it was. hey folks dennis miller here next on dennis miller plus one we're going to talk to a fascinating woman i have chatted with her a little before the show and also read the stories unbelievable every palm porus she has a new book out it is called becoming bulletproof and she knows of which she speaks served 4 presidents in the secret service and also has a bravo series that played literally in new york was fun fascinating spy games and

we'll talk to heavy about her new book right after this on dennis miller plus one. they followed welcome to the free wheeling that is villar plus one and we are joined today by an impressive day every pomp or seventies a former secret service agent as worked in the protective detail for 4 u.s. presidents all fascinating also media contributor frequently appearing on n.b.c.'s n.b.c. c.n.n. a.b.c. you also know as the co-host of the bravo series spy games which premiered earlier this year and heavy as a new book out called becoming bulletproof available online and in stores now every day you do not i'm doing ok i'm doing it i'm doing great now that none of you know. well that's way to thank you it's such an interesting time to be

you know one how if one writes a book certainly one wants to get into as many hands as they can and you've got to go forward and sell the soap as it were we live in such interesting times how are you. how are you spending the coronavirus i actually go do you runs in the morning i partnered with dunkin donuts in a healthy way and actually go to 1st responders and i donate. food beverage and as a thank you sir i actually wake up pretty early in the morning 5 am and i go to different hospitals that in doing all the n.y.p.d. precincts like this morning we did 5 precincts in brooklyn going from place to place just kind of show nothing thank you so the rain good so that some of them are working around the clock especially hospital didn't even have time for breaks or to get through so i am doing that part of it you know just to contribute in any way that i possibly can to help and then head back home and work from home like

everybody else well what a nice gesture and that if one has to quarantine to polish one's karma is certainly at the light for endeavor good for you kiddo when you say you part it's so funny to me it's such health times to think you can partner with duncan donuts which in the past would have been the antithesis of running a no you're actually at partnering with tell me tell me about that cooperative. well i look down at it and i don't it put a smile on my face so i it's just about giving back all i know this is what is came from when i didn't i thought i was worth in the recovery efforts on 911 and we worked around the clock in that remember working in literally going through things and you know going through that part of it never member there's mcdonald's at the time and there was that mcdonald's cart going to come by every day after you know different i was on during the day and come out and be like kate do you want some

food are you hungry and it's just burgers or chicken nuggets or something and i remember that and it stayed with me when i was like thank you so much and i remember being so grateful for that small gesture and i think it stayed with me over the years and now that i will not have 1st responder i remember thinking like what can i do you know when i was like you you want to feel good and how can i help make people feel good and that's really where it came from ellison every other i assume in the security business ag would assume and especially with secret service details with 4 people i often think secret service agents must be good poker players because there has to be a lot of observation of different types there i think you have to tell what's going on to a large degree before it goes on i'm watching the for a zone between staying at home everybody wants to take care of each other to the green we can't and certain people in certain parts of the country now it's not

quite working what are you seeing what is your. whoa what are what is your astute telling you about where the american populace is with the stay at home. i would say just just shy of orders were where do you see the people at. i think you have to i think you have to groups the majority of people are listening i fear the majority are listening but i think it's going to get harder because i mean here in new york they just extended it governor cuomo came out and he extended the stay home to make it seems now made and. yeah so i think now is where we're going to see a little bit more unrest i think you're going to see a little bit more pushback and people feeling like hey i've had enough of this and that's where we might start to see problems a bit but it really i mean you decide as individual how you want to deal with it and i think can you really understand it is ringback it's a huge problem is a pandemic and sometimes maybe it's not right in front of your face if you're home

