all, that is, to get acquainted, we got acquainted, but the communication didn't work out, for what reason, his absence, i don't know where he was, what he was doing, i don't communicate with olya, because there was a conflict, i... stopped communicating at that moment and won't continue, who's to blame, olga, in in this conflict, yes, and there is no chance for reconciliation, nadya has a character, she will not communicate and not be friends, i just want to find out from life how their future life turned out, at least not to communicate, well, at least to find out how vova at least came to us, yes, well, it was a long time ago, yes, probably 12 years have already passed.

to reconcile, i'm almost 40, she was not in my life these almost 40, you know, you can forgive, that's why we are adults, to give a chance to a loved one, especially not a stranger, i have no grudge against her, i just don't i perceive, you did not feel that you are relatives or that your lives are so fundamentally different, our views on life do not coincide, and this cannot be fixed. and what is your relationship with svetlana? we live in the same city, but we do not communicate, we do not communicate, you also have different views on life, we did not manage to find a common language, well, it seems to be working out, but not completely. nadezhda, have you tried to look for your mother? yes, i contacted her, but she is not there, they cannot give me an answer, is she alive, not alive, where is she and missing

is also not listed, with her? would you like to meet you? no, i'm even more offended by her. vladimir, are you offended too? yes, i have no grudges, i've somehow resigned myself to it, i've never even been offended by anything, i just don't remember, i'm olga, you forgave your mother, it was hard for you, very hard, all these memories haunt you, yes, nadezhda, vladimir, despite the fact that you and olga... well, i was very glad to see them for the first time in my life, i've never seen them before. olga, and how did you imagine the meeting? well, it's just hugged, kissed and said how long we had been looking for you. vladimir, and how do you remember your little sisters? i remember sanushka,

she was small, dark-haired, anyutka, also a plump little bun, i remember, she. in the volgograd region there lives a woman who 26 years ago took custody of a girl anya, according to the documents the name of her biological mother is tatyana ponomareva, and the biological father is viktor malyavin. svetlana medvedena is in the studio. hello, svetlana. hello, tell us why you decided to take a child into your family? well, 26 years ago we decided to this act, because my husband and i did not have our own children, our grandmother really wanted a granddaughter to appear in the family, and we contacted the guardianship and trusteeship authorities

and... collected certain documents, they gave us the address of the mikhailovsky orphanage and specifically said: pay attention to the girl, malavina anya, she was about 5 years old, why did they recommend her to you, they said the girl is very good, and we specifically wanted to take in such an adult child for upbringing, and do you remember the first meeting with anya, anya came out, well, she was a little of course scared. of this situation, that someone would take her away, they would take her somewhere, but at the same time she really wanted, she wanted to get into our family, well, she understood that you were new, she understood , she went calmly, well, for the first two weeks they gave her to us, well, like, to look at each other, so that she would get used to us, we got used to her, then they said, the final decision would be

yours, but we liked the girl... she was very frank, she told us about her life, how she lived in the family, of course, not everything was okay with her parents, her mother tatyana panomareva often drank, abandoned her children, some number of people, well, she says, i had brothers and sisters, so she would go there for a day and come back for half a day, the children were left without oksana, i remember that name. oksana is 3 years old, she is not in our orphanage in mikhailovka, she is in the malutka house, in my opinion, because she was still that age, perhaps, perhaps she will be adopted by a family from volgograd, that's what she said, that is, some other family already had their sights on her, yes, yes, they only showed us a girl, anya, that's it that's it, not oksana, not anywhere, not to the baby's house,

we didn't go anywhere, still on... she talked about her sister sveta, who was older than anya, brother, but the children were in the facial features, i can already see the eyes. and i'm interested in looking at them, i'm interested in how their life turned out, how they went through this very difficult path for children, in general, how is it to have brothers and sisters, that it was hard for me without them, of course, it's hard without them, well, all the same, the realization that your own

blood is easier next to you, you were the only daughter, all the time i wanted someone nearby, well, i wanted, i won't say that no, in childhood, of course, everyone had brothers and sisters, and i was alone. but on the other hand i was a bit of an egoist, so think about it, being alone is not so bad, they buy you everything, here are those memories from childhood that you were not alone, that you had close relatives, brothers, sisters, not only parents, there are none at all, i don’t remember any faces, in general i don’t know why i probably put some kind of block in my head, so that it would probably be easier, i wanted to forget all the bad, but only good memories remained already with new family, anna, but has your mother already introduced you to someone? there sits your sister nadezhda in a blue blouse opposite, next to her brother vladimir, yes, yes, yes, vladimir, and another sister, what's the name, olga, olga, so far assumed, two sisters brother, yes, two

sisters brother, well they look like dad, anyway, they look a lot like dad, like sveta , like tistora, a copy of sveta, a copy, i always remembered in my head. there were names: sergey, svetlana and oksana. i ask my mother, i say: "mom, what are these names?" she says: "these are your brothers and sister." one face with light dad more like dad. i've never seen photos of either mom or dad, there's nothing of mom's, dad's. in fact, when i was a child i was even interested in who i looked like, to find out, just to look, i didn't want to communicate with these people with my biological parents, but just to see who i looked like. but now we've found out that you look most like your supposed sister. anna, do you see any similarities? well, it seems to me that i look more like her, your mom said that you

