tv [untitled] November 14, 2012 9:30am-10:00am EST
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a career began at the very bottom of the ladder this old woman is well traveled speaks four languages and is an excellent. at first glance she might seem just another unmarried careerist with no children but is far from it throughout her career she has to give birth as she leaves the maternity ward for the eighth time mother and child are greeted by her husband and seven children. number eight his beautiful. parents named him max he's too young to be aware of the fact that his inexhaustible mother has begun yet another new project the family is moving to live in a foreign country. her life is reminiscent of a successful business. but it's all a question of time. to share between eight children and a demanding business. partner
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. prefers to hire women out of maternity leave doesn't worry her at all more than half of twenty five female employees have not reported for work today. on the job until the last moment and then they realize oh i giving birth i need to go to the hospital. believes that a pregnant employee becomes more efficient in the job after giving birth there was even stronger because they know that they work will benefit their children. for an hour or so. ok. we're discussing where we could set up an affiliate office in europe. london zurich
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or geneva. i think we should make our home in italy and. that's because siri kisan to very comfortable place for a family with eight children. i have to take almost all of them with me. arlo. can confirm the twenty nine million. with every new child drive to work harder for bigger income became stronger by one point it looked as olga was living the perfect life but soon she had to start all over again from scratch. my mother announced that we would soon be going to another country when we were celebrating our tourist birthday as i had been aware of her plan but i never assumed that she really meant it. on the other hand my mother is the decision maker when she has set
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a goal she always gets her way. not everyone in the family greeted the news with enthusiasm naturally there were problems and the plans pros and cons were discussed despite the obvious worries i retained her composure she has several rules for a happy life the first is always to trust the good things and ignore the bad ones. the stronger so the like the fact is that i have a positive mindset i try to ignore negative scenarios if something goes wrong it's always for the better. has repeatedly seen her theory proved the clearest example was when at the age of eighteen she and her husband failed to become residents of the united states my ex-husband was a translator when an american university gave him a grant for education my decision was instant going to the states i said our daughter carolina was born there i certainly didn't want to be a mother of so many children here and to go to the states to further my education
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this soon as we returned to russia so we. for an american to. request was turned down now i realize that if we had gone there we would have lost three years quite a lot in russia during that time. all of his children. quickly arrived one after the other. was adopted the six year old daughter of her first husband. just filed it maintains that his daughter should not have children because of poor health. by the time she was thirty ready had four children but the businesswoman had little time to devote to a large family it was the second life came into play. but i need to have the right. people you trust that is what's most important. then you'll be comfortable both at work and play.
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in appreciation for the good work of her employees takes. twice a year. takes her youngest son with her traveling with a baby is no trouble at all because all goes husband is always there to help. and they're very happy. he is always ready to help take five children. it was just. a second husband when she already had five children on her. seven years of marriage produced three more. and max. posts to be able to set up
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a business of their own and spend their time as they saw fit. also decided by her guidelines for a happy life according to third life style rule you should always have a clear understanding of what she wants to achieve the. need to understand what kind of man you want to be. mental image of his appearing and visualize other characteristics down to the smallest detail. you need to understand what exactly you want if you don't nobody else can possibly help you get it. if she hadn't followed. don't make. friends and relatives thought she'd lost her mind when she decided to leave her first husband taking five children with. a handsome man to become a millionaire a dream for many women but dreams were different. she wanted
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a husband who would be a real dad to the children just a father. really must know what it is that you want in life and what you don't want . some women are content to have a husband even if he's good for nothing. of course they would. if the horse is blagging the man is not a prince. in that case the prince riding a white horse will never show such women have too many fears to contend with. the prospect of men. being left with no means of support but if a woman fears nothing in every respect i think every one of us has the same purpose a fulfilling and happy life consciously refusing to be happy is not an option. happy birthday. my birthday comes every day.
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rules for happiness of help total organize both a business and personal lives. for just three hours a day she doesn't always have to show up at the office holder only visited to take part in important because he ations she spends the rest of her time with her children. she likes telling theri tales to us children it's true though that sometimes she gets them mixed up she begins telling one story but then shifts to another one without realizing that there are two different fairytales assume she enters the flat she switches off from. her undivided attention where did you ask the magic ball if my mom laughs if your mom loves you. did you really have any doubts. arthur is very interested in dancing music and all forms of creativity.
