tv Documentary RT May 31, 2013 4:29am-5:01am EDT
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so she came to us not long ago has been with us for a week. unless she is in the most complicated group among those with a complex structure of developmental to facts these are children with physical and psychological issues with. nearly none of them can walk. we have children with cerebral palsy and others who are totally blind to. such a turn five and then misfortunate hit he was in a tuberculosis treatment center and his mother decided to go see him because she hired a taxi and on the way back from the medical center they were in
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a car accident with each skiffs practically all his inner organs were torn apart everything is sewn up now. a war there were lots of operations so he doesn't walk recently he began to sit with you for that only light down so to simulate the family had trouble before the accident the single mom was stripped of her parental rights for not looking out for the child's welfare you feel like the boys are very good and alert you it's hard for him to understand that he's bound to this chair and equal the good and cannot warg. most importantly he doesn't let his ailments define him. it was just the white often when he's in this chair you have to catch him so that he doesn't fall down which he's always moving used to be if we could find strong willed parents ready to take a handicapped child be able to join their families today. mama.
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mama is can sure come back for me. yes i was brought up in this orphanage myself she's my family didn't last long my parents divorced. they didn't get along well is that it happens in families and the mom got a job here with the so my two sisters and i were taken to live in this house of. thanks to mom's love leave here and didn't feel like orphans. but i've been around orphan since i was a little girl. and my young and innocent heart witnessed this harsh life that looks awful as some kids have it really hard to fizzle and they need help to live the. child should live in an orphanage for along it lives its mark on a child both on his character and personal attributes each with
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a child should be raised in a family. she will develop completely differently with a family relationship with we cannot give this to a child in an orphanage no matter how strongly we love the child children and wish him well cormack no matter what good conditions we have here we will never be able to give it. the discipline that hasn't been here for a loan move she has a big problem in her family but the real mother is an alcoholic she was stripped of her parental rights in a rehabilitation assumes highly unlikely. that she is a fairy upright child everybody came to like her and twines. in order to ensure that these little two year old child didn't stay in that orphanage for long if we immediately began searching for a family. oh
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oh. so why do this today we're having a class for future parents along with children from all orphanage. why do we do this gettable first of all is done to prevent parents from sending the child back to their own french the children from orphanages have a special fate with that's how i put it in you but they are special they haven't experienced a certain every day troubles of course this affects their mental state and their behavior. that parents need to learn how to interact with them at the polls but they need to find a way to communicate without the one thing within they should learn to love and accept them and you might think that the movement was that i'd said that we try to
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provide parents with certain knowledge and skills then they can use the scales in their life to build a friendly and kind family. victims of the children always like attention and care physical contact because it is very important for them and our children now open and social they're able to communicate they share their energy and adults also get positive emotions at this lessons. but if candidate parents like a child later on they might be able to welcome him or her into their family. but that's it but it's good not only the child goes through the adaptation process the parents dave to the my children like to test adults they will disobey it test your rules try to get your attention that's why what is necessary during this
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period is mutual support between spouses as well as setting down the same rules. we've been thinking about it for a long time i think it took us four years to make this decision we kept doubting whether we would be able to fall in love. with that child we decided that we could more than. the first question was what we should do when we take the child home the right way to explain the situation. is better to talk to the child starting at the age of three through fairy tales and stories to avoid shark. there will be no secret about the adoption will definitely tell the child there which is very small that anybody could tell it's better we be the one son. has the right now we're going to iron the style of the tom and then we'll take that pile you see the dresses.
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all go works with us to fifteen she's a modest lady who does the long train. school with lisa cauterized which i teach and she came to me with her mother in sad lonely we want to have a daughter and a granddaughter we want this girl in our family that i guess turn on the machine and you take the scoop and put it there. no no soap yet my old me again i know all got as a wonderful and kind hearted person who can i thought she'd make a perfect mother so i said in alright you can take her for we can go to the school and get used to it all. right let's put the towels in order dark one this with a seat light ones for the hands. like doubles our hands here. dollars our feet. are not anymore she does her homework and brings her books here
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she does her exercises draws and so forth logs she'll bring her dolls here and so those of you. lisa had a complete family. but when her father died mother washed her hands of everything. and got addicted to alcohol because her mother has never been here she's not interested she's a completely lost woman and was stripped of her parental rights with that kind of family. as the sole dragged him out. figure skates this winter she wanted in our neighbor showed the basics how to hold the arms and legs the next day she was flying you could say i really think that she likes coming to the skating rink.
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and all of us wanted to state. lisa was a perfect fit for this family. and both her mother fell in love with lisa. they were very happy that this lovely girl and turned their home which. lived with them for year and she was completely healthy then she fell ill when she was seven. the diagnosis from the doctor one day. insulin
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dependent. it was very very hard to accept that. it was a complete shock to me. that this is new this disease is new they couldn't talk for a week. it's hard. on mclaughlin and she couldn't understand what was happening to her and stone you to she didn't complain about anything but i noticed something strange night mirrors she woke up that night but was afraid of the dark went to sleep only what the lights on. but the wall then she began to drink a lot and west to the bathroom very often. i could understand what was happening so i went to the doctor to find out what her blood sugar level was incredibly high at the thirty eight but i'd never even heard that that was possible. that everybody thinking even though she has these serious health issues and the situation is
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serious enough that you could have given her up i go couldn't do that. i just couldn't. i can't live without her. i can't be without her the words. were one out. she keeps telling me my mom will die without you that's what the child says. and that my mom very much writes. i give her honks. this leap together sometimes. i can't live without her.
