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>> carson: and welcome back. we're at the surly goat, west hollywood. i'm carson daly. it is time now for the "last call spotlight." tonight, seattle soul is front and center in our "spotlight." allen stone is an up and coming singer whose voice has been compared to some of the greatest in the history of music. we're talking stevie wonder, marvin gaye, prince. recently, he's been climbing the charts and picking up rave reviews along the way. and we were fortunate enough to catch up with him when he was here in l.a. recently at the troubadour.

take a look. ♪ >> what i love so much about soul and r&b music is the feeling of it. i was never classically trained, and so, music to me is all about the feel of it. and that's what really sets me off and gets me excited. ♪ every day the deficit grows ♪ >> my name is allen stone. i'm from seattle, washington, and i sing soul music. ♪ you spend more than you own ♪ ♪ papa always said to me keep a close eye on your authority ♪ ♪ hey hey 'cause you say that you care ♪ >> i first started singing when i was real young. my father was a minister, and so

i was singing ever since i could walk. i grew up singing in the church, and i got my first stevie wonder record, "inner visions," when i was like, 14. i was, like, blown away. i knew that's what i wanted to sound like, and i started just learning how to sing through those records. and have been picking and grinning and singing ever since. ♪ when i was 19, i picked up my bags and my guitar and moved from chewelah, washington to seattle. any place that i could get a gig, i played, and then started being able to afford bringing a band out. ♪ ♪ the latest record is kind of like my attempt to recreate the tradition of soul music and r&b music. ♪ whatever you need guaranteed i will give it to you ♪ ♪ whatever the cost

everything that i've got i will give it you ♪ so if you want me to love you all that you must do is just say so ♪ ♪ say so say so say so well i am ready to love you all that you must do is just say so ♪ ♪ say so say so say so >> i'm still an independent artist. i'm unsigned, and so, everything that happens happens through money that's made through touring or record sales. my band's salary, hotels, gas, my van -- everything is all internal at this point. i've definitely been approached by a lot of labels and publishers. you know, i'm open to that route for sure. it's just -- i've worked really hard to get to where i'm at independently. and i am -- what's the word? very protective of that. ♪ and every time i open my eyes

it seems my nightmares come back to life ♪ >> the best part of doing this for a living is doing this for a living. i mean, performing, for me, is my favorite. getting the opportunity to do that makes all the traveling, and, like, being in the van with a bunch of guys and not showering as often as maybe my mom would like -- that makes it all worth it. ♪ >> carson: that was the incredible allen stone. his self-titled album is out now, and to find out where he's gonna be next, be sure and check out allenstone.com. when we get back, we're gonna go to the el rey. it's gonna get loud, so get ready for that. band of skulls performs next on "last call." ♪

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♪ carson: and welcome back to "last call." thanks for tuning in. it's music time. you might wanna make room for the mosh pit that's about to break out in your living room, 'cause it's going down. we take you to the el rey for the hard rock show courtesy of the english trio band of skulls. performing "sweet sour," here they are. band of skulls. ♪

♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ did you bite the hand that feeds you do you feel the need to talk about it ♪ ♪ now you're fighting for your corner sayin' that you oughta laugh about it ♪ ♪ you should get a little braver do us all a favor shout about it ♪ ♪ sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ pick up your stitches better than your riches think about it ♪ ♪ i know what you've been through we don't really need to talk about it ♪

♪ it's just a little calmer tryin' to disarm ya shout about it ♪ ♪ sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sweet sousweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sour by the minute but you're sweeter by the hour ♪ ♪ ♪ you were none the wiser even though you tried to understand it ♪ ♪ try another spoonful love is to be truthful dance around it ♪ ♪ it's just a little calmer tryin' to disarm ya shout about it ♪ ♪ [ cheers and applause ]

♪ ♪ sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sour by the minute but you're sweeter by the hour ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪

