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stay updated on the situation, and count on nbc 10 and first alert weather to get the updates using our app for standard mortality table phones and tablets, and my first alert storm forecast happens tonight at nbc 10 news at 11:00. now back to "dateline" already in progress. od. >> and watch this together. >> on the edge of your seat, right? >> i really am. >> these teenagers could teach us all something. >> don't touch her! what is wrong with you? >> "dateline's" "my kid would never do that." >> good evening. i'm natalie morales. see something, say something. how often do we follow it? it has to be difficult for teens especially if it involves other kids and sex. tonight, with their parents observing from inside our watch mobile, we put teens to the test. will they say something?
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would your teen? >> it's a topic many of us parents would rather avoid. >> not really something that we talk about. >> i haven't talked to him that much about that kind of thing. >> it's uncomfortable talking about sex. >> i never spoke to him about sex. >> you haven't talked to him about sex? because now is the time. >> now is the time i know. >> we often don't know where to begin. tonight we're going to help get the conversation started. >> it's not just the one big sex talk. it can be lots of little talks that you're having with your kids. >> and it's not about the birds and the bees. we're addressing some of the very real and sometimes dangerous things teens are confronted with today, from what goes on, online. >> are you going to post it? >> should i? >> to what can happen when you combine teens, drinking and sex and even what to do if you think someone is being sexually
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assaulted. >> we can't ignore these topics. we can't ignore the specifics. >> mike damish, founder of date safe, anti-sexual assault association, is on a mission to change the culture around teens and sex and make it easier for young people to do the right thing. and he's going to show us how tonight. >> may i kiss you? >> build that tool box up so when the right moment at right time when they need it, they can pull the exact skill set they need out to use it for their own life or to help another person. >> these days for many teens one of their first exposures to sex comes from their smart phone, which can lead to all kinds of trouble. kids sharing racy photos online is a growing problem that's all over the news. >> it's the epicenter. >> just a few months ago at a high school outside of philadelphia, nude photos of girls were posted without their permission for the entire school to see.
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>> it's wrong on every level. it's privacy. it's respect. >> in some instances, kids faced criminal charges and fallout for victims can be devastating. from cyber bullying to a ruined reputation, to even suicide. for our first test, we wanted to see what teens would do when they witness a guy claiming he plans to post an inappropriate photo of a girl -- >> oh, my god! >> -- without her knowledge. to help create a realistic setting we rented this party space in new jersey, complete with card tables, darts, pool table and hidden cameras. we mixed in actors and other kids to fill the room and invited teens to what they think is a taste test of energy drinks. their parents know the real reason they're here agree to bring them because they believe there are important lessons to be learned.
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the first teen who has to figure out what to do will be 15-year-old chelsea. she has been dropped off at our party space ready for the taste test. she doesn't know her mom is outside in our secret command center, traveling watch mobile outfitted with monitors hooked up to hidden accuracy, so she can see chelsea's every move. tell me about your relationship with your daughter. >> we have a very open relationship. she's very mature for her age. >> she says chelsea, an only child, would never post racy pictures of herself and she would stop someone she knows from doing it. but at this party, she is meeting everyone for the first time. >> how do you think your daughter will react in that situation? >> i'm not quite sure she's going to say how inappropriate it is for him to do that in the sense that she doesn't know this individual. >> are you ready to see how she does? >> yes. >> maybe she'll prove you wrong. >> i would hope she would. >> yes, sit there. >> chelsea is called over to the
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lounge area to begin the taste test. >> i think we're supposed to start, yes. >> she doesn't know that these three are actors and the girl next to her is in on it, too. >> ew. >> gross. >> ready for b? >> yeah. >> chelsea seems relaxed, happily fitting in with the group as they sip the drinks. then our actress, playing the victim, starts to complain the room is too hot. >> these lights are like ridiculously hot. >> are they? >> yes. >> very sweaty. >> she says she wants to change her shirt. >> i'll be right back. i'm just going to use the bathroom and get more comfortable. i'm like sweating. >> that's when our actor goes to work. >> that girl is so hot. >> he tells the group he's going to go sneak a pic of our actress. of course, he won't really take a photo. >> i want to get a picture of her, send it to my friends. be right back.
