asked that barrier of feeling like i had to hide this from world that opening up has really just taken my, my viewing process and my allusion to a whole other level. really. you've got to find a way to find an affirmation that every discussion, no matter how bad it feels that it's going, you've just got to be able to acknowledge like takes guts to do that. trying to help them discover the abilities that they have. this is why we don't want to foster dependency. this is why the intervention can't rely on my christmas. they go from being untrusted hateful, spiteful, distant to begging for more interaction another phone call. another meeting in tell me poor and don't be surprised when they say that's the best conversation i've had in a long time. that is something that's very routine that comes out of people just want to be listened to. and we're trying to teach you how to listen to them. well, we hold a mirror up so the person can see their humanity reflected back of them through our eyes. and but when we treat them as human beings treat them for the suffering

person that they are, and they, on the receiving end of that, they get to see that, hey, there is, there is a human being side. and that's the, i think, the incredible power of compassion. it was very impactful. when someone finally came along with no fear, no judgement. she heard my story did nothing to challenge it but validated. as soon as i started talking about my mother, tears came on. i just spilled my guts about everything she had done to me and letting her brother, rape me, and my sister denying the rape happen, making the school back around. how many times she she tried to kill me, broken bones, bruises the starvation, the sleep deprivation, the humiliation making me swallow my own. my brothers and sisters watching is turning my brother against me. keep my sister away from me like i had never had a chance to just unleash all. and i probably went on like an hour of just the, the stuff she did to me. i mean, he says, well, i wanna ask another question,

is i have you ever done this to anyone else? it just in that moment it was like, i'm just like, my mother me what really changed me was receiving compassion from the people that i least deserved from when i least deserved that people knew who i was. it was a small town. they knew what i was capable of and what i'd been doing for years and they didn't attack me. they didn't break the windows of my star, then argue ideologically with me. they came in and they were empathetic towards me

. and they treated me with compassion despite the horrible person that i was at the time the buddy might offer me a job carrying in antique furniture at cherry hill in jersey, me off for a week and 3 days 100 bucks a day. and i told him, i said, i think the job, he was going to tell you before you say yes, the guy who owns this company is do. and i said, i don't care and i've talked to him, do i want to work for his 6 months? still think it was in the nazi chief would fit every jewish stereotype religious where it was. i don't bring me right. or you say where i broke the marble top table and i was like keith, i'm so stupid. i'm so sorry. 7 bowers for him.

so i so embarrassed i did a rate for the customer, but he spot it off very drove me home. i was waiting for him to fire me. so actually, you know, and i remember him not too much on that day, and i just kept my boots on a little seat of his trunk that you couldn't really put them any further than they were. and i know my knees were hurting so bad because it's trying to hold him up there. so for the whole right. oh, swastikas looks at him every day like it normally or nazi. and i just wanted to see my boots. i knew him and he did for me. they dropped me off and they were full pay . take anything i pay monday and i was told and i just couldn't wait to get him off my feet. things off my feet. everyone back. i'm not scared.

wanted him. i'm done with it, i'm fluid if it was 2 parts to getting out of a violin extremist group, the 1st part is disengagement, which is where you leave the social group. you leave the behavior you leave, but you probably still have the ideology. you've been given this nice recipe for how the world works and you take that away from somebody and then what do they have, right? they, they were looking for an analysis and you've taken away their analysis. so, you know, what's left drugs, i mean there all kinds of things that they can just sort of fall into. so you have to be very careful about it. and when you're bringing them out, you will learn them to the risks. this isn't going to be easy and are going to be people that are angry that do this because they've lost someone, they've invested the time and energy and we do debriefing. you're going to, if you're going to be on the outside, we need to know everything you know about how it works on the inside. so you're not going back in. so we're,

since we're going to burn those help you burn those bridges. so you can't go back and take everything away that was associated with that world. we take away your white laces. we take away your nazi fly because it's too easy to go back into. the next part is d. radicalization where the belief systems in the audiologist are removed or you can go to go get an anti mental from the cobra for a couple years. they get the rates at the same time as snake that big. that's how they do it. we're at the anti event on demand because we have, we had that man, i'm in our so we know how to spew it and we know how to also make it an empty metal . and we had the answer. so i do believe the secret sauce is coming from a loving place. you can't hate this person and expect to communicate any of that. you can't judge this person expect to con, or that with empathy before you got out what was what was pushing you to want to get all i wrote in jackson, this you know, before and after president, you know,

