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back with more of "today" on this friday morning. the 27th of april, 2012. it's a great getaway weekend here in the northeast. and we're very happy these fine people decided to get up early and hang out with us in our neck of the woods. i'm ann curry alongside carl quintanilla in for matt, we've got al roker and savannah guthrie joining us this morning. talking about this really crazy story, a scare for passengers aboard a flight from delta -- detroit to chicago, a delta flight. the plane was quarantined on a chicago runway for hours it was
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boarded by hazmat officials wearing hazmat suits. it's all a misunderstanding. >> also sean goldman speaks out. he was the boy as you remember at the middle of the international custody controversy that we covered extensively here on "today." a new jersey father's five-year fight to get his young son back from his wife's family in brazil. this morning for the first time sean talks to meredith about his time in brazil and what he didn't know about what his father was doing at the time. we'll also have a live interview with sean's father david. >> sean also practicing world peace's moves. also ahead in "today's real estate" from beautiful sunlet porches to grassy backyards, barbara corcoran is taking us on a tour from ohio to georgia, homes for $250,000 or less. you will be shocked at what you can get. >> it always is amazing.
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as long as it's not in the new york area you can get a good deal. also in "today's beauty," working with what your momma gave you or what the good lord gave you. whether you're fair skinned or olive tone, fine lines or dark splotches, we have makeup tips for every kind of face coming up. >> all right. now, however, let's get a check of the top stories from natalie at the news desk. >> hey, you guys, good morning once again. good morning, everyone. a website to raise funds for the legal defense of george zimmerman has raked in more than $200,000. the neighborhood watch volunteer faces second degree murder charges, but says he killed unarmed teen trayvon martin in self-defense. zimmerman's attorney informed a judge about the funds at a hearing today. zimmerman was released from jail this week after paying 10% of his $150,000 bail. but his own lawyer says that bail amount may have been higher if the judge had known about the funds he had raised. a health scare on board a delta flight kept passengers quarantined on the tarmac for almost three hours. nbc's kevin tibbles has the very latest from chicago.
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kevin, good morning. >> well, it was some high anxiety here at midway airport yesterday as these passengers on the plane were told that one of the passengers may have a virus called the monkey pox, which is very similar to smallpox virus. this passenger was traveling back to the united states from a visit to africa. as it turns out, she said to her mother on the phone that she had been bitten by bed bugs. and that one of the children that she was planning to adopt, who was still in africa, had some kind of a skin rash. the mother seems to have sort of confused all of this, the mother called health officials, the next thing you know, this plane was quarantined on the ground here at midway airport. cdc officials came on board with masks and hazmat suits on, and at the end of the day, all the passengers who were very patient on this flight, they were all allowed to let go once the story was all straightened out. but for a few hours here on the
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ground at midway, it was quite a tense situation. natalie? >> they'll all have a story to tell. kevin ticks at midway airport. three american service members have been killed in a bomb attack in eastern afghanistan. this just days ahead of the one-year anniversary of osama bin laden's death. meantime a federal judge has rejected a request to release photos and video of the terror leader taken during that raid that killed him last year. new allegations of misconduct overseas have the secret service investigating a trip to el salvador back in march of 2011. reports have emerged claiming that agency employees hired strippers and prostitutes ahead of the president's visit to the central american nation last year. the news comes just days after homeland security secretary janet napolitano assured lawmakers that the prostitution scandal in colombia was just an isolated incident. and the big bear on campus is back where he belongs. a 200 pound black bear scaled a tree thursday at the university
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of colorado boulder. he stayed up there for about two hours until wildlife officials brought him down, gently there you see on that little floaty. with tranquilizer darts. the bear was tagged and eventually released in the nearby mountains. does not look like a good fall. five minutes past the hour. let's go back out to al with a check of your weather. >> all righty. thank you so much, natalie. got some friends here from tuscaloosa, and i know you're celebrating the one-year anniversary of that super outbreak tornadoes, hope everything's going well there. everybody getting their act together. let's see what we've got as far as your weather today. we are looking at some strong storms in the midsection of the country. nothing quite as bad as a year ago. we are going to see some showers moving in to coastal pacific northwest later today. slight risk of strong storms in the mid-mississippi river valley. few showers in northern new england. plenty of sunshine through the gulf coast with a lot of heat through texas. >> good morning.
