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21st day of october 2011. coldplay taking over our concert stage for the better part of 40 minutes now. if you're just tuning in, they're not done. two more songs coming up this morning. that's pretty good stuff. >> oh, man. an extra bonus-sized concert this morning. >> i'm matt lauer along with savannah guthrie. ann is off today. and al is here as well. >> bad day to take off. >> the new cd comes out monday, i believe. more coldplay. we also have barbara corcoran here. if you're shopping for a new house or maybe want to upgrade the one you're in, we're going to have some open houses that she'll show us around the country from new hampshire to washington state, coming up. and then we're going to look at a serious subject that as we have this tough economy, so many americans who are entering their 60s are doing so going into debt, having saved enough for retirement. so, can you afford to retire? jean chatzky will be here to run the numbers and do the math.

let's go inside. natalie's at the news desk with a look at all the headlines. natalie, take it away! >> thanks, matt, savannah and al. good morning, everyone. celebrations today in libya following the death of ousted leader moammar gadhafi. it was a violent end to gadhafi's ironclad reign over libya that lasted more than four decades. adrienne mong is joining us by phone from misrata, libya, with the latest. we warn you again, the images you're about to see are graphic. adrienne, good morning. >> reporter: good morning, natalie. that's right, they are graphic images, and gadhafi's body is still, we believe, here in misrata. we're still waiting to find out details of his burial. understandable that the interim government here as well as some of the rebel forces want to keep it as quiet as possible, the procedure for his burial here. we have been told that it will happen today without any sort of ceremony. in the meantime, there has been a lot of reflection this morning. we had a friday prayer here in misrata where they thanked allah

for helping them secure victory over gadhafi. we also spoke to some of the people here who have started to say they thought his body would be somewhere in hawaii. >> thank you, adrienne mong. secretary of state hillary clinton struck a hard line with pakistani leaders this morning in islamabad and the safe havens of terrorism that have cropped up within their borders. clinton called for pakistan to have greater cooperation with afghanistan and cautioned that militants have been allowed to operate in pakistan for too long. the senate has rejected president obama's jobs bill aimed at preventing layoffs of teachers and firefighters by local and state governments. this latest legislation was a slimmed-down remnant of the president's larger $450 billion jobs bill that was rejected last week. the number of gays and lesbians adopting children has tripled over the past decade, in spite of laws that discriminate against them in many states. in 2009, nearly 22,000 same-sex

couples adopted children up from about 6,000 back in 2000. and while several states specifically prohibit same-sex couples from joint adoptions, some states have eased those restrictions in recent years. the biggest study to date on possible cell phone links to cancer found that heavy phone users have the same cancer rate as people who don't use cell phones. researchers in denmark followed more than 350,000 people for about a decade. critics say, though, the study wasn't done long enough, since brain tumors can take decades to develop. all right, how cute is this? after an oil spill this month coated new zealand's blue penguins with goo, a yarn shop put out an sos for sweaters to help keep the penguins from pecking at their dirty coats until they had been cleaned up. the response has been heart and penguin-warming. that is cute. five minutes after the hour. here's al with a check of the weather. >> if he only had a matching hat

and scarf, he'd look like chilly willie. >> cute. >> that's fantastic! all right, let's check your weather, see what's going on. and you can see a little bit of a spin of low pressure moving up into canada in the northeast. no big problems there. showers exiting the new england area. we've got a few showers moving into the pacific northwest and we'll see some rain today. beautiful in much of the western half of the country with temperatures upper 70s into the low 60s. and we get into california. breezy in the great lakes, sprinkles in northern new england and temperatures chilly throughout the southeast. in fact, about 17 states this morning in the midwest on into the gulf coast have frost or freeze warnings. that's >> good morning. it will be a mostly dry day today. a mixture of sun and clouds. kind of breezy with a high temperature of 6

