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a father figure that isery hard. do you understand that? >> i understand plenty. >> why haven't you tried harder? i'm supposed to be your first and only daughter. why haven't you tried harder? >> other things, things that you would not understand. >> make me understand. i thought family was important. >> i tried to make you understand but you did not want to -- i don't care about this crying and all that. this is real... >> i know tt is why i want to find out the truth. because you have been having a guilty conscious. >> i mistreated you. i tried to explain to her about the situation. >> what was the situation? >> when i'm talking she want to interrupt me. that is what makes me mad. >> i feel passionate about this. have is you don't shut up and listen when i'm talking. i'm the adult you was a child. you don't know more than me.
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i'm trying to teach you something. >> how are you trying to teach me? you have not been there. how am i going to listen to somebody who is supposed to be my father who is notcting like one. how many birthdays, how many performances, graduations? how much stuff do you know about me. >> the lifestyle i live caused me to be in and out of jail. the brief moments i was out of jail -- >> kirk: but that can not be her fault. >> exactly. >> kirk: she should not have to suffer for that. >> ok, the person who -- kirk: how -- [all talking at once] >> she livedh me at 16 i tried to makeup for it. >> kirk: so there was 14 years that you were not there. >> i was there in her early childhood but her mother took her away from me for three years. >> two years?
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then you was in and out of prison. >> she was two and h mother took her i did not know where she was at. >> kirk: did you try to look her up? >> i tried but i had no luck. and the next time she was fivep i just got out of jail. i tried to tell her mother, i know whatever our pas was let's make it right and start over. her mother told me she did not know. i wasn't going to sit around and wait. and at the same time, i had to get on my feet and do what i had to do so i could be there for r and then i got caught up again. she don't know because her mother has not been telling her the truth. >> kirk: brittany your mom is here. d crisetta admits she told damien tha brittany may not be his before she was born. come on outcries countries. [applause] come out, crisetta. >> you have been listening?
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>> yes. and i want to say thatrittany is right. now, you want to say that oh, i took her away? did you tell her why? i ran off for three years? >> yes, i could tell her why. >> kirk: tell me why. >> i could tell you why. because i know what she is going to say. because she tried to -- spit on my daughter. my baby is sitting on my lap and she spit trying tot on me and she would have spit on me. >>ete explain something. >> and you spit on her that is why. and the reason why she did that is because she was mad because i didn't want to mess with her no more. >> kirk: wait. >> can she speak. kirk: i want to know because she tried to spit on you is why you kicked her out? >> now, she is right. i did spit because let me tell you that is disrespectful first of all. i know that. i was only 15 or6 years old but he was trying to be a bully and tell me that i'm going to
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take your daughter anywhere i want to. >> kirk: were you a bully? >> no. this is what happened. >> kirk: did he beat you up? >> he did sp me. >> hell, no. >> exactly. >> and you spit on me. you said that. >> but it go back before that. i live 80 miles away. i tell her i'm on my way to pick her up. and when i get there and as soon as i pick brittany up and grab her bag she kicked me. and then i walked out. >> everybody has theirwn story. but the bottom line is i'm here to get the truth today. and that does not makeup for you not being a father that you are supposed to be. >> whatever. whatever. whatever. >> whatever that is the attitude. whatever. >> kirk: we are here for the truth. th is the -- we're here for that. crisetta what took you so long to tell her there might be another father since today is the truth day?
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>> it didn't just happen like that. he knows too that we i mentied to him maybe when she was firstborn. >> you did not mention nothing to me. your mama called me and told me. >> your daughter did not know until she was 18. >> because we tried to sweep it under the rug. >> kirk: why would you do that? >> maybe it could have happened it was one time that i messed around on hi we were together for three months am i right or wrong? >> yes, you right. did not think as a young ladyd oh, it is a possibility until afterwards. and then it is a possibility that someone else could be the father from the one mistake that i made. and i told him and brought it up. but that doesn't take from the fact -- 18 years later -- >> kirk: you remembered there might be another possibility or did you for when she was born? >> i said it when she was born
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and then -- >> she did not tell me nothing. quit lying to this man. did you not tell me nothing. >> kirk: there is another woman involved in this. we'll meet her next and the mystery man anthony is here. is he brittany's dad? stick around to find out. pplause] [♪] coming up on "the test"... >> all the love and support for you. >> i can't take this right now.