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we expect dry weather. it will be kind of windy. high temperature expected near 63. >> and that's your latest weather. natalie? >> al, thank you. now to the story of sean goldman, abducted by his mom to brazil, and then finally handed over to his father david, after a five-year, international battle. at the time we could only guess what he was feeling. but now, in an exclusive interview with meredith vieira, the boy caught in the crosshairs of all the controversy opens up about his confusing ordeal, and all of its painful repercussions. he was at the center of a case
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that sparked such an international firestorm it reached the highest levels of both the u.s. and brazilian governments. at the age of 4, sean goldman was abducted to brazil by his mother and abruptly cut off from his father with no explanation of why. when he was 8, his mom died. but even then his brazilian family tried to keep him there. never telling him that his distraught dad had been fighting all along to bring him home. nobody told you? nbc chronicled his dad's five-year struggle. traveling with him to brazil on many of the 15 trips he made, trying to get his son back. watching as the bitter legal wrangling took its toll. >> why won't they just let me go home with him? >> but sean had no idea how hard his dad was fighting. and when his brazilian relatives were finally ordered to hand him over, sean just looked bewildered and terrified. you were a boy. >> 9 years old. >> reporter: that was two years ago. since then, as father and son
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have tried to heal, david has fiercely guarded sean's privacy. but now, in an exclusive interview for "dateline," sean talks openly about his confusing ordeal and all its painful repercussions. did you understand what was going on during that period at all? >> no. from what i remember, i was confused. >> reporter: in what way? >> like, what's going on? where's my dad? >> reporter: it must have hurt you, then, to be that confused and not know what was going on? >> well, yeah, but i didn't want to be like a loner so i had to kind of tuck the feelings away. and try to live with -- >> reporter: with the situation? >> with the situation, yeah. >> reporter: is that what you did, do you think? tucked the feelings away? >> yeah. >> reporter: but even now, as the little boy who learned to suppress his feelings re-establishes his bond with his dad, his family in brazil is still fighting for him. you almost make this look easy
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and i'm sure it hasn't been. the past couple years. >> not at all. well, the past couple years kind of, because my dad has been very helpful. but the five years weren't -- >> reporter: what's the difference? tell me what made the five years hard versus now. >> now, i have a guide. >> reporter: a guide? >> my dad. he's a guide. and i don't know how to explain it. it's just this bond. that's why he is easier, because i have my dad. >> and david goldman joins us now. good morning, david. good to see you again. >> good morning. >> i know sean's at school today. >> yes, he is. but i see a little boy who's really grown up a lot in that time. and able to really express himself. why did you want him to speak out now? >> well, he wanted to. just to get it off his chest, and say what he needed to say, and then let's go back and be a little boy again. and he really wants to be an example of what needs to happen,
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and that's return these children back to their rightful parents, their rightful countries, and we have to stop international child abduction. in the last three years alone there's been nearly 5,000 new cases with american children abducted across international borders. >> right. >> and he's suffered too much. i've suffered too much. and these children right now, as we're sitting here, are suffering, and so are their families. >> but he's taking up the cause that you have been so passionate about, as well. >> in his own way, yes. he's the proof. i mean these judges, they keep these kids before they make a ruling for a year and they say, yeah, we recognize the child's been here illegally for a year, abducted but now they're settled. we won't return them. and sean is living proof that the children need to come back home as quickly as possible, as it is in the hague convention. >> i was wondering as you were listening to sean talk about how during that time when he was in brazil he said he was confused. and he was wondering where his
