tv Nashi RUSSIA1 April 18, 2024 2:55pm-4:00pm MSK
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by the way, not all animals are suitable for the role of guides, only four breeds: labrador, golden retriever, german and east european shepherd. year, can she already be a guide? she’s still a bit old, i’ll say this, because yes, she’s still small, she’s still a puppy. dog owners also need to be taught the reins; their helpers are unusual pets. any visually impaired person of the first group over 18 years of age can get a guide; to do this , you must submit an application to the social insurance fund. artyom kuznetsov, maxim gavrilet. anatoly ignatov and pavel letnikov, news. today on our program is the story of two women who became a support for their men. husbands and heroin were seriously injured while fighting in the special operation zone. how did women manage to return their husbands to a full life? watch at 15:00. the next episode of federal news will air at 16:00. all news is always available on the media platform in the application or on the website smotim.ru. we have everything by this time. see you.
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lovers ignore the word sadness, but it is the trials they have experienced that lead people to real family happiness. now in the life of andrei rudych from st. petersburg, combat operations are only on the gaming monitor consoles, and a year ago he fought with ukrainian armed forces militants in donbass, where he went as a volunteer. a lot of guys i knew left, as it were, and here i am. i also went, like our fathers, like our ancestors, to defend our homeland, our forces were unequal, while leaving , a sniper shot me in the leg. the first person andrei told that he had lost his leg was his wife daria, he was most worried about how she would perceive it as a leg, and he told me it was amputated, i came to see him at the hospital, he saw me, he cried , we we sat in an embrace for a long time, well, i probably cried too and... i realized that we are all together
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forever, second place with a score of 435 points, dmitry is thin, this is dmitry khudoshin from samara, an athlete and a professional military man. by the time he was sent to the northern military district, syria and karabakh were already behind him. as part of a motorized rifle brigade, junior lieutenant khudoshin liberated the belogolovka area, but only for 10 hours. that he was being taken to the hospital, he did not let go of the grenade, there was a risk that during the evacuation they would be captured in the ssu. the fact that dmitry survived became real miraculously, he lost his leg in battle, which he informed his wife about as soon as he came to his senses in intensive care. he says: everything is fine with me, but the voice is strange, i’m having this jitters. i didn’t let go, it was hard to breathe, he
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said, laris, well, you can decide for yourself, but i’m missing a leg. returning home, dmitry had to learn to live again. and next to him is always a devoted and loving wife, who, despite everything, stayed with him and shared all the hardships. larisa, i love you very much, i am very grateful to you for everything. how life has changed andrei and dmitry, after being wounded, what problems did they have to face in everyday life ? were they able to accept their new selves? today , a frank story from the wives of fighters in the studio of our program. today in the studio daria belyaeva and larisa khudoshina, wives of fsvo participants, hello, dasha, larisa, hello, well, tell us your first conversations with your husbands after you
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found out what happened to them? i found out from andrey, he called me and said that i was in the hospital, in the hospital, he had a very strange voice and number, of course. was i don’t know him, he called from someone else’s number, i didn’t recognize him a little, because his lungs were still a little hurt, his voice was hoarse, the connection was bad, so he said, i’m in the hospital, and i was already a little warned, so to speak, that he had an injury, but i didn’t know that it was an amputation, so i say, like a leg, he tells me, it was amputated, i ask him how long, he tells me, he says something, i say, for now, and so i stayed in such ignorance, roughly speaking, that i understood that he had no legs, but so far i also haven’t... understood, but what did you feel in this moment? relief, relief? yes, yes, because i was very afraid of losing him, when i found out that he was in the hospital, i was glad that he had already been evacuated, for a while, maybe he will recover, he will not recover, yes, thank god, alive, yes , larisa, what about you? i also found out directly from
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my husband, and the phone rang and told me that he was in the hospital, although i was still there... initially i swore at him, that i, in principle, was still trying to somehow find out through my friends where he was, how, in general, they didn’t give me any information, and the lack information - this, well, this is hell, everything is already here, as if, it seemed, i had to exhale, well, in the hospital, but i understood that he was not telling me something, he did not say about the injury, he said, well... a little bit, don’t worry, a little bit, that’s what he says, fragments , yeah, that’s it, but i hear, well, as if, if i hear his voice, it’s like, well, that’s it, it’s wonderful, alive , in the evening, well, well, yes, we called each other three or four times during