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do you hate your daughter's boyfriend? if you think your daughter's boyfriend is cheating call... [applause] [♪] >> kirk: welcome back to the "the test". before the break we met isetta, who lied about who brittany's father was for 18 years. damien thought he was the dad until two years ago, crisetta admitted there is another man who could be the father. it took 18 years to finly tell
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her. what happened that made you decide? >> i did not know a right time. it was probably mentioned she seen a picture or something. maybe in the 10th grade. >> kirk: did you have your doubts brittany? i did never think that i would hear the news tha damien is possibly not my father. i did not think that was the case. i thought the case was i had a father, he has not been around and i wanted to work on our relationship. >> kirk: are you a little ups at your mother for waiting 18 years to tell you? >> i don't play the blaming game. it's not all on her but they both had doubts because he explained to me as well his not knowing for sure. so she came to me on her own and then he expressed to me you are 18 now, brittany, you can understand being better and he explained to me as well. >> kirk: is it because you had
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doubts that you were not always there that much? >> no, i'm not going to say that. but it's funny how everything is blamed on me but it's her mama fault her mama should have kept it 100 from the day. for her to come out here, i'm not going to try to talk bad about her. but it's just how i feel. and i am going to say what i want to say and i don't care what nobody think. brittany want to protect her, but she is the -- of course i did. >> kirk: but would you like one now? >> i mean i don't know. because she might not want it. because the way i am. you know what i'm saying? >> kirk: can you change? >> why should i have to change? when i say change -- >> this is what i've been dealing with. >> kirk: it's not about -- maybe a compromise. >> and i tried that. >> a father and daughter relationship you should not have to compromise it's unconditional
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love. therefore they don't have to be. m grown now i will be 21 so this is a chapter in my life that i want to grow from. >> if that is how you feel i'm not going to kiss your ash and you know that. do you want to be her father? >> of course i do i went through the life thinking she is my daughter. of course. >> kirk: you went through the life and you saw her 1 times. >> exactly but what i'm saying is i don't know it's just like she is not satisfied and it's like this. i'm not going to cater to that. like my woman, she post on facebook i wish my daddy could love me like... >> why are you mentioning your woman right now? she has nothing to do with this. i don't care aboutr woman your house and her kids. don't have nothing to do with me. >> i tried to get her a part of this. i tried to get her a part of this.
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>> kirk: this is a good time. damien's girlfriend thinks it took crisetta too long to come clean and she is here to confront her about it. >> i'm here to support my man and you came i understand what you are saying. >> why are you speaking to me like this. >> like i said, sweety, first of all -- >> we don't have no issue. >> that is why i'm here. you told my man -- >> your man. [all talking at once] [inaudible] >> kirk: coming up on "the test"... the test results send brittany into an emotional spil.
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>> then is he ready to put a ring on it? >> it is a duck. >> that's tomorrow on "the test." [♪] >> like i said -- >> kirk: one at a time. i decided. you will speak then you will speak and then you will speak. and now you can begin. >> ready for me to go? my thing is i understand exactly where she is coming from as far as him. he could have been a better and when she came into my house i treated her like she o of my own. and i don't understand what you have against me. that is why i'm here. you don'tare about my kids and all that. that is irrelevant.
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but i treated you like you were my own i spent my money on you and everything and when we went to the beach -- i'm not done. anytime i spend my money. i work hard for my m. i don't get a county check. i don't know. and my -- >> you are already attacking me. >> no, i'm not attacking you. you cut me off. what is the problem? you told -- >> i did not ask you to come today. >> you are right. -- [all talking at once] >> iever said i did not like you. >> for a woman to invite me into your house and treat me like one of yours i have respect for you. i never had no issue towards you. i never disrespected you. >> but h told me that you told him that you did not like me. everytime y'all get into he tell me everything tha is going on. so i don't know what he said.