♪ sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sweet sour sweet sour ♪ ♪ sweet sour ♪ sour by the minute but you're sweeter by the hour ♪ [ cheers and applause ] >> carson: awesome. i hope you enjoyed that. i know i thoroughly did. band of skulls. "sweet sour" is the name of the song. it's also the name of the new record, so go pick that up. in fact, when we get back, we'll do one more from the el rey with band of skulls, right after this. ♪

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♪ carson: and that's going to do it for tonight's episode of "last call." big thank you to all of my guests. thanks to everybody here at the surly goat, west hollywood. if you're in the area, stop by. we're going to say good night. let's go back to the el rey now, too, for one final dose of rock. performing "the devil takes care of his own," of course, here's band of skulls. enjoy that. we'll see you next time. thanks for watching. ♪ ♪ ♪ if you flip the rug then you reveal an ugly scene but the strength of 10,000

will never weaken me ♪ ♪ quick just like a razor blade you carve me half and half ♪ ♪ oh i'd better wait to kill the time ♪ ♪ didn't you read it in the detail that if you're idle in your welfare ♪ ♪ now you wanna know an answer well if you're dancing you're a dancer ♪ ♪ the devil takes care of his own ♪ ♪ ♪ do you dare to speak his name there's evil at the roof ♪ ♪ crueler plan it's on your mind go on and give the dice a roll ♪ ♪ never did believe in saying fortunes are foretold ♪ ♪ easy come and

easy they will go ♪ ♪ didn't you read it in the detail that if you're idle in your welfare ♪ ♪ now you wanna know an answer well if you're dancing you're a dancer ♪ ♪ didn't you read about it ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ the devil takes care of his own ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ didn't you read it in the detail that if you're idle in your welfare ♪ ♪ now you wanna know an answer well if you're dancing

you're a dancer ♪ ♪ didn't you read it in the detail that if you're idle in your welfare ♪ ♪ now you wanna know an answer well if you're dancing you're a dancer ♪ ♪

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"today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb and a bunch of "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb and a bunch of guys. captions paid for by nbc-universal television was that hoda? >> that wasn't me. what are you reading? >> are we really on air reading news? >> let me see your magazine. >> it's wines-day wednesday, july 11th. i can't believe jenny mccarthy is naked in this thing again. >> did you see her? >> i thought she looked darn good at 40. >> what else are you learning from your "playboy" magazine? >> other people read the stories, but i haven't got my glasses on. apparently there are good stories in here, too. >> you told me you learned something. >> what did i learn? what's the face? what did i learn? >> that everyone downstairs is -- >> oh, i can't believe everybody is like clean as a whistle. when did that happen? >> that started. people started doing that downstairs. >> that's disgusting! >> this is our special guy edition.

this is going to be a fun show. you know why? >> why? >> because we get to drink beer like guys do. by the way, can we just show our cute mugs? >> we get to spit and scratch and spew -- >> this is coors light. >> we're just hanging out in our man cave. >> that's davey. that's not us. we're not that gross. >> we're going to talk about the battle of the sexes. >> this is cool. there are a lot of guys looking for work and they're all schlubby. >> they're looking for chicks like us. >> and they're all getting a makeover. we'll have a complete makeover. >> our guys are here. we love our guys tell-all panel. ryan, chuck, rick, and remember this guy bob is here, remember from "the bachelor"? >> he got married. >> but it didn't work out. >> that's a shame. welcome, bob. >> thank you. >> we're so glad you're here. >> hey, half of them don't, bob.

