hey folks welcome to dennis miller plus one next up you know or from vanderpump rules lot of luck can't just had a baby so we hope she can answer some questions of she's not in some sort of midday rem cycle because i'm sure she's been. since you're the new book of essays called give law and indeed we will right up to the sun dennis miller plus what. hey folks welcome to dennis miller plus one and we're joined today by la la county of course know her she's an actress reality television star author of an essay book right now she's best known for appearing on the hit bravo show vanderpump rules and

she recently wrote best ses called give them lots currently available in stores and online and contrary to the great william shakespeare i think originally the ides of march was a solid retore festival for the gods and certainly la la can attest to this as i think she just brought us blended new bambino into the world on march 15th please welcome. can't get oh i'm so good thank you so much for having me. how's that beautiful baby brag i brag on that being oh a little. oh my gosh she is just the best thing that's ever happened to me the biggest accomplishment i i no one can prepare you for becoming a mom and just the love that you have it's almost it's a beautiful love but it's almost scary because you want to protect them and you you

just without them you will not be ok so i have i was so worried about her inside my belly there were so many issues that i was thinking i just need her out so that i'll stop worrying now i just need to put her back in because i have more control of her. life to me so i'm just over the moon and i'm a little biased because she's mine but she's absolutely beautiful. i love that name it so there's not to be a bunch of those in her school class tell me about her name again. dennis i wish that i had some like beautiful story to tell you which which i definitely it makes sense that her name is ocean because i am obsessed with the ocean it's something i cannot explain and you know i'm the crazy person out on the santa monica pier screaming you know save our orchids don't match and all that and. it

was a fitting name but i came up with that when i was in the bahamas actually before ocean even existed or was even a cot a few years ago and i saw this beautiful yacht named the ocean alexander and i was like oh my gosh been a motion for a baby a fantastic and my fiance randall was onboard and there we go out here we have our baby ocean a few years later. i find a very appropriate because think about the baby for 9 months in the end they got excluded everything is an ocean the all those sounds of children the sleep and make them rest so it's very very fitting a young child arriving in the world with that lovely day i think it's a lovely well thank you and she's a pisces she's a triple watters time so it's just she's it's very fitting but you go you're

covered. tell me about tell me about you know the best thing i always liked about parenthood i have 2 boys and all of its good and all of it's sort of fraught nerveracking but i love the fact that in a 2nd to got me off myself to any degree i was never completely self-absorbed but like anybody if you're trying to make your way through the world you're focused and that ends in a 2nd or you're off yourself i find intoxicated. it really is amazing and i think you know most people when they're young they're a little self-absorbed people in entertainment are a special breed. but you're right the 2nd that she came into the world i forgot about all of mine leaves and wants and i and i'm sure this will change in time but right now my identity is oceans mom i live and breathe and make every

decision based on the well being of my baby so you're absolutely right you do forget about yourself. you know the 1st the 1st baby so magical and mystical and you don't know what's coming only for the 2nd one can you plan a little and i'm just talking about branching out here from the core mothership of the vanderpump rules if you're breastfeeding on the 2nd shot you should come up with the vanderpump breast pump and i think we can make some money off this i'm just putting it up there i'm not trying to be callous but you are brilliant. i'm calling lisa after that and asking her to go in on this with me may i make a breast pump called the van her talk. really. i send the deal to your employer for your insight into the. law to live by gift or to as a new mom i want no piece of it i just thought certainly with a name like vanderpump it has to fit some products it anyway and it would seem to

be the breast pump perfect they tell me about the movie it's a brilliant example. of the new book you know i decided to write the book and i i wish i could say i wanted to write this book because i think people are that interested in my story but honestly there were so many things in my life that. were weighing heavy on me and i felt like this was going to be my purge there were so many things and labels being thrown at me after i decided to sign on to a reality show that really affected me and i felt like i was walking around a life with a scarlet letter and for me telling all of these stories was a purge and i think when people read the book if they know who i am i think they'll be shocked to read some of these things and if they don't know who i am i think the

book is still entertaining and i also think that it's just enough of a wow i'm going to start conversations that make me feel uncomfortable and i obsessed over every story and should i tell this is this stupid do people care about this and even some of the story my publisher said are you willing to take a lot of heat and criticism and i said absolutely that's actually what i'm best that as to why i'm on a reality show so i think the book will be i hope people enjoy reading it as much as i enjoyed writing it because it really is something that i'm proud of. well listen well i always like to sing the praises and congratulate people who have saved their life and quite frankly you know sobriety is such a brave choice for you know men there and people say oh come on either quick or no

no you can really get thrown off in this world when somebody wakes up one morning says i've got saved my life here i've got to get sober quite frankly social media and all that reality t.v. all that everything outside of that baby ocean and. your parents or your parents should fall away it's all it's all drying it's all white noise the fact that you saved your life's the big thing good for you know i'm so i'm so happy for n.p.o. thank you so much it's the biggest accomplishment i've ever had in my entire life and it's something that i'm the most proud of without i always save my sobriety comes before my my family and my fiance my baby because without sobriety i am worthless to everybody and you know i could be nonexistent should i fall back into a life of drinking and so for me i never want to say that i will never pick up

