or years of some awful labor under awful conditions somewhere far away like brazil or germany what would be able to pay off a house would you do it i think you would let's not buy into this myth that locals and country x. don't want to work they just don't want to work and complete futility for table scraps but the shust by a pretty. good one if they realize at some point the goal of all my work in life was nothing more than about making money ask quickly as possible this would lead to what it was all for i couldn't say i was an editor for a glossy magazine at the time which was not in ok so i can buy another fur coat or a new car or even an apartment so what and thirty four i don't have a man whom i would like to start a family with me and i knew then it was time to stop drop it all and try to find

myself. i wanted waking up in the morning and go into work to be rewarding the words of those that i came across an advertisement s.o.s. religious folk is a looking for mothers it's just another thing i was thrilled when i saw it i had to write a letter to the director and i spent half a day at my computer at home alone trying to find words to describe what i felt to the words that could convince him that i was the mom they were looking for and they had to call me immediately.

i look through your c.v. you decided to work in the village it's a way of life twenty four hours. what i don't like spending eight hours a day at work without really knowing why or weren't doing it for. the position of s.o.'s mother is a twenty seven to forty three year old woman who either doesn't have children of her own or has children who live independently. thirty four. was going to love you and want to have children with you but i tell the kids early on as found herself it's all over. not as though there were crowds of men here in the lining out for me begging me. to offer the kids. kindness and care it was very fond of cooking reading

and talking to interesting intelligent people. and interesting. week. once you get good morning kids good morning wake up. get up it's time to go to school no one to sleep. due to doing one boy for example told me that once he woke up got ready and went to school and it was so early in the morning that even the night watchman was still asleep it was black his mother was a drug addict she didn't even notice her child had gone i mean to exclude him they told me my scariest stories about what their lives her life and all of their drunk mothers fleeing home and living on the streets or in on heated garages that's what

these small children have gone through and they've led me into their world and it became easier for them to cope. have you prepared clothes then i'm a corner but have you taken boys from the closet yes and the raincoat no problem go do it then. it's not a kindergarten or an offer in which it's a house where you live with your family or your children. five children. beds and it's fun and cool they're all small so they're always running of our life they're full of an energy so they're constantly doing something claimed. for a good morning. the reason we base this on a postwar collective. well there's any women and children here. that i'm an old soldier myself just like after the second world war so we all work together here at

the school and it was an ordinary week no incidents everything's fine in our house . while the mothers here work a bit like the left tenants on a ship. if the captain allows you to go ashore once a week or even once a month. the only question was how do you feel. i can say anything was especially appalling or surprising it's more or less what i had prepared for some things i didn't know about were quite unexpected but they didn't shock me. and wanted to enjoy the most wanted to bring you joy in the next fifteen years the kids. but truth be told i serve on the ship to is my duty. the only difference is that i live in this cabin with my wife and child how. building this ship brought me back to my naval yes as a young. i built this ship just the way i remember it. as

my service yes we still have it. with my former colleagues and fellow cadets. enough it's naval officers that support the village and. tell them it's not just anybody it's an s.o.s. village and there's an international distress signal meaning save our souls. just as old and those of any go. into tears i told him comforting. if i happened to be around hold and try to calm down a child in distress. i can be a father to seventy children just like i can't be a husband to twelve mothers. here. or there or there are. at the beach. they won't

sting. she doesn't sting. you'll live. kelly. i would one for you i think an s.o.s. father is probably a man who was with her she must be even tempered and have the patience to the same . time because in the evening when children come from school or kindergarden since extra lessons they gather rhone to me and started going mom help me help me mom he's taken my pen it becomes a currys the house. while you all shouting join the drama club and shout there while your nails they aren't. there clean my nails are clean. what do you do any more color and and i also go to syria. to do what i do know is sergei is the true father for the whole village for mothers

and children alike he's the boss with a capital b. . history of being going to argue she would have made a wonderful father because he's very firm level headed confident and competent if you know how to treat children. my sister and her husband still try to convince me that i should have a child of my own they tell me not to worry that i don't have a husband and promise to support me after i keep saying that it's not a real family because their children are not male but i think it's stupid idea i hope i will fall in love with a man who will force me to choose between him and the kids got about i hope i'll never face such a choice. the pressure ridges on what i what i want to marry a man who will take responsibility for me and the children but i haven't met such a man yet. but i've regained an appetite for

