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so she came to us not long ago has been with us for a week. unless she is in the most complicated group among those with a complex structure of developmental defects these are children with physical and psychological issues. nearly none of them can walk. we have children with cerebral palsy and others who are totally blind to. such a turn five and then he is fortunate he was in a tuberculosis treatment center and his mother decided to go see him because she hired a taxi and on the way back from the medical center they were in a car accident. practically all his inner organs were torn apart everything is sewn up now. and there were lots of operations so he doesn't walk recently he began to sit before that only light down. the family had trouble before the accident the
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single mom was stripped of her parental rights for not looking out for the child's welfare. like the boys are very good and alert you know it's hard for him to understand that he's bound to this chair. and cannot ward. most importantly he doesn't let his ailments define him he will just the white often when he's in this chair you have to catch him so that he doesn't fall down. he's always moving if we could find strong willed parents ready to take a handicapped child what you'd be able to join their family today. mama. mama sky. come back for me. yes i was brought up in this orphanage myself she's my family didn't last long my parents divorced. they didn't get along well is that it happens in families now mom
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got a job here with the so my two sisters and i were taken to live in this house. thanks to mom's love leave here and didn't feel like or friends. but i've been around orphan since i was a little girl. and my young and innocent heart witnessed this harsh life that looks a little this is some kids have it really hard it is and they need help over the. you know the child to live in an orphanage for along it lives its mark on a child both on his character and personal attributes which was a child should be raised in a family pretty soon. she will develop completely differently with the family relationships because we cannot give this to a child in an orphanage no matter how strongly we love the child children and wish
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him well but no matter what good conditions we have here we will never be able to give it. a discipline that hasn't been here for a long them she has a big problem in her family but the real mother is an alcoholic of course she was stripped of her parental rights rehabilitation assumes highly unlikely. that shit is a fairy upright child everybody came to like her and twins. in order to ensure that this little two year old child didn't stay in the orphanage for long if we immediately began searching for a family. you . oh oh
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. so would you today we're having a class for future parents along with children from orphanage. why do we do this gettable first of all that is done to prevent parents from sending the child back to their own french children from orphanages have a special fate that's how i put you but they are special because they haven't experienced certain everyday troubles of course this affects their mental state and their behavior. that parents need to learn how to interact with them at the polls but they need to find a way to communicate with found the one thing within they should learn to love and accept them and you might think that the movement with that i'd say that we try to provide parents with certain knowledge and skills then they can use the scales in their life to build a friendly and kind family. victims to the children always like attention and care physical contact because they just
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are important for them and our children now open and social they're able to communicate they share their energy and adults also get positive emotions at this lessons. if candidate parents like a child then later on they might be able to welcome him or her into their family with her. but that's it but it would not only the child goes through the adaptation process the parents do to so that my children like to test adults they will disobey it test your rules try to get your attention that's why what is necessary during this period is mutual support between spouses as well as setting down the same rules. mom we've been thinking about it for a long time i think it took us four years to make this decision and we kept doubting whether we would be able to fall in love. with that child we decided that
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we could watch and. the first question was what we should do when we take the child home the right way to explain the situation so here is better to talk to the child starting at the age of three through fairy tales and stories to avoid shock. and there will be no secret about the adoption will definitely tell the child the it is very small that anybody could tell it's better we be the one son. has the right now we're going to iron the style of the tom and then we'll take that pile you see the dresses. gaina all go works with us who's dean she's a modest lady who does the long train. school whistle isa cauterized of which i teach and she came to me with her mother in sad lonely we want to have
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a daughter and a granddaughter we want this girl in though we're family yes turn on the machine you take this group and put it there. no no soap yet my only game i know all got as a wonderful and kind hearted person can do i thought she'd make a perfect mother so i sent in alright you can take her for we can go to the school and get used to it all. right let's put the towels in order for dark ones with their feet light ones for the hands. like dollars for hands here. charles her feet. are not any more she does her homework and brings her books here the thought she does her exercises draws and so log shall bring her dolls here and so those of you. listen. lisa had
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a complete family. but when her father died mother washed her hands of everything. and got addicted to alcohol because her mother has never been here she's not interested she's a completely lost woman and was stripped of her parental rights that kind of family . as the sole dragged him out. figure skates this winter she wanted an hour neighbor showed the basics how to hold the arms and legs the next day she was flying you could say i really think that she likes coming to the skating rink. and all of us wanted to skate. lisa was a perfect fit for this family. and both her mother fell in love with this elisa.
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they were very happy that this lovely girl and turned their home. she lived with them for a year and she was completely healthy then she fell ill when she was seven of the diagnosis from the doctor a type one diabetes insulin dependent. movement that it was very very hard to accept that. it was a complete shock to me. that this is new this disease is
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new they couldn't talk for a week. it's hard. and i knew mclaughlin and she couldn't understand what was happening to her and stone you to she didn't complain about anything but i noticed something strange night mirrors she woke up that night but was afraid of the dark went to sleep only when the lights on. but the one then she began to drink a lot and west to the bathroom very often. i can understand what was happening so i went to the doctor to find out what her blood sugar level was incredibly high at the thirty eight but i'd never even heard that that was possible when. the everybody thinking even though she has a serious health issues and the situation is serious enough that you i could have given her up because i couldn't do that. i just couldn't. i can't live without her. i can't be without her word.
