>> announcer: from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. oh, that salena gomez, hoda woman. >> yes, it is funday monday november 2nd and i don't like the word november. >> or monday. >> but i do like saying great show today, because actor lou diamond phillips is with us.

>> how good looking is he. >> yes, one of the goodies. >> it is based on the fill m about the chilean miners that he is in. >> and we also have a jamie randolph with us, and we fell in love with her with her rant about leggings. >> some people wear them as pants pants, and tno how they r are to be wore. if can wear them where i can tell that you have aztec thongs on, you shouldn't be wearing them. >> and now, too many of you were caught up in halloween to be payinging attention to the celebrity news, but we have all

also about leah remmi ini. >> and it was a great weekend and how about that extra hour of sleep. sleep. >> yes, that was nice. >> yes. >> and then sunday, cody went to an event to honor frank at bakersville high school when a man warren beatty saw something in him, and he is the first gifford to graduate from high school can and college, and he has given credit to his first football coach and teacher where frank was majoring in shop.

key and told him how great he could be. >> and nice to see cody there. >> sorry to hog all of it. but it is halloween with my and look at that. happy baby. >> i think that he is an elephant. >> he is an elephant, and he is dumbo costume. >> yes. >> and i did something with rod stewart and 92y live and he likes to do what we do, spankie, it was. >> that is what people do. >> they just stick it o. in case you missed the halloween show friday we dressed up in "peanuts" costumes, and regis joined us. and matt as lucy and al as charlie brown.

>> there we are. >> and the red baron. >> he was trying to move around. [ laughter ] >> the feathers were flying, they were. and regis had fun, and by the way, the jifs involve d d the spanky one, two, three. and then we turned around. >> some people liked it. >> some didn't. >> and janice day sent us a video of her dog, and apparently we freaked him out. >> everybody is a critic. lee. do you like them? >> apparently he never barks. today. >> all righty. peggy sent us this picture on

and kathie lee announced the cotton parade. >> is that it? >> no, it a different picture. >> so people dressed up, and carly and her friend made cards that look like our cards, so thank you for that. >> it is a stupid excuse to do as little as possible, but to genuinely walk around with a glass of wine. >> and they were kathie lee and hoda zombies. >> that is before we come in, >> exactly. >> and lots of big celebrities a io halloween. and heidi klum went as jessica rabbit. she has a big party. >> ten hour s s to complete that. >> and jay z and beyonce went as captain america.

>> and neil patrick harris was obi-wan kenobi. >> and prince dressed up. >> that is great. gl and if you were a new yorker, it is not, the mets, and the jets and the giants suffered. >> i never thought that i would say these words, thank goodness for the marathon. >> a marathon was pretty awesome, because by the way, lots of -- >> can the kenyans sweep, hoda? >> yes, and the people hold up signs, yeah, mom. one mile left, and another friend of mine held up a sign like this, you're all crazy. can you imagine the last mile there? >> yes, because by that that time, they knew it. >> and by watching the gian' m a i i have any fingernails left, and it is 49-49, and it is like practice

in last seconds, the saints' ed the longest field goal. he has kicked a 50 yarder and this is 511 and the final score was 52-49. like -- giants' fans were upset, a sapts' fan. >> and we are happy for kansas city, and of course, we would have loved our mets to have won, but the kansas city royals beat after 12 innings, the final score 7-2, but the royals, and you have to be happy for thel, first time champions in 30 year, hoda woman. >> and great to see the mets' fans in the stadium, waiting for the guys the to come out, and they chanted that they loved them. it was beautiful. >> we were all touched this morning, and we don't know if you saw brad pit and angelina jolie's interview by tom brokaw. it was moving. >> it is interest, because you

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it is hard to believe that lou diamond phillips got his first big break as richie valens and now he stars in young guns which is a rescue of 30 chile yan an miners who were trapped for 30 days. he plays the foreman. take a look. >> we need a ramp. >> it is a draw. >> it has 20 more years. >> we may be looking at the weakness in the mountain's internal structure. mar eco co marco, it is p my job to keep these men safe. >> on the job. >> yes, you are. >> and it is wonderful to see you again, and absolutely