life and that's what happened to me this place lives at its own pace you feel as though you're doing something useful. yeah what i was worried of a lot of us had been divorced for quite a while and lived alone for more than nine years now. have a sixteen year old daughter who is in the tenth grade and an elderly mother there back in perth and some of the sceptical us another was that my daughter may be jealous but only of the youngest kids six year old korea oh she's a very tenacious child you know you don't let me go no i won't root them out of the flu is quite a difficult child to very opinionated and sometimes my daughter says now i know i hate children if i reply to you before but it will pass in time and there's no reason for you to love kids at the age of sixteen. until now dahlia is kind of she

helps me with my homework and cooking and teaches me to be healthy and brave and. noble a kid at first i took four children in january two or joined our family. i came back from vacation to discover that i had six children not four and it's six children that i need to look after you. hello sweetheart how are you going to get up. fine so what do you have any free time. on a toll on what about you what's new let us know everything's all right around the time we learn brings home good marks three or four days every day ordered those are because i got good marks for general conduct which especially please me. hello hello. weddings homework is hurting me with physics well make sure your boyfriend

doesn't distract you from your studies when need to talk. well let's talk about ten pm when i put the kids to bed wasn't. that all this stuff but i don't want her to think i've left her there. that's why i would regularly talk online that's why i always send money back home. since i put aside very little barely enough for a modest life it would be great to have the support of the man i love. i won't have to choose between. work i had already face a choice once. i left work and my husband served in the military but i would choose a time. this man had better be prepared to accept me with the work i have and the life i. think there probably no such man.

they're all villages like this in russia where mothers bring their own children and raise them all together. but it's not the same. even if a mother does care for everyone equally all the children start complaining that she loves one more than the other of course there is a distinction here my daughter is my own daughter. realized i'm not the kind of person who can raise and log and adopt a child i'm not jealous i'm a one down. even one a mother calls him at eleven or twelve doesn't even if she's young and attractive i say absolutely call. new mothers with a younger and younger kid a for example i was going to work and met my has been in the company of a pretty young woman. your husband in the company of your. mom with

a young mother. so as mom as for an s.o.s. debt you have to go through the whole country with a fine tooth comb to find a couple like bass with the difficult. women s.o.'s mom falls in love with a man it's different. than s.o.'s mother but he's not an asset. instead she's my junior but what about him my his boss to the world and doing in a sense from three of my rival was to completely and. it was a. very hard to make out. once again on here was

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that was. the i was surprised when alexander the oldest of the kids called me mom she was the first to do it was too early for you i jumped at that moment because i wasn't ready yet it's like if a man proposes to you and your answer whoa i need time to think so when she called me mom i needed time to think to get used to the idea i spent a couple of days sorting out my feelings. that well my mom died. and another woman. i didn't understand it when i first saw her knew he has a job. i know lisa into her and called her names and said there's two things

to her just now it's only until another to call mom. because stanley used to her. because she has sky and nice. and caring and mom is you could say. the most important person in your lie. but i'm not the only my big conflict if i tell a child to do something or example kids often want to play instead of doing their homework one of my girls takes these situations very close to heart and school owes us herself up. and because of these strong emotions she might start calling me auntie a little not again. now i even feel slightly offended and i go like why are you calling me that i'm your mother how can you say that. she can with a direct question. and bench mickey. she likes it when it's

clean and. that's. just the way our own parents didn't want us so when i came to the children's village just because i understood for the first time that was what it meant to be needed to be cared for. you in a life felt i had a chance to achieve something in this life of the bush. i like this job because it allows me to create chocolate is like modeling clay now it's flowing but in half an hour it will said and i'll be able to put it into any shape i like. when i lived in the village mom would say that if she did everything instead of us we would never learn that she told us we had to do everything ourselves against the british my dream is to open my own chocolate factory