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>> chelsea seems unsure of what she just heard. >> for a second, she looked at the girl and i think she just kind of dismissed whatever the conversation was. >> oh, my god. >> what happened? >> but that all changes when our actor comes back and shows our accomplice what he says is a topless photo. >> the door was open a crack and she had her shirt off and i -- i'm going to put it on instagram. >> look at her face. >> uh-huh. >> now chelsea has no doubt about what happened. >> you're -- oh, my god! that is amazing. >> so will she do anything to stop him from posting the racy photo online. >> wait, i'm confused. what did you do? >> she's not even wearing a bra. >> no, she's not. >> it's a tough spot for any teen to be in. and for any parent to watch. coming up, what will chelsea do? >> she wants to say something.
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teens say it happens all the time. naked pictures shared online without the person knowing it. it's so common that in a recent survey a third of teen boys reported they've seen nude or semi nude photos of others that were shared without permission. what will 15-year-old chelsea do in this tricky situation? her mom, who is outside in our watch mobile said her confident,
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outspoken girl is having a tough time knowing what to do. >> it's bothersome to her. >> yeah. >> remember, our actress left to change her shirt. >> i'm like sweating. >> what happened? >> and our actor said he took a topless photo of her. >> the door was open a crack and she had her shirt off. >> now he says he's going to post it online. >> look at her face. >> uh-huh. >> i have to send it. i'm going to put it on instagram instagram. >> will she try to stop him? >> that's mazing. >> wait. i'm confused. what did you do? >> she starts to challenge him. >> wait. what are you doing? >> don't worry about it. >> chelsea looks upset and turns for help from the girl sitting next to her. but she's in on it, too, and we told her to stay silent. >> don't worry about it. okay. so, e. did you wait for me? >> look at her whole body and everything.
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she wants to say something. she's just not sure like -- >> uh-huh. >> -- what to do with this. >> when our actress playing the unsuspecting victim comes back -- >> feel like 100 times better. >> it's another chance for chelsea to try to fix this bad situation. >> you look really good in that tank top, by the way. >> thank you. >> chelsea looks uncomfortable. her whole demeanor has changed. but she says nothing. >> come with me. come with me. >> then both boys leave and chelsea finally works up the courage to speak up. >> probably wasn't the best move to take your sweatshirt off. >> why? >> it looks like she's going to tell her about the picture. but then -- >> i don't know. they're like weird. >> it's not what her mother had hoped. but she understands why. >> it's eating at her. >> exactly. she's probably more -- i really think i should have said something but i'm not quite sure because i just don't know the
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people. >> all right. i'm going to go in and talk to them. >> okay. >> how are you guys? are you liking the drinks? are they good? let's find out what chelsea was thinking. you're not actually here for the taste test. we wanted to see how you would react in a situation where you faced a pretty difficult challenge sbl challenge. >> me? >> yeah. >> just me? >> just you. >> they know, too? >> what were you feeling? >> i wanted to say something. i was going to go to her privately. i didn't want to make any tension. i was going to go to her privately when we were done with everything. i don't know. >> do you worry about what people say about you if you speak up in a situation? >> i'm not really the type. what are you doing on your phone but then not really knowing them, i think that made it awkward as well. >> chelsea says she knows what's at stake. >> things could be said about her. she would have no idea of what's even going on and that's not fair to her. >> i think your mom is here. >> oh, gosh.
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>> time to bring in mom. >> oh, boy. that was tough, huh? >> that was. and i'm pretty vocal about stuff, too. >> yes, you are. >> her mom acknowledges chelsea did look for help but got no support. >> and i thought it was interesting watching you look to her as well. >> i know. i was like, please say something. we could go together. >> this is one of the things that a lot of parents fail to discuss. they don't discuss intervention. if you see somebody do something wrong, step in. it's such a blanket statement. >> our expert, mike damish, says if you want your kids to do the right thing, be more specific. the best way to do that is through role playing. >> ask your child, what do you think you would say in this moment? if your child was like, i don't know, i would just handle it. be like, no, what would you precisely say? keep role playing all the situations so they gain the skill set for themselves. >> for this test, chelsea had to go it alone. in this next group, three teens
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will be put to the test. will being in a group make it easier to step in? michaelle is 16, zoe is 15 and kayla is 15. all their moms say they tell them to be careful when it comes to posting anything online. >> i talk to her about that often. >> and michaelle's mom says her daughter is the nurturing type. >> do you think she would feel protective of others if they were in a situation -- >> i would like to say yes. her friends always call her the mom. >> the vice president of the teen board of mothers against drunk driving, a role that has made her very aware of social pressures facing teens. >> when she sees things on social media that make her uncomfortable she would tell me or speak to her friends about it. >> in this scenario, your prediction is what? >> she is going to speak up and
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try to intervene. >> kayla's mom says she was born with a strong moral compass. >> she has a very good sense of morality. >> what do you predict she'll do? >> i don't know if she would do it on her own but i think in a group that she would try to do something to intervene. >> power in numbers maybe, right? >> i think so, yeah. >> girl power. >> i think so, yeah. >> are you ready to see how they do? will they work as a group to shut our actor down as our mothers predict? >> i'm going to go back and take a picture of her. >> or let him get away with it? >> she wasn't even wearing a bra, dude. coming up, will the power of peer pressure help or hurt when it comes to doing the right thing? >> they don't know what to do. >> yeah. >> when "dateline" continues. what happened to your hair? i got it. walgreens has all you need to keep it all under control. from a little touch-up... come on, guys!