you're not really seeing the actual consequences of what's happening unless you're in a hospital unless you've lost somebody unless you've been really really ill yourself and i think of that group of people that have not exist had direct experience that are going to struggle the most with following these orders up until now i think we're all we're the majority are doing well and listening and then of course you have a group of people that are resistant and not following along but i do think we've done well up until this point the question is now dentist like how are we going to do from this point forward because it's no one expects as is expecting it to go on islam and we're going to go into 2nd month. well you know and we're talking to every pump or so the book is becoming bulletproof i'll get to the book in a 2nd but obviously and he chapped and contemporary american dieter around the world now starts with the code 19 and how the countries are reacting to it i assume in your job over the years and certainly have worked as

a 1st responder you worked at the secret service i'm sure you've been a security consultant to some degree it's when it hits the fan it hits the fan hard and it is absolutely shocking and i sometimes look at the world around me right now and i think well it's maintaining all the gravitational pulls of civilization but boy when it cracks i hope that somebody knows we have to siphon off pressure here periodic lee because if you don't and it cracks it cracks fast doesn't it i'm sure you've seen things go from good good good to hell in a hand-basket like that over your career. you know any can any of these people's reactions panic can you can you manage your panic can you manage this fear response i mean we are never very very reactionary state usually you want to try to catch this as quickly as possible has early as possible so that you're as proactive as possible so we're not seeing the numbers and we're not seeing this this you know

situation that we're and because we're in a pretty rough situation so could we would have been great to have been a bit more proactive and and minimized where we are yes but now we're ems reactionaries where we just literally reacting to what's happening what's responding and to some degree what we're doing damage control the best the best we can but you want to manage also people as managing people not creating fear and panic because that some people who lose it they don't they don't do well in those environments and can you manage those people and that you know that's not just from a health perspective but then from a lot of fortunate perspective the worry are people they listen or are they going to snap are they going to crack really in a panic and is that going to build up over time if people want to feel i think dennis they want to feel like that there's a resolution you know what is this going to absent i think that's another car we're frustration exists where nobody knows our officials are. we're talking every punk course the book is becoming bulletproof i want to get to the book right now

you talk about panic you know when i've had a feel in my life and i don't mean panic attacks i mean where i thought oh this could go horribly wrong right now and i must say that i would need some actual behavior modification tips from you and help to quell that feeling because even me being aware of that i was going into a zone i remember snowmobile ride winds on and off track or to start to get weird and i was saying brother you better start breathing here and focusing and paying attention to this earth this is one of those stories you read about and you think how did it go that weird and that it goes weird quick it goes where graduate and quickly how do you stay calm give me your 3 best tip savvy so create a disruptor meaning when you well with that situation that you're sent sharing your adrenaline is kicking in your body sensing dangerous things dest like we feel we see something happening here we want to our lives so when you're feeling that that

rapid heartbeat the swelling that change the physical physiological change you should recognize your body is trying to help here. instead of being afraid of it embrace it and then using that emotion try not to let it overwhelm you not to be afraid of it and so that you can try to think as clearly as possible you don't want to do this which a lot of people do when they're especially when they're driving a car accident the number one thing people do is they take their hands off the wheel and the cars are us and that's what you don't want to do you don't want to let fear run the show it's like i'm majlis i have some level of control and i need to exude that control but the more you're around stressful situations the more comfortable you'll be doing that as an unexplained you go snowmobiling you'll be more aware of that the other thing is when you are having some type of panic maybe it's not in such a dire situation that maybe a stressful thing with work the one thing i do is do nothing darl don't tax don't

write remove yourself when this reaction is happening and that is happening just stop do nothing and then let's check in with yourself a little bit later let some time past or introduce a disruptor of disruptors also something that helps you great the chair or the mental life that you're in whenever you're in that negative loop or that panic loop you can do it with meditation you can do it was going to work out you can do it with putting on a movie that makes you feel good you want to change what is happening here you want to disrupt it that makes sense. of course you have to throw something out there just as a firewall to get you back to square one it's like walking into a fight or something and you get creased the soon as you come into the door i would say your 1st thing is to kind of gather assimilate see what's happening and that's what happens when the few times i've had illicit panic attacks or one thing anx this one thing i've had a couple where i was as wow this is this is right on the birds and that's that's