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dad was. where you were. >> california. >> that had to be really hard to hear that. what emotions were you feeling? >> you know, it was very painful. the first time i saw him after nearly five years in brazil, he looked at me, and asked him, where i had been all this time. >> mm-hmm. >> and, you know -- >> because he didn't know the fight that you were waging here to get him back. >> no. and it wasn't his job or position to know the fight. his job is to just be a little boy, and now going to be a 12-year-old boy. but it is very painful. he was told that i didn't love him, i abandoned him, i never wanted him. then he became afraid to even ask, because there was the answer that he got were just too painful. so he had to just succumb to the abductors who are very manipulative and narcissistic and very cruel. it's a form of child abuse. >> there is still a legal battle being waged on two fronts. here in the u.s., as well as brazil. and brazil, sean's grandmother and his stepfather are appealing
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the decision that allowed him to come here in the u.s. and she's also filed a suit here in the u.s., and that is either saying she's appealing a ruling which denied her request for visitation. and she says that her human rights are being violated because she hasn't been allowed to visit with her grandson. what do you want to say to that? >> well, she's been around from the beginning when sean and i returned, before she started these lawsuits, we tried to open up a dialogue and communication on how she can participate and take a good role, as a good, healthy role in sean's life. and that would include meeting with his therapist. and recognizing that he has his dad. and essentially they sued me here for custody. they wanted liberal vacations with him. liberal this. and how can i trust these people knowing that as we speak, they're filing suits in brazil to get him back, and if we didn't have the highest levels of this government, and millions of people in our country who i'll be forever grateful for advocating on our behalf, he would still be there right now, as an abducted american child. >> she is speaking out, i should say, talking about this episode
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of "dateline" saying, hearing sean and what he's saying, she thinks it's cruelty. she thinks it's an exhibition. what is your reaction? >> i think an exhibition was when they paraded my son through the streets in brazil the last day when he was supposed to be handed off to his dad, coming back to america. who's cruel and who's an exhibitionist? just review those clips of that scene, what they dragged sean through the streets. >> meanwhile, sean's doing great at a new school now and he's adjusting well? >> yes, he is. he's an honor student. he's on two baseball teams. we have our little nucleus of my three sons type of family. >> you're engaged to be married to wendy. >> yes. >> your fiancee. and she has two boys as well. >> yes. >> so got an instant family now. >> we're doing the best we can just to be, you know, normal. normal. that's all we want. we want our kids to be happy. we want to just be normal, typical american family. >> move on with your lives. >> and move on with our lives. knowing our role is to help those. help get these other families reunited. we have a new bill that
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passed -- >> that's right. and i'll just mention that really quickly. we're running out of time. the sean and david goldman child abduction and prevention return act of 2012. so that's going to congress now. >> yes. >> good luck with that. >> thank you, natalie. >> thanks again for being here. >> thank you. >> great to see you as always. david goldman. and again the book out now, by the way in paperback, it's called "a father's love: one man's unrelenting battle to bring his abducted son home." and you can see more of meredith's exclusive interview with sean goldman tonight on "dateline" at 10:00, 9:00 central time here on nbc. coming up next, if you're in the market for a new home, we've got a sneak peek at some open houses for $250,000 or less. and then a little bit later on, the secrets to getting an upgrade when you travel. ♪ [ female announcer ] irresistibly touchable skin hour after hour. ♪ it all starts with new 48-hour nivea extended moisture
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to an all-brick estate. our own brick house, "today" real estate contributor barbara corcoran is here to walk us through some great houses. here we go. a lot of homes. norwood, ohio, four bedroom home at $214,900. >> norwood is like a charming city within a city. it's just 15 minutes from downtown cincinnati. and this 1900 victorian is like a little jewel box of a house. it has a covered porch, and how do you say that turret? that cone on top. >> it's a cone. >> the square entry has original hardwood floors and woodwork. you'll see the inside in just a moment. a charming hello, how do you do when you walk in. the living room has pretty stained glass windows and a nice tile fireplace. the dining room is separated from the rest of the house by an original pocket door and has a chandelier and orangele mantel on the fireplace. >> just imagine that all. >> the kitchen feels old-fashioned but it's light and bright. are we going to see that? oh, we're getting there. that's the dining room again.
