tv Cross Talk RT November 8, 2013 3:29am-4:00am EST
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our way like brazil or germany what would be able to pay off a house would you do what i think you would let's not buy into this myth that locals and country x. don't want to work they just don't want to work and complete futility for table scraps but that's just my opinion. of the time if they realize at some point the goal of all my work in life was nothing more than about making money s. quickly as possible this chill is what it was all for i couldn't say i was an editor for
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a glossy magazine at the time when i didn't ok so so i can buy another fur coat or a new car or even an apartment so what and thirty four i don't have a man whom i would like to start a family with me and i knew then it was time to stop drop it all and try to find myself. i wanted waking up in the morning and go into work to be rewarding the words of those that i came across an advertisement s.o.s. villages folk is a looking for mothers it's just another thing i was thrilled when i saw it i had to write a letter to the director and i spent half a day at my computer at home alone trying to find words to describe what i felt to the words that could convince him that i was the mom they were looking for and they had to call me immediately.
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yes it was a journey fine thanks go on and look through your c.v. why you decided to work in the village it's a way of life it is twenty four hours but what i don't like is spending eight hours a day at work without really knowing why or weren't you are doing it for. a successful applicant for the position of s.o.'s mother is a twenty seven to forty three year old woman who either doesn't have children of her own or has adult children who live independently. thirty four years so you meet a handsome young man who's going to love you and want to have children with you but what i tell the kids early on is found herself
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a man it's all over. it's not as though there are crowds of men here in the village lining out for me begging big mean to me can you please. let me go to offer the kids. love kindness and care it was very fond of cooking reading and talking to interesting intelligent people you're in luck our kids are smart and interesting. ok when you start. you know week. once you get good morning kids good morning wake up. get up it's time to go to school no one to sleep. due to doing one boy for example told me that once he woke up got ready and went to school and it was so early in the morning that even the night watchman was still asleep course it was black his mother was
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a drug addict she didn't even notice her child gone i mean to exclude him they told me my scariest stories about what their lives for life from coke and all their drunk mothers fleeing home and living on the streets or in on heated garages that's what these small children have gone through they've led me into their world and it became easier for them to cope. have you prepared clothes for the animal corner that have you taken was in the closet yes and the raincoat no go do it then. it's not a kindergarden or an offer in which it's a house where you live with your family or your children. five children. beds and it's fun and cool they're all small so they're always running of our life they're to have an energy so they're constantly doing something claimed.
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the world good morning. it's a reason we face this on a post-war collective. well there's any women and children here. that i'm an old soldier myself just like after the second world war so we all work together here. and it was an ordinary week no incidents everything's fine in our house. while others here work a bit like the left tenants on a ship. it's good enough if the captain allows you to go ashore once a week or even once a month. the only question was how do you feel. i can say anything was especially appalling or surprising it's more or less what i had prepared for some things i didn't know about were quite unexpected but they didn't shock me. and wanted to enjoy the most wanted to bring you joy in the next fifteen years the kids. truth be told on this ship too it's my duty and the only difference is that i live in this
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cabin with my wife and child how. building this ship brought me back to my naval yes as a young. i built this ship just the way i remember it. as my service. with my former colleagues and fellow cadets. enough its naval officers that support the village and. not just any village. spillage. is an international distress signal meaning say our souls. just as the nose of any go. cold and comforting. if i happen to be holding try to calm down a child in distress but i'm still. children just like i can't be a husband to twelve mothers. here.
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or there there are. at the beach. they won't sting. sting. you'll live. you know i would want for you i think an s.o.s. father is probably a man who was with her she must be even tempered and have the patience to the same . time because in the evenings when children come from school or kindergarden since extra lessons they gather rhone to me and started growing mom help me help me mom he's taken my pen and it becomes a currys the house. while you all shall sing you join the drama club
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and shout there. they are and. they're clean my nails are clean. what did you do. and also go to swearing. hose sergei is a true father for the whole village for mothers and children alike he's the boss with a capital b. . history of being going to argue. she would have made a wonderful father because he's very firm level headed confident and competent if you know how to treat children. my sister and her husband still try to convince me that i should have a child of my own they tell me not to worry that i don't have a husband and promise to support me after they keep saying that it's not a real family because their children are not my own but i think it's stupid idea i hope i will fall in love with a man who will force me to choose between him and the kids got about i hope i'll