a drink again that is my intention but i'm proud of every single 2nd that i go without a drink so thank you for acknowledging max the people that have been sober for many years those are my heroes because it's not easy. yeah it's a it's a day to day thing obviously the great build the via tells us and but i will say this it when your daughter grows up everybody wants to there's so much talk of female empowerment and there's human empowerment when the young ocean grows up and you can look her in the eye and say guess what i faced the greatest battle within myself and i conquered it and i knew that you'd become think someday and i wanted to be there for you to show you proof of how strong a woman can they well that'll be the most glorious that there is no drink in the world would ever make you feel that when you're able to either that baby as a young woman say i could help you through any of this if you have any problems because i was a champion for myself what

a great feeling any you so much for talking about that if i feel like it's something that many people especially in my generation are struggling with and i just feel very grateful that i faced i don't i got off the elevator i didn't wait for the elevator to hit the bottom floor before i decided to get off. and the fact that i 30 years old with 2 and a half years of sobriety under my belt i feel very that i hit that point at a young age. good for you very proud of you know lots of duplicitous thing about social media the thing that laura's people in this i think everybody feels is that those worlds intertwine not through social media but in an odd way us all coming together has put some people way way further out of the loop than they ever were there such as i think there's such an ability to be disdainful of people you don't know on social media but i think it makes certain people feel more ostracized them

they even are in the world you've got make your way through the world you've got in your self the people you've got to make friends and all that social media all that's out the window people can just disparage people not even know anything about that so it's a tough time to be a young person with some problems out there i know they should feel embraced but in many ways they're ostracized yeah you're absolutely right and as much as i'm grateful for social media because it's allowed me to do many things as far as the creator and i'll forever be grateful for that but it's also something that it really is the down fall of a lot of people so i think it's important to kind of be able to separate social media from real life and you know have your tribe that that they're in a catch you when you follow. us i would tell any kid watching out there as we go to break if you feel like social media is beating up on you it's not the real world there's human beings out there you've got to get up close and personal with people

you've got to actually write the know them i always think the social media is like the tinted window in a car that allows somebody to pick their nose and they're not big looked at you've got to blend that. when people get anonymous media they can show of laos' side of themselves that get out there and meet him up close and personal and i think i think a lot of that must much of that falls away eric we're talking a lot like ken she got a new book of essays called give them la la and it's bailable in stores and online will talk about how salt lake city girl and zuck what her trek was over this way in the cali and all things lot right after this on dennis miller plus one. hey everyone i'm joined by my old friend mr ellis williams a.k.a.

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addition to our team texas stalkers will talk to 8000 the president's text for videos uploaded every hour so what are you waiting for the laptop for. now i remember when i 1st moved to california i took a bus a greyhound bus from pennsylvania to san francisco and we stopped overnight in salt lake city a place i had always heard about but never really knew and i stopped and i just remember saying this is a different flight. i've ever been in the world especially since i was speeding toward san francisco we're talking a lot like she has a new book out a best say it's called. well i give them lala and you know are from the vanderpump rules of course she's from salt lake city and i'm wondering. i know there's

downsides in upsized all places tell me about salt lake city growing up what do you make of it you know colleagues that he was the place of that i did not. find it a great place or appreciate it until i left which. i think bums me out because looking back i feel like i have the type of upbringing in salt lake that you see in movies like it's very family oriented it's where your families are friends with different families and the husbands or friends in the wives or friends because they're friends you grow up going on family vacations and family barbecues it's all about the family and i found that out here in l.a. it's a little bit different just because we're in a large city. but growing up in utah looking back was absolutely fantastic

you know people still leave their doors open at night and their cars open and take a walk past 9 pm and are not worried that something bad is going to happen you know your neighbors so it was difficult not being a mormon in a very religious state you know there was no separation between church and state. but i also think that that's what was great about it because that brought the closeness of the family and i don't think i could pick a better place to grow up. well that's such a nice thing to come to also the age sorry i'm wondering about once a young girls start dreaming of fame and hollywood and all that when you're in salt lake city there's a come earlier as a coming your mood swings tell me when you 1st started thinking i'd like to try something like. i think the 1st time i decided that i wanted to be in

entertainment and on television was garcia i was in a class with miss denise and she was my creek a teacher so what is that 4 or 5 i would assume so very young i liked to perform i loved watching t.v. but it was less about the story that i was watching him more about the people that were playing those characters and it just fascinated me and i wanted to be just immersed in all things and her tame meant in front of the camera yeah it was my calling. that will be that will be and be kaufman's next hour andy kaufman ended cullen's next show the real housewives of pre-k. i think is working and that is let's take her you know my god. that's the thing. what let me assume. what ok so now you've achieved that and i'll people know your