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the day, we were already trying to joke somewhere, discussing children, then, apparently, i felt my reassurance, that as if i... what can i say, now i heard these words, that laris, promise not to be very upset , decide for yourself without a leg, decide for yourself that well, in these seconds i, of course, am not i understood, well, that i had to decide, the only thing, well... instantly, one might say, i answered, well, okay, well, as it were, well, okay, my head is in place, it’s already good, then i decided somehow nervously joke, but it happens to me when i’m nervous, i say: dim, which leg is missing, and he says: left, i,
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oh, okay, i say, the one on the right wasn’t there, she was definitely divorced, the one on the left, we’ll get through it somehow, tell me honestly, were you playing at that moment, trying to support him, or was that really all you wanted? well, i mean, it doesn’t matter, the main thing is that he’s alive, the main thing is that he’s alive, you said, oh well, there’s no leg, well, a horse, well, how can you play here, no, it’s also an emotional internal state when you understand that, well it just shouldn’t be any different, it just happens differently, i know that it happens differently, and i’m very sorry that it happens in different ways, it’s not that you didn’t have any doubts, that’s right, when you... i understood, at that moment i was very worried about my husband, because he is an athlete, he is a fan
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of football, that’s how he’ll behave , i couldn’t understand then, and i just walked, smiled and sobbed, just like that... happy that i had already told everything, it had already happened the way it happened, this is my husband’s favorite phrase, no matter what, well, that’s how it is, why not change it and... and even when i had already arrived at his hospital, i i realized that he didn’t have this, well , at least he didn’t show a depressive state, that he was left without a leg, moreover, he seemed to try to calm me down, yes, although it seemed to me that i wasn’t giving in to some kind of something like this or such an accent of meaning that my husband was left without a leg, tell me about the children. how they received you, well , they are reasonable people, little people, you need
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to be honest with them, not play around, but that’s what i think, at least, and i imprisoned them, i say, i want to tell you right away, so that you are in course, but dad doesn’t have a leg, well, we talked via video before, that is, they saw dad, dad laughs, dad jokes, dad is in a good mood. and she will have abilities, he will fly, i say, well, he won’t fly, but he will run, i
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think, and the hand says he will, i say, stop, i say, come on, there will be only a leg, well, something like this his daughter, but at first somehow, so as not to inflate hysterics into tears, that’s it, she’s so modest, dimochka, dimochka, everything is fine, well, my dad and i talked, he says, everything is fine. and how your first meeting happened, so you entered the room and well, i ran into him, as if there was no such thing, well, be careful, i didn’t even look at the fact that he was there with some tubes, bandages, maybe i i just swooped in, hugged him, pressed him, and what’s important to me is his smell, that’s probably it, that’s it, and i was already melting, you know, i... i didn’t need a word, i don’t remember these words, well what's hello there, well, we were already in touch on the phone, and he was really
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waiting for me, it probably even seemed to me that more than i was looking forward to this meeting, well , somehow it slipped through, well, in some words, well, somehow this is how our meeting turned out, dash, and how did it happen with you, and i also waited for a very long time, while he was being evacuated, he was - i forgot in lugansk, but here he was, when he had already arrived in moscow, i was running all over, i was already in his hospital, they met me - on the first floor, i went up to his room and she also swooped down on him, hugged him, sniffed him, cuddled him all over, kissed him. andrei was worried about how you would perceive his injury, his injury, i think that at first he was probably worried, yes, that is, when she let him go, probably already in moscow, even before he was discharged, she naturally let him go, when we were already discussing the wedding, but as a wedding, yes, we
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had a wedding this summer , and how long were you together before? well, on october 1, we are 5 years old in our relationship, so we wanted it on the day of love and fidelity, since we inherited rings from our grandparents, so we wanted it on the day of love and fidelity, but it turned out that on july 7 we got married, we had a beautiful wedding, and then... we were going on vacation, there was no doubt, no, is it worth connecting life with a person, no, well, i had already tied it up and already at that moment, i just like your answer so much, you know, i really like it, i just get tremendous pleasure from your answer, but of course, this is of interest to many of our tv viewers, because the situation is extraordinary, i repeat, there are many cases when girls simply turned around and left, well, i heard such stories, and moreover, andrey is aware of such... situations for me too told me, yes, that while he was in the hospital, he saw a lot, heard a lot about relationships, but i