a dinner as my soul my real mother only once the limit on a street in the town of pushkin this woman approached man said hello how are you so i realized it was my mother standing before me the woman who had carried me for nine months. these were the only words she had ever said to me so i answered i'm fine good bye. my village mother went with me through everything no no says carl's and joyful mom and. each year she invited us to her house we were in so calls that i never even noticed it was more work for her to. call me to see where coming on friday where cabin on saturday evening they know they will be welcomed here one says same bank not the same as i want to meet. she is startling

dependent yes i am independent. it's just that i get marriage we've been living together for on the here and we're still getting used to each other my has no wants to have three kids i told him to raise at least one terrorist and then we'll see. there are two sisters and they are very close the older one will defend their younger to the last drop of blood in spite of being small and she has a very strong characters so when the older kids try to raise their voices to her she immediately takes them down a peg. their grandmother and grandfather often come to visit them it's very important when relatives can stay in touch especially if they don't just come with a bag of presents and leave by thinking they've done their duty but when they

actually spend time with the kids. normal rules. mom wanted to know which my daughter was a single mother. after giving birth to police and alexandra she started seeing a drug addict and forgot about the children for some time. with the but it was all . siblings can be sent to the same or for. so in this case this village was a blessing because they were not separate it now my first my wife died of a stroke then she suffered a stroke to. islam if i had had a stroke the girls wouldn't have ended up with a great grandfather is eighty two don't allow him to take the girls because of his age and i'm disabled they told me yourself need to be looked after we can't allow you to take the kids post scoop alina and i did a lot to do a gym that sticks what i wanted to gymnastics.

and i treat them as my own daughter's no good and what some strangers can just comment take them away i don't want it to happen we're going to hear such things i get really really nervous with it i noticed that yesterday i got a phone call apparently there's some couple that wants to adopt a child my heart sank when i heard it i thought you wish i won't let you take them from me so easily. just announced in the record this is how she prepares for bed usually kids watch cartoons and go to sleep but she gets even more excited because of cartoons she different from other children she was so tend to feel you know when your child hold you and kiss you they radiate kindness. with these children it's different they

don't give anything the only take trying to make up for the lack of kindness in their life and this girl radiated warmth. most of them. all our children are in the database for adoption one woman saw a picture on the internet and decided to adopt this child how she's so much like my daughter when she was small she's just her exact copy. i called her grandmother and she told me that the adoptive mother has stopped all contact contact you this loosely you will it's not that she said she heard the girl's voice but the woman told her she wouldn't give the girl the phone the girl with no roots going to be through her roots go back to the dawn of time. which i'm afraid that if something happens to this woman the girl be sent to an orphanage

again children should live in a family. but only after the last child leaves the orphanage why should people come and take because from here in the village they're not it's not the worst place in the world for these children. with religious kids i play the games i didn't have time to as a kid the incident with the ok i mean your team they are not going off along the boys it's just that i have to sign papers and attach seals to show. well done with girls used to be tough when you're raising a boy sometimes you have to be stern and force him to do things through the stage you can have a serious man to man talk with him. so you're going to be a man a lot after all. is the father of the whole village. but he doesn't respond to a dad because he has his own daughter i don't think i will ever call him dad but in

fact half of the kids call said gay father no they don't yes they do you i heard that what i have. is to know why you are going it's true i had them i know better i'm not jealous because i think it's ok for this child it's what these kids need. they simply need to have someone to cause dad to go on the rare occasions very small children asked if i was that my said you know i'm the director here he's not . just a director being a dad is one thing and then being a director is close it's still a completely different thing. to

social when you want to kazan when i was speaking my kids up from school and kindergarten and i soon with three children we exchanged a knowing look and smile to each other there was a wonderful feeling i had their moment i really felt like a mother of five we were both mothers of a large family home oh these are your children and there's a mine i knew then what a mother's happiness means that's when all your children are with you. one day i came and said ok kids our life is about to change and leaving you because i found a new toy and the story is my husband yes it was baby trail that was or political it was. still is that one two children need to be happy that most of all in one not

only monitors spot father us in the village as well i still find they want to find a husband whole will be our dad. again when mum decides to leave wales same place and mum mum brianna's with you our own wishes coincide but if i ever go away i would take the kids with me without a doubt but i would have never thought that they were actually looking for a husband for me a lesson. it

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