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they get older. my now is that. i'm seven. i'm i'm six more i am. only been in our french for long that. i had to mop them it showed take care of me. and i do so because it is better because it's a family. earning on land names sasha and a boy i like to gauge trace of sunshine a compass. a left mama. i want to be
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his heel. shoes come back for me. to church couple get back. yet. when i. feel. so she came to us not long ago has been with us for a week. unless it isn't the most complicated group among those with a complex structure of developmental to facts these are children with physical and
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psychological issues as did nearly none of them can walk. we have children with cerebral palsy and others who are totally blind to. sessions such a turn five and then misfortune it hits who he was in the tuberculosis treatment center and his mother decided to go see him as a physician hard to taxi and on the way back from the medical center they were in a car accident. torn apart everything is sewn up now. there were lots of operations so he doesn't walk recently he began to see that. the family had trouble before the accident the single mom was stripped of her parental rights for not looking out for the child's welfare. the boy's alert. it's hard for him to understand the bomb to this chair. and cannot. most
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importantly he doesn't let his ailments define him. when he's in this chair you have to catch him so that he doesn't fall down. he's always moving. fine strong willed parents ready to take a handicapped child able to join their family today. yes i was brought up in this orphanage myself she's my family didn't last long my parents divorced and they didn't get along well it happens in families and mom got a job here with the so my two sisters and i were taken to live in this house. thanks to mom's love leave here and didn't feel like or difference. but i've been
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around orphan since i was a little girl. and my young and innocent heart witnessed this harsh life the little some kids have it really hard it is and they need help over the. child to live in an orphanage for along it lives its mark on a child both on his character and personal attributes each with a child should be raised in a family. she will develop completely differently with a family relationships but we cannot give this to a child in an orphanage no matter how strongly we love the child children and wish him well but no matter what good conditions we have here we will never be able to give it. the discipline that she hasn't been here for alone she has a big problem in her family but the real mother is an alcoholic she was stripped of
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her parental rights rehabilitation it seems highly unlikely. dasha is a very upright child everybody came to like her and twines. in order to ensure that these little two year old child didn't stay in that orphanage for long if we immediately began searching for a family. oh . oh oh i. see we're doing this today we're having a class for future parents along with children from all orphanage of the one. why do we do this gettable first of all it's done to prevent parents from sending the child back to their own french the children from orphanages have
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a special fate that's how i approach it at the new place they are special because they haven't experienced certain everyday troubles of course this affects their mental state and their behavior. that parents need to learn how to interact with them at the most of what they need to find a way to communicate with found the one thing we do and they should learn to love and accept them and you might think that the movement was that i'd said that we try to provide parents with certain knowledge and skills then they can use the scales in their life to build a friendly and kind family. victims to the children always like attention and care physical contact because they just are important for them and our children now open and social they're able to communicate they share their energy and adults also get positive emotions at this lessons. because if candidate parents like
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a child and later on they write be able to welcome him her into their family go with her. but that's that this would not only the child goes through the adaptation process the parents do to the my children like to test adults they will disobey it test your rules try to get your attention that's why what is necessary during this period is mutual support between spouses as well as setting down. the same. marching the wrong way been thinking about it for a long time i think it took us four years to make this decision we kept doubting whether we would be able to fall in love with our child we decided that we could more than. the first question was what we should do when we take the child home the right way to explain the situation through here it's good to talk to the child starting at the age of three through fairy tales and
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stories to avoid shark. fans there will be no secret about the adoption will definitely tell the child the which is very small and anybody could tell it's better we be the one son. has the right now we're going to iron the style of the tom and then we'll take that pile you see the dresses. gaina all go works with us to fifteen she's a modest lady who does the long term you would school with lisa cauterized of which i teach and she came to me with her mother in sad only we want to have a daughter and a granddaughter we want this girl in our family yes turn on the machine you take the scoop and put it there. no no soap yet my own game i know all got as a wonderful and kind hearted person can do i thought she'd make
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a perfect mother so i sent him alright you can take her for weekends go to the school and get used to it all. right let's put the tells in order dark one this with a sweet light ones for the hands. like doubles our hands here. our feet. on the remark she does her homework and brings her books here she does her exercises draws and so logs she'll bring her dolls here and so those of you. lisa had a complete family. but when her father died mother washed her hands of everything. and got addicted to alcohol because her mother has never been here she's not interested she's a completely lost woman and was stripped of her parental rights with that kind of
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family. mark as the sole right to mouth can't. figure skates this winter she wanted in our neighbor showed the basics how to hold the arms and legs the next day she was flying you could say that i really think that she likes coming to the skating rink. and always wanted to skate. this ilesa was a perfect fit for all this family. and both her mother fell in love with this lisa . they were very happy that this lovely girl and turned their home which.
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she lived with them for year and she was completely healthy then she fell ill when she was seven with the diagnosis from the doctor type one diabetes insulin dependent so. it was very very hard to accept that. it was a complete shock to me. that this is new this disease. and you know couldn't talk for a week. it's hard. on mclaughlin and she couldn't understand what was happening to her and stone you to she didn't complain about anything but i noticed something strange night mirrors she woke up
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that night i was afraid of the dark went to sleep only with the lights on. but the one then she began to drink a lot and west to the bathroom very often. i could understand what was happening so i went to the doctor to find out what her blood sugar level was incredibly high at the thirty eight but i'd never even heard that that was possible. but everybody thinking even though she has a serious health issues and the situation is serious enough that you could have given her up i go couldn't do that. i just couldn't. i can't live without her. i can't be without her little word. or one now. she keeps telling me my mom will die without you that's what the child says. and that my mom very much
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writes. i get her hands. this leap together sometimes. i can't live without her. it's for the little one. we didn't know or height we had to guess. what it was we think it'll fit yeah yeah this was a moment shows everything so it must fit to. force you nervous. a bit. shall we go.