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kitchen, light and bright. with stainless steel appliances and a door with a transom lighting leading to the back deck. the back of the house looks more like a farmhouse. very green lawn and a simple patio just about the right size for grilling. >> let's go to pittsburgh, p.a. four bedroom house for $219,900. >> i'm going to talk slower now. >> no, no, no. we only got four minutes here. >> this is a neighborhood on the ohio river, just eight miles from downtown pittsburgh. this is a 1910 gem that fits right in. the whole neighborhood has houses like this. the entry has turned staircase with original wood he details. the living room has a gas log fireplace with a mirrored mantel and a brand-new joint job that sets off the white trim. the biening room has build floors, a built in china cabinet. the kitchen has been updated with tile floor and a back splash and the courtyard has a cabana and a stone wall planting
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bed which a lot of people like. easy to reach, all surrounded by a tall, wood privacy fence. >> let's go to hotlanta, georgia. three bedroom house, $225,000. >> this is a cute 1920 house, in a family friendly neighborhood where the neighbors say good morning, al, how are you. and then they -- >> no matter what your name is. >> yeah, that's right. they would invite you to have a seat on the big front porch there, al, with the pretty white railing, the ceiling fans for warm summer day or night. the living room has dark wood floors and attractive crown molding and base boards. the breakfast area is warm and cozy with tile floors, a wood plank ceiling, glass doors to the back deck. a totally updated kitchen with a dramatic black cabinetry and the window. you know those cab nuts suck the light out of a kitchen but it works because of the window. and out back a large sunny deg and' flag stone pad yum.
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>> quickly, a four bedroom home in murfreesboro, tennessee. >> this community is surrounded by farms and wildlife. an old brick home with traditional feel outside and open floor plan. the living room has cathedral ceilings and last of natural light. the dining room has wainscoting and crown molding. the master bedroom has dramatic tray ceiling, extra long windows and a pretty patio outbook with woods all over. the property taxes are only $110 a month. >> you could do the legalese for the car commercials. fantastic. barbara. >> thank you, al. >> nicely done. all right, barbara corcoran. have a great weekend. >> thanks so much. >> when we come back, helpful advice for moms and daughters. [ sneezes ] ♪ [ male announcer ] it's happening right now at your local walgreens. pharmacists are going above and beyond... armed with expertise and advice... ♪ ...with one goal in mind... to better serve you...
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>> live, local, latebreaking. this is a wbal-tv 11 news update. >> quiet morning this morning. a few scattered clouds. the next storm his way out to the west. dry stuff in between means a good day today. temperatures
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i'm the new rock and i'm using what she taught me to survive, to go on, to care for my son. >> that's ryan o'neal after losing his longtime love, farrah fawcett, to cancer three years ago. and now, ironically, he's facing his own cancer battle. we're going to talk to him about a side of farrah we never knew and his troubled relationship with his children. that's ryan o'neal, monday, only on "today." >> look forward to hearing from him. also speaking of sometimes troubled or at least complicated relationships. one of the most difficult sometimes can be moms and daughters, even after adulthood. so we're going to have some really good advice how to
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navigate some of those times when it can be a little combative or competitive even when the child is all grown up. good advice. >> you guys have good relationships with your moms. >> we do. >> we're very close. >> very lucky. but it doesn't mean that sometimes your mom doesn't make you a little crazy. sorry, mom. >> okeydokey. >> now we're getting to it. >> in "today's beauty" we're going to be talking about working with what god gave us. whatever complexion we may have we're not all created equal, whether dark toned, fair skinned. expert advice from the gorgeous mali. >> this is a truism, no matter what you make for dinner your kids will love it if you put it on a stick. all right. from beef skewers to pine am apples, even potato salad. maybe corn flakes is the limit. we're going to show you how to create some fantastic treats that will delight the kid in all of us. >> oh, that's right. >> and a story coming up this weekend on "weekend today,"
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lester holt is going to report from los angeles. he's got a really interesting story on the 20th anniversary of the riots there sparked by the acquittal of the police officers in the rodney king beating. lester will sit down with an exclusive interview with rodney king, also his fiancee, who happened to be juror number five at the second trial that arose from the incident. really interesting to hear them, and their perspective 20 years later. that's this weekend. >> 20 years. >> that's unbelievable. >> first al you've got a check of our weather. >> we start off with saturday, we're looking at a nice day in the northeast. windy and cool. but not too bad. sunny and warm, gulf coast into texas and the southwest. showers in the pacific northwest. cool in the western great lakes. wet snow and rain through the mid-plains. sunday, sunday, morning showers along the mid-atlantic coast. heavy rain, mid-mississippi river valley. sunny and mild in the pacific northwest. warm and hot as you get into the southwest on into texas, and the florida panhandle.
