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shed every tear you can shed and go home at night completely exhausted, physically, emotionally. we hit that point. >> it's going to change everything about our life. everything. >> they're young parents, fighting an enemy within. >> your emotions are on a roller coaster. >> a frightening condition that threatens the lives of all five of their children. >> that connects to my heart. >> it's possible each one may need a new heart just to
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>> you get that feeling like it's never going to end. >> it's pretty hard. >> tonight, the latest in their battle. breakthroughs, setbacks. >> just got to prepare myself that things could change. >> all fueled by fate, love, humor and amazing grace. >> i never felt why us. >> what will it take to save a life? >> it's time to start thinking about transplant. story. >> guess what. you have a heart! [ screaming ] >> you won't forget their courage. join them "where the heart is." >> welcome to "dateline," everyone. i'm lester holt. imagine, five children in the same family, all with signs of a deadly heart disease. we've been following their story for years now.
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could you be as brave as they are? here is keith morrison. >> when jason bingham thinks of eye, it's as much a part of him as breathing, as his own heart. >> it's god's country. you can't see any neighbors as far as you can see. >> faithful horse, good dog and sturdy truck is about all he needed out here. until he met her. what happened when jason met stacy was -- well, love, brand new, unique. but for them, way out here in god's country, it truly was.
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grand sweeping landscape near the oregon/idaho border. jason bingham worked at his father's accounting business. stacy was an obstetrics nurse at a nearby hospital. this was the home the binghams loved, and where they imagined they would raise their kids and live for the rest of their lives. >> hi! >> hi! easter morning. we're really late for church. >> it takes each one of them to make us a family. you have sierra, compassionate and loving. megan, who is confident and athletic, and lindsay has been our little jabber jaws. she makes sure everyone stays in line. and then hunter, who is just a happy-go-lucky 5-year-old. >> oh, yeah. >> full of energy. >> just full of energy and life. and then gauge kind of the family clown. >> we love it. the life of the party.
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forever, because the bingham family was about to become a terrifying medical mystery, one of the strangest, most off-the-chart, unlikely story we ever heard of. it began in 2006, when sierra, their eldest, threw up for several days. her parents took her to the doctor. >> the doctor came in and said we have one of three things. it could be pneumonia, a form of cancer, or something called cardiomyopathy. >> they gave her an echocardiogram. the diagnosis was obvious, heart failure. what happens when you hear that? >> oh. >> first you're in a misty fog. your world came crushing in around you. and then trying to put your mind around it. grasp it. it's just fear.
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some heavy medication and sent her home. >> i remember asking her to come help plant some flowers that would be coming back every year, so if something did happen, i would have some kind of memory of her, but she was too tired or too weak to do it. >> sierra was fading fast. nothing more the regional hospitals near home could do. so, she was flown to lucille packard children's hospital in the heart of the silicon valley, a world away from oregon's eastern prairie. but even here, there were no easy answers. and the doctors gave jason and stacy the news. without an almost immediate heart transplant, their daughter would die. >> it was horrible. when we say it was a nightmare, it was the worst time of our life. bar none, it was the worst three weeks of my life. >> the wait for a donor heart for a child can be months. it was time sierra didn't have.