♪ brick house and this morning on "today's real estate," what you can get for $300,000 or less. taking us on a tour of homes from coast to coast, our brick house, "today" real estate contributor barbara corcoran. >> good morning, al. >> good to see you! >> nice to see you, too. >> let's get started. we have a great home, first home, steamboat springs, colorado. a two-bedroom home priced at $354,900. >> and it's a ski town, i'm sure you know, al. probably everybody knows. it's next to the yampa river in northern colorado. this is a rustic, old house that comes with a bird house and wheel barrow free of charge. see right there in the front? no problem, thrown in. it's nestled in an oasis of wild flowers in horse country. i can just see myself on a nice thoroughbred, you on an old mule trotting up those hills over there, having a good time.

[ horse noises ] cut it out. the kitchen is too dark, i think, but it's an easy fix. just paint the cabinets and you have enough color. there's a sunny dining area with hand-plastered brown walls that should be white. beautiful walls with the wrong color and shuttered colors. the same walls continue into the keeyz living room. there is also a wood deck at the side of the house that's surrounded by beautiful shade trees, and i think it's just about the right size for drinks. >> that is gorgeous. now let's get to a beautiful part of the country, belleview, washington. a four-bedroom home priced at $338,000. >> and what's interesting about this home, it's the beach cabin on the lake, but it was originally on the lake and they sold the land and moved it one house back, which probably diminished the value by a good quarter of its value, and it now sits on a tree-lined lot, but it comes with lake access, a dock, a creek in the backyard. so you really didn't give up much by moving it back. the interior is very spare and clean and inviting.

very different on the inside than it looks on the outside. i think that's a really nice dining area. easy to clean up. just feels brand new to me. the living room has bead board-style wainscoting, windows and a very shiny ceiling. i'm not sure what they put on there. must have waxed it on their back or something, but whoa, it's shiny. european-style kitchening with cabinets and a backsplash and the second-floor deck has gorgeous views of the lake. i like the fencing. that carpet -- why do people buy the outdoor carpet? i think that needs a few more chairs, but out back, there is a covered porch with access to swimming and kayaking and just plain out hanging out on the beach. not a bad home. $338,0 $338,000. >> now the midsection of the country, cedar rapids, iowa, a three-bedroom home. >> and cedar rapids was home to ashton kutcher and jack johnson. the house is huge. almost feels like a small condominium, but one family lives there and it could be you.

it's 4,000 square feet of living space on almost three full acres. the entrance foyer has an impressive stairwell. i think it sets the tone right away that this is a big house. and the living room has fancy woodwork, built-in bookshelves and french doors. i think it needs a few more chairs in the living room. it's a little lonely. the dining room has three big windows, wood floors and wainscoting and the kitchen has new white cabinets, a cooktop island and a small breakfast nook. nice-looking kitchen. the lower level family room comes with abar, a stone fireplace and a stone wine cellar. i don't quite know where that is in that room. and there is, of course, a four-car garage, a stocked pond and a fountain and the guest chalet. >> oh, wow! >> what else could you want? >> not much more than that. now to the northeast, a two-bedroom home in new hampshi hampshire. >> andover has a lake populated mostly by weekend folks from the boston area. but take a look at this pristine home. it has 50 feet of sandy waterfront. a big front porch and a long private dock.

the open living room area has gleaming knotty pine. it really works in this house. just feels so cozy to me. and yet, open. and the windows take advantage of the lake views all around you. the windowed kitchen is a knockout. who wouldn't love that kitchen with glassfront cabinets and an island? the deck on the water is i think where everyone would love to sit from morning to night. and there's another deck overlooking the pretty landscaped grounds on the opposite side of the house. almost spills on to the driveway. >> and lastly, four-bedroom home, indianapolis, indiana, priced right at $400,000. >> right at $400,000. it should change to $399,000, it would sound so much cheaper, but this neighborhood is downtown indianapolis. it's a historic district. it has great architecture, traevenld shops, restaurants and lots of biking trails. look at that rainbow-colored victorian. it was built in 1910 and has lots of embellishments, starting with the front door and the porch. look at all the detail above the door. that's lovely. look at the inside, the detailed staircase in the entryway. that is pretty impressive.