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to mommy.
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if. i am. to.
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work i want to learn to fly an airplane. i'll take my little drag certain miss me. i'll take my mommy and to really jam for this special. the child will never be able to walk out of a because his vertebrae and spinal cord damaged and really this is what the doctors told us cooper most of them. on couldn't she is recovering very well she takes remedial gymnastics and gets massages the good position is a positive kid and it helps him a lot in rehabilitation he will see to it to that he gets better a visit he simply has to. they're very good positive family action if you can feel their humanity in love and compassion. their positive energy makes them stand out. i didn't
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hesitate to make my decision these girls will go to them at the. back. disability and i always questioned parents that want to adopt our children's why you've got two kids why do you need another child to say to the parents answer in harmony then we've always wanted a girl will sleep but they cannot have any more children because of medical reason it's so this is what they have decided to do. my dearest girl showing go they don't grab it but it was love at first sight all the doubts and questions i had they're all god i love her already just what you're saying i'm sleepy tired. if anything
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the first smiles full of a very emotional. doze show get used to you just in that you must have not as that sometimes she closes herself up she doesn't always reach out. if we did today we're handing does that over to her mom and dad of course we needed to go very few things that the penetration told them of our doshas health and diet right know our psychologist is giving them becoming day sions for the adaptation period they will of course be some problems because this child is coming from an orphanage and she's used to certain things that are likely to be different in her new family yet. it's possible that the change may cause some nervousness everything is new for her trying to comfort her trust as a contact it will give her a feeling of protection. of it in so i have been working as the head
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of the orphanage for sixteen years now this year in these years only eleven children have been returned by adoptive families. this is primarily the result of the professionalism of our psychologists all of that are extremely serious when it comes to selecting candidates were adoptive families. in preparing them and in raising our special kids. even those the ninety eight percent of the children from lower orphanage placed with families. to these families from day one c. and our psychologist continue to assist them until the child comes off h. we give them all the help they need. i want our kids to be happy
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i want everything to work out for them. just as numb so i'm now aware going to take a piece of class and you will paint a picture together ugh that warm up mom paint on this site and basically set. well pain on the other side you need to keep silent while painting don't talk to each other ok we can begin now right. now let's discuss what we have created. then to apple some to treat. your mother painted a tree and you decided to make some changes to her picture you don't like it. i
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just want to temples so i went to bed it's quite misleading how did you react to your tree being changed because of i knew of this i was also going to bag why did you change my picture i wanted to being a virgin i end up with an awful turn i always dorothy's leg that. yeah she's like that she likes to get her way have her way is it difficult at times to agree with this he says yes sometimes it is the c.c.c. was always came a bit stressful after the doctors gave their diagnosis. of the girl gets restless sometimes. the thing is that when the underground system is affected it's a lot of stress and nerves nothing and sometimes she begins acting up when her blood sugar levels increase our psychologist helps us to deal with it. it's good for us lisa and us too.
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we're almost there. where's our pretty gal. and that counted grandma a quick. hands up good girl. you're a star you're far star. and i don't know. what i can do this here yet you can read books to her. and i'll read books take her to nursery school and bring her home he's a big brother now you look after her. miniatures of what i think they're special our children have grown up the oldest is going to college this year the younger one
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is also a big boy now we've always wanted a girl at first i wasn't sure about the way she would communicate with us she closes herself up easily for you she's like that like a snail in its shell i think that she generally feel safe like she play she doesn't cry much she met the boys earlier so i think it will be easy for her to join our family. there aren't any fears only emotions but tell you warned us that she's got some illness but i don't worry about that. we'll deal with it if you have been here and wish it but i was more worried about how it would go it went well too good to be true. she accepted it. by yeah my mom is nice and kind and she looks after us. and.
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it's probably a higher power that decides on the people we meet that's what i think. before i took her home our eyes met sometimes of the orphanage she would wave her hand at me like that. and then i began to pay more attention to her more and we became closer and closer. and i didn't have children of my own i thought it would be good to have someone look someone i can take care of and someone who will look after me to be with. those listed as you eat let's record what you ate. i had does he. s. a lead. to cool keys and feel so you have to cookies they count as one and a half bread units how many altogether two and a half no three and a half yes three and
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a half bread units all right how much bread can you eat plenty grams twenty grams c'mon let's weigh it shows now they don't just tell me that she wouldn't have survived where she lived before today everything is about her health and insulin and blood a special diet it's not easy to cook all of this. it's not the same way with other children they can snack on a cookie without having to think about it this is a special situation and we have a special approach anyone can pull them out you know how many brownie units that will be. in one month right. i want to be a doctor. because i like to make people feel better. and learn to become a dentist. so that people don't. mind never. telling her now leslie is that you can't escape medicine
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this is the only profession you can take up not necessarily a doctor you can be a nurse but this is your sphere because nothing else can help you like it can. i keep telling her there is no i don't know not come true or not. and i don't shine. at that. she started talking a lot she never talked before your speech was delayed and now she keeps talking all the time repeats everything all smiles sitting over her she shows her emotions now before she did and clapped her hands mother tongue kiss her way. long as it will
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not i was in seventh heaven not even tired and this was it i don't know. what's in with the child has brought us so much happiness. and. your pain julie believes the session will. julie best to help pass it should so do with us for two years ago most of your work with miracles can happen with which miracles teaches. the same as miss mama. should look come to me.
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