most of my best friends, but it's like, ok in prison, you know, like, you know, you have to be so you tend to be it. and after a while, before you realize that it's scary, is you actually become that image. you were just training. i had myself every day for getting myself locked up. so when i looked at it, what made anybody else more special than me? i hated them. where did that shift come from? how come you? you went from not thinking about that to really saying i need to start making some changes. is watch, watch much longer, up in the brows, hartman every time watching the family you know, saying live on another family because i can be out there. the brothers didn't like that when they found out because they could just let me know they do, said they, you know, try to kill me is why now i get shot. go all through. and i'm, you know,

i'm going to come to the car breaks. us breaks and i remember slicing, child call us up, right. like i said, yes, this is good. you need to is mad right across. and then we inside the school and open this up. i'm trying to get out and just to get on time if there was one thing, then someone stuck in that life who may not be aware that there is a way out just go all the have that have ruins used at poisons. very so man, i loved him a lot of human misery since

really during the summer in 2016, we started to see a significant consistent increase in the number of incidents reported to our office . we saw between 20152016. the number of anti muslim, hey groups tripled tonight the f b, i walking into whether have crime charges will be filed against an alleged white supremacists, accused of stabbing to good samaritans to death on a commuter train. in portland, the guy who did that was someone who had been in the fringes of the all right movement. and he's up on erica lee. the country are great on there. so that we hear that all the time go back to where you came from, and he just amped up that rhetoric that he wants to take his country back. and so that's that, that's the screen that runs through that. and we're not going to let people come into our country destroyer. i saw this guy running for president doing the exact same thing and i couldn't believe that i was hearing it,

but i knew that it would work. and that was the frightening thing. because i've seen it work on klan rally and stone mountain georgia. i saw that kind of rhetoric where people are yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. what do we do about their culture? i don't want to know about their culture. if you want your body, you just don't know where to go. what was the bucket of gasoline was kicked over and lit up. all those little sparks that already existed into a large forest buyer. part of donald trump's huge appeal was that although he does not think in terms of race, the way i do, he at least thinks in terms of nation, he recognized that the united states is a nation with a particular people. and that not everybody belongs. this is a great relief to millions of people who have seen their nation transformed in the

name of diversity diversity that always comes at the expense of white people. he spoke to some of the things that, that angry white male wants to hear. we're going to put a wall on the border. we're going to make the mexicans pay forward. we're going to bring manufacturing jobs back. so it's a kind of populous message. white males combined with racism that was found to be very attractive and everyone's promises like that idea. well, there's not insur tens of thousands. there's hundreds of thousands of them that have an intellectual curiosity. and on the understanding of national socialism that no skin had ever had. there was a price you paid. if you were public with your big tree or anti semitism, it didn't serve you well in your career. your friends in your neighborhood, really burnt, excited to hang out with your kids might be embarrassed of you. your parents would be really upsetting. you and people learned that those attitudes were not going to be beneficial to their life. i think what we're concerned about now is that blanket

and that we put over it, is being pulled back. that it's going to be really hard to put that back where it was, ah, in the least counter russian state, little narrative. i've started as i'm phoning those landscaping with house months and up with within the 55 when okay, 0925 must be the one else with will van in the european union? the kremlin media machine, the state on russia today, and split ortiz, smooth neck, given our video agency, roughly all band on youtube and pinterest. and

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in the world transformed what will make you feel safer? isolation for community. are you going the right way or are you being led to somewhere? direct? what is true? what is faith? in the world corrupted, you need to descend a join us in the depths or remain in the shallows. ah, was a state of emergency in florida. it's a white nationalist, was about to take stage 3. our day over here florida is breaking for

potential violence today at a speech by white national leader, richard spencer, who do the protesters gathering out. so i decided the only reason my stay, but i will say that back to you. all right and read the notion that they really were the way to find a stage spencer, trying to speak to the noise for the kid with

a, [000:00:00;00] with that stuff. so you know how to check with these guy guy's gonna get killed that here. so my, i got, i got this guy cover this. hey, people who say, oh love we hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,