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>> katrina you are aware that they have a relationship that is not close. i'm sure you hear it because you are living in the household with him. >> i talk to damien with him. and i talked to him and i said he is not an affection at person she is your daughter i've done all that. you know that. that is why i am upset i thought me and you were close. i looked at you like a stepdaughter and for him to tl me that you felt like we were being fake that hurt my feelings. that is what i wanted to say. >> i never had a problem with her. for damien to say i dislike her i had no rson to dislike her. >> you said it. >> i love her kids i called them my sisters i bieved that was my family. katrina teaching me how to cook and being there for me. i appreciated that. i appreciated that. she was more of a parent to me than you. she was more there for me than
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you. so i never had a problem with her. i always said thank you. >> the recipe she had the recipe. >> i said i did not feel like talking. i did not feel like talking that was not me being funny or saying i did not like katrina. i did not feel like talking at that particular moment. >> kirk: damien let me say one thing i'm sitting here she is desperate for a relationship with you or at least some truth. >> no, she is not. no, she is not. >> kirk: tell me what you think is it about a recipe? >> it is a lot of stuff. it is a lot of stuff. what i'm saying i that y'all see these tears. >> kir that was not a recipe for parenthood for sure. >> listen, that is right. no, that is right. but like i'm saying she want to cry and all that -- >> kirk: you think the tears are
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fake? >> listen she want to make me look like a bad dud i don't care about all that. if she truly sincerely wanted to do this she would have done this. >> i did it off of tv now i have to do it on tv. >> did she try? >> did she know you were not close and she says she does know about that. >> she tried to do this she did not try too hard. >> we had conversatio conversate house about damien. you know how important that is to have a father figure around. >> i do. and we did try when she came in i know you said you got put out the first time. it was a couple things that you did. >> i remember a boy coming up to the school. it was a few things. >> a person from los angeles came to a performance i was having. what is wrong with that? >> kirk: ware going to meet brittany's other posble dad,
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anthony. we will be right back. [applause] next on "the test"... >> after 18 years did this man just meet his daughter for the first time? >> very heartbreaking for me to know that i possibly could have a child and to miss out on all that time. ordinary rubs don't always work on my arthritis. try capzasin-hp. it penetrates deep to block pain signals for hours of relief. capzasin-hp. take the pain out of arthritis. i get supple. [ male announcer ] new gold bond men's lotion. skin strengthening protns, plus 7 moisturizers. man up. wi. powerful medicine relieves pain fast, with no odor. soll you notice is relie aspercreme.r.
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dung the break bttany g upsethere wasoo much going on up here and sheeeded a will tra her downnd i wil going t fin out who her father really is. [alae] hey, brittany, what happened what is going on? >> i just needed a minute because i'm just really upset right now. i feel like i am up there being attacked like i am the bad guy like i did something wrong. >> kirk: you may feel like you are being attacked but you are standing up for what you believe in. this is a very important day for you. what does it mean to you, today? >> it means everything. it means closure to me. it means that i can finally move on with answe and move on with myife. and feel completed for once and for all. >> kirk: but i tell you one thing as long as you are being honest everyone can attack you but you are still being truthful
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to yourself so it should not matter. i want y to come back out with me and keep being who you are and we are going to find out the truth. all right? i mean are you ready to go out there and meet ahony who might be your potential father? all these years this is why you are here today to find out. do you wanto go? ke a dee bath andet's go backut there >> aer you. >> kirk: very brave this is a big day. [applause] welcome back. listen before i bring out anthony i want everyone out here to know that this is an important day for her. i mean how do you feel about maybe meeting your real father? >> i don't know. i'm just filled with ts of
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emotions right now. >> kk: have met anthony? do you know anthony at all? >> y, i thi metim o time. >> kirk: all right. and we know you've met him. [laughter]all right. now brittany is desperate to find out w her father is. damien is one of her potential fathers and the other is backstage his name is anthony. anthony come on out and join us. [appuse] have you heard what has been going on? >> yes, i have. yes, i have. >> kirk: feelings? >>irst of all i would like to say that it's been a vy difficult situation for me first and foremost. knowing through facebook that it's possible that i have a child. ago?irk: and you learned a year >> just a year ago.
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>> kirk: and today is the first time you are meeting her. >> ever seeing her. >> kirk: and you have a year to make an effort for a visl snitch the effort that i made was contacting her through text. we mutually contacted. but it was still in the back of my mi like what if i went out to meet this young lady and it's still a possibility that am not her dad. i did not want to have mixed confusionn her head after the fact without knong firmly that i co be her father [applause] >> kirk: brittany what do you want to say? >> what if it is a possibility that i am. your daughter? >> well, if possible, the main imrtant thi for her is to get closure and support. i really don't know you, brother but it's my first timruly meeting you. but the main thing she is reaching out for is parenting. d that the botto line of
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anything that happens today is her to get closure and parenting to where this young lady can move on in her life and be the sterson that she can in her life. [applause] >> kirk: a anthony how do you feel about crisetta waiting 18 years? >> i'm disappointed about that. you know i mean -- >> kirk: you last you lost 18 years. >> a lot of time. a lot of time. i am a single person. i am a road manager so i am in and out of states. >> kirk: do you have children? >> i don't have any kids so it's heartbreaking to know that i possibly could have a child and to miss out on all that time. it hurts deeply. say if i am her d tod i'mide to here to take care of that responlity [applause] [cheering] >> kirk: now, crisetta, if ony turns out to be her
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father, what then? some changes for you? an apology to everyone involved? >> of course, an apology. >> kirk: regrouping? >> yes. i think we all need to sown and tk. >> kirk: is there anything that you want to say to anthony right now? >> i do apologize because i mean this is years later that you are finding this out. and that is not fair. it's not fair to anybody that is sitting here. i just like i said supporting brittany in thishole thing so she can find out who her real father is. >> kirk: all right. the result of brittany's dna test isext. you don't want to miss this. we will be rightack. next on "the test"... >> the test puts an end t a dna mystery. damien.. th dna results show tt you.