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space about to find out what they predict their girls will try to shut him down.
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>> i'm interested to see what she'll do. >> i like it. >> yeah, i like it. >> after a few minutes into the taste test. >> i am so sweaty. >> our actress gets up to change her shirt. >> i'm just going to change so quickly. >> i'm going to take a picture of her real quick. >> the girls don't seem bothered when he leaves to take her photo. >> why is everyone leaving? >> but watch what happens when he comes back and pretends to show the picture to our accomplice. >> she wasn't even wearing a bra, dude. >> oh, look at that reaction. >> are you going to post it? >> should i? >> kayla immediately reacts. >> no. >> no. >> no. >> and when our accomplice says he wants the picture. >> send it to me. >> no, no, no. >> kayla gets up and reaches for his phone. >> don't. >> don't worry about it. it's fine. >> she reaches again. >> anything. don't worry. >> she tries a third time. >> whoa, okay, okay, okay. >> delete it. >> even though her mom thought
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she would step in, this assertiveness is a side of kayla she's never seen. >> i'm surprised she's being so direct, honestly. >> delete it. no. >> since kayla is unable to take away the phone, all three girls tell him to delete the photo. >> delete it. >> i'm not going to show anybody. >> it doesn't matter if you don't show anyone. >> i say we delete it. >> they're confronting him. that's good. >> but they're not done. will they tell our actress, playing the victim, about the photo? >> i think zoe looks like she's bothered by this whole thing. >> they got very quiet. >> yeah. >> i feel so much better. >> when our actress comes back, the three girls look uncomfortable. >> they're not telling her anything. >> they don't know what to do. >> zoe whispers to kayla, they need to do something. >> like find a way to get his phone. >> then michaelle joins in. >> how do you tell her?
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i've never been put in this situation. >> they're discuss whag to do maybe. >> zoe hatches a plan. >> did you change in the bathroom? >> yeah. >> can you show me where it is? >> sure. >> zoe and kayla lead our victim out of the room. >> i'm going to show them the bathroom. >> to have a private chat. >> he said he took a picture of you like changing. >> he said he took a picture of me? >> and then that other kid was like oh, she's not wearing a bra. >> what? >> then they devise a clever way to make sure the picture has been deleted. they don't know a racy photo was never taken. >> let's take a selfie and take his phone and delete the picture. >> if this had been real, their quick thinking could have made a difference. >> they made a plan. >> they did. >> i like that. banded together. strength in numbers. >> yeah. >> right? >> their proud mothers can't stop smiling. >> go, girls. yeah! >> hi, guys. >> i head in to tell them what's really going on. actually you're not here for a taste test. we're doing a show on when kids
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experience or witness some inappropriate behavior. >> oh, my god. >> something that makes you feel uncomfortable, to see how you would all react. >> wait, are you kid -- >> yeah. and i could see -- your parents actually were with me. we were watching. we have hidden cameras all around. we could hear you guys. what were you all thinking when this scenario was unfolding? >> awkward. you see all these stories about celebrities leaking like photos and even in your schools and stuff. >> it's a huge invasion of your privacy and really inappropriate and not okay. and i just -- i don't know. it just got me really angry. i have a hard time like holding back. >> their moms can't wait to congratulate them. now we're going to raise the stakes even higher and tackle a more difficult topic. sexual assault. >> in the u.s. alone, there are over 800 instances per day. >> from rain, the nation's
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largest anti-sexual assault organization. >> this is an issue that's affecting young people. we're seeing almost half of all victims are under the age of 18. >> kate recommends parents use what's happening in the news or on tv shows to get the conversation started. and parents need to know that many cases involve alcohol. >> we have a real opportunity here to raise teen that is not only feel comfortable talking about sexual assault but know how to step in or say something or be able to support a friend. >> as we all know, it's often hard to step in. 17-year-old corban and 13-year-old christian are about to find out just how hard. they, too, think they're here to taste test energy drinks. >> i would give it a 3. >> what would they do if they see a girl they think has had too much to drink? >> i've just been drinking all day. >> are you drunk right now? >> nochlt yeah, completely. >> and a guy looks like he's trying to take advantage of her. >> stop touching me.