>> one out of two, bob. my first one didn't -- hoda's first -- we're all in this together, all right? >> are you comfy? by the way, i get why guys sit in these easy chairs and eat funyuns. >> i understand how you get in them, but i don't know how you get out. these are unbelievable. they are ugly as sin, but i like them. >> and you've got your frank gifford shirt on? >> i wouldn't show up with anything but my frank gifford on. we only have a hundred at home. we had a big reaction yesterday to our question. i guess everybody in the world except myself that's read the "fifty shades of grey" trilogy. so we asked all of you out there who you think of when you're reading this. >> you picked yesterday, in case people didn't see it -- kevin costner. >> who should play it in the movie. >> in "no way out." not as the hatfields and the mccoys. >> and you also picked the one

and the only -- >> frank gifford, when he was about 27. >> he looked hot. >> which is how old christian grey is supposed to be, i guess. >> i picked from the great movie wall street, gordon gekko, sexy in charge michael douglas. >> hoda looks like them that. you wrote in with your ideas. a lot of people, a lot of women thought ryan gosling. >> yeah. >> he's an awfully good actor, too. he's cute on the eyes, but a great actor. a lot of people i think because of "magicing mi inin ining mike channing tatum. >> no, matt bomer first. he is totally hot. >> and channing tatum. he is the sweetest guy. he was here last week for "magic mike." he's from alabama. these southern boys, they've been raised with manners. >> i agree. >> i didn't mind being called ma'am. . >> no. i like southern boys, too. have you ever had a funyun? seriously, have a funyun. get involved.

funyuns are so good. >> christian bale aa lot of you thought, which is interesting because he's not anywhere near 27. >> bite into it. tell me how bad your breath is right now. >> oh, my god. >> they are awesome. you have to sit alone and tear through a bag of these, funyuns. >> they remind me of -- >> bunions. they fit right on it. it's unbelievable. boy, do i need a pedicure. >> here is the question. if your friend's husband hit on you, what would you do? would you tell your friend? would you not tell? how would you address it? frisky.com -- there is a dot-com for everything -- talked about ways to handle this situation. >> first of all, don't blame yourself. you can't help it that you're gorgeous and hot. >> and your cleavage is out. >> and your friend's isn't, apparently. >> no one is perfect. remember that.

this is one of the, i guess one of the solutions. should you never be alone with your friend's spouse. >> after that? no. . >> you would choose to stay away. would you tell your friend or not? >> it did happen to me one time. >> it did? >> yeah. it's such a creepy feeling. it just really, really is. they weren't close friends. but it was a friend's husband. >> so what did you do? >> i just acted like i didn't hear him and moved to the other room. >> they also say, too, i would stay away from the person but i don't think i would say anything. >> the guys have some things about that. what? >> what do you have to say? >> i just want to stay if my friend's husband hit on me, i would tell him, i am very flattered, but it's not that kind of party. >> the thing is that it's a slippery slope. if you say something to her, she may take his side. now you're -- >> you're a femme fatale who brought it on. >> or maybe you misread it. >> but you do need to stay away

from him. come on, guys, there's a lot of women in the world. >> do not tell her that her husband hit on you. you will be the enemy from that point on. >> right. she'll think you brought it on or you misread it. he didn't hit on you, what were you thinking? >> exactly. it's a no-win. >> his response will be, honey, she's a whore. >> i personally love it when guys hit on me. i'm okay with that. >> that will be his response. >> i'm a divorced guy. >> what does the divorced bachelor think? . >> thank you so much for that wonderful introduction, kathie. i say run. that's all you've got to do is run away and lie about it. >> and send the wives and mothers to me. >> that's why my relationships worked so well. >> all righty. that was fascinating. >> they're still talking. >> are you all still talking? >> that's my favorite line of all time. if you guys are wondering where the manliest city in the united states is -- >> it isn't here.

sorry guys, it ain't new york. >> so they did this study. the way they narrowed it down, they found the place with the most steakhouses and gyms and home depots and the ones with the least number of manicure/pedicure places and hair salons. here are the top five manliest cities. >> number five birmingham, alabama. >> number four is nashville, tennessee. >> oh, yeah. i love myself some nashville. >> number three is memphis. >> which is a lot like nashville. >> number two is columbia, south carolina. >> are you noticing a southern trend? >> yes. >> and number one -- >> the manliest city in the country is oklahoma city, oklahoma. >> wow. >> wow, okay. there you have it. >> anything? >> my wife is from there. >> thank you for that. >> did you just call your wife manly? >> no! >> you just called your wife manly. >> no, i did not. i said my wife is from there.