>> that's beautiful. >> the interior has been, i think, immaculately updated in cool, livable, high style, but it's maintained its historical integrity, which a lot of folks don't do anymore when renovating. >> look at the bookcase. >> i love it. i'm going to sell you this house, i feel it coming! original wood floors, built-ins, a fireplace, custom cabinets in the kitchen next to the dining room. we really like fine, handcrafted furniture. i feel like it was custom made for that. it wasn't, but a good fake. it has two-tiered breakfast bar and a built-in wine rack. >> and indianapolis is, of course, the home of the super bowl in 2012 -- >> so, buy this house now! it's going to go up. >> all right. barbara corcoran, nankz so much. are you dreaming of retirement, but can you afford to? we'll tell you figure out if you saved enough money. then later on, two more songs from the band that took over our plaza, coldplay. first, these messages. irregularity is no big deal, think twice. it may be a sign that your digestive system could be working better. listen to this

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when you look at people who are 60 to 64 years old, about 40% of them have mortgages. that's double the number that had mortgages 15 years ago, and those mortgages have doubled in size. they're an average of $80,000. >> and why are we seeing this sort of rear its ugly head now? >> because if you look at what happened in the housing market, housing was just going up, up, up, up, and people thought they could pull money out of their homes and still have a nice nest egging to retire on, but when the prices started to plater, all of a sudden, the equity was gone and they had to pay back the debt, so double trouble. >> is part of the problem as well that mortgage rates got so low that people were refinancing and refinancing to the point that you kept putting off your debt? >> that's right. and when you refinance later in life, you really have to look at taking out a shorter-term loan. you'll still save money on interest, but you don't want to stretch out those monthly payments until you're 70 or 80 years old. >> other big problem, of course, people still not saving enough for retirement. we're seeing 401(k) accounts

completely being wiped away. >> right. most people in this country, the vast majority do not have what they need to retire on. and a big problem is that many people just don't know how much they need to retire on. only about half of all adult americans have actually run the numbers. so, if you haven't done that, there's a really good website, choosetosave.org, where you can go and do the calculation so that you'll know. >> and that's a big question, because a lot of people think, well, and they've heard that in order to maintain the lifestyle i have now, i have to continue to bring in that same amount of money when i retire, but you really should be thinking about living on less, right? >> well, not necessarily. there was this old rule of thumb that when you retired, you would only need 70% of the money you're living on now. it's not true, because not only are we living longer, we're living healthier, so a 65, 70-year-old retiree just doesn't want to garden anymore. they want to travel -- >> see the world, get out there. >> they want to do things, and that costs money. so, you really do need to put

away at least 100%, if not more of what you've got. and then there's health care, which is the big, big wild card, because once you get into your 80s, 85, 90, your health care expenses can cost six figures, not including your retirement nest egg. >> so quick tips you say is first to think about downsizing -- >> now. >> now. >> not later. because if you can downsize earlier, you can free up some cash to save. >> you also say if you can afford to do it, put off your retirement for a bit, delay it? >> every year you manage to not retire, money can stay in those f 401(k)s and grow. plus, delay social security every year after age 62 actually adds about 8% to the money you'll bring in each year from age 62 to 67. >> that's beneficial. >> very big deal. >> that's huge. finally, you say if you can afford the time, look for a part-time job as well. that brings in a little extra spending money. >> again, you're just trying to leave the money in the retirement accounts and let it

grow, and if you can earn some money, it will keep you young as well. >> yeah. >> we know that about two-thirds of retirees are working and a lot of them are doing it just because they want to. >> gives you something to do. jean chatzky, thank you so much. >> sure. between your job and your kids, are you stretched too thin? we've got strategies for the stressed-out mom. and we're relieving some stress this morning with the boys from britain, coldplay. more music after these messages. ♪ ahh, one. two. three. one. two. and, three. [ male announcer ] with the bankamericard cash rewards credit card, earn more cash back for the things you buy most. 1% cash back everywhere, every time. 2% cash back on groceries. 3% back on gas. automatically. no hoops to jump through. it's as easy as one. -two. -three. [ male announcer ] the bankamericard cash rewards card. apply online or at a bank of america near you. y. [ male announcer ] the bankamericard cash rewards card.