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you've shed every tear you can shed, and go home at night completely exhausted, physically, emotionally. we had hit that point. >> we told as many people as we could, please pray for our little child tonight. 1:30 in the morning, we get a phone call. and i thought, that's it. >> i thought it was the worst. and the doctors called and they said, we have a heart available for sierra. and i was like, are you serious? >> the binghams' prayers were answered. the next afternoon, sierra received her new heart. it had belonged to a 4-year-old boy. in the world of heart transplants, size matters more than age. sierra's new heart would grow as she did. >> when it came, it just -- we knew everything was going to be fine. there was just never, ever any doubt. >> but the binghams wondered
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fail? did they need to worry about their other kids? the doctors assured them the likelihood was extremely remote. but just to be sure, they tested them, and the echocardiograms detected no hint of the disease, and there was no history of heart disease at all on either jason or stacy's side of the family. >> so we thought, good. they'll rule that out. that's not an issue then. >> and then came lindsay's tummy ache. it was 2012, six years after sierra's transplant. lindsay, the third eldest, vomited at school. >> we thought, well, it could not be the same. i think both of us were probably in denial. >> they took lindsay to the e.r. in nearby baker city where the doctor examined her and then asked jason and stacy about sierra. >> cardiomyopathy? and he said yeah, she's got the
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>> she has an enlarged heart? i think lost it chlt i couldn't keep my composure, and i remember just sobbing. >> lindsay grew so sick so quickly that the very next day, she was flown to lucille packard children's hospital, the same place they brought sierra for her heart transplant six years earlier. now it was impossible not to think there was some genetic link involving their daughter's heart disease. so, jason brought the rest of the children here, too, for tests. >> is it going to hurt? >> it was on june 8th. it was a friday. it was our d-day, i think. we sat down and were told that of our five children, all of them either had cardiomyopathy or flaggers or symptoms that they watch that can turn into a cardiomyopathy. >> their doctors were as astonished as they were. even though the electrocardiograms years earlier
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children, every single one, would be dealing with the distinct possibility of having a heart transplant just to stay alive. that's when we first met the binghams. at least in part to make people aware of the desperate need for donors, they agreed to trust us, to allow our cameras to follow them through moments of despair and courage and bottomless love. a journey unlike anything you've ever seen before. coming up, danger strikes the very youngest. 3-year-old gage. >> they said he's in complete heart block. we need to admit him. >> and little lindsay? >> it goes up into here and it goes -- connects to my heart. >> is there hope and a heart for her? >> someone out there has a child that's going to save her life.
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when trouble came to visit the bingham family in haines, oregon, it came in bulk. familiarly size. all five children had markers for cardiomyopathy. which means it was in their dna. it could happen any time. at 12, sierra had been living with a transplanted heart for half her life. now lindsay's heart was failing. in june 2012, she was put on the transplant list. to lighten her mood, jason promised to let his beard grow
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she was near death. her only option, mediate surgery to implant a high-tech pump until a heart became available. >> so it's just like a heart transplant, only i won't be getting a heart? >> the surgery was successful, buying lindsay critical time. although she was recovering in icu, her parents, who had been through so much, experienced another setback. it was gage this time. >> something weird about him. he wasn't acting right. >> they took him to the emergency room. >> they said he's in complete heart block. we need to admit him. >> doctors were checking him more than they were lindsay that night. >> i can't imagine what that would do to you. >> unbelievable. >> now gage, just 3 years old, was rushed into surgery to have a pacemaker implanted. by the end of that awful day, the binghams had two children in post-operative icu. children are nothing if not
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within two weeks, gage, with his new pacemaker, was up and about. and lindsay, who had been near death, was proudly showing off her clever, mechanical heart. >> it goes up into here and it goes -- connects to my heart. and this pumps in the air and this machine helps me. and if it got turned off, they would hook me up to a little thingamajiggy. >> and what do we do now? >> wait for a heart. >> an upbeat kid, but naturally you understandable y still afraid. >> when i stand up, you can feel it pumping. >> like you feel your heart beating but it's on the outside of your body? >> this is kind of scary.