i was about to say she knows manly men, that's why she chose me. >> why did she leave the manliest city in america to move to new jersey to marry you. >> she wanted the manliest man in the most cultured city. there you go. >> you cleaned that up good. >> that was nice. >> thank you. >> this next story is going to upset a lot of people, we think. in germany this mayor decided that women are not good parkers and that they can't park their cars well. so this mayor decided -- >> you think that's funny, do you? >> -- the trickiest spot he was saving for men. there is a male symbol. >> male-only parking lot. >> look at him smiling and pointing. what's wrong with him? >> i say tase him and vote him out. >> he said it's too complicated for women to learn how to park in those spots so it's just for men. >> too many difficult angles and cement pillars in garages. >> they say the spaces for women are wider, well-lit and closer to the exit.

>> stop laughing. >> you guys think that's funny? >> you did research on this topic. chuck, uf said this was informed by what wi, again? >> the whole women can't drive thing, you know where that came from? >> where? >> science. >> when y'all get mad, make sure you get the right black guy. that one. >> it's all scientific. >> serious research went into that. >> and what does science say, professor? >> it says that i am a dummy because i can't believe i just said that. >> we can't believe it either. >> they have these cars now that will do it for you. >> you just push a button and it will parallel park for you. >> i've seen people have such a hard time in those parking spaces that you start to panic. will you sweat like crazy.

you pretend something's wrong with the car. you just get out of there as fast as you can. pf. >> i do have trouble parallel parking, i'll admit. i'm not great at it. what? i'm not good at it. can you parallel park well? >> i learned -- the problem is people don't pull up to the perfect spot. there is a spot you've got to pull up on your own car and then -- >> i don't like when you're that close to the other car. >> they've got the beep, beep, beep on both ends. if you can't do that, how can you host a magnificent television show like this every day? >> i can't get my chair down. >> the trouble is we have rear-ends. that's why women cannot get out of these chairs. are you sunk in there? >> i couldn't breathe. i was getting swallowed. your good buddy cheyenne -- >> he let us know he started writing songs. you know him from tv's "30 rock" and terrific star of broadway. today he's releasing his brand-new single which he wrote. i love this song titled "before you."

sounds like michael buble-ish and also jason mraz. the entire video is available on aol's music home. i want you to see a little of his video. ♪ there had to be a way for me to find a sunny day ♪ ♪ and now you made me want to sing ♪ ♪ i was lost in my head ♪ trying to forget ♪ before you ♪ i never really had a chance ♪ before you ♪ i never had a reason to dance ♪ >> isn't that great? >> cute. >> he is cute. >> he said we could show it only if we promised to let him come back and sing it in the studio for us live. >> maybe he could play christian grey. . >> cheyenne would be a great christian grey. >> a little cheyenne jackson.

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answers. first of all, i think we should bust some of the myths we know about men. we spent 50 years busting myths about women. let's bust some myths about men. one of them is that i think men are more romantic than women are. they fall in love faster than women do. they are more visual. >> they are more visual. but is that falling in love or falling in lust? >> it's falling in love. we put them in a brain scanner and studied the brain circuits. it is falling in love. >> how long does that last? >> overnight. >> men are 2 1/2 more likely to kill themselves when a relationship is over. not only do they fall in love, they also want to do more kissing in public because it's called mate guarding. they want to show everybody this is theirs. they want to move in sooner. >> really? >> they want to introduce the person -- >> they want somebody to do their laundry. >> and they have more intimate conversations with their wives and lovers than they do with their friends. women have more intimate conversations with their girlfriends. we don't share as much with our men. >> let's look at photos. this kind of depicts what you're