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and come in hair. she's beautiful like a flower. to always make her is he likes all of that we were worried at one point about where our tour would like girls and not so much but we stopped worrying when we saw the doors women. even said several times he was going to get married. he says mommy i've met a girl and i need money because i want to buy her a present as a man he understands too were a woman he needs a wallet. but i ask why do you like doll so much and he says i just love beautiful women. and then my husband wasn't worried
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anymore. my has allowed me to put him down and don't ever do that again marc is not not at all although he has been misbehaving a little bit lately but basically he's fairly manageable gentle and. yeah but he's upset assed with putting everything in order she wants everything to function like clockwork and she always sees to it that everybody behaves as they shoot been a housewife is a problem for me running a household is the least of my and i don't know how to do it the result of my efforts doesn't give faction i certainly like delicious food children and in need but i absolutely have no idea of how to bring all that about it's important to delegate to other people jobs the tear either can't cope with yourself or have to spend a lot of time doing totally applies to your household to always interest other members
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of the family with jobs that i don't like doing or you can't. for the past five years a mate has helped to run a large household she does the chills and looks after the tiny newborn. but the businesswoman refuses to give up because breastfeeding it's a matter of principle for her. maintains that all babies should be fed naturally until they are at least one year of age. as many children she's not ready to give up a business travels. but she does have to make some sacrifices even though she seems to have mastered the art of time management. i've got no time at all to look after my physical appearance or my health or nord. so i have time for a good night's sleep. five or six hours of sleep would be enough in the short run but when that goes on for years the exhaustion of facts the state of your health.
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at fifteen is going through an awkward age studies have given way to music and friends his mates of notes together a band but unfortunately it's going to have to split up soon because the drama is moving to another country. if i were to decide where to live with family and friends my choice would be a rush. moving means hauling heavy boxes but my family leaves or else can i go. she was looking forward to our move because she's dying to go to school as soon as possible they started they just for over there while our tour doesn't want to go because he hates school mark is worried about being unable to understand the local language even he wants to go because he hopes life there is easy and more comfortable time is running out as they're set to go to
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italy some all right once there will again have to grapple with a difficult problem how to organize the life of a big family in a new place. has our own rules for a happy life but the big question is whether they will work in a new country. culture is that so much a given to each musician on the mark whether syrian opposition says it has reinvented itself and it has to be recognised as a legitimate representative of the syrian people at home and on the global stage. we speak your language or not advance. news programs and documentaries in spanish matters to you breaking news that will turn it into angles keaton's stories. you hear. the spanish find out more visit.
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it turns out that taking a big family to start over in another country is not as easy as it sounds there first problems appear at the airports before they even get underway you reserve your seats but you didn't check in for the flight in person we have a child just a minute. it's a disaster and we were three minutes late to check in they didn't let us through and now there aren't enough open seats on the next flight. back is only temporary just half an hour later the parents board the next plane to milan with their youngest children. meanwhile the youngest daughters stay behind it's the first time they'll have to live away from the rest of the family for such
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a long time. i'm already an adult and so i have to settle down and take care of myself of course i'm going to miss them alot because children are children who love them a lot and it's going to be kind of hard without them. fortunately alina does have something to occupy her time in moscow she's studying to be a culture expert. she also likes to dance just as her mother did in her younger days. sister carolyn i also has plans of her own. i have a happy life and. i like everything him. and if someone said because they're gone i'll be missing them. but they're happy and they wish all of the happiness. she wants to get married and
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has been in a serious relationship for the past year that's why carolina has learned how to cook but i'm like her mother at the age of just eighteen years old she has no intention of having children for the time being. at school initially youngest son has been presented with a big problem the truth has fallen out in the classroom if he can't find it he thinks the tooth fairy won't grant him any wishes the teacher tries but fails to console him with the offer of a consolation present but he simply doesn't understand. russian friends but i has known i've done doak least anybody knows i can speak.
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english i don't know if there is languages that. might do. this but it's my dues. that came out. in my head you know you'll use it in my hand and i will say here. i don't. know. what. it is. ok. pace was. struggling with a new language and doesn't understand much either so she tends to shy away from many of her classmates however she's always had a flair for learning and was always a high achiever. has already made friends with many of her teachers.