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enough that she's a regular 8-year-old girl. she wants to skip and jump and play. it's a false sense of security because you forget she is still on a heart device that is keeping her heart pumping. >> the rest of the family moved into ronald mcdonald house across the street from the hospital. two bedrooms for all of them. and lindsay's siblings enrolled in city school, a world away from anything they had ever known before. >> my class and grade was 28 kids. now my grade is 200 kids. >> sierra had been where lindsay is now. and in daily visits to the hospital, offered advice about the endless needles and biopsies and the daily terrors of her new life. >> i was really scared so i asked sierra what it was really like to have a heart. >> what did she tell you? >> she told me it was kind of
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fine. >> her siblings worked to build her up. and as jason and stacy waited, mired in their inherently bad luck, a remarkable lightness seemed to carry them through their long draining days, their sleepless nights. they did not complain. they remained upbeat for the kids. and taught them the meaning of gratitude for what they have been given. do they understand where the hearts come from? >> yes, they do. >> donor and patient information is kept strictly confidential, but messages between the families can be exchanged anonymously through the donor network. so, shortly after sierra's transplant, the binghams sent a thank you letter to the donor family. they received a letter back from the grandmother of the 4-year-old boy, whose heart now beats in sierra's chest. >> eternally grateful to his
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wrote the letter. and the sacrifices she made to allow sierra to live. >> just as you'll be eternally grateful to some other family? >> yeah. right now, i pray for that family out there, someone out there in the western united states has a child that's going to save our life. >> there was, of course, no way to know if or when there would be a heart for lindsay. jason and stacy were keenly aware that some 50 children die each year, waiting for a heart. and here, as they waited, two months passed and then three. seasons changed. jason's beard grew longer. back in little haines, oregon, people understood this cost money, lots of money. the binghams have insurance. but it doesn't cover the very expensive multiple medications the kids will need every day for the rest of their lives.
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year. and so the people of haines put on an auction. they raised nearly $75,000. occasionally, jason went home to lend a hand on the family cattle drive or pick up clothes for the kids, who were now outgrowing them. >> it's a lonely place, to be here. i don't know how we're going to continue to live here. we want to live here so bad. >> but, of course, they couldn't go home. >> today is labor day. we thought we would give lindsay the chance of labor. >> they celebrated halloween in the hospital, followed by thanksgiving, then christmas. jason and stacy brought an artificial tree into lindsay's room. she put on the finishing touch. her beads of courage. each bead representing a needle poke, a day in the hospital or procedure she's endured. the string wrapped around the
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but christmas came and went and then valentine's day approached. they had been waiting nearly eight months now. >> what are you looking forward to? >> get a new heart. >> yeah. and then? >> go home. >> at 6:00 p.m. on february 12th, a doctor pulled stacy out of lindsay's room for a chat. something to tell her. she refused to tell the kids what she was told. >> mom. >> she thinks she knows. she doesn't know anything. >> i know! >> then, stacy called jason and waited in lindsay's room for him to arrive. he passed the nursing station, alive with excitement. >> she doesn't know yet. >> guess what? >> i knew it! >> are you ready? >> guess what? you've got to guess. >> what?
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there. >> i have it? >> you have a heart! >> you do! [ screaming ] >> it's going to happen. it's finally going to happen. >> what was coming next was -- who could predict such a thing? coming up, pump up the volume. lindsay's big send-off to surgery. >> this is where i get the biggest hug in the world. okay? >> but wait. sierra? >> like someone hit me in the gut. >> medical roller coaster takes
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for 239 days. but now, finally, they have found a match. the next afternoon. >> i'm just scared a little. really scared. they're going to be cutting up my chest and then taking out my heart and then putting another one in. >> the swirl of conflicting emotions, even more so for lindsay's parents. stacy has news she had been dreading to share with jason. it's about their eldest daughter, sierra, who had a routine checkup earlier in the day. >> sierra is downstairs. she's actually -- >> how is she doing? >> she's actually going to be admitted to the cvicu. >> cardiovascular intensive care unit. sudden change in jason's demeanor tells you just how grave was the news. >> i don't know what the deal is.
