with every new child drive to work for bigger income became stronger by one point it looked as olga was living the perfect life but soon she had to start all over again from scratch. my mother announced that we would be going to another country when we were celebrating his birthday i had been aware of her plan but i never assumed that she really meant it. on the other hand my mother is the decision maker when she has set a goal she always gets her way. not everyone in the family greeted the news with enthusiasm naturally there were problems and the pros and cons were discussed despite the obvious worries i retained her composure she has several rules for a happy life the first is always to trust the good things and ignore the bad ones. the fact is that i have a positive mindset i try to ignore negative scenarios if something goes wrong it's

always for the better. has repeatedly seen her theory proved the clearest example was when at the age of eighteen she and her husband failed to become residents of the united states my ex-husband was a translator when an american university gave him a grant for education my decision was instant going to the states i said our daughter carolina was born there i certainly didn't want to be a mother of so many children here and to go to the states to further my education this soon as we returned to russia so we immediately applied for an american but our request was turned down now i realize that if we had gone there we would have lost three years of quite a lot in russia during that time. all of his children were planned. quickly arrived one after the other then alina was adopted the six year old daughter of her first husband. just father maintains that his daughter should not. children because

of poor health. by the time she was thirty. had four children but the business woman had little time to devote to a large family it was the second life came into play. but i need to have the right. people you trust that is what's most important. then you'll be comfortable work and play. in appreciation for the good work of her employees. twice a year. takes her youngest son with her traveling with a baby. because all those husband is always there to help.

children. it was just. a second husband when she already had five children on her hands seven years of marriage produced three more. posts to be able to set up a business of their own and spend their time as they saw fit. also decided by guidelines for a happy life according to a third life style rule you should always have a clear understanding of what she wants to achieve the. kind of man you want to be . mental image of his appearing and. characteristics

down to the smallest detail. need to understand what exactly you want if you don't nobody else can possibly help you get it. if she hadn't followed. don't make compromises. friends and relatives thought she'd lost her mind when she decided to leave her first husband taking five children with. a dream for many women but. she wanted a husband who would be a real dad to the children just. really must know what it is that you want in life and what you don't want never compromise some women are content to have a husband even if he's good for nothing this is too big of a compromise of course they would prefer. is not a prince. in that case the prince riding

a white horse. such women have too many fears to contend with. the prospect of. being left with no means of support but if a woman fears nothing in every respect i think every one of us has the same purpose a fulfilling and happy life consciously refusing to be happy is not an option. happy birthday. my birthday comes every day. of help both a business and personal lives. for just three hours a day she doesn't always have to show up at the office. visited to take part in important. she spends the rest of her time with her children. she likes telling theri tales to us children it's true though that sometimes she gets them mixed. she begins telling one story but then shifts to another one

without realizing that there are two different fairytales assume she enters the flat she switches off her mobile means we have her undivided attention where did you ask the magic ball if my mom last me if your mom loves you. did you really have any doubts. our answer is very interested in dancing music and all forms of creativity. and coming to hair. she is b.s. just like a flower. to always make. is he likes all of that we were worried at one point about where arthur would like girls and not so much but we stopped worrying when we saw the doors women and. even said several times

he was going to get married. he says mommy i've met a girl and i need money because i want to buy her a present she has a man he understands but to war a woman he needs a wallet. but i ask why do you like doll so much and he says i just love beautiful women. and then my husband wasn't worried anymore. my has allowed me put him down and don't ever do that again marc is not not at all although he has been misbehaving a little bit lately but basically he's fairly manageable gentle giant is the best with putting everything in order she wants everything to function like clockwork and she always sees to it that everybody behaves as they shoot been a housewife is

a problem for me running a household is the least of my ability is i don't know how to do it the result of my efforts doesn't give mr distraction i certainly like delicious food children and in need but i absolutely have no idea of how to bring all that about it's important to delegate to other people jobs the tear either can't cope with yourself or you have to spend a lot of time doing totally applies to your household to always interest other members of the family with jobs that i don't like doing or can't. for the past five years a mate has helped to run a large household she does the chills and looks after the tiny newborn. but the businesswoman refuses to give up breastfeeding it's a matter of principle for her. maintains that all babies should be fed naturally until they are at least one year of age. as many children she's not ready to

give up her business travels or social life but she does have to make some sacrifices even though she seems to have mastered the art of time management. i've got no time at all to look after my physical appearance or my health or nord. so i have time for a good night's sleep. five or six hours of sleep would be enough in the short run but when that goes on for years the exhaustion of facts the state of your health. at fifteen is going through an awkward age studies have given way to music and friends he has made signal to together a band but unfortunately it's going to have to split up soon because the drama is moving to another country. if i were to decide where to live with family and

friends my choice would be a rush. moving means hauling heavy boxes but my family or else can i go. she was looking forward to our move because she's dying to go to school as soon as possible they started they just for over there while our tour doesn't want to go because he hates them mark is worried about being unable to understand the local language even he wants to go because he hopes life there is easy and more comfortable time is running out as they're set to go to italy some once then will again have to grapple with a difficult problem how to organize the life of a big family in a new place. has our own rules for a happy life but the big question is whether they will work in a new country. wealthy