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>> kirk: welcome back to the "the test". a few years ago brittany found out that the man she called dad may not be her real dad. well, before we get to the results, a lot of people up here, damien, how are you feeling right now? >> it's upsetting because now that i see it's really a possibility that i might not be her dad. but like i was going to say is that if it comes that i am, then if she is willing to wor on this, then i will. [applause] [cheering] >> kirk: because we heard anthony spoke from his heart. he knows it's about parenting and maybe you realize that now as well. >> well, no, the thing is that i've beensing kids.
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my girlfriend's kids. >> kirk: but you have not been raising this child. >> like i said, the situation the way it happened i wis i could have been a different way but it happened that way. i can't change -- >> if i am your daughter. >> first of all we have to sit and talk and whatever i did wrong you got to forgive me. that is the first thing. [applause] if you don't forgive me this is not going to workout. >> kirk: let's find out. whoever is the father, it starts today. everything that everything that has happened in the past we cannot have now with that. whoever we are right now she needs things clearly you need some things. if you are the father, you will meet in the middle. at least start talking with each other and not at each other. >> you are right. [applause] [♪]
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>> kirk: damian... the dna results show that you... are not the father. [applause] [cheering] wait. wait. brittany, britty stick around this is why you are here. brittany. brittany. come on. is this why you are here today. come in. brittany it's why you're here. these tears are important. it's all right. this will show you strength. >> brittany. >> i am he upset. >> no violence.
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>> calm down brittany. calm down. calm down. >> i kno you can. i know you can. [screaming] >> stop! stop! stop! her.irk: this is a big deal for take some breaths. this is why you are here. just breathe this is where it all starts today. this is the new day. all right when we come back we are going to find out if anthony is brittany's biological father. we'll be right back. [applause] [♪] next on "the test"... the test results are in. but dot answers give brittany the closure she so desperately
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>> your answer? >> no. >> no. no. no. >> you've never cheated? >> no one is getting away with anything. >> no, you don't tell me to shh. >> there's never been no prostitute. >> and n one does it better. >> liars, thieves and no good bad cheaters to the test. i'm being honest with you. >> no, you're not. >> all new on "the test." [applause] >> kirk: welcome back to the "the test". before the break, brittany learned that the man that she thought was her father for 18 years damien was in fact not her biological father. and damien how do you feel right now? >> my emotions are like mixed because in a way, i always doubted it. always doubted it.
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but sometimes i just didn't want to believe it. and just toee how she reacted that i not her father show how much she love me. you know. [applause] and that's what got me hurt because now it's like now i mean if her mother lying, man. >> kirk: but damien what this should tell you is how much she does love you. even though you are not the biological father, you should definitely be a part of this young lady's life. crisetta, do you see what lying did? you knew. are there any other possibilities besides anthony? >> no. >> kirk: i mean are you sure? >> yes, i'm positive. >> kirk: i mean now suddenly you are positive. for years. >> you wasn't positive then.
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>> kirk: all right. well -- >> i was young back then, too, i'm not saying it is an excuse but -- >> kirk: listen we were all young back then. >> that is whe i lied and i decided as a more mature woman to come out. >> kirk: it shouldn't have taken 18 years. >> it wasn't just on me. we all could have pushed the fact to get it. wasn't just on me to take a test. if he had a doubt he could have said let's come together and get a test done. >> kirk: actually a the mother, you knew. >> i put it -- >> kirk: he had doubts. >> you knew though so that is the thing. you should have saidometng. that what i'm saying now. you got her like this and you could have -- >> kirk: let's move on. are you ready to find out if anthony is your real father? >> yes.