love please. same people had a message with when i was randy, you know, i came home. i don't want to talk to you, you know, understand you. he was cool. no problem the whole time. we couldn't really have a discussion because the camera, you know, you people pushy, i don't get down was what was it was to find more really intimate said neil, i don't know if i'm talking to you like really? and i guess our intimate setting was force known as we were both keep out. so we encounter some police officers. they were treat and randy how they would treat me on a regular day, you know, just are for what they perceive by his our parents end up one arrest in. yeah. i right. this made you got beat oh it's been are you see the sped on the back? is it usually is my birth? what is he doing wrong? why you haven't been, sit on a ground,

do this type of stuff. so we actually started walking and talking and we found out we have things in common. you know, i some, his views about certain bay. it was certain style i'm girl and both. yeah. he was telling me he got involved with his teenage years in the area nation and asked him how a lot of my friends and different people get involved and a blow to cripps in different games they joined. that's what's around you. so what i was around you and your friends may be involved with whatever happens your, my state is going to be on that. so for me, i just saw the similarities of what my culture would deal with just in a little different way. there's no, there's nothing new up on it. a son he has was just a different route. they angry white man, angry by marriage to different. the angry black man is angry because he has no home . has no vision. yeah, no way to provide a reweigh people, especially in a low income cause they have so many mental enrollment of that. you can just turn on the tv and see success. i mean,

now i will be deprived to it down at the bottom with black people when they got to reason to be that you know, i'm white. what am i know? it is a deep seated anger and, and you know, you know, no one year dr. dr. any, you know, better way to focus setting or that they don't nice people have a different color, i guess a white man because he's angry because he doesn't really understand what person and i know that america, he doesn't even say i got the way out for the blessed went to the back. i mean, everybody. that's why it in america has benefited. give me answer the call or suppose they are missing. busy right now. giving me or help me. i got somebody to understand that just massive me what

my culture as a whole and look at differently just because of my individual encounter every week man 23 time and we lease that lease to help time phone calls, you know, hours of phone calls, you know, we thought was ours, me. when you think about what you've done, just in the last month, the turn around the correction of what you've abandoned and what you would opted it's, most people can't even lose 10 pounds. they want to lose much less make an entire mental, emotional lifestyle, change humanize town, which allowing them to humanize your like that, that's not rocket science, but yeah, it's, it's evading. the majority of the country right now, there's a lot, i could, i could never look at anybody and eric, eric brotherhood, a nation. anybody got

a lot of on the same lack of i got free and then that was part of his narrative and changes his narrative. it's not that we agree with anything that comes out of the far right. there's that we don't ever forget that there are people inside of those people, you know that there's a human being inside and there's a person, right? and we just choose not to forget that you don't really see x not blackman, you know, have a lot of dialogue. as we do. i mean, i can consider him a friend. i was glad that i could have that effect on randy to open his eyes up to see then you know something different. a c, whatever may have been introduced to him or told him was proven to be

a last day in madison. but i think we often think about this and terms of the ways in which they are failing us. they are a bad man. they are floating away from us. they are deviant. and i think we need to ask the other question. also, we need to ask the question and how we are failing them. what kind of ways can we keep them in the center? and part of my answer to that is we have to find ways to keep them validated as men . it's really amazing. when people feel more whole quickly and easily ideology of hate all the way and if you can reconnect them to the people that they thought they hated. that helps build that in the so that they realize that they're actually a part of the solution rather than contributing the problem. the 1st time

i've ever felt accepted in any shape or form from anybody is actually with my wife after have another p 5 med just recently. i feel as if those 2 grades. so i want everybody to know the human being here instead of like mission. but i have person to be able to have the different cultures and different people here. it really is to be able to close this to be able to interact because it teaches me that no, we're, you know, in this together, this is a part of our solution and farmers are evolving into a powerful force. me and justice quality from love, peace, compassion, we are operating as human beings from one of 2 places, fear or love. i mean get to choose which one that is

still happened. and in the days following boston happened, it was such a turn out and steam that morning to support for countering that narrative of white supremacy. it really flooded me with hope. i am proud that i can be a voice against what i used to stamps or i feel like i have i have something to bring to run to bigger and better things. while i'm still mindful of what i owe to society. but no one's better served by my guilt or shame at this point, including me. me .

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