look more like hope, and here are your eyes and oval face, and somehow, well, eyes i see, in my opinion, we all have the same, yes, we are blue-eyed, vladimir, you remember the pretty one. when anya sveta came out , something similar immediately straight copy she is our tall like dad and olya with sasha ponomarev and the rest of the younger malyavins did not expect anna honestly did not expect i expected four expected five but not eight you have relatives on your mother's side on your father's side according to olga there should be four four you oksana nikolay and svetlana in general on which his hands. were terribly weak, he was afraid that he would release ntv. on air dna. a resident of the volgograd region continues the case of her missing brother and is looking for two younger sisters. olga konyuk spent her childhood in

the village of grishin in the volgograd region. her mother, tatyana ponomareva, worked as a postwoman, and her father, viktor malyavin, worked as a cattery worker. as the older sister, olga helped them look after the younger children. mom goes to work, i gave my siblings a task, one waters the garden, the other helps me wash the dishes or clean the house, we grew up in a friendly, good family, but soon the life of a friendly family changed, my stepfather became cruel and aggressive, he started beating the children and tatyana for any, even minor , reason, he beat her, beat her hard, i remember that she was pregnant anya, he beat her with an iron pipe, because we accidentally, without just taking sausage, we ate sausage, mom said, children, and he beat her half to death, took a pipe and started beating her, i

told him: grandpa, what are you beating mom with, we ate sausage, not mom, but he says, because she didn’t always look after you, at 15, tired of enduring bullying, from mother and stepfather. 3 years later she got married, but she couldn't stop thinking about her family, about her mother and about her brothers and sisters. one day she decided to visit her relatives and came to their old house, but instead of... the house she saw only ruins, olga learned from the neighbors that her stepfather was killed, her mother was put in prison, and her brothers and sisters were distributed among orphanages, i don't remember anything else and i don't know where the brothers and sisters are, their sumi and low thujas, nadezhda has a vegetable garden , peppers, tomatoes, cherry tomatoes grow here, i have already harvested them, volgograd tomatoes, very a good, early-ripening variety, basil and... he

comes to his sister on weekends from a scooter , sekachi, without his help, and the repairs in the house are not done, he assembled a wardrobe, here is a sink, the toilet was delivered, the bathtub was installed, well, the water was connected, everything works here, nothing breaks, everything is intact, here we are getting ready for... a suspended table, they will help, well , by the way, i assembled the wardrobe, on weekends they come, here, what nadezhda asks , here is a garden bed to weed, the lawn needs to be mowed, the trees may be trimmed a little, olga konyuk lives in the yezhovka kuter, volgograd region, she is a caring wife , a happy mother of three children, her eldest son already lives separately, so now the children's room is at the disposal of restless daughters, here is the children's room, here ... my girls sleep, one - the eldest is called anya, 10 years old,

the youngest is called daria, she is 6 years old, my assistants, they help with everything, for me, one washes the dishes, the other goes after the cow, if something is hard for me, they help together. olga is a wonderful housewife, every day she pleases the family with rich soups, aromatic pilaf, fried freshly baked potatoes. homemade bread, i have been making bread for the third year, i bake it myself, the children are happy, my husband is happy, the bread is very tasty, there is a ring of books, cooking, i like to prepare preparations for the winter, salads, tomatoes, cucumbers, i like to do twisting, a woman makes preparations for the winter from vegetables that she grows in her garden, and next to the beds there is an apple orchard, here we have a garden, apples, cherries,

we always twisted jam from apples, here we have tomatoes, cabbage, olga, i would like to meet such nephews, very much artem who called, i just called me artem too, i think these kids will become very friendly with each other, anna, what do you think, your family, within the framework of the project people's fuel, i also converted my car. to methane without investment, being practical is beneficial for nature and for you, choose ecogas, fill up at gazprom stations, discover avita mall, a new section avita, where sellers are real pros, with a good reputation and a rating of 4 and a half, everyone has delivery and return, verified, buy new products vodita mol only from pro, beautiful growths once and for all, the formula of clareol will help to cope with the problem independently

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alleged sister, just indescribable, it can not be said in words, thank you very much for what you do, you do a very big, and for complete happiness we can find mom, our bad, good on us mom, gave us life, please, find us, help our mom, that is, you do not know where your mom, and you also do not know where your oksana, sister oksana, help find them, please, so that the whole family. was together, and mom would also like to see anna? no, i wouldn't want to, i have my mother, here she is, who gave me a very happy childhood, who gave me everything, me and my children, whatever she was like, she gave us life, i think she is no longer alive, because she didn't eat enough, didn't sing enough, fed us, well, given her age and

lifestyle, i think i am already alive, but nevertheless olga, i am giving you the opportunity now to address your... arranged by tel aviv in lebanon. details from roman sobol.