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had no doubts, that is, you calmly went to him, of course, set a wedding day, yes, yes, tell me, this is a feeling of pity, and you show a feeling of pity for your husbands, no, absolutely none, he and i are absolutely equal, that is, if i’m up to... andrey will go for a walk with the dogs, who will go, andrey will go, he’s like all the responsibilities at home, like he’s theirs. .. performed before, so now, i mean, for a man, do you think, in general one should feel sorry for him or no, feelings and emotions are not pity, they are support, care, i would probably say that, this pity does not humiliate the fact that we don’t have a dad at home at all, you know, despite the fact that he seems
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there are no such business trips anymore, but he has sports, training, work, and so on. and the like, we get together, well, late in the evening at home all together, that is, he is fully occupied, of course, of course, at some point a period of depression sets in, you have to go through it, did you have this time and how did you stepped over it, no, no, no, at the fighter, at andrei, well, it seems to me that he was quietly somehow worried a little, because i knew the wife of one fighter who was lying with... in the ward and we, when i handed over some things to andrei , she told me that yes, andrei is very worried, he is afraid that he will be some kind of burden, how would i then know that he is really worried and he is, roughly speaking, depressed, but we are with him quickly discussed it, when i arrived to him, i said, andrey, well, that’s not true, you do everything yourself you will see that our life will not change in any way, that our relationship is as it was and
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will remain so, so he somehow calmed down, i didn’t even hear any more hints of any depression from him. naturally, i didn’t have depression, let’s listen to what andrey says about his prosthesis, and this is my irreplaceable friend when walking, who helps me walk on the street, i don’t wear it at home, because it’s slippery to walk on parquet floors, slippers fly off, but in general for walking, i think this is the best thing, as the second leg joins in and... at rest you find that they completed it from components , they adjusted it to size and the foot size, well, i don’t know for a long time, this is the blind stump , they did what, 2-3 days, everything is ready, a good thing, modular, bends in different directions, you can , that is, when to sit down quietly, put on your shoes, i don’t know
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everything suits the hydraulic wear so that it remains as if it were normal, so that it does not fail, the bolts and nuts do not come loose, i only enter cleanly in those cases when i really need to walk, but at home i can move around like that, jumping yes, on crutches, it’s actually better to lose a leg than to lose an arm, you can gallop on one leg, even if you don’t have two, you can walk on prosthetics, but with an arm it’s more difficult, without an arm. there’s a lot of things you can’t do, without a leg, no matter how i feel somehow defective, still tell me, it’s probably hard for them to do something, or they had to get used to something, relearn, well , in principle, he is such a person that, well, he is not afraid, probably of difficulties, after all, he is
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a military man with great experience and he is absolutely was in different conditions. and as if there is nothing that he cannot do, you can get used to and adapt to any circumstances, of course, dash, but what do you think, probably the only difficulty we have encountered is that we live on the fifth floor in stalin’s house without an elevator, yes, that is, that’s why we have to go up now, well , it’s not that it just takes longer , considering that we have two dogs and need to be walked with them. i need to pick up my child from school and take him, yes, i have a working day until 5 hours, so i don’t have time, so he picks her up from school, takes her home, feeds her and after that takes her to the dance, and at the same time he walks the dogs in the morning, so that means he has to get up several times a day, we encountered this and we realized that it was better for us to rent an apartment than to go up to the fifth floor,
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so we now live on the third floor with an elevator, of course, when he leaves for work , the schedule will change, he has training, if i’m not mistaken, four or... five times a day week in the morning, he plays slash hockey, so he still has training, besides all this, let's see a story about how he lives, dad, how many eggs do you need, a couple, raise children, become a kind of support for your wife, help her in everything, like, what do i have in life is only aimed at this now, is it okay? today we have mathematics, yes, yeah, page four, task eight, fill in the blank with numbers, valya, lessons with varvara are an obligation. only andrei, he also often takes the girls’ leisure time, but andrei does not make allowances for problems with mobility and every day is filled with activities from start to finish,