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it's for the little one. we didn't know or types we had to guess. what it was we think it'll fit yeah yeah that's what mommy shows everything so it must fit. force you nervous. a bit. shall we go. down close. is the west fighting against a war without end soon as the enemy and what defines victory in the greater middle
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vertebrae and spinal cord damaged. this is what the doctors told us. is recovering very well he takes remedial gymnastics and gets massages the visit he's a positive kid and it helps him a lot in rehabilitation so we'll see to it to that he gets better of his if he simply has to. they have very good positive family actually if you can feel their humanity love and compassion. their positive energy makes them stand out. i didn't hesitate to make my decision these girls will go to them at the huge. back.
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disability and i always questioned parents that want to adopt our children why you've got two kids why do you need another child to say to the parents aunts are in harmony and then we've always wanted a girl will sleep but they cannot have any more children because of medical reasons so this is what they have decided to do. my dearest girl shall we go get on the grab it but it was love at first sight all the doubts and questions i had they're all god i love her already just what you're saying i'm sleepy tired. go. up to carry me through the first smiles full of a very emotional. bellido show get us to you first in the zoo must have not test that sometimes she closes herself up she doesn't always
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reach out. if we did today we're handing dust over to her mom and dad of course we needed to go over a few things the penetration told them about doshas health and diet right know our sick call is just is given them are coming day sions for the adaptation period there will of course be some problems because this child is coming from an orphanage and she's used to certain things that are likely to be different in her new family yet. it's possible that the change may cause some nervousness everything is new for her trying to comfort her trust as a contact it will give her a feeling of protection. instead i have been working as the head of the orphanage for sixteen years now here in these years only eleven children have been returned by adoptive families.
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this is primarily the result of the professionalism of our psychologists all of that are extremely serious when it comes to selecting candidates were adoptive families. in preparing them and in raising our special kids. even those the ninety eight percent of the children from lower orphanage placed with families. to these families from day one to see and our psychologist continue to assist them until the child comes off age. we give them all the help they need. i want our kids to be happy i want everything to work out for them. just as mum so i'm now aware going to take a piece of class and you will paint a picture together that mom will paint on this site and basically set. well pain on
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the other side you need to keep silent while painting don't talk to each other ok we can begin now right. now let's discuss what we have created him. then to apple some to treat. your mother painted a tree and you decided to make some changes to her picture you don't like it. i just want to temples so i went to bed this quickness list how did you react to your tree being changed because of i knew. i was all taken aback why did you change my picture i wanted to being a virgin i end up with an apple turns i always don't use leg that.
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she's like that she likes to get her way have her way is it difficult at times to agree with this he said yes sometimes it is. so easy so you know it all became a bit stressful after the doctors gave their diagnosis the most of the girl gets restless sometimes. the thing is that when the underground system is affected it's a lot of stress and nerves nothing of the sometimes she begins acting up when her blood sugar levels increase our psychologist helps us to deal with it. it's good for us lisa and us to. we're almost. there thinking where's our pretty
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girl. down counted grandma a quick. hands up good girl. you're a star you're far star. and i don't know. what i can do this here yet you can read books to her. and i'll read books take her to nursery school and bring her home he's a big brother now you look after her. miniatures of what i think they're special our children have grown up old is going to college this year the younger one is also a big boy now we've always wanted a girl at first i wasn't sure about the way she would communicate with us she closes herself up easily she's like that like a snail in its shell but i think that she generally feel safe like she play she
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doesn't cry much she met the boys earlier so i think it'll be easy for her to join our family. there aren't any fears only motion this but tell you warned us that she's got some illness but i don't worry about that. we'll deal with it. and wish it could i was more worried about how it would go it went well too good to be true . she accepted it. for mom. my mom is nice and kind she looks after us. and. it's probably a higher power that decides on the people we meet that's what i think. before i took her home our eyes met sometimes at the orphanage she would wave her hand at me . like that. and then i began to pay more attention to her more
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and we became closer and closer. and i didn't have children of my own i thought it would be good to have someone look someone i can take care of and someone who will look after me to. those listed as you eat let's record what you ate. i had does he. s. a lead. to cool keys and feel so you have to cookies they count as one and a half bread units how many altogether two and a half no three and a half yes three and a half bread units all right how much bread can you eat planted grams twenty grams c'mon let's weigh it shows now they don't just tell me that she wouldn't have survived where she lived before today everything is about her health and insulin
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and blood a special diet it's not easy to cook all of this. it's not the same like with other children that can snack on a cookie without having to think about it this is a special situation and we have a special approach anyone can pull them out you know how many great units that will be. in one month right. i want to be a doctor. because i like to make people feel better. and learn to become a dentist. so that people don't. mind never go. near you for telling her now leslie is that you can't just get medicine this is the only profession you can take other than not necessarily a doctor you can be a nurse but this is your sphere because nothing else can help you like it can. i keep telling her that i don't know not come true or not.
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and i don't shine. at that. she started talking a lot she never talked before her speech was delayed and now she keeps talking all the time repeats everything all smiles sitting over her she shows her emotions now before she didn't clapped her hands mother tongue kiss or wave. the ones that will now was in seventy seven i'm not even tired and just listen i don't know. what's in the child's has brought us so much happiness.
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you'll change really believed the session lupul the doing the best to help you. should joe do with us put to hear some allusion to work with miracles can happen just as much miracles just. the same as miss mama. and she looked on that for me. they all told her my language and all but i will only react to situations i have
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read the reports. like the pollution and no i will leave them to state clearly to comment on your latter point to say to carry out a call as are you talking no. job no more weasel words when you made a direct question prepared for a change when you plunge be ready for a battle freedom of speech and little doubt the freedom to cost. a billion views. to continue to. join me. to reach.
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