>> a tell us about the making of this, and it was not a vanity project. >> there was no glamour to this one whatsoever, and we shot in two real mines outside of bogota, colombia, and going in and out of the mines six days a week 24 hours a day, and the real deal, and the great thing is that i was down there with antonio banderas, and he took the shirt down. if you are going to be trapped, be trapped with antonio banderas banderas. >> he is a blast. >> yes, a wonderful man. >> and you had a brotherhood. >> and 100% bonded and being in the actual mine lent to the awe then thenticity and the veracity on the screen. and the rest of the cast were unbelievable. it is an international stellar cast, but under those conditions, we really created this bond and chemistry which is what the miners experienced, i'm sure. >> and where were you when this actually happened? >> i was in los angeles and working, and i followed it

24-hour news cycle, and it was almost like reality tv, because they got the cameras down in the mine, and the men were trap there hand the low jis gistics of getting them out was space age, and nasa got involved with the phoenix as you can see it there, and brought them out one man at a time. >> did it occur to you at any point that the same thing could happen the to you and your fellow actors, because one of the mines is over 500 years old? >> yes, both of them were 500 years old. and i thought, my god, what an ironic headline that would be. we were down there with mine safety people there, and they would literally clear us out of the way of falling rock once in a while, an constantly checking the ceiling, and that sense of paranoia and peril was always there >> did you have a sense of paranoia down there?

desert a mile from where it happened and maybe i am projecting, and i felt fine in bogota, but when we got the chili, we said, oh, this happened a mile away, and going into the mine, we only filmed the entrances, and it was surreal. >> you talked about the brothers and the brotherhood involved and there was singing involved. and what was the music that you had? don't cry for me i am truly behind you muchacos i am craving nachos >> you are a bad boy. >> yes a little bit. and the number one on to fbi's most wanted list and i don't know why i could not be number one. >> and why couldn't you play a scandinavian.

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thank you. look at what we have. jamie sullivan. >> remember we showed you a video of a tennessee woman ranting about the leggings, and you probably saw it on facebook, too, and it is hilarious, take a look. >> ladies, i love leggings weather. are and some people like to use leggings as britches, pants, at is not how they are supposed to be wore. covers your taih can't tell that you have aztec thongs them. were you surprised when we we >> yes, very surprised. >> you said that you keep all of

one of the loud mouth friends decided to make it public. >> absolutely, i had a friend ricky taylor who said, please change your settings so i can share your video, and i didn't think the anything about it, and a day in, it was like a million. >> and million. > is how the careers are made. you are like justin bieber. >> you do a rant on babies? >> yes. >> well, we were talking about the nurturing that bond between mother stuff? >> brank it out. >> okay. with well, we were at my mother and i were at the moonshine festival a couple of months ago and what my stepfather does which is competition barbeque, and we had parents with the babies running around the moonshine festival, and it was 2,000 degrees, and the babies were screaming and parents, i know you want to get the drink on, good for you, but leaf them

babies at home. >> all right. we want to pick these, and these are rant, and we love you. we don't care what you are saying. >> see somebody climbing on the seats in the airplane. >> i have been on a airplane three time, and two in the last week. i don't mind you climbing up on the seat, but don't kick the back of the seat or the one by me, and if you is have to take your shoes off, put on some fresh nonhf -holey socks. >> and get a pedicure. >> and chewing loudly. >> like hoda. >> i have a sister and nephew who do that and it is terrible. okay. you should work on that. >> and give it to me. >> i can't evenb handle> the crunch the sound, the smacking lips is the absolute worst.

and i 'm like, boom, boom. >> this one, oversharing on facebook. >> oh, lord. now, look i overshare and not private and half of my friends don't know if i am legally married and i like to keep them guessing, but we do have friends who like to put on every single sol solitary thing that you put on there from the minute that you wake up or go the bed, and calm it down. >> and even life -- >> yes shgs , people do it. it is out there. >> and for being fun and we byofr leggings. >> thank you. >> and they are by tony lisette, and we love these, because they are kind of like spanx and leggings together. how about that? >> thank you for come ing to the big city. >> all righty. >> all right.