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he constantly goes to training and hockey competitions, he has taken on almost half of the household responsibilities, i often walk my dogs with my dogs, i pick up my child from school, take her to training, to dances, sometimes i cook at home i'll save you for cleaning. as if everything was like everyone else, like everyone else, it seems to me that andrei used to fight to help his wife, now it still became impossible, but then he found a way out so as not to shift it to daria, that’s how he returned from the hospital, he immediately understood , that an assistant is already needed, dogs are nervous, cats are entertained, i don’t feel like some kind of disabled person, i don’t feel like i’ve been moving around and i’m moving on. i walked, i walk, i run, i just can’t swim with a prosthesis, that ’s all, but it doesn’t bother me anymore, in any way. andrey is not his own father, varvaria, how
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they get along is excellent, that is, they are like friends, that is, if something needs to be done, she will ask andrey, he will advise her, and as she calls him, then dad, then andrey , that is, if something there wants some benefit, maybe probably get it, then she... daddy, and of course, more often, probably, andrey, well, daddy also calls him, he likes to fry eggs there, likes to cook, likes to look after both me and daddy, and how she reacted to the news that andrei had no legs, and i didn’t tell her right away either, we watched the program, well, it turned out that they showed a program on tv where the boys were with prosthetics, so i said, i say, boil, well, so and so, i say, andrei also doesn’t have a leg, she says, just like that thing he has? it will be, i say, yes, he will have such an iron leg, it’s okay, he says, everything else is fine with him, i say, yes, everything is fine, so it’s somehow calm, let’s varya let's call her to
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the studio, we'll talk to her, varvara, come in, hello, beauty, hello, hello, tell me about dad, what he is like, dad is very handsome and... kind, affectionate, very caring, helps you with everything? yes, are you helping him? yes, what do you do together? dad and i are doing homework, drawing, walking the dogs, here we are we looked at the story, i don’t understand who is cooking scrambled eggs for whom, are you for him or is he for you? i cook scrambled eggs for dad, yeah, what else does he like? he also loves borscht, pancakes, you also cook borscht, no, borscht mom, i sometimes cook pancakes, you know how to cook briny, it’s difficult, larisa, your
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husband, how did your dmitry adapt to life, okay, to everyday life too, the only thing we had the moment when he was already discharged in december, but it turns out to be preparation for the new year. but he had not yet had time to master the prosthesis - and, in principle, he did not move very well on it, but it was necessary to put him behind the wheel, yeah, of course he did, but he won’t admit it, but i saw that he was still afraid, and he says, i’m unaccustomed to the dimensions and somehow, well, i couldn’t imagine , until he got into the car, how would he drive it, although he perfectly understood that we have an automatic transmission, one pedal, nothing like that, so he had to go to the city, and he says: get behind the wheel,
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and i say , oh, dim, i feel so bad, i say, i can’t, i say, come on, slowly, it’s a decent ride for us to get to the city, that is, we’re in we lived in the suburbs, well, 40 kilometers, well, yes. and i say, well, little by little, let’s do it, that’s it, it seems to me that this was the only such moment in terms of some kind of stairs, well, we were luckier, there is an elevator, oh no, we live on the first floor, yes, on the ground floor, everything seems to be fine, at home we don’t use a prosthesis, crutches, or it jumps around the house like that, i say, it’s good that we have the first floor, otherwise the neighbors, it seems to me crazy. children run around, my husband also stomps, but in principle he adapted quickly, very worried, probably, in terms of service, as
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he always was. yes, well, i was in a combat unit for many years, it turns out, i need to retrain, it’s a different format, it’s already paper, and he says, i don’t want to bother with all this, can i have something more active, no, get used to it, he says, friend, that’s all, now it’s your job, nothing, somehow they quickly picked him up, the guys, the team supported him, they suggested everything, they helped, he also copes with it very well, well, in terms of sports , i was more worried, probably about football, he he’s a football fan, i’ve already said, and while in the hospital, i kind of, well, probably imposed more on him, but these ideas, that we ’ll play football there, you’ll run there, we’ll do a running protest there, so what? -