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>> they just said that her pressures are really high and so they wanted to admit her. they don't know if it's rejection or something else. >> we have a daughter going in for a transplant in two hours, and a daughter that's been admitted into the icu. i can't tell you how much i need that woman right there. positive spin on the news when they tell sierra. >> so they want to put you in a unit so when they get your biopsy results back, then decide is it rejection or is it something else? >> great day. >> great day. lindsay's going in for a transplant, and you're in the best place you can be right now. >> and they caught it. >> one day we're going to look back at this and just laugh our heads off. >> but the binghams know exactly how serious rejection can be. if treatment doesn't work, it
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on the transplant list. >> i'm sick to my stomach, to be honest. it's like someone hit me in the gut. just because you get the transplant doesn't mean it's over. it's just the beginning. >> in turmoil, pulled in two different directions on this day. jason returns to lindsay's room where he and one of lindsay's nurses try to keep her upbeat before surgery. lindsay learns she'll get her new heart in the first hours of valentine's day. >> valentine's day! >> yay! >> and, finally, 30 hours after they learned about the donor heart, it's time to go. >> crank it all the way up. you earned this one. >> lindsay chooses her own sound track for her walk to the operating room. "somebody to love." >> got chills right now. seeing her perk up is everything i needed. put this thing around you, like you mean it. >> with her baby blanket transformed into a superhero
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scariest event of her young life. jason works to keep lindsay's fears at bay. >> this is where i get the biggest hug in the world. okay? i'll see you in just a few minutes, all right? >> all right. >> what happens in a few minutes? >> wake up. >> you just go to sleep and then you wake right up. >> and very soon i'll get better. >> yep. love you, lindsay lou. >> bye, lindsay! >> lindsay's room now needs to be made available for the next child in line. so, jason and stacy pack everything up while they wait for the donor heart to arrive. >> they're going to be here in 15 minutes. >> hi. you have the heart? >> yeah. >> her chest is open right now. so, she's a go. >> jason and stacy aren't prepared for the emotions they
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arrive. >> it really sunk in when you saw that cooler with a human heart on it. you see that nurse head down the hallway to my little princess, who is opened up and ready and waiting for it. >> it's a strange emotion for observers, too, to watch life captured in this small container, passed from one child to another. even as a third heart struggles, just down the hall. coming up, precision inside the operating room. and emotion outside. could two daughters' lives be on the line? >> you want to be happy for the one, but you're feeling so bad and want to cry with the other one. is that ice cream? no, it's, uh breyers gelato indulgences. it looks like ice cream. it's not. can i have some? you really wouldn't like it.
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>> all right. >> lindsay lou bingham is in an operating room where surgeons are replacing her failing heart while her parents receive updates through the night and into the morning. >> things are looking good. >> this doctor, though, after reporting in about lindsay, switches the conversation to sierra. >> so i would like to regroup with the whole team and talk over things and see if we can come up with a more effective long-term strategy for her. >> i just need to hear you say we have options. >> there are options to look into. >> this conversation, mind you, is taking place while lindsay is still in surgery, while doctors stitch together five separate connections, they begin with the new heart outside lindsay's body, then finish up once it's slipped inside. the heart has not beaten since it was taken from the donor nearly four hours earlier. the next step is crucial. the team will use a defibrillator to spark lindsay's
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>> 10. >> immediately, it begins to pump. and soon finds its rhythm. >> it took a couple of hours longer than i expected, but everything went very, very smoothly. >> but the binghams now have two daughters in the cardiovascular icu. sierra's biopsy results show antibodies are attacking her heart and already have caused some damage. doctors tell the binghams they'll try a treatment called plasma phoresis in which they attempt to remove the harmful antibodies from her blood. it sometimes works, sometimes doesn't. there's a chance that, to survive, sierra will one day need a second heart transplant. >> the reality of it is it's never going to be the same. there's always going to be something. and now that always something is going to be times two, you know. it was really hard. you just felt like your emotions
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want to be happy for the one, but you're feeling so bad and want to cry with the other one. >> and, of course, there's little gage, who has the same heart disease and already a pacemaker at age 4. jason and stacy do their own form of triage, focusing on the sickest child. for now, that's lindsay. >> we're all here now. megan's here. so is gage. >> days after a heart transplant are, of course, critical. and lindsay's first few bring complications. but soon, she is up and walking without an artificial heart pump for the first time in eight months. and jason keeps a promise by letting lindsay cut off the straggly beard he started growing the day she was placed on the transplant list. >> do it. >> whoo! >> there you go. >> two weeks after getting her