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>> i'm just being friendly. >> while they hang out inside, outside their moms hop into the watch mobile and tell me a bit about their sons. they've agreed to participate because they feel this is such an important topic to cover with their boys. >> is he an outspoken young man? >> corban is the one that's going to hang in the back and check out the environment, see what the folks are like before he makes a move. >> just recently started dating. >> we talked about being in a relationship, being responsible. >> what do you think your son will do? >> i think he will say something. it will be awkward for him. it's going to be hard. but i think he'll say something. >> christian's mom is also hopeful he'll try to stop the aggressor, even though he's younger than the others. >> he's the shy kid in most situations. i mean, when we have parent/teacher conferences they always say let me start off by saying he is the sweetest kid. not so quiet at home, but -- >> as the difficult test begins,
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>> we're tackling the uncomfortable but important topic of teens drinking and sex. >> do you know what goes good with grapefruit juice? >> what? >> vodka. >> this is not a test about stopping underage drinking. it's about stepping in when you think someone is in danger of being sexually assaulted. about to be test rd 17-year-old corban and 14-year-old christian. their moms predict they will do something to help this girl who will appear to be the victim of unwanted sexual advances. >> stop touching me. >> interesting watching your kids, right?
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>> yeah. >> it's like piereering into their minds. >> this actress is just pretending to be drunk. >> cheers! >> and our actor is pretending he's going to take advantage of her, plying her with what looks like more and more alcohol. >> drink it, drink it, drink it. drink it quickly. >> we set up this scenario to mimic what often happens in real life. >> you're still drinking that? >> yeah. i -- >> after putting on a drunken show -- >> all right. >> our actress makes her exit. >> i'll be right back. can you -- i'm going to -- >> where are you going? >> i'm going to go to the bathroom. >> are you okay? >> that's when the actor lets the group in on his plan. >> so wasted. i'm going to try to get with her. she's in the bathroom right now. >> when he leave ss, corban andariesian are very uncomfortable. >> i'll be right back. >> are you really? >> oh, god. >> but will they do anything about it? >> on the edge of your seat,
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right? >> i really am. >> listen to christian, through nervous laughter he seems to grasp the seriousness of the situation. >> i swear, if they don't come out in like five minutes, we're calling the police. >> hmm. >> corban seems to hope that everything will somehow work out. >> maybe she'll pull it together or something. >> our actors are in the bathroom and the boys sit and wait and wait and wait. >> oh! this is awkward. >> then our actor, playing the aggressor comes back alone. >> what happened? >> and starts to brag. >> she wanted to. it was good. >> the boys laugh nervously but never challenge him. it's hard for their moms to watch. >> not what i expected. >> he looks like he was uncomfortable. >> yes. he did look like he was uncomfortable for most of it. but that nervous laugh that he
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did and really not -- you know, i was expecting when they got up that he would have said something or at least tried to, you know, interfere in some kind of way. he didn't. >> danielle, not what you expected of christian either? >> honestly, i didn't have real solid expectations. i thought this is invaluable. >> hi. >> their moms realize they did what most kids do. nothing. because they've never been taught how to deal with this dangerous situation. >> all right. we're doing a show called "my kid would never do that." but it's really about helping parents learn the right ways to talk to their kids about situations like this. so, corban, were you feeling uncomfortable at all? >> yes. but i didn't really know how to respond so -- >> your mom was saying, i know in his mind, he says saying i should do something. i should say something. but it's so hard to do that, right? >> well, i didn't know what to