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well... i just grabbed him with my ideas, well, he somehow listened, listened, but it seems to me that in his eyes there was, i think that this is a crazy woman who wants from me, but but our thoughts are material, and he went to football, we are now waiting for a running prosthesis, i hope that after all we will be one too use. at least there are such aspirations and desires, well, but i don’t know, in principle, well, he’s great, let’s see the story about what a great guy he is, how he adapted to return dmitry to the routine of life, larisa had to more than once use tricks in everyday life, for example, she
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persuaded him to drive. when he was just learning how to handle the prosthesis and i understood that, well, he kind of needed to get behind the wheel, i said: dim, well, let’s do it, little by little, i ’m damn it, dim, well, my head hurts, i say, i don’t feel well, please, it’s already there, well, something like this, i say, just slowly, that’s it, and he sat down and drove off, dmitry is able to combine something that not every completely healthy person can do, he works... manages to play several sports, introduced children to physical activity , and takes them to various sections. we go a lot as a family. on weekends we go to the pool and swim. oh, we can go to the cinema with our family. moreover, if during his military service dmitry spent six months spent on business trips and communicated with children most often by phone, now he
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tries his best. immerse yourself in the joys, in the problems of your son and daughter, in their eyes he is a real hero, a military man, cool, loved, strong, peeling vegetables when his wife cooks, this is also a common thing for this real hero, i turn to my husband and say, let’s do it there - to distribute things, if i do the task, you do something else, so that we have some left over. more time for free time while spending with family. next in the program: how to behave as a wife serviceman, if her husband returned from the front disabled, i told her that pull yourself together, she knows how, but in general she is a peacemaker out of my three, that’s how we serve, so is she, she always gets into a position where she
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saw my husband in the hospital after a serious wounds like a leg, and he tells me they amputated, i came to see him at the hospital, he saw me, he cried, we sat hugging for a long time, well, i probably cried too and realized that that’s it, we’re together forever, two stories about how, thanks to their wives , fighters who received serious injuries were able to live a full life, second place with the result. 435 points, dmitry is thin, how to tell the children that dad can’t do everything now, they are reasonable, people, little people, you need to be honest with them, not play around, but that’s what i think, at least, and i imprisoned them, i say, i want it tell you right away so that you are aware, but dad doesn’t have a leg, let’s call her to the studio... your closest person to you, your
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mom, my mom, yes, galina, let’s call her, galina, please come in, hello , hello, hello garina, how did you find out about your son-in-law’s injury? well, unexpectedly, so, they told me, you are calm, you are a military man, a former one, and who said, son, your son, yes, he says, mom, are you standing or sitting? a good start, i say, i’m standing, but what? he says, well, larisa told you not to talk yet, i say, what, i’m with her i just talked, he says, well , we have dima three-hundredth, it works for me, i ’m a fighter, so, three-hundredth, alive, where is he now, uh-huh, okay, three-hundredth, and where is he, give it back to me, then i start calling, and they tell me that he was there in the hospital, now he was sent somewhere by air ambulance to a hospital
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, call and say: no, he didn’t do that, i say, i didn’t understand where you were going, but who are you? i say, foster mother, mother-in-law, i say, return my son to the baaza, they say, we will call you back, after lunch they already started calling me back, yes, he arrived at moscow, yes, he is already here, everything is fine, he will be taken for surgery there, i say, well , thank god, galina, but you said that you are in the military? yes, yes, that i served in the 201st division, this is the tajik-afghan border, we, we had a medical battalion, the ninety-ninth, and we served with it, so well, somehow - i have children, they are calm they’re adapted to this, they helped us with the wounded, yeah, that’s when we do the dressing, they cleaned up, they helped, these are everything. you've seen enough, well, you're seasoned in this sense,
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yes, that is, you calmed your daughter down more than she, no, i didn’t calm you down, i told her that pull yourself together, she knows how, but in general she’s the peacemaker of my three, that’s how we serve, that’s how it is, she, she always gets into a position where she knows how to hear, so when i tell her, pull yourself together, cry, and he doesn’t see, cry, cry, explode, cry, but when he comes. dry yourself and say: darling, i'm waiting for you. dasha, were your parents nearby at that moment? who were they? yes, of course, nearby, we live in the same city, in the same area, so we were, of course, nearby, supported me, well, listen, were there people who, well, maybe they said there, why do you need this, of course, of course, there were, seriously, seriously, that is, they said, are you sure that you can do it, dasha, understand, this it is so, maybe it seems so now while he is in the hospital. who are these good people? well , there were such people, no matter how much you want