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leave the hospital. >> are you ready to go? >> oh, yeah. >> she's out of here. >> good luck. >> she isn't going far, mind you. just down the street to ronald mcdonald house until both lindsay and sierra are cleared for the trip they so desperately want. the one back home. but first, another biopsy, to see if sierra's treatment stopped or at least slowed the rejection. cardiologist daniel bernstein will make the call. >> i think things are going well, go home, enjoy being in your home and see how things go the next couple of years. if things quiet down, no problems, then you're fine where you are. >> okay. >> words the binghams wondered if they would ever hear again. in spite of all they've been through, they are grateful. >> we've walked away twice now with two children still alive, and that's more than some parents can say that have to
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and we can go home with five children. >> it was an almost surreal celebration that day in 2013, as if their troubles had been forced to retreat outside their own little bubble of happy. there was a long drive home to haines, oregon. the big surprise welcome from just about the whole town. >> how are you? good to see you. >> sierra, overjoyed to see her own bed. and lindsay, the trampoline. just a regular kid again. >> so, are you letting yourself feel like we're home, or do we go there? >> we have a new norm now. to think it's over now is just the beginning. >> the family, though, was finally back on the ranch and the binghams settled gratefully into their new normal. the life jason and stacy knew
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a sunset. coming up, a setback for sierra. >> it's time to start thinking about transplant number two. >> oh, my goodness. you get that feeling it's never going to end. >> she meets her second family. her heart donor family. >> tell us about nicholas. >> when "dateline" continues. ar overheated... what are the chances? can you send a tow truck please? uh, the location? you're not going to believe this but it's um... it's in a tree. i wish i was joking, mate, but it's literally stuck in a tree. (car horn honking) a chainsaw? no, no, all we really need is a tow truck. day or night, geico's emergency roadside service is there for you. our clothes can stretch out in the wash, ruining them forever. protect your clothes from stretching, fading, and fuzz. ...with downy fabric conditioner... it helps protect clothes from the damage of the wash. so your favorite clothes stay
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the binghams have settled into their new normal, a life packed with the controlled chaos of raising five children, two of whom have transplanted hearts and a third who has a pacemaker. two years have gone by. years during which they've managed to stay here in rural oregon, far from the hospital, in the home they love so much. lindsay is now off the anti-rejection steroid that caused her face to swell and has a fresh set of braces on her teeth. sierra is in high school, learning to drive. they make the trek to palo alto every few months for checks and biopsies, which lindsay actually looks forward to. stacy is the girls' most loyal cheerleader. but on this trip to the hospital, january 2015, she is uneasy. >> i have a lot of anxiety over
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is it just going to be simple or is it going to be something we're not prepared for? that's the reality of it. >> sierra has had some swelling and a cough that won't go away. >> all those tubes filled up? that is a lot. >> the girls go in for their biopsies. the procedure that once frightened lindsay has become old hat. >> at least i'm not crying. >> your pressures are good. >> here you go, honey. >> lindsay's transplanted heart is working beautifully. no sign of rejection. but what about sierra's? >> after this, baby girl, there will be a little bit of pushing, okay? >> she has been fighting rejection for several years now. >> the real question, to be perfectly honest, i don't mean to jump on you, is whether or not it's time to think about transplant number two. >> stacy's gut feeling was right. sierra's condition has worsened. dr. seth hollander explains, they've run out of options to
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attacking her heart. >> your pressure is up again. did they tell you? >> yes. >> how many kids, how many times? you get that feeling of impending doom like it's never going to end. it's just on repeat. >> yeah. >> transplanted hearts, for reasons we don't fully understand, don't last forever. if you're an older person who is getting a transplant, you may be able to live out the natural duration of your life before your transplanted heart gives out. we didn't transplant sierra at age of 7 to get her to tenth grade. we want to give her a nice, long life. >> so, sierra goes back on the transplant waiting list. the wait could be much longer this time, as much as two years. because of her condition, an artificial heart pump is not an option. as difficult as the news is to hear, in typical bingham form, stacy finds a bright side.