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>> good morning. it will be a little on the breezy time. we should be able to get into the lower end of the 60's. >> that's the latest weather. >> all right, thank you, al. 30 years, 7 tony awards, the most famous little red-headed orphan who won our hearts is now heading back to broadway. >> starting this fall "annie the musical" can be seen right here in new york city. >> this morning we're announcing for the first time the star in the lead role, 11-year-old lila crawford. congratulations. you're in the fifth grade and you're going to be able to say
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you're a broadway actress. what's exciting about playing annie? >> well, i love the show. i love the music. and i love the role of annie. i'm so excited to work with the dog. >> you've been training with sandy the dog, right? >> well, kind of. but we haven't actually found him yet, so i'm excited. >> you beat out 5,000 other girls for this role, role of a lifetime. how did you do it? why do you think they picked you? >> well, i think that i relate to annie well because i think we're both spunky. >> i bet you are. lilla crawford, congratulations. looking forward to seeing you on broadway. >> we are excited for you. we should mention in october al rok roker's production company is producing "annie's search for sandy." >> that's right. >> do you think we could sing a few notes? >> ready?
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>> three, two, one -- ♪ it's a hard knock life for us it's a hard knock life for us ♪ >> i don't know. >> okay my broadway career was very short. >> you guys were great. >> we need to find another line of work. that's okay. >> that's great. the strong and silent type. >> we'll see you on broadway. >> thank you. >> still to come, the relationships between mothers and daughters and a whole lot more when we come back. [ male announcer ] at p.f. chang's,
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is really my mother. they keep asking me if the dirty guy is really my son. huh -- what do you tell 'um? holy smokes, these viva towels really are tough, even when wet! [ mike ] for the record, that's my real father, cleaning up a real mess on a real grill. see? very impressive! you're a natural. oh that's much better... dad's got his tough mess, i've got mine. [ female announcer ] grab a roll and try it on your toughest mess. i think you got it. this morning on "today's moms," the mother/daughter relationship. if your dynamic with your mom is filled with friction, you can still learn how to build a loving and supportive bond as an adult. dr. charles sophie is the author of side by side, the revolutionary mother daughter program for conflict free
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resolution. and dr. gail saltz is a "today" contributor as well as the mother of three girls. good morning to both of you. dr. sophy i love how you put it. there's no more fascinating and frightening dynamic than a mother/daughter dynamic. >> it goes from zero to 100 in about two seconds and back. and your head is spinning sometimes. it's a scary relationship. it's volatile. but it's a really very important relationship. >> gail, i met a lot of people who say i have a great relationship with my mother, i adore my mother, she's my best friend, would also say at some times i've had problems with my mom or there are tensions there. they're not mutually exclusive propositions. >> not at all. i think there has to be both. that's how you work things through. because if you don't have some conflict you're probably not honest about what's going on in your relationship. you can't be the clone of your mother. and that -- therefore, there are going to be disagreements. >> absolutely. >> really that's the bottom line. >> every relationship has that. >> you saids there always an element of competitiveness
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between mother and daughter. i got to tell you that surprised me. >> why? >> something i haven't experienced i guess, or i'm happy to say. >> or you don't know it exists. that's more likely the case. because you know, your mother is your model. and you want to be like here in some ways. you want to surpass her in some ways and then the mother watches the daughter come up, right, and become as she ages out and there's going to be competition on both sides. >> let's get some tips. you have some ideas on how to improve your communication. one thing is the first step is to evaluate the relationship. who wants to take that? >> i'll take that. i think it's important to really know who you are and what you want out of that relationship and make sure that you see it as a priority in your life. even though it's a tough relationship, it is a needed and wealthy and heavy relationship. you've got to make it work. >> the next step, decide your wants and needs. >> you know, by that, i think you have to say, what is a want and what is a need? you really do need certain things. certain level of respect, certain kindnesses. but you don't -- you can't have
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everything you want. so i think it's all about empathizing. standing in the other person's shoes. knowing where they're coming from and that has to do with saying, i do need this. >> and i think mothers and daughters want the same thing. they all want love, understanding and respect from each other. but you have to give it to get it. >> the next step is to discuss your expectations and that's when i hear, fight coming on. >> or perhaps tension, anyway. >> you know, i think that's because you have to know what your expectations are of the relationship. not my expectations of you, my mother. >> you're right. i wouldn't lay it out like these are my demands. that won't go over well. but, saying, you know -- first of all, if you always start out with a positive, you know, i value this in you. >> right. >> you really come from a position of strength. it really helps the relationship. so i think too often we don't let our mothers know what we appreciated about what they've done for us, our upbringing. if you start there, they're not going to be on the defensive and then you can move in with, these things are problematic and aren't working so well. >> last bit of advice i think is