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never face such a choice. the pressure ridges on which river which i want to marry a man who will take responsibility for me and the children but i haven't met such a man yet. that i've regained an appetite for a life that's what happened to me this place lives at its own pace you feel as though you're doing something useful. young what does worry of a lot of us i've been divorced for quite a while and lived alone for more than nine years. have a sixteen year old daughter who is in the tenth grade and an elderly mother there back in perm and she would be sceptical us and them was that my daughter may be jealous but only of the youngest kid six year old korea my she's a very tenacious child you know you don't let me go no i won't root those of us we've got a list of lists quite
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a difficult child very opinionated and sometimes my daughter says now i know i hate children if i reply to you before but it will pass in time and there's no reason for you to love kids at the age of sixteen. until now dahlia is kind of she helps me with my homework and cooking and teaches me to be healthy and brave. boy kids at first i took four children in january two more joined our family. i came back from vacation to discover that i had six children not four and it's six children that i need to look after you. hello sweetheart how are you going to get up. fine so what do you have any free time. on a toll on one of my dear what's new let us know everything's all right around the
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time we learn brings home good marks three or four days every day all of those are because i got good marks for general conduct which especially pleased me. hello hello. wedding at hallmark he's helping me with physics well make sure your boyfriend doesn't distract you from your studies when need to talk. well let's talk about ten pm when i put the kids to bed wasn't. that all that stuff but i don't want her to think i've left her there. that's why i would regularly talk online that's why i always send money back home. i put aside very little barely enough for a modest life it would be great to have the support of a man i love. i won't have to choose between. work i had already
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face a choice once. i left work and followed my husband served in the military but i won't choose a man this time. this man had better be prepared to accept me with the work i have and the life i. think there probably no such man. they're all villages like this in russia where every mother's bring their own children and raise them all together. but it's not the same. even if a mother does care for everyone equally all the children start complaining of she loves one more than the other of course there is a distinction here my daughter is my own daughter. realized i'm not the kind of person who can raise and log and adopt a child i'm not jealous i may want to know. even when a mother calls him at eleven or twelve doesn't even if she's young and attractive i
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say absolutely call. new mothers with a younger and younger kid a for example i was going to wait and met my has been in the company of a pretty young woman. your husband in the company of. the young man there. so as mom asked for an s.o.s. dat you have to go through the whole country with a fine tooth comb to find a couple like vastly difficult. women s.o.'s mom falls in love with a man it's different. than s.o.'s mother but he's not an asset. she's my junior but what about him i might use post to since he's my rival as we speak i'm pretty and.
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i think the issue of privacy the issue of surveillance hasn't gotten enough coverage in the mainstream media i think the majority of americans don't know what's going on don't understand the significance of what's come out this summer i don't think it necessarily they need to hear about me and my story because a lot of it is one small piece of a much larger puzzle but what i do think that mainstream america needs to hear about and then her stand is just to what google links our government is going to conduct surveillance just how much information they're actually collecting and storing in some cases for years you know these are very significant problems these are the types of issues that can do
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a democracy like ours. exactly what happened i don't know killed. piers later is when i got arrested. for a crime or did not do. we have numerous cases were police officers lie about polygraph results. and people to consent to the police officers don't beat people anymore i mean it just doesn't happen really. in the course of interrogation because there's been this is like no because the psychological techniques are more effective in obtaining confessions than physical abuse. they were off taking they could get what they wanted they could say what they wanted and there was no evidence of what they did or what they said. i am.
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all i want to. pick up something that is quite simply. was no way oh. clearly they were just at the wrong place at the wrong time. and sold to the us and turned over to the us for. the soul that could be buried alive. was saved with great effort. into they want to turn me into a terrorist so it was a one on me to admit that i was a member of al qaeda or taliban but i fought with them. not about time i didn't even know what al qaeda is nevertheless there are people all. grave enough to start a fight. something's going to be done that's going to be done by me and it's been a short amount of time to do it but it's going to impact me i'd be prosecuted but
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it's going to impact. a wife and daughter. the one time a trap. on our t.v. . was saying the old. boy i was surprised when alexander the oldest of the kids called me mom she was the first to do it but it was too early i jumped at that moment because i wasn't ready yet it's like if a man proposes to you. answer whoa i need time to think so when she called me mom i needed time to think to get used to the idea i spent a couple of days sorting knowledge my feelings. that well my mom died and dad meant another woman. i didn't understand it when i first saw her.