name and that and 30 you have some perspective on this thing with the child and hubby and you know any any 30 year old that can say in retrospect where i was rose was a beautiful place you can tell they're starting to get out of the lifeboats got a lot right didn't do you find it wanting do you find it leaves you sated or does it leave you needing more showbiz i mean. i think i would say it leaves me wanting more and this is the reason i moved to l.a. to be an actress and it was just kind of a very weird time when i moved out here we started getting into the oh so shal media is what people are wanting we're putting influencers in positions that are going to get people to come out to see this movie so it wasn't so much about. what is your training what classes have you taken it was more how many

social media followers do you have and that was so strange to me because i started taking acting classes at the age of 12 so it leaves me wanting more in the sense of i came out here to be an actor and was lucky enough to land a reality t.v. show that you know got my name out there but now the reason why i came out to california you know i enjoy getting a script i enjoy working on a character breakdown and things like that so yes i want more i want different i want to feel uncomfortable so yeah that's the answer. well that's a great answer when you say i want to feel uncomfortable because i think at some point i'll watch great actors and they'll be put in scenarios where all think my god how will they release themselves enough to immerse themselves in the level of that seems like interest when you really watch a great character actor biting in the last hard hard role he's saying god bless him

i don't like i couldn't go there every day so i think you must have that in you just the fact that you say i want to be frightening want to be tested i wanna i want to walk through the fire to some of the great instead of the actors than. i do i have it in me since i was you know telling people this show at the age of 3 wanting them to watch me perform so 1000000000 comfortable for many people would be like the most frightening thing ever for me it keeps me on my toes i'm a virgo i am wanting to you know always do better and thrive a little bit more yeah conquer conquer my you. i use always love the feeling i don't through stand up as much anymore but when i would get to the edge of that curtain my whole life i had a walter mitty thing about being brave i felt like so much of a timid young man and when i get there and i did be able to step out and everybody had the fallback 'd we hunt all the people who are harang to be or suggested me or

want to me they all stop here because they're frightened i stepped out there i was scared but it also felt so oh i feel so good i thought god i'm finally the fearless coffee i always wanted to be raised up again and saying what you mean about the fear it's a it's good to walk through it i think it is still i just i crave moments where i grow each time and i know not found so corny but i just i've always been an actor i present make me feel mainly well scared. i dasn't i'm corny to me it's the stuff of life and sometimes the stuff of life is disparaged by people. let me just say those who aren't try get off and find their dismissive but obviously it's step you take its growth and sometimes when you scare the living out of your stuff creates a vigor leap rather than

a baby step so i understand it would just say now listen women we're talking obviously to our friend la la concha his new book out called give them love lots of bailable in stores and online this airs on may 4th and i believe the book comes out today you know or from vanderpump rules i must say i am not immersed in the world of reality television but i've always loved the relationship between lists of vanderpump and her house what i think is ames ken. has found them sweet together they had the danda both shouldst little to do even of the dog still araneta want to be i don't want to be brusque but they always seem like a sweet couple please tell me they're still together right. oh they're still together going strong and i i think that's because they found their their best friend within their lover and i think that's really important to you know you the looks are going to fade the sexual drive is not always going to be there and you

have to have your best friend in those moments where you know you're you're not. you're feeling like ok i don't really want to get all dolled up tonight i kind of just want to put a face mask on you know from i saw pants on so that's what they have in each other and they both are passionate about their animals and i think that's something else that keeps them together because they they have their businesses together they're best friends they have the same passion they're incredible couple and i yes what people they all fans are you guys we are they like they are on t.v. i love them and i hope they're just sweet they are. i think lawler speaks the truth or yeah you're not always going to be as they say in the beat of business hanging off the chandelier but at some point you can go out and pick a new chandelier if you can go shopping for a show. on the with something that still is very sweet next chapter in your love

affair well listen kid i'm happy for you got a hit show and it sounds like you got more roles to come back to your acting now that you're mom but in the interim you're working under lisa she sounds like kobayashi got a baby you've got an old man you love i hope you're taken mental polaroids there are a lot of luck out because this is a you're in the sweet spot these are the ones you look back on later in life and go boy is that the ball right. yeah i'm extremely grateful for my iphone because everyone says this goes by fast and enjoy it so i'm capturing every single 2nd that i can and i'm so appreciative that you had me on t.v. thank you so much. i write the law and listen well i'll talk to you after folks this is law i can as i said she's got a new book called give them law currently available in stores and online and it's a book about a safe scene go in and read a snippet here and then read

a snippet there i always like things and nice dim sung by size it sounds perfect for that and we wish her good luck over on vanderpump rules say hi to say hi to lisa tell her i'm a fan of thanks for your time today la la thank you so much are a lot like can't dennis miller plus one. that's interesting medicare recipients the energy in one portable oxygen concentrator mean they'll be available at little or no cost to your. 536952 to order yours today indigent oxygen concentrators are portable and make oxygen from the air around you your light quiet and battery operated to go everywhere you go and we have a full line of portable oxygen units to fit a wide range of budgets if you're on medicare you may even qualify to get your

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