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it turns out that taking a big family to start over in another country is not as easy as it sounds there first problems appear at the airport before they even get underway you reserve your seats but you didn't check in for the flight in person we have a child just a minute. it's a disaster we were three minutes late to check in they didn't let us through and now there aren't enough open seats and the next flight. back is only temporary just half an hour later the parents board the next plane to milan with their youngest children. meanwhile the youngest daughters stay behind it's the first time they'll have to live away from the rest of the family for such a long time. i'm already an adult and so i have to settle down and take

care of myself of course i'm going to miss them a lot because children are children. you know i love them a lot and it's going to be kind of hard without them. fortunately alina does have something to occupy her time in moscow she's studying to be a culture expert. she also likes to dance just as her mother did in her younger days. sister carolyn also has plans of her own. i have a happy life. i like everything him. someone said because they're gone i'll be missing them. and they wish all of the happiness. she wants to get married and has been in a serious relationship for the past year that's why carolina has learned how to

cook but unlike her mother at the age of just eighteen years old she has no intention of having children for the time being. at school initially youngest son has been presented with a big problem the tooth has fallen out in the classroom if you can't find it he thinks the tooth fairy won't grant him and he wishes the teacher tries but fails to console him with the offer of a consolation present but he simply doesn't understand. it says russian friends but i has known i don't miss anybody. i can speak italian or english i don't know languages that. might do.

it. ok but getting up. early in morning here you know you'll lose it in my hand and i will say you're. right. but. ok here she. was. struggling with a new language and doesn't understand much either so she tends to shy away from many of her classmates however she's always had a flair for learning and was always a high achiever. has already made friends with many of her teachers.

are you on a train well done are you on the right one. great so long going to see them go to a different school that's because older children go to high school it's a different place if one starts out at seven in the morning and is due back here at six thirty pm. wasn't my decision my parents decided for me considering that. the university i like so much. didn't have the foggiest idea. of it six in the morning. and is eleven thousand years old the cultural background is completely here he has to change his ways i think it's a bit of a challenge for him. and the evidence out there so he was very proud.

in that. so. my surprise you if it were slow sweet. she says she's very proud of you because you immediately put the t. shirt on and felt an affiliation with the school really you know are. you happy first day. a theory that we knew. everything you and me. friends. is that they can't just say they get off. course and as the first day but that is right because there is fake it's out here to be an issue and. how was a good i got a medal for selling big a view a medal i got a medal for spelling english letters correctly i see them every single day and i

say to them turned out to be the best again all i hear is and less praise i must say this could truly encourages them you're a good boy artur you are simply super never you are a genius that's what i always say to them but russian teachers back home would tell me that if my children thought they were the best they would lose all motivation they wouldn't push themselves at all indeed i say to myself what's the point of pushing yourself if i have nothing as my children are not pushing themselves they'll have plenty of opportunity to do that when they grow up but my approach is different from that of my own parents i was under strong pressure to study study in nothing but study and as far as my children are concerned i don't have any ambitions if tomorrow they tell me they would like to be janitors honestly i'd be only too glad to hear it there is nothing wrong with that. let them do what they like to do i like to give my children

a chance to see the world in all its glory. allow her children to lose heart she is ready to enjoy inconveniences for their sake because she wants them to enjoy this view from the window when they go to bed and wake up in the morning. close. karen the new home has to get up early to do some of the household chores in moscow the perks of a nanny and chauffeur were routine but in italy there are none of those luxuries yet. one tags the. movie hand. for you today don't worry but only for today

the milk has gone sour. you. will get back to polish tomorrow. just great right kids awful grown. older often recalls what she thought was a hopeless situation an unplanned pregnancy at the newborn or the theme of it came at a most inconvenient moment. i was about to graduate from the cademy with the prospect of a star studded career i had a lot of interesting offers. i am just doing that i could deal with the older children with the help of my husband and a nanny. but combining work and a newborn would be too much for shook the. hand expected to become pregnant

though we were at twenty four i was still a young woman. i had considered an abortion. but this thank goodness somehow i couldn't bring myself to do that. but life has shown that nothing is impossible. however i did lose one child at birth and thirty she was expecting twins the boy. but his twin sister did not. it would be. there is one thing that unsettles me their idea that my own children might fall ill. with a terrifying thought is that something might go wrong with one of them. bringing an end to the joys of life and turning it into a nightmare. european

office needs to be up and running within a month but she hasn't yet found suitable premises then she'll need to furnish it and employ stuff with that in mind travels to zero several times a week. so actually we offer these three as three rooms. where you just have. yeah. we would like to employ russian speaking sui staff but it's very difficult to find such people i regularly interview candidates but most of them are rejected after we read their resumes. it takes a three hour drive to get to the company's new offices in switzerland from all those italian home that was the business woman's conscious choice despite the inconvenience she made the decision a long time ago and now it's one that receives the full support of her family. made

her mind up about this place several years ago. she was traveling from switzerland to italy by train one bright sunny day or. when i passed by these beautiful legs she thought of the great to spend some time here. or there when my face was glued to the window when the train came to a stop i saw four letters on the side oh am calm oh this is what i said to murat as soon as i arrived in milan i know the place where i'd like to live. or hung pictures of lake como on the walls she was sure it would help her to realize her dreams after finally settling in italy now has new pictures to hang up. trying to vision the future for my children i want them to be happy in their new

schools with their new friends and i want the decision to come here to have a positive outcome is confident that she is on the right track she believes that the whole of her current problems but temporary a life style rules and her children remain their inspiration. whenever i look at my kids i see how nice they are i think my husband and i are very good at producing such marvelous creations so much snow that it would be a shame to deprive the world of more of the same we say jokingly if i give birth in italy we'll call the little one francesca all francesco we don't know yet but we'll see when the time comes.

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