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really key. resolve issues as they arise. >> please resolve. i mean that's what the book is about. using two chairs to show you where you are in a conflict. but you've got to clean it up. >> and if you let them fester, that's when the passive/aggressive, silent treatments, you know, i'm blowing up at you for something that didn't happen now. >> those dirty looks. >> the dirty looks will happen. so hit it now. >> mother/daughter is not like fine wine, they don't get better with time. >> possibly not. >> dr. charles sophy -- >> of course with my three daughters it's wonderful. >> thank you so much. appreciate it. >> and coming up next, mothers and daughters listen to this, the r50i9 makeup for every type of woman and every type of face. coming up right after this. i love cash back. with the bankamericard cash rewards credit card, we earn more cash back for the things we buy most. 1% cash back everywhere, every time. 2% on groceries. 3% on gas. automatically. no hoops to jump through. no annual fee. that's 1% back on... wow! 2% on my homemade lasagna.
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♪ spread a little love my way ♪ ♪ spread a little something to remember ♪ [ female announcer ] fresh milk and real cream makes philadelphia and the moment a little richer. this morning on "today's beauty," putting your best face forward. we're all born with different skin tones and facial features, so makeup that may look good on your friends may not look so good on you.
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and celebrity makeup artist and creator of mally beauty, mally roncal, is here with some tips and tricks to enhance your best features. mally, good morning. >> good morning. >> always the basics. foundation, eye shadow, mascara, blush, lipstick. other than personal preference it really is about complementing your skin tone and features. >> absolutely. you got it. that's what it's all about. and really celebrating that, as well. >> so this is gorgeous pearl. >> this is gorgeous pearl. love it, thank you. i have a little surprise for you. she, like i, we're asian. surprise! but here's the thing. when it comes to that sort of asian face, contouring is your friend. >> right. >> really learning how to work the contours of your face. go gorgeous features. >> lift those cheekbones. especially when it comes to eyes. we are known to have a flatter eyelid. so many people always say put eye had dough in your crease to open up your eye. well where is your crease. when you have an asian eye all you have to do is kind of feel. do you see where that little
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bone is. it's higher up. >> you got it. that's where you want to put the eye shadow. what that's going to do when you blend the eye shadow right under that bone, you see how that just really creates that face and opens up the eye and makes you look more awake. >> and you kept the coloring very light and sort of neutral. >> exactly. exactly. >> is that by design as well? >> absolutely. of course you can also do this to kick it up in the evening. you can do it with darker colors. i feel like this is just a really great day look. it complements a beautiful face. >> so eyes and bone structure. >> you got it. >> perfect. >> cheek bones. >> okay let's move over to alicia here. more of the olive based skin tone. >> correct. >> what colors and what kinds of things should she be doing to accentuate what she is given? >> you know, we're breaking it down around here. and when you have an ove skin tone, you know when you're kind of stuck in the winter doldrums you tend to look a little, shall
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we say, green, okay? >> washed out. >> i'll say green. >> i can look a little green. >> exactly. so a little bit of blush is always your best friend. use a foundation that will really warm your skin tone. but pink, peachy, coraly blushes are really going to be your friend. so put it right, smile, find the apples of your cheek. i call it the cinnamon bun in the method. little in the middle and blend it up toward the cheek bones. >> cinnamon bun method? i'm hungry. >> she looks great. >> beautiful, healthy and just a gorgeous lifting. >> okay. >> you look great. now over to yameet it's all about choosing the right shade of powder or even in this case it's more of a, i guess, a matte fier. >> it's a clear powder. what that's going to do, especially when you have darker skin tones, even if you're fair, even if you're super nicole kidman fair, translucent powder is the enemy and it really does make us look ashy, makes us look
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dry, makes us look older and sits in fine lines. this will matteify your skin and make it look clear. even men can use it. >> if you're really shiny it will cover that up. >> exactly. it will smooth out the skin, make sure you look super, super fresh, poreless. translucent powder yucky, enemy. get rid of it. >> what other tricks are you using? >> use an eye shadow base. something that is really going to make the eye shadow a true color. because for me, when you put colors on especially darker skin tones they tend to get a little muted. so use an eye shadow base it will make it last all day and also it will give you that true color. >> and last but not least we have nina over here. a little bit healthier with bronzer. >> you got it bronzer is your friend, especially the summer months are coming, guys, let's get nice and glowy and healthy. the trick is to use a bronzer that doesn't have shimmer in it. you want to use a matte bronzer because that's going to make you look really natural. >> the right shade, right?