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to sympathize, yes sympathizers, but they said that you think about it, you can do it, i say, are you crazy, don’t you know me, i can handle everything, and now you continue with them no at all, goodbye, yes, yes, that is, moreover, this person, i was the first, as i told her, first i told my friend anya, then anna supported me, and then this very day she called her friend, she said, we we met her, because i really wanted someone in person, someone closer to me to tell this, not on the phone, so she says: what are you talking about, these are such difficult things, i say: no, no, sorry, no , no, come on, well, somehow i left the conversation and we didn’t communicate anymore, but you have a friend, anna tarakanova, to whom you of course told about this, let's invite her to the studio, anna, please come in, hello, anna, hello, anna, how did you find out about
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what happened and what you said, well, i can say, what was it... well, some incredible news, i don’t know, like a bolt from the blue. dasha, of course, was always in contact with andrei, she took it as she had said before, thank you for being alive, with relief that andrei is alive, he will return to the family again, he will be with her again, and for there are actually a lot of other people who took it in such a way that finally dasha will be able... will get a reason, so to speak, to become free, a lot of time has passed when in every family we faced tragedy, now this is very far from us , many years have already passed, and we have simply forgotten how to live with it, and you have the feeling that society’s attitude towards
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people with amputations is changing somewhat; if before it was like some kind of inferiority, now it is perceived as absolutely . yeah, what words did you find, here's support, in first of all, dasha needed to speak out herself, when she said something, she told me, she had already drawn some conclusions for herself, to influence her on her opinion, i don’t think it’s possible, i’m very glad that i was able to help, laris, a question for you,
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who is surrounded by dima in your environment? others suffered this news, which happened more difficult, who suffered it more difficult , but i don’t know, but probably, it seems to me, his colleagues had more worries, so i’ll tell you this, and mother, well, we generally took care of mother until the last , his mother, my mother learned the latest from our family members, she was of course offended, she said: you didn’t take me into account, but we explained to her that her emotional state is too dear and valuable to us, because she is a mother, and he is her son , let’s invite alla valentina to the studio, alla valentinovna, please come in, hello, hello,
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the girls who sell money are saying that they were taking care of you and didn’t talk about it, they talked about it, how it all happened and how did you react to it? as mom knew the most recent ones, after 2 weeks, mentally i was with my son from the first day of the special operation and in the morning and evening i thought about him all the time, worried and i remember, it was summer, july 6, something sank in my heart, did you feel what? i felt something with dema, there was no connection, he usually called his father, our father is a man of few words, he is usually fine, everything is fine, alive and well, here we are going to the dacha, i’m in the front seat asking how dima is, he is silent,
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he squeezes the steering wheel with his fingers, i understand that something is wrong, but... my daughter has arrived, she is a great joy, she lives in another city, we seem to owe her to meet, somehow everyone is somehow incomprehensible, that is, everyone knows everything, i am in the incomprehensible, that is, i lived in this anxiety for 2 weeks, now at home all the cases are against my husband, he somehow says, we need to talk, i say , okay, but dima, our son was left without one. i was somehow without emotions, i probably fell into some kind of blockade, i just sat silently and his whole life passed before my eyes. since i had a very active boy, i tried to instill in him
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all-round, probably some kind of development, i wanted my child to have something else i was fond of it, for 6 years he went to art school for my sake, we have a completely peaceful family, my husband and i have absolutely peaceful professions and there were no signs of anything, that is, we didn’t even think that our son would change his life so dramatically, i guess it’s unexpected it will come, let it go. his own way, not the path that mom or dad wants, exactly his own, so since childhood dima decided many things himself, well, at the age of 19 it was time to go to the army, my child said that in the conventional troops he would simply die of boredom , he needs exactly no less than special forces, and in terms of height and weight, in terms of health, he somehow didn’t quite fit. yes, it was precisely the service in these troops, but my child achieved his goal, so it turns out that he did military service in talyat, he served in