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it is funday monday and if you were out enjoying the festivities over the weekend -- >> or getting that extra hour of sleep, you may have missed out on the hollywood gossip. >> and not to worry, because we have you covered on the buzz. and this is the naughty gossip.com rob chuter. >> we know it's going to get feisty when you show up. >> yes actress leah remini has a book out that is getting a ton of publicity. >> tomorrow on tuesday, it's already number five on amazon, this is going to be a huge book. she sat down over the weekend with abc news and i think we have a little clip of her very

first interview. >> he was forcibly kissing katie. i said get a room. i was written up for that. being critical of tom cruise is being critical of scientology itself. you are a person who is anti the aims and goals of scientology. you are evil. speaking out publicly. >> first time i have heard somebody sit down and tell their story. she talked about the wedding she attended. she claims in the book she was asked bi y the church to bring jennifer lopez to that wedding as a way to introduce her to the church who are very, very anxious, very, very eager, she recruit. altogether. >> we should read the statement. >> they gave a statement to nbc news saying her repeated ethical lapses and callus treatment of others have led to a review

which resulted in her actually being expelled from the organization. >> we should read her quote. she now regurgitates the tired myths the church has repeatedly debunked. >> they're not happy. >> katie holmes has issued an apology. >> leah claims after the wedding clatty hand wrote a note to the church about leah's behavior. katie's people put out a statement saying she regrets any problems she might have caused. >> and the discussion will continue. >> do we know any more? who knows. going clear has -- >> documentary thursday. on top of that it's not going to end anytime soon. >> taylor swift always has fun on tour. what's her latest? >> her last concert of the 1989 turb tour in america was in tampa. she often brings out a surprise.

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>> ask ask any mother or daughter and they will tell you that the bond is special, and also one of the most challenging. >> in the reality series "fix my mom" is putting the relationship to the test as mothers and daughters are forced to get to the root of the issues and build a stronger bond. >> guiding these mothers and daughters along the way is life coach laura barron with four women who appear on the vo. >> velvet and her daughter ashley. and mom ashley and daughter britney. hello, kids. >> yes. >> these relationships are fraught with a lot of love but also frictions built in. >> of course. the best part of all of these women is they really came raw and ready to work, and it was love from the bottom, but there's a lot of conflict. there's a lot of -- women have a difficult time understanding i am the mother, you are the daughter. we have separate identities. >> velvet and ashley, you two -- >> i'm the mother.

>> you're the mother. >> just today. >> let's go to a clip so people can see how you interact and then we'll talk about it. >> no, because i -- >> you don't appreciate me. >> i appreciated you up until you stopped. >> okay. >> because i care about you and i want you to give me away at my wedding, i don't want you to drink your life away. i can't do that. >> oh. so who is the mother and who is the daughter really? do you think? >> so i really am the mother. >> oh -- >> i just always have to kind of check in on her. we live 3,000 miles away now so it's really hard. >> how old are you? >> i'm 24. you've left the coop. you're a grown woman yourself. >> yeah. it's been really hard because three years ago my grandmother passed away and it's been really, really hard on her. she developed a partying lifestyle and i have been really, really concerned, as any daughter would be. this is my everything. she's my best friend.

so it's really, really hard to watch her be weak and go to that lifestyle. >> i fell really bad i put it on her, to worry like that -- i'm the cryer, by the way. >> could we have some kleenex, please? >> coming out and realizing what i'm doing to her -- >> what are you doing to her do you think? >> i go out and i party. i do work full time. i mean, i don't drink at home. >> and what do you worry about, ashley, with your mom? >> i'm afraid i'm going to lose my mom quicker than i should. i don't want to bury my mother before i'm 30. i don't want to have to do that. >> it's scary. >> we want to meet the other mother/daughter, too, ashley and britney. let's watch a clip of your relationship and we'll talk about it. >> and a we'll get you some kleenex. >> like mom won't be annoyed. >> so irritating. to say that in front of other people -- >> mom, they don't care. >> they're not here.