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or one now. she keeps telling me my mom will die without you that's what the child says. i laughed my mom very much writes. i get her hands. this leap together sometimes. i can't leave without her. it's for the little one. we didn't know her height we had to guess. what it was we think it'll fit yeah yeah that's what mommy shows everything so it
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must fit. you nervous. a bit. shall we go. my left wing house. i'm going to mommy. you down close. you said ati's you cheap china rocketing to a billion views from the wills period of funny disasters to events that continue to change our lives join me kevin zero in for more on how you've helped make see the
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i want to learn to fly an airplane. out thank my little brats that miss me. i'll take my mommy and jam for this special. the child will never be able to walk out of
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a because he's referred to play and spinal cord damaged and really this is what the doctors told us cooper growth. is recovering very well he takes remedial gymnastics and gets massages the visit he's a positive kid and it helps him a lot in rehabilitation it's we'll see to it to that he gets better is that he simply has to. they're very good positive family actually if you can feel their humanity and love and compassion. their positive energy makes them standout. i didn't hesitate to make my decision these girls will go to them at the beach. back.
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disability but always question parents that want to adopt our children which is why you've got two kids why do you need another child to say to the parents answer in harmony then we've always wanted a girl with sweets but they cannot have any more children because of medical reason it's so this is what they have decided to do. my dearest girl. bit of gravity but it was love at first sight all the doubts and questions i had they're all gone i love her already. this is what you say i'm sleepy tired. of hearing me from the first smiles full of a very emotional. pleas oh belly don't show get used to you just when you must have not as that sometimes she closes herself up she doesn't always reach out. if we did today we're handing does that over to her mom and dad
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of course we needed to go very few things appended trish and told them of our doshas health and diet right know our sick call is just is given them are coming days since for the adaptation period they will of course be some problems because this child is coming from an orphanage and she's used to certain things that are likely to be different in her new family yet. it's possible that the change may cause some nervousness everything is new for her trying to comfort her trust as a contact it will give her a feeling of protection. because with since i have been working as the head of the orphanage for sixteen years now here in these years only eleven children have been returned by adoptive families.
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this is primarily the result of the professionalism of our psychologists all of that are extremely serious when it comes to selecting candidates were adoptive families. in preparing them and in raising our special kids. even those the ninety eight percent of the children from lower orphanage placed with families. to these families from day one to see and our psychologist continue to assist them until the child comes off age. we give them all the help they need. i want our kids to be happy i want everything to work out for them. with just as numb so i'm now aware going to take a piece of class and you will paint a picture together mugdha mom paint on this site and basically set. pain on the
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other side you need to keep silent while painting don't talk to each other ok we can begin now right. now let's discuss what we have created and. then just apple sunset tree. of your mother painted a tree and you decided to make some changes to her picture you don't like it. i just want to temples so i went to bed this quietness list how did you react to your tree being changed because of i know of i was a little taken aback why did you change my picture i wanted to being a virgin i end up with an apple turns i always dorothy's leg that. yeah
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she's like that she likes to get her way have her way is it difficult at times turn green is this nice yes sometimes it is so you see it all became a bit stressful after the doctors gave their diagnosis. the girl gets restless sometimes. the thing is that when the underground system is affected it's a lot of stress and nerves nothing and sometimes she begins acting up when her blood sugar levels increase our psychologist helps us to deal with it. it's good for us lisa and us to know. we're almost there. and i think where's our pretty
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girl. and that counted grandmother quick ok hands up good girl. you're a star you're far star. and i don't know. what i can do this here yet you can read books to her. here and i'll read books take her to nursery school and bring her home he's a big brother now you look after her. ridiculous of what i think they're special our children have grown up our oldest is going to college this year the younger one is also a big boy now we've always wanted a girl at first i wasn't sure about the way she would communicate with us she closes herself up easily she's like that like a snail in its shell but i think that she generally feel safe like she play she
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doesn't cry much she met the boys earlier so i think it'll be easy for her to join our family. there aren't any fears only motions but tell you warned us that she's got some illness but i don't worry about that. we'll deal with it. and wish it could i was more worried about how it would go it went well too good to be true. she accepted it. you know. my mom is nice and kind and she looks after outs. and. it's probably a higher power that decides on the people we meet that's what i think. before i took her home our eyes met sometimes at the orphanage she would wave her hand at me like that. and then i began to pay more attention to her more and we became
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closer and closer. and i didn't have children of my own i thought it would be good to have someone look someone i can take care of and someone who will look after me to. those listed as you eat let's record what you ate. i had does. he. led. to call keys and feel so you have to cookies they count as one and a half bread units how many altogether two and a half no three and a half yes three and a half bread units all right how much bread can you eat plenty grams twenty grams come on let's weigh it shows now they don't just tell me that she wouldn't have survived where she lived before today everything is about her health and insulin
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and blood toasts a special diet it's not easy to cook all of this. it's not the same like with other children they can snack on a cookie without having to think about it this is a special situation and we have a special approach anyone can pull them out you know how many bread units that will be. in one. and one to be a doctor. because i like to make people feel better. and learn to become a dentist. so that people don't. mind never to. hear yourself telling her now leslie is that you can just get medicine this is the only profession you can take other not necessarily a doctor you can be a nurse but this is your sphere because nothing else can help you like it can. keep telling me i don't know not come true or not.
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in my mind i shan't. attack. she started talking a lot she never talked before her speech was delayed and now she keeps talking all the time repeats everything all smiles signal to her she shows her emotions now before she didn't clapped her hands mother tongue kiss or wave. it will not was in seventy seven not even tired and you think this is i don't know. what's in the chart has brought us so much happiness.
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