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do. >> i don't think a lot of us know what to do. >> i was shocked. >> i kind of feel bad now because i didn't do anything. >> you feel bad? >> to help him figure out what to do next time, we brought in our expert on addressing sexual assault. >> what do you think you could have said? is there anything you could have said? >> corban? >> i think i could have said maybe stop or lay off her. >> you agree this is realistic, isn't it? >> yeah, it is. >> christian, do you think if that was someone you cared for or loved across the way -- >> i would do it. >> you would do whatever it takes? >> i was thinking before, like should i call the police. >> it's not even necessarily that extreme for you. when they stand up and say if you're going to do that, i'm going to call for help because that's not okay. what do you take leaving now? >> i should just stand up more even if it's one person. >> i love what you said. when you do stand up, even when it doesn't go well, you know you did the right thing. nothing feels better than knowing you're doing the right thing. >> then our expert asks corban if he would be willing to help
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us out with another important demonstration. doing the right thing when it comes to dating. damish explain that is even well-meaning boys can make mistakes. >> relies on body language, the most unreliable form of communication that exists. >> he says to make sure there is no miscommunication before making a move. you have to ask first. >> consent is everything. any sexual intimacy that's ever going to occur is based on consent. >> corban, being a good sport, agrees to be coached on how to ask for consent. >> are you having a good time tonight? >> a really nice time. >> may i kiss you? >> damish tells the teens that, of course, it's going to feel awkward, but he argues that it's worth it. >> if you are not asked how long could it have taken for you to actually go for a kiss if you don't ask? >> like all night. >> all night, right? how long did that take? >> like five seconds. >> five seconds.
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if she had said yes, would you have cared at all how awkward it was? >> no. >> not at all. in fact, would you have loved hearing her say yes? >> yes. >> we say good-bye to this group and hello to these teens. this time, we've added a girl. will that change the dynamic? >> i can totally get some right now. i swear to god. >> will she try to stop him? >> let me knock on the door. >> i don't trust him. coming up, girls united or not? >> wow! >> and what about the guys? >> i want to say, do something! say something! >> when "dateline" continues. ... 4... ... or 5. with unlimited talk and text for everyone and 20 gigs of high-speed data for your whole family to share. that's double the data of t-mobile, verizon, and at&t. and at just a hundred dollars a month, it's the best family plan out there. so it's perfect for the best family ever. yours. switch to the sprint family share pack. for just a hundred dollars a month, the whole family gets 20 gigs of high-speed data to share plus unlimited talk and text.
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cheers to college. >> she's acting drunk. >> how about another drinkie poo from the thingy poo? >> can you stop touching me? >> and he looks like he's making unwanted sexual advances. >> stop touch meeg. >> relax. >> these two, summer and max, will have to decide what to do. summer is 14, an athletic, outgoing type with a strong personality. she says she gets that from her big sister. max, 16, is a studious, quiet
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and compassionate kid, deeply involved in promoting organ donation with nj shares. his younger brother is a heart transplant recipient. >> try c. >> the teens are inside our party space, both their moms settle in, in our watch mobile outside, eager to see how their kids will do with this test. >> what do you think, cheryl? >> she'll say something. >> max's mom is not so sure. >> just because he doesn't know the people. he's not with his friends. i don't think he'll say something. >> so how well do these moms know their children? >> hold it low. >> while the group continues to rate energy drinks, our actor makes it look like he's spiking her drink with alcohol he brought from home. >> i can't believe this. >> and pretending to make inappropriate moves on her. >> will you stop touching me? >> okay. >> you're like a little aggressive, dude. a little bit. >> a little aggressive? >> nobody's saying anything.
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he's putting the moves on her and keeps pouring her drinks. they're going along with it. >> i'll be right back. >> our actress playing the victim heads off to the bathroom. our actor makes it clear he thinks he could take advantage of her. >> yo, this is totally my chance right now. she's drunk alone in the bathroom. i can totally get some right now. i swear to god. >> that's when summer decides to say something. and it's a zinger. >> i highly doubt it. >> oh, yeah? >> if she was smart, she would say no. >> oh, pardon me. >> summer looks uncomfortable and walks away. then she hears our actor say he's going to try anyway. >> i'm going to go for it. >> will she do anything about it? >> is he really going? i'm not going to let you do that. cause that's -- >> i'm just checking on her. >> no. i'll check on her. girl to girl. >> girl code. >> uh-huh. >> looking out for the other girl. >> she pushes past him.