when you need this look i think becoming bulletproof ensuring your safety in any situation not every bump or is divides your strategy into 3 main areas protection as i referred to earlier i assume in our job reading people and influence when it explain all 3 of those be and let's do one before the break then we're going to take a break we'll come back we'll get the 2 on the other side but tell me how important protection isn't what you mean by that exactly. so protection i've broken into 2 parts physical protection which means how you physically protect yourself in the world we live in a lot of people asking us to sense a situational awareness being aware of what's going on around you the majority protecting yourself is just knowing what's going on around you nobody's going to attack you or do anything to you the majority of time they they they look for opportunity to look for someone who's distracted or not being tension right people who are attacked who commit crime they're not looking for an equal fight just looking for the person that's going to go down he's and so what we want to be aware

that i we exude confidence how you might have somebody look at you dennis and be like they don't know us a little crazy looks like he's in a fight back not thinking that's what is the only thing we look at is protection when it comes to mental resilience when it comes to filtering what you allow into your life whether it's people or situations so for example right now if we were to bring you back to college if you are constantly watching the news and all you hearing about is all these people are a guy all these people are that's what you're watching constantly you that's the barrage of information you're getting that's one to affect you and it's going to affect your psyche and it's going to put you in that more fear based panic mode so everything is a big deal everything is dangerous everything is horrible so it's about creating adult or what we allow in and what we keep out. we are going to take a break at the pump orse is our guest the new book is becoming bulletproof i also want to talk to her about what it's like to well quite frankly be responsible for

the likes of presidents 4 of them in her case and when we do come back we'll talk about her next main areas reading people and influence and show explain each one. this is dennis miller plus one. liquid assets those that you can convert into gas quite easily. to keep in mind the places. board. primary democrats and their friends have decided on joe biden as their. is the electable will the progressive small in line. offering voters and will the d.n.c. experience buyer's remorse.

and hey folks welcome back to dennis miller plus one honest split screen with our fascinating guest at the pump or she is a new book becoming bulletproof and of course you also know are from the bravo series spy games which premiered earlier this year we're talking about her comprehensive plan she had broken it down into 3 parts and that i am fascinated by the 2nd one because i find that people who can read people it's like the old streisand. who read people are the luckiest people because i think you can get some real good info before anything ever goes down if you read people what should i look for in a what do they say a top gun in a potential bogey what do you look for. who are going to tell you about miller the vote so it's really people why because we want to make sure that what somebody is

saying is in harmony with what they're actually they're actually me and people lie all the time the research shows that someone a like 10 times in a conversation possibly and then we also learn multiple times a day sometimes in. our you well i know i'm great how are you mean well you know i just only a few tracks my husband but we need people assessing people really is about you know looking i can tell you because there are so many parts of it it's paying attention they acted listening so don't when you're when you are talking to someone like are you completely taking them in and i will say to people open your eyes and listen what are they doing are they connected with you i think listening to you so for example if you don't have a conversation and your arms are across 3 or you're fidgeting you're not wholly present that lets me know he's not connected he's not connecting with me and i have to pivot i have to adjust and when it comes to red flags in attempting deception there are so much there but we look at 3 main things that people with be-bop the

body body language and those are called red flags behaviors of the things people do so for example if you are talking right now and we're doing this interview now what i mean i've done this interview my hands of been down here i'm not put anything in front of my face well let us me a question i'll make it up who is the president you hate you you you despise or who is the one person who you dislike protecting right and i was that and i do this. before i answer you that is a red flag because like you know the whole time i was sitting here issues her hands are down she's been a certain way with me and i asked him this question and there's a shit there was a change or maybe i just scratched that now it doesn't necessarily mean about to lie to you bill what it's telling is like i need to pay attention to what she's going to say. and so we want to look at what people are like there based lifeforms be who they are normally we're having our last conversation and then when you throw in those curveballs and you're interviewing people this is really your exams when you're interviewing people and you see that shift let's say i'm like this all of us