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we running things now, huh? man in the suit got it all figured out? >> no, man with the suit doesn't have it all figured out, but man with the gun needs to understand what man in suit is trying to accomplish here. >> why are you talking like that? >> you're talking like that. why can't i talk like that? >> it's ben stiller and eddie murphy in their new movie "power heist" and both of them will be here to tell us about it next week on "today." >> it's going to be fun, too. >> it's going to be good. meanwhile, coming up this half hour, it's called the rubber band syndrome. i know nothing about it moms feeling like they're stretched

too thin between parenting and working, after-school activities. we'll have some smart strategies to help you overcome the stress and become the best parent you can be. >> they also say dads go through that, too. >> i know, it's true. absolutely. no question. and in case you hadn't noticed, coldplay has been here all morning long. kicking off a fabulous fall weekend with old hits and new ones off their brand-new album. they're going to be performing two more songs in just a moment. but before that, opening for coldplay, jenna wolfe with a preview -- >> yes, exactly. >> -- of what's coming up this weekend. >> you want me to sing? coming up this weekend on "today," we're talking about the trial of dr. conrad murray, better left unsung. it's the crucial turning point in the case against michael jackson's doctor, as the defense starts to put on their case. will he take the stand? we will find out. also, the search for baby lisa irwin. it's been nearly three weeks now since the 10-month-old vanished from her room while her parents are pleading to help find the child, police are taking a

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effect. >> yeah, yeah. >> tell me about that. >> so, i brought my visual. you think of a rubberband at different points. as a mom, we take care of our kids, maybe our spouses, our home, work outside the house. so we already have a lot on our plate. >> stretched to the limit. >> then the school calls and says, hey, would you mind volunteering? and part of us says i have too much on my plate and the other part says, yes, i'd better, i should do it. so what do we do? we accept it, and then every other part of our life has stress in it. >> yes, and we are being stretched. and gail, of course, a little bit of stress is always going to be in your life, and that's okay. you say it's important, though, to recognize when it can become unhealthy. >> yeah. i think there is such a thing as optimum stress. >> right. >> sometimes your best performance is when you have some stress, and actually, everybody has stress. so trying to remove all stress doesn't work because that's part of living. but when you have a lot of stress, actually, our body releases a hormone called court zoll, and when your body and brain is bathed in cortisol all the time, it causes hypertension, it causes your

immune system to not be as effective, it affects mood and anxiety. so, remaining at a high chronic level of stress all the time is truly bad for you and your health. >> not to mention, you can't be your best parent to your kids if you are that stressed out. and elizabeth, you talk about one of the big things that we do, and i know i'm guilty of this, is overbooking our kids. you want your kids to succeed in everything they do and you want them to do a lot, and we tend to put them in a lot. >> absolutely, yeah. so, we think if we keep having them do more and more, they'll learn more and be more well-rounded, but really, we're taxing our children, too. >> gail, you agree with that. >> 25% of all children at some point in their childhood will develop an anxiety disorder, and that's one in four. you really have to be mindful that overscheduling not only can make them stressed and anxious, but it takes away play, which is creative time to be creative thinkers. so, you really are taking something away from them if you constantly schedule them. >> and if you're constantly doing the carpooling and everything, the effects that has on you as well adds on to that