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>> you're okay, right? >> and blocks the door. >> she's fine. >> she's fine. all right. >> wow! >> i'll just stay here to make sure she's okay. >> okay. >> max, as his mother predicted, has been quietly taking it all in. >> i think he's trying to figure out a way to get himself out that have situation. >> summer appears satisfied that our victim is okay. >> is she all right? she's good? >> yeah, she's okay. >> so are you like a linebacker? >> he let summer know he isn't giving up so easily. >> maybe i should go and check on her now. she's not coming back. are you sure she's okay? >> i'm pretty sure she's okay. that's what she told me. >> now summer has yet another decision to make. >> i don't trust him. >> will she step in again? >> did he just go in there? he's not going to go -- i'm not going to let him go in there with her. are you bugging? >> she may be giggling but it's clear she knows how dangerous this could be.
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>> could you open the door? >> yeah, i'm just -- >> we're busy. >> i'm not feeling well. >> can i check on her instead of you? because i don't really trust you. not even going to lie. >> oh, wow! she's really getting involved. >> back at the couch, max laughs nervously. >> do you hear her? >> his mom can see her strong is struggling what to do. >> does your heartbreak a little bit because you know he wants to do the right thing? >> do something, say something. >> can you please open the door? >> summer really took a stand. >> yeah. >> she took on colin. >> she's fearless. >> i go in to introduce myself. >> hi, guys. >> hi. >> i'm natalie. >> i'm summer. >> hi, summer. nice to meet you. what's your name? >> max. >> max, hi. i know who these guys are. do you know how i know that? because we're actually doing a show called "my kid would never do that." i have to say, summer, you stood up from the very minute. >> thank you.
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>> and did you think that she could have been sexually assaulted? >> yeah. because i didn't really know what was going on and they wouldn't let me in. i didn't like want to just open the door but i just didn't trust it. >> max, i know you're shock and awe here, right? >> yeah. i'm like a quiet person. >> yeah. it's hard to speak up. >> yeah. >> summer, maybe because you were the girl and the girl code, protecting the girl. >> yeah. my sister, she really taught me well when it comes to stuff like this. >> mike damish comes in. first of all, high five. you did stand up. >> gives is ss summer and max more advice, what they could have said right at the start when they witnessed what appeared to be unwanted touching. >> don't touch her. do you not hear her? do you have a problem hearing? she is telling you not to touch her. what is your problem? when you watch these scenes it's what can i do to stop the perpetrator. >> he points out the blame is often put on victims for
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drinking and making themselves vulnerable, but that's dead wrong. >> it's never the victim's fault. that the criminal acted like a criminal. >> even with the underage drinking and all of that, that's not a license to allow -- >> no. i can make all the wrong choices in the world and you don't have the right to do harm upon me, ever. ever. >> important lesson, right? >> uh-huh. >> we have one more scenario. this one will appear to be the most daerngous ousdangerous of all. a powder slipped into an energy drink. >> liven things up. >> and served to an unsuspecting girl. >> i like the orange one. >> it's good, right? coming up, the date rape drug. this time it's fake, but they don't know that. >> should we follow her? ♪ eight time zones later... you finally reach this booking lavish tokyo hotel. and so does: jetlag ♪ ♪ woman: whoa. ♪ ♪
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so far, we watched teens try posted online. >> not going to show anybody. i'm not going to show anybody. >> delete it. no! >> and wrestle with the dangers of drinking and sexual assault. >> i'm not going to let you do that. >> for our final demonstration, we instructed our actor to pretend he's spiking a drink with the date rape drug, also known as roofie. it's a sedative ten times more
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powerful than valium when slipped in an alcoholic drink, it can cause a person to pass out. jacqueline sako was just 17 years old when it happened to her. >> it happened at my best friend's graduation party. i was drugged. i was taken by two guys that i knew to a motel and, um, each of them took their turn sexually assaulting me. >> she suffered in silence for years. >> you blamed yourself? >> i really did. i did. and i think that all survivors go through that. >> but not anymore. >> there's a lot of regret, you know. you always initially think, i could have done something to have prevented this or i sent out a message when that's not on the survivors. that's on the rapists. >> now a resident in neuro surgery, she's here today to watch our mini demonstration and share her story with the teens. she's hopeful this will get parents talking to their kids
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about sexual assault. >> there needs to be just a full family dialogue about that. >> and a brave group of parents in the watch mobile ready to take on this difficult subject. fiona's dad said his 15-year-old daughter is up to the task. >> she's very confident, very outspoken. headstrong. >> have you talked to her a lot about sex and what she needs to know when it comes to being safe? >> we touch on it sometimes and it's amazing the frankness with which she'll have that conversation with me. >> the youngest of three which her dad says has made her more wise than other kids her age and perhaps more prepared for what she's about to witness. >> i think she'll speak up. i think she'll alert the young lady first. she definitely wouldn't stay silent on that. >> 4-year-old ariel is also a confident kid who loves theater and acting. his mom says he can be shy around kids he doesn't know but
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doesn't think that will stop him. >> if he thinks there's something bad that would hurt someone, he will say something. >> brian's mom says her 14-year-old is definitely not shy. >> he loves to tell jokes. he loves comedy. >> is he the kind of kid that would speak up? >> i think he would. >> let's see how they do. >> are you guys from new jersey? >> i am. >> they're chatting away, tasting drinks when -- >> fionna seems to be the only one who notices our actor taking something out of his pocket and pouring it into his drink. >> what is that? >> nothing. just something to liven things up. i'm so bored right now. >> she mouths to one of the other actors that she thinks he's taking the drug ecstasy. when our actor goes to share his drink with the girl playing our victim, fionna starts asking question. >> it's good, right? >> really good. >> i know. >> excuse me. wait. you didn't just see that? >> what? >> what?