across my arms all of a sudden start scratching my head you can say i just asked her this question why the change and then you certain of her and questions and then even with the language listen to the language people use are they really answering the question or to him it do they go to a completely different direction lot of people they don't like the question they want answered if you want to them of those things in out when they're committing to something usually when people commit to something they'll say i did this i were here that shows accountability but if somebody leaves i out in the conversation that's also ref lexer there are so many different things to look at when it comes to human behavior but the biggest thing is paying attention if you're not paying attention you're going to miss all. yes keep the antenna up we're talking every bump or as the book is becoming bulletproof i also want to get to the t.v. show serial briefly let's just touch on the 3rd main area of your overall plan

number one protection to use reading people where you mean by influence. that one doesn't and i don't quite get that one as much what do you mean by influence just waiting people to give us what we want how do we hear from them from no so yes how do you get that deal that you want that isn't this deal that look you know that t.v. show whatever it is what are you negotiating with someone or to do an interview how do you get them to say yes and so sometimes people are very resistant and we try to figure out how do i get this person to understand and so there are certain techniques and strategies marry using body language or growing people's body language acceptance acceptance is a lie somebody to say what they want to say letting them go and then coming in later and delivering what you want to say is that it's trying to force it in that moment so there's all these differences and they're actually science based strategies based on science and psychology of how we respond as people their techniques that you can use the new super subtle to help you negotiate back to connect better with people in these are we kind of sway people who are resistant to

the direction that you want. now i see you for clues for presidents i'm sort of fascinated by that i don't know what layer you were in with each of the 4 presidents i assume they were the 2 bushes and clinton and obama i'm guessing that but. what when they when the new president comes in do you have to definitely i guess adjust your game to that that human being right it must be interesting that i don't know kind of fit them in the right way. you do because each think of it this way every president has their own personality and so is their good administration and they're going to work and behave a certain way but you know what we have to adapt i have to doubt they are not i they don't adapt to me i doubt it to them when i say i am in the agency in general when they lie but they don't like it it's always a compromise but every administration has like its own unique personality and they behave and acted in different ways and look they're all extraordinary they're all

fascinating in her own ways i personally served on the obama detail and that's when you get assigned somebody for like a 24 you know you're with them consistently and that was light they call it face to my latter part of the year that everybody gets to the president's detail night was with him and the mrs for basically all the time i had no other responsibilities the previous presidents those those were our presidents were helped in a supplemental capacity so because we also worked investigations as it investigates and interrogations that did interviews so we were doing those and then working a supplemental capacity to help out the former details the former president or the current president so there are so many different layers to invite by that you get exposed on different people and then you're protecting their children you're protecting for has a state you know in new york we have the u.n. there's constantly for has a state coming to the u.s. secret service is mandated to protect any foreign head of state coming to the u.s.

because they don't want anybody getting assassinated on u.s. soil so protection is such a big big thing but it's beyond just the questions that we're talking to every palm porous and god she's led a fascinating life she has a new book out it's called becoming bowl approved i assume it's for people across both sexes i don't know do you have you ever. done seminars for women or that i always say i think of women or learning from a tough woman and i think that must really resonate with them as opposed to just another guy i explored them out a deal with bags but i assume this works for both everybody wrote i love it you know and it's interesting they bring it out because when i 1st started writing the book they were you know you get guidance from people in psycho you should write for women in the house like no this is for everybody like this exist for everyone everything in this book is not just for women it's for men too and ironically a lot of people don't know what men are more likely to be victims of violent crime