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the special forces, returned home for a while, my mother told me, but i don’t see myself as a civilian, for me it was a big surprise, of course, i would like to see the child nearby, but at the age of 19 he left the family and lived in another city. and built his own independent life, he also came on military leave, he was a little over 20 years old, he introduced me with a beautiful girl larisa, whom he apparently had seen before, but unfortunately, we have a large yard, 13 entrances, i don’t even remember her, it turned out to be a girl from our yard, they just moved later and presented the fact that he was getting married , my child made his own path in spite of himself. yes, to parents, our experience, our path, that is, it is absolutely his choice, the path, i think that if
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a person follows the right path in life, the same people appear around him, and there are the same people on the path, that is, i am grateful to everyone when with dima was in trouble, so many people called us, that is, as if he was some kind of public person there, they offered their help, they gave him so many things, even, in my opinion, washing machines, he also gave everything to people in need, it’s obvious that dima is loved , for this breadth of soul, for strength, for the ability to make decisions, let's see a story about him: now dmitry khudoshin is involved in five sports, knife throwing, football, swimming, powerlifting, and hockey. before a serious injury, this list was much shorter, only football, going to the gym, since on military trips. he spent most of the year, he simply did not have time for sports. the final tenth test series: begin. according to
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world champion knife throwing andrei yakovlev, who trains dmitry, sport is generally an ideal way to cope with post-traumatic stress disorder, which very often develops in those who have been in battle. most of the guys who come from there definitely need to go in for sports, this is... they join society, they communicate, they don’t isolate themselves. at all, professional soldiers very often win in a variety of sports, because a russian soldier never retreats, and this is the essence of dmitry’s character. second place with a score of 435 points. khudoshin dmitry. yes, brtn, yes. after the injury, dmitry won prizes in many sports disciplines, he even set a russian record in
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the general bench press in his group. it is about such people that they say that nothing can break him. next in the program. the mother's heart felt the pain of her son in trouble. i saw him, i realized that my child could handle it, that... he has a chance for the future, that is , his blue eyes are so calm, they looked into the distance, and i just said, son, what will happen now, he says: mom, everything is fine, cleaning the floors is a tedious and messy process that turns into torture for you, your back and your arms. forget about exhausting cleaning on all fours, stop using a broom and dustpan, and use a bulky vacuum cleaner that is not capable of cleaning the most
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how it is, maybe now it seems like this, while he’s in the hospital, who are these kind people? well , there were such people, no matter how much you want to sympathize, yes, sympathizers, yes, they said that you think about it, you can do it, i say, are you crazy, don’t you know me, i can handle everything, besides supporting my family you can help a fighter cope with post-traumatic syndrome, most of the guys who come from there definitely need to go in for sports, they are the ones who join society, they communicate, they don’t withdraw to themselves, so... do you remember your first meeting after you found out about the injury? of course, i remember, i came to moscow with my youngest grandson, saw dima, for some reason all my emotions went somewhere, that is, i saw him and realized that my child could handle it, that he had
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a chance for the future. that is, his blue eyes are so calm, they looked into the distance, and i just said: son, what will happen now? he says: mom, everything is fine, i will finally... have time, i can do it, yes, to learn something new and live again, the fear for his future began to recede, i realized that i must be strong, just like him, and i have no right to behave differently there, to succumb to emotions , and i accepted this situation, i realized that nothing can be changed, there is only... the future needs to go forward, everything depends only on him, and i know that dima’s willpower, dima’s character, a winner, will not let him down, it happened, and