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>> exactly. not too orangey. you can use a couple shades deeper than your skin tone. no sparkle or you'll look like an orange disco ball. and lip liner is your friend, as well. if you want your lips to look fuller use a lip liner that matches your lip tone exactly and just fill in, attack the cupid's bow. >> we have got lots of friends in makeup. thank you very much. >> coming up next, summertime favorites with fun food on a stick. >> yum! [ female announcer ] with xfinity,
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so you can run more devices at the same time. ♪ feel a firework [ female announcer ] and best of all, it keeps getting better. no wonder more people choose xfinity over any other provider. ♪ love can be so mystical ♪ this morning in "today's kitchen," what's on the menu? how about dinner on a stick. here to help us bring the outdoors in, linda hoffman. the host on univision. anything you put on a stick is great. >> anything is good.
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>> you call it the new chipotle. >> trust me, you'll be hearing it. it's a red peruvian pepper, not spicy. more flavorful. very light flavor, fruity. it has -- i mean anything you put that on. >> garlic? >> 12 cloves of garlic. it sounds like a lot. that was oregano with little builts of cumin, vinegar and that's it. >> that's going to be your marinade. >> what kind of steak are we using? >> sirloin steak. generally meat on a skewer are done with organs and, we're doing it with beautiful sirloin. >> did you say llama? >> not as in the animal -- you can use chicken, you can do shrimp, anything goes good with the paste. the paste you can buy online anywhere. all you need to do is google nice peruvian chilies and it comes right to your house. instead of putting the oil on the grill pan so you smoke the
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entire house you just do it on the food. >> and you want to soak your skewers. >> you want to soak them so they don't burn. now we're letting it cook more or less four to five minutes on each side. >> i love this idea -- basically you're making potato salad on a stick. >> mom's potato salad. except the new version. so we're cooking these beautiful honey gold potatoes. six to eight minutes only. they come in 24 ounce bags. you find them always -- >> do you cook them before you put them on the grill? >> par boil six minutes and grill them to get the nice char on them. here's the interesting part. i love this. we're taking some mayo, cup of mayo, dill pickles. we're just making the same potato salad your mom would make, one boiled egg, yellow mustard, just like woman today, a little bit of worcestershire sauce, tabasco and we've got onions and celery, and guess what? we've got some ready to go. >> thank goodness. here it is. >> now you're going to see how we brought the outside in. come this way. don't disappear.
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and see, look at my pot. >> yay! >> she did the vegetables separately. >> we did skewered vegetables for color. we can grill those, as well. here's our beef and potatoes and if you'd like to try some, here you go. >> hi, ladies. >> and popsicles. >> and our chipotle popsicles with a little bit of lime with coconut milk and pineapple. fresh. >> they don't taste spicy. >> a kick of flavor. >> i like those. >> isn't that great? >> ingrid hoffman on univision. thank you so much. >> thank you guys. >> have a great weekend, everybody. coming up, the next time you travel. ♪
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