women are more likely to be event thems of some type of sexual assault or men are going to need to be victims of violent crime and so i was very determined i think just because i'm a woman i'm not going to write a book from this book is for everything i wrote it gender neutral it tips the strategies it's all stuff that i learned from the best of the best to training academies through working with some of the greatest and most brilliant people and so i took it all and put it in the book and i really was kind of like this is not another i am woman hear look this is just like look this is what i learned i hope it can help you tell me about spy games i don't know much about it i know it premiered early this year tell the folks yes just live games is a competition series where we had 10 contestants and it was essentially a slave do you how what it takes to be a spy and we create these missions so to speak and every episode you put into a mission we put it through some type of training then mission and then we see how

well the former wins gets a 100000 dollars in the end but my i was myself i was one of the judges on the show . the 8 agent officer and a former f.b.i. agent served with 3 of us will put them through these scenarios then we would test them on and we'll see how it performs who did well who panics you know who was fair based who was not good at listening you know it was we really. player experience from training and trying to put it on individual and when i run it into into it you know interesting what happened is we also make a transition happen from especially those contestants that stayed on the competitors est anselmi and you see kind of like who they were when they 1st came in and this of illusion of who they became was the end of the series which is kind of similar to like training me with your training if you come in one way or the new leave a different way. and that is really the essence of the show it was pretty pretty awesome some of the missions i wanted to do myself like will hang up on the side of a building and have them memorize something and then take

a test on it put it in an ice bath and solve a puzzle so it's really about. taking that the the mental part and the physical part in testing and testing them in both simultaneously putting stress on him how do you perform under stress do you break do you excel. i hope when you gave the 100000 dollars and you put it in a parcel died near the aldrich ames bridge where he used to leave his drops. just for spy legitimacy we put up there we're having you on every and we got a whole bunch of social media questions people are fascinated by stuff like this it has its own intrigue it also has its own pragmatism and the times we live in i think everybody so i guess i had a rifle with anxiety that they want some sort of comment to have in a book like this provides it so let me read a few questions to you brian hart on facebook. which president actually needed the most protection where the higher threats to some more than ever the others are you

not supposed to speak out of turn about stuff like that. some of it is classified so i won't speak too much about it but what i can say is every every president had their own unique threats so if you look at george bush jr right towards the end of his presidency he had a lot of threats simply because people were very didn't agree with him politically about the war and different things there so he had a different level of threats then you have someone like present barack obama who he was given he had other thoughts based on his his race and so every president and it's the time it's like how do people feel about that president what is happening in the world are people happy are people not happy and so that it's kind of the flush with president bush if you think about in the beginning everybody loved him and then there was a shift so it's is never a kind of static across the board it changes it changes no you adapt to it so there's no clear answer to that but they they they do assess you know the threats

that do come in they they analyze them and they categorize them what type the are with their heads up based on prejudice whether it's grace based on you know political view whether it's based on somebody maybe having in a normal interest in summer we protected sometimes it didn't matter who it was they were just getting threat simply because they were present in the united states goes with the turf sadly in the times with the city harrington writes and this is a good one to wrap it up like because imo it's needed by this i knew 43 a lot i found him to be a funny guy as i did 41 who was the funny this president that you worked with or they i didn't i have i assume put in had a good set see over 2 in a way but who do you remember making your life what a great irony on that yeah yeah he did that. part of him you know just he wasn't him. i spent

a little time with their i don't want to do that thing where every but i just remembered you'd sit there and you're in a weird state because you're the president you think i guess this is going to be stilted and then all of a sudden the leans over and says something to you that's huge and then of course you're reminded there are tears gags you know it's a white they're just people. yeah he was a he was a funny guy you're a fascinating woman every part for us and the bravo series i'm sure you can find somewhere everything stays right in perpetuity now and it sounds like a fun thing i'm going to try it at spy games with the mayor earlier this year sounds like they've completed the season but as i said everything stays perpetually available and the new book is called be coming bulletproof and it's available online and in stores now and every i appreciate you time you are you are definitely the spy who stayed in from the cold at this point in history to thank you for joining us thank you so much for having me times.

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