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>> he just put something -- >> don't worry about it. >> what the hell are you doing? >> fionna's dad isn't surprised she's being vocal. >> you want her as your wing man. >> take that out of your pocket right now. >> what are you talking about? >> what's in your shirt? >> i'm not laughing. >> wow, she's tough. >> she's right. >> she's going to reach in there. she is. >> and when our apparent victim gets quiet and starts acting lick she's not feeling well, fionna stares at her with a look of concern. >> it's really hot in here. >> are you okay? >> he just put something and now she's acting like -- this isn't funny. >> it's really hot. i don't feel good. >> are you okay? >> don't touch her. what is wrong with you? no. i know what you did. >> i didn't do anything. are you okay? >> what did he do? >> he just put something in that drink he gave you. >> oh, my god. >> jim? >> don't pick a fight with fionna. >> you have a strong daughter. >> both boys say they never saw the drink get spiked and ariel
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wonders if thises for real. >> brian saido my god, you did roofie her. >> but seems to think it's all a joke. >> this isn't funny. i don't like this. >> i'm fine. i'm probably fine. i don't know what's going on. i'm like just getting hot. >> do you want to go lie down? >> i need to splash water on my face or something. >> there's a bathroom back there. i'll take you there zblur actor takes the victim to the bathroom. >> you're good? okay. come on. >> what the teens do next counts the most. >> getting nervous now. >> everyone seems nervous. >> should we follow her? >> ariel and fionna go after them. >> where did they go? >> in here. >> bang on the door. >> let us in. >> they try the handle. >> this really isn't funny. >> is she okay? >> they're sticking together. >> thank heavens, huh? >> no, she's not okay. >> we think they've seen enough and done enough.
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>> i'm going to go in first. hello. >> hi, guys. >> i go to speak to the teens. at first, i don't tell them this was all a rouse.use. did anything else go on around here? >> she say him put something in his pocket. >> allegedly. >> i haven't seen anything. >> can i tell you what i saw? >> were you here? i don't think you were here. >> i knew it! i knew it. >> i don't think you saw any hidden cameras. >> i told you. >> fionna is relieved this isn't real. was it really uncomfortable for you and hard to do? >> yes. >> a lot of them didn't believe you. >> it happens that people won't believe that but it is like a real thing that does happen. >> yeah. >> hey, guys. >> dr. jacqueline sako, watching from our control room, comes in to speak to the teens. >> first of all, guys, fionna, awesome job. so proud of the way you reacted. >> jacqueline shares her story and lets fionna know how much what she did meant to her. >> and i wish that somebody
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stepped in like you, fionna. i wouldn't have been raped and just that little difference. it makes such a huge change in somebody's life. >> when she reunites with her dad she gets overwhelmed with emotion. >> she's a warrior. you did everything right. >> all the grown-ups say they've learned something from watching the kids tonight. including me. >> i know that was hard. >> and our expert's final message to parents -- time to get to work. >> we have to go as parents from telling our kids what to do to giving them how to. that's critically important. if you have a skill set, you're going to gain confidence. because i know how to do this. the more confidence you get, the easier it is to step forward. 3 f2 estas situaciones.
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