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i know lisa and to her and called her names and said there's two things to her just now it's only until i don't know that they call mom. because stanley used to her. she has sky and nice tender and caring with mom is you could say. the most important person in your lie. my big conflict if i tell a child to do something or example kids often want to play instead of doing their homework one of my girls takes these situations very close to heart and cool owes us herself up. and because of these strong emotions she might start calling me auntie a little not again. now i even feel slightly offended and i go like why are you
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calling me that i mean a mother how can you say that. she can with a direct ham. and then she can mom mom she's crying and she likes it when it's clean and. that's. just going with our own parents didn't want us there so when i came to the children's village and a stooge for the first time that was what it meant to be needed to be cared for. felt i had a chance to achieve something. in this life force to lead i like this job because it allows me to create chocolate is like modeling clay now it's flowing but in half an hour it will said and i'll be able to put it into any shape i like. when i lived in the village mom would say that if she did everything instead of us we would
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never learn that she told us we had to do everything ourselves. my dream is to open my own chocolate factory. my real mother only once the limit on a street in the town of pushkin this woman approached me and said hello how are you so i realized it was my mother standing before me the woman who had carried me for nine months. these were the only ways she had heiress said to me so i answered i'm fine or should buy. my village mother went with me through everything no no says cora and joyful mom and. each year she invited us to her house while we were in sole calls that i never even noticed it was more work for her. will. call me to see where i come in
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on friday where coming on saturday evening they know they will be welcomed here one says same bank not the same as i want to meet. should start the independent yes i am independent. it's just that i get marriage we've been living together for on the here and we're still getting used to each other my has no wants to have three kids i told him to raise at least one terrorist and then we'll see. if. there are two sisters and they are very close the older one will defend the younger to the last drop of blood in spite of being small and she has a very strong character she learns so when the older kids try to raise their voices to her she immediately takes them down a peg. their
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grandmother and grandfather often come to visit them it's very important when relatives can stay in touch especially if they don't just come with a bag of presents and leave by thinking they've done their duty but when they actually spend time with the kids. normal wills. mom or dad in which my daughter was a single mother. after giving birth to police alexandra she started seeing a drug addict and forgot about the children for some time to look up with but it was all birth. siblings can be sent to the same or for. the age of fifteen the doing it so in this case this village was a blessing because they were not separated my first my wife died of a stroke then she suffered a stroke to. islam if i hadn't had a stroke the girls wouldn't have ended up with a great grandfather is eighty two don't allow him to take the girls because of his
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age and i'm disabled they told me you yourself need to be looked after we can't allow you to take the kids call scoop alina did a line today jim that sticks what i wanted to gymnastics. and i treat them as my own daughter's no good and want some strangers can just come and take them away i don't want it to happen we're going to hear such things i get really really nervous because i noticed that yesterday i got a phone call apparently there are some couple. with my heart sank when i heard it i thought you wish i won't let you take them for me so easily. just announced in the record this is how she prepares for bed usually kids watch cartoons and go to sleep but she gets even more excited because of cartoons she
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different from other children she was so tender the first thing you know when your child hold you and kiss you will be read kindness. with these children it's different they don't give anything the only take trying to make up for the lack of kindness in their life and this girl radiated warmth. to. most of. all our children are in the database for adoption one woman saw a picture on the internet and decided to adopt this child how she's so much like my daughter when she was small she's just her exact copy. i called her grandmother and she told me that the adoptive mother has stopped all contact contact because loosely uble is not that she said she heard the girl's voice but the woman told her she wouldn't give the girl the phone the girl with no
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roots going to be through another route to go back to the dawn of time. which i'm afraid that if something happens to this woman the girl be sent to an orphanage again children should live in a family. but only after the last child leaves the orphanage. people come and take because from here in the village it's not the worst place in the world for these children this. village kids i play the games i didn't have trying to as a kid resilience to. the ok i mean your team they are not going off along the boys it's just that i have to sign papers and attach seals to show. with girls used to be tough but when you're raising a boy sometimes you have to be stern and force him to do things through the station you can have a serious man to man talk with him. so you're going to be a man a lot after all. is the father of the whole village. but he
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doesn't respond to our dad because he has his own daughter i don't think i will ever call him dad in fact half of the kids call said gay father no they don't yes they do i heard that what i have. why you are going it's true i had them i know better i'm not jealous because i think it's ok for this child it's what these kids need. they simply need to have someone to cause dad to go on rare occasions very small children asked if i was their dad my said you know i'm the director here he's not. just a director being a dad is one thing and then being a director is close it's still a completely different thing. to
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social when you want to kazan when i was picking my kids up from school and kindergarten teacher i saw a woman with three children we did it and we exchanged a knowing look and smile to each other there was a wonderful feeling i had their moment i really felt like a mother of five we were both mothers of a large family home oh these are your children and there's a mine i knew then what a mother's happiness means that's when all your children are with you. one day i came and said ok kids our life is about to change i'm leaving you because
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i found a new toy and this story is my husband yes it was baby trail that was scattered or political it. still is the one to children need to be happy most of all in one not only monitor spot father us in the village as well i still thought they wanted to find a husband whole biala dad. again when mom decides to leave the same place so mom brianna's with you car and wishes coincide but if i ever go away i would take the kids with me without a doubt but i would have never thought that they were actually looking for a husband for me.
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exactly what happened that day i don't know but a woman i killed. appears later is when i got arrested for. for a crime i did not do. we have numerous cases where police officers lie about polygraph results. innocent people to confess to police officers don't beat people anymore i mean it just doesn't happen really. in the course of interrogation why because there's been this is like meant no because the psychological techniques are more effective in obtaining confessions than physical abuse they were off taking they could get what they wanted they could say what they wanted and there was no evidence of what they did or what they said.
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but you got a lot of sneering and negative press for your engagements here in russia especially the public appearances with food and even though they weren't explicitly politically or just supporting sports one of the things that certain people who zoom has become very adept at is controlling the media for example right here c.n.n. do i think c.n.n. is you know completely telling it like it is no i think they have an agenda i think through is is bought and paid for. the news sigrid laboratory tim curry was able to build a new most sophisticated robot which all unfortunately doesn't give a dollar amount anything tunes mission to teach music creation why it should care
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