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breaks we get. i guess it's go home and get that breath of fresh air before the next thing hits. >> a month later, the binghams are back at the hospital to learn more about what's next for sierra. they bring gage along for a pacemaker adjustment. >> ready for mr. turtle? >> at the age of 6, he has had a pacemaker for three years now. sierra was about gage's age when she had her first heart transplant. now that she's 15, she has a say in her own health care. even can say no, if she decides she doesn't want a second transplant. she has asked her parents not to keep any secrets from her about what's ahead. no matter how scary. and scary, it certainly is. >> do i need to go in the middle of the night, keep checking, to make sure she has a pulse because she's going to die in the middle of the night. i get scared to death that she won't be there in the morning. >> in fact, sierra's condition deteriorates quickly and, soon, she and stacy are back in palo alto, to wait close to the
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trying to keep life as normal as possible, under this family's extraordinary circumstances. sierra attends prom at the hospital, with another patient. and then, out of the blue, the binghams receive an e-mail from the grandmother of sierra's first donor. a woman who saw our first report on the binghams back in 2013 and had a feeling that it was her grandson's heart that saved sierra. and when she looked up the binghams' blog, she knew she was right. his name was nicholas. now she has learned that nicholas' heart, beating in sierra's chest, is failing. and she and her family, including nicholas' brother and sister, want to meet sierra. they meet in a park not far from the hospital. >> this is sierra. >> hi, sierra. >> how are you? >> sierra brings a stethoscope so they can listen to nicholas'
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stacy tells the family sierra's first reaction when she learned she would need a new heart was guilt that she couldn't keep nicholas' heart alive longer. >> it's just something that happens, and we don't know why. but i do want you to know that we do value that heart in the nine years she has had it. >> tell us about nicholas. >> well -- >> the binghams had assumed nicholas died in an accident. but now they learned the horrifying truth. nicholas was murdered by his drug-addicted stepfather. his organs went to sierra and two other children. >> it's been easier on us, knowing that he was able to help three others, three people.
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and so that's helped us a lot. >> funny face. >> they take pictures together, this unlikely blended family. and then, just three weeks later, just like that, the wait is over. a donor heart is available. much sooner than anyone expected. before she goes in for her second transplant, a reminder that, in spite of her medical condition, sierra is a regular teenager. a surprise visit from an admirer. >> we've seen this all before, haven't we, dear? >> minutes later, more good-byes outside the o.r. doors they've been through before, and will be again. >> love you, too, gage. >> for jason and stacy, another long night of waiting and worrying. coming up, the operating room door revolves again. sierra out of surgery and, what's this?
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rapidly than anyone expected. the doctors are running out of options. >> i was really getting nervous. it's heart wrenching to see your kid plummet and then how close to death's door are we going to be knocking before something becomes available? >> now surgeons remove that failing heart, and soon, the donors arrive. they inspect the donor heart to make sure there are no surprises. it looks perfect. implantation begins. it's the middle of the night. jason and stacy have been waiting for news. >> it's a long night. >> yeah. >> good. so, have a seat. everything went well, very smoothly. >> a healthy heart is beating in sierra's chest. she has been given a fresh start for a second time in her young life.
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smoothly. >> cvicu, we're out of here. we're headed home, baby. >> sierra is released from the hospital in record time. after just eight days. she's already thinking about what she will do with this next chapter. >> just doing the little simple things in life, like going to the beach, hanging out with friends. going to church and stuff. >> she and stacy plan to spend a brief stint at the nearby ronald mcdonald house, and then surprise the rest of the family by returning home a week earlier than expected. but another shoe was about to drop. a doctor has asked to speak to jason and stacy. >> your heart just sinks a little bit, like, why? it's not to invite us to a barbecue. >> in checking gage's pacemaker, doctors have discovered gage has had two episodes in the night where his heart flutters rather than beats. either one of them could have been fatal.