>> i couldn't quite tell what that was about. >> describe your relationship. >> we have a very unique relationship. my mother and i. my mother had me at the same age i am today, 22. she did raise me and she was a up with me. she was so young when she had me, so our relationship, which i think is rere very relatable, it's times. >> are your roles defined? are you clearly the mom and you're clearly the daughter? >> she's very much a mom. >> i am a controlling mom, and i have learned through this process that i have to get over that because i did not realize that this is my grown up daughter. she has made great decisions. i need to take a step back and stop the controlling issues and i have learned that this is not just about mother and daughter needing help, but it was my own issues and it's a journey of self-discovery. >> my daddy said some great advice. he said i love you too much to deny you the privilege of making mistakes. >> i love that. >> that's so true. >> we have to let our children learn.

we really do. >> that's really difficult for most moms. most moms want a redo -- >> to protect. >> and also have a redo. >> it's natural. >> you want your daughter's life to be better. >> my life but better than mine. perfectionism comes in. overmanage. of your mother. >> no. >> or vice versa. >> my mom would do anything in the world for me. >> boy, this is such a fascinating show. "fix my mom" airs tomorrow on oxygen at 9:00/8:00 central. >> where to find support if you're taking care of a loved one. >> important advice for caregivers coming up 37 osteoporosis and a high risk for fracture... i can tell you prolia is

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the folks at aarp magazine are hoping to change that by highlighting the stories of caregivers in its current issue. >> and here with some advice is a caregiver expert and a caregiver herd, amy goyer. too? >> yes, my dad lives with me who is 92 and he has alzheimer's. and i cared for my mom who passed away and my sister who passed away. doing? >> i don't know most of the time. >> a lot of times when this comes upon us, with he know it's coming but even so we feel ill-prepared. what can we do to get ready? >> well, you should plan ahead and have conversations with your wishes are. if you're in a crisis and in the hospital, talk to the discharge planner right away. don't wait until it's discharge time because you're going to have to do some legwork to get ready for that. >> before the person is out of the hospital and back in the home. >> and contact the area agency

community-based care and go to elder care locater and find your area agency. you can also get a gyre care manager. >> through your insurance? >> usually it's not covered but this is helpful for long distance caregivers. have a team. you can't go it alone, sflit. >> right. exactly. i can do anything at this point but i can't do everything. so you have to fill the gaps with other people. other family members, volunteers from they say a hospice or a respite organization. you can also look at personal care. my mom's hairstylist came to the house sometimes just to make it easier when i couldn't get her there. >> okay. >> so many people want to be helpful. >> people are offering. you have to take them up on it. people offer, say yes. >> connect with other caregivers. nobody quite understands somebody else is going through the same thing. we learn the most from each other. we get the most tips from each

other. go to a local support group. that agency on aging can give you a list or a hospital can give you a list. online. there are all kinds of support groups and community boards. aarp has an online community you can post questions and get answers. we learn the most from each other. >> if you're a caregiver you don't have much time to leave the person you're caring for to go to these things. >> you were talking about tech >> exactly. you know, we're juggling so much. my life, my parents' life, everybody else's life, can't do everything but you can do it better if you're organized. we have to be efficient. there are all kinds of care giving apps now. i use apps like ever note and wonder list and grocery iq for a shared grocery list. but aarp has a new care giving app specifically for this. you can create a medication list by taking pictures of the medicine bottles. you can communicate with your team and journal, share a calendar. those things are really, really

helpful to get it all together. >> one of the most important things which is i think one of our final points is just care for yourself because sometimes you can't give what you don't have. >> that's the hardest part. >> exactly. i always say we don't expect our cars to run without gas on empty but we expect ourselves to. that doesn't make sense. it's not selfish to take care of ourselves when you're care giving, it's practical. you have to take energy in to put it out. know what fills you up, what gives you joy, and take care of your health as well. >> joy is nonnegotiable. >> and you say be kind to the caregiver. thank you so much. >> do some nice things for a caregiver today. >> don't miss our favorite things. >> but next, this is "today" on nbc. >> what she said.

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