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on a train wreck well done are you on the right one. great so long going to see them go to a different school if that's because older children go to high school it's a different place if one starts out at seven in the morning and is due back here at six thirty pm. wasn't my decision my parents decided for me considering that. the university. didn't have the foggiest idea of. six in the morning. even if eleven thousand years old the cultural background is completely here he has to change his ways i think it's a bit of a challenge for him. and
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that evidence. so he was very proud. to say that. there. might surprise you if it was told me. she says she's very proud of you because you immediately put the t. shirt on and felt an affiliation with the school i really like you are. you have the first day extension in. that's little. impact everything you ever think of friends. is that they can't just say they get off. course and as the first day but that is right because there is a big piece out you're being offered as you say. how was good i got
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a medal for selling it they give you a medal i got a medal for spelling english letters correctly i see them every single day and i say to them has turned out to be the best again all i hear is endless praise i must say this quote surely encourages that you're a good boy artur you are simply super ever you are a genius that's what i always say to them but russian teachers back home would tell me that if my children thought they were the best they would lose all motivation and they wouldn't push themselves at all indeed i say to myself what's the point of pushing yourself if i have nothing as my children are not pushing themselves they'll have plenty of opportunity to do that when they grow up for my approach is different from that of my own parents i was under strong pressure to study study in nothing but study and as far as my children are concerned i don't have any ambitions if tomorrow they tell me they would like to be janitors honestly i would be only too glad to hear it there is nothing wrong with that. let them do what they
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like to do i like to give my children a chance to see the world in all its glory. allow her children to lose heart she is ready to enjoy inconveniences for their sake because she wants them to enjoy this view from the window when they go to bed and wake up in the morning. close. karen the new hope is to get up early to do some of the household chores in moscow the perks of a nanny and chauffeur were routine but in italy there are none of those luxuries yet. if you. do one tags these.
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move your hand. for you today don't worry but only for today the milk is gone sour. we'll get back to parch tomorrow. is great right gets awful grows. older often recalls what she thought was a hopeless situation an unplanned pregnancy. or it came at a most inconvenient moment. i was about to graduate from the academy with the prospect of a star studded career i had a lot of interesting offers. i am just doing that i could deal with the older children with the help of my husband and a nanny. but combining work and a newborn would be too much or she got the ball as
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a friend expected to become pregnant though if it were a twenty four i was still a young woman. i had considered an abortion. but thank goodness somehow i couldn't bring myself to do that. but life has shown that nothing is impossible. however good did lose one child at birth and thirty she was expecting twins the boy. but his twin sister did not. it would be. there is one thing that unsettles me their idea that my own children might fall ill. the terrifying thought is that something might go wrong with one of them. bringing an end to the joys of life and turning it into a nightmare. european
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office needs to be up and running within a month but she hasn't yet found suitable premises then she'll need to furnish it and employ stuff with that in mind travels to zero several times a week. so actually we all became three three rooms. where it just. yeah yeah right. we would like to employ russian speaking sui staff but it's very difficult to find such people i regularly interview candidates but most of them are rejected after we read their resumes. it takes a three hour drive to get to the company's new offices in switzerland from olga's italian home that was the business woman's conscious choice despite the
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inconvenience she made the decision a long time ago and now it's one that receives the full support of her family. her made her mind up about this place several years ago. she was traveling from switzerland to italy by train one bright sunny day or. when i passed by these beautiful legs she thought it would be great to spend some time here. or there when my face was glued to the window when the train came to a stop i saw four letters in a sign. camo this is what i said to murat as soon as i arrived in milan i know the place where i'd like to live. olga hung pictures of lake como on the walls she was sure it would help her to realize her dreams after finally settling in italy now has new pictures to hang up. and trying to invade the future for my children i want them to be happy in their
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new schools with their new brand and i want the decision to come here to have a positive outcome is confident that she's on the right track she believes that all of her current problems are temporary a life style rules and her children remain their inspiration. whenever i look at my kids i see how nice they are i think my husband and i are very good at producing such marvelous creations so much snow that it would be a shame to deprive the world of more of the same we say jokingly if i give birth in italy we'll call the little one francesca all francesco we don't know yet but we'll see when the time comes. you know sometimes you see a story and it seems so you think you understand it and then you glimpse something
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else you hear or see some other part of it and realized everything you thought you knew you don't know i'm sorry barker the big picture. wealthy british style. markets why not scandals find out what's really happening to the global economy with max cause or for a no holds barred look at the global financial headlines tune into kinds a report on r g. a nation free acronym take should be free transport charges free. range from and free risk free speech to
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