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in addition to the pacemaker he already has, he will need to have a defibrillator implanted to shock his heart back into rhythm if it flutters again. but jason is worried that gage is headed to the transplant list. >> we've seen what happens, and maybe we know too much. >> yeah. >> i'm not ready -- i'm ready to go home a little bit and not stay here for another year or two. as good as he's doing, i just have to prepare myself that things could change. >> jason and stacy have had no time to recover from sierra's transplant, no time to recharge before this next crisis. they are emotionally exhausted. >> surgeons have warned jason and stacy that there's a chance gage could come out of surgery on an artificial heart pump similar to the one lindsay was on.
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the hospital until a donor heart could be found. >> to think that he walked in here, a happy little kid, with his little bear, and to think he might come out or we could get the call any second now that they had to put him on a heart device, it's pretty hard. >> but gage's surgery goes well. no artificial heart pump necessary. and, finally, they get to go home. the hardware inside gage's tiny chest regulates the beat of his heart. it can't stop the progression of his heart disease, which is happening much faster than anyone anticipated. he had always shaken his head no when his parents told him that he would one day need a heart transplant. but tired after throwing up, he knew it was time.
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time. i said right about what? >> he said i do need a heart. it's time. i think in his way, he was accepting the reality of it. it's heartwrenching. >> just three months after his last surgery, gage is back at the hospital to have an artificial heart pump implanted in his tiny chest. he is asked if it's okay for doctors to remove a small piece of his heart so they can study what's causing his and his siblings' heart disease. and then it's yet another good-bye outside the o.r. a place the binghams know all too well. >> you be brave, okay? you're a brave boy. >> gage's teddy bear, woody, goes in with him. surgery goes smoothly. and soon, gage is back on his feet. the equipment that's keeping him alive is far more portable than lindsay's was.
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and, once again, all the binghams are back in palo alto, where they'll wait together for gage to get his new heart. in the meantime, he has a lot of questions. >> what does it feel like to have a brand new heart? >> you'll feel so much better. you have seen how sierra and lindsay are. how they are right now. that's how you'll feel. >> gage's will be the fourth transplant for this young family. their eighth open heart surgery. we have wondered so many times in the years we've followed them, how do they keep going? >> you have a heart! >> you do! [ screaming ] >> aren't they resentful? don't they feel sorry for themselves? many would ask, why us. but the binghams, not for a moment. >> i've never felt, why us. i feel like we've been
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kids. and if we succeeded and they are healthy, live a long life and have a memory of a good childhood, then we were successful at being parents. an inspirational family, each and every one of them. thanks for watching. this sunday, fear, loathing and now violence on the trump campaign trail. days before make or break primaries on the second super him. >> when you have a campaign that affirmatively encourages violence. >> and openly worry what will happen if he's the nominee. >> i still at this moment continue to support the harder every day. >> while president obama blames
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>> how can you be shocked? this is the guy remember who was sure that i was born in kenya. >> my interview with donald trump at a critical moment in his candidacy. ted cruz and john kasich join me as well. plus, the democrats, bernie sanders' win in michigan gives him new hope. and the clinton campaign new reasons to worry about the midwest. and brand new polls out of florida, ohio and illinois. there's a lot more uncertainty about tuesday than you might think. joining me for insight and analysis this sunday morning are republican strategist alex castillanos. influential radio talk show host hugh hewitt. welcome to sunday. it's "meet the press." from nbc news in washington, this is "meet the press" with chuck todd. good sunday morning. students in history know how
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violence at political events. in 1968 anti-vietnam war protesters clashed with police at the democratic national convention in chicago. ultimately what played out ultimately became known as a police riot, the chaos tarnished the party and led to hubert humphrey's defeat and loss in that fall. and pushing and fighting led to donald trump can't scheduled appearance. ted cruz and marco rubio and john kasich agreed the ugly scene was the result of a toxic environment nurtured and encouraged by trump. and here's hillary clinton adding her perspective yesterday. >> if you play with matches, you can start a fire you can't control. that is not leadership. that is political arson. >> but to his supporters it was another example of opponents trying to deny the leading candidate for the republican nomination his right to free
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