stress and trying to keep track of their schedules and everything. i think a lot of moms and dads deal with the guilt of saying no. and elizabeth, you were talking about this, that school calls and says can you do this, and you add on, you pile on. why can't we just say no? >> well, we're constantly shooting ourselves. i should do that, if i was a good mom, i would, and i should do that, so we keep putting more and more on the plate. the goal is to be a better parent, and that's a great motivation, but what we have to realize is, ironically, it's making us not as effective as a mother. >> okay, so the important thing is you have to start focusing on you, as well. you both say this. take a little time for yourself. it's not going to hurt anyone. it's going it make you better, right? >> absolutely. we always hear the airline saying put your oxygen mask on first. why? because if you pass out from no oxygen, you can't help others. take time out for yourself and you'll be a better parent, a better spouse, better at work, better everywhere. >> and by take time out, i would add not only eat well, sleep well and exercise -- exercise is very important -- but i would

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you know what... i'll have this instead. [ female announcer ] swap one thing a day for a yoplait light at around 100 calories. it will add up to amazing. >> announcer: the toyota concert series on "today" brought you by toyota. they are one of the biggest bands in the world. they've been thrilling us all morning long. >> their new album "mylo xyloto" is being released on monday. >> hard to say, but it sounds good. >> yeah. >> now without further ado, performing one of their new songs called "charlie brown," here's coldplay. >> ready, boys! ♪

>> hey! everybody okay? let's go! ♪ ♪ ooh ♪ i stole a key, took a car downtown where the lost boys meet ♪ took a car downtown and took what they offered me to set me free ♪ ♪ i saw the lights go down at the end of the scene, i saw the lights go down and they're

standing in front of me ♪ ♪ ooh, ooh ♪ in my scarecrow dreams, when they smashed my heart into smithereens ♪ i be a bright red rose come bursting the concrete, be a cartoon heart, oh ♪ ♪ light a fire, light a spark, i light a fire, a flame in my heart ♪ ♪ we'll run wild, we'll be glowing in the dark ♪ ♪ ooh-ooh ♪ glowing in the dark

♪ ooh ♪ all the boys, all the girls, all the madness in the world ♪ ♪ all the boys, all the girls, all the madness that occurs ♪ ♪ all the highs, all the lows, as the room is spinning, oh ♪ ♪ we'll run wild, we'll start glowing in the dark ♪ >> let's see your hands! ♪ >> okay, a one, a one, two, three, go! ♪

♪ we'll run wild, we'll be glowing in the dark ♪ ♪ [ cheers and applause ] ♪

>> thank you, everybody. >> it's one more song from coldplay, but first, this is "today" on nbc.

♪ earlier on "today," a bunch of middle-aged rockers, but the fans -- >> could all be middle-aged rockers. coldplay has been putting on a show all day long, kicking off the weekend on a high note. >> and another song "fix you," coldplay. ♪ ♪ when you try your best but you don't succeed ♪

♪ when you get what you want but not what you need ♪ ♪ when you feel so tired but you can't sleep, stuck in reverse ♪ ♪ when the tears come streaming down your face ♪ ♪ 'cause you lose something you can't replace ♪ ♪ when you love someone but it goes to waste, what could be worse ♪ ♪ lights will guide you home and

ignite your bones and i will try to fix you ♪ ♪ ♪ well, high up above or down below ♪ ♪ when you were too in love to let it show ♪ ♪ but if you never try, you'll never know just what you're worth ♪ ♪ oh, then lights will guide you

home and ignite your bones, and i will try to fix you ♪ ♪ ♪

♪ ♪ when tears stream down your face, when you lose something you cannot replace ♪ ♪ oh, when tears stream down your face, and i ♪ ♪ oh, when tears stream down your face, i promise you i will learn from my mistakes ♪ ♪ when tears stream down your face, and i ♪

♪ lights will guide you home and i ignite your bones, and i will try to fix you ♪ ♪ >> thanks, "today" show, thanks new york! see you again soon. thanks so much. good-bye. [ mr. connally ] i was paying too much with cable.

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