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>> kirk: how do y feel right how now? >> i'm very torn. torn. like you said, it leads back to crisetta. at the end of the day, you slept with two guys. you know, to be young, we were that is understandable. but it's like you said, over the course of time, that length of time, somebody should have woke enup in their mind and said,ey let's get on the right track. >> it's three adults here. >> kirk: the time has come and i will wake somebody up right now. >> no doubt. >> kirk: anthony thena results showed that... you are brittany's father. [applause] [cheering]
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he seems like a good man. [cheerg] >> kirk: brittany what does it mean to finally know who your father is? and anthony you have a beautiful young daughter, smart, a fighter. you are lucky. ian tel you from here what you've been missing is all right here love. [applause] i might not have much but i will give you my last. [applause] i have the biggest heart in the
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world and you can have it. i have all the love and support for you. whatever you don't have myeart will provide that for you. [applause] [cheering] sorry daddy took so long. >> kirk: you don't have to olize when it was time it was time. i mean, i think you realize there is a special man there. i think you were built to have a child. [applause] brittany how are you feeling? >> i'm just torn right now. i'm just torn into pieces. >> kirk: but you maybe torn into pieces but you have someone here that will help you glue them
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back together. [applause]r sure. all right we are going to go to break and when we come back we family goes from here.where this we will be right back. [applause] [♪] people across americare experiencing the amazing shine of finish quantum, voting it product of the year, better homes and garn's bestne and now it has the good housekeeping seal, giving finish qutum more hono. finish quantum delivers amazing clean and shine, which cascade actionpacs just c't d take the finish shine challenge and see what it can do f you.
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>> kirk: well, this was a special day. i think we all learned something today. that strength that it takes to admit things. it's tricky. how are you guys going to start? umaybe baby steps? >> i am in the entertainment field so i'm constantly traveling. but you know i would put my best foot forward to visit or send her to comeee me.
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[applae] >> kirk: how do you feel? >> the news was a bit overwhelming. >> kirk: but you came back out here that shows strength. >> yea i came for the truth. that is why i brought everybody here today. so this is definitely, alosure and i can move forward with my life. with the answers that i was looking for. and everything is making sense now. so i feel a lot better. it's not going to be easy. this journey was really hard for me. but i'm glad i am able to tal abt it now. >> kirk: and i think everything else was difficult. i think now it is easy. because now youre surrounded by love. all right. [applause] check out what is hpening next time on "the test"... >> coming up tomrow on "the test". >> i deserve you to be able to walk with way from me a my kids. >> healked o.
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thank you so much for watching. thank y studio audience for ing here. okay. i'm doing great. jessica simpson is banning her father from her own wedding. i totally agree and we'll talk. justin bieber got caught in a compromising position and sharon osbournes lashing ou at the dies of "the view." let's talk abouit and mor it's timeor "ot topics." [ chring ] thank you. have a seat. are ere a lot of schoolteachers from new jersey in the audnce today? yeah. it's teachers convention weekend. they're really supposed to be in atntic city leaingnew skills. i will imagine you'll be going
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there right aft our show is going. shout out to all the teachers. with no school for the kids today, last night we had the hang t of all hang outs. all right, i said you can invite a few people over. next thing you know there were about 25 people on the house. take a look at their shoes on the floor. i said, okay, but everybody has to be out by 10:30 because i still have to work. they were gone by 10:45 and then i settled wn tonightly tv. when you have all the kids in the house, there's no watcng tv. you're on patrol in a big robe and a long win. when iot to my room to relax i caught up with a show i never watch before on oxygen, "the preachers of l.a." oh my gosh i die. i caught it in a marathon. it was on until like 3:00 in the morning. i had to will myself to turn off the tv and get ready for work
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this mornin but i like that show "preachers of l.a." hey, oxygen, can you make a marathon on a saturday or a sunday, during the day where it's more connient for;- d us watch? thanks,.d and at commercial time i went over to the arsenio hall show,5o whm,[a÷ i wasaf= watching the preacher. and the+z dies of "the talk" lashing out against the ladies of "the view." really there was onlysrá one la lashing out.ñgfc the osbourne. look. i can't very fi this, but it looked lie drinking was involved. take a look, and then we'll talk. [ bleep ] [ cheering ] >> why don't you say it. >> the situation is, barbara,
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idoli her divine. he is super human. love rbara walters. the rest can go [ bleep ] themsees. >> first of ll, i was so distracted by the "let's make a deal" drapes in the background. arsenio, what a set. but, you know what, sharon, you are so tacky and wrong. why would you say that about the ladies, the rest of them. i don't know. are you team son on this do you feel that when asked about peers that do the same ting as you do? i'm from new jersey and i admit i have a lot of tacky in me. but there's one cardinal rule that i set for myself. so how do why do you think it is your show has losted so long, wendy? what is your secret that you have
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