talking about. the first picture is two women talking face-to-face. this is how women discuss. they look at each other in the eye. >> we swivel face-to-face and we do what's called the anchoring gaze and we talk. i think it comes from millions of years of holding that baby if front of your face, cajoling it, educating it with words. >> let's look at two men. maybe not. there they are. >> side by side. as soon as the guy on the right looks up, the guy on the left will look away. i think it comes from years and years of sitting behind that bush on the grasslands of africa trying to hit that buffalo in the head with a rock. you can't talk to your neighbor while you're doing it. look at the third picture. >> it's interesting talking to a man. it's fun when you're walking they reveal more because they are not looking at you. >> absolutely. if you want to have a real conversation with a man, do it while he's driving a car. he can't go. you're side by side, you're not looking at him. >> i love it. >> the third picture is a man

and a woman. let's check this out. >> that's the point. >> she's all wrapped up in him. >> wouldn't you say she's more romantic? >> no, no, no. she is trying to reach him and he is feeling invaded. he is trying to reach her. he's talking as if she's sitting next to him, they're looking forward together. that's the way men can talk. >> tell us about us. we took a quiz that would tell us about our personalities. we don't know the answers. >> it's a questionnaire i did, 10 million people have taken it in 40 countries. i'm measuring the traits linked with four brain systems, the dope mean, serotonin, estrogen and testosterone. >> what did you learn about us? >> very high estrogen and very low testosterone. >> because i'm post-menopausal. >> the brain is built in the womb. as estrogen is washing over the fetal brain it's building more

connections between the fofrpt fro front and the back, between the two sides, giving you both your verbal skills. >> it asks about empathy. >> without empathy, you won't be able to do your job. you have a tremendous amount of it. that's estrogen related. and i'm not surprised you can't park your car, you were both very low on the testosterone scale. >> then why do i have so much facial hair? >> you're a girl. face it. will >> you're a lot of fun. thank you for coming. we'll find out if our guys agree with this. do they? >> i don't know. they're going to give us advice or whatever they call it, for all the ladies out there. and, after taking 5-hour energy, i feel more energized. i have more energy. you know, i'm not tired anymore after taking it. i was skeptical but i decided one day i'd try it. 5-hour energy works fast. i have the energy to get through a meeting, to get through a workout.

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it is time for our guys tell-all panel. answer to your burning questions about your man. first up from our sister channel bravo and he's never been married.

>> next is our comic chuck nice, star of tv's "world's dumbest." he's been married for fraenl years and two children. >> actor and weight watchers blogger. >> what? >> every week it's something new. >> married with a toddler son. >> last but not least, former "bachelor" star bob ginney is the host of hgtv's "showdown." he's been married. but fortunes have changed. >> this is a setup for the guy, he's been married a lot. >> sara, first question. >> allison from rhode island has a dating question. >> hello, gentlemen. i would like to know when you ask me out on a date i have to plan said date. >> ooh, that's a good one. >> said date? >> because i'm working. >> she may be working, too.

>> here's the thing. that is me being very considerate of you. i'm going to do what you want me to do as opposed to what i want to do, which is probably not go anywhere and spend money on you. >> exactly. >> also, guys do not like to be wrong. we took enough of a chance to ask you out. we took the chance you were going to say no. we're like, don't mess this up anymore. >> plus, i will say this, too. i will will eat anything, clearly, anywhere, and women have a more particular diet, let's say. if they only like a certain type of food, we'll go with it. >> all right. let's go one more to sara. >> hi, gentlemen. i'd like to know why do guys walk like a mile in front of you instead of right beside you? >> where are you at, dubai? >> that guy might be trying to get away. >> he has a lead on you.

you better pick up the pace. >> we've got places to go. we are doing things. let's get it done. >> honestly, if you notice, we do the same thing with our children. if you ever see women walk with their kids, they're like, come on, come on. guys are like, befowhere's your? i don't care! >> it's also because i'm texting my other girlfriend at the time. >> those kind of jokes don't go over well. >> sorry, sorry. >> good for you. >> maybe it's not a joke. >> we'll come back with more of our guys panel. >> and is your man an oscar or a felix? but first your local news. of aleve in liquid gels.