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he, in principle, is building this life with new opportunities, you know, he really likes his wife lucky, he was very lucky with his wife, i agree, she was always on his side, she is a real hero, i don’t even know which of them is greater, maybe if there wasn’t such a wife, there wouldn’t be such a dima. i am very grateful to her for her courage, for her military character, despite her fragility. dasha, to be the wife of a fighter who lost his leg, this is what it is, this is a duty, an obligation, a feat, or is this the essence of just a woman, this is our fate with him, probably fate, i don’t see any duty there, yes, i'm proud of course i feel, yes, very proud, he ’s done well, and i’m proud, for whom i’m proud, for myself, for him, well, for him, rather, for him. nothing at all, that is, i am very proud and i know that everything will work out for him, not only that he is already succeeding, any endeavors that begin end in success, dmitry, unfortunately, could not
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come, andrey yours came, let's call him to the studio, andrey, come in, oh, oh, everyone, hello, hello, so, larisa, this is for you, from dmitry, dmitry. "hello, andrey, hello, you look great, you heard everything that we said here before, yes, i watched from the side, you heard that you completely agree, completely, there are no contradictions, no contradictions at all, but something came to you, maybe a surprise, oh, a surprise it became that it seems to me that such caring wives save the world together with us, or in general? love will save the world, it seems to me, in my opinion, love, of course, here’s more for you, what helps, love, pity, what can be pity, only love, love and relationships, i
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therefore our life is our fortress, andrey, well, thank you to anna, of course, thank you to anna for the fact that when i was not there, she was supportive, very supportive, yes, and what you do or will do, you have already decided, of course, now sports, then further further service . service, of course, we will continue with the one we have already chosen, we will go to defend to the end, and where you can serve now in the military registration and enlistment office, i will help in any way i can, at any moment, and i have a desire to pass on combat experience, we will help the youth, of course, we need to explain this somehow so that there’s really no fear in all of this, that’s why... dasha and i discussed the topic of depression, dasha’s guess is that you had it for a very short time or even didn’t have it at all, there was a time when you gave up, what you didn’t
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tell anyone about, in fact, as if i didn’t have such a thing, as if i didn’t have any depression as such, as soon as i woke up, let’s say, i called, we decided that moment, everything worked out. no, there was nothing, it was just her words that just kind of, well, kind of instilled this faith in me, she always understands me, how long we live for, we have never had a fight, we haven’t figured anything out, we haven’t shared anything, nothing, nothing, but we give in to each other, as if i think that this is in our relationship, this is the most the best, andrey, what could you say or want to say to the wives and mothers and sisters of those fighters who found themselves... in such a situation or may find themselves in such a situation, well , people like us are leaving, as if to defend not only our homeland, but also family, and so that upon return, so that they continue as well
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to love, no matter what kind of people we come from, so that we stay, don’t leave, well, i don’t know what to call it correctly, so that we remain human, of course, so that we don’t leave such... people, such beautiful, powerful russian guys, that’s right, and the most important thing from a woman is faith, this warmth, this soul, this is all in... gives up, now somewhere in the moments it’s hard for him, your soul mate, and somewhere you can tighten up your character inside, but when everything is being rehabilitated, but men make up for everything, andrey, colleagues, what yours say how they are, what they say, they envy, probably everything is fine, the connection
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goes out periodically, they talk about some kind of events, they make fun of you, tell me honestly, no, but why make fun of me, i can also make fun of you for a day kidding, no, but that i’m just an ordinary person, well, i’m not an ordinary person, because you have mutual love, mutual love is not given to everyone, it’s a great gift, you have it, that’s why you’re an unusual person, and in general, i would like to wish everyone. courage, bravery, honor, yes, that you need to be human to the end, yes, and that, yes, there is a before and after, yes, it ’s never too late to start life again, you can always find yourself and achieve success if you have character. and if there are such
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wonderful people like you, then we, of course, will win, god willing, and this is definitely, victory is only ours, thank you, thank you very much, for being who you are, for your love, for your sincerity, for your faith, hope, for your care, for your true , genuine attitude towards those who are there on the front line, you know how to wait, you know how to love, thank you very much for this, thank you, this was our program, real stories about our people, see you on the next broadcast on the russia channel, see you, see you, provocation is treacherous behavior, there is a difference between a man and a woman, i noticed then it turns out that my husband and my... the cat is the most intelligent creature in our
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