♪ walk like a man ♪ talk like a man and we're back on this wines-day wednesday with a special edition of "today." you can't do a guys show without the guys tell-all panel. >> our resident guys are ryan,

married guys chuck and rick and now-single bob. >> divorced! >> oh, my gosh. >> let's pick up with our next question. >> jenny from florida has a mom question. >> hi, gentlemen. why do men compare the women in their lives to their mothers? >> she is the first woman we ever meet. >> it's a great love affair. >> even when you're not trying to, there are things about your mother -- i find myself there's so much my wife and my mother have in common. >> but you love your mother. >> i love my mother. >> she's your first love so you're always comparing, do you do things like her that are good or do things like her that are bad? >> that's why i love myself. i am just like my mother. >> you are sick. >> that was just weird. >> katie says, what if a guy asks you out but you're actually interested in his friend? >> i have a thought on this. chuck and i have been friends for a long time so if a girl -- >> and that's why his wife left

him. >> and she left me for chuck. i think it works on who the friend is. if it's chuck and i, let's say, and chuck asks a girl out and she's more interested in me, go for it. definitely date me. if i ask you out and you're interested in chuck, don't do that. >> that happened to me though. a girl comes up to me at the bar and she got me drunk. she gave me a lot of drinks, then got me to give her my friend's number. that's how she did it. that's how i figured it out at the end. >> were you brokenhearted? >> sort of. >> did you feel used and abused? >> no. because i found somebody else. >> and you got free drinks. >> right. >> she bought you drinks all night? >> don't go for the guy you don't want especially if he's hanging around a guy you like. >> that doesn't make sense. >> let's go back across to sara. >> alana from texas has a question about vacations. >> so we are on vacation. girls are on vacation. wives are on vacation. we've left you in charge.

why do you feel the need to micromanage -- or have us micromanage, texting and calling and asking us the schedule when we're on vacation. it's your job. >> let them go on vacation. >> i didn't understand a word -- i didn't -- what the heck are you talking about? >> what is happening is they're on vacation and the hugsbands ae calling finding out how to do stuff. >> you understood that? >> where and when and what to take and where is the ballet bag? >> i'm actually glad when my wife goes and leaves me with my son. okay, now we're going to do things my way. tell him, hey, now is your chance to do things your way and leave me alone. >> that's good. >> it should make you feel good, though, because he likes being told what to do and he listens to you. so even on vacation you've got to tell him, make sure you text whoever he needs you to text. >> why aren't they vacationing as a family? >> that was my first thing. >> sometimes you need a

all-girls vacation. >> i'm concerned about the breakdown of the american home! >> back to bob. >> should i ever approach a guy or should i wait for him to approach me? >> approach, for sure. >> approach. >> you all say that. wow. >> for sure. >> i'm here with kathleen from oregon with a question about fashion. >> i'm wondering where most men get their fashion sense from. >> or lack of? >> from you. >> that's what she's really saying. >> i think that it comes from your father. >> i do not dress like my dad. >> i don't dress like my father because my father eventually became a cowboy. he used to wear all black, looked like a black johnny cash and everything. but he was stylish for what he likes so i kind of got an appreciation for at least trying to look a certain way. >> you've got the black vest thing going. >> i'm urban cowboy. i take it to the next level. >> i think you get it from your friends. you are what your associations are. >> i have always enjoyed dressing up in men's, women's, all kind of clothing for me.

i don't care. as long as i look good. i don't judge. >> he loves capes and cloaks. >> i think you get it from the women in your life, too. i know i do. >> that's a big thing. i'll tell you when i really first started trying to be fashionable, i had a girlfriend who said, you need to be more fashionable. and that did it. >> thanks so much. >> you'll stay with us for the rest of the show and comment, right? >> of course you are. things are going to get pretty messy coming up. because sara is going to show us how guys live. >> and it ain't pretty. little bit of swine flu coming up. but first these messages.